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Yes, but that’s all gone. I have zero sex drive at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:18 PM
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I’m still very attracted to men, I just don’t think about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:54 PM
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I think being an adult virgin has killed my sex drive. I want to love and be loved by a man, I want to be held and kissed, but I don’t even think about sex. It kind of exhausts me when I think about it on purpose I don’t get horny anymore. I haven’t masturbated in so long. I’m kinda worried there’s something wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:46 PM
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MFers really want to date virgins in their early twenties and expect us to also be hot. I hate to tell you this, but there’s a reason why I’m an adult virgin, and it’s because I’m not hot. You get hot or virgin, pick one, not both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:46 PM
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5’4”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:29 AM
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I don’t know exactly, probably a few things. Guys my age tend to be vile and are rude or ignore me. Apparently I’m an obese whale at a size ten. Older guys tend to be a lot kinder, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:29 AM
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Not really, it’s pretty average. They might be a little bit bigger than average, I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:22 AM
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160 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:20 PM
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I got called a cow at work by some teenage boy yesterday. I’m not even that fat. I’m a small size ten/size eight. I just want a nice man to hold me and tell me he loves me and I’m special.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:08 PM
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I used to think NYE would finally be great once I became an adult. I had dreams of going out in nice dresses and having a New Year’s kiss. But I’m 21 and going to bed at nine in my Bluey t-shirt. I have hit rock bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:47 AM
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I don’t see why guys in that closer age range would want me. They have their shit together but want long term things with hot girls. I just think an even older guy would be more accepting of me. He’d overlook what’s wrong with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:07 AM
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Yeah. I don’t think I’m even capable of liking a dude my age at this point. They have never liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:42 AM
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Yeah. But fuck he’s so hot to me. There’s just something so sexy about him I don’t understand. He kinda reminds me of a movie character I have a crush on, but a little chubbier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:36 AM
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I’m currently obsessed with a mid 40 year old man and it’s killing me. Maybe I’m just ovulating, but this guy is one of the hottest men I’ve ever seen. He’s slightly overweight and works at a fucking sandwich shop but I want to have his babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:34 AM
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I think the “women only like the top 10% of men” concept is bullshit. I’ve been having sexual fantasies about the slightly overweight Jersey Mike’s franchise owner DILF who made my sandwich today. He is not Chad, or conventionally attractive, but I think he’s so fucking hot. I get obsessive about men like that, but nothing ever happens and I’m still an adult virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:03 AM
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No, my father and I have a great relationship. I just like older guys because guys my age don’t like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:51 PM
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I don’t think so. He doesn’t wear a ring, but then again my parents are married and don’t wear rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:46 PM
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No, he’s always clean shaven but a nice porn stache would probably be hot on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:44 PM
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I am falling in love with the DILF who works at Jersey Mike’s. I’m not even sure I can call him a DILF, he’s maybe late thirties or early forties. I think he’s the franchise owner. He’s a little chubby but he’s sexy, I like it. He gives me a 70s vibe. He’s so hot, I went there instead of Mod Pizza for lunch just so I could see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:39 PM
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Down so bad that my Aussie second cousin was looking kinda fine at dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:13 AM
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I’ve been dealing with those things since I was fourteen. It’s just gotten worse over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:18 AM
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21 is my real age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:14 AM
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Extreme loneliness and years of sexual frustration will do that to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:09 AM
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I don’t remember, but probably something people really didn’t like because I’m right and they’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:39 AM
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I envision myself fucking like a porn star when I have sex for the first time, but I’ll probably end up crying and having a nervous breakdown when a man touches me. I hate being so sexually repressed and insecure at the same time. I can even imagine a man being into me so I end up feeling guilty when fantasizing about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:09 AM
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None, I’m not on there. Too insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:36 AM
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Because I want to find a man who loves me. I want to be loved. I want to love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:10 AM
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I’m so sick of trad bros complaining that no women are the way they want them. Like, I want to get married and have a family, I’m a virgin, I’m pretty conservative, I’m everything they want. I’m literally the fantasy of a virgin who will fuck like a porn star because I’m so sexually repressed. I fantasize about fucking any halfway attractive dude I see. They just don’t want me. They want girls who are all of that and super hot in addition. I think they have to pick one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:21 AM
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I just don’t see how I’ll find a good man. I’m already talking myself into accepting a creep, or a man with major issues. I’m a little overweight and that’s a major issue. I like to daydream about normal men loving me. I don’t even want a “Chad.” It’s okay if he’s a dad, I’ll be a stepmom. I’m willing to accept a lot of flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:36 AM
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It is, but it’s what I live through every day. I want to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:20 AM
