devarah Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	This post will probably be removed. I would comment more if I wasn’t subjected to a grading system by others which would classify me as fds newbie or pickmeisha depending on my post history/lack thereof or the mods’ opinion of my post, which are both someone else’s grading of my performance. I am here to be outside of such Patriarchical systems so I just read and upvote. I remain supportive of all of our posts here because I have found every post useful in some way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 04:39 PM
16	Repeat after me I never get tired of hearing this! First time I heard it it was like oh my gosh yes…. I never thought about it that way. And now I am like F yes truth!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/21 12:52 AM
54	It seems what we do is working In my opinion, this is more misinformation that makes us think that we have to settle ASAP. It’s another way they subtly tell women to fear being single.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/21 12:24 PM
14	The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter). “Yeah I’ll get right on that” /s after I pick myself up off the floor post laughing fit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 03:39 PM
9	Another message for the male lurkers here. You all specifically know what you did at a specific time. Maybe no one will know and no one will care, but remember that you will grow old and will always remember the things you did wrong to women. I would like to believe this is true, but I know from experience that narcissists have zero self-awareness and zero self reflection. I also know that even if they are not consciously aware of it, there are always negative consequences to negative actions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 12:29 PM
8	It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened. Self partnered - what a great phrase!! Leveling up with you 🌺🌈	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 01:03 PM
3	Dr Ramani’s Level Up!! I can’t thank you enough for posting this resource, I listened to her Tedx talk this morning among other videos on her channel, it is helping me understand what I have gone through and make sense of it! Sister hugs !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 01:45 PM
10	LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏 Eldest also! Breaking trail with the parents was feeling completely oppressive at the time, there are many negative aspects to it that others in the thread have covered. Over time I chose to turn those experiences into positive traits: risk taker, trying new things easier with no fear, brainstormer, problem solver, creative thinker! We don’t have time to be the victim anymore, we have to use these experiences to our advantage ladies	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 03:12 PM