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8

Ah fuck, ya got me.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 08:56 PM
13

Yeah but like... I want to be happily married with a wife and children who love and appreciate me.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 08:39 PM
2

That's extraneous clicking.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 11:38 AM
1

I knew he was familiar. Damn good pick. Remember, all things change in a dynamic environment...
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 09:54 PM
1

Is your PFP the Puppetmaster?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 02:13 PM
1

Thanks for the anecdote. I've filed it under "irrelevant information."
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 02:23 PM
8

I lost track somewhere around 40, and I'm nowhere near close to relating let alone understanding women in general. I feel like I've lost parts of myself somewhere along the way as a result. What I have learned is that working to understand one woman over time has proven far more beneficial to my health and focus than attempting to figure them out en masse. There are a couple women I've shared years of my life with that I would rather experience life with again instead of alone or running the str…
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 11:20 AM
6

Whoever initiates first.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 04:55 PM
8

Yeah it was surreal seeing Sneako as the mature one for once.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 03:26 PM
4

Man... I won't go into the details, but I can relate. I can give you some pointers that have made my dating life far easier: 1) Get off the apps. They'll destroy your self confidence. Teach yourself to approach women in public. Expect to be rejected a lot before you figure this out. Eventually you'll learn to talk to them. Personally I'm still learning how to do this. 2) Pick a goal. It doesn't matter what. Make a decision. Indecisiveness is your enemy, here. That indecisiveness shows when you a…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 01:54 AM
0

🙄 Okay all you had to do was say you had nothing to contribute to the conversation. Good luck out there, kid.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 11:23 PM
1

On what defines a high-value man (per OP's question).
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 10:38 PM
1

I'm... not arguing with you?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 08:02 PM
1

Do you have better information or a more reliable source for OP's question?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 06:33 PM
1

Has it? Cool.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 06:30 PM
1

They explain why at length. Their argument boils down to the facts that 1) women pay by maintaining their image (the dollar value of beauty), 2) an expectation that the man be able to provide for the woman during/after pregnancy, and 3) women are at higher risk of STD/STI than men due to intercourse.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:05 PM
3

It's my understanding that the concept of "high value man" originated with FDS, and they have many threads that state what does and doesn't qualify. From this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dqnjgx/what_is_a_high_value_man/ So without further ado, let’s get into it. This is what constitutes a high value man: A man that is respectful, loyal and faithful A giving man that pays for dates and a relatively higher proportion of expenses in the relationship A man that is co…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 01:56 PM
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While I agree with your statement (I've read Mr. Bancroft's work as well), I'd like to point out a very important note that was overlooked: This behavior is a choice. Abusers know what they're doing. They know how their victims will respond to certain stimuli, and they deliberately maneuver their targets in order to achieve a predetermined goal. It isn't wholly about their background or psychological damage; it's about knowing what they want from you and the shortest path to take with which they…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 08:04 PM
2

What are you doing about it?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 01:08 PM
3

Man it's not just COVID. Everything about spending time with other people has somehow gone digital, but the digital spaces haven't recovered. Wouldn't know where to look even if I wanted to.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 11:01 PM
6

What's a friends group? 😂 Jk. All my friends are married with kids, and my single coworkers are all in their younger twenties (I'm mid-thirties). There's literally no one available. 😬
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 06:25 PM
3

No.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 06:03 PM
1

"What is better? To be born good, or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?” ~ Paarthurnax, Skyrim Ask forgiveness knowing you may never be forgiven. Forgive and learn to love yourself. This is the way.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 10:28 PM
9

Exactly. OP only has the perpetrator's side of the story.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/23 12:07 PM
25

Then you need to address this with her parents. It sounds like a statutory rape charge. The parent/guardian has to press charges in that case.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/23 05:59 AM
31

Seems pretty open and close. He's exploiting her naivety. He waited for her to turn 18 so he could smash (and avoid judgement). Where you should be concerned is... if the legal age were younger, would he be just as willing? And is this his first time grooming a young woman? Can you be sure it's his last? An eighteen-year-old girl isn't going to overpower her thirty-year-old gym partner. Like, seriously?
/r/ExRedPill04/04/23 04:50 AM
23

Read your post and some of your comments. Best timeline I can come up with is this: You marry, he gets to train a virgin, gets you pregnant and locked into the housewife role, then he gets bored and starts sleeping around. This isn't going to play out the way you hope. I'm pretty sure he's sleeping with one, maybe two women while talking to you. Since you aren't physically intimate already, you have no way of tracking his behavior when you're apart, and his libido doesn't just "go away" because …
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 11:50 AM
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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: http://www.drlindsaygibson.com/books.html, https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/adult-children-of-emotionally-immature-parents-lindsay-c-gibson/1121368782 This book is about how your parents may not be the adults they think they are, and how their immaturity has impacted you while growing up.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 06:10 PM
20

