diamandisonskidrow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Debunking RP lies, or my anecdotal female experience post-RP brainwashing (LONG, sorry)		diamandisonskidrow	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/22 07:58 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Where does this idea that men get better as they age? Yikes, are you my most recent ghoster in California??? Haha I had a few interactions w/ a guy exactly like you recently and I swear I didn't even know it was a Lambo until the third date, and I think I even offended him when I said "oh I just assumed you got this off your lot" (he runs a car lot in a major urban area) he was like offended like "no I own this." I said "oh okay" and that was it. I wasn't impressed by it at all. But he ghosted so I wonder if he wanted me to be impressed? I have no …	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/22 08:22 AM
18	Do older men really find younger women attractive or try to get with them? Too many red pill men have been deluded into thinking they can/should pursue a very young woman and they become angry when it doesn't work. Even if you are wealthy, a 22-yr-old simply isn't going to be drawn to you the way she will be to someone her own age. Red pill jumps through endless hoops to prove this wrong though. I'm happy to believe it, just... when/if I actually see it 🤷	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/22 03:25 AM
0	Do older men really find younger women attractive or try to get with them? LOL you're really calling yourself out here. Good luck finding the 22-yr-old of your dreams	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/22 03:22 AM
11	Ten years a RPW, hit the wall with no loving marriage in sight. Trying to figure out why? Re #3 I think you're victim blaming a bit. Who wouldn't become less affectionate after suddenly realizing this guy isn't serious about you like you thought? This man was not into her and he led her on. She's allowed to change her behavior based on the realization & subsequent darkened feelings.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/22 03:18 AM
13	Where does this idea that men get better as they age? Do you know what sub you're in? Lol this is very pro red pill and frankly it hasn't been made obvious to me in my real life experience. It's generally accepted that the "men age like wine" thing is a Hollywood construct, designed to keep women down as they age out of fertility and keep men artificially confident they'll score with younger and younger women as they age. All the things men hate about women aging happen the same if not worse in men, including bad body composition, lack of fitness, …	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/22 10:23 AM
21	Did anyone else screw up a relationship because of trp? I'm female and trp has wrecked me. Almost nothing it teaches has come true in my real world experiences, and now I have no idea what the hell to do because ive internalized that I'm a worthless old hag (even though two of my exes are dating women older than me who have kids... explain that, trp? 🙄) I've thought about making a post here about it, maybe I should.	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/22 08:31 AM
15	Do I (24F) be blunt with him (28M), let it go or wait it out? Move on. He's not into you. He's still weighing all his options, and you're not it. When a man is into you and serious, you will know, and there won't be all this ambiguous crap leading you to post questions on reddit. And whatever you do, do not sleep with him ever again without real commitment. He's using you as a backup, possibly one of many if he is very HVM, and you deserve better than that.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/22 07:00 PM
1	Am I a doomed woman? You sure are prickly for someone supposedly so humble and seeking advice. Maybe you should lurk these subs for a while before you barge in with your negative, entitled attitude. Read the room.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/21 01:05 AM
2	Am I a doomed woman? Why do 5'1" women demand 6'+? I'm 5'9" and it is ROUGH out there, even when I was 25, even when I was well above average in every other respect.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/21 09:40 AM
2	The Redpill = The biggest nice guys learning to act like animals. Redpillwomen = pornstar women learning to act like virgins. Same. But because I am 31 and single it is assumed I'm some former porn star or that there's at least a video of me getting gang banged somewhere. RP leaves no room for gray area. There ain't even a single photo of me, I've only had LTRs w/ men I trusted and never took photos. But good lucking telling these guys that.	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/21 07:16 AM
0	Do older men even approach or want younger women? You implied it. This whole exchange is so interesting bc red pill men often secretly condone eating disorders in women and seek out the traits that go along w/ them.	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/21 06:17 AM
