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Went through literally the same thing back in the day lol seemed like the girls I just viewed as friends or acquaintances wanted to be with me but the girls I really wanted always looked dead past me for the dudes they'd later be on Facebook writing paragraphs complaining about lol. At some point u wonder what energy am I projecting. I wasn't a "nerd" or the type people in school looked down on. I dressed BETTER than the popular kids, I just kept to myself and didn't speak unless spoken to. I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:06 PM
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Seems like a lot of it is based in the average man & woman wanting different things. For the average woman, it's bad if a man just makes them feel special, gives them sex, and disappears. The average man wouldn't mind that cause it would be viewed more as "at least I got sex -shrugs-". So dating is definitely harder for the average woman cause generally, they date with the intent of getting more than just sex. The average man may do the same but it wouldn't be a loss if all we got was sex. Not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:36 PM
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The parental lock or handheld tech without the lock being used more commonly nowadays? From my experience, i used to babysit 2 kids and the tablet they came with didn't have a lock. They just had game apps on it and their YouTube was set to YouTube Kids. But God forbid they type the wrong thing in Google what they'd be exposed to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:31 AM
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Well if u were me, u knew about sex before u knew about porn. Maybe not ejaculation & intercourse (cause that was wild to see for the first time), but humping/dry humping yea. By time I found out about porn, I was like 12/13 maybe? Kids nowadays they might be doomed the second they get access to WiFi & r smart enough to go on YouTube & search up "How to disable the parental lock on a Iphone/Ipad/Tablet/Android". Or maybe they hear sexual insults when they go live on a gaming console. Even if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:18 AM
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I think its circumstantial. Depends on that man and that woman's income and what their non-negotiables r. Meaning those individuals will NEVER settle for x, y, and z. If ur a guy that's like I'd never be in a relationship with a woman who doesn't cook, clean, and negatively impacts my mental and emotional health (intentionally. Sometimes life just happens and it's stressful 🤷🏾‍♂️), then the woman he wants might be like "Okay, well my non-negotiables r u have to be making enough to support me and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:32 AM
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Nobody has to die lol if its that bad, leave 😂 but rather than drag it could be viewed as growing together. It would only be a drag if the person is mentally, financially, and emotionally too much to deal with. Idk if it's low self esteem cause I feel comfortable in myself. I'm just aware of how society/general public feels about men going through this stage of life so I don't feel its worth trying to force a connection or "spit game" with someone who might not be willing to deal with a man in t…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/21 06:45 PM
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That just makes her even more terrible cause I asked her if it was me, did she not find me attractive, be honest etc. 🤷🏾‍♂️ o well, not my problem anymore. She's somebody else's headache & I wouldn't subject myself to that type of craziness at this age lol
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 01:29 PM
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True. Problem was I was young & overly invested emotionally so it cut deep when she said it but being older, I'm extremely less likely to be too emotionally invested into anything that hasn't already become a relationship to some degree lol
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 01:11 PM
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Great response. I think there's a double edge sword with the idea that u gotta be the "perfect" version of urself before considering dating. Yeah it might make it easier to grasp the attention of the opposite sex but it's kinda like thirst trapping for men lol we flex a lifestyle/security. They flex physical appearance. N a woman might get attention from stalkers and creeps. A man might get attention from gold diggers & immature women
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 01:11 AM
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U also gotta consider that a majority of the time, TRP people r usually referring to the "dream girl" that mightve been a 10 physically but 2 emotionally and mentally & stayed in and out of toxic relationships. But a cute girl, maybe 7.5 or 8, this may not apply to her. N all 10s aren't broken entitled & toxic. But from my experience, it is rare that they aren't self sabotaging in some way or multiple ways. And those 10s usually don't want u back until you've upgraded urself. And by then, u prob…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 07:32 PM
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I dont think we need a new pill. I just think people gotta stop generalizing a whole gender with characteristics and flaws and saying shit like "it's in their DNA" No tf it's not lol There's decent human beings out there that care about the person they're with and their feelings and mental space. Like Fresh & Fit. They always talk about the type of women they have on their show but make it seem like ALL women r like the women they have sitting with them. Or assuming all blue pill guys r desperat…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 05:31 PM
