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Red Pill Theorydiejager/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 05:53 AM
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Discussiondiejager/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:06 AM
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Everybody hates a weak person because a weak person can't bring anything good to the table.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 01:54 PM
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I stupidly told her I was talking to another woman, which broke her heart, and ended up fucking me up for years later. Happened to me as well. What I have concluded after 2 years this happened is that this is not the cause of our breakup. What truly caused it was the desire of not staying together anymore: I didn't have that feeling nor had she. Did I suffer? Ho, boy, to the point I was suicidal. But I didn't missed her, what I truly missed was the sex. When you have a stable once per week sex s…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/21 01:12 AM
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Just don't. She is your ex. It was your time in the carousel, now it is his. Your situation is the greatest lesson on attachment and it is one of the hardest to swallow. No one is property of someone else's, she is not your property and you are not hers. That being said, you should be asking yourself "what should I do now?", but because of you, not her.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 03:04 PM
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fear of women to some degree - Ho boy, depending in which country you live, this is not a con at all. Let me take the example of my country for instance. Imagine you are a guy in a pub. You are chilling then you see from afar a girl. You approach her, do your game and she decides (drunk) to have sex with you. Then you go to your apartment, have sex and the next morning she regrets it. In my country, this woman might tell the authorities that she was drunk and you raped her. The law that regulare…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 12:39 AM
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And you do this regardless of whether you're getting pussy or not. This is the crucial information on this post. If you are fighting in order to get pussy, you have already lost the battle: you will "change" and once you find the "one" all you have built will crumble into pieces. Always do it for yourself, you can do things for people that are special to you (taking care of your parents for instance), but never for a woman.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 01:44 AM
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"Ever fed, never satisfied. Never fed, ever satisfied" - Paramahansa Yogananda This sentence talks about how our sexual desires work. If we treat it as goal, we will always want more ("Ever fed, never satisfied"). However, when we see sex and our sexual desires as a byproduct, a consequence of our actions and learn how to harness this "sexual drive" towards our true goals (purpose, whatever you want to call it), then we will become greater and reduce its size ("never fed, ever satisfied").
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 08:48 PM
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Sometimes you need to commit a few mistakes to learn valuable lessons. You are young, I guarantee none of these years were wasted because now you know what to do and how much you should give in in a relationship. Go on and write a report on the next few months telling how you are powerful again.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/21 09:04 PM
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Interesting, never thought MGTOW reached this discussion, now let's talk about this: THERE ARE NO HIGH VALUE WOMEN. The definition is based on insecure male projections. You are looking for a codependent supermodel virgin. That is the super hot woman, that will stand by her loser forever, and despite all that she has less sexual experience than random smuck. It's delusion-ville. I can't agree with that because value is something personally perceived: what I think is valuable maybe is not for you…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 05:54 PM
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No way, because I don't reject the idea of a male-female relationship like MGTOW does. My thinking is that low value women are a waste of time, money and energy and you should do your own thing, increase your value (for yourself) and then the high value women are going to appear. The inexorable truth is that most high value women will already be married by age of 30, when the ovary countdown starts to tick and suddenly every women wants a partner
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 01:25 PM
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We could talk in private. That works as well. Showcasing a philosophy is tough because not everybody is tolerant or is ready to read about a different idea. Quoting Morpheus: "What do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still part of of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged"
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 08:30 PM
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Me neither, but when you evaluate the community as a whole, I don't think any of them could provide me like minded people to improve myself. That's not a case of community, but rather individuals
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 06:52 PM
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Your parents probably respect you because they are proud of you, of your achievements, of what you have become. Not because of a label. But if you think in the alpha as a leader, ho boy you will have a lot of trouble in the future. There is this semi-esotherical thing called family constellation and the first principle of that everyone in a family occupies a space in an hierarchical system. So your parents aren't higher or lower than the opposite, but they are higher than you (and your siblings …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 03:35 PM
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Perfect explanation, mate! We left a matrix to enter another matrix.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 03:26 PM
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Value depends on two things: context and personal beliefs. Imagine you are in a desert and someone offered you one of two goods for free: a glass of water and a piece of gold. After picking one, you cannot afford the other, which one you would chose? If you chose the glass of water, you are striving for your own life and understand that in the desert water is a scarce thing. If you chose the piece of gold, you are following what the society says what is valuable and believe that if you could rea…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 03:21 PM
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I don't think I'm going to fit the MGTOW community as well. Currently the manosphere has two major groups: the red pill and the MGTOW. The interesting part about this group is that it is based on the Morpheus' concept about accepting the truth of the world. But right now this sub has created a form of Matrix, meaning you take the red pill, enter here and go back to the blue pill because you enter another Matrix. This is something I'm still trying to elaborate, but I'm starting to think that red …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 03:03 PM
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I see. It is always good looking for understanding people. Outside the concept of romance, in your workplace you will be leading a lot of people, either men or women. I don't think understanding by having sex is a good way, though.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 06:38 PM
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It depends on your mindset. If you need to know the woman you are going to fuck, then do it. This doesn't mean you are having a sniper mindset since you can talk to multiple women at once.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 03:38 PM
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Indeed. If you think in sex as an end, then you are reinforcing the inner idea that sex is scarce. Also, when you get sex, all your built habits will be broken because you have achieved your "goal".
