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Moroccan and Egyptian men often target older, divorced, less attractive, overweight, single moms, etc. for green card marriage fraud. I saw it often on the old Visa Journey forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:06 PM
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Also MENA, especially Morocco and Egypt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:08 AM
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This is the case for women too though, especially when a woman is childless or childfree by choice and her friends start having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:20 PM
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I'm pretty sure a large percentage of women swoon for Dwayne Johnson and Jason Momoa, both big and beefy men of Polynesian descent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:59 AM
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Or maybe fall in love with a fugly? It does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:41 AM
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It's true for women as well. The men will walk as soon as they get the GC though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:12 PM
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Exactly. Some of us were ugly pariahs and never had attention at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:03 PM
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Same with unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:00 PM
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Same. I'm what most people would consider objectively unattractive and always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:58 PM
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Life sucks as an unattractive woman, especially what should be your prime dating years. Be prepared to be a sugar momma or be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:08 AM
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Even women who would be considered in the bottom 20% of looks have value? I would say most men are only attracted to the top 20% as well, and media, photography, Instagram etc have only made this worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:17 PM
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It just grinds my gears when a woman has to be conventionally attractive to even be considered human by men, meanwhile women show physical preferences and men act like it's unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:10 PM
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Lol as if men don't always have to specify that a woman is attractive or else she is only worth a pump and dump. Are you on fire for a 4 with a great personality? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:06 PM
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Try being an ugly woman and you won't have that problem. You will be mostly ignored. Source: 54 years living ugly and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:19 AM
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To not be judged primarily by shit they have little control over, primarily physical attractiveness, also age and fertility. Plenty of men with ugly faces, scars, asymmetry etc have no problem with women but women are expected to be perfect, especially facially, which is hardest to improve short of surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:16 AM
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To these guys unattractive women aren't even human. I'm an uggo and caught on to this early on. It's fun turning down some dude who assumes you don't have any options. Even going home alone is a better option than risking all of the above you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:27 AM
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Everyone gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:48 AM
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Mine is always breaking and falling, it’s driving me nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:35 PM
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Also women are more prone to autoimmune/endocrine disorders such as Hashimoto's/hypothyroid and PCOS which make it hard to stay thin and hard to lose weight. I think a lot of men don't realize how hard it is for women to stay thin after age 35-40. I am hypothyroid and over 50, trying to lose 20 lbs(after already losing 22) and it's super slow even on 1200 cals/day with no cheat days. It's not just a matter of giving up booze or fast food like it might be for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:06 AM
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Why would an ugly woman work so hard to get her body in shape if she is only going to be insulted for her face and never considered for an LTR anyway? No woman wants to only be used for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 05:39 AM
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I always thought guys cared more about body for hookups, face for LTRs. Generally women want an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:21 PM
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Maybe because a term like ‘butterface’ exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:17 PM
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To these guys ugly women don’t even register as women, we don’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:55 PM
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Same as if they had to be an ugly girl for a week. Tyra Banks once did a social experiment where she had a pretty girl who was used to first class treatment and people doing stuff for her put on a fat suit, ugly glasses, had makeup artists give her bad skin and ugly features and then had her go out in public. After a while she was literally in tears simply because for once she was invisible and had to do everything for herself. Trust me, pretties must have some idea of what it’s like to be ugly …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:52 PM
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Uggos get exploited too, believe me, only it’s generally for money or a green card or even sex. Uggos are seen as desperate for love and basic respect and when someone is seen as desperate they are scammer bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:47 PM
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People drive more, vote against public transportation and dense walkable streets, spend more time in front of screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:20 AM
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You know that you could say the same thing about how men view unattractive women, especially the invisible part. For example when men say that women don't have to work, we can always find a man to support us, 'betabuxx' etc. you know that doesn't apply to unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:55 AM
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Ugly women won't get the provider though, they will have to provide, often be the sole breadwinner. We never have the luxury of entertaining the princess housewife fantasy, we have to work as long as an employer will have us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:20 AM