6	Do older men even approach or want younger women? But what do you do when they turn 30, just toss them out? Or is the idea to never stay w/ anyone long enough to risk them turning 30+?	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/21 06:13 AM
0	Is rape the only natural conclusion of The Red Pill? I don't know how else to word it in a way that will satisfy you. Red pill believes this. This is the exredpill forum. Jordan Peterson etc etc etc. I'm not a social scientist. We are discussing red pill beliefs in this sub. Why don't you go attack the OP for implying red pill might also lead to rape? They gleaned that from the red pill community. We are here talking about red pill beliefs. I do not know how else to word it for you, I've really tried but I'm done now.	/r/ExRedPill	22/11/21 07:51 AM
-1	Is rape the only natural conclusion of The Red Pill? In general, men are more logical/rational. Women are more emotional. In general. Generally speaking. Very generally. Red pill says this often. It isn't WRONG but it isn't the whole story, it is incomplete and lacking nuance. Obviously. Do you need it a fifth time?	/r/ExRedPill	22/11/21 01:08 AM
1	Is rape the only natural conclusion of The Red Pill? Because it's not entirely wrong, just incomplete and missing the point. Should I say it a fourth time or do you get it now?	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/21 11:57 PM
2	Is rape the only natural conclusion of The Red Pill? dogmatic and reductionistic and based on strictly conservative gender roles I can't fully reply right now but dude I'm saying this is what red pill thinks, not necessarily what I think...in an effort to explain above the thing about red pill men comparing women to children, red pill men thinking women are emotional/hysterical etc. But folks can keep downvoting me for my imperfect wording I guess	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/21 08:25 AM
-1	Is rape the only natural conclusion of The Red Pill? Men being "rational" and "logical" vs women being "emotional." Not incorrect, but overly general and incomplete (didn't I say that?) Completely missing the point that men & women are supposed to be different, to complement each other in different ways and women have higher empathy & sensitivity to, ya know, raise all these men's children effectively.	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/21 03:20 AM
17	Is rape the only natural conclusion of The Red Pill? RP men online have openly discussed some hypothetical* version of utopia where rape is legal on private property...something about how this would force women to dress modestly and be accompanied by male chaperones everywhere, and this would solve all our problems? My fave comments along this line of thinking involved men saying rape is just not that big of a deal...I recall one guy saying something like "Do you really think my P in your V is the absolute worst thing that could happen to you?" (l…	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/21 01:08 AM
5	Is rape the only natural conclusion of The Red Pill? RP men frequently describe women as being just like children. Something about our lack of logic/reasoning, and being too emotional, and wanting to have the accountability expectations of children? They're not exactly "wrong" but, like most of their blanket statements about female nature, it is incomplete and missing the point. And for being so supposedly traditionally minded, they sure do act incredulous over the fact that men and women are...wait for it...different. The similarities you mention…	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/21 12:56 AM
0	Are there any women here who had a redpill phase and are trying to get out? I am white and #4 has absolutely not been my experience, I imagine this varies by location/culture though as the US is basically 100+ tiny countries with huge cultural diversity even within specific regions. While I have you, though, may I ask your opinion on something off topic...my boomer mother and one of my aunts have often wondered aloud why the Kardashians "always date black men." It doesn't confuse me at all, as black athletes and musicians are some of the richest among the "Hollywood eli…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/21 03:53 AM
6	I want a baby like, now. My husband does not. It sounds like you've done your research and fully know where you're at & what you're getting into. This seems like a relationship problem, not a financial problem, and like you're both trying to make it a financial problem to avoid the "bigger" or more scary relationship issues. Even though he's the "man" and makes the financial decisions it still doesn't seem right that he's just spending money left & right on his fun/toys and not further considering your joint plans as a couple. It's not like…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/21 03:36 AM
10	I want a baby like, now. My husband does not. Yeah I didn't like the vibe of this OP, I feel like people of all kinds use the "can't afford it" excuse when in reality, no one ever feels they can afford a baby, like even the rich are likely to balk at insane medical bills & the cost of diapers over time etc. You will never feel "ready" and you will never feel you have "enough" money. Part of it, I think is propaganda to get us to procreate less, because there are people on modest incomes who have children and they make it work (I know many m…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/21 10:59 PM
