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| – | Red pill failed menKinda wishing OP would give some solid examples because this post just feels like it was written off the cuff with no real substance behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Women like dominant and aggressive men, even if they date nice guys"these conversations always stall out at the word choice phase" As it should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:02 PM |
| 3 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenIf this is really you then no you're not unattractive. about 90% of men would find you attractive. This reminds me of a youtube woman who made an 20 minute video about how ugly she was, but she wasn't unattractive at all. Her face had symmetry. Her skin was smooth. Her teeth were straight and pearly. She wasn't even "chubby". OP take this photo to a "rate me" sub or a "hot or not" sub and see people's opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you think people who “glowed up” tend to be more cruel when it comes to dating?People who glow up tend to be more naive about dating and they still make mistakes (double texting, not know the red flags etc), will listen and fall for the obvious traps (women saying they want someone who "yearns", men saying they want someone who has sex quickly, etc) and don't yet know they can do better than the first person who matched them on dating apps. They'd be cruel if they get mistreated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Men are more ethical, we don't sell our bodiesMen generally don't sell their bodies because there isn't much of a demand for it as for women. Most men would be porn stars if that was a viable option for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:34 AM |
| 7 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesOne thing you'll notice quickly is that men and women often operate from two completely different dictionaries, so the words "standards" or "settling" to you will always be interpreted different when a woman hears and uses them. It's important to always have a quick definition what you mean with certain buzzwords to avoid confusion and talking past each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:20 AM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls"."Now a "Nice" Guy is a guy who either pretends to or tries to be Nice to someone not out of genuine good will and kindness ,but purely so he can get sex from a woman." It's really interesting how the definition of a term changes over time. The term Nice Guy has evolved to mean the most insidious evil character that's pretending to be nice purely to get sex. IDK where this definition came from. Maybe from repeated bastardization over time from women-centric media (The same way they bastardized th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 09:38 PM |
| 2 | I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on.Giving my two cents of advice: Push for commitment before sex. If he takes up the offer and commits then have sex shortly after (or that night to seal the deal). If he doesn't agree then be prepared to walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menI'd say most guys are not aware of the issue. They don't realize that being n her presence is the cause of his issues. Besides moving is a big task. He can try and change his schedule or his friend groups though so they cross less paths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:52 PM |
| 2 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menYeah I think out of sight out of mind comes into play for way most guys can finally get over their crushes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:42 PM |
| 1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menYou see her on a day to day basis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menDid you move out of town? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:24 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsYou can't handle my feelings because you're so fed up with your own feelings so you have to runaway? Ok I guess👋😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:38 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standards"No I didn’t lol" Who did I quote? Who said: <<For example—“I want a woman with a low body count because women lose their value as human beings if they have sex with other men.”>> <- Who said this? The Ghost of Christmas Past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:35 PM |
| 5 | Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different."A guy can ask a woman out and then show zero interest outside of a sexual encounter. This is called “sex-zoning,” and it happens far more often than you might think." So you're saying when you see a woman out and about you know absolutely nothing about her except your psychical attraction to her? I'm not really surprised by this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:28 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsYou alluded to a vague "context" and said: For example—“I want a woman with a low body count because women lose their value as human beings if they have sex with other men.” <- where did you mention hypocrisy in your example? You're complete shit at communicating. You start by saying some dumb shit and then you start course correcting later and pretend like that's not an indication that you have problems communicating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:25 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardslol your problem isn't the promiscuity like you originally claim you silly goose, it's the hypocrisy. Why didn't you say this in the first place? This is why you're bad ad communicating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 01:31 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standards"Again you’re still not getting what I am talking about at all." So you're bad at communicating about the topic that you decided to bring up. Sorry about that I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:50 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsOk so you don't understand why men don't want to date women for a choice women have complete control over. You brought up the topic but now you don't you "don't care". Aright👋😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:46 