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One of the most important aspects to seduction is going out to have fun, learn to have fun by yourself, with strangers that you're not trying to fuck, learn how to interact, be social and enjoy the evening. I wonder if OP has been more focusing on the 90-00's version of pickup and going out solely to get laid.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:51 PM
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Yeah actually that's a good point, its pretty hard to date right now. I'm in my early 30's now too and there's still a dating scene it just moved downtown. You should be glad your a guy though, you can still date 25 year olds you just need to find a way to connect with.
/r/seduction07/11/20 04:10 AM
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To add to this, about 7 years ago joined my local seddit and started a meetup group at my house where we'd have a few beers and head to the bars to get numbers. There's only so much you can read about on here, you need to be getting out practicing.
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:51 PM
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The video is just describing mental pitfalls that engineers often fall into, but really anyone can fall into these same issues. FYI I was pretty good looking and in shape when I was a teenager but almost never got laid because of my horrible social skills.
/r/seduction19/10/20 09:39 PM
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That's what I've struggled with my whole life. I changed that by picking up new habits of thinking that were not myself. I know a lot of nerds that refuse to change because they think they need to be themselves and because of it- haven't dating anyone in over a decade. I would just caution you giving advice like that, no matter how well-intentioned.
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:33 PM
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What if you want to improve yourself, or be the best version of yourself? What if being yourself means being scared and lonely.
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:06 PM
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I use to have the same issue, I could attract girls but they’d be turned off once they hung out with me. Work on being more outspoken, often times you don’t realize but your holding back because your afraid of offending people. Take more chances, you’ll go through some embarrassment but you’ll improve. Also always work on speaking clearly and with cadence. Like others have suggested watching good comedians can be helpful. List to the podcast king and the sting, the way they play off each other i…
/r/seduction17/12/19 08:47 PM
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Acting confident can give you some confidence. But yeah, you need to work on real confidence too.
/r/seduction02/02/19 09:14 PM
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Finally something practical hits the top of this sub.
/r/seduction02/02/19 09:13 PM
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I was so ready to like this video I pre-upvoted before finding out he gives no real information or tips. Basically create chemistry and be interesting? This is more like an ad or preamble for his other videos.
/r/seduction17/01/19 02:50 AM
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I totally agree. I've been meaning to step up my closing game, I've been getting a lot of numbers lately but few replies even though I feel the interaction was good. Any videos you'd recommend?
/r/seduction22/02/18 11:49 PM
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I use to have too many best friends that were girls and would use me to feel good about themselves. If I'm attracted to a girl now and they want to hang out 1 on 1 then I explain to them that sex can't be off the table. If they don't feel it that day or whatever that's fine, there's no pressure to put out. But if it's off the table then I have other people that I could be spending my time with.
/r/seduction21/11/17 09:15 PM
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Maybe try one of those apps like MeetMe or hangouts or whatever
/r/seduction09/08/17 11:05 PM
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Yeah I'm just saying, some people may be idiots but that's because they are just new to this. They still don't deserve to be taken for their money. I definitely agree the advertisements should be banned.
/r/seduction05/12/16 10:16 PM
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Some people are new and desperate and will think they have to pay money to get better.
/r/seduction05/12/16 06:53 PM
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I use to have really cool and fun friends, it was easy to cut loose and show your personality which often got me laid. After moving to San Diego and going to school for programming, I now only have a bunch of nerd friends who are all in long term relationships and hate going out to bars and meeting new people. It's hard to make male friends as an adult and I've been struggling to do so here for the last 3 years.
/r/seduction26/06/14 07:34 PM
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No, not if your genuinely a nice person. All it gives you is the confidence to stand up to people that are physical or verbally intimidating. Knowing you can defend yourself is a good thing. Your wrong if you think that learning to fight means you go out looking for fights, or that you like getting into fights with other people.
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:59 AM
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I think as a man you should have the confidence to stand up to people and voice your opinion. Having the confidence of being able to fight can help you in being confident in confronting people.
/r/seduction11/06/14 11:52 PM
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I get LTR advice on /r/askseddit all the time, you should ask them if you have any specific questions. For basic advice you need to read "Models" if you haven't already, I suggest the audiobook. Basically, you need to learn how to be honest with your emotions, and show your gf how much you love her ,but also how not to be needy and show her your a confident man who doesn't let her or anyone else define who he is. Be unapologetic and comfortable about who you are. Just the first couple hours of l…
/r/seduction06/06/14 10:23 PM
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Na, girls like it when you have 'engineer' in your title. It shows you have a good paying career path. Just don't dwell on what the job actually is, talk more about your future ambitions, career path, what inspired you to be interested in tech, etc.
/r/seduction14/05/14 09:24 PM
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I have friends like this too, and I think people are giving you too hard of a time about it. Sometimes you already know things wouldn't work out and would rather have them as life long friends instead. If you think things might work out between you two though, you should probably sack up and date her.
/r/seduction04/04/14 08:31 PM
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I just went to one at someones house, it was kinda dweeby. Only one cute girl there and she knew it.
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:09 AM
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Yeah, I thought calling it a lair is pretty lame too. I hope they aren't like reddit meetups.
/r/seduction22/03/14 06:38 AM
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Ok, just discovered the Lairs. Anything else I should look into though?
/r/seduction22/03/14 04:19 AM
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