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Yeaaa I'm split on them. There's the side of them that actually have good information and advice on self improving BUT the road/path/intent is blury. It can feel like they're trying to get men to self improve so they can finally fuck these mentally and emotionally broken "baddies" that might create more problems in their life. Once someone's truly self improved, u don't want a chick anything like the mfs they have on their show lol. And these "incels/simps" aint stupid. They know these women r a…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/21 05:31 AM
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It's based on society's standard of beauty and this idea that women r in their beauty prime 18 to 26. Which is y red pill men r heavily trying to get these attractive young women to mature faster and adopt some traits a woman that's older may generally have when it comes to nurturing... along with toxic shit like being okay with ur high value man cheating because he provides for u on a financial level 🤨. It's also the idea that men don't reach their prime til late 20s, into their 30s-40s in term…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 05:15 AM
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Why r u so woman focused? My message is for all but ur hell-bent on making me look like a woman hater that shames them and just them. U don't know me. Clearly u took my post in a negative way. I'm not that person. Stop trying to paint me as that. I speak on many issues involving both men and women. As a hip hop fan, it's a slap in the face for u to assume I don't speak on what the male rappers do and their negative influence on pre teens, teens, and young adults. Both r fucking toxic. Idk what p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:27 PM
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I am happy lol & it's not a big deal. This post was not supposed to ever be a big deal. I thought I'd type this up, see a couple comments in support and move on. This was NEVER supposed to rile people up to debate & go back n fourth 😂 I thought my message was simple but it has this thread in a uproar lol. Granted nobody knows me or my intent behind what I say so some may assume the worse when that's soooo not the case. (Another one of my problems with most people 🙄🤦🏾‍♂️ lol) We all speak on shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:06 PM
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It's hard for me because it depends on what she does have lol If u got an alright sized ass or boobs, u don't need both. U could have either or. If u got a pretty face and up-kept/healthy hair, u could be petite and have no ass or boobs. I can do plus size but I do have a limit and once ur body isn't proportionate/curvy (waist/stomach thinner than ur upper and lower body), then I can't do it. Same goes for very skinny women. Not model skinny like Kendall Jenner. Like unhealthy skinny. Acne/black…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:16 PM
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I'm basically reciting what's pushed by mainstream female rappers that one may consider "ratchet" but still have the ability to influence pre-teens, teens, and young adult women that desire that lifestyle. Lyrics like "6 figure, rich n*gga, that's my type" would give the impression that lower 6 figures can afford u these lavish luxuries on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:59 PM
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Is there a particular woman you have a crush on who is kinda dumb and poor and thinks she can get rich when a rich guy comes and sweeps her off her feet? No but I have been in that type of situation m. It's not an obsession at all. This post was really meant to be dropped with little to no pushback lol I didn't anticipate having to explain myself to the extent that I have but here we are. And I hate being misunderstood so that's more of my obsession than the topic at hand. It's kinda like wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:45 PM
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Some men make this same mistake too thinking they can get a super hot girl like who they fucked in college as a wife when they are 40 True, especially if he let himself go physically & financially. Otherwise that man's value usually "should" go up with age (generally by societies standard of success). If we bring it to a stereotypical TV sitcom scenario, usually the guys that were cool in school aren't after school for whatever reason. They didn't make the NFL, got injured n couldn't play in col…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:18 PM
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But everyone may not meet ur preference of what turns u on. U could find someone who does the other things. Once u add the fact they have to meet what u consider attractive, it gets a little harder. Depending on ur environment. Like my type, is all over New York & LA. But I'm in Ohio so lol I got fewer options. Not saying they have to be supermodels or look like a famous celebrity a lot of women aspire to look like ofcourse. Just fine enough to drive u sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:33 PM
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As an adult that shouldn’t really happen anymore unless you hang in some super immature crowds. I would hope not lol, but that sticks with people. Hell, less happens to people n it sticks with them. As long as they do the healing required to get over it. I'd like to believe I got over it. But I'm not in school anymore so my options r much slimmer so now I'm in this weird space of being able to approach someone I'm interested in, but don't because I'm either not physically interested or im cautio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:56 AM