3	Are there any women here who had a redpill phase and are trying to get out? It has permanently ruined your opinion of men? What if the parts of it they believe are true, then has it really "ruined" you or simply opened your eyes to the truth? I am female and struggle similarly so I just want to see what you meant by this.	/r/ExRedPill	13/11/21 10:49 PM
8	Are there any women here who had a redpill phase and are trying to get out? Yeah this. You can take some things and leave the rest. A man who is 100% all in on TRP likely has some neurological or cognitive deficits causing him to think in this black and white way, and that's just not sustainable long term. They will gradually come to see the gray area in it and, similarly, take certain beliefs while leaving the others.	/r/ExRedPill	13/11/21 10:47 PM
4	Dear Men: most girls are just as weird and insecure as you Yeah I think ultimately the "answer" to all this is the most boring and the most obvious...that it's a little of this, a little of that. It's a lot of gray area, like most things in life. Overall just don't take anyone seriously if they're all for one color of "pill" or whatever ideology because it's just not helpful. Men are humans, women are humans. For every man who feels deprived of sex, there are many more women who feel deprived of a healthy equitable relationship. We all struggle. Best no…	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/21 01:35 PM
9	Dear Men: most girls are just as weird and insecure as you Did you use voice text to make this? Because its really hard to read, you might want to make edits manually. Yes a big problem I have with RP is this idea that women have it made and men have to work so hard, because girls absolutely do put on a show so to speak, and we grow up influenced by popular media and use that as a template for flirting and stuff and it's not always appropriate or genuine. Men have a tendency to idealize us and then when we start showing our cracks, our flaws (which may …	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/21 03:17 AM
7	Redpill works, just not on girls you would want I genuinely want to know what you're saying. What is he selling exactly? Anyone in this thread will just read this, nod silently to themselves & move on. Maybe leave a comment. I'm not even sure anyone would really take this as advice because let's say you use RP tactics, the girl doesn't fall for it, therefore this girl is "good" or healthy, now she thinks you're a dick and is really not gonna want to get with you. Now what?	/r/ExRedPill	05/11/21 01:57 PM
1	Thoughts on this? It got 9,500 likes so, this is a very popular opinion among men. Yeah having 9k likes isn't any kind of proof this is "very popular," haven't you noticed on reddit how a few outliers get thousands of likes/dislikes and everything else just sits? Likes beget more likes, dislikes beget more dislikes. Occasionally I've had a comment get a ton of attention and it's always a very brief, sort of pointless statement. All it takes is a few dozen people to get the ball rolling and suddenly you have a like count way out of proportion to the comment's original importanc…	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/21 06:32 PM
6	Do you think the "bad boy"(good looking but cruel, selfish etc) argument goes both ways? Yep. They say all women in their 20s are riding the CC having professionally filmed gang bangs every weekend, and that is bad, but you know they'd participate if they could, and those are the "hot" girls they're into anyway, so...?????	/r/ExRedPill	30/10/21 08:28 PM
7	Do you think the "bad boy"(good looking but cruel, selfish etc) argument goes both ways? Yeah they never think this far. They stay on step one, "go out & find hot virgin," the end.	/r/ExRedPill	30/10/21 08:25 PM
9	Do you think the "bad boy"(good looking but cruel, selfish etc) argument goes both ways? This is a big problem for me in trying to navigate RP, too. Even if you boys find your perfect unicorn 20-yr-old virgin, she could still pull the whole cheating/divorce rape/child custody trifecta. A woman who marries in her early 20s in her prime can still be cheated on and abandoned by a man who ended up lower value than he seemed at the time, and she could be out on her butt divorced "post-wall" even though she did everything right. Then what? It's like there's no room for nuance or individua…	/r/ExRedPill	30/10/21 08:22 PM
5	How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little? If a girl over 25ish is posting like this, something is off, and I don't think these are the high value people you wanna associate with. I just posted in another thread about social media and how damaging it is to relationships, go check it out. I'm guessing these people are young or otherwise still in that weird cycle of needing validation online? But a few thoughts I have... - Do you think these relationships will last? Men can be overly doting/love bombing in the beginning, then when they sto…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/21 04:20 AM
