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| 2 | Confidence & Self-ImageJust to clarify even further: When I'm being validated without trying to get it(that is I'm just aware of things and the 'I' isn't present/dominant), after sometime it feels that I've set the bar higher now. That there are expectations from me now. That I have to maintain this image now. So the stakes feel to be high and the awareness succumb to the strong impulses of the 'I' and I end up doing stupid things. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/21 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Confidence & Self-ImageMakes sense. I relate to this. I'm not sure if it happens only with me, but I can live in a state without I and I've tried solving problems being in such a state too(after going through your comment and other posts many times). What I get stuck at is, being in that state I get everything the 'I' wished for. As in, when I'm not trying to be smart, funny and all the things which will get me laid and essentially better off with people, I become all of them. Great jokes, insights, observation just f… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Confidence & Self-ImageI've been exploring these concepts for some years now. Jiddu Krishnamurthi, Tolle and other's words have helped me in understanding these things. Here's the problem I'm stuck at: If I have to think of a solution to a problem (at work, in a relationship or even during a conversation, like what should I say), I'll have to use my mind/thought which always has the desires, anxieties etc. Essentially it's a heap of memory. So I'm questioning if being in a state as you say(which I can be in when I don… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/21 08:24 PM |
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