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| 1 | What's your relationship/sexual history?I know what you mean, it’s just, I was just thinking about how nothing in my 20 years of living has even come close to this level of human connection. I’m similar to you (though probably on a lesser scale) in that I’d need some level of intellectual compatibility since I love pretty much anything academic but unlike you I also only have one woman I can do platonic stuff with (she’s my friends ex so I’ll never try anything romantic with her) let alone have casual sex with. I guess it’s not a bad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 02:51 PM |
| 3 | What's your relationship/sexual history?no hate or anything good for you, I just, cannot visualise hooking up like this. not bc i don’t want to, i would if i could, im just like, wow. I live in a completely diff world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networksTy queen :3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 09:08 AM |
| – | Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networksstupid moid let me talk shit about games I don’t like in peace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networksYeah sure but those competitive shooters get a metric fuck ton of air time and even if you want to just bring up every other game or fandom in existence, they’re still misogynistic games and that can make it harder for women to join relevant e-sports games, even tho call of duty and Val are lowkey mid games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:25 AM |
| 7 | Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networksI think there’s definite connotations when someone tells a woman to get in the kitchen or to make a sandwich or to suck someone’s dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 07:22 AM |
| 6 | Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networksI don’t believe that gamers are less misogynist, I’m a man and in most competitive low skill ceiling games like call of duty and valorant, dudes scream at women all the time or otherwise be creepy. Maybe being online more often is true though? But there’s too many times where people shit talk women on normal games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 06:53 AM |
| 4 | If you are not willing to sacrifice everything to get it, then you don’t deserve it.I agree like you’re right OP is overdoing it but also men and women giving up on LTR’s is worlds apart. There’s outliers but most men give up due to having no affirming attention/chance at an LTR. Maybe I’m completely wrong and making assumptions but the only single women I know did it by choice because men kinda suck tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:13 PM |
| 24 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseI don’t know how old you are but there is a big age difference here. Gen Z gets the same angry manhating (and womanhating) posts, Gen Z men are also apparently now having 33% of us or more having never asked a girl on a date, and most of us would have seen girls go for dudes they actually like. Average men in my generation do feel invisible, the overwhelming majority of women my age are either pretty or just smarter than the average male and go to uni at a higher rate, do better at school etc et… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 12:37 PM |
| – | Average men don't struggle in datingYou can ignore me if you want I just wanted to present another issue that’s a little similar to this, is it a crime? <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 12:42 PM |
| – | Average men don't struggle in datingI feel like that 33% is a lot larger than the number suggests. 33% of 100 isn’t a lot sure but I think the problem is getting WORSE not better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 12:36 PM |
| – | Average men don't struggle in datingSome chubby dudes are good looking when they drop the weight. My dad is chubby and is good looking regardless. I’m his son and I’m skinny and go to the gym a good few times a week and haven’t even had a kiss. Never been told I’m someone’s classroom crush or workplace crush. I just read your comment start to finish and I realised, why am I even telling you this. 😭😭😭 Frick I’m such a chud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:58 AM |
| – | Average men don't struggle in datingAren’t 1/3 of all Gen Z men virgins and never asked out a woman in person? Maybe that’s not average but 33% of a male generation is quite a lot of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:56 AM |
| 0 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.Whenever I see a comment like this I can only assume the dude you’re talking about is older than say Gen Z, because I still haven’t found a rlly short dude that slays here in Australia. Is he older than Gen Z? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Women need to embrace, modernity all the way.Is the meow pill like cat girl related bc I can get behind ts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 02:08 PM |
| – | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.You’re also kinda missing the fact he feels he won’t have real human attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.That’s what I meant, the ocean, a salty but endless expanse of water, you’ll die if you try to drink it, but it’s there nonetheless. Women have tons of bad options. Men have none. That’s what I was trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.That was bad faith of me sure, I’m sorry. I’m just trying to point out that lonely men are dying of thirst in a desert, lonely women are dying of thirst in an ocean. Am I making any sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 07:03 AM |
| 8 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.I never compare lonely men to lonely women because it’s just completely different. Lonely men are lonely because they’re either ugly and don’t meet the initial looks threshold, or because they really shoot themselves in the foot in all metrics (no hygiene, unkempt etc). Lonely women exist sure but inevitably if they went to a bar or wanted a friend with benefits or started joining a club, shallow or meaningful, they would be able to experience some sort of human connection. I’m not saying that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:50 AM |
| – | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.No, misogynists can ban abortions and lobby to remove women’s voting rights. Misandrists can’t do that. Are you a silly Billy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:32 AM |
| – | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.It’s not even the height, I know I’m never gonna dominate a room cos I’m short but I don’t even mind I like being really light. I’m not hideous, I have friends that are girls. I try to fake it til I make it but inevitably I’m just not that fun of a person to be around for most women. I’m just a stock standard nerd. Saying you’ve seen plenty of average and below average dudes with spouses doesn’t help. I see them too. Telling us to be confident doesn’t help when we don’t have prior experience wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:31 AM |
| – | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.I know I’m not too chopped. I’ve even been told that I’m handsome. But I’m also not desirable, I’m not tall, I’m not someone people look at and remember for the rest of the day. I’m literally as invisible as a person can get in western society. A little below average height, brunette, skinny-ish (I go to the gym) with hazel eyes. I’ve been told when I vent that I might have silent passing crushes from girls in my uni classes but I’ve never seen them hold eye contact with me or do any of the sign… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:58 AM |
| – | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.I would argue it’s a mixture of both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:49 AM |
| 19 | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.Are the horrible people that are able to attract other horrible people better or worse than the normal people (males usually) that can’t attract anyone though? A lot of those normal lonely people (especially males) will believe they’re worse. Being starved of something and then being told “oh well that’s bad for you so you shouldn’t eat it” especially with no alternative, might not be well heeded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:35 AM |
| – | Yes, social media and influencers are poisoning young men's mind and making them misogynist, but young women are also not immune to social media manipulation, and thus turning more misandrist too.misandrists as a group barely exist. telling women to avoid men is just half joke half bad experiences. The only real thing I can call misandry is women thinking that all men under like 5’10” are subhuman and shouldn’t be allowed outside. Also this “full circle” isnt even a bad thing, if women don’t date men they don’t find attractive (which yeah that’s most men so frick) and are openly honest about it at least there’s no room for cope, and us chopped dudes don’t need to practice exercising in f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 05:30 AM |
| 0 | There should be female only draft.OP is a knob don’t get me wrong. I’m not gonna lie and this is probably patriarchal but idec I just don’t think men have as much a place in healthcare, education/early learning department compared to women. You’ll always need men in them obviously but I think especially from nurses/preschool/primary school teaching all the way up to surgeons/high tier doctors should have a skew towards more women. There were scandals with male teachers at my high school, none so with women teachers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 12:19 PM |
| 2 | There should be female only draft.You get the point though right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 11:21 AM |
| 2 | There should be female only draft.I agree but isn’t the whole reason men aren’t in these roles as much right now because they’re either 1. Creepy or 2. Seen as creepy? Seems like a zero sum game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider a man who has many friends, but has never dated at 25 "socially stunted" ?I truly don’t understand how you can be so much better than me in terms of desirability and still the same in terms of dating success, as I am. Good luck bro it’s a nasty world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Would you consider a man who has many friends, but has never dated at 25 "socially stunted" ?On the bright side you’re mentally a much tougher bloke than me and I’m only 19 in your position… are you overweight or anything, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 01:44 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemI know. I get too emotional at night and this post gutted me. You're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:25 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemWhy do people always guilt trip boys/men with love? Its always "well the only person who loves you unconditionally is your mother"... "you don't need a relationship if you have meaningful friendships"... "life should be fulfilling without a relationship"... Its always labelled as bitter too. I'm 19. I'm not trying to force someone to date me, and I'm very grateful for the love my mum gives me and the time I spend with my friends, but at least once before I die I'd just like to feel desirable and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 12:02 PM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemIf you are trying to move countries to date someone you're not only perpetuating the problem but you don't deserve love anyway. Its wrong. These poor women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 11:46 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemWhy do you have to be right. It can't be that much to want to love someone and they love me back. Jeez man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.This comment is mainly in agreeance with me, most of it is just a reaffirmation of what I said. Still, I think you're forgetting just how much more invisible the average guy is compared to the average lady. I'm not asking women to drop their standards for men. Its just that, take me for instance, I'm 19, 170cm, around 59kg and I do try to go to the gym at least a couple times a week, yet I have small hands and if I'm being honest I'm not the most threatening or tough or manly looking dude. Me ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.My last sentence was talking shit but as we speak, China's, India's, and I'd assume South America's (dont quote me on SA)'s fertility rates are still falling anyway. One might argue, however slowly, that it is happening. It won't be me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:47 AM |
| 10 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.In what way? Life is more enjoyable to just have fun where you can. Trying to make peoples lives harder isnt that fun. If youre that desperate to make people miserable become a parking ticket inspector. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.Yeah, and a very very verrrrrrry large part of that is attraction based on height, and not that many people are taller than 186cm. Is that not apart of an unfair world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:32 AM |
| 4 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.Look yeah you're right, but by extension, also proving the blackpill right too. Undesirable men will be out of the gene pool in a generation 🥰🥰🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.I was going to argue that being born shouldn't make someones life less fair than others but its not worth it. Just plays into the blackpill which is steadily growing. Sigh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.i dont wanna play devils advocate but i will anyway im bored. The biggest thing about these standards might not even be that they're unrealistic its more that men don't really get standards unless theyre 1. Super desirable or 2. Content with being very lonely. So its just a little fairness thing. Or at least thats what ive seen. There's probably a fuck ton of other reasons but frankly lots of them are rooted in misogyny and thats how its been and will probably continue, as bad as it sounds. So y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 08:52 AM |
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