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standards"If you don’t understand why people are judged for saying something like women are inherently worthless as *human beings* for having sex yet men aren’t I don’t know what to tell you." Are you lost for words? You seriously don't know why women's promiscuity have been condemned in many cultures for thousands of years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:25 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsThat's what literally what having standards mean. If he has a standard of a "No cigarette smokers", that's saying that he values non-smokers more and smokers less. If his standard is "No fat chicks", that's saying that he values fat chicks less than fit chicks. If he has a standard of "No chicks with high body count", That's saying he values women less if they have a high body count. That's how you evaluate people for dating potential. When women say they want a man who's confident and ambitious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:08 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsOK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 06:40 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsThank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 06:37 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsI asked a statement about society, not for you to change it or to give your personal preferences but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 06:35 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standards"But if that's what you want, go find your traditional wife. I'm not stopping you, but don't expect every woman to be that, we're not all like that, the key is to find what makes you happy." Full disclosure those are not my standards, but why are you saying "You do you" when there have been multiple million dollar ad campaigns shaming men for having them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 06:31 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsIf a man's high standard is for a woman who doesn't dress however she wants in public, doesn't go out, maintains a thin physique, has a low/no body count, very submissive, and wears minimal/no makeup, he wouldn't be shamed for having controlling and toxic tendencies? What exactly do you envision when you think of a man having high standards for a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 05:22 AM |
| 5 | I don't understand why men take pride in saying they have low standardsMen are shamed for having no standards and for having standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | why would you date a woman that isnt your type physically?For the first question I'd say men try to explore their boundaries a little based on the realities on the ground. For the second sentence I guess becoming a passport lady and explore around. Some thing men do when they know they are not accepted in their area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Being overzealous is bad."but bringing up marriage and kids in a serious manner on a first or second date is commonly considered an incredibly effective way to scare an interested man off." I guess it would depend on how old the guy is at this point. A 21M is not looking to settle down at all and let things drag into a situationship. But a 41M would be ready for marriage during the talking stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:28 PM |
| 3 | "Personality" and "social skills" are just attempts to moralizing dating and make lonely men feel bad"Because 99.9% of people are going to be attractive to someone" This thought needs to be fleshed out some more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:17 PM |
| 0 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.pursuing for a committed relationship, or for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 10:11 PM |
| 4 | "Men also only pursuing a small group of women” Is Projection From The Selectors.I'd say men are not as selective when it comes to sex/fwb/situationships, but they can be extremely selective when it comes to a fully committed bf/gf/marriage type of relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Will you marry a woman like that ?At my old age I want to have kids so no. The previous LTRs are a bit of a concern also | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 04:50 PM |
| 11 | What is your Definition of "Pushing Boundaries"Both. Fundamentally men are expected to initiate with women by approaching her, asking her on a date, making the first kiss, initiating sex, proposing marriage etc. So naturally there there will be "pushing of boundaries", in both the negative sense and the neutral/positive sense. But when men are using the term, they mean it more in the positive sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 01:41 PM |
| 3 | A much lower percentage of women are interested in Stefan Urquelle than Steve Urkel because Stefan is not being himselfI found that putting on a persona got me laid way faster than being myself. I was still technically the same person. I didn't change into a completely different person, but I changed intonation of my speech, emphasized parts of my interests that women are likely to like in men (like athleticism) and de-emphasized parts of my interests that women are less likely to like in men(like anime). Being myself got me laid as well, but we're talking a time frame a couple weeks or couple months, where as m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 09:08 PM |
| 10 | CMV: You cannot stop sexismFound the misandrist^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 10:52 PM |
| 1 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughOh ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughHmm? I'm asking if you know what DARVO means..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughDARVO stands for "Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender." Yes that's what it stands for, but do you know what it means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughFriend-zoned d-bags only have themselves to blame. A bunch of cowardly pussies! Huh... Ever heard of the term "DARVO"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:11 PM |
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