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| -5 | A higher SMV guy was the heart of the party at new year’s eve and I feel like crap for not being like him with my LTR in the room... how do you deal with this?Jesus relax, didn’t mean to trigger you | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | A higher SMV guy was the heart of the party at new year’s eve and I feel like crap for not being like him with my LTR in the room... how do you deal with this?Yeah... exactly my point... 11 day old account winning chad lmao | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:16 AM |
| -10 | A higher SMV guy was the heart of the party at new year’s eve and I feel like crap for not being like him with my LTR in the room... how do you deal with this?Not my fault if she felt like that lmao | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:07 AM |
| -12 | A higher SMV guy was the heart of the party at new year’s eve and I feel like crap for not being like him with my LTR in the room... how do you deal with this?Why so angry dude? He didn’t do anything to me lol, nor did my girlfriend made anything to make me feel she would cheat. This was a question about feeling like crap about this stuff lol, relax | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:02 AM |
| 0 | A higher SMV guy was the heart of the party at new year’s eve and I feel like crap for not being like him with my LTR in the room... how do you deal with this?So loser solution... thanks for the useless advice lol | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:01 AM |
| -1 | A higher SMV guy was the heart of the party at new year’s eve and I feel like crap for not being like him with my LTR in the room... how do you deal with this?I’m not, that’s the point. I hate feeling like I’m good but someone better can take the girls... see what I mean? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 09:47 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend enjoys teasing me in public and I'm about to dump her. Why does she act like this?Ok, but the coworkers are not new people to me, I know them. This is no new social circle... | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 12:29 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend enjoys teasing me in public and I'm about to dump her. Why does she act like this?Ok got it. I dunno, I dont think I’m failing them, I’m just getting tired of it, especially since she pulls this shit in public and not in private. The other day I dropped to the office to show her something, got close to her and when I started showing it on her computer, she started replying to me in a snappy way. I had decided not to make jokes at the time and be patient, and she kept it up, to the point her female coworkers implied in private that she dominates me. Whenever I reply correctly … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 12:07 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend enjoys teasing me in public and I'm about to dump her. Why does she act like this?Apparently you are taking most. What does this mean? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 10:32 AM |
| 0 | Asked my LTR a favor, she replied "do it yourself" cause she thought I was being lazy. How do I handle this?Details added on the post | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Asked my LTR a favor, she replied "do it yourself" cause she thought I was being lazy. How do I handle this?Done, added | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 11:28 AM |
| -5 | Treated my girlfriend as an adult by expecting her to make an adult decision and she flipped out... tried to patch it up, but how bad can this get?hahaha relax faggy, you need to understand that, as your daughter's boyfriend, I get to cum inside her and make her take my load on her mouth every time I want. You just need to realize she's my woman and no longer your daughter, and the sooner you do that, the better ;) | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Treated my girlfriend as an adult by expecting her to make an adult decision and she flipped out... tried to patch it up, but how bad can this get?You DEER at the end trying to explain things to her. I know, I had to choose between explaining her things (and treat her like an adult) or imply I don't want anything to do with her family (who she's extremely attached to), so I picked the former. In the end, it was my fault for trying to sever her from her family while she's already doing it on her own... I was impatient. Next time do not say anything until you know exactly what you want, and precisely how to execute it. Yeah, it was my bad. H… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Is it normal for a woman to prefer female company over a guy?you should take care of your own stuff What do you mean by this? During those hours, did you game her, kino, etc? Yes, but I couldn’t escalate. I’ve known her for a while now but I’ve been gaming her recently. The whole “I wanna be with my girl friend” stuff is not new, but I thought it may change after the chance of being with a guy, but I guess I was wrong. Eg, when I wasn’t interested at all she used to offer me rides all the time, now she hardly does it. It’s not the ride thing that puzzles … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | My boss promoted me but keeps undermining me... wtf? What's wrong with him?Maybe /u/VasiliyZaitzev has some valid input. Or you can try reading his guides. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:14 AM |
| 1 | try hard is for losers?Meaning? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | So at what point after beginning to lift weights did you notice women acting differently towards you?I had a mixed experience. I was already confident and visible, but it was easier to mock me. What really changed for me was the "stability" of my frame, if that makes any sense... | /r/askTRP | 29/04/17 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?That's where u are wrong. My theory is that those actually look like similarities and points you have in common, but they are not. It's all about attraction and value, and will fuck u up if you domt realize it. And nobody said u had to hate them, but dont think they'll be your friends because u have stuff in common. She'll either be attracted to u, or feel superior to u, or feel pitty for u (ie, superiority), get value from u, etc. there's nothing else at play, so get use to that. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?Probably it does affect him. How would he man up, apart from asking others out himself? If she disrespects him by excluding him to his fsce, what can he do in that case? | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?Don't worry, it's not complicated. He never cut the help becuase it was his job to help/teach them. For what he told me, he already feels used and is already taking steps to cut this shit down. However, u have to be careful. U cant just refuse to help a coworker becuase "u feel she's using u". He never thought for a second about not giving his 100% for a coworker becuase of his position in the company (experience, seniority, knowledge, etc). And these girls (especially the one taking pride in ex… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?Oh, I get it now. So what ur saying is he should cut the help becuase he's not getting social recognition in return? | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?I never said we have to see them as sex objects. But saying it would be interesting talking to them or liking them in the sense we do with guys is a very different story. See, many times you'll just fell in the same old place: u meet a girl, you say "fine, even though she's attractive I dont hsve to act on it, we can just be friends". Then, you realize she's cool to talk to, she's interesting, etc. soon, that friendship stuff becomes attraction. And make no mistake, it always was. But now, she d… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?ur coworker has to use that to his advantage or else he is just being used, that's his problem if he doesnt realize it. I didnt understand this part. What should he use to his advantage? | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?But you GET social standing when you LIKE people. One guy likes people, the other doesn't, so who do you think is going to be more fun for women to hang around? Come on man, if you've been improving and getting better, you cannot seriously believe this. Are you honestly telling me that you like women, as people? I find them sexually attractive and I like how they make me feel, but the moment you look at them through objective lenses, that feeling dissipates. And the more you improve and get bett… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?Imo if someone hates or doesn't like u means u are doing something right. I mean even people I thought were my friends stabbed me in the back because I was doing better then they were. You are right. What I find hard sometimes though is the fact that you are aware you are doing something right but by not being around the right people, it still feels like crap. For example, being excluded from going out with friends or coworkers because one or two of them think you are annoying or they just don't… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?Which ironically puts men in a hard spot when they are trying to improve but lack the "social base" to do so, because they are forced to manipulate, act shady, kiss ass and maneuver in order to improve before they can actually be themselves and not be shamed for it. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?How well do you know you him? You can't make conclusions without seeing the full picture. I know he doesn't go out much, and I know he doesn't like it when coworkers go out without inviting him. There are very few guys working in the company and he's always surrounded by women, and when they go for drinks or lunch without him, he feels left out. This is in a professional environment. He may be acting differently than in a social environment (not shitting where he eats mentality). True, but I thi… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/17 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do women like guys with magnetic/exentric personalities but only if they have social standing?If I understand this correctly, you are saying that if a person is good socially, then he can create new connections all the time. Well, I think that would be the case for average people. However, if you aim to the top you will defintely step on other people (on purpose or not), and whatever social base you have at the time will either validate or invslidate you. The reason I posted this is because these guys have non-average personalities. Imagine Iron Man without money and social connections, … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How can you survive, socially speaking, by being a lone wolf in the office?I'm giving you my opinion after being the "lone wolf that gives it my all every day, i will be promoted in no time" Well, I'm not that guy, on the contrary. I know I have perks for being good at my job so I take it easy and nobody busts my balls in any way. I'm there because I like the place and I enjoy the work. If you think you can climb the corporate ladder without playing office politics and having no friends, your kidding yourself. Again, not what I wanted to know. I asked about "surviving"… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How can you survive, socially speaking, by being a lone wolf in the office?I don't wanna become a leader... | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How can you survive, socially speaking, by being a lone wolf in the office?I meant they don't chill with me the way they do with others, like if I was a manager or a boss, which I'm not. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 12:32 PM |
| 1 | How can you survive, socially speaking, by being a lone wolf in the office?You already carry a defeatist mentality and with that you can only survive, not thrive. What I meant was, in an environment packed with women, coming off as a bad "player" can easily grow out of proportion because of all the gossip, complaining and drama. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 06:14 AM |
| 0 | How can you survive, socially speaking, by being a lone wolf in the office?What post did you read? Where did I say I was leader??? lol, fuck off... | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 06:13 AM |