3	How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little? You're speaking as if this is universal but I really don't know what you mean. Can you give examples? Is it as simple as "some girls' boyfriends make more money than mine" or .. ?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/21 03:39 AM
10	How to fix relationship after halfway nuking it with jealousy This may not be helpful but I think it's worth posting. Yesterday I said the following in a random thread I stumbled on in "exredpill," have a look: "Careful with the instagram thing, I had a few mishaps in my 20s with guys who assumed everything I posted or did on there was somehow a "secret message" directed at them. I've also had guys attempt to communicate their displeasure with me by unfriending me, hoping it would cause me to chase them and seek their re-approval or something. None of this…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/21 04:39 PM
2	23 and absolutely terrified of being ugly I completely understand where you're coming from, I'm 31 and didn't know anything redpill-related until about 3 yrs ago, it absolutely destroyed me and I'm only just now picking myself back up mentally. I read a variety of red pill stuff, some ex-red pill stuff, some FDS and just try not to kill myself while I sincerely try to educate myself. When I was 23 the manosphere didn't exist, or if it did it was in its early stages. I have no idea how I would have stumbled upon the info without someone …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/21 11:22 AM
3	Creating attraction sometimes starts with as curiosity Careful with the instagram thing, I had a few mishaps in my 20s with guys who assumed everything I posted or did on there was somehow a "secret message" directed at them. I've also had guys attempt to communicate their displeasure with me by unfriending me, hoping it would cause me to chase them and seek their re-approval or something. None of this works on me, and now I don't use the app at all just to avoid this kind of BS. Not everyone has time to play social media games, and to me now at age…	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/21 08:25 PM
-8	Is female hypergamy a net positive or negative for society? How old are they? Because of feminism & the way the culture/economy operate right now, many women are having this realization "click on" later than usual	/r/ExRedPill	27/10/21 06:11 PM
5	How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it? If he's annoyed now, how will he act when/if you're pregnant? I just don't think he's being realistic, and being actively "angry" isn't helpful. If he really needs a girl who can run marathons & hike Everest with him, he needs to move on. It's not good for you to push yourself past the point of exhaustion if you physically can't, it means the following day you'll be completely wiped out & have even fewer spoons to work with.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/21 01:01 AM
4	How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it? Idk, my impression was that he was unsupportive and even annoyed by your limitations. That's terrible. Being masculine and being "the captain" doesn't mean being an asshole. I daresay many men would enjoy this dynamic, to the extent it allows them to really take the lead and be a "hero" so to speak. My last boyfriend was very red pill-aware & masculine but was very understanding of my conditions. He enjoyed taking the driver's seat, literally by driving haha but also by making the decisions/plan…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/21 12:52 AM
3	How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it? No one is doing that, we're going off of your characterization of the trip and how your man acted	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/21 12:09 AM
6	How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it? I have a ton of chronic illness-y type stuff including intermittent gut issues, and in response to this comment here, I will say as women we are lucky in the sense that a woman with chronic illness will be viewed very differently from a man. Really think about it. Much more accommodation is made for women in daily life for this kind of thing (despite the long history of not being believed or taken seriously in medical environments). I think it is possible to maintain femininity, much more so tha…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/21 12:06 AM
1	Why do men think that leaning into a mindset that is misogynistic will help them get what they want? Oh, my intuition tells me I'm being ghosted all the time, even when I'm not quite being ghosted, and I pay veryyy close attention to it. It still sucks. To quote the office, I just hide out and collapse into myself like a dying star. The guy never even knows I'm upset, I'm super stealth. ;)	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 11:05 PM
