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Yes, very normal. anybody else like buck teeth and maybe some gaps on women? anybody else like weird bendy fingers and toes? anybody else love muscle women? some people say women can't be muscular and i strongly disagree. i love snowboarding and skiing women because everybody's got healthy legs. i love rock climbing women for their defined shoulders and core. Calloused hands on women are an instant turn on. goddamn, i love the olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:01 AM
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Whoa, this guy is screwed up. Probably an untreated trauma survivor. seriously, he hasn't gotten treatment for whatever happened between him and his ex. The part where he claims that most non-heterosexual sexual orientations are a result of trauma is an extremely harmful myth that's been spread by the christian right wing for a long time. This is the exact same rhetoric that christians use to push gay-to-straight conversion programs. This is a trojan horse for right wing homophobia. This is a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:17 PM
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dudes can wear make up already. i like to put on eyeliner, mascara, maybe some eye shadow when i go to concerts or clubs or something artsy fartsy. i ask my lady friends to put it on me. it's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 10:15 PM
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"Intimidated" isn't the right word, but incompatible is better. I'm not necessarily intimidated by women who make a lot more money or are much more ambitious (i'm intimidated by women with intimidating personalities, though), but i seriously doubt that all of them would be happy in a long term relationship with a man who made less money and had less ambition. I'm concerned that they would grow to resent me and leave me if i don't advance my career and make more money, which is an issue of incomp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:57 PM
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Plastics derived from petroleum are also largely responsible for the drop in testosterone across the world. Remember when BPA was banned for this reason? well there are many types of similar plastics that are still being used for our food and domestic product packaging today. it's silly how dudes are imagining a feminist conspiracy theory and veganism to explain dropping testosterone when we already know that it's due to industrial toxins in our environment combined with poor diets and sedentary…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 09:21 PM
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Sounds like an opinion based on suspsions and assumptions that don't stand up in court. I hope you're ready to be disappointed and confused about this for the reat of your life because this has already been settled in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:28 AM
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If you're right and you've got proof, why are you wasting time telling me about it on an incel reddit board? There are plenty of conservative lawyers who would take on this case pro bono. There are plenty of lawyers that specialize in auditing non-profits. What did your lawyer say when you spoke to him about it last time? Did you write to your governor? Did you write a letter to one of your law professors?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:32 PM
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Your concern might make sense if planned parenthood was a for-profit business, but it is a non-profit. It is illegal for planned parenthood to do what you suggest its doing, and theres no evidence for it. Show me the crime that has ocurred. Until then, you've only got a conspiracy theory about embezzled federal funds and violationof non-profit laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:19 PM
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Everyone who gets an abortion pays for it themselves, though. Planned parenthood has never just handed out free money to people who get abortions. No taxpayer dollars are paying for abortions because the cost of abortions are 100% covered by the people who get them. Where are you getting this assumption that people are getting free federal financial aid for abortions? Can you show me any example of that? In reality, you have to pay for the costs of abortion yourself. I know this because i know p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 07:08 PM
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Do you have any evidence that anyone in the USA has received free funds from planned parenthood for an abortion? How exactly are people getting funds for abortions from planned parenthood?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:54 PM
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If you dont have any evidence for your claim, then its imaginary. You're wasting your hate hamster on an issue that isn't even real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:44 PM
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Planned parenthood does a lot more than abortions. Most of their services are for women's health and STD testing. If you have any hard evidence that any of that federal funding is going to pay for elective abortions, i'd love to hear it. That would be a federal crime, and it would be easy to prosecute.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:38 PM
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Elective abortions have not been federally funded in the USA since the Hyde amendment. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hyde_Amendment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:49 PM
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I resented my own sex drive when i wasn't having enough sex. But nah, i've never resented women for looking sexy. It's more like i just cursed my own hormones for making me so horny when sex was not going to happen. And that's something that every dude just has to bottle up inside because it's as ubiquitous and incurable as old age. I resent how sex and titties are used in advertising and entertainment to get my involuntary attention. Now that i'm watching a bunch of anime i missed over the last…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 06:17 PM
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Just-world delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 11:56 PM
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Since i'm a straight white guy living in a very white place, i am not in danger as often as my female counterparts. When we go out drinking, i hardly have to worry about getting roofied or getting my crotch grabbed by strangers. I'm never cornered by people who won't take no for an answer. Even when gay guys are too forward with me, i've never been afraid of people making sexual advances because i'm ready to fight off an average dude. My female friends have to worry about this shit all the time,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:43 PM
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That's true. I live in a very liberal city, and i take it for granted. I moved away from my home in Texas to get away from conservative book burners. That was easy to do in the USA, but its not as easy for a Russian, Arab, or Hispanic person to just pick up their lives and immigrate to a better country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:57 PM
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I've always had close female friends. My primary hang is a feisty lesbian. She's great. We talk about hot girls a lot. I think the best aspect of being platonically close to women is that it keeps me humble and keeps me cognizant of the fear women have of men. I always hear stories about creepy dudes they deal with regularly downtown, and it helps me to be a more sensitive person. Dudes who have no female friends tend to be a lot creepier because they aren't aware of how their actions are percei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:15 PM
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Look up Pakistani boy love traditions, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:54 PM
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I feel sorry for anyone who still cares what homophobes think. Homophobes tend to be ignorant, garbage people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:52 PM
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If you had to pay people to be friends with you, they wouldn't be real friends. Spending time with fake friends who you have to pay is not validating. Its sad. All of this is true for sex. If you have to pay someone to have sex with you, then its not real sexual validation. Its just a performance you paid for. You still don't get to feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:47 PM
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Divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:40 PM
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Its sour grapes. Dudes who actually have sex with lots of women never talk about chastity or any of this tradcon nonsense. Dudes who fail to have enough sex to feel satisfied often develop revenge fantasies against women who do have sex. After reading through this thread, dudes who desire virgin women are incredibly insecure about their own attractiveness and value. Lots of guys in this thread seem to be worried that they can't compete with women's past ex boyfriends. These guys are saying that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:16 PM
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I've been on both extremes of sex fulfillelment. I've been through soul crushing dry spells followed by some amazing slutty years, and sexless depression is infinitely worse than depression when you're still having sex. This is kinda like saying, "more money, more problems", which is true in a way, but being rich with responsibilities is still infinitely better than starving and being homeless. Getting bored with the availability of sex is way better than missing the sex and experiences you neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:00 PM
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I always split the bill during the first few dates. I live in a very liberal city, and it's the norm to split bills. I tend to date educated feminist women, and its never been an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:32 PM
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stay in conservativeland and punch walls, then. stay ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:35 PM
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looks like someone's feeling insecure. are your feelings hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:29 PM
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What laws are progressives trying pass that prevent you from doing what you want? You can still go to church and marry whoever you want freely. Conservatives can still live exactly like they did in the past, and progressive law won't stop you. Really, i don't don't care what you do with your life, and progressives do not want to legislate how people's personal relationships are run. You can even smoke marijuana under progressive law, while conservatives still throw you in jail for it. Contempora…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 04:59 PM
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You're describing men with a madonna/whore complex. Some men are like that, namely conservatives and any other dudes who have a negative relationship with sex and women. But that doesn't describe myself or my friends. Your exes were all assholes, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 02:25 AM
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I think it'd be more accurate to call out conservatives than straight people on this issue. Progressive straight dudes tend to despise conservatives for all the same reasons that you do. I moved my life 800 miles away from the south to get away from Texan conservativism and homophobia, so I'm right there with you. Conservatives should worry about their own shitty, hateful cultural legacy instead of trying to legislate how other people live.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:57 AM
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Nah, he's defineitly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:37 PM
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No, we don't. Sharing nude pics like that is extremely low class. Bragging about sexual conquests belies insecurity. Get smarter friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:28 PM
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Immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:57 PM
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*Ignorant bitter old jaded hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:37 PM
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I've slept with a few women who always asked for hard jackhammering. It was the only way they could achieve a vaginal orgasm. I didn't like doing it all the time, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:35 PM
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I'm totally honest about my sexual history if they really want to know. Some women told me that my past is too slutty for them, and that's just fine. This has never been as issue for me because i'm not interested in tradcon women. If someone doesn't like your sexual history, then you're incompatible. Seek out people with similar sexual experience as your own. Relationships founded on lies do not last.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:29 PM
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My neighbors would rather call the police on one another than speak in person. Or even just call each other on the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:27 PM
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Sure, but that doesn't excuse all the virulent and obsessive anti-male bigotry amongst their user's commentary. Be careful that the bigotry doesn't rub off on you. You can be against male assholes, but you do not have to buy into wholesale hatred against a gender. I tend to agree with all those stories about their asshole ex boyfriends. Those stories are appalling. But i am not going to accept hate speech and bigotry just because some people had asshole exes in the past. My female exes literaly …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:11 PM
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Get out before you become a self-hating man, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:58 PM
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Take a close look at the power users and "coaches". They are single old bitter women who hate men, and they spend all their time screaming into the void of the internet about their hatred of men. I really hope that you don't end up like them. Get out before its too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:55 PM
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Yikes. FDS is a containment sub. You understand that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:47 PM
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I'm right there, too. In my experience, all of my female friends and family are better people as platonic friends than as romantic partners. When my lady friends get into relationships, i witness them become more annoying and irrational. They treat their romantic partners like an angry paranoid overbearing mother. They get extremely upset over little things that don't matter between friends. Everything must be cynically overanalyzed. Everything is perceived as a slight. All chill is thrown out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:42 PM
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Have fun with herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:53 PM
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No, because i never had a fucked up phase like that. I cheated once when i was a teenager, and i felt so bad that i never did again. You created some of those FDS crazies with your past behavior! I'm glad you've reformed, but damn. Dudes really need to treat women with care, or else we will end up with hordes of mentally ill man-hating middle aged women. Kinda like right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:36 PM
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Just a PSA: tobacco use is a leading cause of erectile dysfunction. Using tobacco drastically reduces capillary blood flow. This also hastens hair loss as you age. Don't smoke, it will make you bald and impotent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:52 PM
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Oh geez, this brings back some embarrassing memories. My mom tried to set me up a couple times in situatitions where her tennis buddies had a single daughter. She meant the best, but it was a very awkward generational faux pas. Once in highschool, she kept goading me to ask out a girl in one of my classes who was her friend's daughter. I was not attracted to her, and that girl never tried to say a word to me. Very awkward all around. She tried this shit again when i was 26 and visiting for thank…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:34 PM
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You're right, some women have stronger sex drives than others. Why do low libido women always try to assert that the majority of women are low libido? That hasn't been my experience with women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:39 AM
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The best way i can relate the male sex drive to women is to compare it to women's ovulation horniness. You know how a lot of women become comepletely different people when they ovulate? Suddenly, a lot of women become horny she-beasts, and they're aroused by contexts and people that wouldn't normally pique their interest. Sometimes they're so horny and hornomal during ovulation that it intereferes with concentration at work or school. Anybody who's lived with women knows exactly what i mean abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:41 AM
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No, it means your personality is driving them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:55 PM
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For myself, a 23 year old virgin has incompatible views about sex. It's ok to have sex! I have a lot of sexual experience, so i prefer someone similar. So to answer the OPs question, YES, you are definitely losing opportunities with a lot of men by staying a virgin and maintaining strict rules about sex. I don't want to deal with all that when there are other people available to date. I don't believe that "slutty" people are bad. I think social conservatives who fuss about virginity and chastity…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:50 PM
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I want to know why someone might have hangups about sex. Some people have functional and normal reasons to take it slow with sex, while others create absolutist rules for sex because they have extreme and negative views of sex and men. People who bring a lot of baggage about sex and their exes are horrible for my mental health, and i'm not prepared to be their therapist. Sex and relationships often become very transactional with those types of people, too. Dating for two months before having sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:01 AM
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Or 3, she's got issues with sex and her exes, and she needs to go to therapy. Enforcing a 3 month no sex rule on yourself sounds a lot like rehab.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:31 PM
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Normal women with healthy minds don't use these kinds of strict celibacy rules. In my experience, you have deep psychological issues with sex if you have to follow "3-month"rules. It's looks and feels very similar to rehab. I think those women should get off the internet and go to therapy so that they can attain a healthy view of sex and men before trying to date. Because when i hear someone say they have to follow strinct rules around sex, i assume she's got sexual issues that i do not want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:22 PM
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Thats very naive. OP admitted that she is a late bloomer 24 year old who's only dated 2 people. I hope that both of you grow out of the disney fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:31 PM
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The young male sex drive is totally irrational and frustrating because it doesn't stop. My sex drive was so frustrating from ages 16-22. If i wasn't having sex regularly, then i was in emotional pain and physical stress. Constant frustration and hunger for sex. I hated the feeling and it made me into a shitty person at times. I slept with women i wasn't attracted to because its all i could think about. Quite literally, yes, i held my nose and had regretable sex, and it was due to a high sex driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:53 PM
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I think the most common male fantasy is to have sex with a variety of women who are very enthusiastic about having sex with them. Not submission or power over women, but being desired by a variety of women. Absolutely degenerate, i know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:32 PM
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What the fuck? No. Young guys: don't fuck uggos and fatties unless you truly want to. The regret will weigh on your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 04:03 PM
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This bothers me a lot. I have witnessed many guys having risky and regretable sex just because they feelt like they had to rack up numbers and practice "closing." if a regular dude has slept with 30-50 or more people in the USA, some of them were fat, addicted, and risky in terms of STDs. People should never feel under pressure to have more sexual partners because it always leads to regret, shame, broken hearts, and diseases. My sincere wisdom to younger guys is: if you're not feeling 100% about…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:00 PM
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In talking to other guys and listening to my own feelings, i get the feeling that conventional relationships are just too much work. The last thing i want in my life is another obligation, and keeping girlfriends happy felt like taking on a second job. It requires so much bloody front-end investment that I'm burned out. Conventional relationships have been a huge source of stress in my life due to all the covert contracts, nagging, senseless arguments. Casual sex flings have made me so much happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:47 PM
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You need to stop going after the exact same types of girls. You're choosing violent, irrational women when you have the power to walk away. first and foremost, stop going after women who have a history of violence. Women who enjoy boxing and other real-life violence are always going to be like this. women who have a history of starting dramatic, violent arguments are always going to be like this. walk away as soon as you see the red flags, and STAY AWAY. don't go crawling back to them just becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:42 PM
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After pestering a partner for sex two or three times after they've said no, i would consider that coercisive. One "no" should be enough, but two "no's" is definitive. This should be more stringent if your partner is already trying to sleep. "Giving in" to sex should not be a norm unless both partners consent. Until you two have talked about it before sex, sober, and agreed to boundaries, its still grey territory that's ripe for abuse. And it's grey territory abusers are happy to abuse. I feel cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:22 AM
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Physically, yeah. Among women who aren't overweight, i can see beauty in at least 1/2 of women in my age range. So during times when i'm interested in casual sex, i don't have to be very picky (as long as i'm hanging out with a fit crowd). They're all cuties to varying degrees in my eyes, so personality and compatibility have become much more important than looks and style to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:44 PM
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My point is that employers used to provide annual raises to match the increases of inflation and cost of living when my dad was young, but that tradition is gone. if wages do not keep up with rising inflation and rising costs of living, the middle class disappears. Younger generations are being paid relatively less than older people were because employers aren't even attempting to keep wages up to date with inflation and costs of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 05:18 PM
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That's how it is in a lot of tech industries. Often times the best way to advance your career is to apply for new jobs and take better bids. If you haven't applied for other jobs to see how much you can make elsewhere, there's a good chance you're being under paid. Exploitation is the name of the game and loyalty to companies is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 02:14 AM
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When i worked in the oil industry as a geophysicist my dad asked me me what my annual raise was and if it exceeded the inflation rate. I laughed. He was under the impression that low-tier employees actually got raises, but in reality, the only time i gotna raise was when i threatened to leave the company for a better offer. It really shows just how bad employee pay and benefits have gotten, even if you get a fancy degree and work for oil giants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 06:46 PM
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Depending on how old you are and where you live, I'd say that criminal justice is much more punitive and hardass on minors than it was when my dad grew up. I think kids are in a lot more danger of facing life-altering criminal charges for typical teenage partying, curfew-breakage, illegal driving, fights, pranks, etc, than in the past. The culture of convicting children of crimes as if they were adults is a lot more prevalent than it used to be. And needless to say, everyone's legal paper trail …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:39 PM
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I think the numbers of conservatives and liberals in each age bracket are important. We have to remember that at least 50% of republicans are over the age of 50, and a lot more young men vote conservative than young women. Think about that. Overall, young conservative women are a small minority, so there probably aren't enough to match up with conservative guys. This is why conservative guys talk so much about buying mail order brides or going to the 3rd world t find a woman who can't say no. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:53 PM
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From my wide expertise in porn, MILF categories have become meaningless over the years because "MILFs" are now anyone over 27 years. MILF categories are now full of women younger than myself! As a society, we need to ensure that porn categories maintain their integrity and meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:09 PM
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This is highly divisive. I am very turned off by pregnancy. I hate it when pregger porn randomly pops up when i'm looking at porn. I cannot see pregnant women as sexual subjects. I'm sure I'd feel differently if i fell in love and intentionally got someone pregnant, though. That would be sentimental as fuck for me. I have no desire to seek out virgins or less experienced partners. I'm way too old and experienced to worry about virginity, innocence, or specific partner counts. A man who fusses ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:00 PM
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This may be the most ignorant comment i've ever read about aboutbeast asia. Social conservatism is at the center of power in east asian governemnts. Conservative ideals are the source of the cultural oppression I'm talking about. Are you so ignorant that you think all socialist governments are liberal? You need to read some actual history books and travel more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:10 PM
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Let me tell you about my time in thailand when i did a geological survey in college. Thailand is still very relgious and conservative. I got the clear message that i was not going to date any of the college girls i worked with because their culture is vehemently misogynistic. In their culture, virginity and purity is so highly valued that women fall into two groups: you're either a pure virgin with a chance to go to college and marry a rich guy, or else you're a low class slut who's doomed to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:07 PM
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Based japan is mostly sexless, too. Their strong traditions of sexual shame and hierarchical shame are breaking their young people and nobody's getting laid. The only people who glorify Japan's dead and dying traditions are nazi weebs who've never actually interacted with japanese people on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:30 PM
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Japan's traditional view of sexuality is so warped and based on ownership and propriety that young people arent having sex in japan. In particular, young japananese women are very unnattracted to the way traditional relationships and sex work in japan. Japan's conservative traditions in sex and relationahips are killing its young people, but like i said, cultural and political change is a lot slower in governmemts that still believe in totalitarianism. If you immerse yourself in japanese youth c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:24 PM
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You haven't been to east asia, huh? They are currently following the western sexual revolution, but its slow work because their cultures are so brutally oppressive towards any changes in principles, values, and ways of living. Many sexual revolutions in asia have been met with violence from the government. Trust me, common young asias want sexual freedom and sexual education like we have in the USA, but their oppressive tradcon governments and institutions have always been opposed to any changes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:52 PM
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You're right, american nightclubs are smaller. I wish the USA had more gigantic, open air night clubs like i saw in the netherlands. There are a couple clubs in my home city that have multiple rooms and outdoors areas so its not so crowded, but most clubs are too damned small and sweaty. In the states, you should look for specific dance clubs and events if you want more actual dancing. Also, go to concerts or bars with live bands if you want to dance. I always recommend seeing local jazz and lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:49 PM
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I disagree wholeheartedly because sex has always improved and managed my major depressive disorder. Any time i tried to take this naive advice and "just stop focusing on sex", it always made my depression a lot worse. Not having sex for long periods is extremely bad for my self esteem. People who suffer from recurring depression and low self esteem need a lot of validation and encouragement to get them out of a slump. Sex and intimacy does wonders to stave off low self esteem. Ill put it another…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:55 PM
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<3 gogol bordello.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:50 PM
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Thats certainly true and i've been there, too, as a dude. Personal responsibility and action is required to change those habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 12:50 PM
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Considering that so many women have trouble orgasming even with masturbation and vibrators, i think its safe to say that men generally have an easier time reaching orgasms than women. There are a significant number of women who can only orgasm while alone and have never orgasmed with a partner. There are a significant amount of women who have never had an orgasm at all, even with masturbation. A lot of women are so addicted to their personal masturbation routine and fantasies that they never lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:56 PM
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Nope, i call that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 02:01 PM
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Showing IOI's is not making a move. Asking someone out on a date is making a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:11 PM
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I define "making a move" as an action that can be rejected. The move has to involve a risk. Showing interest by making eye contact, giving compliments, laughing at jokes, etc. is not "making a move" because it's not a proposition that can be rejected. Making a move is asking someone on a date, putting your hands on someone in a romantic manner, going in for a kiss, asking someone to dance, or asking someone to come over to your place to for implied sex. All of these risk a rejection. Until you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:09 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:54 PM
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What does that have to do with abortion? Let me be clear about the laws in my country: taxpayer money cannot go towards funding elective abortions in the USA, and they never have. The Hyde amendment forbade it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:21 PM
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as long as they pay for it themselves. Which is the case roughly 0% of the time. What do you mean by this? Do you think women are receiving taxpayer money for elective abortions? Or do you mean that women's family usually pay for abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 01:48 PM
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Is there any evidence that basic care under medicaid and Medicare is unsustainable in the USA? The USA has the highest GDP in the world. Essentially, that makes the USA the wealthiest country in the world. Why is it that less wealthy countries, such as the UK and Canada, have provided free basic care to their citizens since world war 2? Its crazy to assert that the richest country with the highest corporate profits in the world can't sustain a system that provides basic healthcare to its citizen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:03 PM
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I agree, i consider the current system of healthcare through employment to be an utter failure. It enforces class divides and fosters distrust between employees and employers. Haves and have nots. Ill just say that recent expansions to medicaid has done wonders to reduce human misery in states that have attempted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 01:04 PM
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Im glad that petty street violence is way down and that younger guys don't feel like they have to prove themselves by getting into bar fights. I my short life, i've seen fewer and fewer drunken street fights, and the police take it more seriously. Thank the gods below because those idiots fucked up my nights out by getting the police involved. I'd say that this is a result of changing expectations of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 02:58 PM
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No, birth control is not cheap and easy to get without health insurance. To get a birth control prescription, you have to go in for a doctors appointment first. Thats costs at least $100 out of pocket. Wome often need multiple appointments to find the right kind of birth control and for checkups, so doctor's visits alone can easily cost several hundreds of dollars in a year. Without health insurance, birth control pills cost about $50 a month. Where i live, this cost of birth control without hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:50 PM
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You asked? It was copied from another response to a person that didn't understand why the native birth rate is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:29 PM
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That insurance issue has nothing to do with government assistance or taxpayer money. This is about private insurance provided by employers, and many employers don't want to provide insurance that covers birth control. The meat of this argument is whether employers have any right to decide what sort of healthcare people have access to. More of a worker's rights issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:27 PM
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Its unconstitutional to outlaw contraception, but conservatives have a very long track record of making it harder for people to get access to birth control. It took me about one minute to find this: conservatives want to make it harder for people to afford birth control by cutting off their insurance, which makes it especially harder for poor people to find access to it. https://www.cnn.com/2018/10/31/politics/trump-administration-birth-control-contraceptives-rule-change/index.html,?no-st=999999…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:07 PM
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Copied from another response. Do you understand why the native population growth is down? Its due to progressive public policy towards sex and birth control. This young generation of americans produces fewer unwanted babies because they use birth control and abortions. My argument is that progressive public policy is responsible for the current slow population growth. More abortions and more teenagers on birth control directly lead to a slower population growth, and we benefit immensely from it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:58 PM
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Do you understand why the native population growth is down? Its due to progressive public policy towards sex and birth control. This young generation of americans produces fewer unwanted babies because they use birth control and abortions. My argument is that progressive public policy is responsible for the current slow population growth. More abortions and more teenagers on birth control directly lead to a slower population growth, and we benefit immensely from it. Fewer unwanted children leads…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:55 PM
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Nah, im not interested in butt stuff either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 02:15 PM
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Thats interesting! Its easy to forget how devastating those diseases were now that they've been erdicated. I also didn't know that women's first birth was so deadly in the past. I've got a hunch that has to do with more women having babies before they reached adulthood in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 03:28 PM
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What will happen in the future? The USA is going to end up like every other overly populated country if we don't curb population growth. The American continents have only been inhabited by westerners for 400 years, and the population has jumped from about 1 million to 330 million in the USA in that time. If we ignore this issue, the LA coast is going to look like Beijing in another few generations. This is a real threat, and we don't have time to fuss about what you learned in bible study. The b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:21 PM
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Abortion isn't a sign of moral or ethical decay. Its a necessary and pragmatic response to the human population boom. The human population has doubled in 50 years, and it's largely do to advances in medicine. Child mortality rates have fallen dramatically. 100 years ago, most people lost a child before they reached adulthood, and women's leading cause of death was childbirth. Modern medicine solved those problems but it also drastically tipped the population replacement balance. If people don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:34 PM
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Thats reasonable. Im a dude and i feel the same way. I have a penchant for red flags so i try to be more skeptical. I've already had plenty of sex and made plenty more mistakes along the way, and i'd like to make better decisions in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:21 PM
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Its a start, but new clothes and interior decorating doesn't cure major depressive disorder or ongoing cognitive and mood dysfunction caused by childhood trauma. A lot of the people you want to help are so full of social anxiety and self hatred that they would never want to appear on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:08 PM
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Im a grad student, and this is way out of line for academic researchers. If one of my professors was caught submitting fake papers to another department in an attempt to deceive and discredit them, it would be a huge embarrassment for the entire university. They would lose all credibility and would be fired immediately. Deceit is not a tool we use in academic research. It sets a bad example for the students. If you follow this professor's example, you will lose credibility as a researcher. Stick…
/r/MensRights27/07/19 09:42 PM
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Right, it never affected your career or anything else very important to you. Some people's sex drives do. Empathy! Use it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:53 PM
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Antidepressants are not addictive. Who told you that? SSRI's can cause withdrawal symptoms if you stop taking them suddenly, but they lack any addictive quality. Really, i'm speaking from 15 years of experience with different antidepressants. Anti depressants do not cause dependency and compulsive desire for the medications. Anti depressants are actually used to help people ween themselves off other drug addictions. I understand that psychiatry is very taboo in South america. Pay attention to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:47 PM
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Does your sex drive disrupt concentration at work or school to the point that it affects your performance and career prospects? That is a reality for some people, and its not a matter of self control. I know you think you sex drive is high, but if your sex drive hasn't caused real problems for you, it isn't that high at all. You really have no clue how difficult it is for other people to deal with their sex drives when it's strong enough to disrupt their livelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:36 PM
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Consider trying SSRI medication. Effexor and pristiq drastically reduced my sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:26 PM
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I've been on anti depressants that totally killed my sex drive. I think a lot of depressed guys could benefit from a period of antidepressants that reduce sex drive because i saw the world differently once i no longer hungered for sex all the time. It was kinda nice to not yearn and worry about sex every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 04:25 PM
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Oh shit, grim fandango! It got an HD remaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 11:01 PM
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Never. Lots of gay dudes give me chances and i'm just not attracted to men. The whole fetish about "converting straight men" is a little annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:11 PM
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Yes, its totally fine for pregnant women to have one drink a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:00 PM
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Where in the hell can i find mescaline these days? I had it once at a festival in 2009 and have never saw it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:54 PM
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Over the last 20 years or so, the narrative has changed from, "men are too emotionallay closed off and should open up and talk about their feelings with their girlfriends," to, "men need to stop sharing their ugly feelings with their girlfriends and dump it on someone else because it's not sexy and too much emotional labor." In my opinion, its much more difficult to feel empathy and sympathy for men than for women. People feel somewhat repulsed when men show weakness or mental illness. Nobody wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:47 PM
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Its true. Ketamine gas is used to treat extreme cases of depression, but thats different from the party drug ketamine. My psychiatrist's office performs those new ketamine treatments. Theres some evidence that psylocibin helps treat major depressive disorder, but it's not well studied since its been a schedule 1 drug for generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 02:26 PM
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There is no actual evidence that porn leads to rape. Over the last couple decades, violent sex crimes have actually steadily reduced in the USA even as porn became more and more available. In terms of causing violent or criminal behavior, porn is no more dangerous than violent movies and videogames. Violent videogames do not cause people to become violent in real life, and violent porn does not cause people to go out and rape. There really is no evidence for it. Don't just listen to the media in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:57 PM
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Thats great. You two sound functional and im a tad envious. An extreme case of nagging the OP is talking about looks like, "i shouldn't have to tell you that this place is a mess and this is a sign that you don't care about our relationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:39 PM
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The problem is that these guys are suffering mental problems, and the military has a shitty record with treating mental illness. Any organization that produces such shamefully high rates of suicide and mental illness really can't claim any moral high ground on how to live a healthy life. Exercise is great, teamwork is great, discipline is great, but men can find all of these things outside of organizations that drive men to violence and suicide. Honestly dude, stay out of younger people's lives …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 09:28 PM
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Does he nag you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:24 PM
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Are you living under a rock? I think the rise in suicides and mass murders speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 08:14 PM
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Yep, you're right. Obsession with virginity and purity is a sign of a nasty madonna/whore complex. They also tend to be possesive and codependent in relationships. Like you said, i've never met a mentally healthy man who was obsessed with virginity and female purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:17 PM
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Oh shit, i failed to recognize that this was shit post. I thought you were a woman asking a real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:38 PM
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You sound a little distressed from the wording in your title.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:31 PM
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I wouldn't stress about this. There are still plenty of people who want marriage and kids. Get off the internet and stop focusing on the few guys who don't want marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:18 PM
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Its good to self reflect. A lot of your comments about lesser men come across as bullying for the sake of propping yourself up. You repeatedly make it clear that you are better than those guys. Did you bully others when you were a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:14 PM
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Mentally ill, he said. That article you linked didn't talk about mental health. It is a fact that mentally unhealthy men tend to have trouble maintaining long term relationships and are less likely to marry and stay married. Isn't that obvious and self explanatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:56 PM
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This is all true. Good marriages are very good for men's health. My parents have been married almost 40 years, and their relationship is wonderful. But remember, this is only true for people with happy and sucessful marriages. What happens to all the guys who try to have happy marriages but end up divorced? Their health takes a huge hit. Divorced men commit suicide at much higher rates than never-divorced men. Never-married men are often better off than men who go through horrible divorces. When…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:29 PM
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For me it really was horniness. I knew better than to date some girls, and my parents always have me great advice on how to avoid the wrong girls, but i didn't care. I needed sex, period. I couldn't stop thinking about it until i grew older.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 03:10 PM
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I've never heard of divorce parties but that sounds revolting. All of the divorces i witnessed were traumatic for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:25 PM
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We are changing lives and opening doors here, people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:13 PM
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Well the kinds of ballbusting you like are a fairly common kink. You're a natural! Besides, most dominatrix are 30s and up because it requires confidence and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 07:06 PM
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Two things. I agree with you that it's ridiculous when people get angry about other people's sex lives. I don't understand dudes who use 'slut' as an insult. Why even care and get flustered? If someone isn't compatible with you, then just move on and find someone else. I guess that traditional values and norms die hard, and slut shaming is a very strong tradition in the USA. The other issue is why men gain status and respect for sexual conquests while women don't. It's not a huge accomplishment …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:51 PM
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This is hilarious. Real question that you probably get a lot... Have you considered being a dominatrix for hire? You've already got the financial humilation act down, and that seems to be popular. My ex did it for a bit and she made a lot of fast money treating rich guys like trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:55 PM
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Because we are too horny and naive when we are young to know better! Im a lot more picky about personality lifestyle now that I'm older and have suffered the consequences of blindly following my dick. The average young man really doesn't have any power. Nobody cares if an average guy complains about women. The resounding answer is, "well you aren't getting laid then!" Average young guys don't have a lot of opportunities for sex, so they tend to take what they can get. Attractive guys have some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 05:30 PM
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I hang out with women more than men these days. My best friend is a younger lesbian, and she's like my little sister. I think you're right about the correlation between certain attitudes and beliefs about women and the amount of time they spend socializing with women. If you never interact with a demographic, then you won't feel empathy for them and it's easy to dismiss their grievances. Out of sight, out of mind. Xenophobia constantly creeps into the human mind, and the cure is to personally in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:55 PM
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I'm very close woth a polyamourous couple. They've been together over 10 years and got married last year. I think they work together because both of them really do have enough emotional control to deal with the inevitable envy, jealousy, and insecurity. They also have very good communication, and they agree to close the relationship for any reason if one person doesn't feel right about it. For example, their relationship was closed for a year before their wedding because it was such a stressful …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:15 PM
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If this is news to you, it means you take a lot for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 11:34 AM
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Thats true. Really extroverted girls i dated in the past all had rebounds right after our breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:08 PM
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Yeah, but it was a lot harder to resist when i was younger and desperate for sex and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 02:57 PM
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I always hear people complain about dating in the the northwest because it seems like people are very standoffish and difficult to meet. Keep your chin up and keep trying, and remember that bars and clubs are always a crap shoot. Keep your eyes open for the friendly ones and try not to dwell on rejections. You'll drive yourself crazy if you have to find a rational explanation for every rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:06 PM
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I avoid so hard that i'm going to avoid finishing this response
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:59 PM
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Thats a pretty good synopsis. But are American men the worst? Lol, no, you need to travel the world more. The most emotionally immature men I've come across were extremely rich and pampered young men from Saudi Arabian families, who i met in college. They take entitlement to extremes. I like that people are talking about internal and external emotional influence. Cognitive behavioral therapy improved my life a lot because you 🎶Can't buy me love🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:51 PM
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Yikes. You didn't read the data, denied it, and then you make an accusation of arguing in bad faith. Thats projection, and you have a serious problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 01:51 PM
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I had to put my old cat to sleep last month and i've cried a lot since then. But you just proved the point men have been telling you with your edit. When a man enters a period of grief or depression, psychotic women like you betray them and go in for the kill. We are trying to warn all the young innocent guys to stay away from women like you. They deserve better than women who will gladly kick them while they are down. So, thank you for continuing to be a shining example of one type of woman men…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 05:02 PM
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Your friend is right about losing desire for random hookups once you've had your fill. Once you've fucked enough girls to gain confidence and regrets, you become more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:43 PM
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Its rare. The most hostility i ever get from women is along the lines of, "give fat women a chance!" I try to sympathize with women because it must be so scary and annoying when dudes get angry at you after being rejected. Those men are really fucking things up for everyone else who wants to be chill and respectful. There should be a trashy reality TV show where men's shitty online dating messages are revealed to their mothers in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:14 PM
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What you described is called rejection. And yes, i've been rejected the exact same way and it hurt a lot. I should not have gotten attached to women who clearly didn't want a relationship with me. It was my own fault because i didn't have the courage to say that i wanted a relationship. "Maybe if we kept having sex and never talk about my feelings she would eventually see me differently..." LOL. If you want to avoid this situation, my advice is to either: A) Don't have casual sex until you've ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 03:40 PM
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Well... Attractive women are literally becoming more scarce in the USA with the rise of poor health and obesity... I think a lot of men are willing to accept less emotional chemistry as long as she stays hot and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 03:05 PM
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logical fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 03:16 PM
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You know... it's often easier to just let women do inappropriate or uncomfortable things (like unwanted touching and invading personal space) than it is to make a big deal out of it. If Keanu made a public complaint about women getting too handsy with him, it wouldn't be good for his career or personal life. Some people would call him gay. Some people would hate him just because they wanted to defend their other celebrity deities. It could spin into an ugly PR nightmare so easily, so men like Ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 03:06 PM
