diaaanneee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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30	Have the remind myself. Know. Your. Limits. For any other givers out there, I strongly recommend that you work towards becoming a matcher who reciprocates a lot to givers and sets hard and fast boundaries to takers. And of course don’t beat yourself up for being a doormat- it’s all part of growing up and there are still loads of people who will appreciate your kindness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 08:11 AM
2	🤭 I have no doubt you have strength to protect yourself, it’s just that person dragging you down. You’ll walk away eventually. 💪	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 08:08 AM
13	Can we talk about the sexism in medicine?? Gender inequality in health is well documented; e.g. women used to be underrepresented in clinical trials (not sure if legislative changes are tackling this issue these days) which would have led to less drug efficacy/ more side effects for women	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/21 08:09 AM
57	She's beautiful even at 56, where's the wall men constantly keep talking about? Yess I strongly agree with this. No shame in ageing itself, it all boils down to viewing it from a different angle - shifting the focus onto career, self development, etc. I don’t want to perpetuate outer beauty standards forcing women to stay beautiful and go all out denying the natural concomitants of ageing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/21 07:18 AM
5	NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.) Hey, I’m no expert myself but have been investing for a couple years so here goes. You could start with buying some ETFs over time. DCA is the most widely accepted strategy- I wouldn’t recommend investing the lump sum all at once but whatever suits you better!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 01:03 PM
16	If you keep explaining and nothing changes, it's not going to get better. He's dedicated to not putting effort in. Oh dear. This provokes so much self-awareness. Thank you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/20 08:50 AM
20	This from something the Wall Street Journal posted. He referred to her as “kiddo”! 🤮 It’s sickening to see men belittling women in power by sexualising and/or infantilising them - e.g. scrotes refer to Lisa Su, the super successful CEO of AMD, as “Su bae” 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/20 08:16 AM
53	fALsE aCcUsATioNs When my mum sees a news report on sexual assault, she urges my brother to be wary of women he dates. It saddens me how a woman can turn into such a misogynist upon having a son.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/20 06:26 PM
1	I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a man Whoops sorry for the spoiler, hope you enjoy the rest of the show! 😄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/20 10:09 AM
2	I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a man Totally relatable! The vicarious embarrassment was no joke. Oh I also love her rivalry with Audra turning into sisterhood! Such a brilliant show.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/20 09:50 AM
3	I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a man YESSS 100%! Her pickmeness also traces back to her shitty neglectful dad and control freak narc mom. I love it that the show does not glamorise the journey to self-reliance. Rebecca relapses ever so often that it cringes the hell out of me, but normalising and validating setbacks is crucial for all of us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/20 09:27 AM
19	I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a man This is why I love Miranda and Crazy ex girlfriend. Not to say they are completely free from awkward pick me moments but still.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 05:22 AM
14	In which universe are flowers and dinner equivalent to blowjobs?? Here’s an even more ridiculous fact: in Korea women are supposed to buy gifts for their guys on Valentine’s day. It is a month later when men are supposed to reciprocate, which of course many of them don’t 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 10:52 AM
9	Fuck Only Fans. Here's why. Seriously does anyone know how to hide all those Onlyfans/NSFW/polyamory/disgusting kink posts from search results on reddit? Whatever keyword I type in I end up being grossed out 🤢🤮 maybe I should just stop searching things here	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 06:50 AM
1	South Korean women rejects scrotes for marriage because they don't want to be bangmaids. Vietnam hold educational classes for pickmeshas for the rejects. I can attest to this as a born and raised Korean. It’s worrying that the k-pop craze is getting more and more women around the world to obsess over their looks and/or pursue Korean men 😣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 09:42 AM
3	Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic group I’ve seen so many fellow asian girls being gaslit with so called “cultural difference” 🤷🏻‍♀️ also the way we’re sexually objectified by all that Japanese porn/south east asia sex tourism is simply appalling	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 02:16 AM
1	I just watched the Notebook and thought of FDS If my memory serves me, Lon (Allie’s fiance) was much more of a HVM. I felt bad for that guy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 04:40 AM
17	Why What He Spends Matters As a feminist I used to obsess with financial independence when it comes to dating as I didn’t want to frame myself in terms of “marketability”. But after years of experience, I realised generosity mindset is extremely important in all kinds of relationship (including friendship). It’s not just about money - it reflects their willingness to invest in me emotionally as well. Run away from cheap people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/20 05:52 AM