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25

Thank god he told us the employment status of each girl, I was just dying to know that he’s dating lawyer and attorney and physician... who gives a fuck bro 😂
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:23 AM
1

what's wop
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:09 AM
1

Say less lol
/r/seduction31/05/21 04:00 AM
3

He just said he’s French and lives in Paris ...
/r/seduction05/01/21 03:56 PM
3

Posting 1 photo of it isn’t making it your personality ... but that’s the argument being presented lol
/r/seduction27/11/20 03:08 AM
4

Idk I see pics of people with their alcohol all the time 😆 much more than I see photos with weed lol ... but I guess I see what OP is referring to, just don’t agree 100%
/r/seduction26/11/20 11:38 PM
5

You said it yourself, alcoholics ... alcoholism significantly more deadly and injury related than marijuana lol and also personality defining ... it’s just more “accepted” in our culture so we think less of it
/r/seduction26/11/20 05:26 AM
2

Same can be said about anyone posting drinks or hiking lol
/r/seduction25/11/20 09:47 PM
1

Well it definitely entails at least one meet up, which I’m assuming hasn’t happened yet? You got her phone #, great job, but this doesn’t show any true sign of interest
/r/seduction19/11/20 09:39 AM
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“She did give me the vibe she wanted me to kiss her at the end but kissing a girl doesn't guarantee something will happen. If anything it lowers the chances you'll see the girl again.” hmmm not sure about that one .. lol
/r/seduction19/11/20 09:38 AM
17

Imagine a world where this type of language is accepted and normalised, so much so that you read a comment on reddit and become triggered and decide to defend him; yikes
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:23 AM
23

“Grab them by the Pussy” Donald Trump ps never do this it’s called rape
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:05 AM
18

Why is this a debate, good for him for hiding it
/r/seduction05/08/20 07:42 PM
88

Victim mentality never helped anyone on this ... get up and get working
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:18 AM
4

Lots of advice could be given, but if you remember anything it’s this: you did great! It’s not always easy to put yourself out there like that, especially a date, but you did just that. Find another girl, go on another. Keep improving, you’ll make it mate.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:49 AM
1

Great advice, I’ll stick to this.
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:50 AM
1

She directly snapped me a sexy photo, or sometimes directly text
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:47 AM
1

Good advice, what would you say if it was sent to you directly? Don’t want to come off too needy ...
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:45 AM
1

Got you so I’ll just ignore such traps and until a better situation arises
/r/seduction08/06/20 05:36 AM
4

I would say you just find things that are slightly different about her and poke at it lightly; it’s kind of like a caricature where they might take someone like Donald Trump and draw his hands extraordinarily small to poke fun at this, but do this with your words. Depends on the girl you’re talking to; poke fun @ her but do it with a smile and she’ll know you’re joking but she’ll love it
/r/seduction16/05/20 07:41 PM
1

It really depends on the context of your relationship; if you are in a dating/romantic relationship already and you ignore her for months, well I’ll let you figure that one out. But too much texting with someone you do not have the established rapport with will not go well either
/r/seduction05/04/20 10:07 PM
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I kind of understand this mindset but I kind of don’t; because if they are reciprocating and even initiating this is a good sign; plus it shows you actually care if you text, which btw caring is needed in an actual relationship, but it you just trying to smash maybe not
/r/seduction04/04/20 10:32 PM
3

As someone who has family working in the health field, this is completely idiotic. Listen to the health authorities, stay at home. They say it for a reason.
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:35 PM
1

lmao what I never said anything about physical limitations, I’m at least an 8/10
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:21 AM
1

Got you, so at that point you just work on yourself, wait for them come to you?
/r/seduction26/02/20 03:56 AM
1

props to anyone who read this whole post; I didn't make it past the 2nd paragraph
/r/seduction25/02/20 10:49 AM
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what did I just read
/r/seduction25/02/20 10:17 AM
1

No I just meant the idea of the guy having a nice car "come ride in my Lambo" is enticing to some women... sure I'll have one eventually just not quite there yet
/r/seduction20/02/20 11:06 AM
0

On this note, how do you get a girl infatuated with you? I see so many girls hooked on only one guy and I’m curious how that happens haha what do those guys do?
/r/seduction16/02/20 08:47 PM
1

Ok this is great thank you
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:37 PM
1

This is great, thank you. Do you have specific examples of things you might say? You mentioned locations, sensations, texture, etc. what would you say about them?
/r/seduction16/02/20 03:54 PM
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A few tips that have helped me a lot: Get physical with her as quickly as possible. Escalate fast, this will help her to see you in a relationship/sexual frame of mind. Talk less! Was a big problem for me. Ask questions, tease her, get to know her, but let her do most of the talking. Girls want to be heard. Don't stop working on yourself. Have others successes and achievements, women are drawn to these. Exercise & work on your body to get bigger. Bigger physical frame also helps.
/r/seduction04/02/20 06:12 AM
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probably not ...
/r/seduction24/11/19 08:02 PM
1

