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Fundamentals devonwillis21/r/seduction23/10/24 11:00 PM
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Conversationdevonwillis21/r/seduction30/11/24 10:19 PM
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Im usually surprised by their success. As long as their in their age range and make a natural convo starter it usually goes better than not.
/r/seduction10/06/26 09:14 PM
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The guy is kinda right, genetics play the largest part mostly, it's not realistic to expect most people to work 10x as hard for something that someone else just got naturally with averageeffort. Can someone achieve it yes. But it's much harder for the average person however.
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:55 PM
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Probably same day plans
/r/seduction05/05/26 04:30 PM
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There's no shortage of women, you're doing plenty already. It's good to go out with the purpose of meeting women but you still have to be intentional in the moment. A woman can decide to go out one day, do nothing but look pretty and come home with 5 numbers. Just being present as an average guy isn't enough though, just make sure you're actually talking to the girls that interest you, and actually trying to create interactions with everyone, old guys, kids, any interaction will help you feel mo…
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:21 PM
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Just ask if she down to join you somewhere or do something simple, you'll never make the perfect move or choice, but your future self will thank you for making the choice that wastes the least amount of time. Bantering on Instagram just gives her more time to think of you as an acquaintance instead of something more. Also a easy way for someone to find something wrong with you, if you're not a strong texter.
/r/seduction04/01/26 03:49 AM
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Save yourself years of what ifs and just ask, the few minutes of sting after a rejection doesn't compare at all. I still think about what if I asked out my crushes in highschool, can't remember a single rejection hurting more than the regret of not knowing.
/r/seduction27/10/25 08:26 PM
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Ik plenty of barbers who get lots of women maybe you're going after the wrong type of women. I'm black so idk if white barbers are treated differently but just go after the type of women your fellow barbers have
/r/seduction19/10/25 10:56 PM
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Idk I honestly try not to start sexual chatting for the first interaction, 9 times out of 10 if a girl is into sexting she's doing it because she either can't or don't really want to meet up with a guy. If anything, try to get on a phone or video call before just texting all day.
/r/seduction29/08/25 02:24 PM
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The real answer is to just be yourself, make mistakes, make jokes, tease her, stand your ground, have opinions, get into arguments, dont be scared to mess up some things, all the natural things that comes from opposite sex interactions. The key is just to make sure after all of this you still be your authentic self and overall kind person. Doing these things and being an asshole at the end of the day will get you dropped off so fast, you get away with alot more and can illicit much stronger emot…
/r/seduction29/08/25 04:02 AM
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Im confused what's wrong with saying you understand, get well soon looking forward to next time or something along those lines? Doesn't seem like that hard of a situation. Give it a few days and see what she says. I would just try not to text everyday or super often thats how u start to come off as boring most of the time.
/r/seduction31/07/25 06:06 PM
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No problem and I understand, its gonna hurt fs especially since u go so close but after a few weeks you'll start feeling normal again.
/r/seduction31/07/25 02:14 PM
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She already told you she didn't want to fall in love with you again, maybe she has slight issues and didnt mean it but from my experience usually when a girl lets you know how she feels especially by intentionally sleeping around trying to hurt you, you usually believe them the first time, don't get more attached and hurt yourself. If shes not even responding enough to even talk this through she might be diverting her attention to someone else.
/r/seduction31/07/25 02:06 PM
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Give it up, simple. Your at that age when your too young for long distance relationships and also too old at the same time. 500km is alot for a young person with no mean to travel consistently, even 100km is hard for some couples. But that's not even the point, the whole winning her back thing is over with, she went out and gave herself away to other guys, you'll never get over that after putting so much time into this. I'm telling you as someone who's been in multiple LDR until your at a point …
/r/seduction31/07/25 01:40 PM
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This guy is making an effort to go out, it's kinda lame to call him weird for that. I agree with your point that you shouldn't solely be trying to pick-up girls, however thats what some people need to do. When I first went to my small college, I would spends hours in the library joining the events and hanging out in Starbucks because that's the only time I had any social interactions other than the small classes, everyone circumstance is different. The best way I found to make it easier to appro…
/r/seduction29/07/25 06:00 PM
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I dont get you point, I was trying to say that due to more gay people being left-leaning and, it might make the left side seem less masculine overall, when thats not really true.
