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3

Yeah saying looks don't matter is a very dumb comment to make. Having had an attractive male best friend opened my eyes lmao
/r/seduction07/10/22 08:42 AM
2

Lmao. A hot face puts you in the hot territory. Adding 30 lbs of muscle will give you more male attention than female
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:51 PM
37

Becoming hot when you are not seems harder
/r/seduction05/04/22 08:03 AM
3

How do you mean killed off? If americans aren't making enough kids that is their fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 09:45 AM
7

So it all comes down to men not wanting to befriend girls? For me it's because they are more sensitive, you have to step your toes around them(more often) and those relationships take more effort. Also different humor. It has nothing to do with respect? I befriend someone i like, not because i respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:36 AM
7

Having boundaries makes you fake nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:50 AM
7

Women absolutely don't have more self respect. It's just that they are way less attracted to most men then vice versa and their sexuality is more reactive instead of active. If they find someone who makes their pussy tingle they will go crazy over him, accept all kind of disrespect, make endless excuses for the guy etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:03 PM
3

Very false.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:10 PM
5

I am happy for you man!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:09 PM
3

Lol. I am very loyal to this girl and am willing to spend the rest of my life with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:01 PM
1

Thanks man :). She is definetly a keeper!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:01 PM
11

I am happy i found a girl who hasn't even held hands with a boy. The difference is astounding she is deeply in love. Our ancestors really were onto something. Women lose their ability to pair bond after getting into a couple relationships and their standards sky rocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:39 AM
15

Damn..... i am sorry bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:34 AM
14

If they payed for a hooker suddenly the past does matter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 07:01 AM
1

No it's not AF/BB. We want to fuck sluts. We want to fuck AND marry goodgirls. It's very rare for a man to marry someone he is not sexually attracted too. In the BB situation the girl is NOT attracted sexually. She was attracted to his stability, his finances and his nice personallity but doesn't want to fuck him. It's completly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:37 AM
1

Men. Are. Not. Attracted. To. Promiscious women.(For LTR) It's definetly natural to us. A women that's slutty is less likely to carry our seed, that repulses us. Women don't have to worry about knowing whether it's their child or not. We do. That's why we want (relatively)pure women because those are less likely to cheat and the child is more likely to be ours. Ofcourse it isn't the number. Just the though of her being mowed by a lot of dudes repulses us. You also make the mistake to thinking wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:05 PM
1

Just because you don't care doesn't mean everybody is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:07 AM
3

The complete opposite is true lol. Asian guys are deemed least attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:48 AM
6

Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:24 PM
3

Most men go after the girls they are most interested in. Get rejected and repeat this untill they find a girl who does reciprocate. We dont have allot to choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:28 PM
3

Only women have this luxury usually. Most men accept anything they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 01:18 PM
2

Yeah true. I understand their grievances though. They do have something to be upset about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:57 AM
1

The standard diviation is larger with men. There is some that tons of sex and some that get none at all. It is more spread out with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:19 AM
6

Men don't have the luxury of choicing. Some mediocre companionship > none. I don't blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:10 AM
2

Love & companionship is such a large part of life. Especially for men. Whom most of can only be intimate with their girlfriends, because sharing emotions with friends is "gay". I know i wouldn't accept my role as an undesirable..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:08 AM
2

You both are kinda right. If the attractive guy actually approaches he will have way more succes than the confident ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:06 PM
9

Congrats on improving yourself bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:11 AM
2

Translation error i guess. I meant witty and not that serious/ stuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:22 PM
88

Not being fat is the number 1 criteria for most men. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:16 PM
4

I get attracted to attractive girls. I fall in love with nice intelligent playful girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:15 PM
1

Maybe ugly men are at the same height as ugly women. It's just that ugly men have more ways to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:09 PM
2

True. I would count myself extremely lucky if i found someone good hearted intelligent and attractive. I am just looking for someone genuinely nice, non crazy, somewhat smart and somewhat attractive. No luck yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:44 AM
0

Because we men are visual creatures and it is hard to love someone who doesn't create lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:35 AM
1

You seem nice. I am sure you will be able to find someone great. All i am saying is that of all groups you have the largest pool to choose from. My best friend is very attractive and he found none of his girlfriends on OLD. It's mostly through school/work/friends of friends/in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:13 AM
2

