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First of all realize that if she came home with you, that means she's open to sex and has thought about it. At that point, it's up to you to escalate because the girl will expect it. As for how to actually do it, go gradually in the way that feels natural to you. For me, I usually like to put some music or movie/show on the TV and get us water or drinks. Then sit down on the couch together and talk a bit. Then touch her earrings/jewelry/whatever and make a comment about it. Then put my arm aroun…
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:17 PM
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Cold approach, hobbies, social events. I don't know why you want to ignore cold approach; even though it doesn't have the highest success rate, it's far and away the best way to get better at attracting women. The skills you learn from cold approaching will you make you a killer in easier environments, like parties, bars, social events.
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:37 PM
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Once you get the past the beginner stage, you will notice a change. Now, when I meditate, after about 5-10 minutes I reach a point where I actually want to stay meditating. My mind clears up and I no longer have that intense feeling of needing to think about something or do something. I start enjoying the complete silence and tranquility in my mind.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 10:55 PM
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This is an interesting viewpoint. I've been stuck trying to figure out my purpose, goal, mission in life and how to achieve "lasting happiness." But that has not happened. What I have noticed, however, is exactly what you're talking about. When I meditate, go for walks, read Stoic books and do other things to calm and clear my mind, the constant need for finding happiness or purpose does not even matter. I feel content and grateful for what I have. And I want to share that feeling with other peo…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 10:51 PM
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/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:19 PM
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I noticed a huge difference in how women perceive me since I put on 15 pounds on my bulk. As a guy who never got any real female attention it was actually kinda crazy. I went from being almost invisible to random women that I encounter in my daily life smiling at me, shyly looking away when I walk towards them, and some even talking to me on their own accord (especially older women).
/r/askTRP12/09/18 09:03 PM
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Bro you're only 22, stop worrying about missing out. I Didn't discover TRP until 26 and there's plenty of guys in their 30s 40s and beyond. You've got all your 20's ahead of you. Really your question is answered by the sidebar but... Start lifting, pick up some hobbies, talk with everyone you come across, doesn't matter age sex just get comfortable talking to people. Introvert extrovert are almost useless labels, I'm an introvert but that hasn't stopped me from getting better and better at socia…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 09:05 PM
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Sounds like you're an introvert and he's an extrovert. I'm the exact same - I'm thankful for having a bunch of extroverted friends who get me to come out and set things up. Having said that, I've also started to go out on my own and meet people because I know I can't rely on my friends forever and I want to become the best version of me possible. In the past few months I've made 4-5 new friends that I invite out - something that I used to think I'd never be able to do. I'm going to keep doing th…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 09:01 PM
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I used to watch TV shows and movies daily. Since discovering TRP, I've stopped watching TV shows almost entirely and watch a movie like once a month. I think there's 3 reasons why: You start to see all of the agendas and brainwashing being pushed through entertainment. You see all the bullshit cultural ideas they promote as being real (e.g. acting like a beta gets you the girl) You start focusing on living your own life instead of vicariously living through fictional characters.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 08:53 PM
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I would highly recommend starting out with a meditation app first - headspace or insight timer. These are great because they explain the basics and help you stay focused when you're just starting out (which is very difficult because our modern lives absolutely destroy our ability to keep a clear, calm mind). After that, you can start meditating on your own without any app.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:09 AM
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There's only one answer and you already know what it is. You have to build yourself up all on your own. It's a long and painful journey filled with hard work, failure, rejection...but it's also the only option if you want to have a life worth living. This is your one shot. The pain of change is far better than the pain of regret. Start lifting. Talk to strangers and especially women. Pursue hobbies. Go out and socialize. There's a hundred different things you can start doing right now to get you…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:01 AM
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I did calisthenics for 4 years. It works great for putting on muscle and improving overall fitness and health. Just keep in mind that you won't put on muscle as quickly and effectively as with lifting. This is why I ultimately switched.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:56 AM
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Test your frame daily by doing uncomfortable things. For me, that's doing kickboxing, talking to strangers on the street, talking with women, etc. Over time, you give less fucks.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:33 PM
