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“I’m willing to explore my upsets” is my favorite of the agreements on your list, because of how gently it invites the reader to step into their agency and ownership. I think that we’ve found ourselves deep in a culture of blame, where if someone comes at us it must be about them, not ourselves. It’s interesting to try to find how deep this goes in myself. I had a meditation teacher once who had us name all of the things we are responsible for, even the ones that give us pause. I think I’ll pick…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 03:07 AM
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Ah, of course - it’s as our dear Laura calls “the Bad Old Days” for a reason, and frozen in time was my perception of the times as bad (when really, I was being poorly behaved.) Another reason I’m grateful for the spirit of RedPillWomen, it’s a space to realize our blind spots and grow out of them and be held accountable when we’re being unreasonable or unkind. I’m very touched that you went back to read my previous post, and very heart-hurt that I ever could have ever depicted my relationship i…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/24 02:23 AM
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Wow, I’m so touched to hear this - and love to hear that there are powerful leaders in this space ensuring that the right message gets to the right people. Thanks for reading my story, and thanks so much for recommending me. I’ll be walking on a cloud the rest of the day!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 11:37 PM
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I completely agree - I started to read back in the era of field guides and proposal stories, which was really inspiring for me as a young single person. I hope that reading my story brings some of that “love is good” feeling :) In the meantime, hoping to find some more RPW friends in my real life to align with my goals - which is lowkey hard outside the bounds of Christianity lol. Maybe I’ll do a write up on that once it’s done :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 11:20 PM
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Hey!! I have a lot of experience with this. Hormonal birth control legitimately destroyed my life as a teen, and I was off it for 7 years. My best recommendation is to read A Mind of Her Own by Dr. Kelly Brogan. She’s an Ivy-trained psychiatrist and has a lot of insights on how these things effect women. She’s lowkey gone off the rails lately, but this book was back when she was awesome. There’s an audiobook too, it might be on Spotify. I loved being off birth control. My skin cleared, my mood c…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 11:03 PM
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I’ve def been in therapy for years hehe, that’s darling of you to ask :) I’m 24 turning 25, so that time almost feels like a faint past life now. In fact - my capstone project is so important to me because I want to use it to help me get into grad school to study depth psychology. He has a revenue goal for this year, and if he meets it we will get engaged next year. I support where I can with the business - likely more than most partners do - product photography and project management, mostly. 5…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 03:33 PM
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I do have a history of being treated poorly - but it was of my own will, I did some SW and sugaring when I was 19 and society-sick. But, I also come from a great family (wealthy and kind), and have many other redeeming characteristics that would make me a good wife for anyone. He treats me kindly, drives me to work, designs me clothes and furniture that he makes by hand - but - It just happened again. He woke up and asked if I had time to visit our favorite vintage shop (it was a huge maybe - I …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 03:03 PM
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Right - it just feels kind of egg before the chicken to me. Like - I clean and cook for my boyfriend because I love him. I love putting all his little work things in place, I love making sure he has enough protein so his muscles can grow. I wouldn’t want to do that for some random guy, no matter how much I’m getting paid. But - I would do it for free if I was courted first and fell in love, lol. Maybe that says more about me than your app idea :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:07 PM
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Men also totally do home labor :) My boyfriend designed and built me a desk last weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:05 PM
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Love the idea of compensating for women’s home labor - but - it won’t work for the simple fact of science. Cohabitation has long been cited with higher odds of divorce. Spiritually, I believe you must first come to love a person before you love what they can do for you. You know? I can tell you put a lot of thought into this, good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 01:59 PM
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