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dieganExPat/r/seduction27/07/12 05:30 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction25/05/12 06:11 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction27/04/12 08:57 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction03/05/12 04:11 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction27/04/12 09:07 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction22/04/12 03:55 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction08/08/12 10:00 AM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction22/04/12 04:47 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction23/04/12 11:02 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction22/05/12 04:31 PM
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dieganExPat/r/MensRights11/05/12 05:07 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction07/05/12 05:36 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction10/08/12 07:08 PM
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dieganExPat/r/seduction29/04/12 03:53 AM
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You know this one, you met her last week. She was the one I didn't think was into me, but you convinced me otherwise. There was about 10 minutes between her suggestion of wine at her place and us departing for her place. My take is that she realized the chain of events she potentially opened up, and wanted to back peddle as a result. Had she not suggested it, I wouldn't have pressed the issue. Once it was decided that's what we were doing, she was not apprehensive about it. Worst part is me beat…
/r/seduction11/08/12 12:37 AM
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Really good point. The first conversation was just fun. I honestly didn't think much about the number until I realized it was late in set. I'll take that into consideration going forward though.
/r/seduction08/08/12 03:45 PM
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Thanks man. In retrospect the little girl at the end was a bit intoxicated as well. I might not see her today, but I'm confident Ill see her again; perhaps Friday as originally planned.
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:36 PM
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Thanks for the positive feedback. I wish I had had more time to add lessons learned, but I was in a hurry and it wasn't a complex pickup. I feel you on the AFC crap. The top voted comment on here is some chump claiming I didn't have to work hard enough for the first one and didn't add enough detail on the second. When did we become a community where someone posts "dual f closes" and the top comment claims it had nothing to do with how the OP handled it?
/r/seduction29/07/12 01:07 AM
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And you sound ridiculous by commenting on hyperbole as if it were a serious statement.
/r/seduction29/07/12 12:52 AM
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Irvine, close to coda mesa. I'll hit you up when I get down there Do you know kumar?
/r/seduction28/07/12 09:05 PM
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I've done it before. I got a laugh/smile She took it well but knew it wasn't true, so it didn't change the situation much.
/r/seduction28/07/12 09:01 PM
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Yeah man, and I don't start until 13 Aug. =)
/r/seduction27/07/12 08:46 PM
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Ignoring is a safe, neutral response tactic. If I have enough report, I will challenge them with "why not? don't you enjoy it?" "you should try it more often" or "who is judging you." It's situational, and I admit I don't have a great canned response either.
/r/seduction27/07/12 08:45 PM
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Yeah I had to type this one up rather quickly, as is evident by the number of grammatical errors etc. Today was my last day at work and I have movers coming. If I didn't do it today it wasn't going to get done. The best PUA lesson (perhaps the only one) I can give is to get over AA. A lot of guys in the community seem hung up there. I have found that once you get over AA once, it becomes habit, and eventually you forget about AA altogether. Edit, wanted to add: TBH though, the first girl was bas…
/r/seduction27/07/12 08:38 PM
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Where are you from? How do your friends fair with women?
/r/seduction27/05/12 04:21 AM
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Having a good crew is half the fun
/r/seduction27/05/12 04:11 AM
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I love people who downvote advice without comments.
/r/seduction27/05/12 04:10 AM
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"I want to have sex with you. Crazy, mind-blowing sex. And a lot of it." If he's down, awesome. If not, move on.