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 03:34 PM
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One thing that separates us from women is that we are driven toward self-development. Most women spend their youth with multiple partners without a true goal of creating value for them: they could even go to college and get a degree, but it by itself does not generate value (in my country we call it "the degree syndrome", the belief that a college degree is a warranty of sucess and make you a better person). And why I am saying this? my rant: I personally think this sub is too biased about girls…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 07:43 PM
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What he said is something kind of esotherical in a sense but it is part of one of the most brilliant essays in the 20th century (Napoleon Hill's Outsmarting the Devil): you attract what you are focused on. The point is there is nothing esotherical about it. It is psychology 101: if you want to see a tiger hidden in a bush, you will see because your mind wants to believe there is a tiger hidden in a bush. Likewise, if you think women are the worst thing in the world, you will only see their worst…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 08:48 PM
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Men do it with LOGIC. It is important to relate to both. If you are too pragmatic, you are a nuisance (because you can't relate to other people's emotions) but if you are too empathetic, then you will be left behind. It is just like you said: Women are the other side of the coin, the yin to the yang. Now here comes the twist: what if I said to you that you are both the yin and the yang? You have both masculine and feminine energies? Because this line of thought that you are saying is exactly as …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 08:36 PM
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99% of the time, when people talk about their problems or come to speak to us in general, they are doing so in order to get someone to listen to them. They don’t want to hear what they should of done, or what you would of done. Now, of course, if they ask, lay it out there for them. But, if you pay attention, most of the time they won’t ask. They want you to reinforce that they are the victim. This is the modern concept of "empathy": it is to act simpatecty towards them. "Oh, you were dumped? Th…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 11:35 PM
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Conservative, traditional, Catholic family. I think this kind of person is the most prone to cheat: since their community values a lot of hard values, saying that you are feeling one (ex: cheating) makes you being scolded by them, creating a situation in which either you create the thrill of a forbidden thing ("oohhh, I can't cheat, that's so exciting!") or a previous feeling go stacking each other until the person cheats (for instance, she sees another guy and finds he interesting, but since lo…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 02:40 PM
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Not necessarily. It is hard to tell if she has a mood disorder or a behavior disorder from a single post on the internet. Like the antisocial personality disorder, borderlines tend to engage in risky and impulsive behaviour. What diferentiates them is what drives them to this kind of behavior: borderlines do that because they want to avoid feeling emptiness, fear of abandonment and realizing these feelings make them detach from their concept of self. "Psycopaths" on the other hand (people with a…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 03:41 AM
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Such a good post. About this: I ask what she is looking for in man and she tells me she is looking for someone with strong opinions, capable of taking decisions, that knows what to do in his life. I'm not kidding, straight TRP truths coming off her mouth. "Psychopaths" lack the emotional mechanisms to relate to other people (what we call empathy). But they are very good at something: they are very good at manipulating. Probably these things she said is one of either: or she really feels that way…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 03:03 AM
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I see how community agrees with you. Look how many downvotes!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:55 PM
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Remember the time this sub was about building power? Yeah, miss those days...