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Ehhh sort of. Speaking for myself, sexual attraction is important so that's not bare minimum lol especially if I want someone who's nurturing, someone conversation flows easily with, fun to be around, is a saver in terms of money, share taste in music, movies, etc n whatever we don't relate on is at least interesting or I could tease them about it lol. Bare minimum is like "She could be a 5 in attraction, cook, clean, be able to raise a family with me". I don't think this is difficult unless tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:39 AM
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No lol that's my point. There's a sense of entitlement with what society deems as average women. That they deserve these types of men despite not having much if anything other than sex to bring to the table. As for attractive women, I'm more so speaking on the ones with a social media presence if u page is private and u got a cartoon character profile picture, clearly no thirsty men or rich men r in ur direct messages lol. If ur open with ur sexiness, SOMEBODY of some significance will eventuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:25 AM
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It seems u believe that people, more often than not, just wake up and turn evil or 2-faced. I'm not of that belief. For example. Me, I was chasing after a girl that had no intentions of moving things to the next level and constantly looked over me for the guys that sold drugs or only had intentions to fuck her. This was MY fault. There was red flags that showed that this girl is very unsure of her stance with me. She might flirt n lead me to think otherwise some days but as a whole she's very de…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:11 AM
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Idealism. The world doesn't work like that, though. If a woman im deciding to have a relationship with becomes a piece of shit, she was always a piece of shit. I was just blinded by love and ignored the red flags. She was always the type to cheat or do evil shit. We just ignore the signs. Not my experience. BOTH have to work for a relationship. Ofcourse, once ur in it. But who's doing the approaching and who's being approached? Generally women r the ones being approached and they determine if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:12 AM
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I mean I agree but I think my stance is more on the "if I can help sooner I will." If I can put the warning signs out there before those people hit a brick wall, then cool. Same for men who want the super model looking women. I'd want them to know "Hey, ur gonna keep getting denied if u don't become desirable to her or women like her" Not too different from what others may do who see a problem and want to guide people in the right way. Even if it's a few. Men put up a facade as if rejection does…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:36 AM
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And I simply wrote it's not needed to "settle on things" at all, yup. If ur not gonna put in the work to get what u desire then yes. Yes u do 😑 Or believe they have them, yes. Then they find out they don't have partners they thought they have. Happens all the time. This implies ur talking about relationships those people should've never been in to begin with & there's needed accountability on how they even got in that position. Nothing. Does there need to be anything? If a relationship is what u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:04 AM
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This is social media lol im gonna type how I want. This isn't Language Arts class. Im not being graded on this shit lol. Why is me not wanting a slutted out X-whore "such an impossible thing to comprehend"? Who said u have to settle for a slutted out x-whore???? Woah 😂😂 Noooobody here said u should settle for a "slutted out x-whore". I simply said settle on things that YOU feel u can. If a woman with a past is what u refuse to settle on then COOOL. Thaaaaaats my point. Settle on what YOOOOOU fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:28 AM
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Some men r toxic red pill. Some women r toxic feminists so y care? It's a toxic mindset that's growing & the problem is, at least on the female side, cause men I feel just know lol, women aren't expected to approach... anybody lol so they're turning down anything less than what's promoted to them & don't find out that it's bullshit until it's too late. Men I feel r less likely to be in this predicament because we know we'll be left on read if we send the super hot girl with a lot of followers a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:03 AM
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Unfortunately that's how many think which made the debate interesting to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:47 AM
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Its not bitterness lol ur being impossible. All I'm saying is if u want someone who's desired by all the prettiest women or all the finest richest men, u better step ur shit up. If not, then settle on shit that YOU feel u can settle on. This is quite reasonable if u ask me. Why be so extreme as if it's such a impossible thing to comprehend? And ur proving my point by leaving the convo lol u were just being argumentative just because. My point isn't complex at all There's a Lol there BTW. No ange…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:43 AM
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I’m sure they will figure out shortly they can’t. Bingo! And that's the problem. They don't. They think they could get this lifestyle that's glamorized with that amount of money & he gotta be 6 ft. And he gotta be fit. That trims down the options quite a bit. Even away from women. My main point was average men and women wanting top notch men and women while being average. Maybe they r attractive but they might lack in other areas. Maybe they might be mentally stable and nurturing but they might …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:40 AM