/r/seduction25/05/12 11:49 PM
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You can tailor this to a bar atmosphere. Here is my parallel: You mentioned the phone thing. So when we laid down together, she kept texting people. I took it as LMR, try to escalte physically but she literally was more interested in the phone. I closed off, physically separated myself from her on the bed and she tried to get next to me. Gave a passionate speech about how rude it is to lay there next to me and text other people, and if she wanted to do that she A) shouldn't have came over and B)…
/r/seduction25/05/12 10:56 PM
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This is situational solution, but it usually fits. Once I know I am in with my target, if I see a neglected friend that my target cares about I'll work to engage the friend. I try to keep kino up with my target even when talking to the friend, so the target knows whats up. Usually the gesture is appreciated and taken prety well. However if the sober driver is just a venom spitting cunt, it doesn't work out so well. I have had a couple of those. Some sober friends just hate you because they think…
/r/seduction25/05/12 10:46 PM
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Not that I can think of. I was pretty real with my girl about "hey your friend is trying to take care of you, how are you getting home tonight." Showed I cared a little bit. Perhaps some of that filtered over to the blonde girl? That's all I can think of though.
/r/seduction25/05/12 07:24 PM
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It looks like I am heading to PA again tonight. Hit me up if you want to go out. I got invited out by a non-seddit buddy of mine, so it'll be a non-seddit group. Free social proof! Also - I won't let me phone die this time.
/r/seduction25/05/12 07:13 PM
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I used to live in SD, but it's been a few years. I was hoping to meet up with some local sedditors, or at lest get input on which bars to go to / which to avoid.
/r/seduction22/05/12 05:08 PM
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If you're strong enough, I have have good luck with telling the girl to wrap her arms around my neck, then just picking her up and placing her on the floor/bed/where ever I feel like. A lot of girls I have been with have complimentary my ability to pick them up like they are nothing. Gauge it carefully, because if you drop them you are fucked. Also risky when drunk. If you pull it off, usually it scores points due to your confidence, willingness to take charge, and physical DHV.
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:28 AM
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Your intelligent discourse is appreciated.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 09:11 PM
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As far as the MRM goes, I think it's best supported by family law inequality and false rape cases. The wage gap is difficult to quantify and analyze. It is easy for people to sum up money earned by men and women, divide by the numbers, and come up with a number that "supports" their claim. Then you have to explain all the things they are failing to consider, and that never works out well.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 09:10 PM
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But I did a weighted average =(
/r/MensRights11/05/12 09:03 PM
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I hate Fox as much as the next guy, but let's try to add something intelligent to the conversation: It is clear they could have achieved the same affect while hiding the face of the child. Do you think they would have ran the article if it was a young girl doing the same thing? Yes, it is sensationalist, but they did it at the expense of a 3 year old boy.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 08:53 PM
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This guy's comment might help: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/tieti/does_this_data_support_the_wage_gap_source_and_my/c4mxjz3
/r/MensRights11/05/12 08:40 PM
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I see what you are trying to get at, but you missed the mark. My argument is the equivalent of using average GPA of men vs. women to conclude women are "smarter" than men without analyzing what classes they take.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 08:39 PM
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The NY Times article doesn't really point to either of those, but thank you for the data. The Consad paper is a bit of a read, I'll try to review it when I am not at work. Seems like the Times article points to "factors other than gender." The article specifically mentioned level of responsibility, size of corporation, and location. So it seems given a set of responsibilities, workers making under $100K earn roughly the same regardless of gender. My next question would be if gender plays a role …
/r/MensRights11/05/12 08:37 PM
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k =)
/r/MensRights11/05/12 08:24 PM
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Can you point to any data which supports either of those?
/r/MensRights11/05/12 07:54 PM
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After I did an average of the data involved, I came up with figure of 80% women/men pay. That means if a women worked 40 hours a week, the men work more hours argument would put men working at 50 hours a week on average. That doesn't add up for me. Maybe in certain cases, but as an average I can't believe that. I would put men working at an average of 5-10% more hours that women, but I have data to back that up. 20% is a big factor. I would expect it is a combination of multiple variables, but h…
/r/MensRights11/05/12 05:23 PM
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I stumbled on to this article this morning. I didn't give it much credence except for that it mentioned Rachel Maddow. The data they present seems to support their wage gap claim, breaking it down by job description. I understand a number of things are not controlled for: hours worked per week and education level. I'll address these in a sec. So I pulled the data from the source and deleted rows which did not include both men's and women's weekly pay. I then did a % of women's pay to men's pay, …
/r/MensRights11/05/12 05:14 PM
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Something you can do: research. Start reading the sidebar links and generate specific questions, not "How do I get better?" If I walked up to you and asked "How do I play music?" could you give me any useful information that I could not have found via Google? No, probably not. Same applies here.
