| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.Just keep doing it, man. Gradually your nerves will get more used to talking to new women, and then you will get better. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:51 PM |
| 1 | One Simple Rule to overcome AANo disrespect, too long. Too much thinking. Just do it. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 02:19 AM |
| 2 | I'm the one who flakes...Yeah, like Julien says, "fuck rejection, fuck messing up, just get the references." Sarge out there and feel the pain, but watch the pain get less over time. You are DOING it! | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Stop reading theory and go out NOWI was gonna, but it's a couple mph too breezy today... :/ | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 10:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you maintain confidence without letting it become arrogance?I haven't had a lot of success yet, but I'm beginning to think with younger girls, this is the only way. Do only more experience girls know the difference? | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 08:24 PM |
| 2 | How do you maintain confidence without letting it become arrogance?Idk if it's the social conditioning or what, but it seems like a lot of girls don't think that you're confident unless you put it in their faces with arrogance. It's too bad but it's true. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 01:06 AM |
| 49 | So now I'm able to approach, get numbers, kino, go for the kiss. But how do I get her to my place?Buy an n64. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 01:59 AM |
| 4 | In library, need help with an approachThere ya go. This is all you need. Think less, do more. | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 02:04 PM |
| 7 | What are the logistics after a coffee date?Is this a horrible answer? No, is it? | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 03:12 AM |
| 1 | What are the rules for friending a girl on Facebook (I met her last night at a party but don't want to come off as stalkerish)Haha clownin. Well maybe he doesn't have to drop some and C/F b.s. when she adds him, but maybe he could ignore it, or message her without commenting on the add like it is literally dirt off your shoulder. Overall I agree that FB kills a lot and lets the girl overanalyze before she knows you. So unless your prof is straight dope, then maybe think twice. Chick pry has 500 FB friends. You think she bangs em all? Pry not. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 04:36 AM |
| -4 | What are the rules for friending a girl on Facebook (I met her last night at a party but don't want to come off as stalkerish)This, this, this, this... and this. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Well seeing the post the other day about "aloofness" I need a little help on how to respond to this.Quick! He's only got a couple more seconds before it gets awkward that he didn't respond! | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 10:49 PM |
| 0 | If you have trouble keeping conversation going, follow this easy tip...This is pretty much the style you should use to talk to girls... LOLOL | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 12:43 PM |
| 5 | RSD Julien's Manifesto -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close - I think this deserves some more attention.More or less to answer both of you. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 12:32 PM |
| 2 | RSD Julien's Manifesto -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close - I think this deserves some more attention.Rsd tweeted this morning that this hit 100k views and I wanted to share it. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 03:00 AM |
| 2 | RSD Julien's Manifesto -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close - I think this deserves some more attention.Julien's the shizz | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 01:28 AM |
| 19 | RSD Julien's Manifesto -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close - I think this deserves some more attention.Reduce the time before the approach. Don't make excuses not to approach. It doesn't matter if you fail an approach or not. Have your own image and ideals for yourself. You are not trying to see if the girl likes you. You are trying to see if you like her. Be the sender, not the receiver. Overwhelm her. The interaction should go to more 50/50 later on. Pull her into your frame. Get inside jokes going between you and the girl ("conspiracy theories," etc.). Get the girl to invest in you. You don't … | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Aloofness: A Complete GuideI hope you didn't take me seriously. | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Good looking girls that just aren't really fun/interesting to be around?Ha | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 12:16 AM |
| 6 | Aloofness: A Complete GuideAloofness: The art of pretending to be gay in order to get laid. | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Aloofness: A Complete GuideSprezzatura: The appearance of having to try the least to get the most results. Credit ChickenJiblets | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Any little tidbits or lines you casually add in for daygame?In the day you have to be more polite, instead of can I, it's "May I please pee in your butt?" Again, you have to mean it. Girls are attracted to authenticity. | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 01:50 AM |
| 1 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itNice dude. I'll bet it was hard to stay nearby because you were so nervous. Keep it up. Just force yourself to stay longer and longer each time, and it will get easier. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Is this texting convo dead?Fuck her first. Keep her around if you like her. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 05:16 PM |
| 8 | Why one-itis is a piece of shit, and getting rejected is awesome. (And why you should make moves early!)The hard part is getting yourself to not care before you lose the girl. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Direct Openers."Can I pee in your butt?" But you have to MEAN it, or else it's indirect. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Some Simple AdviceYou will never logic a woman into bed. Make her feel... the whole range of emotions. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 09:37 PM |
| 1 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itI'll X-Post a comment I made earlier: I think the key is to do it AND embrace the fear. I'm reading a book called Hope and Help for Your Nerves, written by a doctor, and in it she suggests accepting the panic symptoms. So she is actually suggesting not to fear or even dread the sweaty palms, beating heart, wrenching stomach, etc., because THAT triggers the adrenaline centers of the brain and actually makes it worse. By embracing (not just "doing anyway"), it lessens over time. She is suggesting … | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 09:13 PM |
| 2 | The Goose & the Golden Egg (Self-improvement, re-posted here from GothamSeddit because a mod requested so)Geese | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 06:09 AM |
| 8 | The Goose & the Golden Egg (Self-improvement, re-posted here from GothamSeddit because a mod requested so)My strategy, if anyone's interested: *Never masturbate or look at porn. Eat clean. Only eat lean meats, vegetables, fruits, nuts, the occasional cup of milk, and the occasional small whole wheat item. Chug a 16oz. bottle of water *before bed and right after getting up and 2-3 bottles during the day. No pop/pop-like crap. No boxed foods. Frozen/canned veggies & fruits are fine. Record your calories in the MyFitnessPal app or something similar. I recommend looking up the Paleolithic diet. Many bod… | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 06:05 AM |