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 04:29 PM
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So what exactly is natural masculinity? It is a state of mind, it's being stable, level headed, relaxed, smiling in the rubble. I see none of that from the new people in this sub, constantly anxious, stressed, paranoid and neurotic. I take the example of the "alpha buddha" Cory Worthington (that aussie kid that gave the 20 thousant dollar property damage party). For me, that's masculinity in its pure state.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 10:31 PM
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Pussy should never be your purpose. Pussy is not a goal, it is a consequence of a men within his endless journey towards his purpose. It's a symptom of being a man. No it is not. If you are constantly chasing pussies, you are a slave of your sexuality and being a men is to rule your own life. If you are a slave, you are not in power, but constantly giving power to someone else. Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. Very well said. In ord…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 03:16 AM
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Then yesterday she comes out with a statement about how she's relinquishing her polyamorous lifestyle and she's satisfied with her new man from now on. In other words, polyamory is a new excuse to normatize women's hypergamy. If appears a high SMV enough, she will stay with him. "sexual therapist" I don't think any sex is worth a men's freedom.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 10:01 PM
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Soon after I met my fiancee, she moved to another city for work. Most of our dating days were on Facetime. Buffer. Should have ended here.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 08:54 PM
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I misswrote that, sorry. It actualy is "The life will demand that (improvement) from you".
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 07:42 PM
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There is nothing in the world that is good or bad, it is (...) for whom? If you are going to pick the "easy way" or the "hard way" what you truly needs to evaluate is the "cost vs benefit ratio". For instance, the easy way demands very little from you, but will its benefits be rewarding. The hard way, on the other hand demands a lot from you and takes time (your most important thing) but will its benefits be rewarding considering it takes time and effort? In this case in particular, the easy way…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 05:42 PM
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As two teachers said me once: "In life there is no shortcuts" and "Whenever you let go of an oportunity to improve yourself, one the life will demand that from you"
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 05:27 PM
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What people do of their lives is none of mine (or yours) concern. The point in female friends is not about "vou can't have" or "is pointless because you won't be fucking her". The problem with girl friends is that in theory they are not reliable: since she is from the opposite sex, there will Always be suspicion on your status with her (this is easier observed than said: how many times you have seen a relationship between a male and a female and people saying "I bet they are cheating"). Other th…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 07:48 PM
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It is already happening: I have a 13 old brother. All their girl friends, despite being nurtured in a conservative family are all feminists
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 05:39 AM
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Sugar daddy? I thought every BPD that commits to a LTR is already a sugar daddy!
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 05:00 AM
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I find interesting that since late 60's social psychology already had an explanation to these social movements. There's a theory called "social identification theory" in which, because of human's proneness to categorize the world, we do it in three different scales: identify ourselves as humans (outer layer), identify ourselves as a group (creating a boundary in-group-out-group) and identify ourselves as a person. The basic idea is: you identify yourself as a part of a collective (e.g. Black Liv…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/20 06:40 AM
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PS: And if you have standards, you need to live by them I.e. apply them to yourself as well. There was a psychologist once said to me many women talked to her that they wanted a charming prince and her response to that is that if they want one, they need to be a charming princess. Or better saying, there is a brazilian popular saying that goes like this: "Branch that hits Chico, hits Francisco" (Chico is like Will for William in Francisco)
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 01:11 AM
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Basically, TRP has different messages for different crowds: if you're just kind of doing nothing with your life, you need to change that, not just for her, but for you. The not just for her part made me cringe. If you are not doing anything with your life, you need to change FOR YOU and ONLY FOR YOU. The thing is, a girl can't have sex with your job, your startup, your house, your degree, or even your PR's (and while she can have sex with your mannerbund, you don't want her to!). Don't get me wr…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 09:26 PM