/r/seduction10/05/12 06:08 PM
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Also - Wednesday happy hour is a go.
/r/seduction07/05/12 11:06 PM
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Airplane girl and I met up on Saturday (she was the D2 that caused me to waffle with the OP girl). She came back from London enamored with the guy she went to go see while she was there. I was not sure how to work around that and it really messed with my state. I tried to do the whole "show her a fun time" thing, but it seemed like she just wouldn't get in the mood. She kept asking me all these deep get to know me type questions, which I answered mostly honestly with a couple jokes thrown in. Pr…
/r/seduction07/05/12 10:56 PM
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You are right. Had I not had conflicting plans, I would have accepted on the spot. I just sent out the text, we'll see what comes back.
/r/seduction07/05/12 08:10 PM
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Not that I am the best, but here's my suggestion. Find the alpha female and get her on your side. Friend zone her, make her comfortable with you. Then you can work the group with a little top cover. Don't bounce between targets too much, don't be super aggressive. I would suggest against charming a girl to a quick F-close. You don't want her to wake up the next morning and regret it. Be slow and deliberate. Let her be slow and deliberate as well. I did a quick, charmed F-close in my social circl…
/r/seduction07/05/12 05:24 PM
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I am not sure how to play this tactically. Heres the background: I have an unconfirmed D2 w/ Airplane Girl on Saturday. The Flaker is attending a party Saturday, she asked me if I was going & offered up that she would see me there. I told her I was not currently planning on attending and (pre-LTR speech) teased her a gathering didn't make up for a date. Girl from this post also wants to get together on Sat, but she is not as hot as the Flaker. Frankly, I really want to go because the Cinco De Ma…
/r/seduction03/05/12 08:25 PM
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LOL perhaps. I just picked it up on a D2 tips site a few days ago. The way they outlined it: You each get 10 questions. You can't ask a question the other person asked you. I framed as a method to get to know each other. So it's an interview feel, but you can steer the topics. As a result of my success, I made a rule for myself which I don't share with her: If you hit 10 questions before you K-close, you lose. =)
/r/seduction03/05/12 04:40 PM
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I am bad at TL;DRs. I hope the verbosity helps guys reading. She works at a diner-style restaurant I have been to three times. She remembers me because my buddy made an ass of himself the first time we were there. She walked by. My eye contact and body language stopped her. I complimented her shirt and posed a related follow on question. She had to walk away. After she was done with customers. Eye contact, and a sideways head nod that indicated "are you gonna come over and talk to me again." She…
/r/seduction03/05/12 04:38 PM
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I don't entirely disagree with you on that point. I do think, however, that the post provides an extreme example of a more wide ranging problem. This is 1 moron being very sexist: (paraphrase) "This man did [something minor] to wrong a woman, and therefore deserves to have his teeth pulled out!" I think the point of the MRM is that a vast majority of people are willing to passively accept mild discrimination against men. This just provides the dramatic, extreme example. Turns out there are a lot…
/r/MensRights01/05/12 09:50 PM
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I really want to ignore them and write them off as internet psycos. But whenever I hear about someone getting doxxed and threatened IRL, it always seem to start with SRS. Then their mods don't condem or address the doxxing problem. That's where my issue lies. Besides that, they are just a bunch of crazies, imo.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 06:23 PM
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It's sad that we live so under the shadow of SRS that we can't make obvious sarcastic comments without fear of SRS starting drama.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 06:04 PM
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You are missing the point. The reader on FB thought it happened and claimed "When he deserves it then it's awesome." The point of the post is the response by the readers, not whether or not it was true. Good to know it was fake though.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 05:22 PM
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That's so awesome. Edit - To clarify, that was sarcasm. I would have thought it was clear, but Loggins makes a good point that I should clarify in case it gets taken out of context. Both the original post (if true) and the article above are both very horrible. The disparity between the reactions makes me sad.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 05:20 PM
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turned out to be the brother of the girl see a guy who is kind of a player and are jealous Or maybe he didn't want you fucking his sister. =P What country is this? Good job working the 6 set. Textgame isn't so hard. Be excited about it.