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I do kickboxing 3x a week and lift 4x a week. Lift same days as kickboxing +1 extra day. It's perfectly doable, but do remember that: 1) It's intense on your body, you need to eat plenty and get enough sleep 2) It will affect your performance. I usually lift after kickboxing because I want to do better in my kickboxing sessions than lifting, especially because we spar every class. 3) Lifting (at least for size) is somewhat counterproductive for kickboxing, since you want to be fast and have good…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:18 AM
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lmao
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:11 AM
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Have same issue with 16 year old brother. Best you can do is not push too hard and explain that it doesn't make her cool, and talk about your own experiences with weed if you have any. But for the most part they have to come to the decision to quit or smoke less themselves. Just be there as a supportive person. My brother still smokes but much less than he used to.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:10 AM
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It really depends on what you want man. Do you want to get bigger? Why are you working out? Is it for the health benefits? Is it because you like the way you look? Because you think girls will like you more? Figure out the reason you work out and then decide whether you want to put on more muscle or just maintain. I did calisthenics for 4 years before starting MMA + lifting. You can certainly put on some size with bodyweight stuff as long as you bulk/cut. It's just not as effective as lifting fo…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:38 AM
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I can think of some reasons: You might seem like you're putting on an act, you might break frame easily when you get called out on being quiet, you might be acting way too cold and distant (something as simple as the wrong facial expression and tone of voice). Also, as a person with this personality I find that the hardest part is getting to know new people. Before that point, they can get the wrong idea about you.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 09:57 AM
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I recently started going out solo myself and this report sounds like what I should be building towards. The only problem is that this seems so taxing in terms of time, energy, and money versus what you actually get out of it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 03:23 AM
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I struggle with this too, especially verbal sexuality. However I find that you can make up for it wit physical sexuality, aka kino and sexual body language (strong eye contact, smirking, etc).
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:04 AM
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Drinks or coffee is the two most popular choices.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:01 AM
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Yep. Literally my first day approach ever the other day worked like a charm, but I haven't gotten any replies from matches on tinder.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 02:57 AM
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Stop giving too many fucks and thinking too much. Enjoy yourself and take her along for the ride. Lead. Neg her, push and pull. Make funny comments and ask fun questions. This is all pretty basic shit you can find in the sidebar really.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 02:00 AM
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For me it's nose/lip rings in Tinder, instant turn off. Followed by tattoos, blue lipstick, etc. It's just so unfortunate because these girls are willingly making themselves look unattractive and masculine.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 06:33 AM
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This is a good list but you have to consider what you're going for: If you're just trying to get laid/spin plates, the type of girls you encounter will have at least some and likely a lot of these. These red flags will make it easier to fuck them. Women with few or none of these red flags do exist. They're either living in a foreign country, or were raised in a conservative household with good parenting in a Western country. But the flipside is that they will expect you to see them for a long ti…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 06:30 AM
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Yes this is very common. I used to whine and bitch about it all the time. Then I realized that does jack shit for me so I decided to just live my life. Make the best of the time you do have. There's no magical rule that your 20s have to be your best years, it's what YOU make your best years.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:29 PM
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Antidepressants should be seen as the absolute last resort. If you feel you're that far gone, then go ahead and take them to get yourself back on your feet, then go off. They certainly do help with feeling strongly depressed and/or anxious. I went on for like 3 months for my anxiety and it definitely helped me bounce back. But I felt so lifeless and didn't like other side effects like poor libido.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:08 PM
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I thought it was a load of bs before I tried it. But it works. It reduces anxious thoughts, makes it easier to let them go, makes you more aware of your negative thinking patterns, and makes you calmer and more clear headed. As for how you do it, id recommend starting with an app first and then doing it on your own. You can also Google mindfulness meditation.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:38 AM
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I got PRK surgery last year, best financial investment of my life. It's actually cheaper than wearing lenses after a couple years, not to mention none of the hassle.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:15 PM