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Yeah. I like to pretend I have a boyfriend because it makes me feel better about myself. It’s so embarrassing to be my age and have never received male attention. I want to be a cutesy girl who men like. I hate being an adult virgin. I see girls do cute things with their boyfriends and I want it so bad. I find myself wanting an older man because guys my age have never been nice to me. It makes me miserable. Guys who I share interests with don’t want me. They’d rather have a hot girl who doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:17 AM
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No, I need a man in my life who loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:05 AM
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I see them every day and I just want one to love me so bad. Everyone else my age has had it and it’s my turn. Some women complain about getting too much attention but I just want a shred of what they have. I want to be the subject of a man’s attention and affection. I want it more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:05 AM
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I want a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:59 AM
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I just want a man to love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:51 AM
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Yes, I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:34 AM
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I’ve never even had a kiss, I’m definitely not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:32 AM
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Today I went over to see that lonely man who lives down the road from me. We held hands near the end of our time together. He didn’t want to let my hand go when it was time for me to leave. He’s too old for me. I’m 21 and he’s in his mid-thirties. But I really like him. He wants to talk to me every day. I think he loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:24 AM
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White men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:28 PM
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I like the accent and I find men from that part of the world to be more attractive. I’d eventually want him to come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:47 PM
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How would I go about getting an online/long distance BF? I want to date a man from AU/NZ but I cannot go and live there. I’d like to find a man from there who wants to live in the US. I just don’t know what websites to use to find that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:44 PM
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I like to go to the gym and snowboard. It’s hard to think of anything I can turn into a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:03 PM
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He hasn’t pursued any women in a long time. I think he wants me because I’m kind to him and I want a family life like he does. He’s very sweet to me. He remembered my birthday and got me a cake with a handwritten card. I couldn’t believe someone remembered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:32 PM
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It’s a small-ish town but a lot of people apply for those programs, and they let very few in. They won’t tell me why I don’t get in. I think it’s because there’s so many applicants, there is always someone better than me. I’m thinking about working in childcare or becoming a caregiver for disabled veterans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:24 PM
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I was in community college doing prerequisites for nursing or rad tech school. I finished and applied to the programs a few times but I was rejected every time. Now I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m working part-time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:14 PM
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I do need friends. I’ve been trying. I try to start conversations and people just look at me weird or don’t want to talk. I try to talk to people my age but they laugh me off and go back to chat with their friends. It has given me such bad social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:09 PM
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I don’t think he would abuse me. What makes you so sure he would?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:04 PM
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I am lonely. So is he. Maybe we can fix that for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:01 PM
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She left him because he wanted to stay put and start a family, but she wanted to go to school again and travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:45 PM
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She wanted to go back to school and spend time traveling. He wanted to stay put and start a family, so she left.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:45 PM
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Is there anything wrong with a man who is in his mid-thirties and has been alone for several years? There’s a man who lives down the road from me like that. I pass his house when I take my walks. He likes to talk to me. He was previously engaged but he’s been alone for a while. I think he’s very lonely. Sometimes he talks about how he wants a family. He was happy to learn that I want to have my own baby soon. I don’t think my parents will let it happen since I’m only twenty-one but I think about…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:22 PM
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Is getting an associate degree even worth it? It’s the only thing within my reach but I don’t know if I’d be wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:21 AM
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I thought getting an entry-level job was supposed to be easy. I got laid off from my job and I’ve been looking for another minimum wage job for now. I’ve applied to ten different places and haven’t heard anything. I go into the places and talk to them, I call them but they won’t talk to me. At least give me a “no” so I can stop bothering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:40 AM
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I still have my first car. It’s a Nissan Frontier that had four owners before me. I love it so much and I’ve had so many great adventures and memories in it. I’ve never even thought about what the previous owners did to it or did with it, because to me, it’s always been mine. That’s how I see the whole n-count conversation. I don’t think about my boyfriend’s past relationships simply because the thought doesn’t cross my mind. I don’t care because he’s with me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:47 PM
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I don’t get very many compliments, so when I heard that I was so flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:09 PM
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Anytime I’m sad about rejection or a guy not liking me back, I remember the middle-aged man at the gym who told me he worships redheads, and realize I shouldn’t accept anything less than that. He doesn’t know it, but that man did wonders for my self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:15 AM
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People are so antisocial now. I’m very comfortable with talking to strangers since I watched my dad do it all the time while I was growing up, but I’ve realized most people my age weren’t raised like that. It’s why strangers look at me like I have two heads when I talk to them. I don’t know how I’m supposed to make new friends or find a boyfriend if talking to strangers isn’t normal anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:39 AM
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I’d be open to moving somewhere within the area, my dad was okay with that but then bought the house next door so I never felt the need to move anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:26 AM