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What about women who don't want to be be step moms to other people's kids? I've heard lots of women say that they would never want to be a step mom because they wanted to focus on having their own children. I think that's totally fine. They should pursue their hopes and dreams of raising their own kids. Men feel the same way. I think all human beings have a drive to invest in their own biological children above others. You're really reaching far to spin this in a way that rationalizes your hatre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 02:42 PM
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ad hominem. try again without using logical fallacies, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 02:36 PM
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Based on your comments, I don't believe you actually care about what other fat girls do. You included fat girls in this discussion as lip service. I'm just informing you that it's transparent. Besides, you really can't compare height with weight. This is why people are giving you shit for comparing the plight of short men to fat women. People cannot change their height. They are born with it. Weight and fitness are a result of your daily choices, and your state of fitness says a lot about your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:41 PM
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Kinda seems like you're putting down short men to make yourself feel better by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:03 PM
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Ew!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:55 PM
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From what I've seen, views towards sex are mostly shaped by class and culture. People tend to adopt the same principles, values, and traditions that they observed in their home as kids. This became very clear when i went to a college and met a lot of people from diverse backgrounds. These people were all very intelligent because School of Mines is not an easy college, but some people had huge logical blind spots when it came to sex and relationships. People who came from low class homes and very…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 03:05 PM
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Debtors prisons are a stupid idea, but this is one issue that can't be solved any other way. There have to be some tangible deterrents to keep people from practicing unsafe sex and leaving impovished bastards and orphans everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 01:22 PM
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I came to that same conclusion after i had all the casual sex i wanted. You figured it out a lot earlier than i did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 01:18 PM
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I hardly ever see guys once they get married. Getting married usually takes a guy out of a social network because he has other things to do. Marriage and child status definitely affected men's careers when i worked as a white collar engineer in the oil industry. Men who are married with children are less likely to take large risks in their career, so they are often favored for positions that benefit from lots of in-house experience. Men without children are a lot more likely to jump between empl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 01:06 PM
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This will be a moot point in another few generations because medical genetic testing is blowing up. At least among the rich. Not sure about paternity? Do it in style and buy your family a 23 and Me membership!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 12:40 PM
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What kind of hobbies do you like? In my life, making new friends in hobbies i love always lead to the best relationships. For example, i love snowboarding so i started working at a ski resort on my weekends, and i met a lot of awesome women who were on the same page. I love athletic stoner women with strong legs, so that's my scene. What kind of guys do you like? Where do those guys hang out? The venue or hobby doesnt matter as long as the scene has the sorts of guys you're looking for. You can …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 12:16 PM
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First i'll say that I care about all of this because i used to be one of those cringeworthy resentful dudes stuck in this vicious cycle, and I got out. I really was doing it to myself all along. my problems weren't caused by "society" and "chads" and "the media" taking all the women and convincing them to hate me. My relationship problems were due to my own shitty habits, social skills, self-talk, and beliefs. I had to change myself from the inside out because society wasn't going to bend over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:24 PM
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I feel sorry for women who fall into this thinking. While you're focusing about playing hard to get and being jealous of other girls, all of those "pick me girls" are out there talking to guys and going on dates and getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:35 PM
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When that movie came out, it really bothered me how so many women saw that character as some sort of champion martyr. That character became criminally insane due to her own insecure obsessions and unmanaged mental illness, and it drove her to fuck up other people's lives. I think that character should be an example of how NOT to think and behave. If you relate to the villain in Gone Girl and defend her insanity, you need years of therapy to fix your issues with jealousy and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 12:57 PM
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"Section 8" also refers to a type of military discharge in the USA. That is a much more common use of the term so thats what i thought you referred to. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Section_8_(military). Ever hear of "crazy 8's"? You are a greddy and selfish person. I would hazard a guess that people don't want to hang around you and you don't get invited out to things much. If you ever wondered why you're so lonely, it's because your principles and values are selfish and antisocial. Enjoy you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 01:16 PM
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Zing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 12:02 AM
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Oh look, another 50 year old woman speculating about what she thinks happens between men she's never met. I honestly don't have a clue about the male hierarchy she keeps going on about. Yawn. All of this says a lot more about this woman's warped, narrow world view than it does about real men living today. My hichschool football team was like sort of like this cliche male hierarchy that she's invented in her mind. But nothing like that exists in my adult life. Men who try to do the alpha/beta thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:55 PM
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I think you're right. Most of the dating advice for women i see is very coddling because that's what sells. It's comforting for people who need comfort. Real, pragmatic dating advice is often hurtful and makes people feel insecure and defensive. It's like a punch in the gut. If you're a pretty woman and you can't maintain committed relationships, I think you'd benefit from psychological counseling or "life coaching" a lot more than from dating advice. Changing bad behavioral and cognitive habits…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:14 PM
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Yes, this is real. I often masturbate just so i can concentrate more clearly. I actually think, "whew, its nice to have all that sex off my mind so i can think about something else."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 01:54 PM
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Even section 8 people? Those people are diagnosed with mental illnesses and are discharged from the army. Often times its due to the fucked up experiences they had in the military. You have some serious issues if you think we should even throw veterns to the gutter without public aid. Enjoy your loneliness well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 01:02 PM
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Women with serious codependence issues are like that. I want to reassure you that NAWALT, though. There is hope and you don't have to spend your life on codependent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 05:29 PM
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Of course. I don't keep those people in my life either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 04:17 PM
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my thoughts exactly. those kinds of women are emotionally draining. fun vampires. emotional terrorists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 02:17 PM
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from my perspective as a guy, women who enjoy more masculine, dangerous, outdoorsy hobbies are more interesting and are much lower maintenance. I'm an avid skiier and snowboarder, and the women who have the guts and drive to learn how to ski expert terrain tend to be more self reliant and vivacious. They are better at dealing with stress and danger. They tend to be more solution oriented and are better at solving problems. Women who have the guts to do dangerous shit with guys without complaint …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 01:56 PM
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Listen, i just told you that no tax payer money goes to voluntary abortions. That has never happened in the USA because it is illegal. Go look it up if you don't believe me. You're angry at women for fictional reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 01:24 PM
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So you're against abortion... Because you're worried about a hypothetical end-times race war? I mean this sincerely, please seek help before you ever hurt yourself or other innocent people. This is extremist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 04:41 PM
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I'm sorry, but tax dollars do not actually pay for anyone's voluntary abortion in the USA. The Hyde amendment from 1977 forbade the use of any federal funds for abortion except in the case of rape, incest, or endangerment to a person's life, and it still stands today. The only tax dollars that are spent on abortions are in cases of rape, incest, and life-threatening pregnancies, and it's done through each state's medicaid system. Are those people irresponsible? Should poor women with ectopic pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 04:17 PM
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Im sorry to break the fantasy, but this is a scam people use to get citizenship in 1st world countries. Why would those women stay any longer than it takes for them to get a green card? Also, why would you trust any of the figures these 3rd world pimps distribute?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 11:18 AM
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Treating people with respect and consideration has nothing you to with the "women are wonderful" phenomena. Besides, treating women like shit won't help you feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:34 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but i've never felt a strong interest in a woman for longer than a year at a time. I never seriously entertained the idea of having sex with only one person for my entire life, much less several years. I don't want kids either, so Im probably an outlier. I would be miserable if i had tried to follow the traditional path! I'd probably be divorced and I'd probably be a terrible sad dad to my hypothetical ex wive's children. I think a lot of people really aren't happy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:17 PM
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Ill try to be honest and really think about the girls i slept with but didn't introduce to friends. Sometimes it was class. I slept with some dirty hippie girls who believed in the healing powers of gems, and i didnt want to continue with them because I'm and damned geophysicist and i should know better. I slept with some hood punk girls and that was a big mistake because their friends were trash. I slept with fat girls and uglier girls a few times because huge titties are intoxicating, but that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:31 PM
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You're right. I think all the guys who say that men only care about looks are still young and don't have enough relationship experience. I felt like that when i was younger because i was horny beyond belief and because i placed women on a pedestal. When i was attracted to a woman, she seemed perfect in every way! Now i can much more easily separate my feelings of lust and attraction from rational judgement. Hot girls are just hot to me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 04:20 PM
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You forgot about all the unemployed natives who aren't looking for work and all the native people on disability or veterans support. And the drug addiction problem thats much more of a problem among natives than immigrants. Natives make up a hell of a lot more of the non-working population receiving benefits from the governmeny than immigrants do. If you ignore all those native people who receive more than they produce, then yes, you can say immigrants cost the state more. The amount of revenue …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 04:05 PM
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Thats laughable. Immigrants in border states are more employed than native born people. Immigrants also commit less crime than natives. And immigrants are less addicted to hard drugs than natives. And immigrants receive a shit load less disability support. Just what are you talking about, and which state do you live in? Do you live anywhere near the border?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 02:51 PM
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As someone born in houston, texas, this is the absolute truth. My very republican parents (who still live in houston) always said that they loved the mexicans and were glad that so many immigrants moved here to do hard, shitty work for low pay. People who actually live close to the border aren't worried about immigration. All that cheap labor makes Texas rich! Strangely, its people who don't actually live with immigrants or anywhere near them who are the most paranoid about the mexican boogeyman…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 02:47 PM
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Jesus, i feel exhausted by just reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 02:21 PM
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Duh. Mental illness that disrupts social skill is extremely unattractive. Basically all mammals shun mentally ill members of their species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 02:38 PM
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You're really out of touch with the average man if you think that most men are having casual sex regularly. The number of guys having sex outside of monogamous relationships is a minority. If you're a guy who gets booty calls and are successful with tinder, you are the minority. I thought this was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 02:36 PM
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what if she doesnt want a guy who only likes her for her looks? An analogy for this in men is a guy who thinks, "i dont want to work hard to be successful because i don't want a woman who only wants me for my money". This is such a shitty way to view the opposite sex! It shows a lot of resentment towards the opposite sex, and you're already handicapping your personality with these beliefs. Don't fall into this vicious cycle of: resenting the opposite sex, which causes you to not work on being at…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 01:47 PM
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I also don't want kids, so childfree women are very attractive to me. I feel like a huge load is lifted off me when i discover that a girl i fancy feels the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 01:00 PM
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Yeah, i can't just grab a woman and kiss her over here in the USA. That could easliy get me kicked out of graduate school right now, and then I'd have wasted many thousands of dollars. It would at least get me a bad reputation in my industry. I need to be 1000% sure that a girl wants me before I made any moves because i have a career to worry about. Being known as a creep is as damaging to your career as being incompetant, and all it takes is one rumor. People don't want to work with you if you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 12:47 PM
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THEY DID. Of all the fossilized male bodies found from the neolithic and paleolothic eras, an astounding 15% of them were killed by other humans. Considering that killed enemies were much less likely to be buried and their bodies were more likely to be left for scacengers, its very likely that the amount of male humans who met their demise from other men was much higher than 15%. All evidence points to a very violent and territorial prehistoric human culuture. There's plenty of evidence for this…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:58 PM
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You're right about the climate in academia and technical industries. Im a grad student at an engineering college, and the social environment feels so much more tense than when i started undergrad 10 years ago. The majority of guys are terrified of interacting with women at all due to all the fear mongering, and some women are irrationally suspicious of men. Fewer people are going on dates because of it. I don't thing the girls are happy with this either. I've heard several of my lady friends in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 01:52 PM
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I wasn't aware that i have to justify my romantic relationships to anyone. I sleep with younger women because i want to. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:59 PM
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Not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 03:02 PM
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I don't think i can ever imagine kids running around my house. I like the kids i work with, and that's enough. I never want to care for kids 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 03:01 PM
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I think trying to define masculinity and live up to it is a silly way to stress yourself out over nothing. I believe that a real man does whatever he's passionate about and whatever makes him happy. A real man doesn't give a shit about what stupid randos think a "real man" should do. Just remember that it's impossible to please everybody, and that a lot of people push standards of masculinity to manipulate and exploit you. No matter what you do as a man, some jackass will always be there to tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 02:50 PM
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This really shows the difference between the first and 2nd/3rd worlds. Im guessing that the nail tech was a foreigner, probably from southeast asia? Women from those countries don't really have a choice to sleep with "fun" guys because the risk of poverty is so great without a rich husband. The first world women who patron the nail salon gave the side eye because our women have so much more economic opportunity and don't need a rich husband to live comfortably. Choose the stable guy. You can alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 02:28 PM
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Me too. Friendship only works when we don't think about each other much. Or if you're both skanky/non monogamous people to begin with. That works just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 07:22 PM
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This has happened to me a few times. Sex often does change things with friends. The biggest issue was always jealousy and awkwardness when either of us moved on to new partners. Those girl's new boyfriends were really uncomfortable when i hung out with the girl because im good looking and we used to have good sex. And needless to say, girls often become really uncomfortable when i hang out with my former hot FWB's. Also, FWB arrangements don't always end nicely. One person usually has deeper fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 01:53 PM
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More personal accountability. I started noticing this after i had to go through domestic violence counseling and probation. All of the counselors and probation officers who remarked on the difference between treating dysfunctional men and women said that women are much more likely to avoid taking responsibility for their actions or flat out deny that they did anything. One counselor said that getting women to admit that their crimes were not justified and that they were responsible could be like…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 02:20 PM
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I dunno... Commitment, maybe? You know, that thing that most women want so badly in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 01:45 PM
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You never see it happen because we don't allow ourselves to be seen in public with our embarrassing fucks...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 12:48 PM
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Truly! I am a dude and i am constantly telling my male friends that they should go to the doctor since they already have health insurance through their work or medicaid. A lot of poor ski instructor guys i know won't sign up for medicaid even though they would instantly qualify for near-free doctor visits and basic prescriptions. I don't get it, either. The care is already paid for!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 12:40 PM
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I'm a guy and its still flattering just to be wanted for sex. A lot of men never get to experience what it's to be booty called by attractive women, or any women at all. My former FWB felt concerned about this once. She felt like she was using me when she booty called me and she worried that i would start to feel bad. It was really sweet that she was so concerned for me. I told her not to worry because sex with amazing, beautiful women makes me profoundly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:22 PM
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You're right, i'm a guy i love it when women want to have NSA sex with me. I never think of it as them "using me", though. I enjoy sex for the sake of sex, and I try to avoid being transactional in romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:13 PM
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"Use for sex" is such an ugly way to put it, and it's not even accurate for a lot of people who have casual sex. Sex doesn't have to be transactional. People can enjoy sex just for the sake of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:06 PM
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It does feel really good to provide for someone you love. I am terrified of being solely responsible for providing, though. Especially after entering industry and seeing so many run down, miserable old men who have to work high-stress jobs until they drop dead to give their kids an education. So, no, i disagree. Women in my life want me to be a provider a lot more than i want to be. I don't pay for everything on dates because i don't want a woman who expects to be provided for. I might change my…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:41 PM
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I think we should maintain fewer men than women in rich societies because we have methods to humanely select sexes before birth. Something like 4 boys for every 5 girls that are born. It seems like many of our future problems would be solved if we didnt have an excess of men. A large population of hopeless, dejected men is a dangerous thing in any society. They are easily radicalized. Thats science fiction though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:13 AM
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Thats known as being ratchet. It's not respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:09 PM
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Im 5"7', 31 years old, and ive had my fill of sex. My dad is shorter than me, and he's been married to an awesome beautiful woman for 40 years and retired a rich man. Shocking, i know. Short men are supposed to be miserable about it! I haven't really thought about my height since i was a teenager. I think short guys have to be a lot more proactive and badass, especially at younger ages. Women care more about how amazing and badass you are than your height. Go make a habit of doing cool things wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:37 PM
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How would you feel if he cheated on you, filed for divorce, and was able take your property? Has anything like that ever happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 01:03 PM
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Heres how. While youre still married, make sure that you do not work, make no income, and spend a lot of money. When you get divorced, the other sucker will get stuck with most of the debt while you get to keep the asstes. This seems to work better if you're female. This is what happened to my friend. His wife took college courses while they were still married, cheated on her husband, and then filed for divorce. The guy was forced to pay for her college debt and was also forced to give her his c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 12:53 PM
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I agree. I dont think anyone wants to go back to the days where it might be impossible to divorce because you can't convince a judge you have a legal reason. No fault divorce allows people to get out of shitty marriages more humanely. When people complain about no fault divorce, its usually about unfair and absurd financial splits. I've personally witnessed friends and family get screwed over in divorces because the other parties walked away from the marriage with a lot of money and assets they …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 09:25 PM
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Yeah, thats the same situation the dude above was talking about. States are forcing people to pay off their ex's debts even if they cheated. Its an injustice no matter their sexes, in my opinion. What are you arguing, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:23 PM
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Colorado. My friend got divorced after his wife cheated on him, and he was still on the hook for some of her college debt. He made more money because he was working full time while she went to college, so the arbiters ruled that he should have to shoulder her debt. Nevermind the infidelity that exploded their marriage. It was absurd but he didn't have a choice because it would have been even more costly fight it. The moral of that story is: don't let your crazy catholic families push you into a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 06:11 PM
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free rent for 15 years? and all i have to do is keep the house clean and care for my own child? That's an incredibly sweet deal. Yeah, i probably would take that deal. I would also work at least a part time job once the child was older because i would get bored and feel like i wasn't pulling my weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:49 PM
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I work out a little to keep myself fit for sports. Leg days dont stop just because the ski season is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:28 PM
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You can! Sometimes i ask my lady friends to put mascara and eyeliner on me when we go out to concerts. It certainly attracts a lot of attention and it feels like cheating. Why do you think guys get tattoos? Its sort of like perma makeup for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:24 PM
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Yeah of course. There are so many women i consider beautiful and amazing, but theres no sexual attraction or comfort between us. This happens more and more as i get older. It was easy for me to fall in love when i was younger, but now i see beautiful women and think, "oh look, just another hot girl."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:11 PM
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If i were a female version of me, i would probably date unstable douchebags and wouldn't feel any spark with stable nice guys. I'd be jaded with men at this point in my life and would be wondering why all hot guys seem to be narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:29 PM
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I like to eat pussy, its fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:53 PM
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Yeah, it happened to me. Applying the red pill gets me laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:51 PM
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The second paragraphs says that marriages where the woman earns more are more likely to end in infidelity and divorce. It kinda negates the point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:45 PM
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You are very out of touch reality. I don't think you have much experience with average straight men. Its like everything you know about men came from a book or the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:40 PM
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I hope so! She was absolutely nutters if she was a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 02:05 PM
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I remember there was a crazy female user here who defended this practice, and she also wondered why she never got any good guys to stick around. It was Jammerly! If you can find it, that thread was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 02:03 PM
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Most of the people i date are friends of friends. The intel comes from good sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:48 PM
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Every girl who tried to make me wait for sex was either a manipulative cunt, or she just wasn't that attracted to me. Girls who are actually into me can't wait. I understand why women do it, but its an extremely BASIC and dumbed-down way to vet men. When i see women making men wait for sex even when she's ready, i see a dumb woman who can't use her brain and good judgement to suss out a man's character. A smarter way to go about it is to have conversations about sex and commitment and to ask the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:46 PM
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Such a waste of a life. Don't you have more important things to set your mind on?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 03:21 PM
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Guys who slut shame and guys who are actually getting laid are mostly two separate groups of men. Women won't have sex with you if you insult them and try to make them feel bad for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 03:14 PM
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Lots of lesbians are actually bisexual, but they make sure to keep their attraction to men secret for a variety of reasons. One reason is to increase their chances with other lesbians because a lot of lesbians don't date bi women. Lesbian credential-checking and gatekeeping are a real thing. Some lesbians (like a very good friend of mine) are definitely attracted to traditionally masculine men, but they have so many deep-seeded issues with men from their past that they never let themselves get c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:41 PM
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Schedenfreude is not on the path to personal contentment and enlightenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:11 PM
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Its true that most guys who talk about the wall are feeding a revenge fantasy against women. Its a terrible way to live a life, obsessing over vague revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 01:41 PM
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Men are never going to prefer fat women over fit women. This is not due to brainwashing by the media, its due to biological instinct. A lot of men would rather just stay single and jerk off to porn than have sex with fat women. Thats how i feel. It's a fact of life that will never go away, unfortunately. Plan your lifestyle accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:17 PM
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Then why complain about the choice you made?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:54 PM
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Thats laughable. In my social circle, none of the girls spend lots of time on their makeup and they so just fine with guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:52 PM
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You don't have to date guys who require constant makeup and hair upkeep. There are lots of other men out there who are lower maintenance, but you choose guys who like lots of makeup and perfect hair. Remember, you choose your life. Don't act like you don't have choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:36 PM
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I've never been interested in women who actually spend a bunch of money on hair, nails, and makeup. Its a giant red flag if a woman wastes money like that. I also dont give a shit about ligerie. You don't have to spend that money. That's your choice and its not a requirement by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 03:32 PM
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I never though that abortion was an easy procedure and i have the utmost sympathy for women who go through it. Surgery isnt fun, and choosing to end a human life is emotionally devastating. I just wish i had that opportunity, too. If i could, i would go through the surgery and deal with all the bullshit so that my partner wouldn't have to. I would take it on in a heartbeat if it was possible for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 02:16 PM
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This is why i really don't want to date or sleep with single moms. All i can think about is how shitty it must be for the kids to see myself and other men plowing their mom and leaving. That situation is less than ideal, to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:03 PM
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You want to abolish welfare... Because you can't get laid and you think that it will increase your chances? That's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:04 PM
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Theres a lot of evidence that plastics, pesticises, and heavy metal poisoning are related to the massive rise in autism as well. Don't microwave food in plastic tupperware!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:27 PM
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Yep, which is why we definitely should not use hormone therapy to beef up meat and dairy production. Its great that most industrial countries have stopped that completely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:24 PM
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In evolution, this process is called "juvenilification". It means that juvenile traits tend to persist into adulthood as the gene pool drifts. Its not necessarily a bad thing. For example, the human jaw became smaller and smaller over the ages, but that allowed our brains to get bigger at the same time. Humans lost a lot of upper body strength as we grew longer legs and started to walk upright, but humans gained the ability to walk and run much longer distances. Both of those are examples of juv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:26 PM
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Youre right, most of the guys who need the red pill are fucked in the head because they've had so many bad experiences with the opposite sex. I think a lot of people operate under the "women are wonderful" assumption and can't understand that so many women treat men like garbage and give them mental hangups. I was just talking with a couple of these guys at work the other day. One guy said that all of his exes have cheated on him in recent years, and now he's having a lot of trouble trusting wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 02:19 PM
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Figures. You still haven't been immersed in poverty and haven't seen true need for welfare. You're still naive. Buying ps4s is fine. I have one too. I condemn people who are so ignorant of the human condition that they vote against welfare for the downtrodden, exploited, and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:50 PM
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Have you ever been to western Europe? Have you ever been to poor 2nd and 3rd countries? How much of the world have you seen outside of the american bubble?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:11 AM
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Hahahahaha. Only guys with a low n count themselves think that way. Them, and guys who have a creepy fetish for virginity and "innoncence". And religious dudes, of course. I am none of those. When you actually get sexual experience with a variety of different women, you start to realize that less experienced women often aren't all that great in bed. Im usually not interested in inexperienced women because i want tried-and-true BJ skills. You'll understand when you get more experience. But you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:07 AM
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We are very close and my family is very open about sex and whatnot. I told my mom about how i had a threesome and we laughed about it. DoEs ThAt BlOw YoUr MiNd??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:02 PM
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For the sake of practicality so that they don't end up dying alone. I'll tell you about my older sister (again). She's a fat, quirky, annoying, funny, and sweet lady in her early 30's. She keeps going after guys who are objectively far better looking and more successful than she is, and she keeps getting burned, disappointed, and used for sex when she wants something more. Her vision of an adequate mate is absolute mad fantasy, and its making her life miserable. I don't know how to help her. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:01 PM
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LOL. The rats already left that burning ship. The smart ones, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:40 PM
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You said you had a "come to jesus" moment. When conservatives say that, i take it literally because thats what conservatives usually mean. I grew up in bible belt Texas, what can i say? Your politics, beliefs, and values are utterly selfish. An utterly selfish ideology will lead to loneliness and bitterness because nobody wants to associate with those people except those who are also looking to "get theres', fuck everybody else." I whole-heartedly reject that world view because it only leads to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 12:37 AM
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Just remember, Jesus was a hardcore welfare state socialist by all accounts. I tend to agree with Jesus's words and sentiments more than practicing christians do. Its pretty absurd that so many american christians support policies that obviously promote poverty and human misery among the weak and downtrodden. Arent christians supposed to protect and care for the weak and downtrodden? Or is it just a mask of altruism, like mrs. Rand always said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 04:26 PM
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Dudes only seem to be against it when they aren't the ones getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 01:20 PM
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Use your powers for good! Treat others the way you want to be treated! Thats why im a bleeding heart liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:05 PM
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Ive also gotten girls to cheat on their boyfriends and i regret it. It made me lose respect for one of the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 04:00 PM
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When was the last time you had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 03:51 PM
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Yes. Why in the world would a young liberal woman want anything to do with a conservative guy? If you vote for men who want to make women's lives worse and reduce women's rights, surprise surprise, women won't want to fuck you. I have witnessed several of my male peers delve into neo conservatism/alt right/whatever over the years, and all of them have stopped having relations with women. My current room mate has been becoming more republican, and now all of my female friends don't want to be aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:06 PM
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I personally know a few women who really get off on rejecting guys and sticking it to them. But i hang out with some weird girls who have some serious issues with men. It sounds like you hang out with really nice women. Thats great, keep those people close. Don't lose that innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:39 PM
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Its very insecure behavior. Its like they are saying, "We all know i dont have a good man in my life... but at least i ain't fucking around with THIS scrub! PLEASE VALIDATE MY CHOICES AND BELIEFS." There would be an uproar if i started sharing stories about women ive rejected. i would probably lose friends if i started making fun of all the women I've rejected because it's an asshole thing to do. Think of it this way: its great that these women are publicly showing how vile they are on the insid…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:22 PM
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Maybe. Young guys aren't carrying on with the old madonna/whore nonsense like older and more conservative guys seem to. You dont have to keep going for the same old conservative douchebag type. There are other types of men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:28 PM
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Hey now, ad hominem is not a proper tool for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:53 PM
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Lol. Im a man and i love it when women approach me. Most women who ask me out are too fat, gross, or mentally unstable, but thats ok. Im not offended by it and its still somewhat flattering. Women are a lot better than men about not being overbearing and creepy after a rejection, so it's not bad. I dont know what sort of dudes you associate with but they sound kinda shitty. Im sorry to hear that because there are plenty of more mature dudes out there who do not just fuck any girl who offers and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:49 PM
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Thats true if you go after guys who are above your league. In my life, i ended up staying with women who approached me the longest. I could tell that they were serious about me, and i liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:41 PM
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No, you're projecting your low libido on to all other women. Trust me, not all women are like you. Some women get aroused just by watching hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:25 PM
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You speak for low libido women, but not all women have low libido. Be careful about projecting so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:22 PM
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If men objectified you for your earning potential the same way, you would be comaining about it, too. It just hasn't happened to you, so you don't think it's a big deal. Try to use more empathy and you wouldn't have to ask these silly questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:15 PM
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Well really im just not sure what to do with my life and im disappointed with my employer. Sorry, i am pissy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:49 PM
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Yes, sex and romance are intertwined. Thats how normal men think. Did you just figure that out? I have a sincere question. How strong is your sex drive? Are you annoyed, bored, or threatened by sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:41 PM
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Men say that because men tend to put a lot more time, money, and effort into romantic overtures than women. Because those men want sex and they have to work to turn women on. I have done so many more romantic things for women than women have done for myself. Women in my life just kinda wait around for men to make romantic stuff to happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 01:37 PM
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I can't comment about men because i don't pay attention to what other men do. I certainly see a lot of women who fall into the trap of chasing after hotter guys and getting burned one way or another. My older sister continues to do it in her 30s. She got fat and she continues to go after guys who are objectively more attractive than her, and she keeps getting burned when she finds that they don't want to be seen in public with her after they fucked on the down low. Pro tip: if a hot guy only wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:08 PM
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That's the norm already. I guess the answer is that men pay up, and if they don't, the woman divorces him. Remember the massive wave of divorces after the 2008 economic crash, and how the vast majority were filed by women? Women file divorce if men can't pay like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:51 PM
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I very rarely approach strange women. Cold approaches are awkward and they rarely go anywhere where i live because women are extremely suspicious of random guys. I usually only approach women who are in my network or hobby spheres in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:39 PM
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That shows a striking lack of integrity and principle. Men with integrity usually dont respect women who lack integrity. I can smell that bullshit from a mile awayb and it's a huge turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:31 PM
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Women are responsible for their own choices. If negative consequences come with casual sex, then those women should stop having casual sex. Those women should only have sex with men who are willing to have a committed relationship with them. If you're having trouble not having casual sex, you need to start talking to men about your needs and desires before you have sex. Tell men straight up, "I only want to have sex in monogamous relationships. Do you want to have a monogamous relationships, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:29 PM
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I like girly sentimental music and i have 3 cats because im a bleeding heart for animals. I also like to put on eye makeup when i go out for shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:30 PM
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I think you're confusing me with someone else. Im not a mgtow or red pill weirdo. Get off the internet and talk to regular dudes for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:41 PM
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Oh i get it. You think guys are happy to fuck anything. You should get off the internet for a while and interact with real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:20 PM
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Word. If you actually read reports from the US department of criminal justice, it's a fact that women commit more child abuse than men in the USA. The most common child abusers are single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:37 PM
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If you're syaing that guys should go buy prostitutes to get laid, you're contradicting your original argument. They wouldnt have to buy sex if your theory was correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:34 PM
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Why just men? I feel the same way about women who abuse their children and spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:17 PM
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No, thats a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:14 PM
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Like the other guy said: you have to be an idiot to believe in trickle down economics. This is just trickle down economics applied to the sex market. None of that excess casual sex actually trickles down to the guys who desperately need more sex, so you won't convince anyone with this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:59 PM
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I think you should get off the internet for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:50 PM
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Woosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:48 PM
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Lots of men commit suicide out of loneliness. Loneliness and lack of sex is the most common reason men commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:46 PM
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Oof. You've got a ways to go before you understand men. I feel sorry for the men unfortunate enough to take you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:30 PM
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Amphetimines come in pill form and they will make you thinner...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:23 PM
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Faking confidence, dating multiple women at once, and not giving away commitment or investment easily. "Spinning plates", as they call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:07 PM
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Before, i gravitated towards women who were mentally fucked up and i let them walk all over me. After i did some research in PUA and whatnot, i realized i was doing that out of really low self esteem and out of a general belief that "women are wonderful, women can do no wrong, women are always innocent victims." when i started standing up for myself and showing more confidence and arrogance, i started sleeping with better women who treated me better. I learned to stop accepting one-sided relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:38 PM
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And for fucks sake, bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder are different things! For real though, several of my exes were on psychiatric medication. People with mental disorders often bond with other crazy people over there experience with psychologists and psychiatrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 03:07 PM
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The red pill helped me stop chasing mentally ill women. Mainstream blue pill advice turned me into captain save-a-hoe early on in my life. You've got this backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 02:48 PM
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My initial reaction to this is "no shit, Sherlock. Men have feelings, too." But YES, sex and relationships are deeply intertwined with men's ego and self esteem. Men with low self esteem tend to go after equally low quality women. Men with high self esteem demand more from women. If you want a man with high self esteem, then you'll have to bring more to the table, make more sacrifices, and work harder to maintain his ego. That's the deal. You can't have you cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 02:44 PM
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Yeah well life is hard when you suffer from chronic depression and medication only does so much. Thats really my problem. I absolutely need to protect my emotions and confidence from what women might do if they see whats on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:39 PM
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I don't consider conventional monogamy to be winning. Not for everybody, at least. Conventional relationships arent all that great for a lot of men. Monogamy is not the end-all and be-all of what makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:26 PM
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Its pretty hard to forget about repeated emotional and physical trauma. I never want to go through those experiences again. And i havent! Ever since i started sticking to non-committal relationships, those horrible breakups stopped occurring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:22 PM
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I went through a red pill phase where i avoided any sort of commitment and only had casual sexual relationships. But i wouldnt say that i treated anyone badly. I never deceived, manipulated, or lead on anyone while i was doing the whole arrogant playboy thing. I was always honest about my intentions. I guess i avoid conventional relationships because i got hurt in them in the past, whereas non-committal relationships brought me a lot of relief and confidence. Some women tell me that's a bad thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:13 PM
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When i was younger i let abusive, violent women walk all over me in relationships, but i really made an effort to stop being captain save-a-hoe after college. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:51 PM
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Yes. I use words to ask for what i want. Ive slept around enough that i prefer no sex over bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:58 PM
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Yes some men will lie. But this method still works well with people who aren't liars. There isnt much we can do about liars besides learn how to pick up on their subtle signals and make sure that we dont ignore those signals and red flags. Clear, open, respectful communicatation will do a lot to suss out liars because they often start using manipulative techniques to deflect away from clear and direct communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:55 PM
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Like i said, thats fine. I dont want to take it farther with women who are incompatible. If you balk at just discussing sexual preferences, i don't need you in my life. Not only does it show that we are sexually incompatible, its also a sign that your communication style is difficult to get along with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:48 PM
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Talk about sex first. Ask him how he feels about eating pussy and foreplay and whatnot. Or whatever it is you like and need in sex. Ive done this with girls and its helped to avoid incompatibility. Ive straight up asked how girls feel about giving blowjobs and how they feel about cum. If they feel grossed out by oral sex and bodily fluids, i already know that we arent right for each other. Speak up. Say what you want. Have those difficult conversations. If you cant agree on things before you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:16 PM
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Get out of here with your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 12:21 AM
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Well a couple of those things are actually doable! Work out and get a sweet batman costume from china.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:41 PM
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Fat girls set themselves up for this sort of humiliation when they try to hide their fat on dating sites. What do they expect? Guys are going to find out eventually. On a side note, ive become and expert at spotting teltale signs of fatties from photos that are taken to hide fat. Fat necks, shoulders, arpits, or arms are a dead give away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:37 PM
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As long as we are talking about imppssible things that will never happen, i would also really like to ride a triceratops.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:24 PM
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I have lots of female friends and i teach skiing and snowboarding during the winter, so i dont think you could call me a soyboy or whatever. I think it works for me because im not desperate for sex. Ive had my fill and Im not constantly looking for an opportunity to have sex with my female friends. Im friends with those women because i genuinely enjoy them as people. And youre right: having female friends helps me meet other women because i have a good reputation with women. My female friends ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 02:03 PM
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No. Ive had the opportunity with some swinger friends and its too wrird for me. It seemed like a great way to destroy my friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:44 PM
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In the last few years, i really tried to put the red pill into practice. I played up my persona as an arrogant playboy douchebag. I treated women like they were disposable. And it worked. I couldnt believe it and i regret it. I pulled back from it and started to focus on being empathetic and kind like i was before. Now that i treat women with care and kindness again, im not getting booty calls. Time and time again, i see my female friends go after douchebags who hurt them, and i cant help them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:21 AM
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The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:55 PM