True. I do see the men who try with plain women. It's always the same guys who succeed with ease and the rest can only wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:42 AM
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Dude i see it infront of my own eyes everyday lol. 20% of men are perpetually single and barely try. 50% try but get perpetually rejected and sometimes get lucky. 20% are doing okay and the last 10% have an abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:27 AM
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I have seen the opposite though. I have attractive friends who are perpetually in relationships with amazing girls. I do think attractive men have it easiest they are at a big advantage because it is not easy for a women to be visually attracted so the men that are able to incite attraction are seen as extra special.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:16 AM
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Relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:01 AM
3

I said attractive men. Not hot guys. And yes they are most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:59 AM
3

Not really strange when you account for decreasing libido in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:28 AM
13

Women have been stuffing their vagina's with all kinds of shit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:24 AM
29

Sure. Some men wouldn't go into relationships anymore but that is actually a good thing. If sex was easy to get there wouldn't be as much manipulation from men's side anymore to get some punnani. Relationships would get more genuine and as a result more fullfilling. You aren't staying with the girl for the constant sex but you are staying because you genuinely care about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:20 AM
1

Are you telling me some women cheat because they don't think their boyfriends are visually attractive? High standards for visual attraction threshold. But they can still be attracted in other ways like status or being really charming etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:48 AM
2

Men care more about looks but have lower standards. Women care less about looks but have higher standards for visual attraction. These men are jealous of attractive men because they can pull chicks with almost zero effort. They are jealous because they can't pull chicks with just being there and have to make something of their self. Either financially or personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:39 AM
0

Well it is just a fact. Women care less about looks than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:33 AM
3

Men can compensate better than women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 10:26 AM
3

Never said i had to be 100% certain. But when the girl/guy wont commit to you it is a pretty good sign that your relationship is uncertain to be long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:40 PM
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Why would anyone invest in a relationship build on uncertainty. People don't like wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:07 PM
12

Everybody projects their own desires onto others. It's a pretty human thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:03 PM
2

People don't pursue the unwilling unless they are sociopaths. People pursue the "maybe" because they still have hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:02 PM
8

Nah not old and ugly. Men just look for different things in a gal. You can't work your way into being an attractive partner to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:01 PM
1

Do share
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 03:31 PM
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Completly capable of long term love as long as there is desire. Don't twist my words dude. In relationships where women are the breadwinners divorce is actually more likely. https://www.mybanktracker.com/news/2014/05/12/female-breadwinner-lead-divorce/ https://mensdivorce.com/studies-divorce-household-chores/ "When neither spouse wishes to complete these mundane tasks, conflict can arise, and according to studies done at Oslo and Akershus University College of Applied Sciences in Norway, it can …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 11:21 AM
0

If there is no sex we might as well be friends. And i already have great friends i love. The relationship isn't romantic to me without desire duh? Because the overwhelming amount of divorces are initiated by women and this study proves their sex drives get lower after living with the same guy for some time. Doubly so after kids. I don't see myself as an exceptional guy. What hope is there for me for a LTR that doesn't break apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:38 AM
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80% of divorces are initiated by women. Women aren't capable of long term love if the man isn't exceptional. Are LTR worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:16 AM
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I used to believe in love. At this point i will probably never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:05 AM
1

Nothing to do with the artikel though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:04 AM
0

There are always outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:56 AM
2

That's because women don't only care about looks. They comprimise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:35 PM
5

The main difference is men being attracted to most women but drooling over the most attractive ones. And women only being attracted to the most attractive ones. It's just not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 01:19 AM
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This has mostly to do with the mental part of sex with women. They are going to be way more horny if the partner is attractive. Whether they pump and dump them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:44 AM
3

More people are going to pursue them for sure. Treating them better because they are pretty is what weak men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:17 PM
5

Not really bothered by it to be honest. Those nerds couldn't even get a date before. Now those women seem to have radically changed their views. It is fairly obvious the women are using them as well. They are made for eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:45 PM
4

What the fuck is up with all the morally banktrupt people projecting their lack of values onto others?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:37 PM
4

It is an improvement from not getting anything. Ofcourse it is not damaging to ones health to abstainm But yeah not being able to get sex can be horrific to someones self image and mental health as incels have shown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:07 AM
1

It takes way more on the looks department to create lust in a woman. They are less visually aroused. But when they are i have seen women go insane for dudes. Litterarly insane. It's like for a couple minutes they can feel the same as us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:27 PM
8

Absolutely?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:24 PM
3

How do people even know women are sluts? Do they wear slut bracelets?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:49 PM
2

If you say so. I am open minded though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:24 PM
2

Lol. Amuse me what is this integration 3000 years ago you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:26 PM
2

