digitalhomad Archive

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8	How can I get better at making conversation funny and interesting ? Talk and care about people in a genuine way, not a creepy way. If the reason you want to be better at conversation is so you can date and have sex, most people can pick up on that. Start out being genuine, carrying, and empathetic. No need to have a 30 minute deep conversation, but a light conversation, try to remember what went well, and what didnt. If you can easily have a conversation with anyone, then it is much easier to have a conversation you are attracted to. The people who are best at t…	/r/seduction	14/10/22 01:22 AM
5	What's your BEST starting question when just meeting someone for a date? I like to ask, "If you could have any job in the world, but get paid your currently salary, what would it be?" I think it is a really interesting question. Is the person happy with their current job? Have they thought about their future? What are their passions? I think it is a great question to ask someone in general to get into a deep conversation past the small talk. Pro Tip: Listen, understand, relate. Do not problem solve. You explaining to her how you can fix / solve her life problems will…	/r/seduction	12/04/19 03:23 PM
2	I Deleted Tinder and Bumble. I got a lot to say about Tinder. First Tinder success is depends a lot on your market and who you are. You cannot change your market and there are a lot of things you cannot change about your self. If you are a short Indian guy in North Dakota, yah, Tinder is gonna suck. You really need to be objective when using Tinder. How successful am I going to be in this market? Be honest. Second, there is no feed back loop with Tinder. Even if you match on 300 people yet go on 3 dates, you have no idea wh…	/r/seduction	12/04/19 03:52 AM
0	A great reminder This is pretty meh. Constantly thinking about something is not going to help you. Consistently doing and making a routine will help you. If I think about the gym every day, it does not mean I am going to the gym. If I plan out my work outs each week, then go to the gym on those days, record how I did, going to the gym will be easy. It takes about three weeks every day to make something a habit. Making a habit of going to the gym is easy because you are in control and just go every day. Making a …	/r/seduction	29/01/19 09:31 PM
1	Technique doesn't matter if you're a mess. Fix yourself or don't bother. If you want to work on self improvement, I suggest getting a journal and writing in it every day. You don't need to write volumes, just fill up a page or two each day. I find the best thing to do is spend a few weeks just writing in it and working on what format / setup you like best. I focus on fitness, what I eat, sleep habits, time management, and finances. If I didnt write anything or was too busy I'll go back to the previous day and just write about what I did. Each Sunday I will review the…	/r/seduction	10/01/19 06:01 AM
17	What is the biggest turn off to women? (Asking women and experience from other men) Those are all the top replies in the big Ask Reddit threads. Having a clean car, bathroom, kitchen, bed room, clean sheets goes a long way. Having a trash can in your bathroom was a top comment. I never really thought of that.	/r/seduction	14/11/18 06:39 AM
10	*7 Things Men Do That Turns Women Off* Women do not frame it like above. The usual comments by women are, 'the guys smells of desperation' or 'I feel like I am doing all the work' or 'he is creepy'	/r/seduction	07/11/18 11:34 PM
0	Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve? It is not a video game and the amount of women you fuck is not a sign of success or 'winning'. The easiest things you can improve on are fitness, hygiene, and fashion. A six pack and high cheek bones go a long way. This might sound superficial, but most men are. Also working out helps with self esteem. If you ever read reddit posts about what women want from men, the top posts are all about hygiene. I want a man who manscapes, who uses deodorant, who shaves, who smells nice, who has a clean apar…	/r/seduction	17/09/18 03:57 AM
3	Stop FAKING confidence, stop lying and stop trying to impress people. Stop trying to 'be alpha' - this doesn't just fail, it actively undoes your real confidence. This is the single biggest mistake there is. The right way is a lot harder, but works. The classic advise, 'just be your self but work harder'. This advice works well for the people that are attractive, socially intelligent, and emotionally stable. If you are happy, and comfortable, and zero anxiety at a house party full of people you never met before, than ya, this works for you.	/r/seduction	08/09/18 04:56 AM
15	When a girl says she has a boyfriend, how often is she rejecting you nicely. Either she has a bf or she doesnt want to date you. Why would you think it is some kind a trick? Further more, if she is trying to 'shit test' you, why would you want to deal with someone like that?	/r/seduction	27/08/18 04:12 AM
1	She confirmed so much of the advice repeated here. Passionate, engaging, and funny I believe are the way to go. It is a fine line and a bit of an art to do. You dont want to be preachy, creepy, or just saying whatever joke comes into your head. This might sound crazy but listening to Pod Save America and Lovette or Leave It is the best example. I am not saying go with political pod cast material but each of the hosts are passionate, engaging, yet funny.	/r/seduction	11/07/18 10:41 AM