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Hey i felt the same way when i was your age. Being an average young dude sucks ass if you arent naturally good at getting girls in bed. Thing get better as you get older and make yourself more attractive. Your dating pool gets larger and you get more opportunities to make money and make new experiences... If you work at it. Im at a crossroads because i dont know what i want to do with my career and im sick of the dating game. I used to work in the oil industry but i cannot work in an office envi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:23 PM
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I mean you seem to assume that everyone is "weaseling" their way into women's pants. We aren't. You're projecting your cynical attitude on to other people who are not actually cynical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:03 PM
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This is my experience as well. Ive been on both ends of the attractiveness spectrum, and the rules really are different when youre hot, confident, and popular. Its one of the reasons why im so disillusioned and disenchanted with sex and romance. This is why #metoo generally passed over attractive male actors, musicians, and music producers. Hot guys who are popular with young women were not taken down. Ugly and squirrely guys like Louis CK and Aziz Ansari got the book thrown at them for frankly …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 01:51 PM
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Ugly is much worse. Ugly is creepy, scary. People tend to distrust ugly men, and its unfair to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 01:20 PM
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Think of it this way: there's already a prenuptual agreement built into your state's/province's divorce laws. Some states dictate an even 50/50 split of assets regardless of who owns them, and other states require arbitration to divide assets according to who owns what and the nature of the divorce. I think you should be aware of how divorce works in your state and decide if those default prenups are fair to you. If not, you should absolutely draw up another prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 01:13 PM
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Yes. They were all seriously fucked up people who lied to me and/or physically assaulted me. Never again. I am not a hero and i am not going to deal with any more mentally ill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 01:03 PM
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30 15 Single, not fucking, existential crisis Yes Purple. The red pill works like a charm and thats a bloody tragedy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:29 AM
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Youre projecting pretty hard there, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 05:25 PM
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Welllll us successful engineering guys tend to want younger and hotter women. The leftover women in engineering and business tend to be fat and dumpy because they've spent all of their time sitting at computers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 02:08 PM
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Im probably going to continue partying until i die sad and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:55 PM
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There are lots of older, professional, educated women whoare single and cant find a partner. I see them everywhere i go at grad school and professional/scientific conferences. Those women are invisible outside of those spheres, though, because they dont get out much amd they usually don't post much on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:48 PM
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Yes, i try to warn my female friends about players and dickheads. Its usually too late, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:34 PM
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Semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 05:57 PM
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You should look for guys in science and engineering. They make plenty of money and they are willing to wait for sex. There are literal millions of single guys who fit your criteria. But they arent hot and they aren't fun to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 12:40 AM
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After watching my older sister flounder with dating, i understand that i can't change your view. She keeps trying to go after guys who are objectively above her league, and she keeps getting used for sex on the down-low. And then those guys don't want to be seen in public with her. Ive tried to tell her how it works for years and years, but she can't change her behavior. And about the abusive guys: its your own fault if you choose to stay with abusive men. Its your own fault if you saw the red f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:49 PM
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This was my experience with women, too. Spinning plates was morally exhausting. Treating women as disposable and trying not to care about their thoughts and feelings worked like a charm to drop panties, but i can't keep it up. I cant ignore my tendency for empathy, and i don't want to because i believe in the golden rule. I agree with the guy at the top of the thread. We are trying to emulate sociopathic behavior, and it makes normal men feel terrible in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:52 PM
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Meh, welfare accoints for less than 1% of the american budget. Poor people arent talking all the resources for themselves. They dont have the power to do so. Its the super rich you should be concerned about if you want to protect your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:05 PM
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Virgins, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:56 PM
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It certainly made me a lot happier and much more confident. But now im disenchanted with the game and i want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:54 PM
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Oh who gives a shit about what a bunch of basic neo tradcons think? I do think full-time parents are great, though. My mom stopped working until my brother and i were old enough to get around on our bikes independently, and it was great. I loved all the time bonding with my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:46 PM
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Jesus, that must have been scary. I moved away from hurricane country and into the desert because i witnessed floods electrfied by downed power lines a couple times when i was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:29 PM
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Being a simp or doormat is always a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:28 PM
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Yes i can. We can all learn to act smarter than animals. Complacency is slow death.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:29 PM
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Oh jeez, you're a virgin, aren't you? What are you doing here, trying to tell people anything? You shouldn't form strong opinions on subjects that you have zero experience or knowledge in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:59 PM
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That opinion comes from men who hate women and rant about it on the internet. It doesnt exist among normal people who actually get out in the world and work alongside actual women every day. Angry, misogynistic dudes on the internet do not represent the average american man. They are a silly, ignorant minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:50 PM
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I honestly have no idea because i know that so many women fake orgasms. I can't make any judgements because the data available to me is very likely to be full of lies and half truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:40 PM
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Ill just say that if you have to put on make up to look attractive... You should focus more on improving your health, diet, and allergies/irritants so that your skin isn't so ugly to begin with. Fix the source of the problem. Dont just try to cover up the symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:35 PM
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Yep, that sounds right. Im a 30 year old male home owner, and i bought a 3 bedroom house with big front and back yards. I wanted a house that would be good for throwing parties and renting to housemates. I also wanted a quiet, low-traffic neighborhood so i could let my cats be free range outdoor cats. Its also fin to grow vegetables and flowers in my back yard. My female friends dont buy houses like mine because the maintenence is too dirty, dangerous, and intense for them. I have to go into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:28 PM
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Word. Stop rewarding bad behavior, you simps. Its an embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:07 PM
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she may be autistic AWALT refers to average, regular women. Not brain damaged women. My mom is very much AWALT. She fits into TRP like a glove.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:20 PM
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Its very true that some men do this. But isn't it easy to suss them out and avoid them? Its very easy for me to spot power-hungry narcissists. These guys don't just flip a switch and suddenly tranform from a perfect boy scout into a regular Harvey Weinstein over night. If you learn to see the red flags and heed those red flags, you won't end up with jerks. This is every person's responsibility to themselves. You can't willingly date power-hungry narcissists and then complain about the results. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:08 PM
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This is why its very important to vet people's character before investing in them. Wasn't he a deceptive POS all along? Didn't he show red flags? If you choose to invest in narcissists, thats what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:00 PM
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That's just plain emotional abuse. Drop her before it gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 01:48 PM
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They are generally much better at dealing with small children than men. I work as a ski and snowboard instructor, and its obvious that women are better at teaching small kids. My managers tried to even out the gender imbalance in the children's center by forcing myself and other young men into a training program for teaching 4-5 year olds, but it was a total train wreck for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:45 PM
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Yes i do because ive traveled to several truly patriarchal countries were women are still treated as property. Its repugnant. Go check out some islamic states and see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:27 PM
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If you want to remain self righteously isolated and ignorant, help yourself. Its your life. But i'd hazard a guess you dont have many friends that really trust and love you, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:52 PM
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You can be both. I often talk about my worries for boy's lives and development because i work with children as a ski and snowboard instructor. I am very open and clear about my views of marriage and how domestic violence criminal justice is insanely biased against men. I still get laid. A lot of women respect my views and experiences and thank me for sharing them. I think it helps that i only go for intelligent liberal women and i avoid militant feminists like the plague. And more importantly, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:41 PM
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Yes, it is very common. I hear fucked up stories from almost every woman ive made friends with. Roofies are rampant in many locales. My friend was just being stalked by an autistic loser, where he kept leaving random objects on her door step in the night. My other friend cannot go running alone because she kept being followed by weirdos. We had to fire a creep at my old job in the oil industry because he kept putting his hands on a young woman. Several of my exes are rape survivors. I am sick to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:21 PM
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In a divorce and subsequent court proceedings? They probably asked their mom a lot about what was going on between their parents. And it looks like mom told them that the guy was evil and was trying to abandon them. I dont know why else they would suddenly turn on their dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:39 PM
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Thats probably what mom told them to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:20 PM
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I didnt have a rage period. I had a period where i tried being more of a loudmouthed, arrogant, manipulative douchebag, and sure enough, i started having a lot more sex with a variety of young women. It lead to a period of depression because it confirmed a lot of my fears about what women are attracted to. I hated the fact that those hot girls were attracted to traits that i despise in other men. I was an asshole, and girls loved it. Now ive decided to pull back and work on my integrity and empa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 02:10 PM
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Some people have kinks and preferences that are unusual. Some women and men truly have a fetish for femdom, and its great when those people find one another. We all dont have to conform to one way of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 04:25 PM
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What about them? Can you please make a coherent arguement?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:46 PM
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Yeah, those hot guys with addictions and mental issues can still get higher quality women without those issues because they are hot guys. Those hot guys aren't going after fat girls with mental problems and addictions. They tend to go after higher quality women because they can. Those fat girls with mental problems and addictions dont have a chance with those hot guy, not unless that guys has a fetish for fat, addicted girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:34 PM
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My sister lives in texas. Youthful obesity is so common in the bible belt that fat girls can still get laid if they make it easy for the guy. Shes still young enough to get cowboy types to fuck her. About your first point: yes of course guys with addictions and bad attitudes can be attractive. I mean, i have gotten laid plenty and i have plenty of issues. Im not sure what sort of point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:14 PM
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I find myself telling some women to lower their standards because their standards are pure fantasty. My older sister is a 32 year old fat smoker. She keeps trying to go after guys who are way above her league in every way, and she keeps getting used for sex followed by ghosting. She thinks she's better than guys who are actually her equal. She's a really good person who does right by everyone who deserves good treatment, but goddamn, she's never going to find a lasting relationship if she can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:35 PM
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Dont date guys who try to make you feel stupid. They will slowly suck the life out of you and you'll end up with serious self esteem and confidence issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:09 PM
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I think we are all feeling the effects of overpopulation combined with a ruling class that is trying to eliminate the middle class. Its not a good time to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 02:10 PM
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Horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 01:57 PM
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That sentiment is why that particular girl is an incel. The poor girl has no idea how men think and feel, and she probably has a very hard time relating to men. This is what happens when you shut yourself in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 01:56 PM
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From what I've read about criminal profiling of serial rapists, one of the most common traits among serial rapists is an abusive relationship with their mother or other female authority figure while they grew up. To put it shortly, when adult women physically or emotionally abuse boys who are in their care, those boys tend to develop very disordered and dysfunctional views on women. They often grow up to be wife beaters and rapists. It's also very common for boys to copy older men's violent beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:16 PM
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When i was younger, i didn't have much choice. As a clueless 20 year old guy, you take what you can get. I was stoked to be getting head either way. After college, i decided to be slutty for a while. Good times. Im really glad i had that opportunity while i was young. Im still there because i'm terrified of being totally open and vulnerable with women i respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 03:10 PM
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Stopped reading at "the average woman fucks a new guy every week." Thats laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 02:55 PM
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It's true that they are sweet at times. Thats what makes the cycle of violence and abuse work. They make you hold out hope that the good times will come again if you're just good enough for them and wait long enough. I used to accept abuse from partners, too, because i thought it was normal. I thought that all hot women eventually turned psychotic and violent, and that I just had to put up with it in order to have a girlfriend. This is bullshit. You can get out and break the cycle. You do not ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 01:33 PM
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I think you deserve better if thats true. I dont care when nasty, unempathetic women keep chasing after shitty guys, but its really sad when nice women follow the same path. You don't have to keep going after the same assholes. You might not believe it, but you are worthy of men who will treat you with care and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:41 PM
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They already make these manuals: romantic and erotic literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:50 PM
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Men do not see women as a threat. At least not in the same way that men are a threat to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:40 PM
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Truly, because most women aren't proud narcissistic sociopaths like our girl above.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:32 PM
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This is all really good advice. I do almost all of these things to show that im not interested in comittment. One more thing i would add: just fucking ask the dude if he is interested in a committed relationship with you. If his answer is anything less than a, "hell yes, i want a relationship with you and only you", then he is not committed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:28 PM
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No, i don't lie to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 02:57 PM
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Yup. Some species even have a natural difference in male and female birth rates so that more males are born than females.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:53 PM
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Online dating is awesome for me. Without tinder, i have no idea how i would find all those weird skanky introverted cat ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:48 PM
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Whatever, i tried to help. If you want to remain as a stubborn cringefest incel, then have at it. It's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:30 PM
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Why do you even ask for advice if you act like a bitch toward everyone who takes the time to give you good advice? Grow up dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:16 PM
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Your behavior is not attractive to them. They might have been attracted to you before you changed your behavior towards them and became overly romantic and obsessive. You should dial it back if you're scaring people away after you make good initial impressions. ill say it this way, which comes from experience. If you were attracted to a girl, but she suddenly became obsessive, creepy, and overly romantic way too fast, it might put you off. You might think, "whoa, this person is trying to force r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 05:55 PM
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You wish an attractive woman would do it to you. You would feel differently if a gross woman did it to you and didn't stop when you dropped hints that it made you uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 02:05 PM
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Still his own fault. Guys need to wise up and stop giving themselves to exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:21 PM
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The only person who keeps you in the friend zone is you. If you don't like the friend zone, then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:20 PM
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Youll understand why It's unnattractive when a woman does it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:17 PM
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Apparently! My family comes from rural Georgia and Texas, so the history of slavery, the civil war, and the fight for civil rights are all very prominent in my mind. I guess that i learned more about the truth from my family than i did from public school.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:50 PM
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Truly. I'm 30, and people my age and younger have lived such easier lives. I would have done everything i could to avoid the korean war and vietnam war drafts, and i probably would have served a prison sentence for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 10:41 PM
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That was caused by the brewing trouble between religious and political factions in ireland. Some wanted all of ireland to be catholic, aome wanted part of ireland to remain protestant. Some people wanted ireland to be completely independent from the UK, while others wanted part or all of ireland to be a part of the UK. It erupted into war later. Go read up on your history dude. This is embarassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:05 PM
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Jesus christ, are you aware of the civil rights movement of the 60s and 70s? Are young guys really this ignorant? What do yall learn in your history and social studies??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:01 PM
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She has a low libido. No thanks. I like girls who are hot for me, not tepid chicks who require months to get comfortavle. I might remain friends with her if she's a good friend and interesting person, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:36 PM
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In my experience, the women who get angry when men discuss violence and abuse committed by women are the same women who are guilty of it. They are afraid to get outed as a hypocrites, so they immediately jump to discredit, deny, or dismiss the subject entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:21 PM
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No, not really. I still act the same and i still have all the same old insecurities. But now i own a nice house with an indoor hot tub and i've thrown several legendary parties. Whereas before, i lived in a shit hole rental house with three other equally poor young college guys. The only thing that's really changed is my wealth and popularity. I was always smart, kind, non violent, and well-read, but that didn't get me laid. I would not have had all this sex with beautiful young women if i hadn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:58 PM
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All i know is that after i started making a lot of money at a fancy oil industry job, i started having a lot more easy sex. Influence, power, money, and fame are attractive to most women. How is this even a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:10 AM
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Ugh a girl brought her cousin with her on tje first date at a brewery. I was cool and went along with it, and i got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:07 AM
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Because a lot of those women who do not work hard to be totally financially independent are often supported by men. What do you think all those SAHMs would do without their husband around to pay for things? They would be deadbeats relying on welfare or their families. There are just and many dependent women as there are dependent men. We just judge them differently. It's shameful when a man isn't totally independent, but a woman living off a man's income? Totally normal and even expected in some…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:01 AM
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I would GLADLY go through a painful medical process rather than be forced to raise a child with someone i don't want to see again. You take your power to choose for granted. I do not have that choice and i wish i did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:31 AM
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Love, love is a verb. Love is a "doing" word.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:38 PM
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Don't try to make sense out of nonsense. It will drive you crazy. Our sexual instincts are largely animal and irrational. Sex was invented hundreds of millions of years before things like reason and logic. Sexual attraction usually doesn't care about what's logical or practical in this particular year in this particular culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:48 PM
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They don't do it consciously or intentionally, though, so I wouldn't take offense at it. They can't help it. The honeymoon period is naturally transient. Only a small minority of women are crazy enough to pull a premeditated bait and switch with sex. They are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:45 PM
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This is the #1 reason i've avoided commitment in the past. To me, it's just plain creepy when i notice that someone has a secret training program in mind for their partners. It's even creepier when their female friends and family get together to talk about how they are going to clandestinely enforce their will over a man's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:39 PM
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Clearly you don't understand, and your stubbornness on this issue is probably holding you back from having good relationships. Your refusal to even try to empathize with men is extremely unattractive. Who wants to be in a relationship with a girl who actually thinks things like, "i don't care how you feel, it's just 100% male projection." Cringe, lady. Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:31 PM
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Their poor communication skills. Too many grown-ass adult women still think that everyone is privvy to their thoughts. Too many times, i've had to tell my female friends that nobody knows what they need to feel happy and appreciated until they calmly and respectfully communicate with a spoken language. What's worse is that so many of my female friends don't understand that their personal needs and desires are not universal among all women. Every woman has her own particular needs, and women vary…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:36 PM
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oh jeez, i know exactly what you mean. I expect ghosting or unclear responses whenever i ask a girl out. I'm pleasantly surprised when i actually get a clear and considerate rejection. But I hope you don't totally give up on the idea of showing interest in other people just because of those two guys. whenever i have to deal with unclear answers after i ask someone out, i think of this simple sentiment: "If the answer is not a yes, then it is a no." It really helps me to see things a little more …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:45 AM
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Ive been rejected, too, many more times than that. I don't use it as an excuse to never try again, though. That sounds miserable. That's just robbing yourself of your power to guide your own life. I'm sincerely curious, do you prefer to stay in this limbo where you'll never really know how the guy feels? Is that better than getting a definitive "no" from him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 03:30 PM
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Patrice O'neal once said something like, "a lot of pimps end up settling down with the hoe that stayed around the longest. Thats what i did. It's like we finally admit she's earned it."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:37 AM
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My opinion is that this hypotheticalwoman is wasting precious time. She should pick up her phone and ask him out on a date. She should send him a goshdern facebook message if she doesn't have his number. Anything is better than making half assed, plausibly deniable efforts and wondering if the guy even noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:24 AM
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Well if a guy thinks a woman is too intimidating to ask out, but she truly wants him to pursue her, that guy probably has no idea that she actually likes him. She probably forgot to tell him how she feels. I think a lot of self proclaimed "intimidating" women really just refuse to show any clear, obvious signs of interest in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:18 AM
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Thats a good question that wasn't quite clear in the OP. The answer is an obvious YES, OF COURSE. Men are not machines made out of confidence, and we often don't know how to interpret signals from women. If i interpetted every flirty signal from attractive women as a possible invitation, I'd get in a lot of trouble. Do you understand? I can't make a pass at every pretty girl who maybe gave me a flirty signal. I have to be sure that i won't creep out anybody or get a reputation as a socially reta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:00 AM
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No, of course i don't flirt and ask out every girl im attracted to because I'd feel like a buffoon getting rejected left and right. I don't have the emotional resillience to get publicly rejected by lots of women who i admire, so i have to carefully choose who i open up to. It's often humiliating to get rejected and i have to minimize the risk of that hurt so that it doesn't fuck with my self esteem. A blow to my self esteem is a huge risk to my career among other important things. Do women unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 12:41 AM
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Your friend is the reason why we don't want to associate with feminism. In my life, feminists are the most racist and sexist people i encounter because they believe it's ok to hold prejudice against white and/or straight men. No one else in my life shows anywhere near as much unbridled hatred for a particular race or gender as my feminist friends and coworkers. Ironic, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 05:44 PM
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Nah, i dont think it will change much. I think it deeply affects the portion of men and women are already really insecure and neurotic about sex and dating, but those people aren't influential due to their lack of confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 03:47 PM
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I dont agree with tradcons. I moved away from Texas to hippieland for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 10:13 PM
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That guy is clearly abusive. I'm glad news like this gets out so that those guys might actually be held accountable and maybe even change for the better. I think we should seriously ask why these women didn't make better choices when they started to see his abusive behavior. It doesn't make sense to me because I learned long ago that I need to ghost anyone who shows violent, abusive, or deceptive behavior. I dated nasty, abusive girls a few times when I was still a kid because they tend to be re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 08:38 PM
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Nope, my mom is wonderful. She was a child psychologist and i think my parents are shining examples of good parenting. That doesnt change the fact that women are more attracted to me when I'm cocky ass than when im super nice and agreeable. Ive talked with my mom about the red pill thing on the internet, and she agrees with all of its core ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:44 PM
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Im really glad i did. It took the pussy off the pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:37 PM
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I'd say that you're attracted to players and that you need to try dating other types of people. if you're only attracted to players, then you might need serious psychological training to undo all those dysfunctional cycles of thought. it's totally irrational to believe that every member of the opposite sex is shitty just because a few of them are. open your eyes and pay attention to all the other people you never considered before. you'll probably find that there are amazing, nice people all aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 05:47 PM
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don't dwell on an apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 05:29 PM
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well of course straight men do not enjoying being hit on by gay men. straight men are not attracted to men. people like to be hit on by people who they think are attractive, so there are no circumstances under which a straight guy would want to be hit on by another guy (unless he was fishing for compliments from gay guys or was bi curious/closeted). this isn't comparable to how you feel about guys hitting on you. there are some circumstances where you really like it when a guy hits on you, right…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:35 PM
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Yup. I think trends in women's popular fashion and body types are also driven by women. It seems like pop culture went through phases when huge titties + tiny butt were fashionable when i was born, then it was the vanity fair super skinny waif model type, then it was huge butts and rebellion against nice big titties, and now its devolved into glorifying fat women because they have become so massive (lol) segment of young consumers with money to burn. I think all of this was driven by women's opi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 04:31 PM
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I spend it on my nice house, my roth IRA, my mutual funds and brokerage. And i still get laid without spending more than a few bottles of cheap wine. really, spending that much on women you aren't committed to is just a bad investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 02:15 PM
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This is just a custom that's different everywhere you go in the world. I live in denver now, and everybody splits bills. Its normal and nobody takes offense at it. It's a non-issue and we don't get why girls and boys from other regions get so up in arms about expecting people to pay for you. We don't play these mind games with unspoken rules. I grew up in texas, and people have a much more traditional view. They ascribe so much meaning to how much money men spend on women. No thanks, i'll stick …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:48 PM
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Would all of you please stop fucking up online dating with your fake bullshit? Dont yall have anything better to do with your time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:48 PM
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I hope you can learn to have more healthy self esteem. It seems like you believe that women will only sleep with you if you deceive them. Thats not an absolute truth. I bet some of those girls still would have slept with you if you were up front about what you want. You don't have to trick all women into sleeping with you. Also, ill just say that Bill Cosby had the same sort of beliefs about sex and it took him down a shitty path in life. Women do not need to be tricked to be attracted to you. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 06:19 PM
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I can't remember the last time i spent money on women to get laid. Maybe I'm lucky because i always split or alternate bills and they still want to sleep with me. I spent money on women who i dated seriously because i wanted to make them happy. I think you're doing this all backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 05:10 PM
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I am going to glitch mob tonight, and i plan on moving harder than a rave strobe. I too am a normie that likes to party. it's like someone finally understands me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:45 PM
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how would you feel if this happened to your son? not some "other people", but a male human being who you care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:37 PM
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I'll tell you about my rescued cat and her inspiring recovery. A couple years ago, my room mate came to me and asked if i could adopt another cat. I already had two cats, a rat, and a gecko, but this poor cat was in dire straits. She used to live alone with a geriatric old man who needed regular care from a visiting nurse and caretaker. The old man died suddenly, and it turns out that he willed his cat to his nurse. This nurse begrudgingly took the cat, and she is a psycho who had no business ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:04 PM
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I helped find oil n stuff using my brain thinking. It was rad. Take that, hippies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:38 PM
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I like the one cupping her balls. She gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:36 PM
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Ever been to a country where the government still bans all porn? I've been to a few like Egypt, Thailand, Singapore, and Indonesia. Their men are so thirsty and repressed that they STARE at women and follow them like they are starving. You can't tell whether those guys are about to beg and plead for a date or attack you to get what they desire... and this behavior is eerily similar to the starving homeless dogs you often find in those countries. The women are terrified of men out in public, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 05:45 PM
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I checked out some of the links about positive masculinity, and this one about profiling men who get into extremist organizations is actually useful and well-researched. https://www.playboy.com/read/what-makes-a-jihadist-a-nazi-the-science-of-extremism "They don’t get in [to extremist organizations] because they have racist ideas. They get racist ideas because they get in." Understanding this can help us intervene before vulnerable men are taken in and indoctrinated by gangs, cartels, hate group…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 04:40 PM
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Who do you think gives birth to all the low quality men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:03 PM
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Im assuming you're a woman. Me and my friends don't talk to our lady friends about the realities of dating and sex from our point of view because it tends to hurt their feelings. For example, i use a lot of strategies in romantic relationships that i learned from being a kid's snowboard instructor. Treating girlfriends like children does wonders to resolve conflicts and make them feel safe and cared for... But i'm not going to say that to my cherished straight fenale friends. They get rill mad. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:43 PM
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That situation is totally normal in my network. My close friend from college ended up marrying a girl who i briefly dated. He was very considerate and asked me if it would be weird if they started dating, and i gave them my blessing. Breakups don't have to include huge scorched-earth schisms and drawing no-man's-lands in friend networks. Jealousy is a hideous emotion that serves no purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:50 PM
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I wonder how many times the author has ghosted on guys? The majority of rejections i get from women are just ghosting and ignoring messages. Don't be mad when men make the same choices that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 02:00 PM
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The only thing that bothers me about fat acceptance is that so many fat women are getting pregnant, and children born of fat women are less healthy overall. Those kids have a much higher rate of diabetes and other metabolic disorders. There is also a very high correlation between autism in children and mothers who were overweight during pregnancy. We scold and imprison women who smoke and drink to excess while pregnant because it isn't healthy for the child, and rightfully so. I think we should …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 07:40 PM
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I know a couple with kids in an open marriage, and they are going through some shit right now because the wife has lots of suitors while the husband has none. She is super hot and charming. Hes a loud, contentious, ex-army, stereotypical new york asshole who loves to argue. He's not getting any play. Recently, they got into a big fight because she slept with a guy who she's slept with many times before. Apparently she agreed that they would close the relationship for a while because the husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 02:48 PM
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Having sex with just one person for the rest of my life is not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 02:22 PM
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Because sometimes we succeed. I've slept with a few women 10 years younger than myself. It was amazing and I'm glad i took the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 02:44 PM
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Thats a sub for gay twinks and otters. Not straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 02:40 PM
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When i want a relationship, i ask if they also want a relationship. If their answer is anything less than, " hell yes, i want an exclusive relationship," then i know that i need to move on and stop hoping that she will change her mind. Communicating with words is the best way to handles these things. Trying to communicate by interpretting hints and signals is a fool's errand. If you want a relationship, open your mouth and say so. If you never clearly and directly said that you wanted exclusivit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 02:37 PM
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My social network is young professionals, and my male friends have all experienced more domestic violence than the women. A lot more. Almost every guy i know has been hit by an intimate partner. Every single guy i know has experienced prolonged verbal and emotional abuse or manipulation in relationships. The men have all experienced controlling behavior like snooping on phone and computer histories, isolation from friends and family, and being forced to give up hobbies and interests that made th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 02:50 PM
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Meh, no big deal. It's porn. Totally normal for horny young people. Don't most people have some kind of erotic fantasy about being the object of desire by lots of attractive people?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:20 PM
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Yep. Most the cases where the guy "lied" about wanting a relationship was just the guy changing his mind. Accept the rejection and learn from it, damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:11 PM
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I use subtle cues, non verbal communication to show whether or not i'm interested in a relationship. It's women's job to figure out how to develop enough emotional intelligence and empthay to understand. I mean, you'd have to be a total social retard if you can't pick up on subtle cues in a romantic sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 02:08 PM
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Unpopular opinion. Most of the cases where women claim that a guy lied about wanting a relationship and lead them on to get sex was actually just a rejection from the guy after they had sex. More often than not, those guys really were considering a relationship right at first, but then they got to know her better, had sex, and changed their mind. I've unfortunately done this several times and people have accused me of "using" those women, but the truth is that i lost attraction after getting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 06:41 PM
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Handle PMS like wearwolves in harry potter. Its best to quarantine transformed she-beasts while they are a danger to themelves and others, but we should do so with utmost care for their dignity and well being as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 06:07 PM
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Stop enabling these hoes!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 03:29 PM
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Violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 03:26 PM
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Free birth control and prophylactics are about reducing the tide of STDs and bastard children, not about ensuring that women have the right to get laid willy nilly. Women are at an overall greater medical risk than men. Although i will say that our culture tends to care about womens sexual health to a fault. Even though more and more and more men are developing throat and mouth cancer from HPV (which is contracted from eating a lot of pussy), the vaccinatiins are still only free or reduced cost …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 03:15 PM
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Just like my old boss. I used to work in expetimental oil exploration, and my boss was a 60-something year old woman who had six kids. Six! After raising her all of her kids to their teenage years, she went back to college and earned her phd in her later 30s and became a full time prfessor of geology soon after. She co-authored some ground-breaking research in geomorphology, and she and her academic partners eventually left academia to start a business in hydrofracking well analysis. Now she's r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:23 PM
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Yeah dude. This is why i so highly value what my bisexual friends have to say about sex. You dont get to judge someone until you walk a mile in their shoes. But, um... It seems like. A lot of straight women often seem to have a very, very difficult time empathizing with anyone who isnt exactly like themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 05:10 PM
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Can i ask which country you're from?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 02:41 PM
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Thank god for these skanky hippie girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 02:24 PM
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I've experienced a lot more rejections than successes, especially when i was younger and clueless. i hope you can accept that its totally normal for young men to go through this confusing, frustrating phase. You seem to be suffering from prolonged depression, and i think you should try to focus on improving your internal dialogue and how you judge yourself. I think we sometimes take opinions and actions of a few women and blow them way out of proportion. We might think that because a few women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 05:22 AM
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I'm floored that the survey showed only 62% of healthy women were always able to orgasm from masturbation. That's tragically low. I'd guess that among healthy men without erectile dysfunction, over 95% are always able to orgasm from masturbation alone. My take is that men who are sexually active report greater sexual satisfaction because it's so damn easy to arouse men and bring men to orgasm. Its so easy that a lot of men have to take measures to prevent themselves from coming too fast. Some gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:40 PM
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Reminds me of a great a bit of advice Dante Nero always mentions. And a bit from Chris Rock's new stand up special. A lot of relationships stagnate and start to feel resentful because people stop doing the things that attracted one another in the first place. Think back to when you first started dating. If she fell for you because you took her dancing and to art galleries and whatnot, then you have to keep doing those things for her. Forever! You can't bait and switch, and you can't get lazy. Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:47 PM
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I DON'T KNOW OKAY?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 07:10 PM
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Before you have sex with a guy, you say very very cleary that you only have sex in monogamous relationships. The kinds of guys who are willing to start a relationship with you are the guys in your league. The guys who won't are waoting for someone else to come along, or they don't want a monogamous arrangement at all. If you speak up and state that you only want a long term relationship up front, it will keep away 99% of guys who don't want a relationship with you. But how many women actually do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 01:29 PM
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Yes, i told her she needs to be more realisti but i want to be nice about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 01:50 AM
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That's all true. But you won't get any sympathy. I think its best to have the grace to accept things that you can't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 05:29 PM
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One of my oldest friends recently got out of a long term relationship. Im glad for her because her ex was a negative do-nothing drunk. But now that shes 31 and dating again, she seems to have no idea where she currently sits in dating leagues, and its really sad to see her adjust. She hasn't been single for about 10 years, and she is a lot less attractive now. Frankly, shes fat, but most Texas women are fat after age 30 so it doesnt set her that far back in the game. The last time she was single…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 05:14 PM
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Trust me, i despise those guys as much as you. I'm not excusing liars and manipulators. I'm saying that you have to use good judgement and avoid those guys. I don't think its that hard to pick out sociopathic guys who intend on cheating or ditching their starter wives. Those types are obvious to me... And to my mom, too! But i guess not everybody has good judgement and some people will fall for shitty guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 02:44 AM
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My mom wasnt espesially hot when she was young. Id say she was average for the 1970s when they married. My mom and dad were equal in physical attractiveness back then. But id say that now my mom is hot as hell for a 64 year old american woman because she stayed fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:28 PM
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When they married when they were young, id say they were both about average in terms of looks. Maybe a little above average depending where you were at that time, but they were equal in physical attractiveness. They are 64 now, and they are both above way above average by american standards because they follow a very strict diet. Especially my mom because she had always been a die hard tennis competitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:25 PM
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Real talk: if my dad let himself go and got fat, and if he was not as successful in his career, my mom probably would have left him. But my dad and my mom both continued to bust their asses in order to be successful and attractive to one another. My argument is that neither person is entitled to life-long commitment. Both parties have to continue to work to be attractive and worthy of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:17 PM
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Well if you become less attractive as your partner becomes more attractive, they will leave you. My dad never thought about leaving my mom because she is still hot as hell, energetic, and vibrant even at age 64. My mom was able to keep my dad because she always worked hard at staying athletic and sexy and always worked to keep him happy. A lot of women let themselves go, get fat, stop having sex, and stop trying to make their men happy, and then wonder why men don't want to stick around. Accept …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:42 PM
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Thats only true if you are trying to date above of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 04:15 PM
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Id do what my mom did and use my good judgement to choose an intelligent, principled, hard working person and then do everything in my power to ensure that he had a successful career. My parents married at age 25, and my dad was in grad school working on his Phd until he was 30. He went to ork in the oil industry and made a shit ton of money while my mom raised my brother and I, and they are still happily married over 35 years later. They are currently enjoying their retirement scuba diving in I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 04:05 PM
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yup, that happened to me this year at college. i'm a grad student in a hydrology masters program. I met a wonderful Turkish woman my age in one of my classes, and we started sleeping together. she wanted to keep it a secret, though. I think she felt slutty and guilty about it and didn't want any of our class mates to know. Two other women in my grad program are known as hyper sensitive feminist crusaders. They are the types who are constantly talking about how women are oppressed and harassed ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 06:34 PM
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Thats what many,many girls told me first hand. People would actually say things like, "look out for those guys john and jake when you go to SAE, they are always trying to take falling down drunk girls back to their rooms. always keep your drink with you and never accept any mixed drinks from the guys. Always pour your own." You dont have to believe me, but this is what i experienced while immersed in the greek system. Frat house rape continues to be a problem partly because so many people willin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 05:10 PM
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Did you just compare rape with working a shitty job? Whats wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:39 PM
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I dont understand what you mean with your last comment. Care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:34 PM
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School of mines in Denver, CO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 09:30 PM
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I was a frat boy for a year before i left the system, so i've got some experience here. At my college, there were a few frats that had reputations for rape and sexual assault. SAE was known as "sexual assault expected." Everybody knew what those guys were about and what you were getting into when you went to their parties. Over and over, i witnessed girls go to their parties, get assaulted or raped while drunk, complain about it... and then go do it again the following month. A lot of girls were…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 09:07 PM
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Before, i didnt have much sex. Now i have sex when i want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:39 PM
1

