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ADVICEdian_slay26/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 08:50 PM
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DATING ADVICEdian_slay26/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 09:55 PM
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I have to respectfully disagree with the part about there being more LVM/NVM because of less female friends holding them accountable. I was great friends with a man for about 10 years and never thought about crossing that line. He bounced a lot of his crummy dating behaviors and scenarios off of me and my role usually was to hold him accountable. I always thought he would eventually grow out of it and he would see he wasn't treating the women in his life well. He'd always leave details out but s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:13 PM
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"Geishas are not wives, nor are they courtesans." You didn't pay attention to the movie.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 04:10 PM
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I was told the other one was taken down
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 11:19 PM
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Girl you better put your heels and step out with that man! He's still taller than you. If that's the only issue, that ain't an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 03:32 PM
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agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 03:24 PM
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My advice is if you aren't ready to even give him the impression that sex is a possibility right now, don't go over to his place. Going over his house sets a certain level of comfort, even if you don't have sex you are still over there which to a lot of men means you are comfy enough now to have sex. If you're not and would feel impolite simply saying it's a hands above the blanket type of night, then don't put the temptation on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 03:23 PM
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It's his place girl, until you two move in together, keep your decorating suggestions to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 04:45 PM
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I recognized that all the times I thought I was too fat, I looked back at old photos wishing I was that size, but back then I thought I was too fat! So I was in a cycle, I know in the future I may wish I was this size again so I need to love myself and think I'm sexy now! Try keeping a gratitude journal, your body is a truly amazing creation and for it to be functioning as it does is really a miracle. Everything it does has value! Telling myself 'yes there are ways I can be taking better care of…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 04:40 PM
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I agree, the best results I had on my self esteem and my body was to love myself where I was first. Not saying self improvement isn't the goal of course. But just knowing that I loved myself with or without extra weight took the pressure off of me to just be thin, and shifted my focus on making sure my body was healthy and working as it should.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 09:14 PM
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It's not cuz you're not attractive...like he said it has to do with the stages that you are in and basically he's saying he's not in the stage of life where he wants to try and get a virgin comfortable enough to sleep with, it's more work than he's willing to put in. Most men in their 30's are past that stage in life, just be glad he didn't waste your time and let you know right then it wasn't gonna work out.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 02:35 PM
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That sounds like a lovely way to wake up! Focusing now on other important points made...where was this sale???
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/19 09:31 PM
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So you have a great relationship with a man that sees a future life with you, but are wondering if you should break it off seeking an older man for marriage? Do you actually have a man 10 years older than you promising marriage right now? If not then what's the point of breaking it off with your current bf? Is the only reason you won't have sex with bf because you're not married? Is that a religious choice? It doesn't always follow that just because a man is older than you he wants to settle dow…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 09:18 PM
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In my experience, men don't usually spend a lot of one-on-one time with women they find unattractive, and also they tend to go the attraction route first and then the friend route. You keep paying for stuff because you keep OFFERING to pay for stuff in your relationships. I think he thought you rejected him by offering to pay, or he's taking advantage of spending time with a cute girl and not having to break the bank for it!
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 05:48 PM
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You go home, girl. He's wayyy to old for you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 05:31 PM
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Ghosting him would be playing another game if you really want to be with him in the end. I agree with taking a week or two to yourself until you are feeling like your best because you may be investing too much of yourself in the situation. Be friendly and sweet but stay busy, in your mind be firm about limiting your time with him until you feel in control of your emotions again.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 05:19 PM
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Girl, you sound like you're plotting on your sister's man, which she is too kind to suggest but can clearly see which is why you got told off. She isn't doing anything but telling you to stop being messy and the fact you need to feel you need to tell him anything about her within their relationship shows you don't have any respect for it, or boundaries. Stop your sh*t.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 04:30 PM
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He's crazy, drop him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 03:59 PM
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Though you are right to continue dating others, I don't think you needed to specifically tell him you were going on dates with other guys, he prob is feeling a way about that because it gives the vibe that you are trying to make him jealous, which is demanding and not cute. Chill out on all the pressure for a relationship if you are having fun especially if he is showing you the commitment you want just hasn't made it official with words...yet. Keep doing your thing but if you say and do things …
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 03:54 PM
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Agreed. Same for me and WMLB. Missed the whole thing lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/19 03:07 PM
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I don't think you did. It strikes odd to me that he asked for your address without any real reason to know it. He prob wanted to try and do an unannounced pop up.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 09:40 PM
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Invest in some soft, cute cut lounge wear. Comfy and cute for being at home, and just make sure you are taking care of personal hygiene even when you are spending all day inside.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 09:00 PM
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I think it's the fact that you have no functional furniture. You need a table and chairs and things to hold guests, so they don't sit on the floor with plates in their laps. Maybe start hunting for pieces before you start looking for a bigger place.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 02:05 PM
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Is the no contact rule going to work?? Not the way you're doing it. It only mayyyy help your relationship if you are truly walking away, which you are clearly not, and if he cares, which he clearly doesn't seem to. Cut your losses and find another, he doesn't see a future with you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 07:12 PM
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No offense, but you are putting yourself in the weird sad loner square by letting your anxiety run your life. Girl you got it, just get your mind right and into the game! Focus on one thing at a time, there are a lot of things to take up time and space in your head besides worrying if you are too old for anything. Research career options and go to a comm. center for mock interviews. Develop a self care routine and consider therapy or a journal for your trauma. Volunteering and exercise helps me …