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Being ugly and female is a good asshole filter, that's true. The ones who stick around are decent, unless they are trying to scam you out of money or a green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:15 AM
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I wasn't fat in school but I was ugly and awkward and it was always boys who bullied me, not girls. Girls just mostly left me out of their cliques so I was mostly alone until 11th grade when I found some nerdy creative girls to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:11 AM
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Pretty spot on. Source: lifetime as an ugly girl, then ugly woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 10:07 AM
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This is why it's no comfort to be told as an unattractive woman that I can get more sex than an ugly guy can. Women take on a lot of risk with casual sex than men do not - pregnancy, increased risk for STIs, violence, and especially as an ugly girl finding out the guy finds you repulsive but is just using you because he is desperate and would never tell his friends about you, or worse it's part of a prank or game. Most women would prefer a vibrator to dealing with those risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 04:03 AM
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I avoided going into law or business specifically because I couldn't deal with wearing business formal everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 05:18 AM
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Also health care jobs where everyone is in scrubs and lab coats. I often wish I had gone into this field because white collar dress codes(often unspoken) are straight up social norm based bullshit and not based on safety or consideration for customers and coworkers. Easier to just wear scrubs which are comfy and easy to clean so you can focus on your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 05:10 AM
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A tight pencil skirt and heels are considered the ideal business formal look for women, recommended for interviews, there are even some judges who forbid female attorneys from wearing pants suits in court. It is a very restricting and sexualized look, though, and especially if you have thick thighs you have to be very careful when you sit to avoid doing an impression of Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 05:02 AM
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Also the whole wifey stays home in the suburbs totally financially dependent on her husband who goes into the city and does man things model is very recent(20th century). For most of modern history the whole family including kids worked together in a family farm or a home business and husband and wife were more interdependent working in the same sphere rather than the husband having all the autonomy and power where the wife could not survive without his mercy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 04:38 AM
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Keep in mind that countries where teen marriage is common tend to not encourage contraception and you would most likely be forced to carry and give birth to baby after baby, with little or no anesthesia and medical care, likely before you are physically even mature enough to do so safely. Countries such as Nepal where teen marriage is common have a high rate of fistula(if you google that, be warned it's not pretty) and death in childbirth. So life as a teen bride may very well be brutal and shor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:08 AM
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Unattractive women deal with the same invisibility, regardless of age or weight. Women who are attractive when younger express shock when they get older and people(especially men) don't treat them as well. If you are female and unattractive you deal with this your whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 10:59 AM
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Best bet is a widower who isn't still in love with his late wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 06:28 AM
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4 is solid advice. I managed to marry a guy my own age at 45, don't want to go the older man route and have a lonely last 20 years of life. My mom did this and it failed spectacularly. His business failed and he spent 13 years slowly dying of emphysema. Not only did my mom not get the sugar daddy she thought she had snagged, she ended up being a nurse not only at work but at home. No thanks. My husband is short(though taller than me), has a son from a previous marriage(widowed), has no ambition …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 06:18 AM
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Especially when it's a private school and the bully comes from a rich family-gotta think of those future alumni donations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:37 PM
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She's like the Dove real beauty campaign idea of what the 'average' woman looks like, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 08:41 AM
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Lauren Hutton had a big gap between her front teeth and was a HUGE model/actress back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 08:39 AM
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She's got beautiful smooth skin, long blonde hair and decent bone structure, no obvious assymetry. I wish there was one woman in the lineup with an obviously assymetrical/unattractive face but with a good body and see how she would be rated compared to the obese girls with beautiful faces - then we'd get to really see what counts more, face or body.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 08:37 AM
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Also the loss of well-paying jobs in the auto industry and other unionized manufacturing jobs which enabled black families to move into the middle class - see William J. Wilson, When Work Disappears.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 08:39 AM
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I am a white woman married to an Indian man but it is a second marriage for both of us and he had already had two kids with his first wife. I never wanted kids of my own and his kids are basically grown so it works well for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 01:00 AM
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You misspelled 'Filipina'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:52 AM
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Don't forget sunscreen and hydration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:48 AM
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At least you finally bloomed...some of us fuggos never do. Oh well, at least I never wanted kids so that's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:42 AM