Well that's the best(?) news. Please take this time to focus on yourself. I hope you heal and can move forward from this experience with your dignity and sense of self intact.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 06:14 PM
58

Does your work have HR? Have you contacted them? 'Cause it sounds like you need to have called them yesterday.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 06:04 PM
3

Then it sounds like you and your "friends" are familiar with broken homes and know what it means to be 1) abandoned by your fathers and 2) life without a male role model. Honestly, in retrospect, I'd rather have had a step-dad that tried and fucked up over a dad who never made an honest attempt at raising me in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 04:16 PM
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What difference does it make? Is a woman any less of a woman for partnering with a man who has kids, or is it somehow her responsibility to care for the man's children despite not having birthed them? And what of adopted children? Are you less of a man for raising a child with no parent at all? Relationship choice comes down to knowing who you are and who you're willing to share your life with. If you choose her, then you choose her children, too. If you can't do that, then you need to leave the…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 12:49 PM
7

Forget the conversation, someone pls explain the mfing sex doll.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 05:10 AM
5

What are the rest of your standards/requirements?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:42 AM
1

Someone needs to get this dude an iron
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 08:12 AM
3

Irl, I've been told I have an awesome personality, and people tend to err on the idea that I'm incredibly social and active. Reality is that I get more pleasure out of cleaning my house and reading. I have plenty of healthy hobbies, and I'm well read and open to conversation/argument/discussion about a wide variety of topics. Most of the women I've taken out have told me some combination of "you're too nice, it's like talking to my best friend," etc. Sooo yeah, idk what I'm doing wrong but whate…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 04:17 AM
2

Godspeed, King.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 08:23 PM
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By all means don't give up hope, brother. The more I think about it, the more we worry about whether or not we'll find "her," the less in tune we are with ourselves. It's so easy to get locked into playing a role for someone else instead of being ourselves, y'know? And it doesn't help that popular culture reinforces that mindset. I ran into an older lady at a bar a few months ago; told her what I was going through. She made me promise not to give up hope, and I swore to her that I'd keep trying.…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 06:35 PM
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I've tried, man. I've tried hard and for a long time. Now I'm in my mid-thirties, I'm fit & educated, I've got a place of my own, a solid career, a nice car, I've spent years getting my mental health together... and it takes most of my energy to keep myself functional. It's taking so much effort to keep my head above water that I don't know if I have the spiritual wherewithal to handle dating again. Last night I said fuck it and rode my grocery cart back to the car, because why does any of this …
/r/ExRedPill27/02/23 06:04 PM
10

I feel for the few women who take you seriously.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/23 03:29 AM
8

That's cool. How's this working out for you?
/r/ExRedPill25/02/23 03:48 PM
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Because the easiest women to abuse are those with little to no concept of a healthy male presence in their lives. Moreso, by saying she has "daddy issues" they further degrade her. It's an easy in for the predator.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/23 06:13 PM
2

Reddit's being dumb and isn't showing your email address as an embedded link. I think it's a formatting issue; I wasn't able to replicate it to fix it for you. Like, we can still click it but it's showing up twice with "mail to" in there for some reason.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/23 06:12 PM
3

I love that you pointed out how "complaining about my loneliness online" is a massive circle-jerk of lonely people. Like, of course it's a circle-jerk. The people who aren't complaining about their loneliness are out living their lives. Or they're here for a short time and then they leave.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:29 PM
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Same question applies that I asked in the last thread about male loneliness. What do you do when you aren't working or maintaining your household? If your time is spent surfing the web, playing online games for hours per day, and entertaining purely digital relationships... then what do you expect? Friendships may be initiated online but they're forged in real world experiences. Social media comes with an isolating factor that I'd say we don't fully understand. We do know that it miscolors our p…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:32 PM
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How do you spend your time outside of work and maintaining your household?
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 11:40 PM
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I know she sleeps around a lot Sounds like you already know the answer m'dude. Smash (with protection), build your confidence, and move on. Or don't smash, since you've got feelings tied to this one. So just work on building your self confidence/worth and move forward with your life.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:01 AM
1

Wow, in his own words that dude is fucking lame.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 04:59 PM
4

Oh my god, yes. When the local Lord's wife shows wrist. Leobitingfist.gif
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 04:24 PM
4

Yo did you say ankle?? 👀
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 04:11 PM
3