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/19 06:26 PM
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Also I aim to get at least thirty mins of cardio every day. I started playing Just Dance in sweat mode on my Switch.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 04:44 PM
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I started piano lessons twice a month to take on a new hobby. I hope to learn the scales and chords c7,g7,f7 by the end of the month. ​ Also I'm cutting my meat servings back to twice a week and cooking for myself at least 4 days a week. Also, trying to be in bed by 10:30 pm every week night.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 04:43 PM
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Cut your losses sweetie.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/19 05:05 PM
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Just wanted to say reading all of your responses I feel like I am on the right track!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 07:00 PM
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Hell naw
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 07:50 PM
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Hmm maybe, but I wouldn't worry about it. Give him what he asks for and do your own thing for a while, I think it could only help your time spent together, absence being an aphrodisiac and all that. If he's focused on work and just needs a breather, then when he gets a real break he'll come around. The text about friends sounds like he called plans off with them as well. Him saying he doesn't want to keep you hanging means you should probably do your own thing/make other plans for Friday. I don'…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 08:08 PM
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Congratulations, you played yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 07:06 PM
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He misses the sex girl. If you want to have a sex exclusive type of thing then just make sure you're going in with your eyes wide open. If you still have feeling like you want to date him again, you gotta be clear that's what he wants too before your back in bed wondering wtf happened.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 06:23 PM
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Can I ask what the botox is? Is it preventative care because I know you mentioned you are mid-20's. I'm also mid 20s and was just wondering.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 10:34 PM
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Manicure: $30 every two weeks Eyebrows: $12 every two weeks Pedicure: $20 every 4 weeks Hair Care Products: Maybe $100 every month for my natural hair. I trim and style my own hair, but the cost of good thick curly hair care products is ridiculous. $130 a month if I put braids in. Trying to find a stylist for a good haircut. Makeup: replace foundation every 3 months, between $8-50 depending on how I feel about my skin. I've had the same blush, powder and concealer from Clinique for a few years b…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 10:21 PM
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Agreed. Dated a few self described tech and cosplay "nerds" in college and I found them to be a lot less humble and polite than the athletes or fitness junkies I dated. It wasn't really their interests that turned me off it is mostly that they acted surprised that anyone knew about anything they knew about. The vibe I usually got from them was condescending. First they say things like "wow I'm so glad you know how to use chopsticks" and by the end of the night they turn out to be really insecure…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 07:03 PM
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Keep your hair clean, moisturized and detangled. Reduce or eliminate heat for a while and clean up your diet. I stopped meat and dairy for 1.5 year and my hair shot down my back in a matter of months. Not saying that's an easy option of course, but I think reducing how much junk meat and dairy in your diet will help a lot! I put heat on my hair about once a month and use protective styles when it starts to look less fresh (braided/ twisted/ buns).
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 08:08 PM
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I'd suggest spending more time at your parents house, trying to focus on getting a place of your own. ATM he's more stable than you are and you'll be happier not stressing yourself out running back and forth. You don't want to move in, he doesn't want you to. The only solution is to take some time to focus on your own life and find your own personal space.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/18 04:06 PM
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No girl. Stay with your man.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 04:55 PM
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Black American woman from the south. The way I see being black has affected my RPW journey is in the time I took unpacking a lot of what I was taught growing up. I do think that black american women (at least in my family) have been taught to shoulder a lot of pain and trauma, even for others without complaint. So, the men have been taught unhealthy ways to cope with pain and the women have just carried it. A lot of women I've seen have taken on the emotional trauma of the men they are in a rela…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/18 10:38 PM
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It's about how you feel about yourself. If you see holes in your life that you think would cause a man to not want to have a relationship with you, that's what you are thinking of yourself and probably projecting. Also, you can say no to a just sex relationship with a man, it's called discipline and self control. It's not that men don't want to love you, you are probably surrounded by men that want to love you, but you don't pay close enough attention or don't want them. Maybe you're letting lus…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 02:32 PM
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Ask your girlfriends where they shop, and pay attention when you receive compliments on your fashion! Hit the racks at your favorite local (TJ Maxx and Ross tend to have some gems!). Create a favorites list online and start liking all the clothing items that stand out to you as cute, you'll start to see what your tastes are like. Make sure your clothes are well fitted and compliment your body type, don't hide behind baggy clothing! There are lots of sites that give advice on what looks best on w…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/18 08:40 PM
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It's not easy finding a partner that you trust enough with your heart, they are out there, but you have to trust yourself enough to know you've chosen the right man. If you take care of yourself, you show others how to care for you in the ways you need and also you won't have to worry about being taken advantage of by your man. You will know when you feel drained or stressed and have the tools to communicate that and take time for yourself. If you don't trust yourself, you won't be able to disce…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/18 02:51 PM
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That’s what I said in my second point
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 07:07 PM
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I can see how this could hurt your feelings. If you were talking about threesomes and banging some other man on the tv, I’m sure he wouldn’t tolerate it at all. Plus calling your ass “cottage cheese” doesn’t seem like a compliment any way you slice it. If this is how he acts pretty often (getting drunk, talking up other women and slick putting you down) I’d break up with him, because... red flags abound. If this was the first time he’s done this, and when you brought it to his attention he expre…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 06:51 PM
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I would like to work out 3 times a week this month- pack my gym bag and hit the gym downstairs after work on T/W/Th I would also like to eat takeout only once a week-Hard one for me. Grocery shop and make a meal plan for the week for quick to prepare meals and snacks after work, take leftovers for lunch and only eat out with friends on Saturdays. Also, Save $250 for moving costs and pay $200 off in credit card debt. Plan to put away $125 each pay cycle via DD and pay $100 on my CC each paycheck.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 07:22 PM
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We don’t work for the same people, just in the same office
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 09:17 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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