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You have a really negative mindset. Stop making excuses and acting like a victim, that shit will get you nowhere. Accept your situation and start improving. I would highly recommend meditating.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:11 PM
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Things like this should never bother you. IMO holding eye contact and showing with your expression that you don't give a fuck or are amused (laughing, raising eyebrows and giving him a smirk) and then walking away is the best response.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:55 PM
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Short answer: you gave too many fucks instead of just leading her out of the club to another venue or to make out and take her home Long answer: read this post
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:43 AM
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I go to an MMA gym in Vancouver. I used to take all their classes (kickboxing, BJJ, boxing, full MMA) 5-6 days a week but that got a bit hectic. Lately I'm training 3 days a week (90 min per class), kickboxing 2x and boxing on Saturdays. We spar at the end of every class, and I usually lift after class too.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:37 AM
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As with anything in life, you have to forget what everyone else is doing and think about whether it's right for you. Are you being honest with yourself about why you don't want to travel? Then don't travel. Or are you actually lying to yourself and making excuses? It's really that simple.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:28 AM
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Started MMA (mostly kickboxing nowadays) 10 months ago. Easily the best decision in my life in terms of self-improvement. The best thing about doing combat sports is that the confidence you build works for EVERYTHING in life.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:21 AM
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I'm in a similar place. You just have to get out there and socialize. Get hobbies, go out solo to bars/clubs/parks/meetup.com/whatever if you have to. Talk to everyone everywhere, grocery store, your local neighborhood, etc. Be the fun guy who's always upbeat and doesn't give a fuck. So far I've made one solid friend doing this - as in a person I actually hang out with outside our shared hobby/whatever. It's not easy but that's the biggest redpill of them all isn't it? It's all up to you to make…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 07:03 AM
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Taking up MMA has been the single best/most impactful decision I've made for improving myself.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 05:44 AM
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Feminism is a society-wide shit test
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:17 AM
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Perpetual stage 3 after 1.5 years of TRP crew checking in.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 07:02 PM
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Agreed. This post makes sense and some things in it resonate with me, but because I have so little experience with women most of this probably wouldn't work if I tried it. But I can see how I might reach a similar conclusion after years of being successful with women.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:26 AM
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Who is you people? I never said I discourage anything.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:13 AM
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Semantics. That is what I meant. Ofc there are white people who have 80 IQ just like there's black people with 120 IQ. But I was talking about the races as a whole.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 07:41 AM
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No, and I remember reading about some nobel prize scientist who got his career ruined for doing research about this. It's basically proven fact at this point (google the research) that blacks are significantly less intelligent (at least as scored by IQ) than whites, and that asians (if i remember correctly) are actually slightly ahead of whites as well. Just facts, but discussing this in today's social climate gets you branded as a racist immediately. Not all races are the same, just like women …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:53 AM
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Is this what they call concern trolling? I thought I was in a leftie political sub for a moment. I've never seen what you describe in TRP and know that relatively few people (read: REAL white supremacists/racists, not what the idiotic media calls people that make up the majority of the alt right) hold such views. Also, the idea of the white genocide/end of white civilization is very, very real and is one of the driving forces behind the aformentioned alt right. Mass immigration, the continued at…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:49 AM
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I'm surprised to see this posted in redpill because this sub tends to shy away from discussing the truth in areas of life outside of male/female relationships. Having said that, I'm ready glad you posted because this shit has been eating away at my mind lately. For example, I tried to get back into watching TV shows only to discover that both of the shows I'm watching are pushing more of this globalist propaganda (white culture is bad, white guilt, Islam apologists, political correctness, normal…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 06:37 AM
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I've never seen anyone explain this so well. You can literally see this transition within minutes depending on your behavior. Bravo, A++ content.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:29 PM
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