I am not expecting myself to change much. I am just speaking my mind on some hipocrisy in the world. If i manage to convince a couple people i already would think i am succesful. I am not going to make it my lives purpose to change "virgin shaming" though. Not even a virgin myself. I don't know man. Even if love dies out in films and media people would still know couples that are heavily in love and be envious. I don't think we should limit artistic freedom as well because that would probably be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:24 PM
2

Lol stop the romanticizing segregration. You are absolutely wrong. The overwhelming amount of black people were trapped in abject poverty. Locked out of every profession or industry where they could gain acces to significant income and wealth regardless of their level of education. Blacks were excluded from wall street and other centers of capital. Black entrepeneurs had zero legal protection or civil rights and no way of legally defending their wealth. Laws were set up so whites could take prop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:40 PM
4

Lol. With the attitude you have it will never change a thing. If europe was populated with people as like minded as you we would still life in a feudal europe. If the people in the civil rights movement had the same attitude blacks would still be sitting in the back of a bus to this day. Every movement seems as a uphill battle dude. Just life your life in accordance to your values and stop giving a fuck about the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:07 AM
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Dude you are putting words in my mouth. Never said women are worthless. I have no resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:03 AM
8

Virgin shaming is real and nobody cares it happens. While slut shaming is being looked down upon more everyday. The point of bringing it up is to show the hypocrisy society has against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:00 AM
5

Doesn't make it anymore acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:57 AM
10

I guess you life in a low testorone environment. It's not only what they say. A woman with sexual history is going to think something is wrong with you. A man is going to think you are challenged in some way. They wont say it outright but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:52 AM
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Just as much as it says about someone not being able to finish highschool. You can call them a retard but it is really hurtful. Can't you see? Slutshaming is hurtful to women hence bad. Virgin shaming is hurtful to men hence bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:50 AM
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Lol i guess you have been living under a rock. Virgin men are absolutely seen as losers. It is worse the older you get. Unless you life in a very religious community.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:47 AM
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Morals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:45 AM
1

I am ethnic and i guess i am average. Far from all sorority girls are hot it differs from sorority though the hot ones do group together. But it isn't just parties with sorority girls. Just all parties in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:05 AM
1

Beauty standards don't affect your dating life though. Men are attracted to all kinds of women just like in the past. It is insecurity you create yourself. It's just not true that OLD sucks for women. You litterarly have hundreds of matches a day. Saying all those men are below your standards actually is really telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:34 AM
1

Basicly standards have been artificially inflated in the past 20 years. OLD social media etc have shown men to be abundant and competition is higher than ever. A man that used to be perfectly fine in the past is now a "meh". Hence increase of sexlessness of men and increase of sex for top men. While it not changing at all for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:59 AM
1

Do you think any man wants to be settled for? Why do you think beta bux is a thing in red pill cirkels. Everybody wants to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:52 AM
1

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:50 AM
1

True. A girl wont get very drunk if she isn't feeling the chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:49 AM
2

Absolutely true. Men are more lenient. But women have more diversity in whom they find attractive. Hence we are at the situation we are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:54 PM
1

Rejection sucks. When you go after someone who is clearly out of your league it hurts less because you already expected as much and you might have a slim chance of succeding so why not. The odds of you succeeding are already low so it doesn't make that much of a difference anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:52 PM
2

Attraction is a relative concept. There are allot of great guys who don't get a chance because standards are too high. I do think both men and women are missing out on fullfilling relationships because of it. A super model would call dating anyone not extremely rich or extremely handsome a bad deal but that is only because the amount of men willing to bed her gives her that option. Social media and OD has given women the same mindset as those models. It allows womanizer men to pick up girls with…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:03 PM
3

True. Atleast we have some family values at the moment. But if even that deteriorates and we get a society full of misserable misfits. We will see a decline we haven't seen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 06:25 PM
1

This. All women that don't belong to these subgroups will get asked out as long as she doesn't self isolate and socialises.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:31 PM
1

Being genuine. Not caring about other people's opinion. Being assertive to the point you annoy people. Just generally being confident. I think those are the things that make assholes attractive. That the man having those traits is also inconsiderate and hurts people without remorse is a downside for most women. But allot are willing to overlook it atleast in the short term because these men create sexual attraction and women rarely get attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:21 PM
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Women will never be "punished" i imagine most couldn't care less. If mgtow or incels become mainstream though eventually we will end up in an extremely toxic individualistic society. In which our values will gradually deteriorate. Those men will think they got the short stick in this society and in return wont care about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:14 PM
3

You do you man. I would still preffer a partner who got my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:03 PM
4