1	My biggest fear in dating I really do understand where you're coming from ok? I have equivalent hang-ups because of past ghosting behavior. If I'm seeing someone or even just talking to them, and I detect the beginnings of "a ghosting," I immediately freak out internally and start shutting down externally, and drive the guy away. So like you're hardly the only one w/ psychological shit that needs unraveling & dissecting. You seem young enough to really get ahead of this & start doing the work that needs to be done. In my…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 09:30 PM
1	Is less really more with attracting women? We've evolved to transcend our baser instincts though. Using my comment above as an example, a guy COULD just tell me "hey i'm not into you," I know they won't do that (either because they're ashamed, or they're trying to keep the door open in the future or keep me on the back) .. but they COULD do it. They just don't want to.	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 07:30 PM
1	Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with? ALSO, men tend to be veryyy judgmental if a woman sleeps with them too soon. One or more comments sections on Rollo's site addresses this, that if men were super open-minded and truly "free" sexually (one example given was Russell Brand, I know that's random but just roll w/ it real quick) women would be free to do anything with them, and quickly. Imagine Russell Brand judging a woman he's just met on anything she's done, hell no he'd probably be a cool person to chat with about different sex st…	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 07:21 PM
1	A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" material Your comment implies you don't get that, but clearly you do, so perhaps I just misinterpreted your tone	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 04:45 PM
1	Why do men think that leaning into a mindset that is misogynistic will help them get what they want? You mean tell me anything? Yes exactly I'm aware of this. The guy above saying "well they probably just didn't date you bc they wouldn't hypothetically marry you" is just trying to be nice. I do understand the reality, thanks	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 04:42 PM
5	Jealous and guilt-ridden. Please help. This is the nuance that red pill men's spaces are missing. They think in such black-and-white terms, like "young beautiful girlfriend = perfect" and anything less is total garbage. Turns out real life is complex and full of many shades of gray. And I agree about the energy, I actually have more energy in my 30s because in my 20s I was an anxious, chronically depressed miserable wreck and could not have been a wife or mother to anyone or anything. Age is not necessarily a guarantee of anything, a…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/21 01:28 PM
1	Jealous and guilt-ridden. Please help. And maybe this is an uncommon/unpopular belief but I think it is ridiculous to be jealous of someone over their younger age. The thing about age is everyone will age, eventually. It's one thing to be envious that someone was born into serious money, or has the height you want, or a certain natural body shape, but EVERYONE will grow old eventually, it is literally unavoidable, just might happen a few years after you...and so what?	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/21 01:25 PM
1	Jealous and guilt-ridden. Please help. I have a ton of mental problems that cause me to listen very intently to people around me and internalize their opinions as if they are my own. I am working very hard to combat this because it is holding me back in every facet of life. You need to find a way to tune out negative opinions like this. Who cares what your sister thinks?	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/21 01:21 PM
3	Jealous and guilt-ridden. Please help. Of course it is "best," but nothing in life can always be "perfect" can it? You do what you can and move on. I agree this sounds like an excuse, or he has some kind of mental condition causing overly rigid, black-and-white thinking.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/21 01:20 PM
2	Jealous and guilt-ridden. Please help. I think the fact that being 35+ makes you "geriatric" puts a bad taste in a lot of women's mouths, also the HUGE increase in failed IVF in recent years. But yeah it doesn't mean it's impossible.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/21 01:19 PM
3	Jealous and guilt-ridden. Please help. Yeah, I don't know these people and I don't want to make assumptions but it really feels like he's coming from a place of "society/other people think I'm too old, so I've decided I'm too old and that's that." Like, very very rigid thinking. Just because your life doesn't look like Leave It To Beaver doesn't mean you can't still do things. Life expectancy and health are better than ever, esp if you work at it, so it's not unreasonable to raise young children into your 40s. Idk, I think this guy n…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/21 01:18 PM
1	A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" material But red pill gladly admits "you cannot negotiate desire" -- it is a fact...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 12:45 PM