Had my homegirls adjust and update them for me. Pre-covid I could get dates on a somewhat consistent basis. Post-covid? Pfft, went from "maybe worth it" to "not fucking worth it." Deleted all my accounts. Shit's depressing.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 04:53 PM
9

I love this response. Please, OP, answer this question for us.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 10:31 PM
6

Eh, I disagree with this take. Porn reduces the sexual experience to a bunch of people slapping about on screen. There's no touch, no scent; you can't see the little things a person does when they're in the moment. Masturbation is cool, though. Just gotta be wary of death grip.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 05:09 PM
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1) Take care of yourself. Hygiene/grooming, fitness, fashion sense. Eat healthy foods. Make your bed first thing in the morning. Stay off social media. 2) Establish two or three hobbies. You're still in school; this is the last time you'll have 100% time outside of work to actually do whatever you want to do unless you become a millionaire, which is extremely unlikely (though possible). 3) Practice loving the people you know. Figure out what gifts best suit each member of your family. Learn to (…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 05:18 AM
6

Frontline Kanye
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 08:18 PM
16

"Hitler/Stalin said some good things so they must be okay." Like... bruh. No.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 07:28 PM
6

If you can get it from YouTube then why pay Tate for it?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 07:22 PM
2

Yep. What's interesting about this is that typically the type of woman and the quality of relationship typically increase as you develop yourself. Yeah, you could settle for the first girl who talks to you, but if you focus on improving yourself then eventually you'll find yourself side by side with similar views, communication style, and long-term goals.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 03:28 PM
2

Yeah I wanna see that boomstick
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 10:51 PM
3

Your first comment is literally an explanation where you defend the husband and accuse the wife.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 05:57 AM
3

"I was simply making an observation." See how that sounds? That's how your comment sounds. Context clues in the title and OP's opening statement are where we found his insecurity. Also note that after ignoring those context clues and absolving her husband of any wrongdoing, you then turn OP into the villain because she called him mean words. That plus your attitude about it all? Mansplaining. And I was using it sarcastically. You just took the bait.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 05:41 AM
3

Lol are you mansplaining rn
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 05:09 AM
-3

Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:45 PM
2

... huh?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:44 PM
9

Yeah so after you're married, the ideal case is that those numbers stay the same unless there's an open relationship agreement. Once he put a ring on it, none of the guys before him should fucking matter.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:42 PM
11

Tax benefits and citizenship. I've seen both.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:40 PM
28

Hot take: a high body count looks bad on anyone outside of sex work, myself included. But to be insecure about it after marrying someone with one... well that's just dumb. What happened to "to have and to hold from this day forward" or however the line goes.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:29 PM
2

Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 10:05 PM
19

At its core, red pill ideologies are very twisted takes on traditional religious concepts. The two usually go hand-in-hand at some level. If you're seeing this behavior only three months in, I recommend you bail. You can't change him, and you won't change him; he has to want to change himself. I'd say more but I'm hungover rn, sorry.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 06:44 PM
2

I'm assuming you're familiar with both?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 04:58 PM
3

Eh, the last time I saw her I wasn't ready to say all this. She was highly suspicious and cut off contact shortly afterwards. I haven't heard from her since; that was about two years ago, now. FDS is the Female Dating Strategy. They're an, ah, interesting group, to say the least. They approach relationships from a solely born-woman-centric lens. They're the source of the term "high-value male." I took what notes I needed from them and bailed because that shit's almost as depressing as online dat…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 10:50 AM
2

What do you mean?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 10:49 AM
4

Thanks. It's been a long road.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 02:52 AM
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Honestly this is my biggest criticism of Boomers. For a generation that was hand-fed life, they taught Gen X and Millennials jack shit. These are all skills that you learn from your parents and community. I'm glad his channel's around because a lot of this info is in old black and white books that no one will read.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 01:41 AM
13

Honestly, she was loyal, stubborn, and incredibly empathetic. She didn't drive me away from red pill herself, though. I broke up with her because I figured she could do better than me. This memory is seared into my brain. She'd been really excited about getting family pictures with the dogs, and asked me to help her with her outfit. I'd showed up dressed ready to go, and she said the photographer had to reschedule so she was just trying different outfits. I took a couple photos for her, and when…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 09:05 PM
2

I dislike every YouTube red pill video I see and it STILL sends me this crap.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 11:22 PM
1

Wearing a ring on the "wrong" finger. Wearing an earring in the "wrong" way.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 02:07 PM
1