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THEN DIE LONELY LOL Jesus Christ. If ur my kid, and u say "Daddy. I want the action figure that's 600 dollars." And I say "Okay, but u need to get ur grades up to get it. But what I can do is get u a toy that's not as big as that one, not as expensive, it don't come with a remote control or as many accessories but it's still a good toy" and u cross ur arms and say "No! I want the 600 dollar action figure!" WELL TOUGH SHIT KID GOOD GRADES GET U THAT TYPE OF TOY! LOL If that's "shouldism" than oh …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:32 AM
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Ugh fuck it imma edit that out lol that wasn't the point 😂 the point was, the general woman who has these wild requirements when they r no where near that, want a rich lifestyle. They want the 6 figure, 6 ft, fit guy to take them shopping and blow a lot of money on them. N I don't think they talking about Yearly. They're talking about monthly. That could be the disconnect lol I'm talking about what these mainstream rap women r telling women. Wanting a man that can get u a Birkin bag, fly u out, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:17 AM
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This.... was a lot lol I think my message is simpler than what u may be taking it as. I didn't even think it would garner this type of response. I was thinking more of a "Agreed. We r in a similar position as general men & women. Rather than being stubborn and dying alone or getting in a relationship where we're settling for shit we shouldn't settle for because our biological clock is ticking & we want a family before we're unable to give birth." Or in the man's case "rather than dying alone or …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:03 AM
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It was triggering at points but the rebuttals showed how similar the general man and woman r and the position in the dating space and how the general public lusts & throws themselves at the top of the food chain when those individuals might have flaws that r intolerable in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:32 AM
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That both the general men and women r fucking up & that the similarities in both r pretty crazy in terms of our position in the dating space or view as a potential partner wanting people that the best of the best physically want in terms of looks or financial position. Because we want these types of men or women in our current state/position and looking past people in our similar position. We should stop looking past each other in similar positions. Nothing wrong with self improving but the real…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:27 AM
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I think thats the overall point of my post. To tell the general woman and man that we're both fucking up. Looking over great potential partners to get attention from the hot girl who has Justin Bieber in her DMs, or the 6 figure guy who's getting attention from the finest women. I think people settle on the wrong shit. It's all subjective but people r lying to themselves and claiming their okay with things they aren't, jumping into LTRs & marriages and the truth comes to the surface eventually. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:55 PM
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I think thats an issue lol. There's definitely a middle space. Could be a 7.5 in looks, 8.5 mentally stable, available 6.5. Cause the guy that lies to himself n says he can settle for a woman who's a 0 in looks but mentally stable & available is a liar lol. Or a 10 attractive woman who's bat-shit crazy but available 100%. No lol that would be dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:53 PM
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Ehhh to pick 2 would mean the 3rd has to be none existent and that's just not something I would want to step into at all lol they don't have to be 100% attractive, 100% mentally stable, 100% available (especially for me. I don't like people around me, texting me, in my energy 24/7. I need to unplug from the world sometimes. Even the closest ones to me lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:42 PM
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If that's what u gathered from what was posted then u didn't read nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:34 PM
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... I.. would.. hope they don't have dicks at all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:24 PM
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Wasn't being literal. Basically highlighting what's typically ideal by women who say this is a requirement who r no where near that level themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:20 PM
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🤨 idk what ur implying but I'm actually highlighting the fact that both the general man and woman, emphasis on general, both chase the top of the top women and men that generally have toxic behaviors because they have no reason to change those aspects about themselves. When we could just settle tf down on SOME of our requirements & be happy with someone who's more balanced out. Attractive but nurturing too. Attractive but emotionally available & respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:16 PM