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The same could be said for unattractive women who have never received much if any male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 12:23 AM
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When you're an ugly woman even if you are a good, responsible person in other ways you often find the only men available aren't just physically ugly on your level or lower but really the bottom of the barrel in terms of character or behaviour - substance abusers, unemployable, criminal history, physically and/or mentally abusive, etc. I am a realist and know as a 3-4 I can get at most someone on my level, but not willing to be with someone who is ugly on the inside as well, it's just not worth i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 01:22 AM
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I grew up in Hawaii and they would call you 'shark bait' if you were too pale.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 07:47 AM
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I remember growing up in the 70s and 80s and the most women did was shave the bikini line, so you wouldn't see hair peeking outside of your swimsuit - there were tons of ads in women's mags addressing this fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 06:40 AM
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Nowadays grandma is still working because she couldn't afford to save for retirement or what she had was wiped out in 2008. My mom who turns 72 tomorrow is still working, albeit reduced hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 06:28 AM
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Wait until 35-40 - after 40 a woman has to restrict like crazy to even lose a pound per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:23 AM
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I grew up in the 70s and 80s and the 70s were all about restricting calories - my mom was on every diet back then but never was told to exercise. I remember around 1980 when jogging and aerobics were promoted, then the Nautilus machines - before then there was very little emphasis on exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:20 AM
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I visited Germany in 1984 when I was in HS and one thing I remember was that there were parks and woods everywhere, very accessible by public transportation and weekend hiking in nature was an activity that was promoted for all ages from kids to elderly folks - I thought that was wonderful and wish it was as easy for the average suburban American to do. I don't remember seeing any fat people even though the diet was very heavy(spaetzle with cheese and mushrooms-yum) and it was considered rude if…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:17 AM
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if you're a millionaire then you can be happy on a diet of Ryvita, if you're poor then you need something to pick you up. This point isn't made enough when discussing the obesity epidemic I think. Dieting, especially to the extent that a sedentary, middle-aged, short woman has to do(1200 cals or less/day), is very stressful. As I read on a blog a while back, it's as though you can never blink, you can never slip up no matter how hungry you get. When you are working long hours, particularly in lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:05 AM
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And yet if you look at Bollywood at least I think heavier female bodies were more acceptable back then - not fat but more 'thick' - now all you see in media is so-and-so's gym routine and Bollywood fashions are more westernized and body revealing than they were even 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 04:54 AM
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Not to mention the average woman is a few inches shorter than the average man and it doesn't take too much extra weight to make a short person look fatter than the same amount of weight would look on a tall person. Sorry for the awkward phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 04:51 AM
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Interesting how the assumption is always that every woman finds someone to support her, 'betabux'. A lot of times an older unattractive woman, rather than face the future alone, will end up being the breadwinner if she makes enough. She knows she will never get a provider, but doesn't want to be a cat lady. The man may be decent or average in terms of looks but has zero confidence or ambition or through life circumstance can't get a high-paying job. Still he may be a decent person and a better a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:54 AM
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How do you know this for sure? The ugly spinster cat lady who never leaves her apartment trope is still alive and well, especially on RP. An intelligent ugly girl never 'goes out' looking for men because she knows she is only going to be rejected and ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/15 09:32 AM
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And I was never into casual sex or drinking so just as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:34 AM
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That's because we 4s are sitting at home instead of going to bars, why go just to be rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 04:14 AM
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That's only because to them any woman below a certain level (6? 5?) is not even a woman to them, we are like 'creepy' guys. If 5 is average, half of women will be below average and sexually invisible to the vast majority of men, even the men on their same SMV level. I am speaking as one of those below average women. I didn't even get catcalls when I was in my 20s, let alone all the 'goodies' that 'all women' are supposed to be getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 03:38 AM
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My mom married a guy 20 years older than her because he had an impressive-sounding job at a bank and he was always promising her any day he would be making the big bucks and she wouldn't have to work anymore. Well, he was a smoker and about 10 years into their marriage he developed emphysema and she ended up nursing him for 15 years of progressive decline. Oh, and at some point he quit his bank job, started his own business which failed and my mom ended up supporting all of us. No fucking thanks…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/15 02:07 AM
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I am a child of divorce and always said I would never initiate a divorce except for cheating/abuse. Well, my stbxh turned out to be a scammer who only saw me as an easy way to get to the US and once his bros from his country helped him he simply walked out one day, permanent green card in hand, didn't even have the 'decency' to file the papers himself so that is yet another thing I have to pay for. I am filing divorce 11 months after he deserted me because I need to protect my assets/IRA - and y…
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