| 3 | My problem with AA and possible idea to solve itAbsolutely. This is the cure. PM me if you don't believe me. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Can we talk about accepting failure, embarrassment and dealing with shame?Let em see ya, dawg. Balls to the wall. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Need advice please - much younger girl weird change of mindYour call man. Half of game is getting out of your head and taking action. That's one of my main priorities right now. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about accepting failure, embarrassment and dealing with shame?I think the key is to do it AND embrace the fear. I'm reading a book called Hope and Help for Your Nerves, written by a doctor, and in it she suggests accepting the panic symptoms. So she is actually suggesting not to fear or even dread the sweaty palms, beating heart, wrenching stomach, etc., because THAT triggers the adrenaline centers of the brain and actually makes it worse. By embracing (not just "doing anyway"), it lessens over time. She is suggesting that it is just a feeling with NO MEDI… | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Need advice please - much younger girl weird change of mindFuck idk it was my best approach for you to re-initiate with her if you wanted to. It would make it seem like it didn't phase you that she went with that other guy, which is a positive. Also by telling her that you had a good night, you would also be showing that you weren't phased by it. Again, positive. Also, since you waited a couple days to reply, it would show her that she isn't the only thing on your mind, positive. Alternatively, if you don't care if you talk to her again, then why would … | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Need advice please - much younger girl weird change of mindIdk maybe text her up and say sorry I didn't get back to ya. I got into my day and forgot. But yea we woke up fine. Good night! | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Need advice please - much younger girl weird change of mindWhat was the last interaction between you two? | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Need advice please - much younger girl weird change of mindThat's how they waste your time, by making you wonder "why." Figuring out why isn't going to change anything. I know you can't really see it now (it's a perception thing), but just go talk to more girls, and you won't worry about stuff like this anymore. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 11:52 AM |
| 1 | I'd figure this could help with some of the inner game. I usually listen to this before I go out and all feelings of doubt go out the window.Miller on motherfuckin Jordan | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 11:23 AM |
| 1 | I need a good response to "you're so tall!""Ah... yes, yes, I am quite tall" said in a deep Clint Eastwood style and kind of squint off into the distance like you just found the meaning of life Edit: and then smirk of course because you are the shit. | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Need advice please - much younger girl weird change of mindShe ended up being a time waster? | /r/seduction | 18/03/13 11:14 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, is seduction immoral?Sounds good to me. Go ahead and dump this post if you want! :D | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone really content, but at the same time really unhappy?The word "enough" used three times and how you worded it is why I said that. It's all goooood. I drink enough alcohol, attend enough events, do enough drugs, but in the end I dont feel whole. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 11:05 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, is seduction immoral?lolol. I was kind of venting when I posted it. Discussing seduction with any non-supporters is a pretty bad cycle, and I was frustrated with how it went on another subreddit. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 11:04 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, is seduction immoral?Why do you say that? | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 08:13 PM |
| 3 | A Chicken/Egg Type Question: Is it possible to have a genuine abundance mentality without having true abundance in your life?Start with what you've got, and borrow abundance from your future. Try here. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Tyler Infield CompilationWatching this almost intimidates me because I couldn't even imagine myself doing that right now. I know it's possible tho. Just have to start from where I'm at. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 04:34 PM |
| 11 | Is anyone really content, but at the same time really unhappy?While I can say that drugs and alcohol are are okay, did you honestly ever expect them to fulfill you? | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 12:47 PM |
| 8 | Is anyone really content, but at the same time really unhappy?Wow man, it's uncanny how I can relate to some of the things that you said. For a while, I too only really cared about Electronic Dance Music. I made my HTML website about it for a freshman college assignment, and I would spend a lot of time downloading all kinds of progressive house, techno, trance, dubstep, dnb, idm, ambient... and I would get them in as high as quality as I could find too. I too got caught up with a girl as well and was super excited as things were going well, and then things… | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being the least attractive in your group of friends?I like conceptual stuff. Models is great if you can grasp concepts and internalize them, then be yourself in a certain way. Some people can't. Some people need "say this sentence 34.7 seconds into the interaction, then touch her on the shoulder, unless she is wearing a blue hat, in which case wait until 42 seconds in, and don't touch her on the shoulder yet..." The same reason I like Manson's stuff is the same reason I didn't particularly like Mystery's stuff (though I do respect what he did for… | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 10:14 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with being the least attractive in your group of friends?Yes. I was doing that to amuse myself, but I DO seriously recommend it. It covers a lot of things you need to know, and it comes from a good place of honesty. | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 08:59 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with being the least attractive in your group of friends?Answer: Become more attractive. Can't hold a conversation that isn't about video games, anime, or technology Read the Conversation Skills section of Chapter 13 of Mark Manson's Book, Models. Can't start a conversation with a random person Meditate for 20 minutes a day, then nut up. Try walking up to random girls and ask them for the time, say thanks, goodbye. Do this to 10 random girls one day. Then next try telling them they are cute afterwards or holding a small conversation. Build progressive… | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 08:36 PM |
| 3 | I'm not afraid to just ask a girl out casually...just how the fuck do I get them to say yes?Exact same situation I'm in. You're nervous, I almost guarantee it. You are exuding this when you talk to cute girls: "I am extremely concerned with the outcome of this. I really need you to say yes or else I have nothing going on for me." Sad but true. I'm in the same boat. Meditate for 20 minutes a day. Tyler has a good hour long video here on Seddit discussing the topic in plain English. Do a search for "Tyler Meditation" and it should show right up. Once you get the hang of meditation, and d… | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 01:39 PM |
| 11 | Knowing the difference between creepy and confidentDefinitely to go from chode to confident one must go through a creepy phase of some sort, or at least have some creepy moments. | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 02:35 AM |
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