/r/seduction29/04/12 03:24 PM
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Are you on /r/BayAreaSeddit? We have a groupme app as well. You should join up with the rest of us. We go out in south bay and SF all the time.
/r/seduction28/04/12 11:49 PM
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Not sure where I insinuated that. As the OP pointed out, I used the word "despite" instead of "because." Misunderstanding. My bad.
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:39 PM
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I think we are in agreement here. ...right?
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:32 PM
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So true I LOLed. Have an upvote!
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:32 PM
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To play devil's advocate, is it possible the OP thinks he is a bigger dick than he really is because she has a thing for him and she sees him DHVing to other girls? I came across this a couple nights ago (abridged): Girl: "You're a PUA, and therefore a dick." Me: "Clearly you don't know us very well." "You just treat women like shit, you're a bunch of douchbags" "Then you have never looked into it, because it is more about having the confidence to know what your worth. We refuse to act insecure …
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:27 PM
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Yes, the goal is to make the girl interested in you. You are interested in him, you already admitted it. From your other comment: I'm admittedly into him and worried about getting played, correct. So you are interested despite your annoyance over the "cat-string bullshit."
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:15 PM
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Just because you identify him as a PUA doesn't mean he is doing it wrong. He's got you worked up, proof he's doing something right.
/r/seduction28/04/12 08:55 PM
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Seems you are in the minority. I appreciate you letting me know. Edit: I would like to add that you should call when he tries to play the PUA game, especially when he acts like a dick toward other girls. Knock him off his base, play with him, have fun with it. Just had a thought: try to turn it into a DHV for yourself. Let him know you wouldn't put up with that from him (and you shouldn't). The goal is to have a good time. He may be into you, he may be playing you, have the confidence not to car…
/r/seduction28/04/12 08:44 PM
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My take: you may never know. Seduction is manipulation at its core. I have never heard of a "be sweet to a girl" technique, but if he knows it will work on you, its a tool for him to use. However, if he hasn't physically escalated, something is off. Not really sure what to say about that. Physical escalation is one of the Top 5 (if there were a top 5) that kinda transcends anything else. If he is alpha but only wanted to get in your pants, he would escalate or stop wasting his time. Makes me thi…
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:29 AM
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You can I should hang out. I can do D2s most of the time, but I have had awful luck with same night hookups in the last... Well since moving to the Bay Area. EDIT - same night hookups in LA and San Diego were plentiful. I miss the good ol' days.
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:18 AM
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I do live in the Bay area, but I am a little hesitant to out the particular meetup group publicly. Maybe it's paranoia, sorry. If you are in SF, I would try this meetup: http://www.meetup.com/20-and-30-somethings-in-San-Francisco-AWESOME-Stuff/ They seem to partner/cross-promote with Alpha Bar. Thats the first place I would start if I were in SF. Disclaimer: I have tried to make it to their meetups, but have not made it to one myself.
/r/seduction28/04/12 09:01 AM
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Not girl drinkers.
/r/seduction25/04/12 02:32 AM
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Thanks for the review. I sometimes forget I can't party like I am 23 any more. Her drinking tendencies should have been a red flag. You were right on pulling her back earlier, and feeding her water. I should have been on he lookout for that. Been a while since I hung out with a drinker, I can't remember the last time I had a potential hook up drink to the point of throwing up. I never really had a rule for that one. I like yours though. Aren't you supposed to be at the gym???