From what ive learned talking to guys who have remarried after divorce, they do it out of a sense of duty and faith in the institution of marriage. They feel like its the right thing to do as a man when you love a woman. They think that men who do not marry are scoundrels who are leading women on. They truly believe that they can make their 2nd and 3rd marriages work. It mostly seems to be about duty and propriety as a man. They feel like they have to get married once theu are in a LTR, or else …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 03:07 PM
1

Feminism is great for attractive guys. It is very true that hot guys have more access to casual sex because of the feminist sexual revolution. But thats only a minority of guys. The less attractive guys aren't getting more sex because of the sexual revolution. They are just as sex-starved as any previous generations of average and below-average men. Maybe even more so because prostitution is no longer legal in the USA. Dont try to sell feminism to men with these appeals because we have already w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:53 PM
3

There's nothing wrong with men approaching taller women, but the odds are against you. Most of my long-term girlfriends have been my height or taller, so it's not impossible. My current FWB is at least an inch taller than myself. It's worth a shot if the context and vibe feels right. and don't worry about women who talk shit about shorter men. it's embarrassing when a grown woman is dumb enough to actually make fun of a guy's height. I expect that from teenagers, but from an adult? it's just pet…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 01:39 PM
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laying down more hatred will not solve anything. it will only create more of those extremists. this is what i'm trying to get across to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 01:24 PM
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its funny - white women living in the first world statistically have the safest and most pampered lives of any people ever to live on this planet, and they still find new things to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 01:22 PM
1

Then why do they keep coming back and sleeping with me? I honestly don't understand it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 06:46 PM
2

Jesus what a dumb question. Its the same reason why moderate feminists distance themselves from insane radical feminists. Or why moderate democrats distance themselves from the anarchist socialists and communists. Or why moderate republicans distance themselves from tea partiers and white supremecists and theocrats. There are extremists and fundamentalists in every socio-political ideology, and the sane moderates do not want to be associated with them. AWALT does not describe a socio-political i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 06:28 PM
1

Time for another jolly world war to deal with all these excess men. Really, though, i think advanced societies would work better if there were fewer men than women. Men and women would be happier overall. Guys would have plenty of sexual options to keep them happy, and women wouldn't have to deal with so much thirst, rape, violence, etc. from men. I would love to live in a society like that. Think about it: women wouldn't take you for granted!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 05:34 PM
1

I've looked into this, and its currently against international treaty to birth any living thing with artificial wombs. Right now, the treaty states that you can experiment with an animal fetus in an artificial womb for up to 10 days. I've read about some chinese teams who have kept mice fetuses alive in artificial wombs for 10 days. I tend to think you're right about a very small minority of men. The vast majority of men really aren't as monstrous as you think they are. But i have to admit that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 05:07 PM
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In the west, most of our traditional means of pairing people are gone or way out of style, so a lot of people don't know how to find a mate. Famillies and church communitites used to be involved in the process of finding mates for their relatives and friends, but thats a dead system. Lots of people meet spouses through work, but thats not an option for a lot of people for various reasons. Tons of incel men and women need help from other people in this regard, clearly. Online dating isn't the ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:09 PM
1

This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 04:11 PM
1

When i was 15, before internet communities existed. I was just lucky that i was good looking and girls came on to me because i had zero confidence. Purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:41 PM
2

No true scotsman, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:30 PM
1

The problem with that woman's ideas about signaling and approaching is that all women do not think and behave the same way. Not by a long shot. This woman (like so many people) can't seem to fathom that other people think, feel, and behave differently from her. A lot of women are too shy and anxious to send any clear signals. What are we supposed to do with them? I know many women who are like that, and they will die alone unless men make cold approaches towards them and remain persistent. A lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 02:27 PM
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if you ever wondered why it seems like so many middle eastern and african countries have an unlimited supply of men willing to join paramilitary organizations, it's because lots of men at the bottom of those societies have no chance whatsoever of finding a bride. When some rich men take multiple brides, there will be men at the bottom of the economic spectrum who literally can't find a wife. there aren't enough women to go around unless you start killing male infants to increase the female/male …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 06:44 PM
2

Yep, this describes myself. Im turned off of the idea of having a wife and kids, and i realized that i dont have to make much money to live well. The high-stress rat race is a choice to me, not an obligation.
/r/MensRights07/06/18 04:07 PM
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Shhhhh, please don't let the western feminists learn about this bit of history. American feminists actually believe that liberal free-love feminism has never been attempted before. They have no idea that they are repeating history. They might wise up and stop having casual sex with men like myself if they find out what happened when the Cossacks attempted to make that system work a century ago. In my life, ive noticed that some women are figuring it out as they get older. They are returning to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 05:22 PM
2

This is episode #83659205716395 of Men Can't Read Your Mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 04:55 PM
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The teen birth rate is also next to 0% in my state of Colorado in the USA because we provide birth control and copper IUD's to at-risk teens. I had lots of sex when i was a teenager, and nobody got pregnant. Sure, these ancient, oppressive methods of controlling people work. But there are better ways to solve social problems now because technology has improved. Sucks for yall that yall are stuck living in the oast while the rest of the world advances. Dont you understand that the middle east and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 01:01 PM
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I think its a matter of how much success you have and how extreme your sociopolitical views are. If they arent successful with girls, they tend to wallow in their failure and rage in those communities because they are the only places where they can talk about their feelings and get a sympathetic ear. Give them a break. They are already at the bottom of society. We should expect them to find a place where they can lament and rage. If they are successful with girls and are moderate in politics, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:43 PM
1

Lol. I dont want to have kids. I want to fuck your girlfriend's mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:45 PM
1

You tried to make it work with a guy who never got over his ex. I'm sorry that happened. I've been there, too, and it sucks. But he was only one man out of 3.5 billion. There are hundreds of millions of men out there who do want to settle down into monogamy while they are still young. You just need to develop the skills and savvy needed to identify who those guys are and how to attract them. And just remember: nobody ever told me that it would be easy and simple to find compatible partners and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:42 PM
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I watched a lot of sex and the city back in the day because my parents liked it. It was a great show, but i guess a lot of women didnt understand that it was a FANTASY. It was porn for women. I always thought that Samantha's character was especially dangerous if women thought that it was possible to be like her. In my opinion, Samantha was the least attractive of the four heroines by far. Saggy ass and tits, wrinkled face. She just looked old. But in the show, her character consistently slept wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:52 PM
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Most guys don't care all that much why exactly women want us. we are just stoked when attractive women want to touch our cocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:25 PM
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Yes, my mom is an AWALT in every way, and she's aware of it. And that's just fine. Its ok to be a woman! But my mom never did the cock carosel or branch swinging thing because she's smarter than that. She was one of those girls who "never gave it up" as my dad recalls. He had to work to win her over, and he succeeded. And my mom chose very well because my dad is very successful. They are coming up on their 40th aniversary. One of my mom's childhood friends is a good example of a similar woman wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:06 PM
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In my experience, women who cant get relationships either 1) have serious social anxiety and are incapable of meeting new people and asking people out, or 2) they only go after guys who are obviously way above their league. One of my closest childhood friends is doing #2 so badly. Shes 31 and got out of a long relationship this year. She let her self get fat and she still needs to lose 50 lbs. This girl only has eyes for guys who are clearly hotter than her. She keeps telling me about fucking ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 12:55 PM
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When you say it that way, it takes the fun out of it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:22 AM
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Im loving this idea of women unionizing to strike a compromise with men's perversion and slutiness. Yall really need to because this total free market of titties and dicks should probably be regulated. Men like myself need to be motivated to contribute more to family and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 04:28 PM
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Thats victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 10:01 PM
1

I just find it appalling that anyone would think they have a right to force another person to be a parent without their explicit consent. We dont allow men to do that, and for good reason. I cant poke holes in my condoms and then force my partners to pay for the kids. That is an actual crime in many places. ... But its right and good and lawful when a biologically female-bodied person does the equivalent?? Give me a break. I just want all persons to be afforded equal rights and oppotunities unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 08:51 PM
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I dont think that women gaining more economic and political power will bring about more traditional commitment, courtship, and chivalry from men. Every woman already has the power to shut down men's slutiness. All you have to do is not sleep with sexy studly dudes while making sure to shame other women who do. But i understnd its a difficult bind for women because from my perspective, i don't give a second thought about women who don't sleep with me. There are other women who will have casual se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 04:54 PM
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I agree with you 100%, and I've noticed that some feminist women are starting to realize this as they get older. Living in a large liberal city is amazing for attractive men if you really try. I can spend half my time getting high and playing videogames while spending the rest of my time sleeping around. Commitment isn't even on my radar. Women in my life have taken note and are beginning to show signs that they no longer support "free love" like they used to. Now they are moving towards traditi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:46 PM
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We should come up with a term for women who can't seem to get easy commitment from men, analogous to "incel". Involuntary spinster? "Inspin"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:34 PM
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Thats what the red pill is for: teaching guys how to spot red flags. And also teaching men that its your own damn fault if you choose to stay with terrible women. They talk about it all the time. Personal accountability is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:16 PM
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I used to feel that way about women. But then i realized it's because i consistently chose to fuck around with unhinged, untrustworthy women. It was my own damn fault. Nobody forced me to keep going back to abusers, druggies, cheaters, and liars. I'm attracted to crazy women who will cause problems, and it's my personal responsibility to not give into those temptations unless im willing to accept the risks and consequences. If you keep ending up with jerks, druggies, liars, and cheaters, it's be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:40 PM
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Im all for it because monogamy is definitely not for me. I can't imagine having sex with only one person for the rest of my life. I can't call myself polyamorous, though, because im not trying to maintain long- term relationships. I'd call myself just plain non-monogamous (aka skanky). I also like the term "relationship anarchist" because in my mind, there is very little difference between a female friend and a female lover. Now you are thinking about Will Ferrel saying LUVAHH in a hot tub. I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:12 PM
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Yep. And also men who have been through abusive breakups or divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:43 PM
1

I agree with you. Youre gonna have to work to get an above-average guy. But its worth it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 10:23 PM
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This is all true. Tons of men are clearly unmotivated to follow the traditional male path because it's not rewarding for so many of them. When men get lazy and unmotivated, everyone else is society suffers. Theres no going back, though. Not until after this decadent phase runs it's course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:11 PM
1

How do you feel about men who sleep with lots of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 04:04 PM
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I choose the slutty one because i like sex. Im not marrying either, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 04:01 PM
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You really dont understand men. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 03:46 PM
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I love sluts! But commitment is out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 03:40 PM
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Yeah, like i said: nobody's forcing anybody to have children with anyone. People often make stupid choices in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 03:20 PM
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I'd advise those women to improve their station in life and to actively pursue better dudes. People are accountable for their choices. Really, i wish those women could connect with guys who actually want to be good dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 05:37 PM
1

Innocent people were murdered by crazy incels in recent years. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:36 PM
1

Yes, i like eating pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:50 PM
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She was really hot, so i was prepared to put up with just about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:38 PM
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Not much. But im not trying to convince anyone to commit their entire lives to me, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:16 PM
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No, having babies does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 08:07 PM
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Most guys are spurred into sleeping around with lots of women because they already loved and lost. Thats what ive noticed, at least. If you take a slutty, rutting guy and really ask about his history and how he feels, you'll find that most of those guys who don't want relationships went through seriously traumatic breakups in the past. They dont want to do it all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 08:06 PM
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This is a good point. Single parenthood is still mostly an issue of class, intelligence, and foresight. Lots of people are either too poor or too dumb to use birth control pills or implants effectively when left to their own devices, whether they are male or female. Birth control has to be extremely cheap and easy to use to be effective for dumb and lower-class people. Here in Denver, colorado, we instituted a policy that provides very cheap birth control and copper IUDs to at-risk teenager girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 03:02 PM
1

I love sluts though!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:41 PM
1

Truly! i think the calls for a return to "chivalry" are just seeing the past with rose tinted glasses. the feminist revolution was a huge middle finger to the old ways, and good riddance. we can all be polite and respectful to one another equally and civilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:01 PM
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Another issue that bothers me is the double standard around slut shaming men and women. slut shaming women is not allowed (and i agree; i never slut-shame because i like sluts <3), but slut shaming men and actively cock blocking is very common among feminist-leaning women i know. they reeeeaaaally don't like it when i "get sex for free", so to speak. they act like i'm "using" women when i sleep with someone, but it's not like that at all. at the same time, they laud women who sleep around and le…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:55 PM
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go read up on women's duties under chivalry, because you clearly have no idea what you're talking about. women were expected to defer to men and serve men under chivalry. women were not allowed to talk out of turn. women were expected to remain virgins until marriage. if women broke any of these rules, they were permanently dishonored. feminism and chivalry are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:31 PM
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I tend to date educated feminist women, and I hate how they often pick and choose expectations from traditionalism and from gender egalitarianism/feminism that only benefit themselves. It shows a lack of integrity and self-awareness. for example, so many women i know cry about wanting men to be gentlemanly and chivalrous, but they vehemently reject any expectation of being lady-like and chivalrous as women. a lot of people don't even seem to understand that chivalry was a code of ethics and beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:42 PM
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Ok you didn't understand what i wrote. The woman coerced the man into non-consensual sex by threatening to falsely acuse him of a crime. "Non-consensual sex" and "rape" are synonyms in our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:16 AM
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now you're just changing your argument. first you said, "Getting raped by women means little to men." Now you say, "it's not possible for women to rape men." Which is it? What constitutes rape when perpetrated by women? I'll give you an example of a guy who went through rape and abuse at the hands of a woman, and he did not enjoy it. I've met several men who have been raped and abused by women because i used to be involved with a domestic violence counseling group for men. The worst case I encou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:04 AM
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i agree with you. i've known many, many women who are too shy to make a move, and they go years and years without dating or sex. I'm currently a grad student at a hard ass engineering university, and i'm friends with several girls who haven't had any romantic contact in several years. I worry about them a lot because it will probably become even more difficult to meet guys once they leave college and get a regular job. My university is about 70% male, and if these girls can't even ask out a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:10 PM
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please do not belittle or dismiss other people's trauma. you have no fucking idea what you're talking about. rape can wreck people's lives, no matter who the victim or perpetrator was.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:58 PM
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I'm not as successful as you, but I'm experiencing the same thing now that I've turned 30 years old. everywhere i go, women in my life are constantly bothering me about getting married and having kids already. they seem offended and distraught that some men aren't interested in conventional monogamy, as if it's something that was owed to them like a pension. In recent years, I've started to downplay or hide my "good provider" traits, and it's actually worked very well to ward off the types of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:55 PM
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I tend to agree. I don't read any of the manosphere any longer because it's so steeped with men who are angry at women. I'm especially disappointed that men's rights ended up so shitty. they became a mirror image of man-hating radfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:33 PM
0

