dickiebass Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Sexual Incompatibility		dickiebass	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/04/15 06:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Sexual Incompatibility True. I really need to work on keeping frame. I think I did alright because I didn't pout about it (which I have done in the past). I left the room and did watched Game of Thrones and finished up balancing my finances (both things I wanted to do). I did get upset though and have a tendency to do that. It doesn't help the situation at all ever. So much to learn!	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/04/15 06:55 PM
3	Sexual Incompatibility I would say I have done 1 & 2 and am currently working on 3 & 4. Guess I got a ways to go!	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/04/15 06:44 PM
1	Sexual Incompatibility Yes I would say I am above her SMV. She is very close to approaching or has blew past the wall. She stays in shape but has had two of my kids. I just keep getting better with age (35). I did read SGM. I have applied some of the knowledge but a lot of it is so far off of where I am currently at especially with variety and immersion (variety is difficult with her limited preferences and obviously with my post, immersion ain't happening for her).	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/04/15 06:42 PM
2	Dial back your attention to increase her desire I like that perspective. Thanks for taking the time to respond. I guess I'm going to have to really work on NGAF about how she is doing emotionally (depression/anxiety) during these times of withdrawal so I can lessen the urge to reconnect prematurely. I do find that challenging though because we have kids and when she is not well emotionally, the kids suffer as a result. Thanks again, your input is greatly appreciated!	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/04/15 03:32 PM
1	Dial back your attention to increase her desire Awesome! Thanks for the offer. It's nice to know there are like minded folks out there.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/04/15 03:02 PM
3	Dial back your attention to increase her desire I can see that now. I do find it somewhat confusing though. I have come to understand that I should always be escalating/initiating. I mean if I feel like getting busy, I should try right? Even if it is in the midst of a situation like this? It seems to me that if I stay distant as a punishment for her bad behavior, it comes off as "beta" or pouting. What do you think?	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/04/15 01:37 AM
2	Dial back your attention to increase her desire Apparently not long enough. Your response makes a lot of sense. Thanks so much for the reply!	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/04/15 10:24 PM
2	Dial back your attention to increase her desire I try this but it never seems to work out for me. Whenever I with hold attention in response to bad behavior, my wife also withdraws. She assumes I'm mad at her (probably due to my previous BP behavior) so she checks out (spends more time on her phone, little to no physical contact, acts depressed, etc.) until I re-initiate attention. I'm concerned if I don't eventually reconnect it won't ever happen. What am I doing wrong?	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/04/15 09:34 PM