?
/r/seduction24/11/19 08:02 PM
2

I was under the impression this gives too much validation? Could work for a girl you’re already sleeping with / dating, but what about a girl you just met, sends you a photo in first few texts? Almost feels like a trap
/r/seduction24/11/19 08:00 PM
1

Definitely could have been, did you get her #?
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:06 AM
0

What the fuck is reddit for then, get off and go to google
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:29 PM
1

Yes, I think so. Last time, I felt like it was too much foreplay. We foreplayed for almost 3 hours of making out, etc. I don't mind this sometimes, but also sometimes I just want to skip straight to the sex, know what I mean?
/r/seduction16/11/19 05:52 AM
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hahaha I will say I could have worded better. Just trying to figure out how to increase my sex drive. Sometimes I just don't feel like going through everything with a girl and porn is easier. I just need more energy somehow.
/r/seduction16/11/19 05:43 AM
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Can you read? It's an honest question. Trying to figure out how to increase my sex drive rather than just watching porn. Porn is easy, no effort. Real sex takes energy. Trying to figure out how to increase that drive.
/r/seduction16/11/19 05:42 AM
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I honestly don't know why people, trying to sound deep and instructional and add gravitational pull to what they say, will say two different words meaning the exact same thing and try to separate them ... hahaha chase and pursue are the same exact shit
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:00 AM
1

Good info, love some of the push pull there, thank you.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:07 AM
1

Also, think I’m doing ok, just have to be willing to escalate quicker with no alcohol
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:52 AM
1

Found it, good post thank you. Have any specific example of verbal push pull? You mentioned compliments and harsh words
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:51 AM
1

So what kind of behaviour & words exactly? I think there’s a secret sauce I’m missing here
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:39 AM
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Definitely, I get this. I guess my question is more actually seducing her while we are there. In my experience Girls more horny when they have alcohol, so how to get them there without?
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:22 AM
2

Her house
/r/seduction19/10/19 05:02 AM
3

simple: talk to more girls
/r/seduction18/10/19 10:39 PM
1

I was for a bit, but everything seemed to die a bit. We were coworkers and since I left the job we haven’t spoken as much.
/r/seduction16/10/19 04:15 PM
1

Cool thanks this is the sort of thing I need to get better at lol
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:45 AM
1

Ok ya this was my goal saying “you’d like that wouldn’t you?” Hoping she’d chase more. But instead she said “I was just kidding hahaha” then I think she said “you’d like that” and by that point I just talked something else cuz I didn’t want to seem desperate idk she’s a little young maybe she got nervous
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:44 AM
2

What would you say? Trying to get better
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:31 AM
2

Idon’t mind bold but what’s the bold thing to say lol I genuinely just didn’t know what to say
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:31 AM
1

Thanks man, seems like the most honest answer here haha I feel you thought hard work will pay off down the line
/r/seduction08/10/19 07:06 AM
2

Did this and she started texting me crazy within 24 hours ... what then?
/r/seduction06/09/19 07:23 PM
1

Actually have a question for you on this: do you consider posting on social media as “talking”? Because it’s something they can see though not directly to them, maybe ruins the mystery also
/r/seduction27/08/19 12:14 AM
2

True, usually what I go for. This girl put breaks on sex though saying she wants to wait a bit. Worth my time to keep taking her out?
/r/seduction26/08/19 11:40 PM
2

I think this probably hit it. I can be a bit of a talker, maybe need to learn to pull back. I’m not sure, it can work well sometimes and I can keep a girl engaged, but does seem some attraction being lost.
/r/seduction26/08/19 11:40 PM
2

I previously read “The Game”, think 3% Man will give different point of view on this?
/r/seduction27/06/19 09:45 PM
1

Any tips on this? Think I can get better
/r/seduction27/06/19 03:34 PM
2

gold
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:14 AM
2

Maybe sounds weird, but the deepest connection I’ve ever had with girls were the ones where we decided not to have sex but just focus on building an actual relationship. Get to know each other, your hopes & dreams and fears, the things that make you tick, the things that make you you. This isn’t to say stop having sex, but allow the relationship to grow deeper than something purely physical.
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:10 AM
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Ok thanks for the input, something I’ll work on. Good to know a females perspective on this
/r/seduction18/05/19 06:42 PM
2

ok sent it thanks lol reorganised for Friday
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:53 AM
1

All lot that I think is way to undervalued to in the seduction community; great post.
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:27 AM
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haha ok point taken
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:20 PM
1