2	A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" material If I'm into a guy, and he's not into me, I peace outta there and go completely MIA. I don't hang around like an annoying buzzing fly, because duh. Guys do this though, for some reason, but that's not my problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 12:25 PM
1	A female friend took offense when I said her boyfriend looked like "relationship" material This is so interesting, single 31F here and I didn't realize the "friend zone" thing until I started reading red pill stuff. I immediately panicked thinking of guys from my past who probably felt I had "friend zoned" them. But I didn't, not intentionally, they were just my friends and I had no interest in them, plus they never even asked me out or showed any romantic interest. If they ever felt friend zoned, that's on them. And I have this weird retroactive resentment thinking they were only eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/21 12:24 PM
9	Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with? Yep, the men who have formally "dated" me wouldn't put me in positions where I'd even need to decline sex. Like they'd take me on an actual date then drop me off at home. None of this "well we were drunk at the club, took a cab to his place because I couldn't drive and then the sex kinda just happened" like a man who actually cares enough for me to date me isn't getting me drunk in a club for fun, he respects me and is trying to get to know me. It's just a completely different thing.	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 12:07 PM
9	Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with? Yes, exactly. It's about effort. If you know it's just going to be a casual weekend fling, we aren't putting the time in to vet for all those other traits. The vetting process in itself involves getting to know each other in activities separate from the bedroom. This isn't a bad thing but red pill has characterized it as some evil thing women do on purpose to upset you, because we're all just whores and etc.	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/21 12:05 PM
9	My biggest fear in dating This is interesting. As a female I really resent being put into one of these "categories" you mention, looking back I cringe thinking this guy or that guy had me in some arbitrary category based on ONE interaction or based on the venue we met in. Literally everyone views me differently based on whether they met me at school, at church, in a bar or through mutuals. But believe it or not I am a human, I have a lot of different traits and I don't fit cleanly into a cliche red pill archetype, neithe…	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/21 02:42 PM
2	Is less really more with attracting women? Thank you. I've had way too many guys be like "but you never call me!" Like dude you're supposed to call me. I was raised on "he's just not that into you," if a guy wants you he'll call you. I think maybe they are used to women making the first move, or they're not into me and trying to avoid telling me that. (They never tell you, you're supposed to just magically figure it out, it's exhausting)	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/21 02:24 PM
1	Engagement ceremony preparations Like the waxing, spray tan is dicey as it can take a few tries to really get "good" at it, it is hard to explain but there's sort of a learning curve involved so you don't mess it up immediately after. It will be greatly, greatly affected if you get it done before any shaving or waxing as hair removal methods will literally remove the tan, maybe a little or maybe a lot, but it will be streaky. If it were me I'd skip the tan entirely, you don't want to have too many "new" beauty treatments done a…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/10/21 07:54 AM
2	Why do men think that leaning into a mindset that is misogynistic will help them get what they want? This smacks of "oh you're just so wonderful, no one can handle how wonderful you are!" and other delusional BS delusional post-wall women tell themselves. But thanks for trying anyway	/r/ExRedPill	23/10/21 08:28 PM
1	Why do men think that leaning into a mindset that is misogynistic will help them get what they want? I'm aware I can get sex on an app, that's not what I want though, I'm trying to do it the "right" way and red pill says if I raise my n count I'm even more worthless, remember? I'm aware I have a shit personality, it is because of this ghosting behavior by immature early 20s guys in my early 20s. If I'd had ANY idea it would damage me so completely I would have stayed away from all men, always, because now I don't trust anyone. (i can't afford therapy btw) The original ghosters, actually each on…	/r/ExRedPill	23/10/21 08:26 PM
0	Why do men think that leaning into a mindset that is misogynistic will help them get what they want? Guess you'd have to comb thru my socials to verify, i don't think reddit encourages that tho I am a shut in as of the last 4 or 5 yrs, thanks for noticing what I stated outright	/r/ExRedPill	23/10/21 01:39 PM
