dhodorek Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Someone should write a guide on how to be inviting.		dhodorek	/r/seduction	17/10/18 01:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	I survived a car crash, but not my manhood. Stop worrying about how you look it makes you look insecure.	/r/askTRP	04/10/19 06:15 PM
1	Felt awkward hanging out in a group of girls I would just be their friend! They will appreciate the fact that you're not trying to impress them. Even being quiet works if you don't have anything to add they will respect that. Being quiet and comfortable with yourself adds that layer of mystery too! Just talk when they try to include you or interest you. But most importantly go to have fun. If you get a date out your social circle that's a bonus. It shouldn't be a goal.	/r/seduction	01/03/19 03:00 PM
1	Not ready for a relationship, and the girls move on. How do I not let it hurt my confidence? Girls want some someone to open up to them, by not letting them in they get tired of you being distant. If your okay with girls not staying around you seem to be in the perfect situation. But if you want them to stick around you could always start to open up to them. It's really up to you!	/r/seduction	22/02/19 03:11 AM
1	Signs that she wanted me? She cheated on her ex that should mean she is a no go!	/r/seduction	21/02/19 06:12 PM
2	Why you should be giving your number out instead of asking for hers. Girls when comfortable are capable of extraordinary things! It's pretty obvious when that moment happens! Your key is to stay calm when she shows any wants or needs! She can feel bad for showing sexual interest, show her that it's ok. So that by being happy with it!	/r/seduction	21/02/19 06:10 PM
3	Do you ever open up to your women? Can you tell her about your secrets without turning her off? Pretty sure any good person would love to hear they made the other happy! If a girl dumps on you because if that that's not a girl you want. Another thing why can the girl be supportive too balance is good in a relationship i don't want to be the only emotional rock that's a really needy girl!!	/r/seduction	16/02/19 03:59 AM
2	Do not know what to do Honestly talk and listen to her! She just may feel venerable after having sex. Do what you feel is appropriate. You seem like you have good intentions.	/r/seduction	11/02/19 03:58 PM
1	How to move a relationship forward ? I would just let her open up and start to feel comfortable talking about big topics. Just listen and shut up when she does talk. It can be hard to recognize when she is opening up to especially if she is a quiet type. Just stay on your toes and put your full attention on to her when she gives an opinion. For heaven, saves don't dismiss the idea which is different than disagreement. It is always good to feel listened to and considered. Even if you have a different opion.	/r/seduction	07/02/19 07:06 PM
1	Looking to have female friends again You seem to have a good standard in acceptable girls. Girls respect that and will try to fill it. I think you will be ok just need to go meet to more people!	/r/seduction	07/02/19 05:00 AM
2	Did I fuck this up? Her friend was teasing her for liking you! You did well!	/r/seduction	29/01/19 04:54 PM
6	What are some easy ways to flirt and tease girls? As a general rule for me it not teasing if the girl feels like it's mean. Teasing should be good for both of you that's when it works in my opinion.	/r/seduction	17/01/19 09:37 PM
2	The following books changed my life. I would recommend everyone to read this books. Thank you I am reading models and it reminded me of somethings I needed to remember!	/r/seduction	12/01/19 02:46 AM
1	S.O.S->"What, you don't think we're attractive enough for you?" Or well I have not seen all of you! Sounds like it would have worked !	/r/seduction	19/11/18 12:37 AM
1	I don't care about girls. Is it something wrong with me? Enjoy the simplicity of life not trying to figure out how young girls think. Sounds like you enjoy being yourself never lose that it comes in handy later. Go develop a skill learn something. Go enjoy life!	/r/seduction	21/10/18 02:37 PM
1	I'm tired of approaching just because it's better than regret, I want results now.... Well you had two girls not looking for any commitment I think your doing a fine job!	/r/seduction	26/09/18 01:37 AM
2	Women who dance with their hands behind their backs Oh yea she was interested! If you liked her you could have stayed	/r/seduction	23/09/18 01:26 PM
2	Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling. I don't know why that made my day so much!	/r/seduction	22/09/18 05:14 PM
4	Women who dance with their hands behind their backs I would say it's definitely a invitation but there is something going on? Maybe say Hi first ? Maybe they are shy and the hand was there as a barrier? Who knows what's going on but at least something is happening! You could always ask what happened but be super nice about it! Like super Innocent! Like child like Innocent when asking what happened. It at least starts a conversation.	/r/seduction	22/09/18 05:00 PM
1	30+ guys without this That first paragraph is spot on! I would only add that you can get a girl to come up to you. It does happen ALOT OF GUYS need to realise what the girl is wanting. Look at her face! Figure out what emotion she is showing act accordingly. oh, most importantly listen and add to what she says. When in doubt listen to her (and look at her face as you do)!	/r/seduction	22/09/18 04:42 PM
2	Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling. Just adding to my post about the nervousness to date a guy because of what might happen. I would only suggest picking your date to who you feel comfortable with as you would with your friends. I assume not knowing anything about you, but it seems you are an intelligent, cute young girl. There should be guys in your friend group, that are interested in you, that you trust, and may even want to date. I would start there, and suggest to bring a friend or another couple. That would help in making yo…	/r/seduction	22/09/18 04:27 PM
1	Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling. This is a depressing post to read for me. I understand the constant unwanted attention is the focus as it should be but there is an underlying problem. Both the OP (u/ItsMeLalaB) and the guys hitting on her miss the point of dating which is to find someone who builds there life up, not just for that one night stand. I wish as a society we came together and made less of a point of how many people we sleep with versus who we date, and how that relationship helps both people. I would encourage the …	/r/seduction	22/09/18 04:17 PM
1	My level of confidence is directly tied to my amount of success I'm having with women at any given moment.. How do I get out this mindset? Stop making it about her and go on the date to entertain your self. You are worrying too much about her, let her do that. That's her job. Be interested in her and listen, You really don't have to please her or anything else to that effect. If you're not having fun your self why are you there? Be a bit selfish in that regard! Do you really want to be bored with future dates? When you're having fun you tend to show your personality and people pick up on that.	/r/seduction	15/09/18 02:37 PM
1	I mostly attract guys, how can I fix it? You find most dudes are too chicken shit to approach women or make their intentions immediately obvious, yet gay dudes will approach me and clearly hit on me. That is IMO the reason most guys are successful the gay ones or the straight ones. You will never know if she is interested if you don't at least try. Being honest and direct usually a breath of fresh air for most people as most people want to be something other than they are. Being ok with oneself is always a great trait.	/r/seduction	24/08/18 03:07 PM
1	How to become someone worth being attracted to? Why do you have to be better than every other guy to approach a girl? A lot of those guys are taken in her mind, so be the guy that's available and comfortable with her. Just honestly go have fun with it and make your self have fun doing it and if your having fun she will pick up on it!	/r/seduction	24/08/18 12:57 PM
1	I mostly attract guys, how can I fix it? Also, the way they hit on you usually works on girls too. So you can learn techniques that way. What works for them probably works on for you on girls!	/r/seduction	24/08/18 12:42 AM