Theres a difference between bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Which ia it here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:52 PM
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I dont want marriage or children. I just want women. Lots of them. This issue is getting annoying because all of my female family and friends keep trying to tell me that conventional relationships will solve all my problems. Yall meed to understand that commitment and monogamy do not provide what a lot of men want. You need to sweeten the deal and go out of your way to incentivize commitment. How is his life guarnteed to get better after committing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:44 PM
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clearly. your knee-jerk reaction to any information you don't like seems to be deny, deny, deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:27 PM
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yes, those exact words, and many very similar sentiments. in my life, when feminist women have something to say about men or their relationship with men, it's almost always negative and critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:55 PM
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My chronic depression has been the root cause of all my lost loves. And i dont blame them. Constant irrational insecurity and sadness isn't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:26 PM
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Ive heard several young women say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:24 PM
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Try to remember that its impossible to please every woman at once. No matter what you do, there will be a woman who despises it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 01:01 PM
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yes, women have to make it known that they are interested. In my experience, women are really bad at this. most women show their attraction to guys by being extra friendly, and that still leaves men confused about whether it's appropriate to hit on them or not. i have to put my professional reputation first, and hitting on colleagues is dangerous for a guy's reputation. since it seems like you want to find a guy with a similar career path as your, remember that you might have to actually approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:09 PM
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no, it's not impossible to find a compatible husband and have a family while keeping up with your career. i know plenty of women like that. my mom was one of them. you do have to put in some deliberate effort to meet guys and make it happen, though. i used to work in an office setting in the oil industry, and i'm currently a grad student at an engineering university, and i notice that most of my academic female peers take an utterly passive, inert approach to dating. sometimes i wonder if my fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:29 PM
1