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They’re getting older, not yet elderly, but I want to be here for them as they age. I don’t think I could handle living away from them. They don’t need me or my siblings for anything. I don’t think I’ll move away from here, but I like it here. I can always travel with my husband and go see other places, but this is home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:17 AM
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I wouldn’t want to move away with my husband. If my husband wanted to move, I guess he’d just have to leave me. I don’t want to abandon my parents. I need to be here for them. I have older siblings and they all live close, within ten minutes of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:02 AM
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He’s never violent, he won’t even raise his voice or really get mad at me. I can have friends over as much as I want. I’m 24. I met my boyfriend at the state fair and he wanted to go out with me. I told him my dad probably wouldn’t like him, so then he began to beg my dad and do anything to impress him. My dad was impressed and we started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:57 AM
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I’m 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:35 AM
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I already am. I have a job and my own car and a boyfriend. It’s just that my dad doesn’t really want me to go far. I never had any plans for college so that’s okay. I always wanted to live close to my parents. I have my own part of the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:34 AM
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My dad trusts my boyfriend and when we get married the house next door will become ours. Life has been like this for as long as I can remember and it’s not going to change soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:32 AM
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I love my dad and I don’t want to cut him off. He lets me go to the store and my job and pretty much wherever I want within the county, I just can’t go on vacation by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:29 AM
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Even when I do get married I’m not going far from him. He has a house next door that is for me when I move out and get married. He wants to keep an eye on me forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:11 AM
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And you’re comfortable with that, but my dad isn’t and that’s what people don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:09 AM
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He lets me go around town and go to my job and stuff, it’s just that I need someone with me when I go further than the county line. It’s not like I can’t go to the grocery store without him or a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:00 AM
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Yeah, we’re white and live in the USA. He just thinks everywhere in the world is too dangerous and I need someone with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:50 PM
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My dad doesn’t let me travel without him or a male chaperone. I tell people my problem and they say “just go anyway” or “you’re an adult you don’t need to listen to him” but it’s way more complicated than that and no one gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:44 PM
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My mom is the stereotypical transplant to a red area and it embarrasses me so much. She got mad at me because my boyfriend took me to a bar she’s convinced is ran by white supremacists. She got even more mad when I said I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:28 PM
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Are redheads held to the same pubic grooming standards as everyone else? I’ve never shaved down there and I’ve been begged not to touch it at all. It just seems like the kind of guy who pursues a redhead is into a full 70s bush down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:11 PM
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I was just happy someone wanted to take me out and spend time with me, and that’s what it’s really about. I don’t see things like dinners and vacations as a status symbol like a lot of people. They’re opportunities to spend time with people I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:04 AM
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They’re biscuits but yes, they are unlimited. And very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:37 PM
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My boyfriend took me to Red Lobster for dinner on Valentine’s Day and I really enjoyed it. I told my mom and she got irritated because apparently he was supposed to take me somewhere nicer. She’s the one who has told me Red Lobster is a fancy restaurant for my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:22 PM
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Those guys are too pretty for my liking. I like men who are more “real.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:16 AM
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Do people really not believe that young women can genuinely find men in their forties to be attractive? I’m most attracted to men in that demographic. It has nothing to do with money. There’s not many of us, but we’re out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:10 AM
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I love men in their forties. I remember when I was five, my first crush was on a man in his early forties. I’ve never been attracted to any man who appears younger than 38 or so. My dad says there’s something wrong with me. Is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:19 AM
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I just cannot force myself to work hard because there’s always going to be someone better than me that could take away my opportunities. I saw no point in trying hard in school because I could put in all that work and sacrifice, then not get into college and end up doing all that work for nothing. My parents don’t like my philosophy but I hate doing something just for it to not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:59 AM
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I’m not doing multiple anymore. They never knew about each other, though. I didn’t see most of them more than two or three times. I’m not sure they wanted anything more, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:48 AM
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Some of them have bought me flowers and one got me dinner, but still, I’m afraid they’re lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:43 AM
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I’m afraid they’re lying so I’ll see them more for sex, and they really think I’m a no-good whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:21 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:15 AM
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I want someone to love me. I don’t think they think I’m good enough for love. I was driven to do this because no one loved me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:50 AM
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I want someone to actually love me. I don’t think I’m good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:49 AM
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I’m a mess. I know what it’s like to be unloved, so I keep sleeping with men who don’t have enough love or luck in their lives. They’re hard workers who don’t have glamorous jobs and I just want to make them feel good and loved for a while. Their lives aren’t great, for the most part, and I like making them happy. They make me feel beautiful. I need to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:35 AM
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