“The Game” by Neil Strauss is one I’ve read most of after many suggested it to me ... keep in mind it is about pickup and very much objectifies women; not healthy for a long-term relationship but if you just want to get better at attracting women it will help.
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:43 AM
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This is one of the basic principles of persuasion & attraction: scarcity. People tend to want what they cannot have. Also reflected in economic principles: higher demand + low quantity = higher price. People will give more for what they cannot have. Also think this is something with being a man, as I experience this regularly. Men (women too) love a challenge. The thought that we cannot have something makes us want to work & grind & better ourselves til we can. Self-improvement is great in theor…
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:35 AM
1

We had this contact for a few months, but then fell back a lot when she left the job we were at
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:17 AM
2

hahaha actually feel the same about the seduction community a lot though, but seems that’s the mentality; I’m not sure still learning the trade here
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:13 AM
1

hey you not wrong here hahaha
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:11 AM
1

for sure thanks
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:46 AM
1

This is the approach I took a few years back with one of my ex - girlfriends; sucked short term but worked long-term; took a lot of time though ... don’t feel like a good relationship should take that much effort to start something consistent; problem is I don’t see her anymore as she no longer works where I do; text is only communication so think it’s not worth it
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:13 AM
2

Literally nothing except she was a hot latina who knows how to shake her ass hahaha
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:11 AM
4

I definitely understand this and I agree, it’s a pattern that will likely continue. At the same time, I’m not sure ghosting is a good solution; seems like some immature middle school shit, doesn’t benefit anyone. Communication seems to be more mature (keeping in mind she doesn’t communicate so I also waste my time lol)
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:09 AM
2

To those suggesting don’t shit where you eat, I work with her only weekends, not worried about this. Time together at work is minimal, and frankly the job is not that important to me, just extra cash while finishing studies.
/r/seduction15/01/19 07:21 PM
2

Hadn’t heard of backwards rationalization beforex all rationalization is technically backwards though, yes? Makes sense though, thanks for that.
/r/seduction15/01/19 07:19 PM
3

She’s fully aware I talk to other girls; I already had two other dates scheduled this week. But at what point do I cut on seeing others and verbalise I’m committed to her (or another girl I’m more interested in)? There has to be a transition eventually (of course this is if you’re looking for long term like me, not simple hookup)
/r/seduction15/01/19 07:16 PM
2

Dude, yes. (Life is short, just go for it lol)
/r/seduction15/01/19 07:56 AM
9

It’s when you approach a girl in the cold weather; can’t feel your fingers or toes makes it more challenging to speak intelligently
/r/seduction15/01/19 07:46 AM
1

This is so true, always amazes me how much more social drive I have without the porn/masturbation!
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:46 PM
1

Need to look into NLP; any good book/resource recommendations?
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:43 PM
1

Will look into addys, still wondering if I could achieve this without substance though?
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:52 AM
1

True, I should also note each night I’ve not had alcohol. Wanting to improve social skills without crutch of substance, if that makes sense?
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:12 AM
1

I already had a group, went with them. If you need to go solo though, you can. Just extra effort. Also, post on Reddit your city, say you’re looking for a wing, you’ll find someone.
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:19 AM
3

It’s all about where you look as far as making friends. If you want to make friends who will go out with you, look in these places. Found some great guys down to have fun + pick up girls with me at bars / clubs.
/r/seduction26/11/18 12:02 AM
1

mate they only give us 10% at F21, they better look elsewhere hahaha
/r/seduction21/11/18 06:06 AM
2

No; pretend you don’t know & avoid talking about it, or make a joke about it if it comes up
/r/seduction13/11/18 08:02 AM
11

You can have your cake and eat it too—both. But if I could only have to pick one, true love. It will leave greater chance for long-term happiness & an overall more fulfilled life. Lots of interesting psychology research in the fields of dating on this: romantic love (short & passionate with effects on par with cocaine on the brain) vs passionate love (not the crazy endorphin-inducing experience, but longer lasting & higher overall happiness ratings).
/r/seduction05/11/18 08:36 AM
1

This! I honestly am not a fan of the hook-up culture. It can be fun at times, but I feel it takes away the close intimacy of really getting to know a girl and sharing life with her. It’s about more than just sex...
/r/seduction03/11/18 07:02 PM
1

Guys gotta confess, just recently discovered these Reddit seduction threads and these are the best thing to happen to sexual me in years! Talk about feeling like Austin Powers & having great emotional sex straight off of Titanic & Pearl Harbor... DAMN lol
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:54 AM
9

Wow I wish more women would seduce me like this ahahahaha
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:25 AM
1

More often I see someone getting rejected I’m thinking “I wish I would have had the courage to try as they did.” Rejection = one step closer to the goal; keep going.
/r/seduction05/10/18 08:12 PM
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