Hey, leave mayonaise out of this. Mayo is delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 01:36 PM
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Some women enjoy it. Nuff said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:55 PM
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I live in colorado, which is one of the fittest states, and i tend to go for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 04:56 PM
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You won't learn, will you? That chip on your shoulder scares the good guys away. We can smell it from a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 02:38 PM
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This is all on point. This is exactly how I've grown to feel about conventional relationships as a guy. As time goes on in a relationship, the expectations for men keep going up, and the rewards diminish. You have to keep doing more, but the sex and overall feeling of being appreciated by your partner takes several nose dives over the years. This is why so many guys require sex fast and easy and dont have any time to wait for sex. We know that the beginning of the relationship will provide the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 07:21 PM
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i'm male, age 30. last night, a female friend of mine texted me that she was really horny and frustrated. of course i went over to her place to eat her pussy and fuck her silly. i wish women would straight up ask for sex more often. I'm easy. i like sex for the sake of sex. being overtly desired by women makes me profoundly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:49 PM
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my mom says that all the time: young men are totally failing to become men by the standards she grew up with. she was born in 1954. right now, she often laments how videogames and porn have ruined young men because they want to spend more time playing games than chasing women. She's right, but at the same time, that doesn't reflect well on women. if you ask young men how they feel, they will often admit that videogames are a hell of a lot more fun than going on dates with women and attempting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:43 PM
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my mom says that all the time: young men are totally failing to become men by the standards she grew up with. .she was born in 1954. right now, she often laments how videogames and porn have ruined young men because they want to spend more time playing games than chasing women. She's right, but at the same time, that doesn't reflect well on women. if you ask young men how they feel, they will often admit that videogames are a hell of a lot more fun than going on dates with women and attempting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:39 PM
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i'm too lazy and insecure to put in the effort to chase girls most of the time. i really only feel motivated to pursue women when i'm certain that i'll have free, easy sex. i suppose i could have a lot more frequent sex if i put more effort into setting up dates and romancing girls, but that feels like having a 2nd job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:24 PM
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I like many, many women. But they are wasting my time if they don't want to sleep with me. I have plenty of just-friends already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:06 PM
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Life wouldn't be any different for me if that were true. I can't remember the last time i had sex where the girl wasnt very attracted and aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:40 PM
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Men dont see it that way. Obviously. I dont have faith a girl will be sexually attracted to me in the future if she isn't sexually attracted to me today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:34 PM
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If more women made committed relationships attractive and bebeficial to men, more men would want to get into committed relationships more quickly. But that isn't the case, is it? Contemporary conventional relationships in the USA just don't offer what a lot of men might want. From my perspective as a 30 year old grad student who can get laid, conventional relationships bring a lot more obligations, annoyances, and risks than benefits. Women really really want me to adhere to my traditional male …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:17 PM
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I have little interest in women with low libidos. Ill take slutty women who enjoy sex for the sake of sex over frigid women any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:24 PM
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How many women have you slept with? Im gonna have to guess that you have little to no experience in this regard. In my experience, people's libidos dont suddenly increase when you give commitment. If she has a low libido at the beginning, chances are that she will always be like that, and that's not what i want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 03:02 PM
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Its almost as if people are different and men are not a part of a single hive mind. Yall keep asking for the ONE SINGLE ANSWER to get what you want from men. But there is no one answer because people are individuals with different opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 03:00 PM
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purple pill i guess because i can't stand the cringeworthy impotent rage towards women in the manosphere. I'm 30 years old. I've slept with 25-30 women, and 5 of them were long term relationships. in the last 12 months i think i've slept with 8 women? i'm not sure, but its been a great few years. most of the women i've slept with came after age 25 because i was really awkward, depressed, and scared to talk to girls when i was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:58 PM
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ok. don't care. go be a lesbian if you don't like having sex with men. we won't miss you because there are plenty of other women who enjoy sex and have better attitudes. making demands of men won't get you anywhere. haven't you noticed that by now? it's a much better idea to figure out how to provide incentive for whatever it is you want. if you want something from a man, you need to give him a good, tangible reason to do it. only simps and pussy beggers will quake and waver in the face of deman…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:36 PM
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i disagree completely. many men really don't want to LTR women with frigid low libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:27 PM
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LOL indeed. i keep having to rhetorically ask my female friends, "what exactly do think men want from women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:25 PM
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after reading through this thread, i am so glad that i stopped trying to be the guy who women make wait for sex. i have been so much happier once i started to become the guy who women want to sleep with here and now. it sucks to be the chump who puts in a lot of "good guy" effort and gets little in return while watching other guys get laid. I've been there before and I'm never going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:14 PM
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oh that poor bastard. some guys really do need formal training in how to not fail at dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 05:14 PM
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in an ideal world, women would start making more responsible decisions about having children. more women would use BC and more women would have abortions. fewer unwanted children would be born overall. in reality, it would probably just result in a lot more poverty in the USA. lots of unwanted children would still be born even if those women had many chances to prevent them. welfare would probably expand in an attempt to care for all the single moms and kids, but history shows that state welfare…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 05:01 PM
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the true answer is that people are wildly different in this regard. some girls have instantly lost all interest in me after i revealed insecurity. Other girls became much more interested and intimate with me after i revealed insecurity. the problem is that it can be hard to tell how women will react to vulnerability in men, so i try to show vulnerability slowly. i need to know i can trust a woman with my uglier, unsexy feelings before i show them. this year, i've been pleasantly surprised with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:42 PM
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A lot of guys are compassionate and want to help other guys. Thats why the red pill and PUA communities exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 12:55 PM
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making friends with the fish won't alleviate the fisherman's starvation. this is why we say don't ask the fish, because the fish will lead you to continued starvation. the fish does not prioritize the fisherman's best interests and well being. see what i'm getting at? when women give dating advice to men, they usually give advice that prioritizes women's comfort and power in the interaction. women's dating advice to men is for the benefit of all other women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 01:50 AM
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I know. But that doesn't make me feel more confident. And it doesnt make me feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:07 AM
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Ok. Those women should start asking guys out and take the initiative in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:20 AM
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This is an issue that you will have to take up with other women and socio-political groups who make men feel afraid of being sexually assertive and confident. Intelligent men protect their own asses first and foremost, like we always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 12:48 AM
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If you want more men to cold approach women in public more often, you should engage all of the women who hate it when men approach them and tell the to shut the fuck up. Men are afraid to aproach women because of what women say and how women act when we try, and theres nothing we can do about it. For more perspective: Im a professional scientist/engineer in geoscience, and i cannot risk getting a bad reputation as a creep/womanizer/whatever. That means that i have to be 100% sure that its apropr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 11:28 PM
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Men and women are different. Accept men as they are, make compromises, and move on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:00 PM
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To be honest, I'm insecure and i usually do not feel safe or confident approaching total strangers unless the setting makes me feel safe. I really do not want to approach someone who doesn't want to be approached, and i don't want to be humiliated if it doesnt go well. I know men are supposed to be 100% confident all the time, but im not and never have been. My female friends and family always complain when strange men approach them, and its left an impression that's hard to shake. From all I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:56 PM
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You do the same thing, dont you? Ignore fat, greasy, weird, or annoying women until they become hotter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:27 PM
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I thought that marriage was always for the sake of rearing children and streamlining inheritance. Marriage is becoming less common because children can be cared for with it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:16 PM
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I thought that marriage was always for the sake of rearing children and streamlining inheritance. Marriage is becoming less common because children can be cared for with it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:15 PM
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I thought that marriage was always for the sake of rearing children and streamlining inheritance. Marriage is becoming less common because children can be cared for with it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:15 PM
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I cant remember the last time i approached a stranger and asked them out. I usually meet women through friends and tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:07 PM
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Hey women, stop getting mad that men want sex before commitment. We are just filtering out all of the frigid, low libido women so that we don't end up with a sexless, miserable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:45 PM
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The blue pillers do not care about men's needs and desires. You're mistaken if you believe that the blue pill people want to find a ways for men to have more sex. I thinks thats the most common misunderstanding among moderate, thoughtful purple types around here. It seems like they just want hurting, lonely men to shut up and disappear. Many of them seem to take pleasure in men's pain and frustration. Thats why i don't engage them. They are not acting in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 03:50 PM
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don't worry. i'm 5'7" and i've slept taller women. come to think of it, most of my long-term partners were my height or taller. this is mostly an issue of confidence and self-esteem, like most issues men face in dating and sex. you'll find that if you aren't bothered by your height at all and are utterly confident in your body, then a lot of women will follow your lead and not care. do not show insecurity about your body or appearance. you'll be fine with practice.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 11:54 PM
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I've taken medication for depression for 15 year or so, so i understand. I think you need to get your mood disorder under control before you can hope to have a happy relationship. I've been avoiding committed relationships in recent years because my mental state makes me unreliable. norepinephrines like Welbutrin have worked very well for me, but not well enough. Some of the best advice i've heard about maintaining long relationships goes like this: You have to keep doing whatever it was that at…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 06:24 PM
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i see what you mean. those are faux pas's and desperate moves by any measure. a guy who did those things would also be seen as desperate and insecure to a fault. I'd be a laughing stock if i did any of those things. it sounds like you're already in a relationship so the following may be irrelevant to you, but maybe you can pass this info on to other women who need help. when i say that women should pursue men, i mean that they should talk to men, ask questions, give compliments, ask them out on …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 06:00 PM
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35% of women don't want the hookup to turn into anything more. This runs counter to the common belief that all women want to date their hookups. If you hold this belief, what do you make of it? i think that shit-faced hookups should be analyzed separately from sober hookups. I bet we would find that there's a very strong correlation between sober hookups and women who want those sober causal hookups to turn into relationships. i bet that a lot of those hookups that women did not want to turn int…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 05:10 PM
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Yep, this is so true. Men get lazy after the honeymoon period, and women stop wanting sex. Its the natural course of relationships for our species. The honeymoon period only lasts long enough to ensure that you get pregnant. Thats how we evolved to behave, and there should be no shame in it. This is why i believe that life-long moogamous relationships are a terrible idea for a lot of people. It's unnatural, but people try to force it because they feel like they have to. The lofty ideal that all …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 04:49 PM
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Truly. The vicious cycle is near impossible to escape for a lot of people. I dont know how to help those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 04:38 PM
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Who says women are low quality for pursuing men? Women keep saying this, but I've never seen a single man say anything like that. If anything, men are flattered by attention fron women. Maybe conservative old men from a different time say that about women who actively pursue men. Maybe pastors and priests and imams say that. Maybe young neo conservatives say that. But who cares what the social conservatives think? Regular non-conservative guys aren't like that at all. If you have specific exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 04:34 PM
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why do you tolerate them at all if you despise them so much? if you didn't fuck jerks, you wouldn't have anything to complain about. stop fucking predatory, asshole guys. if you're attracted to preadtory/sociopathic/"dark triad" types of guys, then learn to accept all the drawbacks of having relationships with them. take some responsibility for your choices and actions. nobody forces you to date immoral, predatory men. You should know by now what you're getting into when you date those types of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:21 PM
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Why in the world would a hot girl date down?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:47 PM
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I really wish i had an on/off switch for my sex drive. Its great having a sex drive when it's satisfied, but having an unsatisfied sex drive is a massive source of stress and sadness in my life. Right now is a good example. Grad school is depressing the hell out of me and taking up all my time and energy. When i get depressed, i have a 0% chance of attracting women. Even women I've slept with before. Depression and low confidence dessicate vaginas, and it can create a vicious cycle. I wish i cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:30 AM
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Why would a woman want to be in a harem with a regular guy unless she had a kink for it? What do they have to gain from staying in a harem when they can get a lot more from of men in monogamous relationships? I can see why some women would be happy in a harem for a guy with celebrity status, but most women do not get that opportunity. Anyway, i have the same experience in being a non-monogamous guy. The vast majority of women will not continue to have casual sex with you unless they think it wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:43 PM
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learning cool skills like guitar will not get you anywhere with women if you don't have a great personality, social skills, charisma, etc. I know a lot of very intelligent, skilled, accomplished men who have no luck with women because they don't have any game (for lack of a better word). they are exactly what women want on paper, but they have no idea how to be sexy and flirt with women. This is very common among STEM dudes. i do a lot of cool things, but those "cool points" do not get me laid u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:52 PM
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i have no idea what you're talking about because players who don't commit are routinely hated in mainstream culture. i have to downplay how much of a man-slut i've been to avoid slurs and judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 06:48 PM
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Wow. You are doing this backwards. You reward men you dont really like with sex, and you punish men who you really like with no sex. You might not intend it like that, but thats exactly what your behavior looks like from men's perspective. Besides, ive learned from experience that its stupid to believe a woman who promises sex in the future. If she doesn't want to jump my bones right here and now, why would i believe that she will feel differently in the future? Shes probably just playing me for…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:24 PM
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Im a 30 year old guy. ive used tinder for 3 or 4 years now, and ive had a lot of fun with it. Ive slept with some wonderful women and i even arranged a threesome with two girls from tinder. Thanks to tinder, i fucked a girl while i was staying at my parents house over thanksgiving break this year. Dad was amazed, to say the least. I dont send messages any longer, though. Im sick to death of coming up with interesting conversation starters and planning dates when the girls put in zero effort on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:10 PM
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Yep, all this. It's a vicious cycle a lot of men fall into. In my opinion, men should stay away from feminist communities and literature unless they have rock-solid self esteem and an ability to ignore all the misplaced hatred and blame. Feminists can't help men who really need help because those guys are creepy and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 05:46 PM
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Sex positivity was never intended to help men get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:36 PM
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purple. i benefited from the red pill and PUA communities years ago. i think the fundamentals benefit a lot of people because so many guys are set up for failure in romance and sex by mainstream culture. but at this point in my life, i can do without all the misogyny and negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 09:10 PM
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the manosphere is generally chock full of sour grapes, revenge fantasies, and plain old schadenfreude toward women. it's degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 08:38 PM
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yep because that was the first time in history that women actually had to start paying alimony. the concept was just fine with women as long as only men suffered from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:21 PM
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you might feel differently if it happened to you. or if it happened to your brother or son.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:01 PM
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Are women really disconnected with most men experiences? Do things really just happen to women? yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 04:49 PM
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yes because i like sex for the sake of sex. it feels good. i also like sex in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 04:46 PM
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why in the fuck would any prison full of male inmates have female guards, or any female staff at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 03:11 PM
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Clearly you are still stuck in college land. The rest of the world is not like american college.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 04:12 PM
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no, i'd say that a lot of intelligent men in the USA intentionally do a lot of cringeworthy, disgusting, and unattractive things. and they refuse to change themselves. I'm a grad student at an engineering university, so i'm surrounded by very intelligent people. some of those intelligent guys are very attractive because of how they present themselves and how they spend their time. those guys dress well, stay fit, and are social. they have nice haircuts and put effort into hygiene and grooming. t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 05:50 PM
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a woman who can be bought is not a woman worth having. yall can keep the gold diggers and prostitutes to yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 02:37 PM
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true. well, except when a condom breaks. that's happened to me a few times, and i'm lucky it didn't lead to unwanted children. my partners and I split the cost of using Plan B in those cases where the condom failed. any of those women could have refused to take Plan B, and they could have forced me to become a dad if they had become pregnant. All without my consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:26 PM
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in that case, abortion should be illegal. if women do not want to have kids, then women shouldn't have sex. now obviously i don't believe that. i'm jut showing how that argument doesn't hold up because it's a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 04:30 PM
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i agree, but women who make stupid decisions about who they have children with are equally responsible for the absence of good fathers in their children's lives. having a child with a guy you're not married to is idiotic. having a child with a guy who's promiscuous, emotionally or physically absent, abusive, or violent is extremely idiotic. why are all these women choosing to force children on to men who never expressed a desire to raise kids? it's just plain dysfunctional decision-making. women…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 04:22 PM
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The average black woman is fat as fuck, at least where I've lived. Some white men are chubby chasers, but the vast majority are not. I personally think black women are gorgeous. I wish there were more black women in my region. But the issue still stands: most pretty, educated black women i meet are just too fat. Also, there seems to be a huge chasm between black women and white men in how courting should work. White men are generally not as forward or agressive as black men are, and flirtation a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 08:27 PM
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I dont know what i want in the future. Ill sleep around for another few years while i comptemplate it. Maybe ill find a woman that i can have a conventional relationship with, but i doubt it. Conventional relationships have all ended in disaster in my life. It does worry me. One day I'll be old and alone. One day, young women will start calling me creepy just because I'm old. I'll probably be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:56 PM
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Whoa. You should stop reading this stuff online. The red pill and mgtow communities are chock full of the worst, most negative guys. Normal men with great lives do not hang around those communities much. Seriosuly, get off the internet. Because you come from a history of abuse, you're in danger of falling into abusive relationships. The fact that you want to cater to these clearly shitty guys is a huge, pulsating warning sign that you're headed down a bad path towards relationships with horrible…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:40 PM
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Nobody is forcing those women to have kids with deadbeats. Women have all sorts of ways to prevent pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:22 PM
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Do you understand that white people living now had nothing to do with whatever our ancestors did in the past? White people are not a single, continuous entity across generations. They are individuals, and they are not responsible for the sins of their ancestors. If this is how you think and act out in the world, then its no wonder why white guys want to avoid you. Maybe more white guys would give you a chance if you didnt have a chip on your shoulder. For perspective, im one of those white guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:18 PM
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You'll be fine of you follow Mike Pence's rules for the workplace. I think a lot of people are way too paranoid about those false accusations. Its an irrational perscution complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:49 PM
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i wish my sex drive had a on/off switch. it can be so distracting. i'm prone to daydreaming about sex when i should be focusing on my work. also, it just plain hurts when i don't have sex for a while. i wish i could turn it off if i enter long periods where it's not possible to get sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 05:03 PM
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i looked through my mom's highschool yearbook a while back (from Georgia, USA, circa 1970), and i was stunned by how much hotter all the girls looked compared to my class's yearbook, but i couldn't put my finger on why. It took me a moment to realize that it was because there were no fat girls in my mom's yearbook, whereas there were lots of fat, greasy, zitty people in my yearbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:59 PM
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i'm a straight guy and i've used a lot of the manosphere, but i am also actively repulsed by most of the manosphere. reading up on PUA and red pill fundamentals vastly improved my confidence and success with women. not only that, but it really improved my friendships with women. my life is so much better because of the positive info i was able to glean from the manosphere. that said, i do not want to associate with the manosphere as it stands. it's dominated by cringeworthy woman-haters and pseu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 02:46 PM
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Some of us do not want to get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 01:04 AM
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hmm. that would explain why i've never seen them in the same room at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 03:51 PM
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Am too! Your mom isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 02:45 PM
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Yes most men are getting casual sex when they want You're really out of touch if you believe this. This is not true in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 09:19 PM
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i've never lived with a significant other, so I've done all my cleaning, home maintenance, and cooking in my adult life. even as a kid, i made my own food and did my own laundry and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:46 PM
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The title needs a huge pulsating asterisk attached to it because success in attracting women was found to be strongly correlated with verbal intelligence. what are the other types of intelligence they considered, and how did they correlate with success with women? The intelligence test included scales measuring numerical, verbal, and nonverbal abilities. the impact of intelligence for the men in this study was more pronounced in the younger groups. The probability of getting married was particul…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 08:24 PM
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programmers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 07:02 PM
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How many of you are or have in the past dated, slept with or even commited to a woman who you felt was below your standards? yeah, of course. why? because it was easy and I was tired of porn and I needed a pick-me-up! it's not rocket science. Do you think this 'pattern' or 'dating strategy' is as harmful as unattractive men claim it to be, or do you think it's just part of dating and it doesn't affect you because at least you're getting laid yes, it is absolutely detrimental to men who are less …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 07:01 PM
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you should really listen to that guy and accept what he has to say. deaf people really are in an uncomfortable and disadvantaged position in any human society. they are shunned and ignored. ive heard it described as living in a foreign country where you are incapable of learning the native language.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 06:38 PM
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if you take the time to listen to men's stories, you'll find that a lot of guys who eschew conventional monogamy have had really bad, traumatic experiences in long-term relationships. I'm one of them. I have been a hell of a lot happier ever since i decided to seek random sex and have friends with benefits instead of committed relationships. all of my closest friends and family have noticed that my mental state has drastically improved over the last several years, and it's because i've been havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 06:14 PM
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A lot of them have been burned by bad relationships in the past, this is the largest group of men who go to TRP, or it was before the incels overran it this is an overlooked and willfully ignored truth. from what i've seen, men who avoid committed relationships usually have a damned good reason to fear them. They were hurt in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 05:59 PM
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Lucky you! Big titty DNA is good DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 12:36 PM
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Ive been hurt and betrayed in relationships. All of my committed relationships ended in years of emotional pain, so i decided that im better off not putting myself through that again. My mental health is a hell of a lot better now because of it. Non monogamy made my life happier. If you talk to people who eschew monogamy, i bet you'll find a lot of them have a similar history. Its true that id have more frequent sex if i kept committed relationships. But relationships also require a lot more tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 04:51 PM
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Just remember, having big boobs because you are fat is like saying you made your car go faster by pushing it off a cliff :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 02:50 PM
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Youre right on bith counts: fat women are the norm in a lot of places in the USA, and it is not the norm for the majority of other countries. Ive traveled quite a bit and ive rubbed shoulders with a lot of foreign students at my university, and american women are kind of a laughing stock in the eyes of all other devolped nations because they are so fat and frumpy. Im dating a Turkish girl at my university, and she often comments on how bad american women look and how poorly they behave. One of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 02:23 PM
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All of these songs are about 30 years old. Times have changed a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 08:35 PM
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you're right. empathy is not granted to men much. it's always been that way and always will be, so i suggest that you learn to live with it. that's what i did and i'm a lot happier now! I give a lot of empathy, and it tends to come back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 05:53 PM
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this level of concern is absurd, bordering on paranoia. yes, there are fringe individuals and groups who think that not fucking trannies is homophobic, but they are a tiny, crazy minority. if this worries you, then stay the hell away from hyper-progressive spheres such as TV and film. also, get off the internet for a while. that's where the crazy ideological minorities hang out.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 05:15 PM
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those people really have no idea what men's experience is like, and they don't want to understand. they really just want to put other people down and feel like their perspective and outlook is morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 05:04 PM
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they certainly are a threat, in an innocent and indirect way. read my comment at the top for another perspective. getting hit on by too-young girls creeped me the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:51 PM
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Shit, i remember that feeling vividly. When i was an older teenager, it was extremely uncomfortable when much younger girls (like 14 or 15) flirted with me. When too-young girls flirted with me, I remember thinking, "i need to get out of this situation before anyone sees me! People will think that im trying to get with girls who are way too young." it does creep me out when minors try to hit on older men. I guess they don't understand the sort of risk that they place on those guys. But hey, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:00 PM
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The only people who i see slut shame any longer are jealous women, men who can't get laid, and bible thumpers or neocons. They all have an interest in women having less casual sex for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 12:32 AM
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So true. You wouldn't get pumped and dumped if you really put in the effort to knock guys out of their socks and make them think, "wow i would be an idiot to let this wonderful woman go!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 02:54 PM
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Yep, orgasmic women are sooooo much better in bed. Frigid women often arent worth the effort, in my humble opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 02:50 PM
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Yeah, thats exactly what i said in the first place. I already understand the landscape of abuse and violence in the USA. Most child abuse is neglect, and most of it is due to mothers. Men tend to commit more violence and sexual abuse than neglect. Men cant legally abondon their kids, but they can avoid paying child support if the government cant fins them. If the mom pursues child support and the government finds the man, then they garnish his wages or put the guy in jail if he fails to pay chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 04:04 PM
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Because the red pill subreddit and the manosphere in general are embarrassments that i don't want to be associated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 02:34 PM
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That site doesnt even link to its sources, and most of the passage you linked was a discussion of a statistical model, not the actual data. Just look at all tue assumption that were made to arrive at the conclusion that men are "12 times more dangerous" than women. Sorry, but you're being mislead by a website that has a clear agenda to put women above men in matters of family law. Get info from the actual sources, such as the department of justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 07:30 PM
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the most common form of child abuse is from mothers to their own children. go look it up. this is stated in the USA department of justice reports on child abuse and neglect every single year. men tend to commit more egregious crimes, but women commit lighter abuse of children at much higher rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:10 PM
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Me too. I think im developing a thing for foreign girls after my experience dating a Turkish girl this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 09:35 PM
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Yeah some guys will fuck fatties if they are desperate and can't win over any hot girls. Do you want to be that girl, the type that men only go to when they are desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 12:34 PM
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Its both. Go travel and talk to women from outside of the USA/UK bubble. They think american women are pathetic because they cant even attenpt to stay skinny. The turkish girl im seeing at my college is baffled by how unnattractive and fat american women are compared to her own people. She says, "its like they dont even try. I think lots of them are intentionally trying to be unnattractive to men." My cousin lived in buenos aires during her highschool years, and she said that none of the argenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 12:31 PM
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Lol you havent been to east asia or aouth america much. Fat shaming works like a charm elsewhere in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 12:34 AM
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No, I have never fantasized about fat women. No matter how much your try to portray fat women as attractive, i will never feel that way about women. Their only redeeming qualities are their huge titties and baking skills, but thats not enough to make up for their repuslive bodies. Sorry to burst your bubble. I suggest you drop this hypothesis because its just dead wrong. Listen to what men tell you and BELIEVE THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 12:29 AM
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NPR's This American Life is a fantastic series. Huge breadth of topics with quality, unbiased interviewers. I used to listen to them at my old desk job all the time, and this show on hormone replacement therapy really stuck in my mind. Mostly because that lesbian's story is hilarious! "Ooooooh so this is how men feel all the time. They aren't perverted dickheads on purpose. They can't help it." and how she got aroused by just watching a xerox machine working, ha! Yep, too much testosterone will …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 12:51 PM
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okey dokey... that isn't an answer to the question i asked, just a non-sequitor and ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 05:05 AM
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would you say that most women have a higher sex drive than men? we are talking about overall trends, not the exceptions and outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 04:06 AM
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if you have any doubts about how hormones can change a person's sex drive, listen to this NPR show on people who went through testosterone replacement therapy: https://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/220/testosterone/# especially the part about a lesbian who transitioned to male presentation with the aid of testosterone supplements. she experienced a massive shift in her sex drive and modes of sexual arousal. all of a sudden, she could not stop thinking about fucking women. she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 04:03 AM
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Why are you obsessing about tinder if you haven't even gone on any dates with these girls yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 06:55 PM
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If you wait for women to approach you, you are very likely to end up with less attractive women. Are you ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 06:43 PM
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Monogamy benefits lesser men and women. It brings fewer benefits for men who can acquire lots of resources and/or attract lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 10:25 PM
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Nah, manosphere rage shouldn't be explained with studies done on CSGO players. They are totally different issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 10:23 PM
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I got laid a lot more when i was unemployed. Because i could stay out drinking with skanks on sercive industry night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 04:44 PM
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You need confidence to inspire other people into faith and action.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 04:42 PM
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I donated to the parsemus foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 02:12 PM
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Ive seen several divorces where the man ended up getting screwed. In one case, the wife cheated and the guy still had to transfer a lot of his original pre-marital assets to her in the settlement. My bipolar aunt has been married 3 times, and she receives so much in alimony and child support that she hasnt worked in over a decade. At the same time, she prevents the baby daddies from seeing their kids. She should not have custody because she clearly can't even care for herself. She's living in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 01:48 PM
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Id say our jackass president is red pill. He's hated for it. Its not mainstream because the subject matter is politically incorrect. Would Bill Clinton talk about his tips and tricks for fucking interns? I would love to hear that but its not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 03:37 AM
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Claiming that our entire american culture is a rape culture is ridiculous. There are certainly subcultures, locales, niches, industries, etc that i would describe as rape cultures, though. Pretty much any subculture that is rife with narcissistic, sociopathic, and greedy people is likely to be rapey. Plan your life accordingly because this is how human society has always been and always will be in the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 01:43 AM
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Is this a sign of TRP becoming more “black pilled” and fatalistic in their world view yes. people who succeed in the dating game usually stop going to the red pill and the rest of the manosphere because they have good things going on in their lives. all of the positive and normal voices leave, so those communities are dominated by negativity and failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 03:50 PM
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Well yeah, if he had stellar self esteem he might be more confident and acutally feel comfortable enough to approach girls and come on to them. This is my point - looks will only take a guy so far. A guy also needs personality and the confidence to approach girls and seal the deal. Its true that some girls are assertive and actually take the lead, but come on, they are a tiny minority. If my friend and i waited around for those types of women to approach us and lead us to bed, it might be anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 11:53 PM
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We live in Denver. Id say that its not easy for guys here but probably not as bad as other coastal cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 09:15 PM
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What actions would you take to get in bed with him? How much effort and persistence would you put in? The problem i see (aside from his own lack of confidence and everything) is that all the girls who like him dont make any moves on him. At all. They treat him nicely when hes around, but they dont flirt obviously enough with him. They dont ask for his number, they dont ask him out on dates, they dont try to kiss him, they dont touch him, they dont tell him that they want to fuck. They wait passi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 08:57 PM
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yep. plenty of good looking dudes still utterly fail with women due to unattractive personality traits. you can't blame everything on your looks because lots of sexy guys fail miserably and i've seen plenty of uglier and fatter dudes with attractive women because they had such magnetic, exciting personalities. one of my good old friends from college is ridiculously good looking and intelligent, but he rarely gets laid. he's over 6ft tall, has a naturally lean muscular build, blue eyes, long blon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 04:38 PM
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that's what's wrong with so many dating scenes in the USA. so many fat disgusting people that people can't even get turned on by their equivalent any longer. a couple years ago, i looked through my parent's highschool yearbooks, which must have been from 1970 or so. i was floored by how the girls were all so much more attractive compared to the young women in my highschool's graduating class. it took me a moment to realize that it was because there were no fat girls in my parents' peer group at …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:57 PM
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truly. i find myself telling younger men, "don't enable these hoes. they will let you do it and then look down on you for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 06:46 PM
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looks like i hit a nerve. you lose composure and start throwing insults quickly. how does that make you feel about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 04:35 PM
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Sarcasm is the last refuge of a defeated wit, of a person with no real argument. Do you find yourself resorting to sarcasm a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 03:20 PM
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Tomatoes arent vegetables. They are fruit. I try to avoid doublethink when i can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 03:17 PM
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nah, the controversy and fear over drunk sex and consent only really exists on college campuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 01:57 AM
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if you believe that people's behavior, values, and desires are 100% due to what they are taught as opposed to any innate/biological instinct, then it would appear that all people can be molded and engineered into anything you desire them to be. it seems like feminists really want to believe that everything men feel and do that they don't like is due to "socialization" because they want to re-engineer men into something that benefits them personally. my favorite example is this: men are attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 11:38 PM
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These are all very extreme, all-or-nothing beliefs. They are irrational and they aren't representative of reality. Im being sincere when i say this: you could benefit from pofessional therapy because these are signs of chronic depression and anxiety. Also, i suggest you distance yourself from all this internet psychosexual theory because its distressing you and causing you to dwell on negative things that are beyond your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:32 PM
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You seem to thrive on attempting to put other people down. Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 04:04 PM
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Yall are some incredibly cynical and negative people around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 04:01 PM
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i don't think that this is a gendered thing. i see plenty of women who do the same thing even while all of their friends tell them to get out. when people do this, it's often because that's how their parents and other family members behaved. they grew up seeing fucked up, dysfunctional, incompatible relationships as normal, so they end up doing the same thing without realizing that they can choose to live differently. also, i think a ton of people are terrified of being single and looking for ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 10:19 PM
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one of my exes had a low partner count and was really good in bed, particularly giving head. i asked her how she got so good, and she replied that she learned a lot about giving head from reading cosmo magazine all throughout her sexless teenage years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 10:08 PM
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Because they arent benefiting from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 02:27 PM
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They are talking about how showing insecurity and lapses in confidence and decisiveness are usually very unattractive. Guys who show those traits a lot are not successful with women. Go ask any guy whos gone through long phases of deep depression and low self-esteem how women treated them. Showing those feelings wards off women like the plague. Showing sweetness, affection, and vulnerability isnt bad. Most girls who arent assholes crave that stuff, and i think most men do too. Its just often a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 11:50 PM
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When women have sex, do they consent to having a child with that person? Of course not. Thats why abortion is legal and it should stay that way. So why is it that we say that men consent to having a child when men have sex? Please, lets not hold sexist double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 12:26 PM
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I know what you mean dude. There are lots of decent, regular guys who could become so much more attractive and become better boyfriends and husbands with a little advice. But it seems like its so taboo for a guy to admit that he has no game and needs advice. I understand the frustration. If you dont know how to dance, its cool if you take dance lessons. If you dont know how to dress well or what haircut works, you can ask for advice. Lots of girls are thrilled to help in this regard. If youre ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 05:03 PM
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i don't know how people still think that men are attracted to younger women because of "society". female youth is so prized in our culture because men are instinctually attracted to younger women. the "male gaze" is so pervasive in just about every culture in history because it's what men are naturally attracted to. life will be easier when everybody learns to accept this because then you'll be able to accept men as they are instead of wasting time trying to re-engineer men into something that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 09:00 PM
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I really like to play piano some times, but i would hate to do it everyday as my job. I really like videogames, but i would hate to do it every day as my career. See what i mean? Sometimes hobbies are no longer fun when you become obligated to do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:03 PM
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you aren't selling this very well. it's like arguing that a trap from a Saw movie isn't ~that bad~. "once you enter this house, you'll only lose a single pound of flesh if you exit early! it's a great deal! don't worry, you probably won't need to use that exit. forget about that, think about the slim tax benefits you'll get if you stay inside!" nah, i'll pass. i'm not going to get the government involved in my romantic relationships. i'm not going to put myself in a situation where i have to pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 05:34 PM
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most women do not want such a lonely life. most women want to have a life partner, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 05:24 PM
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there doesn't need to be a conviction to totally ruin a man's life. just being accused of a heinous sexual crime is enough to fuck up somebody's life. The Duke lacrosse players' cases. go look it up. it's easy to find. they were exonerated of all charges, but they all had to leave town and start new lives elsewhere because the lynch mob mentality tore their reputations to shreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 05:18 PM
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not well enough, considering all the opportunities i've missed to date and get laid. i usually err on the safe side because i really don't want to make girls uncomfortable or creeped out if i read any non-verbal cues incorrectly. it's humiliating when you read a girl's body language and other non-verbal cues wrong, and it may get you a bad reputation in the professional spheres i'm a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 05:12 PM
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well actually they can and they do, and there's nothing you can do about it except to become more attractive and confident. it's better to accept this because it's not going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 04:04 PM
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artificial wombs are an interesting idea, but they are currently outlawed by international treaty. last i read about it, you can run experiments with artificial wombs with animals for up to 10 days. i doubt that these laws will change any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 05:59 PM
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there have been a few times in my life where i wished that my sex drive had an "off" switch because i had no chance of having sex. being a shy underclassman at a STEM college that was 75% male, for example. or that time i had a field job that was 12 hours a day, 7 days a week in the middle of nowhere all summer. wanting sex so badly all the time but not really having opportunities to sate it was distracting and just plain depressing. i probably would have been a happier, more focused, and more p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:13 PM
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i just saw a comment in the main sex subreddit where a woman said something like "women have a million bodily insecurities to deal with while men only have 3 bodily insecurities: height, dick size, and whether or not they have something stuck in their teeth." that's laughable. what about balding men? what about all those dudes who are so insecure about their bodies that they take steroids at the risk of destroying their livers? a lot of women are clueless about how men think and feel in a genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 11:44 AM
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Yes, i already said that violent men should be avoided. Thats what should be done, and violence shouldnt be excused. You cant stick to a conherent train of thought or discussion. You gust blurt out non sequittors like a teenager and feel like you've won. Why do you even comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 04:27 PM
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you just claimed that violence is in male nature. what are you implying by that? because it sounds like you're implying that wife-beating is permissible or at lest expected because violence is in men's nature. i disagree with that notion entirely. so, what point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 01:07 AM
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to be honest, i used to fall victim like that, too, when choosing girls to pursue. if you look in this post, you'll see my long-winded comment about how i wasted a year of my life trying to fix a very difficult, disturbed girl. you're saying the same thing i just said: so many women fail to heed all the warning signs because they are infatuated by all the confidence and alphness that violent men usually exude. They might not notice all the warning signs because they are thinking with their vagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 01:03 AM
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i'm getting kinda sick of these "all women are crazy bitches" and "all men are violent pigs" nonsense. if those are the people you go for, then that's who you'll get. learn to identify irrational women and avoid them. learn how to find rational women and chase them in earnest. that's what i did, and it changed my life for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 12:36 AM
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it made me feel like i needed to be especially accommodating and nice to show her that she could trust me. that i could "fix" her if i gave into all of her irrational demands. all the isolation and codependence really gave me shitty moods and lower self esteem, to be sure. if she wasn't content, i couldn't be happy because i felt like it was my fault. she was never content after the short honeymoon phase, except during the post-fight make-up sex phases, so it was kinda hellish all around. but wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 12:32 AM
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No, its more like so many women fail to heed all the warning signs because they are infatuated by all the confidence and alphness that violent men usually exude. They might not notice all the warning signs because they are thinking with their vaginas instead of their brains, but its very easy for me to tell which guys are likely to become violent and abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 10:45 PM
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Are you saying that its ok for men to beat women, then? What point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 10:37 PM
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They can be if they are held accountable for their own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 10:33 PM
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That was a weird non-sequittor. I wasnt excusing violent behavior in men in any way. Im holding women accountable for excusing or seeking out violent behavior in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 10:31 PM
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very true. i've had female friends straight up say to me "you couldn't get away with that if you weren't cute."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:01 PM
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that's true. but it's not hard to avoid violent men. it's your own fault if you've got a penchant for those hawt, violent, alpha men. the vast majority of men do not beat women or smash things, and you've gotta be pretty dumb if you repeatedly choose from the small minority of violent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 06:59 PM
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yep, i dated a girl for a year in highschool who was extremely jealous, paranoid, and codependent. she did a really good job of isolating me from all my friends. it felt like i was constantly on the defense for normal things. she'd get insanely jealous and feel like she was abandoned when i hung out with my boys to play halo and smoke weed, so she made sure that stopped. she assumed that i was trying to (or currently) fucking any female friend i had, even my close childhood friend who's like fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 06:50 PM
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I dare you to maintain a long relationship with a woman! you'll learn a lot about why the rest of us bitch and moan, lol. there's a good reason why most bisexual women prefer long relationships with men over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 06:14 PM
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clearly, you haven't dated many women long-term. most women's sex drive dies down in long term relationships. go read the sex and dead bedroom subreddits. they are full of frustrated guys wondering why their girlfriends don't want to fuck them after their 1st or 2nd anniversary. or after they have kids. i also hear lots of stories about the same issue from women i know in relationships - they are all wondering why their own sex drive seems to disappear even though they still love and cherish the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:50 PM
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it hurts their feelings when they find out that the woman they love gave a lot more effort and pleasure to other men. they thought that they were getting 100% from their wives, and it deeply wounds their ego to learn that their wife really only gives them 60% compared to what she did for other guys. having trouble feeling empathy for men? this isn't that complicated. how would you feel if, for example... you really like to go dancing, but your husband refuses to take you dancing and gets upset i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:40 PM
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i know. sometimes i want to grab other men, shake them, and tell them to stop enabling these low-effort, do-nothing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:29 PM
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you're mistaken if you think that men just want prostitutes. otherwise, we would all go do that. don't you understand that men want to be wanted by women? that we want to be recognized as successful and desirable by women and society at large? don't you understand that men's sexual power and experience is wound up with his identity and ego? why would we bother with all of this dating and romance stuff if hiring unwilling sexual partners covered all of our physical and emotional needs? prostituti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:19 PM
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i bet i'd have had a lot less casual sex. I'd be somewhat of a pariah as a never-married 29 year old guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:54 PM
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Not long ago I would have brushed this off as misogynistic, but I’m starting to wonder if that’s simply a cop-out because I’m afraid of dealing with this harsh reality. what a succinct way of describing contemporary feminist theory. putting on blinders and singing LALALALALALA. “At my age, people seem to trust you more if you’re in a relationship, because you seem more stable,” he said. “I’m a freelancer, so I’m constantly having to sell myself to new people, and now when I tell them I’m single,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 02:58 PM
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it's sad how guys who genuinely want to improve their romantic lives are regularly ridiculed. it's piling shame on people who are already ashamed of themselves. it's a strikingly base and brutal way to act, especially since it usually comes from people who champion empathy and social justice. empathy and social justice for all - except for those gross, creepy, frustrated, lonely guys who can't get laid. they should just shut up and disappear. how dare they attempt to improve their mental health …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:20 PM
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things have certainly changed considering what my mom and grandmother have to say about dating. when i went off to college to study engineering, i remember my mom and grandma assumed that i was going to batting off girls left and right. in their minds, they thought that a guy who got a good education and was heading for financial success would have his pick of beautiful girls. LOL. well the game has changed. a lot. girls can make their own money now, so game, charisma, personality, popularity, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:09 PM
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oh sorry - i'm a dude. i forgot this question was directed at women. i feel you though - it's a breath of fresh air in the middle of a caustic wasteland to find women who strive to understand and empathize with men. women who actively set aside their own perspective for a little while to understand how others think and feel in order to understand their behavior. i started getting more involved in alternative and kinky scenes so that i could speak my mind without judgement. girls who are into exh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 06:22 PM
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human beings are innocent until proven guilty. get with the times. this has been the standard for centuries. otherwise, lynch mob justice prevails.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 05:38 PM
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i can't believe that her professor and department head were dumb enough to allow her to use her mattress-carrying gag as a graded art project. she had every right to perform that demonstration in public on her own time, but she should not have been given college credit for it. the law clearly states that you can't include slander of any kind to earn credit at a public university, which is reasonable. i can't write scientific papers that include slander and personal accusations towards other scie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 05:33 PM
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disgust and disdain for male sexuality is ubiquitous in our society, but for some reason it's not considered misandry. for all the talk about having empathy for all human beings and accepting people for who they are and what they truly desire inside, there is a massive exception for men. men must toe the line and keep quiet so that nobody is offended by how they naturally think and feel. women had their sexual revolution and are able to openly communicate about what they want and how they feel, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 04:40 PM
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in my younger years, very little. maybe once a year? i went to an engineering university that was about 70% male and i was pretty damn anxious and shy, so it was a wonder that i got laid at all. if i wasn't so lucky to be kinda handsome, i might've still been a virgin by the end of college. i was good looking enough for girls to come on to me occasionally, which is a hell of a lot more luck that most guys have. back then, girls my age wanted older, more confident, more secure guys. it became obv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 07:09 PM
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well sweden is now the rape capital of the first world where it used to have one of the lowest rates of violent crime... seems like a big feckin deal, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 05:46 PM
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Yeah, thatd be fun. I like women with a self-starting, spontaneous libido, and i wish there were more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 03:29 PM
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all the time. people have wildly different ways of communicating. some girls are really flirty with all their friends and people they meet. it's better to assume that attraction is a possibility rather than miss all those opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 03:29 PM
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this study only analyzes western European women who intentionally got pregnant while single. so, that's pretty much only rich women who can afford IVF and day care, and they generally have access to a lot of social benefits in Europe (or at least a hell of a lot more than the rest of the planet). i'm not at all surprised that their children turn out fine. what about over here in the states, where the best predictor of poverty and delinquency during a child's upbringing is the mother's marital st…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 03:01 PM
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there are wild peacocks in my family's neighborhood, and this is all true. the males are always strutting their stuff, and the females ignore them 99% of the time. the young males seem to have no chance whatsoever - they can't compete until they reach full size and their tail feathers fill out. there's a white-feathered male peacock in the community among all the classic blue/green males, and my parents say that he utterly slays the competition since he really stands out. these a some good funda…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 02:40 PM
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they do have all the power until their attraction to a man makes them give it all up. thats where you come in - men have the power to make themselves more attractive and less autistic, which gives them more power in their relationships with women. or, if you don't want to combat women's inherent power over sex and whatnot, men can date down. chase after uglier girls, and suddenly you'll find that you have all the power over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 02:27 PM
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it's like that scene in Fear and Loathing where a straight-laced businessman walks into a bathroom in a bar and finds two hippies eating a bunch of LSD. the narration reads something like "his life was ruined that day by accident. from then on, he always wondered if there were people in the back rooms of his favorite bars getting incredible kicks in ways that he would never be able to experience or understand." hence, why the community uses the tired old Matrix reference as it's namesake. maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 06:31 PM
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my issue with this film is that the film makers portray all of these issues as something that men do to other men, but it doesn't recognize all the ways that women reinforce men's social isolation and unfounded feelings of shame and inadequacy for simply being a regular dude. in my life, i've gotten a lot more "man up" bullshit from women than i have from men. women, not men, tell me that a man ain't shit if he can't buy nice things for women. that a man ain't worth having if he doesn't confiden…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 05:55 PM
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Oh for sure, its not for everybody. But hey, i like to party and the effort is worth it to me to go rolling every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 04:06 PM
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Ohhhh youll know when you get it. Youll get handsy and youll want to dance and smile. You can buy portable testing kits for just about every drug now, so you can know for sure how good a batch is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 03:04 PM
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Sounds like you got shitty molly. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:54 PM
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Right on. Some people do t need dance lessons, just party favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 02:53 PM
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dude, this is all ok! you're only 20! it's normal! take girls out on dates and then tell them what you told us before you have sex. it is 100% ok to take a girl on a date even if you're not sure if you want a relationship with her. it might feel really awkward the first time you admit that you're not ready to commit, but it will become easier to express how you truly feel and to ask for what you really want as you practice it. being able to ask for what you want is very important to your persona…
/r/seduction11/07/17 05:23 PM
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go to EDM concerts and festivals, ask around, and make some new friends. DMT was everywhere at sonic bloom. good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 06:26 PM
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i'd say to give acid another try because there are so many different types of acid and they all feel different. some batches of acid i've had were very forgettable with minimal visuals while others were profound and life-changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 06:25 PM
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yes and also MOLLY MOLLY MOLLY! people with depression and anxiety may benefit from ecstasy or molly. it really helped me let go and have fun when i was younger and stricken with waves of nonsensical social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 06:20 PM
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Yep, too many fat girls. There are so many girls who could be attractive, but they choose to remove themselves from the dating market by staying fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 05:03 PM
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If you equate male maturity with providing resources for others individuals, then yes, we are becoming more immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 09:16 PM
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The sex sub reddit is extremely politically correct (read: protective of women in every and any way). Dont go there if you want unbiased opinions because it is a little too sensitive towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 09:00 PM
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I think most men's "type" really just boils down to the type of women who will actually fuck them consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 08:53 PM
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I doubt that ill find girls who are into face fucking and threesomes at the lovely church in my neighborhood. But this is a good point. Church life has historically provided an infrastructure for match making, but a lot of young people do not participate in it any longer. I like the community-building aspects of church life, but unfortunately, its not for me. I like debauchery, drugs, and sex. Ill participate in other communities that better fit my values and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:08 PM
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So youre saying that women will sleep with me if i dont chat with them or interact with them at all? I can go right up to girls and say, "Sooo... sex? Yeah?" and they will sleep with me? Obviously, thats not true. There has to be a period of flirtation and escalation to pique a girl's interest. The only way a guy can completely avoid flirtation and gaming is to go after girls who are way below their league to begin with. I could probably succeed in sleeping with ugly and fat girls by simply aski…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 05:34 PM
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You start off by banging average or below average girls... Discreetly. Then you can move up to hotter girls once you've gotten enough practice and feel more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 05:24 PM
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Youll also have to tell young women in their prime to stop going after rich, powerful men. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 05:20 PM
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Too much distance is more dysfunctional. That leads to fizzling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 05:10 PM
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Do they have appropriate places to discuss these issues? No, tons of guys do not have any place to get advice on dating and relationships that's geared towards men's success and happiness. other guys are just as clueless, so talking to friends about it may not improve your situation. lots of guys come from broken homes and their parents never taught them about self-love and identifying red flags. lots of guys grew up with only female authority figures in their lives, and that often leads to putt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 04:06 PM
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I' 5'7" and i'm happy to date taller girls, but i'm much less likely to pursue taller girls because i assume that they probably don't want a shorter guy. I'm a lot more confident approaching shorter girls because i know that height won't be an issue. Taller women should keep this in mind. lots of guys feel like it's a waste of time to pursue women who are taller than them, so they might not even register that a taller woman is into them unless she makes it exceedingly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 03:44 PM
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i'm a 29 year old dude and my number is 22 or 23. (i'm not sure if one of them counts. i was HAMMERED on halloween last year and i honestly can't remember what happened with that ninja turtle MILF who ended up in my bed.) i wish my number was higher. i know that ive missed out on so many opportunities in the past due to totally unreasonable depression and anxiety, and it bothers me a bit. about half of my notches occurred in the last few years because i've finally figured out how to be confident…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 09:15 PM
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for a clueless, awkward, overly analytical guy, this might be good advice. I read most of Styles' book a decade ago when i first flew the nest, and it helped me get out of my shell a bit and actually try to approach girls. I can't stand the jargon, though. it's a shameful, embarrassing secret in our society that there are tons of regular, decent dudes who need explicit instructions on how to have a fulfilling social circle and romantic life. it doesn't come naturally to them. they want to learn …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 07:37 PM
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if your goal is to take home super hot club chicks, then low effort usually doesn't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 07:13 PM
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it might be time to take a break from all this internet theory. it seems bleak as fuck when you hear the opposite sex speak honestly. go get some practice with all this psycho-sexual bullshittery in real life instead of reading about it, ya know? don't let perfectionism creep in either! i know that feeling of "i'll never be exactly ideal so why even try," and it's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 06:55 PM
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I'm surprised that these laws still exist. I can see why they were put in place in the past, but it seems unnecessary now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 06:28 PM
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NPR did some interviews with people going through hormone injection therapy for various reasons. Maybe that was it. Fascinating shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 05:25 PM
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Thats true, but the instincts encoded in our DNA havent changed much even though the infant mortality rate drastically reduced this century. The argument is that these primitive instincts are still present even though the conditions that cause them to evolve are no longer present in an industrialized society. We no longer have to fear being attacked and eaten by predators at night, but humans still have very strong fears about traveling through dark places, especially when alone. Those primal su…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 05:16 PM
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Youre really misinformed about to ton of things in the red pill and PUA communities. We arent all the boogeyman. Just a bunch of dudes who want better experiences with dating and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 04:05 PM
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move to a liberal city, get involved in alt or kink scenes, and find a woman who's ok with polyamory. or, stick to casual dating and be honest about your intentions from the start. bam, you have options from the start. this is what i do, and it's all without having to rationalize a life of deceit and lies. and more importantly, without the risk of smashing my exes' hearts and trust in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 09:53 PM
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I don't know where you got the idea that traditional masculinity requires that men never complain about women. manly AF men complain about their wives and girlfriends all the time in certain company. I had an honest hear-to-heart with a plumber about his crazy-ass girlfriend just a few weeks ago when he working at my place. Talking about girlfriends and wives is a cathartic part of my male friendships, and a lot of it is complaining and whining to one another. this "gotcha" doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 09:20 PM
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NERDS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:13 PM
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i agree. the red pill subreddit has changed for the worse since i first looked into it years ago. it used to be about getting girls, talking shit about the silly things girls do, and realizing happiness, but now i see a lot more real hatred of women and lofty socio-sexual-political rants that do not help guys improve their lives. all the normal(ish) guys leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:03 PM
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sure, i know several beautiful couples and i'm a little envious of them. my parents have been married for 40 years and they are currently traveling the world together. i don't think you understand what "oneitis" means. here's a great explanation of oneitis from a feminist friendly source. i think everybody has felt like this at some point in their lives: http://www.doctornerdlove.com/oneitis/all/1/ oneitis and functional, loving relationships are mutually exclusive. you can't have oneitis while …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 06:08 PM
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at this point in my life, i'd say that the girls i date are more vulnerable than i am because i usually want less from the opposite sex than they want from me. i'm 29 and in my prime, and i still want to party and fuck younger girls. that goal is attainable for me with regular practice. that was not the case when i was younger and had zero self-esteem, though. girls had all the power back then, and i was always the one falling for the wrong girl and getting hurt. i try not to leave a wake of hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 10:07 PM
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this got me thinking about a difference i've seen between men and women over the years while practicing my hobbies: i've noticed that women are for more likely to make comments like "you're so naturally talented" while men are more likely to say "you must have put in a lot of practice to learn that". it's a massive generalization that doesn't apply to every single person, obviously, but it's a noticeable trend. i work as a ski and snowboard instructor. snowboarding is as natural as walking to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 07:37 PM
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i think that describes myself. i believe in the feminist view of sex as it's described here, but i can't deny the effectiveness of red pill/PUA behavior. it's no secret that confidence, assertiveness, social status, success, style, and physical fitness attract women, and you can learn all of those behaviors without taking on a misogynistic world view. i'm glad that it's in vogue because it lets me shut down any accusations of "using" girls for sex or "pumping and dumping." my feminist friends ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 06:34 PM
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from a lot of people's perspective, having sex is better than not having sex, even if it doesn't lead to relationship. sex is fun, sex is a fantastic stress reliever, sex is a fantastic ego boost, and orgasms feel good. pretty simple. experiencing all of that is better than not. some girls (a lucky minority) are able to achieve orgasms during casual encounters, so casual sex is satisfying for them. when you ask those girls, they don't understand why other girls are so averse to sex. from their p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 03:58 PM
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I really wish i could use it more often without people flipping out. I envy the strayans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:23 PM
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Sometimes. To be honest, some of the ugly sex ive had was ridiculously hot. Relationships are tied up with social status, so standards are higher for girls who id consider for a relationship. Its like riding a moped. Its fun and practical, but you dont want the whole world to see you riding it downtown. You only drive your car where people can see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:16 PM
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Its better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:09 PM
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Yep, thats true. So many guys dont realize that sex outside of relationships is worthless to a lot of women. It just isnt what women want, and guys should strive to understand it. In the same vein, a lot of women are incapable of understanding how men NEED sex like we need water and oxygen. I was talking about sex with one of my lady friends recently, and she was astonished that i was willing to have sex with women who i didnt want a relationship with. I told her that i need regular sex to keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:02 PM
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They started the podcasts to help guys succeed in dating and sex. I listened to a lot of black phillip and beige phillip, and i was struck by how much compassion the creators had for average guys who had trouble attracting girls. They really care about all the guys who are hurting, which is a rare thing in our culture. The creators noticed that lots of decent guys have low self esteem and put women on the pedestal, and they set out to help guys develop confidence and skills to improve their live…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:44 PM
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Ive dated bipolar girls on medication before, and it was hellish. Some mental disorders can't be cured with medication, but only managed. While medication helped a lot, they still had uncontrollable mood swings and extremely irrational emotional reactions. I am staying very far away from girls with mental disorders for the rest of my life. It was not worth all the trouble. Also, people should remember that a lot of mental disorders are genetic and can be passed to the next generation. A lot of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:19 PM
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i think there's been a little more acknowledgement of men's issues and appeal towards men. some feminists seem to have realized that they have a PR problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 01:46 PM
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she is not failing to get commitment unless she is stupid enough to have sex with the guy after three dates, or one. lol, you really believe this? that if a girl has sex too soon, guys automatically think she's not relationship material? if a guy doesn't want a relationship with you, it's because of your personality and overall attractiveness, not because you slept with him too soon. the idea that men lose interest in a woman if they sleep with them too soon is the ego's self-defense mechanism. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 05:37 PM
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how old are you, and what age group and socio-economic group do you hang out with? just curious, because i think age, class, and subculture has a lot to do with how people treat sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 05:16 PM
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obviously, individual preferences vary wildly across the billions of men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:22 PM
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you're talking about two different groups of men. men who want submissive women have no trouble making all the decisions. there are a lot of guys out there who do not want that sort of dynamic, but they get stuck with it because women can't seem to figure out what they want for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:20 PM
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it's however individuals want to personally define it. for some people, that means finding a successful long term relationship. for others it means sleeping with lots of 20-somethings, and for others it means swinging and orgies. red pill theory is about setting personal goals and taking action to achieve them. success is gaining power and control over your own life and attaining what you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:16 PM
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Ok? That inflammatory language still alienates huge swaths of people. You arent going to gain more support or change peoples minds with sarcasm, snark, and condescension.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 02:56 PM
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Yes, i do want all of that. But i also want to fuck lots of girls who im not in love with. Its always on my mind. Its hard being a horndog.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 05:54 PM
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I think that attitude is expressed among the red pill women crowd a hell of a lot more than the male red pill crowd. Go look at the red pill women sub. They constantly idolize a "captain/first mate" dynamic and men who are strong, decisive leaders in their relationships. The male red pillers accept the fact that so many women are attracted to leaders, and they try to change themselves to fulfill that role. Often begrudgingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 05:19 PM
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nope, just another straight white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 02:28 PM
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ok, so it looks like you haven't read up on contemporary studies about ADD, over-diagnosis, methods of treatment, and the role of drug manufacturers in pushing these drugs. in a nutshell, it's been determined that ADD prescriptions have been given out far too often. ADD drugs should be considered as a last resort for children, and behavioral therapy should be used first. This is a big deal because it's a well known fact that amphetamines stunt children's growth, and that children are literally g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 02:25 PM
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Then why do they like ann coulter and other loud, assertive tradcon women? Fox news is full of those types of women. People dont like them because of their dumbshit arguments and worldviews, not because they exude some masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:21 PM
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Sarcastic, flippant responses like those wont attract skeptical readers. It turns them away. Seriously, what would you think of a male writer who did the "female tears are so tasty" thing while claiming that its only ironic misogyny? Would you take him seriously and keep reading? Or would you think "this guy is an asshat who has nothing of value to add"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:17 PM
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Yes but no. No, not rape because i couldnt enjoy it if the woman didnt want it. Its more of a ravishment or consensual non-consent arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:49 PM
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Islam is not an ethnicity. If youre going to use ad hominem, make sure that it at least makes sense first. Besides, equating fundamentalist islam with a culture of rape is fair. Have you ever even been to a muslim state? Ive been to two, Egypt and Indonesia, and their attitude towards the male sex drive and women is stuck in the stone age. They blame women if they are raped because they believe that men cant (or shouldnt be required to) control their sex drives. Are you going to defend a culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:40 PM
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People are concerned for boys because the vast majority of ADD drugs are given to boys. drug manufacturers found a way to turn a profit by pathologizing normal behavior for young boys. Do you think its a good thing that so many young boys are being pumped up on speed to make them easier to control?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:17 PM
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I actually find them very attractive. I think im an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 01:28 PM
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They are easier
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 08:43 PM
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So many choices can be paralyzing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 07:43 PM
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Riiiight... And those same girls continued to emasculate me by having sex with me. Nothing is more emasculating than a girl offering to put her mouth on my penis. Seriously, what the fuck did i just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:35 AM
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I looked through my parents highschool yearbooks, and i was astounded by how much more attractive the girls seemed compared to my graduating class of 2006. I couldnt put my finger on why that was until i realized that there were no fat teenagers in any of those old photos from the 60s. Corn syrup, sugar, and the rise of indoor diversions are to blame. My dad says that there was nothing to do sitting inside when he was a kid, so everyone had more active hobbies. They didnt have addicting video ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 01:23 AM
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About married men getting more promotions: this is a real trend in a lot of professions, and one of my managers at my old job in the oil industry remarked on it. Basically, married men with children are known to be more predictable and more reliable as long-term employees when compared with unmarried men with no kids. As an old adage goes, "a loaded truck drives straighter in a storm." Men who have marriages and kids to take care of have a lot to lose, so they are less likely to take risks with …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 07:34 PM
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I think what most of us really mean when we say we prefer no makeup or light makeup is that we are attracted to women who look amazing and radiant without makeup. We want women whose skin looks so healthy and youthful that they catch your attention even when they don't try to accentuate their beauty and cover up flaws with makeup. Even though we want women with perfect skin, makeup still catches the eye and entrances the same way that a well-fitted, stylish outfit does. We want women to look rad…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 06:55 PM
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men have the massive advantage of being able to enjoy sex more consistently. while easy sex is definitely harder to come by for the average man when compared with women, it's easier for men to orgasm and really enjoy random, casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:30 PM
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these rules are designed for binge drinking culture in college. they are designed so that it's impossible to come up with an excuse for having sex with a blacked out or passed out drunk person. it's crude, heavy-handed legislation for a good purpose. these rules were not intended to govern interactions between non-white-girl-wasted people, and i really wish that was mentioned prominently when these rules are taught. unfortunately, people are going to take the written word of law literally and un…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 05:16 PM
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it's risky advice because it assumes that all women will have an easy time finding a good, willing committed partner when they get older. the fact is that most women's dating pool shrinks as they get older. a lot of women who take this route in dating will end up alone because there's no guarantee that they will find a good committed partner when they are older, or that they will even be attracted to 'good guys' over 'bad boys'. i'm looking around at my dating scene of late 20's/early 30's profe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:23 PM
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for a good time, tell a size queen that she needs big dicks because her vagina is large.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:03 PM
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I think its fucked up that so many women choose to force men into parenthood without their consent. Women have all the power to choose whether a child is born, and they bear the responsibility for those decisions. Men cant take birth control, cant take plan b, cant get abortions, and they certainly cant force a woman to prevent child birth with these methods, either. With power comes responsibility. Mostly, im just disappointed in the single moms ive met because their choice to have kids in a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:23 PM
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And fertility treatments for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:01 PM
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Sexually desperate young men are more vulnerable to extremist ideas and recruitment. A large population of desperate men with nothing to lose and no chance to get laid often leads to the growth of extremist organizations like ISIS and white supremacy, and thats not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:14 PM
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ISIS offers wives and prostitutes for good soldiers. There are tons of poor young men who have no chance to get laid or find a wife across the middle east, and ISIS uses that desperation to their advantage in recruitment. i know you're joking about needing more sexual dissatisfaction to increase extremist recruitment, but that's a real, tried-and-true method for recruitment in the past and present.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:56 PM
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they use that as a selling point for recruitment. the point is that young, poor men who don't have a chance to get laid are extremely vulnerable to being recruited for paramilitary organizations when they offered sex. if all those young, poor guys had opportunities to have sex in their normal lives, then ISIS would lose an edge in recruitment. young men with nothing to lose and no chance to get laid are dangerous. they will do stupid, evil shit if they are promised a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:51 PM
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anyone with a brain should understand that the most dangerous demographic are men who have no chance to get laid and have nothing to lose. They are prime recruitment for violent revolutionary/paramilitary organizations. they snap and go on shooting sprees of the innocent. or they snap and start raping. or they give up and contribute the absolute minimum to society, which puts a strain on the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:42 PM
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i think women are way more upset about the decline of marriage than men are. i don't think i've ever heard a male peer complain about how they aren't married yet or how their long term partner isn't interested in marriage, but i do hear that from women. ive never heard a man say anything like, "she needs to man up and put a ring on already." I think it's true that contemporary women are less concerned about marriage than previous generations, though. women have equal employment and education opp…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:44 PM
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that's what my dad told me, and i really needed to hear that advice. i still have to repeat it to myself. my dad always said that dating and sex from men's perspective was just like sales. selling insurance, particularly. the vast majority of people aren't going to buy, so it's in your best interest to make as many sales pitches as possible because they will never come to you. a lot of your future customers don't even know that they want your product until you give them a good sales pitch. succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:43 PM
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feminism certainly attracts and supports people who hate men, and a lot of people begin to develop man-hating tendencies when they are immersed in modern feminist culture. for example, feminism teaches that a lot of natural male tendencies are WRONG and BAD. for example, we all know that men like to look at fit young women. it's a biological instinct. that's the male gaze, it's objectification, and it's bad! men shouldn't be allowed to do that! men feel like feminism hates men because feminists …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 04:55 PM
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church life actively beats down any natural male tendencies and makes men feel ashamed of their sexual desire for women. the christian communities that i'm familiar with are progressive and extremely focused on appealing to the feminine, so they tend to brow beat men into "beta" mindsets where they are ashamed of traditional masculinity. it's no wonder that men are leaving the faith and that the remaining male church-goers are self-flagellating guys who needs serious help with their self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 04:12 PM
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For guys who dont have much experience with dysfunctional, sabotaging families: stay the hell away from women who come from shitty families. They are almost certain to resemble their parents after the honeymoon period ends. Sirens should be sounding in your head when you find that her family is difficult. A girl says her dad is/was an asshole? Danger! A girl says that her mom is hard to deal with? Danger! A girls mom has had multiple failed marriages or has kids with multiple men? Danger! Her mo…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 07:26 PM
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fear is the little death. i will face my fear, hold it down, and fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:35 PM
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i once went about 2 years without sex around the time i graduated college, and that was bad. excruciating. i was depressed as hell and engineering college doesn't provide many opportunities for an average shy guy to have sex. nowadays i describe a dry spell as several months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:27 PM
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college was like that for me too because i went to an engineering college that was about 70% male. if you're in a major that's mostly dudes, don't worry about finding a girl on your college campus or in your classes. It's mostly a losing game unless you are already more attractive than most guys. don't stop yourself from looking for opportunities on campus, but accept that the odds are bad in the first place. trying to hit on girls during the day when we are all stressed out and busy rushing aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 04:10 PM
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I've seen that situation play out too many times to say that it never happens or that it's even rare. but i get what you're saying. it's a common revenge fantasy that a lot of men hold, and it's petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 03:41 PM
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I live in the USA. I'd say the most important feminist issue is access to abortion and affordable birth control because the republican party is still trying to outlaw abortion and disband government programs that might provide inexpensive birth control. This affects just about every fertile citizen. I think the campaigns for sexual assault awareness have done a lot of good. i grew up in Texas, and the term "rape culture" was applicable. normally i don't like using the term because it doesn't app…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 03:32 PM
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I gotta say: dont attempt white water kayaking, like anything beyond class 2, without taking courses and practicing on easy water first. Its extremely dangerous if you arent comfortable flipping yourself over from an upside-down position. Newbies freak out, lose their kayaks, and nearly drown themselves on class 3's all the time. One of the experts who taught me white water kayaking drowned on a river that he had run 50 times. Kayaking is the most dangerous shit i have ever tried. Way more dange…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:35 PM
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Be sure to file a police report and press charges right away. All large clubs have security cameras, especially near their bars. You will win.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 03:45 PM
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Promised my mom id never get a motorcycle and im sticking to my word. There are other dangerous, fun things you can do to get the adrenaline flowing. I like to snowboard, ski, and rock climb and i used to whitewater kayak. They make for some interesting stories. Now i teach snowboarding part time and it really impresses a lot of people.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:49 PM
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there are plenty of hot older women i've met. who said that hot older women can't get laid? however, i bet that when men hook up with hot 40 year olds, most of them think "i wish i could have been here to fuck her when she was 23." Obviously most guys would still prefer a fit 20 year old that's what the wall means: men's strong instinctual preference for youth. hot older women exist, but they can't compare to younger women. for lots of guys, average younger women are way more attractive than hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 08:12 PM
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all the schadenfreude and revenge fantasies here are pathetic. it's no better than a man-hating radfem ranting about how she enjoys male tears when men get fucked over in divorces. you're that radfem's mirror image. i suggest that you grow up and get a life if you take pleasure in these stories.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 09:13 PM
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mandatory arrests for domestic violence accusations are a very common policy in the USA now. there's nothing you can do to prevent it except to be very careful about who you associate with and how you make people feel. it's important for people to learn to pick up on signs that a person has the capacity to go off the rocker and tell lies. don't ignore the signs just because someone has a lot of other attractive qualities and try to catch yourself if you start slipping into denial. keep friends a…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 09:17 PM
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Yes, i just said that plenty of guys choose long term monogamy because they prefer it. Why are you splitting hairs?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:52 PM
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Youre free to have any requirements that you want and to leave a relationship for any reason. It is so for every individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:48 PM
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No, from what ive seen in my 28 years, only a few men have the skills and good looks to be able to easily pick up girls for one night stands. Its true that plenty of guy prefer monogamous relationships and dont try to sleep with lots of girls, but lets be real. The majority of single guys strike out when they go out and try to pick up girls for casual sex. Go out to a club or bar and watch it happen. Only the top tier guys are hot and confident enough to consistently get laid, and those guys ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:13 PM
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I understand the reasons why women might treat some partners differently than others and that people change over time. That doesnt mean that myself or other guys have to accept it. Some guys will not be ok with 2nd rate treatment and will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 05:56 PM
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well... no shit. a tiny minority of repeat offenders are responsible for the majority of violent crime and harassment in the USA, including sexual crimes. it's rather silly how anyone thought that because 20% of women reported sexual assault or rape that 20% of men are rapists. it's funny watching people try to make sense of data without any education in prob/stat. they tend to draw the same conclusions that a child would. I'd say it's more like 3% of college-going men are rapists and are likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:20 AM
1