1	Why do men think that leaning into a mindset that is misogynistic will help them get what they want? I don't think my problem is low self-esteem, I know I am attractive and smart. I know people with rock-bottom dirt low self-esteem who still date/get married. It doesn't necessarily change anything	/r/ExRedPill	23/10/21 12:34 PM
2	Why do men think that leaning into a mindset that is misogynistic will help them get what they want? I really don't think these guys were looking to get married. If they were, they could have just told me that? I agree looks aren't everything, I've said it myself for YEEEEARS, but out in the world it's like "well you're attractive and unmarried so what's wrong with you?" because no one else seems to agree that it's Not About Looks. And then I discover red pill and they claim looks are all it takes for women, therefore supposedly I am out having endless alpha gang bangs and endless beta engageme…	/r/ExRedPill	23/10/21 09:57 AM
7	Why do men think that leaning into a mindset that is misogynistic will help them get what they want? Women do struggle but no one believes me, literally no one. I'm an above average attractive for a female with a low n-count for my age but horribly mentally damaged from ghosting behavior in my 20s. All the therapy in the world won't fix it. Red pill is just one of many avenues I've taken to try to read and study and really ponder wtf is wrong with me. Mostly it has led me to spend the last five years sitting wondering why I'm not out fighting off endless offers of sex & crazy gang bangs & engag…	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/21 10:42 PM
1	Another man gets a jagged red pill forcefully shoved up his ass without lube.... ? \| WhereAllTheGoodMenAre Darn. Wish I could have seen the replies to this	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/10/21 08:23 AM
5	Another man gets a jagged red pill forcefully shoved up his ass without lube.... ? \| WhereAllTheGoodMenAre Can't help but notice the original female poster hasn't returned to reply to this...wonder why...	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/10/21 08:22 AM
6	Red pill is ruining men You mean because sleeping with HIM doesn't make her a whore, but sleeping with the next guy makes her a whore...or something RP is full of weird rules like this that really fall apart upon serious examination	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/21 04:57 AM
6	Red pill is ruining men But if she'd slept with him that would make her a whore with a "body count" according to RP, soooo......	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/21 06:21 AM
5	Red pill is ruining men My father is like this and the second I get this vibe, I RUN. We all have our opinions and we like 'em a lot but literally no one else wants to hear about them. Arguing on the internet pointlessly is also a red flag. Men, no woman wants to sit and listen to all your conspiracy theories, even if I agree with some of it it is just such a turn-off.	/r/ExRedPill	18/10/21 06:18 AM
1	How to feel more like a woman? Maybe I didn't word myself correctly, and I'm not the OP, I'm 31 and I look and dress very feminine, however I don't "feel" feminine every day, which is more of a self-esteem thing not a "I think I'm actually male" thing. I hate to think any woman who sometimes feels less than feminine is now urged to consider gender dysphoria as a reason like the deleted comment implied.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/21 04:26 PM
6	How to feel more like a woman? Thanks for this, that comment bothered me too. I was very tall very young & never "felt feminine" as a result, in fact some days I still don't...because that's life. Humans have a wide range of emotions and interests, and of course these won't all fall into an exact binary. It freaks me out to think that if I'd been born just 10 or 15 years later, I might have been pressured into thinking I have "gender dysphoria."	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/21 02:49 PM
13	How to feel more like a woman? Hygiene & general grooming are #1, always, and basic beginners makeup and nails are often part of that. Women do these things for themselves or to be presentable at school/work. It's not an automatic red flag for "THIS CHICK'S TRYING TO CATCH A MAN!" In fact, in the US at least there's a common cliche/joke that says women don't dress up for men, they dress up for themselves & other women -- in other words, it's about taking pride in your appearance and presenting well to the world and for yourse…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 04:40 PM
3	What is a healthy mindset . This isn't a source whatsoever, but just today I was listening to Adam Carolla on his podcast stating he thinks the "drunkenness=truth" cliche is untrue, and now I've happened upon this post which made me think about it even more. I really, really don't think this is the case. We've all said and done weird things while drunk that are just that, random weird things that don't provide any insight into our true character or motives. Others have already pointed out laws re. consent while intoxicated…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 03:53 AM