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Exactly my point lol I wouldn't even call it settling though because that implies that ur not happy with what ur signing up for. Just learn to be more flexible. I don't think we're hard wired to our sexual desires. We can adjust for sure lol. Too many people looking to social media and setting their standards based on what they scroll through daily rather than what's around them. Everyday women don't look like that. Hell, a lot of the girls on social media don't look how they do on there. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:17 AM
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Oh no, I'm definitely on the side of it being important. I just think people look past people who look pretty good chasing after people who dont want them unless they have x, y, and z so if ur the type who likes instant gratification or just tired of being single, u may want to adjust ur sexual attraction triggers to be more accepting of not "bad looking" people but people who look good but aren't the usual supermodel type. Or have 10,000+ followers & thirsty DMs by 10s of 100s of thirsty people…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:45 PM
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I think there's layers to it. Upon meeting someone, I may find them attractive but depending on the vibe she gives off, it'll either build a sexual chemistry or decrease any chance of it. She's still attractive but I'm not into forcing connections so I'd move on until she feels differently if ever lol. I don't think I've ever developed deeper feelings for someone I didn't initially ever see myself being sexually active with. But it could be different for people. I just think people shouldn't be …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:03 AM
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That's the thing, why does it have to be considered settling. Maybe it's realistic lol. I think settling is when ur not happy with what ur signing up for. Which leads to shit like cheating. U have to be genuinely happy with what ur committing to or u will go elsewhere lol. Meaning, If I got a good 8.5 and a 10 is flirting with me heavy, I'm not going no damn where because it ain't worth the risk. If my 8.5 woman who's still fine, has all these other requirements I want out of a woman, I'm not ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:39 AM
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I think its the first step. Like admitting to being an alcoholic lol Cool. We got that hurdle out the way. Now we can unlearn what lead us to believe otherwise or shit that keeps sexlessness, & dating privileges that can be changed in action. Cause some of that can be changed. While people in general don't wanna put the work in, I feel men understand more that, if I'm not at a certain level, I can't have this type of woman. That will lead us to escorts, onlyfans, & porn or self improvement. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:21 AM
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Do u think the assumption is tht single fathers aren't financially stable or him providing for his own child will interfere with him being able to provide for her? That may be where men n women differ. We don't expect much from women. Especially financially. (I'm personally not for paying everything unless ur financially in a position to do so comfortably. If ur both grinding, help each other out.) I think single moms r looking for comfort. Meaning, someone that could help alleviate financial bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:32 PM
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This is the reason I don't approach or try anything with women that show no interest in me lol not that it's a 100% guarantee way to avoid becoming that but it does help. Cause at least u at least have a feeling she wants it just as bad as u. They say women know they wanna fuck u within seconds of seeing u lol. Depending on what we say or do in between the time she sees us for the first time and potentially winds up in bed with us is usually what fucks us up lol. This is 1 of the things i agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:18 PM
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Immature men who don't know what love is or looking for it from a place of desperation or lack of self love; Wanting someone else to make them happy, get heartbroken by immature women who also don't know what love is, or what they truly want out of relationship, and said man blames all women and assumes it's "female nature" to do all these shitty things lol n there's a biiiiiig audience going through that. Shit, I was the lover boy that got heartbroken by a lil hussy too 😂 I didn't blame all wom…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 04:47 PM
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For me, I was shy and introverted (still am introverted. Sometimes shy but not as bad as when I was in school lol), so I didn't really get much interest from girls in my grade. Plus a lot of girls have immature requirements at that age. The pretty girls at my school got with the tall guys that were athletes, seniors that drove to and from school, or stayed getting in trouble or skipped school. Freshman girls wanted me but the age gap creeped me out. I think I was 18 or about to turn 18 so I wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:56 PM
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I think some women make height a requirement rather than a preference. Meaning, if a man may not meet her height expectations, they might not give them the time of day. Could've been a potential soul mate n passed up on that blessing lol. But to PREFER a taller man, I think thats okay. When people make petty shit a requirement, they're more likely to get into relationships they wind up hating later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:00 PM