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Know this: while we (RP’d individuals) are already a minority, YOU are likely going to be even more so as time goes on. It’s looking highly unlikely that TRP principles will ever become “mainstream” in today’s society without some sort of immense catalyst among men at large. With how soft and emasculated men have become - and are still becoming – a healthier society is a pipe dream. TRP already is some sort of secret knowledge. For instance, we are quarantined on one of the largest social media …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 04:52 AM
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After motorboating her tits for 5 minutes straight and busting a fat load in her mouth i felt.. nothing. emptiness. Like i could have been doing better things. Don’t get me wrong busting a nut is a great feeling but after a minute of sitting there with my pants down i had this epiphany that women & sex are great but there’s so many more things in life that are just flat out better. Maybe i would have felt differently if she was a dime but all i could think about was every other feeling i found b…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 08:59 PM
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The story is interesting, but it is more like about porn than internet itself. Let's say this guy asked to see who and where to find the greatest swordmaster to this spirit. He would become better. Likewise, you can spend countless hours watching porn, playing video games and other stuff online. But you can also use it as a self-improvement tool: blaming the tool for your bad choices is childish.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 01:31 AM
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I don't think that's a biological need, but more like a psychosocial construction. If you look at the closest biological animal to us (the bonobos) you will find that they also live in the feminine imperative (thus, the feminine imperative is biological) but the feeling of "being a male is a curse" is a feminism thing. Look at the current generation: the guys and gals distilling the finest feminized teenage angst on social media. They are a bunch of feminists saying "be sorry for being a guy, yo…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 01:55 PM
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Well, if you have a Messiah's Complex, then try unplugging them. It won't be a very pleasant experience since their beliefs are so rooted that they think it is what defines them. But after looking how I took TRP, I don't think trying to unplug them should be a concern. Unplugging is something that needs to be forced by a life-changing experience, for me it was my last relationship and the consequences that came with the break up. Yeah, men in the whole world break up every single day and they ar…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 12:08 PM
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The goal of feminism is NOT equality, but advancing the feminine imperative. As CH states, feminism is about removing all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality. Since the 60s, feminists have been feigning a fight for equality while pursuing the aforementioned objective. Couldn't be more true than this. A movement that dismiss the importance of the other sex does not have equality as a goal. In Brazil there was this national commotion over a female streamer wh…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 12:57 AM
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It is both funny and sad. Feminism loves to talk about women's body objetification. And that's true: sex is a very important aspect of masculine life (all the men on the video agree with me). The point is: they don't think about masculine objetification. What was the primary source of trouble in all the stories? Money. Because for women, we are just a sucess object. There is this anecdote here in my country that says when women gather, they talk about how large is her husband's credit card limit…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 07:51 PM
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Yeah. From the genetical point of view, less than half your DNA pass to your children. When they go and reproduce, it is not 1/4, but even less than that (you have to account the crossing over in which parts of two homologous chromossomes are changed which other. Since one chromossome is yours and the other is from mommy's, you get the idea). Also, remember that not a 100% of your children will have a part of your DNA. There is a phenomenom called microchimerism in which cells from both the fetu…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 04:28 PM
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Well, what makes the feelings of lackluster is the downfall of competition anxiety. You can have a good LTR, provided you can maintain this competition anxiety high enough. And the beta would say; "but the point of a relationship is to achieve safety and it is not fair to women to make her Always doubt that you are cheating on her". The point is: if you are in a relationship that your girl faces competition anxiety as you cheating on her, you failed, she is not a girl to engage in a LTR. (I'm no…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 06:09 PM
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Yeah and nay. As stated by Rolo, women are ruled by the concept of hypergamy (that's the yes part). But it is not conscious (that's the no part).