7	What is a healthy mindset . This, and I disagree that your friends will always have good intentions. I could never figure out why my female friends criticized my relationships/dating activity in general, until my late 20s when I realized the world of competition & jealousy I was actually in, unbeknownst to me (I'm not an idiot, I just don't feel that way about my friends or sisters -- I am supportive, a happy positive wedding guest & genuinely happy for them when they are dating or engaged or whatever). Agreed you should k…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/21 03:49 AM
29	One thing Feminine energy coaches don’t address Supposedly men have "wife goggles" which means no matter how old & ugly you get, they'll still see your young hot self in their mind's eye. I think this is pretty...optimistic. I think back in the day this was probably always the case, but nowadays with free porn on demand, endless cosmetic surgery options & dating apps providing menus of hAwT siNgLeS iN yOuR aReA, I agree that even if you do everything "right" in your youth you still run into all the same problems eventually. You'll still hit t…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/21 02:50 PM
8	Am i too clingy? My bf (37m) has very little time and is not the most "romantic" when we spend time together I like all the advice here & couldn't write anything better myself, just wanted to add while you're doing these things maintain your focus on being feminine, not the whiny/clingy/girly thing women so often resort to but the self-assured and classy but feminine quality RPW is all about. Don't try to be like him but complement his ambitious masculine energy by being that soft place to land after he's spent all day/week being the leader or the man's man. You want him to associate you with the thing…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 03:58 PM
3	Let’s talk about not texting him first My "rules" include never text first (don't even program his # into my phone until he texts) and never double text. Buttttt I'm also 31, unmarried, a total hermit now & burnt out on dating...and i totally freaked myself out a couple yrs ago reading way too much RP stuff for men. It actually made me take the men's side, I was becoming almost misogynistic toward my fellow women. So...don't take advice from me. My "rules" have probably never helped me, maybe just added some mystery in the beginning …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 02:07 PM
2	Let’s talk about not texting him first K you nailed it. This is the "right" answer, although I'm so brainwashed into not texting/not dropping IOIs it is no wonder I'm forever single. I advised a friend in college kind of similarly, she was worried about sleeping with this one guy too soon, and I was like "ya know, if the two of you are really into each other & right for each other, it doesn't matter when you sleep together 'cause it's going to work out anyway." If you're worried getting physical too soon will "ruin" it or you'll get …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 02:02 PM
1	Learn to cry? I just wrote a reply saying men biologically may need us to cry because of this lack of empathy you mentioned, and it sounds like your post is totally in line with this! Definitely something to think about. Crying when you're genuinely sad and it's a genuine reaction = normal. Wanting to learn to cry in order to be manipulative is not.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 02:52 AM
1	Learn to cry? I've read women are naturally prone to cry much more easily because men lack a number of mirror neurons/stuff related to empathy, so nature makes us cry so that a man can tell when we're REALLY hurting, 'cause they don't pick up on hints as easily. That said, I really don't think learning to cry more easily is beneficial because it feels like asking for advice on how to manipulate. I could be totally wrong. But there are interesting thoughts posted here so I'll muse on them & see where I turn up…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 02:50 AM
31	Let’s talk about not texting him first Virtually everything RP/traditionally minded I have EVER read (even pop psy fluff like "he's just not that into you") says don't text him first, he has to contact you first, men are wired to pursue you blah blah blah. But I have definitely missed out on several potential mates by sticking to this, I'm assuming because a guy who is used to not-traditionally-minded women is expecting me to make a move and when I don't they take it as non interest and move on. I've also had more than one married gu…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 02:42 AM
16	Do you think their is a double standard regarding men and women's weight, or is it that just the way it is? I think it goes both ways, but a man of high socioeconomic status "gets away" with having less in the looks department. It is what it is .. and as someone who works very hard to keep my weight @ an acceptable level, I resent the r/fatlogic types who feel heavy women should have equal access to tall, fit men because "it's what's inside that counts." Being RP in the current climate is a very lonely place to be.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 01:03 AM