digitori Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Second date: Am I moving too fast? The appropriate pace needs to match your level of communication/vulnerability. Emotional intimacy and physical intimacy are intrinsically linked. I would say try telling him clearly and firmly what your boundaries are or what you're comfortable with right now. He could be under the impression that you want him to be forward like that. If he respects your boundaries, take it from there.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/16 08:03 PM
2	How do I overcome this abuse trigger? Yeah, it does. I'm starting to understand that myself.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/16 07:52 PM
2	How do I overcome this abuse trigger? I still have days where I roll back This is helpful to know! I'll have to make sure to warn about that, too. Scaling makes sense and is what my gut was suggesting as a good approach. Thanks so much for sharing your experience.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/16 01:31 PM
1	How do I overcome this abuse trigger? Ha! I've never thought of mental health as a "D-I-Y project," but that's a great way to describe what's happening most of the time. Within therapy right now, we've been focusing on digging more into the past and processing those memories, but I suppose this is a present enough issue to bring it up next session.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/16 01:30 PM
2	How do I overcome this abuse trigger? Good point about the broken bone. I think I'll take it slow. The idea of having a phrase is a good idea, too. Do you ever have your partner say the phrase?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/16 01:28 PM
2	How do I overcome this abuse trigger? Thank you so much, this is the kind of thing I was looking for.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/16 11:49 PM
2	How do I overcome this abuse trigger? Thank you. It's helpful to know others have faced similar challenges and can report back from the other side. Sometimes, it definitely feels like I'm never going to get past something. I don't ever want that to be the case.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/16 06:14 PM
2	How do I overcome this abuse trigger? Thanks. Can you share any of how you processed rough stuff here or in a private message?	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/16 02:25 PM
3	How do I overcome this abuse trigger? I've been seeing one for years, but we're currently digging into the past and processing the memories. I thought I'd ask on here before spending a whole session on this.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/16 02:12 PM
6	Lust: What to do about it? I've had a similar issue before. He was a professor when I was still in university. I had him two semesters in a row, and I could tell I was a favorite. I struggled a lot when still in class with him, and I had friends who thought it was amusing and encouraged my obsession. Nothing ever happened, but it always felt like something was being danced around with us. What helped? Getting out of the classroom. Once I graduated, I got space and my head cleared enough that I could see what a huge proble…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/16 01:01 PM