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Not to put all gay men in a box but, if 1 of both parties in the relationship have took on female characteristics, then it would be the same as trying to "get laid" by a woman because ur trying to attract a man that desires what a cis gendered woman desires out of a cis gendered man. & yes, I personally like dressing quite snazzy 😂 & I would like to get to a financial level where I can spend money on what I want without worrying about bills not being paid if I decide to splurge on something. BUT…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:33 PM
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Without being extremely long winded lol, as long as u have a healthy relationship with that world, who gives a fuck. As long as the inexperienced individual isn't looking at the big budget or kink heavy porns as "real life sex" and trying that in real life without discussing if that's what they like & scaring tf out of them when u don't lol then cool. As long as ur not blowing ur whole bank account on someones onlyfans or a cam girl, then cool. As long as ur not getting sex from people against t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:15 PM
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Without being extremely long winded lol, as long as u have a healthy relationship with that world, who gives a fuck. As long as the inexperienced individual isn't looking at the big budget or kink heavy porns as "real life sex" and trying that in real life without discussing if that's what they like & scaring tf out of them when u don't lol then cool. As long as ur not blowing ur whole bank account on someones onlyfans, then cool. As long as ur not getting sex from people against their will due …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:15 PM
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True but u pick ur poison. We all got vices. Some have an addiction, some don't. That's not the suppliers responsibility. McDonald's isn't held accountable for somebody who eats their BS twice a day and dies n has a heart attack. Plus for men who have kinks that their significant other isn't willing to do for or with them, they can pay someone to perform those acts with. Their wife might not wanna insult their husband and spank them while they're tied up lol leave that to the escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:05 PM
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She's underage.. lol the issue most have is 30+ year olds wanting women 18 because it's considered their prime/peak in terms of beauty; based on societies standard beauty. Assuming that they'll let themselves go as the years go on. Because the stereotype is that the hot girl at school that stayed in toxic relationships will eventually look worse when she finally breaks the that cycle & settles down for someone who's actually good for them. Which is where terms like "I gave u the best years of my…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/21 06:37 PM
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I agree with him on some things and others not so much. He did a video recently on women wanting tall 6 ft men & somewhere through the topic it lead him to basically saying a females orgasm isn't important & if a man is the provider & whatever else, she gotta fake orgasms n give Oscar worthy performances 😂 n make that man feel like the shit n if u didn't get off u do that by urself. That's fucking sad asf I'm sorry lmao like what? Learn how to satisfy ur woman. That's terrible. I mean yea it fee…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 06:07 AM
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I think the problem with red pill is this idea of the "Female Nature". What really is that? Is it "Female Nature" or is it the "Gold Digger" Nature? Lol or the "Im too young to know what I want out of relationship so this won't last long" Nature? I like MTR but it seems his experience with a young woman (apnd many young women after that when he was going through the hurt), lead him to this belief but with the knowledge I know now, a serious committed relationship is not for the young... at all..…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 05:55 AM
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As a man, going down the rabbit hole myself. At first i found it informative but then when ur constantly taking that shit in it makes u feel like shit. Like "all women r this way. If u don't want them to leave u, cheat, or put u in a compromising position that challenges ur manhood, u gotta be like this, treat them like this, be super engaged with them for the first week of meeting them then slowly create distance so they thirst for ur validation even though u aren't nearly as invested as u once…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 04:44 AM
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Most men would definitely go with what some may call the "modern woman" but I myself lean more towards a woman that's more traditional because I value my peace lol. The things the traditional woman may lack for me that I would look to the modern woman for r pretty minimal and as long as the traditional woman is flexible, getting her to adopt some of these modern characteristics shouldn't be too hard. I'd be more for a woman that's 70% Traditional, 30% Modern . Having a consistently sweet, submis…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:11 AM
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I'm a firm believer of "What you don't know won't hurt you" I feel like, if what's in ur past doesn't impact our present & future. Who gives a fuck. If I get with a woman but she was a BIG thot in a whole other country. As long as we never travel over there, I'll never know lol now, usually this isn't how this goes. To get back on topic, a prostitute usually isn't gonna go around ur significant other bragging about fucking u lol but petty past casual sex partners and exes might and that's the is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:32 AM