Bet.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 08:27 PM
5

The tactic isn't new, but the method he uses to do it is. None of the people OP mentioned told their fanboys more than Like and Subscribe. Tate tells his fanboys to create channels and actively spread his image. Before, the focus was on virality and letting momentum grow their fame. There's a reason Tate seems to be everywhere, unlike his predecessors.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:16 PM
15

He's a highly skilled grifter and social engineer. I listened to a few episodes of Hustler's University to get an idea of what he was selling, and the first few lessons are about how to determine what you have, then use that to make money without spending more than what you have on hand. The catch is that his method involves a lot of deception on the business owner's end and takes a great deal of social engineering to get right. The man is incredibly skilled at this. He brags about it, at length…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:02 PM
-2

Yes, it is stunted, but it's how traditionalists, redpillers, and toxic mantypes are taught to see the world. no woman expects Have you ever been challenged by a woman who's set on harming you to get what they want? While that may be how you and your friends see it, if a man is set on violence, that altercation can readily end in death even if it's unintended. It only takes one wrong bounce of the head to ruin the rest of someone's life, and there's a lot of concrete around these days. a good ma…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 01:38 PM
1

Yielding to someone's leadership doesn't mean you have to give up your bodily autonomy. When he hits you (outside of any consensual striking), he's crossing a line that you need to address. If you're cooking dinner and cleaning house because that's the role you play in the relationship, then yes there's room for criticism. If you have a verbal disagreement and he gets angry, then it's okay for him to be angry and deal with that anger in a healthy manner. But him smacking you around? That's an ab…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 04:46 AM
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Mind, I'm not agreeing with Tate here, as I don't think women are children or need to be coddled, and disrespect doesn't mean someone needs to shoot up a school. But I absolutely see his point. When considering the typical family (man, woman, child), in a hypothetical scenario that boils down to "who's responsibility is it to protect this household," which party instinctively steps forward? Who does our society expect to protect the family when faced with violence? Who gets evacuation priority w…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 08:16 PM
4

Certain behavior is expected for certain stages of your life. Toddlers are little drunk humans that parents have to distract from killing themselves. Children are curious and a little self aware. Teenagers are rebellious. Young adults take concentrated risks to define themselves. Adults start families, etc.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 04:20 AM
3

Okay, then start planning out what needs to be done for those two events. Is all your stuff packed? Is the car clean? Have you cleaned the area you're leaving, etc.?
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:10 PM
5

Is there something else you can do in the meantime? Prep for next semester? Go for a walk? I recommend you focus on the next thing you need to get done. It'll help pass the time.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:07 PM
3

And this will pass. Think about all the other stuff you were pissed off or hurt about when you were younger. Are you still mad about that shit too?
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:02 PM
16

If she's getting her friends involved, then she doesn't feel safe.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:01 PM
3

I've been exactly where you are right now, many times over. Rejection fucking hurts dude, I get it. But demanding she respect how you feel isn't going to bring her back. There is nothing to fix without both of you involved; she's checked out. Sometimes people leave your life on good terms. A surprising number of people won't.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:57 PM
18

Exactly. Her blocking you is another way of saying "no, I'm no longer interested in communicating with you." I get that it hurts, it's probably tearing you up inside. But if she were with you you'd want her to feel safe, right?
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:51 PM
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No means no, m'dude. That goes for relationship status as well as sexual contact. She said no. She made up a reason to say no. She had her friends say no. Your "us" is over for her. I get it, you two had feelings at some point and there's this drama with the other guy etc... but at the end of the day, if you can't respect her "no," it's in her best interest to walk. Relationships are based on the idea of mutual respect, trust, and communication. If you really want a potential future with any wom…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 04:33 PM
5

God this is horrible. I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I hope you find yourself when all this is over.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:26 PM
3

Part of the idea was that you had to appreciate women to some degree if you were going to pull off any of the bullshit tactics they were feeding us. We were taught to "establish a frame," and simulate the mindset needed to attract women. Despite that primary focus of getting laid, though, a surprising number of us were there because we wanted relationships with women and had no one to turn to to educate us on how to get into or maintain them. The change in terminology and eventual focus on pick-…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 11:20 PM
4

Eh, back when red pill was kicked off in r/seddit, it was solely about getting laid. I don't recall much if it being about securing a relationship in one's life, which makes me think earlier iterations of what is now clearly mysoginist was initially less mysoginist and more selfish in nature. Seddit taught me that to love a woman, I needed to be accepting of all women regardless of their shape, size, color, or condition, and only then would I be capable of actually pursuing women. Red pill would…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:57 PM
2

Yeah can you rephrase it? I'm pretty good at parsing information but it's hard to discern what is the quote, what's your commentary, and what's your question.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/22 09:51 PM
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