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:16 AM
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I did leave out some details that would answer your question. Both girls wanted to smoke, but blondie lit up in the room by the window. I let that go. When the brunette wanted to smoke, I showed her to the patio. So I kinda had everything to do with her leaving.
/r/seduction24/04/12 10:35 PM
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I thought about this comment while sitting in a meeting today. A few points worth raising: 1) I wrote the FR up quick, and realize I exaggerated parts. Apparently, that makes it sound like I was being more forceful than I was. That was my fault as the author. Also, I didn't give take aways, which I should have included. 2) My rules of engagement, so to speak, are this: A) If she physically displays shes not into it, I disengage and let her come back to me if she wants. B) If she weakly claims sh…
/r/seduction23/04/12 03:39 PM
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I am not going to deny we both had too much to drink. Edit - There was also a viable logistics issue with her getting home at that point. We were both way intoxicated in a city we don't know, we were staying miles away from each other, and I have heard less than awesome things if you get in the wrong cab. Her sleeping it off in the bed next to mine was my best response for taking care of her. I was in no shape to get her safely home at that point. I will give you that I probably should not have …
/r/seduction23/04/12 01:20 AM
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even if they seem really eager to come home with you, that doesn't mean they're down for sex So so true. EDIT - Perhaps more specifically, coming home with you doesn't imply sex to a female. Sounds absurd.
/r/seduction22/04/12 10:23 PM
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You're not comparing the right things. Try rereading.
/r/MensRights13/04/12 01:29 AM
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In my example the black person standing near me makes me uncomfortable in the same way people looking at you make you uncomfortable. If a fundamental right to feel comfortable exists, what makes your right to feel comfortable different than mine? The black person in my example is actively standing near me, just like the person in your example is actively looking at you. Both antagonists are doing something "active" to make us feel uncomfortable while an alternative exists which makes you/me more…
/r/MensRights12/04/12 09:59 PM
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Yes it does. You don't have a right to feel a certain way. You have a right to BE safe, not to FEEL safe. Edit - by safe enjoyment, I meant the right to be safe. That is different than feeling safe. Ex: If black people made me feel unsafe, I don't have the right to demand they avoid me if I decide to stroll through South Central LA.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 08:26 PM
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Not sure where you are from, so I can't comment. In the US, laws are ment to keep you safe, and you are have a right of safe enjoymemt so to speak. However, you do not have the right to FEEL safe, because that is completely subjective. Your desire not to be looked at (because it makes you feel unsafe or whatever) does not trump other citizens' right to look at you. Speaking from the US perspective.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 07:53 PM
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You don't have the right to "feel comfortable," no. You have the right to get mad at whoever you want. You are confusing rights and freedoms. They are not synonymous.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 03:48 PM
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A feminist hypocrite? Say it aint so!
/r/MensRights11/04/12 07:03 AM
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Short answers: Yes, you are doomed to "leers" if you wear a low cut shirt. It is fair because other people can look at whatever the fuck they want, just like you. There is no "fault" here. Fault implies someone has done something inappropriate, and there is nothing inappropriate here. PS - Before you say anything stupid(er), let's be clear: 1) You don't have the right to not get looked at. 2) Others are in no way obligated to avoid offending you, as long as their actions are legal. Don't act lik…
/r/MensRights11/04/12 07:00 AM
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I believe "male focused" would be a better choice of words than "guys only." I have personally benefited from female input on seddit and would not want to bar them form the discussion.
/r/seduction05/04/12 12:41 AM
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The goals and methods of pickup differ greatly depending on the sex of the PUA. Differences are far too drastic to combine them into a single discussion. The females who would like to contribute to /r/seduction are welcome and encouraged to do so. However seddit should remain a discussion of male-focused pickup. If the desire for a fPUA or fSeduction is strong enough, I am sure one of those interested will create and use it (fPUA already exists). Seddit should encourage cross communication, but …
/r/seduction05/04/12 12:37 AM
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