It's not that they can't have sex. It's that they can't have validating sex. They want to be seen as attractive just like any other human being. Not everyone is able to lift themselves up and become more charming succesful etc. Especially as a man because you more often than not lack any support and have to figure this thing out for yourself. Becoming more attractive as a girl is easy.(the how i understand the daily struggle can be tiring). A man has to make fundamental changes to himself become…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:01 PM
5

Why do you think it is OK to poke at someones insecurities like that? Do you like making people misserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:44 PM
13

Virgin shaming is a dick move.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:25 PM
3

True. In some ways it's good because it teaches us men to be more independent and assertive. But if you have mental problems or something and can't handle life and all it's hardship i would argue it would suck the most to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:56 PM
0

Men are sexist against men as well. Because of toxic masculinity making yourself look weak is looked down upon. I would argue men with mental issues are the worst off in our society. There is a reason suicide is more common among men and why men are homeless way more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:48 PM
9

People are also less likely to help men. Because they expect them to man up. It isn't only from the man's side. Also because our culture is sexist against men in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:45 PM
2

It sucks for people with low iq in the USA. In europe we take way better care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:26 PM
-1

Everything outside the west is 3rd world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:22 PM
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Most often than not the opposite. When the job is low skill you are generally better of with a public employer. When the job needs rare skills you are probably better off on the private market. Her emt job is low/medium skill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 09:35 PM
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It's stupid to say women are more attractive objectively. We litterarly are different genders and we are attracted to different things. There is no "more attractive" what is true though is that the average man is more attracted to the average women than vice versa. We are the more sexual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:31 AM
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I fully understand not wanting to date an ex porn star. But a program like this can ruin lives and careers for dumbshit someone did when they were adolescent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 09:04 PM
3

I knew a guy who did male make up. Most men/women i knew thought it was gay. It won't make you more attractive to women. Skincare is a different story. Haircare, dressing most guys that have self respect already do that. You simply have less options as a guy. Stop pretending things are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 12:59 PM
3

Make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 12:16 PM
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An ugly guy doesn't have the same options an ugly woman has. Why do women keep saying this shit? An ugly dude is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 11:44 AM
3

Nah. OP is right. You have to be confident and have social skills. Confident itself isn't worth much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 11:43 AM
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We get your point. Allot of guys think they have no other choice so settle below their standards. Kinda hard keeping your standards high when the ocean is empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:50 PM
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Intelligence, being playful not too serious, emphatetic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:06 AM
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Easier to conversate with for sure. I don't know why but on average it is many times easier for me to become friends with hot women. They just seem so much more open nice and genuine to me. While i have to watch my steps with average ones and end up carrying conversations more often than not. Hot>ugly>average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 01:34 AM
3

Explain...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:33 AM
3

Don't get into a relationship and nag someone into changing. That's a dick move. If you don't like him enough then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:31 AM
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What are you talking about dude? Men are still identical it's just that we aren't as homophobic sexist racist intollerant as we used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:27 AM
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Yet somehow attractive women seem to have way higher standards for which guys are attractive than ugly women? How is that possible.... it's the same with everything else with life. You value things which are (perceived) to be hard to get. That's just the human condition. OLD and social media has shown men to be plentiful and easy. Ofcourse this will higher the standards of what women consider to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 05:07 PM
1

It's so weird to me. Some people are just minding their own fucking bussiness having some fun. And you just decide to fuck their day up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 01:08 PM
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It's even worse when you are a POC with white kids....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 09:41 AM
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Men are less affected by the halo effect. If a girl isn't funny smart cool most men immediatly see through it. But a woman attracted to a man immediatly thinks he is one of the smartest funniest most macho man she knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 09:39 AM
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Nah. Some sociopaths say that here. If i am really into a girl i don't even care about sex. I love intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 09:34 AM
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It is certainly easier for men to be isolated. We are the more isolated sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 09:31 AM
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Ofcourse we aren't looking for signs of interest because women only very rarely show those. Women fail to phantom how little attention the average man gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:38 PM
5

Because they are pro life or just generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:00 AM
1

Jesus christ why do you have to be such a dick?
/r/seduction12/11/20 10:19 AM
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Nah goodness just isn't innately attractive if you aren't charming and confident enough. Don't say he isn't a good guy who the fuck are you to judge? Women love goodguys when they have other good traits.
/r/seduction12/11/20 10:17 AM
5

Don't listen to that guy. He is projecting his inability to feel love to all men. Which is far from true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:59 PM
4