| 1 | How can you survive, socially speaking, by being a lone wolf in the office?I think you haven't read my post, your comment has nothing to do with it. Those that matter, my bosses, have total trust in me. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How can you survive, socially speaking, by being a lone wolf in the office?For one, your company is stupid for putting more women than men in an office environment. That's a recipe for drama and eventual disaster. Can't argue with that one. You can see them complaining like bitches each time a manager points out a mistake they made and they treat it as total humiliation... On a separate not, the "asshole" guy acts just the same way, gossiping and complaining whenever he gets called out for a mistake... If you can't quell your ego otherwise, than the only options I see … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?The group is gathered, we are chilling and laughing about nothing specific. All of a sudden, he takes something embarrassing from the story (eg, the fact that someone in the story was being an idiot), and he targets me: "well, he's as stupid as dext1!". Or, eg, I do something he doesn't like and he doesn't keep it to himself, but expresses his distaste with insults and shit. I try to do something, I fell, and I laugh because I'm not embarrassed. He then says "jesus... what a stupid idiot..." All… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?Face to face? Only me. With others, behind their backs. By doing this, he gets away with the followig message: "I can say whatever I want about him, he's the lowest" I know what he's doing, so what do you mean "calling him out"? Can u give me an example? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?He was the typical nice guy and got screwed over by his girlfriend (ie, his girlfriend got dried out and left him), and he "thought" he was being taken advantage of at work because he was doing a lot of stuff and never got the recognition he thought he deserved. He was right, he wasn't getting recognition but it wasn't because people were out to get him, it was because he had no professional edge nor potential, he was just doing "basic repetitive work" in a creative field while the rest of us we… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?Already did, he said he does it on purpose. He said to a friend of his that because I do whatever I want in the office and he's a guy who always says what he thinks, then I deserve what I get... How do you call someone like this out? He doesn't give a fuck as long as one or two people look at him and laugh... so? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?Not physical revenge, professional one. Messing with him, his work, and frame him to take the heat and get fired. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?The issue is that it should be a calculated act designed to attain some concrete benefit You are right. In my case, is one guy who constantly tries to turn people against me. Revenge = messing with his life at work and putting him in an precarious professional position. Consequence = get gets fired or quits, without even knowing know what hit him. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?I don't mean physical violence, I mean professional consequences for him. Taking action to make sure he gets seriously in trouble in the company. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?Revenge is an inalienable right. If done right, only for the other guy. I'm not talking about physical violence, just work-related stuff. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?making me beta? why do you care about labels? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Why is revenge such a bad thing?Taking a stand typically will cause to tension to escalate several notches at the time of confrontation and ten it settles down (because the bullies move to a weaker victiim) This guy doesn't bully me, he just talks to the others with me in or out of the room and starts calling me stupid and such. He's way of putting me down is to turn other against me. So no, I won't stand for this shit, he doesn't get to decide who's worth it or who's worthless, especially him, ignorant incompetent monkey... I… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Why do some women (5 or less) who are smart self-deprecate a lot?Out of curiosity, what's the difference? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 04:42 PM |
| 1 | When the ALPHA of the group is determined to make you the clown, better to fight back or just leave the group?If hes publicly disrespecting you and putting you down you have to draw a line. That's exactly what he does, framing it as jokes if he's in a good mood, or as "he's the adult one, and I'm not" kind of way if he's pissed for something. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/16 07:27 AM |
| 2 | When the ALPHA of the group is determined to make you the clown, better to fight back or just leave the group?I found his weak spot the other day: he doesn't like it when people tell him he's useless or bad at his job. Pushed that button a couple of time and went right on the offensive... insecure assh* :) | /r/askTRP | 15/11/16 07:22 AM |
| 1 | When the ALPHA of the group is determined to make you the clown, better to fight back or just leave the group?People here will tell you to dish back and all that bullshit, and that's real cute but you gotta realize that some people will never understand or respect your perspective until you connect your knuckles to their has. Ok, and I'm fine with him "not respecting me", honestly. What I'm not fine with is him acting like the alpha male by trashing me down, that's all. I never trashed him down professionally, I don't see why he needs to do that socially to me or others. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 06:13 AM |
| 1 | When the ALPHA of the group is determined to make you the clown, better to fight back or just leave the group?Nice read man, thanks. I think me and this guy can be both, in a way, described by "The Joker". The only difference is that, now that I realize it, I dropped the ball. He overpowered my by being more "socially aggressive" and now I know what the article means by "you need a lot of energy". However, the part where he "constantly defies authority" and shows to those in charge that "he can make it difficult for them" is right on the spot. That's why I can't stand this guy. I'm as arrogant as he is,… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 06:07 AM |
| 2 | When the ALPHA of the group is determined to make you the clown, better to fight back or just leave the group?No man, just keep it cool. I never understood how people get riled up by this sort of shit. Because it's affecting my reputation in the workplace, that's why. I always remember when I met this guy I would never point out his defects or lack of talent or sometimes mediocre work because we are a team and I never shit on someone from the group. But that wasn't enough, because when I started joking with the others or acting more confident, I got him on my back constantly putting me down? He tells th… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/16 06:04 AM |
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