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 12:25 AM
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It was expected. They married, the competition anxiety dropped and with it, her interest in him. Then she called open marriage (because women love the mister interesting guy). When her husband found another chick to bang, that brought her competition anxiety back thus making her call back closed marriage. All this happened probably because they started their relationship on her frame, giving her the upper hand on their relationship. Women are very predictable, as always.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 07:33 PM
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Friendzone (LJBF rejection) is absolutely real. The point in discussion is not if it exists or not (Feminism tries to deny its existence, but it is an excuse to reinforce that women has the prerogative of changing her mind). The vital point of discussion is why you get this response. Women are natural plate theory masters: they are able to do it effortlessly and with the soul mate myth and monogamy endorsed by family, society, school and religion, it just makes the job easier. So they have a bun…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 10:09 PM
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That's easy: the soul mate myth. One of TRP's pillars is to free man through knowledge and something that nas been smashed down your throat since men were little has long became a dogma (a.k.a. a blue pill). When one is offered TRP, one of two events happen: or they actually commit to this new mindset (but as Tomasi said in his book, there are moments of clarity caused by a traumatic event) or they reject and utterly deny it since this dogma became a part of their existence. Also, there is no or…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 10:27 PM
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Very well said. Social media is a shit test for the general public and people that understands that also know how to manipulate public opinion on certain matters (with the proper semiotics, of course). Something that is kind of the kids that were born during and after the 90's is that they think they are stellar, the new Messiah on Earth, etc... So they give their opinion around on social media without thinking twice. Look at how your peers interact with others on Facebook and compare to how an …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 02:58 AM
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If I lost a finger each time I was called "misogynistic" and "chernoboy" at the college I wouldn't have hands and feet.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 09:02 PM
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Of course it is. This process is taking the red pill (don't think about this sub, think about the first Matrix movie): it is the process of freeing yourself from a reality that is not what it seems. It is painful, but pain is just a state between two pleasures (and vice-versa). In your situation for instance, your inability to find happiness is because of identification with material goods. You said yourself: you need so many things that is overwhelming. The situation of the old car for instance…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 03:40 PM
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What if she lives in another city and goes to night clubs on a weekly basis?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 11:28 PM
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Purpose and fulfillment are two things that one can read hundreds of posts/books and hear several coachs and never find them. It is hard to explain how to be proud of yourself and surely is not lifting and going (and not doing) on a NoFap journey but one thing that might help is detaching of everything. Attachment is for pratical reasons a form of identification with an object or a person. If you identify yourself with something/someone else, then you are going to place its/his/her interests ahe…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 09:11 PM
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No one should trust someone by the looks. That's kinda a basic life stuff. Here in Brazil we have a popular saying that goes like this: "Someone that sees the face, does not see the heart". It doesn't matter if someone is pretty or ugly if he/she is a terrible person.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 09:43 PM
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What I found interesting was the bio: "looking for a nice lady to develop a meaningful relationship and enjoy the pleasures of life". What kind of bio is this? "Develop a meaningful relationship"? Fuck no
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 09:37 PM
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Sure. Glad I have discovered this sub. Of course I take a feel lessons with a grain of salt because I don't wanna to destroy a dogma in order to create another. For instance, I think many people search this sub in order to "become an alpha/zeta/omega/whatever the f they want". The point is the word WANT. When you want something, you are placing your safety in a state of being and everything in life is inconstant: your material goods, your relationships (not only with the girls), etc... For me, t…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 04:23 PM
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That was something I have been thinking for some time right now. The main defining word for describing "blue pill" is dogma: something that is told to you and you accept without thinking about it. That's the whole meaning of Matrix's philosophy: there is more than meets the eye and you don't question what you are living. Of course The Rational Male is a great book, but taking the true red pill means you will have consciousness of what you are reading and not let it become another dogma in your l…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 03:23 PM
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The most amusing part of all this situation IMO is that now that I'm not dating her anymore, I'm more eager to actually hold my frame. For instance: we are discussing the possibility of online classes and one year ago I would say "I think we might..." and no one would give a fuck or two to my opinion (because the world doesn't). This time I was like "online classes for practical activities? Fuck no. Don't wanna this on my resumee. If you wanna do it, then ask all other students instead of decidi…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 04:13 AM
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Mine said "wait two months and we will be back". After that: "I'm sorry, but I am dating another guy". Two months later: "I miss you so much, but we can't be Friends, wait 6 months and we might be". This was the time I said "go fuck yourself". Now she acts like I don't exist. Ps: we study on the same class in college.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 04:03 AM
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Purpose is something you only find by yourself. You might face it in two ways: a "calling" (if you are religious) or a hard but not impossible task (everything in this world, with a few exceptions, is doable: your task is to manage resources in order to make it reality). So, I return this question to you: what do you wanna do? Where do you wanna be? Think about it and you might find your purpose. And as a last advice: Your purpose in life probably is going to change because we tend to see things…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 07:43 PM
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I think no dream is crazy if it is plausible. What I don't agree with is dreaming with something so big and not thinking about the steps. It is like wanting to go up the stairs but jumping straight to the top. A very important lesson that I saw in this subreddit once was that you can face reality in two distinct ways: you can see it as something that is always lacking something and it is your task to find it by yourself or seeing it as something harsh and accept that what you can do is your work…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 09:00 PM
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