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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Broken plate is txting me "I miss you"thank you, you're def right... she just txted me this: "I'm sorry if my message came off as weird or needy or whatever. Maybe I shouldn't text you but I really just had/have to. It wasn't impulsive. I don't mean to drag this on, it's just really hard because I miss you and I miss spending time with you. Is this stupid? I think you might feel the same " i don't necessarily want to be babied, but wat do? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you make a girl ok with the fact that you aren't monogamous?UPDATE: she keeps txting me that she misses me, and we've been talking on the phone... How do i treat this... as a comfort test? apply more beta? Or when she says "i miss you" should I apply the old "I know"? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 04:37 AM |
| – | How do you make a girl ok with the fact that you aren't monogamous?thank you. What is an EC? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to girls that are busy on suggested date time?just the answer I was looking for. "ok, have fun", is great because it seems like every time this happens I start suggesting other times and it comes across as me being super interested, and ends up failing all the time. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 08:37 PM |
| – | How do you make a girl ok with the fact that you aren't monogamous?Yeah, I suppose it was a mistake to call her today and beta out by telling her I miss her. I've always had issues with being overly alpha with her and hurting her, and almost making her leave, so at some point I started to bring in more beta to keep her from dreading herself to death. I suppose I should just cut off contact with her... though the other part of me just wants to be friends tbh. I would prefer to be friends with no sex, and get sex elsewhere, than to not talk to her ever again. Alr… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 02:04 AM |
| – | Is it ever good to let her know that you are displeased with her behaviour directly? When?hmm well maybe i am over compensating with dread again, she didnt really misbehave tbh more like she just gave me some subtle hints that she may be appreciating me slighty less then she did before, which makes me smash the dread button, so I gave some quick cold responses via txt today, and now she senses that something is "wrong" and asks me "whats wrong" and says that we promised to tell each other when something was bothering us, obviously i can't tell her that im worried she doesn't worship … | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 03:02 AM |
| – | FWB Breakup, need advice plz!ya know, i've been thinking about it and I think this situation is a bit different, I think they are comfort tests. I think its because I have been overly alpha towards her, she has been expressing her insecurities and trying to lock me down for a while now. I sent her a reply asking when can I pick up my stuff from her place, and just hasnt responded, I'm pretty sure she is an emotional mess now, in which case maybe I need to beta it up. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 08:00 PM |
| – | FWB Breakup, need advice plz!true. The way I was thinking, she worded it fairly indecisively "and I dont want to continue this, take care", which kind of makes me thinks she is shit testing. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 06:03 PM |
| 3 | What do after a soft next when she wants to talk about it?The soft next will be a short 2 day thing. I will not be talking to her during it. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/17 02:20 AM |
| – | How do you ask a plate if you can go to her place without sounding betathat works when I know that she is free, but there are some nights where I dont know if she is free. I have used that, but it just doesnt work all the time. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP feel about plates seeing other men?thx for the very helpful feedback | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 05:00 AM |
| – | How does TRP feel about plates seeing other men?I'm starting to think maybe I over dreaded her, because she asked recently why I only see her once a week and if its because i was busy or because i only wanted to once a week, and I said both. She said that made her sad. I noticed she deleted me on tinder (w/e i've been seeing her for a couple months), but i also ran into her again on tinder with new pics and new profile haha. Its interesting because I know that she is hungry for me. She told me recently that she was dating other people too and… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP feel about plates seeing other men?exactly… I think im just going to tell her im going to use a condom next time because its the responsible thing to do if we are seeing other people. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 05:49 PM |
| – | How to get her to make up for trash behaviour without losing her respect.What do you mean i cant negotiate desire, because she already desires me. She wants me to forgive her, she bailed because it was a touchy subject (which was unavoidable at the time) and she got emotional. Her last txt to me was praising me for how she thought I was "smart, interesting and all around great", which I never responded to. I just want some advice on how to smoothly go forward with her because i think that even just expressing that i am still interested after what she did will make me… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/17 10:14 PM |
| – | Plate utterly fails her own poorly executed shit test"Let her make it up to you in the way that you want" isnt this an ultimatum, and therefore not a good idea? | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 05:47 PM |
| -2 | Plate utterly fails her own poorly executed shit testshe didnt use the word shit test we had a mutual understanding that it was "over dramatic" and "testy" | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 05:00 PM |
| – | Dating a rich, potential LTR girl… should I allow her to pay for my orders?inherited | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:35 PM |
| – | "I want you to make me cum in your mouth" VS "I want to cum in your mouth"what do you think dirty talk is? Telling girls what you want to do to them… they love that shit. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | "I want you to make me cum in your mouth" VS "I want to cum in your mouth"Read the post before commenting. No question is being asked. The blow job is already happening, I am taking about "dirty talk". Its relation to TRP is in regards to dominance and psychology. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 10:23 PM |
| – | How to txt plate for hookup effectively?Just because you can get away with "hey lets fuck" with some girls though… does that mean there is nothing to gain from going about it more delicately, is what i'm wondering. Which demonstrates value more? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Plate says "I want to see you soon" I reply "already?", she apologizes...do you think i should ask her why she feel the need to say sorry when i see her next? I ended up responding with, "thats ok, I'll see you next week" | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 04:11 PM |
| – | No more blowjobs from platewell she is begging to see me every night and I consistently reject some of them, my smv is definitely high enough, thats not what is happening here. It was only one time i didnt get a BJ, and I am just assuming why that could be. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/17 10:16 PM |
| 1 | No more blowjobs from plateShe wants commitment from me, she is definitely getting attached. Thats the problem with posting on here though I can only put in so much context without writing a book. Also, run on sentences on a throwaway reddit account does not mean much. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?haha those are fantastic, i find those witty ones difficult to come up with… i suppose I'll get more creative ideas the more i do it. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/17 06:42 AM |
| – | Is this a shit test?yeah, i'm escalating. I'm plating her though and she is so hungry that she basically makes it too easy, i dont initiate txts, she txts me a lot, and doesn't really give me the opportunity initiate, i end up turning her down half the time. If I want to fuck her, i will make it happen (i'd only want to like once a week), but she ends up txting every other day or more, so i end up saying im busy quite a bit. I need a good response to her shit test that keeps coming up… i think its coming up the sam… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Where does traditionalism fit with the TRP? Is TRP reactionary?ugh i've been here for a while I realize all that… i'm trying to here peoples thoughts on the sociological origin of TRP. TRP could not have existed 100 years ago, what are the conditions that made this movement develop | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Enlightened beta (or not?), advice needed.yeah, I just want to plate her. These are all pretty good. I think i said something simple like "well, yes", but i could've been more dominant and confident with it. I wonder if I gave her one of the more ballsy answers if she would get all feminist pissy… Thats sort of what I worry about, if I am too dominant that she may go on a rant about the patriarchy or something. What do you think? Are feminists really just like normal girls that want to be dominated despite what their ideology is telling… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/16 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Enlightened beta (or not?), advice needed.I like it… that also brings something else up. Right before banging her she got a call from a girlfriend and they talked for like 10 minutes while I waited watching something on tv. Do you think this acceptable? I didn't say anything afterwards, should I have? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/16 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Enlightened beta (or not?), advice needed.thats odd I thought I made paragraphs. thanks for the response though. What would you say to a girl that says stuff like "all you and other men want is sex, is that all you invited me over for?" | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 08:45 PM |
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