that's not what the "80%/20% rule" means. the idea is that in a community of singles, 20% of the men have 80% of the sex that occurs. in other words, a small minority of men will generally have a shitload more sexual partners that the rest of the guys. i think those figures are a bit extreme, but the idea is true if you look at single scenes like college campuses and nightlife. a few guys are players who get all of the girls while the majority of guys have few or no partners. only a few guys cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:28 PM
1

Consider this example: lots of bi girls i've known said that they will have MFF threesomes with casual partners, but they would never have MFF threesome with an exclusive boyfriend. I completely understand it from these girl's perspectives because they said that they would feel jealous and afraid that their boyfriend may end up leaving them or cheating on them with the other girl. however, consider how that makes the boyfriend feel. even though he's committing himself to his girlfriend, his girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:02 PM
1

I suppose i have because i havent had an exclsuive partner in a 2 or 3 years, but i didnt make a conscious decision to do so. It seems like im much better at dating, partying, and sex than i am at being a supportive, committed boyfriend so ive naturally moved towards casual arrangements. I am so much happier for it because i no longer have to deal with arguments and obligations with girlfriends. Ive never been so happy since i started applying PUA/red pill theory. Besides, none of the girls ive …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 09:42 PM
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Im 5'7 so i qualify as short, and its clearly been an instant dealbreaker with tons of women ive met. Ive slept with several women my height and taller than myself so its not absolutely damning, but think of it this way: if i was exactly the same in every way but significantly taller, a lot more women would consider me fuckable. Im at peace with it, though, because there are plenty of short girls around who dont care because every guy is taller than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/16 04:04 AM
1

I dunno!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 08:32 PM
1

Depends on the guy. Some desperate guys will take any girl who likes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 08:10 AM
1

;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 08:03 AM
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they are all drop dead gorgeous, so any of them could have a partner count of thousands if they wanted. there's no way to judge from these pics. nah i bet they are all virgins :) #1 is a total bitch who tells every guy to fuck off because she's phobic of trust, intimacy, commitment. #2 is an agoraphobic obsessive compulsive who cant handle social interaction. #3 is an autistic gym rat who doesn't understand when guys are hitting on her and sabotages every chance she has with guys who fancy her. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:19 PM
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i agree, all hate for women seems childish to me. it's why i don't even visit the red pill subreddit any longer. half of my friends are female, and it'd be silly to call them inferior. one thing i cant deny about women overall is they are more likely to be offended and hate someone who they disagree with compared to men. dudes are more likely to be able to say "i disagree with you but i respect your opinion" than women are, and this is why men can agree that we generally have to watch what we sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 06:01 PM
1

two months is far too long for me to wait. i'd wait one month or so at most, but that's pushing it. that's quite a lot of investment when i could be out humping other pretty girl's faces who are just as smart and interesting as you are. besides, sexual compatibility is such an important aspect of a relationship that i'd like to explore it sooner rather than later. to me, waiting a long time to have sex is akin to waiting a really long time to share and discuss important, meaningful issues like w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:25 PM
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let me guess, her dad was a violent, abusive asshole. human beings tend to emulate the sort of relationships they witnessed while they grew up. if a girl's dad is an asshole, they are more likely to be attracted to asshole dudes. if a boy's mom is an asshole, then they are more likely to be attracted to asshole women. she needs a lot of therapy to break that cycle, in my opinion. sometimes, you can just look at someone and tell that one or both of their parents was an abusive or neglectful jerk.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 04:55 PM
1

dating is far more classist than we'd like to admit, even in male selection. i'm an upper middle class engineer from a classy family, don't want to fuck around with anyone who came from a shitty upbringing like the woman in question. i've tried dating girls like than, and it's hell. i might have sex with lower class girls or girls who grew up with abusive/asshole parents, but there's little chance that a long term relationship would form.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 04:52 PM
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thats true and so many people never receive proper education in this regard. so many people are raised to believe that emotion and attraction are some sort of divine or moral compass. i always have to consciously stop myself from going after crazy chicks because they are so attractive to me. "use your big head, not your little head."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 04:42 PM
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my good female friend says this, and i had a threesome with her and another girl i met on tinder a while back. she would never have a threesome with a committed boyfriend/husband, but she has with friends and strangers. it's hilarious to me; she gave the very best sexual experiences to casual friends like myself and others, but she refuses to give it to a guy who would actually dedicate his life to her. she has a good reason from her perspective, though. she wouldn't want her committed partner t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 04:23 PM
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oh jeez, you really don't understand men. sex (your vagina) is integral to the romance. there is no romance without sex. sex really is the best part of romance and the relationship, and sex is often difficult to find for the average guy. you and many women may not feel that way because its easier to have sex, but you better believe that men feel it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 04:04 PM
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the best for me: after multiple times, with someone i know well, with someone who is hot and i like as a person, impulsively immediately, with someone i trust. i can wait for sex, but only for so long. women really need to understand that sex is a NEED for most men with a healthy sex drive. it's like hunger and thirst. we have a nagging urge for it, so we will want to have sex badly even when the conditions aren't perfect for great sex. "ok sex" is much preferable to no sex at all for an extende…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 03:43 PM
2

Thats cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 04:31 PM
0

i grew up in texas, and the thin man/fat woman relationship was much more common. it seems like people just accept that their wives are supposed to turn into land whales. i'd say it's because men were more likely to have active or outdoorsy lifestyles and jobs. this is one of the many reasons why i wanted to get out of the south. i went back to Houston a little while ago, and i noticed that i hardly saw any women over 30 who were not fat. get out of there while you can, young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 11:57 PM
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in comparison to an average woman, it's much harder for an average guy to get laid. men are far more likely to desire sex without any commitment than women are, so the market for easy, random sex is very lopsided in women's favor. men generally have to maintain much lower standards than women do for hookups. i see it all the time when i go out. let me tell you about one of my best friends. my female room mate consistently has sex with waaaaay hotter guys basically whenever she wants. i love the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 11:40 PM
1

less body hair is a feminine trait, and feminine traits are attractive. removing body hair accentuates femininity. besides, smooth shaved legs just feel so damn good. why dwell on it? it doesn't really matter why men like it, and it doesn't have to make sense. men like it, so accept it and act accordingly!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 05:29 PM
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don't debate or discuss philosophy with women you want to bang. logic just isn't sexy to the opposite sex. don't undermine things that are very emotionally important to people. how would you like it if someone explained to you how your career or favorite hobby was totally worthless and stupid? and personally, i don't waste any time on vegans. do you really want to make two dinners or go to vegan-friendly restaurants?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 07:31 AM
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as i see it, those issues are covered so often in order to warn guys about those very real dangers even though they are actually rare. few women are sociopath liars, but they can absolutely destroy lives when people are not prepared to deal with them. its similar to how there is so much discussion about being roofied or date raped. very few men actually roofie or date rape women, but women should definitely talk about the very real danger of those sick people so that they can protect themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 08:57 AM
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according to their definition of sexual assault, yes... but that definition is ridiculously broad and unrealistic. according to those surveys, if a guy is flirting with a girl, misreads her signals, and tries to kiss her or cop a feel when she doesn't actually want it, then it's called sexual assault. it's a little ridiculous. by that definition, i have also been a victim of """sexual assault""" on several occasions because girls have touched me in flirty ways to gauge my interest, like feeling …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 04:17 PM
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I just feel sorry for women like that. Theyve been brainwashed to be offended by nothing and are going to keep pushing away good dudes.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 04:56 PM
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i need to tell myself this all the time because i get stuck on perfectionism. it holds you back. for anyone else that deals with neurotic perfectionism and insecurity, what helps me snap out of it is to think about my female counterparts and how silly it seems to me. its an exercise in taking women off the pedestal: think about a pretty neurotic girl who freaks out and wants to stay home because her outfit, hair, or makeup isn't perfect; she thinks she's fat because shes not at a perfect 4% body…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 02:04 PM
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Whoopsie daisy. Its hard to tell when so many people actually are stuck dwelling on revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 08:56 PM
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it wasn't like that at all. we had an amicable breakup and we are still close friends. besides, i don't try to 'win' breakups like some people do. that's just fucking petty. harboring revenge fantasies like that seems childish, and it shows that you haven't actually moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 11:47 PM
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my ex is still my good friend, and she flat out asked me to have sex with her on her birthday this year while we were at a bar. she's gained some weight, and i was a little put off by how she didn't even attempt to flirt or butter me up first. she did, however, get another reasonably attractive guy (more attractive than her) to fuck her that day after i turned her down. I've turned down really slutty women, friend's exes, nasty older women, and fat women at times in the past. i remember my forme…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 06:40 PM
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Thanks! All of my female friends who have known me for years are like, "bout time, you couldve and shouldve been out there slaying honeys years ago!" No exageration.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 09:52 PM
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ah i see. just doesn't make sense to me because i enjoy loving and being loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 07:47 PM
1

jeez dude, that's no different than a legbeard hardcore feminist who says that she wouldn't shave her legs or armpits for any man, and then calls men pigs when they are repulsed. you are her mirror image. you're both intentionally making yourselves less attractive to the opposite sex and then resenting them for it. do what you want, but you are responsible for the consequences of your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 07:32 PM
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i always knew that i was handsome. to believe otherwise would be straight bodily dysmorphic syndrome. my severe depression and social anxiety made me unattractive, and it's taken me a long time to change those tendencies and learn to manage my genetic mood disorder. bipolar disorder and major depressive disorder run in my family. it's taught me that social skills and confidence are just as important for a man as looks are. even really ridiculously good looking guys dont get laid if they are too …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 07:26 PM
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I think men woud like women to be on good behaviour outside the bedroom but be more sexually open in the bedroom. no shit, of course. do you live in a cave?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 07:02 PM
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it's all the same outside of sexual attraction. honor and integrity are admirable in all people and extremely valuable to society overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 06:30 PM
1

They do approach, just far less often than men. Some guys have never been approached by women. Lots of people tell me im a really cute dude, so im lucky and my experience is different from the average guy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 03:21 PM
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Lots of people do, and lots of my female friends expect men to. In fact i just had a conversation with my room mate about how she loves it when guys have the confidence to make an approach and introduce themselves, and she encourages me to approach women more often. Strange women sometimes come up and talk to me, and i dont think they are weird for it. If youre still in college or if you have a job where you routinely meet new people, then cold approaching may not make any sense because you dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 04:28 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 03:58 PM
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yep, it's impossible to be attractive to every woman at once, just like it's impossible for a woman to be attractive to every man at once. aside from preferences, you might just remind them of their ex, or their sibling, or their childhood bully, or their rapist, or a fictional character they hate that turns them off for good. i remember one girl i dated was wary of any guy named Tyler because that was her rapist's name. Every Tyler in the world would have a hard time getting with her through no…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:21 AM
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Yes, of course. I meet physically attractive women who repulse me all the time. Lots of pretty women are stereotypically entitled and lack personal accountability. However, you are correct for the most part. Most dudes are so thirsty and desperate for sex and companionship that theyll do anything to be with a hot girl.There are lots of men who will put up with any amount of immature, irrrational, manipulative behavior as long as a woman is hot enough, because they believe thats normal. They dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:41 PM
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Well said. I think that being a narcissistic asshole is an easy, fake, insecure way to exude confidence and self assurance. You just put others down to make yourself look better or more dominant, and it does work to attract many types of women (and men, of course. Lots of dudes fall for that behavior when women show it). Its harder to develop confidence and through inner peace and self assurance. and people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:43 PM
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Thats cool, but i also see lots of women dating and marrying men 10 years older. Im 28 and i dated a 19 year old this summer. I just broke up with a 21 year old last month. But we can all agree that women prefer older and men prefer younger, and that does not bode well for women as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:50 PM
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Dont forget that part of what makes a dude attracted is his confidence and assertiveness. The approach in itself often extremely attractive and arousing to women. When women approach men, they miss out on the thrill and flattery of being aproached and pursued by a confident guy, which is part of the reason why women dont approach. The fact is that for a lot of women, there is no romance, attraction, excitement if the guy doesnt pursue them. I have heard so many women say that they felt nothing f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:18 PM
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I dont just assume that no means yes, but i know for fact that people can change their minds and its worth a shot to find out. For example, several times in my life girls have stated that they didnt want to have sex while we were on a date or qhen we had just met, but after we had hung out a little longer and had some more fun out on the dancefloor or hot tub or whatever we were doing, she changed her mind and we ended up sleeping together. Nobody was raped or made uncomfortable. I just kept my …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:07 PM
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Changing a persons mind and turning them from cold to hot is not the same as forcing yourself on someone against their will. Jesus. Where did you get the idea that seducing someone and turning them on is the same as rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:20 PM
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I agree with you. I really dont enjoy persuading girls to have sex and ignoring resistance to sex, but there are many, many girls who actually do put up token resistance. Ive heard many female friends and exes say in no uncertain terms that they intentionally put up restistance to sex when they actually want it, and its for a variety of reasons. Please keep in mind that not everybody thinks and feels like you do, so please dont deny that the following types of people exist in significant numbers…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 06:09 PM
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Good points on changing your scene if youre already at the bottom of your current scene. If youre known as an unfuckable loser in a social network, then youre often better off forgetting about that scene and getting into new networks where you can build a new reputation any way you like. It is infinitely easier to pick up completely new girls rather than trying to attract girls who already see you as a low status guy despite all of your self improvements.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 03:20 PM
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There will be more and more single aging women, and they will become the largest voting bloc in the USA. I imagine that theyll vote for more social benefits for their demographic alone because the historical data shows thats what single women do. Unmarried women tend to vote for higher taxes and more free stuff from the government while married women tend to vote for lower taxes and whatever allows their family to keep more of their own income. leftist politicians will jump on the opportunity to…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 05:31 PM
2

Id say that for most dudes, average or mediocre sex is far better than extended celibacy. Sex is a constant, nagging need for most men, and getting some crappy sustenance in your belly is way better than starving.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 03:36 PM
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Lol, its none of that. Younger women are simply more attractive due to our biological instincts. Mammalian males are aroused by healthy youthful female mambers of our species because they are fertile. Thats all that the male sex drive is: an attraction to the most fertile women, which is most dependent on age. Attraction is not a concious choice. Wanting to fuck to young women is the norm for men. Passing over young women in favor of women nearing menopause is an oddity for a healthy man. Most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 02:52 PM
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No, the mom got a lighter sentence because she was the first to plead guilty and she agreed to testify against the guy in exchange for the lighter charge (child neglect and lying to the police instead of manslaughter). Its true that women are given lighter sentencing compared to men, but this is not an example of that sort of discrimination. If the guy had made a deal with the cops first, then he would have gotten a lighter sentence. Idiotic posts like these really give the manosphere a bad name…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 05:08 PM
1

Patrice O'neil. That obese mofo was a literal pimp because he was so funny and dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 01:41 AM
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I think most people greatly overestimate how much sex and fun everyone else is having, and its largely due to how so many people exagerate and flat out lie about it to look cool. So many people (especially women) just assume that i get laid whenever and however i want because im fairly handsome, well off, and occasionally throw parties. The reality is that most people are disatisfied with their love lives. We just dont talk about it because showing thirst dries up pussies.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 01:57 PM
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you should actually go to countries where prostitution is legal and see what its like. You have no idea what youre talking about. The stigma of buying hookers will never disappear because you should already understand that women are disgusted by men who directly pay for sex. If you buy hookers in those countries, then non-whores generally see you as gutter trash. indochina is famous for prostitution, but only the poorest and most desperate girls go into prostitution because everyone knows that w…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:12 PM
1

for the love of god please don't spread the disease. there are dating services for people with HSV. that might be your best bet.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 06:13 PM
1

In the current day, all of your accomomplishments and genuine value to society dont make you more attractive unless you have game. This is just how women are. Dont be angry. Accept reality and act accordingly because women dont owe you shit. Anyways, ive seen this play out many times because i graduated from a strict engineering university thats was no more than 30% female. Myself and lots of dudes at the school had great propsects, but it didnt make us more attractive to our female peers. I wit…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 02:58 PM
2

Women who ski and rock climb are great. Dangerous sports are a great filter for finding fit, intelligent women, but there are always a lot more guys to compete with.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 04:36 PM
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yep, a massive rationalization to deal with the near-ubiquitous just world fallacy that so many people were raised with. people really want to believe that virtue and kindness are the primary traits that deeply attract women to men, but that's plainly untrue. so, when a kind and virtuous guy is completely unsuccessful at having relationships and sex with women because he's boring and not hot, a weak mind will rationalize it as "well he must not actually be a good guy because an actual good guy s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 04:25 PM
2

that's exactly what my university in the USA was like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:33 PM
2

I thought she was a more reasonable person than this. How can a traveling rock musician diagnosed with bipolar disorder possibly think that they should get custody of their children when their ex spouse is clearly much better suited for raising children? Wtf was she thinking? Male celebrities in performing arts almost always lose their kids in divorce because busy, absent parents make shitty parents.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 08:19 PM
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people need to understand this about islamic nations to understand why the radical insurgencies will never end. their society was designed 1500 years ago to maintain a class of poor, desperate men who have no hope of finding a wife because they serve well as cannon fodder. this is one of the reasons why Islam spread so prodigiously in the two centuries after Islam's inception. it's a fine system for harnessing disadvantaged men's energy for the purpose of spreading their ideology by force. an up…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 05:31 PM
2

i understand the criticism of the red pill and PUA because whenever you open up these forums, you see a shit load of discussion about the absolute worst types of women in the world. hell, that's all that yall talk about on this particular subreddit. however, it's good for naive and young people to read because getting involved with the wrong type of woman could totally ruin your life. What people don't understand about the manosphere is that we are sharing info on how to avoid the absolute worst…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 04:41 PM
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you'll never win that battle, in my opinion. this is a fundmental aspect of human nature. men are expendable and we, as intelligent great apes, instinctually feel much more concern and sympathy for women than we do men. psych studies show this time and time again. if you want to help disadvantaged men, do it on your own time. i think this will only make you a pariah in your career. they've probably already labeled you as a "problematic" employee for asking those questions.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 05:25 PM
1

don't sweat it. take a look at those users' twitter feeds and you'll find that they are awful people who like to complain and put other people down to feel better about themselves.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:43 PM
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it amazes me how so many people don't understand what sexual attraction is. attraction is not a divine moral compass. we're merely highly intelligent animals. female human beings are inexorably attracted to larger, stronger males just like any other female mammal, fish, or reptile.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:40 PM
2

perfect response. you've really gotta do what you can to make it known that bitchiness and arrogance won't get you anywhere with men.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:37 PM
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i'm a short dude and i love that twitter feed. take a look at the users who say those mean-spirited things. they are almost always arrogant, bitchy, shallow people. when i hear a girl say things like that, i think "nothing of value was lost, nothing else to see here."
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:35 PM
1

now that you've gotten control of your life, you might benefit from professional therapy. this is actually very common for people who had a downtrodden or stunted youth, and the obsession with validation can come in many forms like sex, money, professional success, drugs, religion, performing arts, sports, fights. your ego is tied up with validation from external attachments, and you can learn to develop internal validation.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 07:42 PM
6