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As a fellow virgin in my 20s myself lol, destigmatizing male virginity would do.... nothing lol men will be men forever. There will never be a day where a group of 16 your old male friends in school say "Aye man u a Virgin? That's what's up. Shit I don't blame u for waiting" neeeever lmao kids r immature dicks 😂 young men will forever get roasted for not fucking unfortunately. The stigma I'M concerned about is the idea that because I'm a virgin I'm clueless about how to have sex and my lack of n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:10 AM
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I wouldn't say so given how it's about destigmatizing male virginity. That embarrassment will exist whether it's destigmatized or not lol. The peer pressure may be over to some degree but the personal struggles of what comes with being a Virgin in ur 20s on up can't be solved by making it okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:45 AM
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I meeeeeean depends on who u watch. Mediocre Tutorials & Reviews was good for self improvement financially, physically, mentally, & emotionally buuuut the intention was to upgrade the viewer so they too can go out and fuck hot broken women but in reality, when u upgrade urself, u don't wanna deal with nor tolerate that bullshit n that seems to be 1 of the bigger flaws in the red pill space lol no man who is truly self improved wants that type of person in their energy
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 02:11 AM
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People get upset that u would find a friend attractive and view them as "ur type" lol I don't walk up to anybody attractive and think "Hm, they'll make a great friend" 🤣😂 that's just usually where it winds up going due to a number of factors. 1 being the sexual flirty energy was non existent on her end lol, or found out she was genuinely cool but as the friendship grew & got to see the real her, decided I'm not willing to put up with her negative characteristics in a relationship so we stayed fr…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 01:32 AM
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Idk if people in the friendzone get out or viewed as more after admitting they liked the friend. I think the chemistry has to have always been lingering in the air & in the realm of possibility The problem with dating is the intent to be more than friends is known so people put a mask on and be the best version of themselves and hide their controversial opinions and flaws in fear they'll scare them off unless both parties r willing to be honest from the gate. if you're interested in someone from…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 08:24 PM
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I feel like the friendzone only ever happens when 1 of the friends don't find the other attractive, have chemistry, or that sexual tension on some level isn't there for one of the parties involved. If that chemistry is there and it's mutual it's obvious lol. If u gotta question if the other person feels the same way they more than likely don't.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 07:45 PM
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"Nose wide open" meaning your head over heels in love with the friend lol Well, here's the thing lol for me, someone who's an introvert. I'm really not initiating anything unless I find them attractive because I don't initiate conversation in general. At least not randomly. If something funny or crazy happens I might capitalize off that moment as a ice breaker. Otherwise I'm to myself lol. Buuuuuuut, physical attraction alone isn't what makes me say "ooo potential future partner" that takes time…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 07:32 PM
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Personally I think the friend zone happens when there is no sexual chemistry or flirting with each other, or it's all one-sided. Exxxactly lol I just made that point in another comment. I think that's where things go wrong. The attraction isn't mutual. U fall in love with ur friend but they just see u as a friend cause there's no chemistry & sexual tension. And I think when ur going into a friendship with a person u find attractive with the intent to move it along, u could fool urself into think…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 07:09 PM
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I think sexual tension/chemistry is important for that reason. 2 people may be friends but there's definitely a level of chemistry and sexual tension thats needed to help prevent them from jumping over u when looking for a potential partner and just viewing u as their "buddy" lol if u got ur nose wide open for this friend but they don't feel the same as u, yes. Ur going to be hurt when they jump right over u to the next person they just met 😂 "But I thought we had a connection" it wasn't mutual …
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 06:55 PM
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What's funny is, this is still "simping" 😂. They call others betas and simps but they do the same thing just on a more calculated studied level. Just cause u mastered the art of pulling mental & emotional trainwrecks doesn't make u any less a simp cause ur doing it for the same reasons as everyone else. For sex lol the amount of work that goes into that BS alone makes it pretty simpish to me. People pay to learn how to get these type of women and devote hours binge watching and studying and prac…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 12:46 PM
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The funny thing is, for me, the first move isnt asking for much if its coming from a woman. Say hi to me a certain way and I'll take it where the hell it needs to go lol. Women don't even have to do much. We'll take it in the direction we both want this to go
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