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:37 PM
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Not really a crazy difference IRL, from my experience living in southern USA leftist has more opportunities and options than someone noticeably on the right. I would say majority white and Asian girls in my area usually don't care since alot of them are conservative anyway. Black and Hispanic def do at the end of the day. If you asking personality wise It's still the same there's just as may masculine family oriented leftist as they're are masculine family oriented conservative, same with weirdo…
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:03 PM
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I mean do you like her or not? If she's interacting with other dudes you can't play the slow feel it out game either come in pretty hard or just be friends. I have been through this, reading minds is not the move just make your move and get your answer, unless you'd rather keep thinking about her while the other guys are doing something about it.
/r/seduction05/03/25 12:35 AM
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You're always gonna be at a disadvantage with an ex he knows way more about her than you. What makes her happy, mad,turns her on etc. that's why those talks for closure or trips to pick up something they left turns into sex. He already knows how to get her attention and what turns her on. Plus most likely she is already comfortable with him and has her guard down. Also a lot of times if the guy dumped her and she didn't want to it's easy for the guy to get her back. If you hear a lot of "he coul…
/r/seduction14/02/25 12:34 AM
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Thats just the nature of long-distance, most people i've talked to long distance are cool until they meet somebody new or get back with their ex. you just have to have the same mentality and not get too attached. Think about it, if somebody came into your life a month later and was just as good as them, you would probably leave the LDR as well. Really whoever's less lonely will have it the best. If you really want t to work out though have a plan for meeting each other in the near future. If the…
/r/seduction04/12/24 12:59 PM
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I appreciate the concern don't think its anything like that though, probably just needs more experience, ig my mind just cant imagine doing something I've never rly done alot of.
/r/seduction01/12/24 03:10 AM
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I can see that I think its more of a if you haven't experienced you can't rly dream it or something like that idk, like how you always wake up at the best part or when your abt to die in a dream.
/r/seduction01/12/24 03:09 AM
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I agree confirmation bias is hella true, best to just straight up reach out if you really want to. In my experience once they do or do not reply it'll just reinforce the reason you stopped talking in the first place.
/r/seduction23/11/24 10:14 PM
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Just play it off, holding a grudge at work is never good especially at someone that above you, im surprised she even agreed to that as a manager. Mine were always snobby. but just play it off use it as an opportunity to have her trry and make it up to you in some way, this always work for me after a flake. if she was rly sorry, she would acc try to whether that buying you a drink or something more depending on your boldness else if she blows you off just forget it and talk to someone else at wor…
/r/seduction13/11/24 07:15 PM
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Yeah I get that, I meant it more as a blanket don't disqualify yourself if the approach isn't perfect because half of them aren't. I'm guessing this guy was in a club/party scene were it's not creepy at all the look at a girl a couple times before approaching, not ideal but like you said better than never.
/r/seduction05/11/24 11:10 AM
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Bro deadass just force yourself like even if you miss the first chance don't just cower and say it's too late. Its ok to double back seconds even minutes later and talk to her. Don't be scared of ruining it or making it awkward. I just started approaching like this week and this is the only way I can even attempt to make progress. sometimes I catch myself saying next time or pulling my phone out after missing my first chance and have to almost slap myself to force me to turn around even if I hav…
/r/seduction04/11/24 09:55 PM
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Skill-Based matchmaking
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:56 AM
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Which city?
/r/seduction24/10/24 06:35 PM
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Location probably plays a huge part.
/r/seduction24/10/24 06:06 PM
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ik these kinda question are kinda looked down upon but do I just say hi, like what I find my problem most of the times is not having anything to say or better yet a reason to say anything. do you have any general one size fits all openers? Like for ppl I've spoken to before its always abt class or some hobby I remember them doing then I go from there but im just stuck with these kinda ppl I mention above.
/r/seduction24/10/24 12:35 AM
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Ah so this is why my friends dap me up 20 times a conversation .
/r/seduction02/04/23 09:36 PM
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Ask if they attend that college then go from there
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:29 PM
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talk in a 1on 1 environment or over the phone and she'll definitely not seem so shy.
/r/seduction24/04/22 04:53 PM
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I don't know you should probably wait longer or start off slow because it can come off as if she's your second choice or last resort.
/r/seduction30/05/20 03:12 AM
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