I looked through my mom's highschool yearbook last year, and that must have been from the 1960's. I was floored by how many hot girls appeared on every page, and it wasn't just in the nice made-up, dressed-up individual pictures. all the girls in all of the random candid photos put my highschool's girls to shame, and it was because there were no fat girls and much less acne in that time period. our diets are mostly to blame, in my opinion. sugar is fucking everywhere in large quantities. even my…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:56 PM
1

lol yeah. i went to an engineering university and i've seen this so many times. some girls don't let it go to their heads, but they are rare. don't even consider dating the sort of girl who maintains a bunch of orbiters like that. i like keeping them as friends, though. it's good practice with the shitty side of female nature.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:05 PM
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i know it's true but i hate it at times. i like to watch nature documentaries like Life because they really help to put all of this in perspective. when you look at mating rituals of all other mammals, you see the same drama play out. all the males compete for the chance to mate, and the sad fact is that only a minority of males in most mammalian species will pass on their genes. most male mammals will never get laid while almost every female will. the system is very, very good at making sure th…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:51 PM
1

Some strains of HPV are known to produce tumors. the more times youre exposed to HPV, the higher your chances of getting a tumor. This is true for men, too. Theres been a huge rise in throat and mouth cancer in men over the last couple decades because men have been eating more pussy and orally contracting more HPV.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 08:03 PM
2

because anyone with experience knows that it's not that big of a deal, not compared to skill in romancing, seducing, and skill and confidence in the act of fucking. besides, you can't change dick size, so what's there to discuss? it's about as useful as talking about how women generally prefer taller men. you can't change a lot of traits, so come to peace with it and improve yourself in ways that you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 06:54 PM
1

Do they want to have sex with those men? Probably not The idea that women don't care about weak men seems to come primarily from the fact that they'll distance themselves from them if they detect any romantic interest from those guys, which seems to be mostly rooted in self-preservation bingo. the red pill is about sexual strategy for men. you already agree with the premise of the original question. the fact that female social workers often treat men and women equally has nothing to do with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 01:10 AM
6

that's what they teach kids in abstinence-only sex education.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 12:54 AM
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Remember that they dont show you all the girls that tell him to fuck off. Some women are skanks, but it's silly to think that all attractive women are like that. Its not all that hard to figure out which girls are worth your investment.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 06:37 AM
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some women are like that, sure, but you probably never leave your house if you think that all women are like this.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 02:57 PM
1

your major is sexy to employers, not men. more education is admirable, of course, but it doesn't inspire attraction and lust in men. education in arts and languages are good conversation starters, so we like to talk about it. "So why did you pick french? did you want to travel there?" or "Oh cool, so you learned how to paint in college? what subjects did you like the most? omg, that's so interesting, you're so talented, lets get naked now."
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 08:57 PM
1

no, it's not a job because you don't have a supervisor and you can't be fired.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 08:52 PM
3

can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/MensRights02/10/15 11:57 PM
1

to be fair, if an 80 year old man conceived a child with a much younger woman, his age would put the child at an enormous risk for birth defects. don't forget that as men get older, our sperm becomes more and more mutated and defective.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:38 PM
0

I care :) i like companionship with women, sexual and not. my dear mother is a woman, after all, and i owe her everything.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:29 PM
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my female friends don't understand men and they don't want to, so i usually just smile and nod instead of getting into that exhausting discussion. it makes them so uncomfortable when i explain what life is like as a guy. they really want to believe that all people receive the same nice treatment and bonuses that young women do. i suppose it reminds them that they won't be young and hot forever, and soon they will be treated more like an average man. It's no different from how men generally don't…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:11 PM
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WTF? hes not even that old. the proper response is to laugh in their faces. i'm 27 and i dated a 19 year old this summer, and it was one of the best relationships i've ever had. she was nice, which seems to be the biggest difference between younger girls and girls my age.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:54 AM
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why all the hate for cats? i've always had cats and they've brought a lot of happiness to my life. they are great companions and pest killers if you train them correctly. i think it's a great sign when women care for cats or dogs properly. it shows responsibility, empathy, and a nurturing nature.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 07:35 PM
1

this is where I completely disagree with mainstream red pill theory. where the fuck do guys get the idea that you can't have female friends? I have plenty of female friends who are genuinely good people and are fun to be around, and you better believe that being seen having a good time with women makes you way more attractive and approachable to other women. pre-selection is real and powerful. one of my best female friends is my tenant, and she goes out of her way to tell other girls how great i…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 04:30 PM
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that is extremely pathetic, dude.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 04:12 PM
1

There's a reason why edison never won a nobel prize, either. he was a fucking sociopath. he publicly electrocuted elephants with AC current to discredit Tesla's idea for a power grid based on AC current. he also pushed for the first execution by AC current electrocution, and that was a fucking disaster because it took several minutes of continuous current to kill the condemned man. i wouldn't look to Edison as a role model beyond his abilities and drive as an inventor and businessman. his charac…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 07:34 PM
1

these sorts of comparisons seem useless. apples and oranges. there's no good way to objectively quantify suffering, so these sorts of debates will never end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:46 AM
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i despise most of the users in the red pill because they are cartoonish misogynists. There's so much young angst. However, much of the theory in the red pill and PUA is sound if you filter out all the negativity and absolutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:43 AM
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they can't find nice guys who are also hot. it's like how guys say that they can't find any girls who will date them, but they really mean they can't find any prospective girls who aren't fat or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:28 AM
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it's a half truth. i remember talking with my mom about dating many years ago, and she told me all the usual advice about what women want, but i got her to be honest after more probing: "women want a kind, considerate, thoughtful guy. someone with emotional intelligence so that he can understand her feelings." "i get that, mom. i've known that about women my whole life. but what if a guy is like that, but he's really timid, socially awkward, maybe out of shape, uneducated, bad career, and all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:19 AM
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being an asshole is an easy, cheap way to exude confidence, and lots of girls fall for it because there's such a dearth of guys with healthy confidence in themselves and self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:17 AM
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i'm not angry at women at all now that i've learned how to gain their attraction and be a better partner, and it's all thanks to the PUA and red pill communities. i love spending time with my female friends even more than i used to because i understand them better. i used to feel a vague resentment towards women due to the constant rejection i used to face. lots of people who are close to me have remarked that i'm much less of an asshole than i was years ago. i think a lot of guys get angry beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 12:44 AM
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i listened to a couple of her other videos, and she has one really good point about what drives a lot of guys to be MGTOW or red pill or whatever: tons of dudes fall for narcissistic sociopath women, get hurt badly, and never recover. this happens to women as well. we've all seen it, and it happened to me as well, but i've gotten over it. lots of people are deceived and betrayed by sexually manipulators, and it takes time to learn how to trust the opposite sex again. she sure is condescending ab…
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 12:39 AM
1

"go out with a girl who's already down for a threesome and try to find a third." this is the best strategy. i had my first threesome recently, and this was how i did it. i have a freaky, skanky, bi FWB who's up for just about anything, and i happened to meet another girl on tinder who was open to experimenting with girls. i had fucked both of them separately and both of them were already really into me before i suggested a threesome. when they showed some interest, i sent pics of the other girl …
/r/seduction17/08/15 11:40 PM
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I'd say that everything in your post is true, and there's more that makes it more difficult for women. the feminist narrative is pushing women to wait longer and longer to start looking for a husband, and older age is generally less attractive to men. many women's standards keep getting higher as they get older, but they generally become less attractive to men as they get older. it's a very poor long-term strategy. their dating pool gets smaller while successful men's dating pools get larger as …
/r/MensRights17/08/15 07:51 PM
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ha, i was thinking the same thing. you should give credit, though! This comes from Dante Nero on his hilarious and very red pill podcast, The Beige Phillip Show.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 02:15 PM
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nah, you have to try way harder than that to get banned there. the mods really don't care that much.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:54 PM
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i wouldn't think of it that way. if you're rolling, do it deliberately and have fun with it. there are always tons more hot girls in the world that you can talk to later.
/r/seduction14/08/15 01:52 AM
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shiiiiit. ive been that guy so many times. I was just inexperienced, anxious around strangers, and didn't realize my own attractiveness. at some point i started to think about what this must be like from the girl's perspective, and it hit me that that girl probably feels totally rejected. she in this post's case, the girl went way above and beyond what girls normally do to get guys, and the guy still didn't reciprocate. that girl probably went home feeling like she was acting like an idiot or li…
/r/seduction14/08/15 01:47 AM
1

women are still women regardless of what their socio political ideals might be. you need to understand that women's politics do not apply to intimate relationships. men's and women's wants and needs from the opposite sex do not change even as society does. we are still animals; just highly intelligent great apes. there's nothing to be gained by resenting women for being what they are. that's no better than a bitter, frustrated woman who says that all men are pigs and that women are better off wi…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 04:48 PM
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the article really only covers the dating scene in major population centers in New England where there are a lot more young single women than young single men. the guys that they interviewed really do have an abundancem, but you still have to believe it and act on it for an abundance to actually serve you. i'd like to see vanity fair cover the dating scenes in male dominated areas like the Rocky Mountains, Sillicon Valley, or oil boom town. Ive got a bunch of friends who work at ski resorts that…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:06 PM
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there's a kink scene in every major city, and it's usually tied up with the amateur burlesque scenes. it's a lot of fun and ive noticed that the average guy in those scenes is fucking weird, low-life, chubby, and a chain smoker, so you'll stand out if you take care of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:04 PM
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i don't think that strict nofap is a healthy choice. i think it's a great idea to stay away from porn unless you're already getting laid as much as you'd like and watch porn for new ideas and inspiration, but zero masturbation would drive me absolutely nuts. i would also be very irritable if i never orgasmed. i mean, i woke up so goddamn horny this morning that i HAD to have a wank, and i feel so much more chill and at peace because of it. try to start dating and get laid, and don't worry so muc…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:47 PM
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this is a fundamental difference between men and women, and it's best to understand it and accept it than to think that women are stupid for being what they are. they don't have any choice in the following realities of being female: It's easy for women to have sex, but it's not as easy for them to find good, enjoyable, safe sex. on average, it's much more difficult for women to attain an orgasm than for men, and women have an easier time orgasming with a trusted well-known partner than with a st…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:19 PM
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it's a way to keep the clueless doormat men down, obedient, and clueless, but girls don't do it consciously. generally speaking, when girls talk about politics, there is often an unconscious shit test in place to see if a man is a supplicating yes-man or if he has the balls and social grace to disagree in a charming manner and speak his mind.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 06:28 PM
1

there's a hilarious podcast called the Beige Phillip show that's hosted by a former award-winning male stripper. the guy's name is Dante Nero, and he has a lot of similar stories.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 04:30 PM
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a similar thing happened to my good buddy when he was 27. he got married after dating a girl for 2 years, and it was largely because they both came from traditional catholic families. they had to get married before they moved in together or else their families would have made life hell for them. he brought a shit load more assets to the marriage because he had already graduated college and had a good professional career going. before he met her, he bought a nice townhome for cheap right after th…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:55 PM
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a Smith County judge sentenced Josten Bundy to get married to his 19-year-old girlfriend as part of his probation, which also included writing Bible verses and getting counseling. Clearly a violation of the first amendment. He should have gone to the ACLU. i am so glad i got out of the bible belt when i turned 18. It's a theocratic third world country with the infrastructure of the 1st world.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:09 PM
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i'd call it the decadent age of western enlightenment. feminism is a natural consequence of the concept of the individual's right to determine their own destiny, after all. don't worry, Islam will still be there to fill the void as this culture continues on its infertile path. If you want to preserve western enlightenment for the benefit of future generations, then you need to raise children who will become adults capable of carrying it forward, and you should also play an active role in your co…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:56 PM
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that was a really great interview. around 24min, she talks about how her and her female drinking buddies could never tell one another that they had a serious drinking problem and needed to make changes. they would only reassure and validate each other instead of addressing reality, and when they couldn't ignore it any longer, it was like "the needle skipped off of the record" when they finally had to tell each other that they weren't ok. beware of friends who only ever support and reassure you. …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:24 PM
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remember that this is all about the dating scene in new england, where there are a shit load more single women than single men in the major cities and college campuses. for people in their 20's, there may be more than two single women for every single guy. i'd like to see a piece about the dating scene in male-dominated areas, such as tech and heavy industry hubs like sillicon valley, Houston/Austin/Dallas, Las Vegas, or up in fracking country in Montana and the Dakotas. Or how about the dating …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:20 PM
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still in the anger phase, eh?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:17 PM
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reminds me of my years at a STEM university. girls did whatever they wanted because there were always thirsty guys with no standards around. but who the fuck cares? why get so worked up about what other people are doing? Women are instinctively amoral and without the restraints of social peer pressure or a conservative moral agenda, they will do whatever it takes to get what they want. this is not strictly a female trait. human beings are like this, and many contemporary subcultures have zero so…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 09:01 PM
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you'd be surprised. i know people like this.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:42 PM
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i knew it would be the infamous spice girls interview before i clicked. posh spice was always pure cunt. you've gotta love how sweet baby spice is.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:25 PM
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it's only true for young women, and it's due to the fact that we are animals driven by instinct. like any other mammal, males of our species are inexorably driven by instinct to impregnate and care for young females. young women have intrinsic value to men and society at large. individual men do not have intrinsic value to women until they prove it through their actions and behavior. this shows throughout our society: women are saved first in crises; women get into social events at lesser or no …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:04 PM
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I changed the first lines of my tinder profile to the following, and it dramatically increased the number of matches i get. i get a new match just about every day now. "To be honest, i'm looking for a sweet silly sub to toss around, hold down, and feed waffles to afterwards. you should be a bit freaky." "I get it girls, you love your dog more than you love yourselves. I probably will too!" (sub as in like a dom/sub arrangement, if you didn't know). and then i followed with a bunch of my hobbies …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:51 PM
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you aren't the bad guy. lots of people (not just women) will insult you and insist that you're evil when you don't give them what they want. don't expect people to act or speak rationally when they are in an emotional frenzy.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 10:50 PM
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I'm biased since i'm a professional geoscientist with a huge stiffy for planetary science and space travel, but I tend to agree with the guy; this project is bigger than our petty little feelings and egos. if my wife was chosen to take part in something as big as the first fucking mission to mars, i'd let her go without a thought. Besides, you'd get the opportunity to date other women, and you'd probably have no trouble considering the minor celebrity status that the situation would give you. lo…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:57 PM
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They've started already. go see the kid's musical "Into the Woods".
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:31 PM
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i have the exact same story, but i'm not tall, you lucky bastard. TWO girls have asked if i was gay in my lifetime, too. it turns out that i've hurt a lot of girls feelings because i didn't pursue or flirt with them. i've learned after the fact that lots of girls have tried to place themselves close to me with the hope that i would hit on them, but i always held the notion that only jerks and creeps openly and aggressively pursue women. oops. you're right about how pop media hammers this notion …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:31 PM
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i have been. strange women have grabbed my ass at bars and concerts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 08:54 PM
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yeah, most people think that "men's rights" is a part of the conservative christian political movement. well... basically any political group that doesn't identify as feminist is lumped together with the theocratic nutjobs who are still trying to outlaw abortion. it's an easy way to keep stupid people voting the way feminists want them to. it's very similar to the way feminists were portrayed in mainstream media before it took over. think about how common the man-hating, bra-burning, hysterical,…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 04:31 PM
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don't be fooled. anti-feminist women have found that being anti-feminist is very alluring to lots of men. remember, never put too much stock into what people say. watch what they do. you may find that anti-feminists do the exact same thing that you despise so much in feminist women. the only difference may be their rhetoric.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:32 PM
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sexually successful guys don't care because they are getting what they want anyway, and unsuccessful guys aren't outraged because they are extremely envious of more successful guys and know that they won't be subject to 'stud-shaming' anyway. independently successful people don't need other's validation and don't care about their judgement. did you feel a spike of anger? good. channel it into improving yourself instead of whining.
/r/MensRights29/07/15 06:15 PM
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you're too needy, scared, insecure, and are not making your intentions clear. but hey, most young men have to work on that. it's obvious that you're dancing around the fact that you want to fuck her and are too scared to ask her out. simply put, you're acting like a woman would act when she's obsessed with a guy, and that's extremely unattractive. if i didn't know beforehand, i might've guessed that you were a girl and he was a male T. Swizzle fan who wasn't attracted to you but didn't want to h…
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:08 PM
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men who are good at attracting women are good because they've practiced. very few men are naturally attractive to women without a lot of practice. that's why this whole seduction/PUA/red pill thing exists at all - to help guys learn how to be more attractive because it's a skill that must be practiced. the fact is that you won't be attracted to a guy who isn't running good game on you, and guys with good game can easily get other women. guys who aren't running game on you aren't on your radar.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:35 PM
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sure. why not?
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:22 PM
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i went to a strictly STEM university, and the student body has never been more than 30% female. you'll never seen such smug, satisfied chubby girls. i graduated 4 years ago, and i've heard lots longing for the old days from my female friends who went to the school.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:53 PM
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no unauthorized opinions that's the only issue i have with female friends. I can see the fear, self-censorship, and knowing glances to one another when we are hanging with our lady friends and partners. but hey, it's great practice in self-control. women also self-censor around men as well. the difference is that women do not self-censor out of fear nearly as much as men have to. Essentially, NO WOMAN will ever admit that life as a man- all facets of life as a man- is more difficult not true, th…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 06:40 PM
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goddamn, every single teenage guy needs to be taught the message in that craigslist post. too many boys are taught to repress their sexuality and wait for women's invitation to do anything sexual. it took me way too long to undo all that programming even though plenty of girls said the exact same thing as that craigslist post along the way. it truly is a society-wide shit test.
/r/seduction23/07/15 11:12 PM
2

we've always been at war with east asia.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 06:04 PM
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why in the hell did a TV network hire a dude with a well known history of writing cuckold erotic fiction to write a children's show? you can't make this shit up. i don't know why this is in men's rights, though.
/r/MensRights20/07/15 04:42 PM
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many of them truly do, but they are just so oblivious to men's nature that they have no idea how to deal with them.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 04:48 PM
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i'd say that 90% of girls will not initiate anything. they want to be pursued and they are extremely averse to taking any risks themselves. lots of girls believe that guys do not want to be pursued or asked out... or at least they cling to that excuse to avoid risking rejection. pretend like it's illegal for girls to ask for guy's numbers or to ask guys out because that's what the world already looks like.
/r/seduction16/07/15 10:13 PM
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nature documentaries will definitely provide a healthy perspective and help you let go of the ego and all of its cultural ties. i just watched the Life series, which was made by the same creators of Planet Earth. as nature docs go, it's fantastic. it covers a lot of mating rituals, and it is fucking brutal and tragic if you believe in notions of noble love. for most mammalian species, only a small minority of males ever get a chance to breed in their lives. humans are not all that different.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 06:30 PM
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no. she's the stereotype of very rich, well connected, sheltered, elitist white feminist who still finds a way to play the victim because she's female, isn't considered hot, and receives criticism just like everyone else in hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 09:16 PM
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nothing wrong with it, but you can't expect to make it very far in many industries and endeavors with that sort of philosophy. success in the real world often requires denial of your own feelings and ego. success often requires you to forget about your own petty little feelings, or for you to closely judge yourself and others in terms of what value you have to offer. creating things of value often requires a shit load of pain and sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 09:15 PM
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because it's male-oriented. if you go to the red pill women sub, you'll find a pervasive distaste for slutty men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 09:01 PM
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even though he did not start the fight, the dude should not have escalated. he stood up and started shoving her face after she stood up and turned her back, and that cannot be construed as self defense. he committed assault or battery at that point. if he had stayed on defense, the police would have reacted differently. whether you like it or not, it's a crime to escalate a fight.
/r/MGTOW08/07/15 10:28 PM
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irony and satire are considered offensive to the emotionally weak and retarded in the states, so it's been banned.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:02 PM
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This is sublime advice thats stated in just about every worthwhile philosophy. Happiness can be found in the process of working towards a goal, not just the goal Itself. Seeing this makes all toil and pursuit in life more enjoyable and meaningful, not just hitting on girls.
/r/seduction20/06/15 12:44 AM
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visualizing what an interaction or event will be like beforehand is very good advice. it's actually a proven method of cognitive behavioral therapy that psychologists use to help people alleviate anxiety, low self esteem, and depression. like you said, it works because it feels like you've already been through a dry run of the event, like you've practiced it already. however, visualizing the worst outcome is a bad idea for people who are still dealing with anxiety or have had a lot of failures a…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 08:18 PM
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yep, if they see you doing great with other people or in other situations, you can recover. it might even make the other person question themselves when they see you being comfortable and awesome with others. "did i do something weird to make them act differently with me? was i a bitch or intimidating? did i look bad?"
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 08:11 PM
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what is everyone in this thread talking about? she's actually really compassionate towards those guys and is concerned that there are so many hurting male virgins. her primary complaint is that serving virgins is a lot more work and emotionally draining for her, but not that she's disgusted with them. she clearly says that it's so much more work for her because she feels that she has, "the responsibility that the experience the clients have from me led to positive and endearing memories." nowher…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 09:14 PM
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i went to a strictly engineering college, so lots of my female friends and coworkers are very rational. my female old hippie boss (in the oil industry) is less controlled by emotion than i am. i hardly ever meet girls like them when i'm out carousing, though. if you want a rational woman, look for them in no-nonsense business and industry, or look for them in outdoor recreation industries like ski instruction or whatever. basically, look in places where irrationality can't survive due to the rea…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:54 PM
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probably some poor bastard (in the old sense of not having a father) who was totally pussified by his bitter, overbearing single mom.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:15 PM
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you're pretty ignorant of the opposite sex if you actually think that vaginas become looser from lots of sex. tightness of the vagina is dependent upon the birth canal muscles, and you know that muscles do not get floppy and loose when they are exercised a lot. a girl's tightness is dependent upon her genes and how much kegel exercises she does. those vagina muscles can be stretched by very large objects being forced through, such as by childbirth or extreme toys or other objects... like that vi…
/r/MGTOW09/06/15 06:09 PM
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i had the same experience with free swing lessons in college. i still remember the basics, and knowing how to spin and dip a girl is very handy. they love it. girls are dying for more guys who can dance. i'm beginning to think that dance lessons should be a mandatory part of kid's upbringing to stem to rising tide of awkwardness, anxiety, low confidence, and lack of dominance in dudes. clearly, guys won't just know this stuff from instinct. men have to be taught and trained to be men.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:13 PM
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i only play videogames during my hungover weekend mornings because i've got far too many real things that need to be done. if you use videogames to pass the time because you've got nothing else to do in the real world, your life is empty. it's an addiction, something you're using to artificially produce reward chemicals in your brain because your life and your behavior aren't producing them otherwise. fortunately, you can change it like any other addiction.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:44 PM
1

this is true for all things in life. great opportunities will pass you by if you do not jump on them quickly.
/r/seduction08/06/15 07:21 PM
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in my opinion, there's no shortage of guys who are willing to marry. there's only a shortage of guys who are willing to marry and are also hot enough by modern girl's standards. my social network is made up of highly educated white girls in our late 20's, and none of them have thought about getting married because they haven't met a hot enough guy who's willing to commit yet. they might never.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 05:26 PM
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dude if she still wants to go out and flirt with other guys, you're in trouble. i'm not sure if you can change your current relationship since you've been letting it happen already, but just remember that you must set boundaries for the next girl you get involved with. you don't have to put up with it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:46 PM
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the line of thought doesn't even make sense. if a guy is intimidated by you, it means he doesn't respect you? the truth is opposite: guys who feel intimidated by a woman usually have deep respect for them because they are intimidated by their skills, courage, status, beauty, or whatever. it seems like a projection of the lack of respect the author feels for men who are intimidated by women.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:14 PM
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Right now, there's nothing much to do other than sit on our hands and wait for the ascension of conservative political backlash —hop into the echo chamber, pile invective upon the next person or company who says something vaguely insensitive, insulate ourselves further and further from any concerns that might resonate outside of our own little corner of Twitter. even a leftist liberal arts professor is yearning for a conservative political backlash to fight the monster they created. the manosphe…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 05:57 PM
1

relax. i'm glad that some guys are dumb enough to think that the world will actually appreciate them for raising someone else's bastard.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 04:13 PM
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yep, and that's bad for everybody. i'm 27 and i still have to explain things about men and our sex drives to my female friends. i'll give you a hilarious example from this week. my good old female friend, age 28, set up a tinder account. for her primary picture, she used a picture of her on her knees taken from above with her looking up at the camera, and the bottom of the photo ended just below her nose so that you couldn't see her mouth. basically, it's just like the view you have of a girl wh…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:52 PM
1

You must see the recent Disney musical "Into the Woods" because it's the mother of all blue pill propaganda. it's obviously pandering to women and single moms in particular, and it's not even subtle about it. in one scene, a prince (who's chasing Cinderella) and a common woman run into one another in the woods while they are searching for others that scattered when a giant attacked the kingdom. The prince comes on to her and starts kissing her, but the woman puts up resistance because she's marr…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 04:27 PM
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I got her an internship at my job, and she blew it by arguing with a female VP; my GF acted as if she had higher status than the VP, which she would - outside of work, but she is so used to being the queen bee that she became a target for all the other women in the workplace. dude, step outside of yourself and ask why you are even considering marrying this girl. she can't even hold a basic job. she doesn't even understand the basics of etiquette, how our society works, and where she sits in soci…
/r/seduction27/05/15 03:01 PM
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they sure are jealous of women who put in an effort to be fun, not bitchy, and attractive to men. understandable. they want to eliminate their competition so that they don't have to try. it's hilarious how that passage from the Gone Girl book has become a rally cry for jealous women because it was an internal rant of the wife character who was literally going insane with jealously of more attractive women. don't they understand that that character and that passage in particular are a critical po…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:42 PM
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the point of all of this is to try to prevent to the few sociopaths that statistically exist in every community from raping or otherwise coercing people into sex. i get it. some people are crazy and need to be hammered upon to keep them from hurting people because they have no ability for empathy. some dudes will actually threaten to ditch a girl in the middle of nowhere because she doesn't want to have sex yet, and every community has a responsibility to prevent that abusive shit from happening…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:11 PM
3

i understand how you feel, but it's still a bad idea to hit women back, especially if you're dating or she's an ex. even if you were only defending yourself after a woman attacked you, you're very likely to get a very expensive, time consuming, soul-crushing domestic violence charge. the justice system doesn't care about justice. the police, the DA, state prosecutors, and judges generally want to maximize arrests and convictions because it's good for their careers, and men in relationships with …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 04:26 PM
1

i've got a feeling that a lot of those guys would benefit more by spending that money on psychotherapy. anxiety and depression aren't always simple to cure.
/r/seduction18/05/15 10:35 PM
9

yeah the game sucks ass for most young guys, but things turn around as you age. i'm 27 now and i'm beginning to worry about some of my female friends because i don't think that they are prepared to deal with the loss of their sexual power. i went to an engineering college that was about 70% male, so most of the girls had their pick of guys for 5 years straight when they were at their hottest. they are beginning to get jealous of younger women and pissy that they actually have to try to get and k…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:38 PM
2

he was high as well, so everyone involved was raping each other and should be expelled. BTW, molly and ecstasy are different. molly doesn't have all the amphetamine (speed) in it, and i like it a lot more. i highly recommend molly if you haven't tried it. it makes people very friendly and touchy.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:20 PM
1

any more than a pinch of pooch. we must stop enabling it. there would be very few fatties if it was impossible for them to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:26 PM
2

Tbh maybe I have underestimated the benefits my arrogance has brought me. yes, you have. naturals often don't understand why everyone else isn't a natural. when i was a teenager, i didn't understand why everyone didn't understand physics as easily as i did. "why can't everyone picture magnetic fields in their head? i can do it, why doesn't everyone else just figure it out instead of taking tons of small steps along the way? so what if the concept is a bit abstract? they must not be trying hard e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 09:02 PM
5

i was watching some episodes of Life recently, which is a nature show made by the same people who made the Planet Earth series. It covers a lot of mating rituals of many different animals. One thing you cannot help but notice is that for almost every single species on this earth, the males compete violently and deceitfully for the chance to mate and pass on their genes. for almost every single species, especially mammals, only a tiny minority of males actually get the chance to mate while almost…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:32 PM
2

... i want to be loved. real bad. it seems like you're projecting your bad experiences with men on to all men. if you keep ending up with emotionally unavailable men who don't care about you and don't care about being loved, then you may want to reconsider the sorts of men that you pursue. lots of women have issues with only pursuing emotionally unavailable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 07:09 PM
1

remember that if you don't vote, you have no right to complain about what your legislature and executives are doing.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 05:33 PM
1

mandatory arrest laws also apply to women, but police officers are more likely to arrest a man in a reciprocal altercation between intimate partners because men are much more likely to commit extreme acts of violence than women, such as murder. the police operate on a general protocol, and the cops generally won't arrest the woman unless the man made the call and it's obvious that she's the aggressor. men must get used to the idea of making the call when a woman commits assault. mandatory arrest…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 05:56 PM
41

it's true that young people in the USA and UK are having less sex now than young people did 20 years ago. i think it has a lot to do with the rise of the internet, porn, and on-demand entertainment like streaming TV shows and videogames. it's easy to be distracted from real socializing, romance, and sex. people also tend to have less sex when the economy is declining. it's hard to get together when dudes can't afford a date or don't have time because everyone's working and going to school all th…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 05:16 PM
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