I feel for you dude. You are missing out on allot if you can't feel any love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 11:57 PM
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Well yeah in theory. But women don't consider allot of guys as options so men can't always find a women and so the women end up dating the same guys in turn. Keeping some guys completely out of the dating game. And some never without.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 10:18 PM
1

Don't worry. I have a strict zero trash policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 01:58 PM
5

Yeah for sure. It doesn't matter how much i will tell my dickhead cousin he objectivies women. He genuinely doesn't care. He cheats, leads on, lied to women to bed him. He doesn't care about women OR men. It's a shitty person/selfishness problem. We aren't going to solve this by teaching people about objectivication. We need to effectively teach empathy to everyone somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 12:31 PM
2

To be honest i don't know whether it is a problem of objectivication. I see it see it as a shitty/thrashy person problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 05:28 AM
3

I think my lowest was a 3/10 obese and below average face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:40 PM
2

Depends on how good her other attributes are if she is really nice funny witty prob 4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:07 PM
1

Yeah for real. Those kids you have helped bring up for 15 years? Yeah no they don't see you as their 'dad' the moment it is over with their mom you might as well become strangers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 08:45 AM
5

Low n count relationships are more stable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:38 PM
1

Lol sure keep believing in your perfect man. Facts are we are social animals and we ARE a product of our environment. There is an extremely strong correlation with dating succes and confidence. Confidence gets build from succesful interaction. Nowadays tons of men are left out of this confidence building practice and this results in way less attractive men in the long term. A self inflicted problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:36 AM
1

Sex is a strong human need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:16 PM
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A dick is a dick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:15 PM
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Do you have money envy because you would want to be as rich as bill gates? Ye this sounds the same. Sex is a basic human need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:12 PM
28

Hit the nail on the head. I hear feminist often talk about men having no self control. The truth is women rarely get the same tingles men get and when they get them they get crazy real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:09 PM
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Plenty of men would be more confident if women would give them the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 06:03 PM
1

I feel this. Have spent waaaaay to much time on girls that are always 'busy' but love texting. This destroyed my motivation for going after girls that are not fully receptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:19 AM
7

Women standards have sky rocketed my dude. In the past you would only compete with the immediate cirkel of the girl. Nowadays due too social media and online daying you are competing with endless amount of men. Rejection rate is way higher now a days. I know some other old dudes that are bamboozled why not every guy is slaying either. They think since it is way more acceptable to be a slut nowadays and finding girls is really easy thanks to the internet men would slay left and right. Despite tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:42 AM
13

Some people are extremely socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:40 AM
0

Everybody with brains has atleast some self controle though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:34 PM
0

So you agree then. The truth is in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:04 PM
18

Well the truth is in the middle. I know a girl who was head over heels with a homophobe eventhough she had gay friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:32 AM
1

Not true at all though. Science shows women under rate men while men can somewhat accurately rate women. All projection lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:45 PM
3

Yeah maybe when you were a teenager. Have yet to see some guy above 20 give someone shit for having an ugly girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:43 PM
34

Yeah it's pretty selfish. I would have probably adopted in her situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:39 PM
3

I don't want a tradcon wife lol. Also still a broke college student.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:06 PM
1

Basicly our lives are the same but women just have a way easier time with dating /thread To be honest yes a girlfriend/boyfriends isn't going to make you happy by itself but it can still be tons of fun and sex and being close with someone are human needs. Lacking these things does make your life more misserable. Especially when you have a male sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:34 PM
1

Thanks lol i needed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:08 PM
3

Yep. That's how life be sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:06 PM
2

Yeah man i think we have all seen examples of this in real life. If a guy is hot he can get away with allot more shit. While an average or ugly guy walks on a waaaay thinner thread. My bestfriend is very masculine looking and attractive to girls he used to treat them like absolute shit but they still wanted to suck his cock. Now a days he is pretty monogamous and chill but he is one of the reasons i partly believe in the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:04 PM
6

They don't see the guy as relationship material though. His i don't give a fuck attitude and looks makes him attractive for ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:05 PM
10

This is the reason why japan and korea and increasingly western nations have large populations of guys that do fuck all but play video games. Higher women standards means more men will be left out. Those men don't see purpose in thriving and become NEET
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:02 PM
1

Women have more to fear when walking down the street at night though. But yeah for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:58 PM
2

True that. I try to make a difference. But i think it is a chicken and an egg problem. Because men never get helped they learn to support themselves. When they meet another men that needs help they tell themselves he needs to grow up and learn to take care of it. Because they themselves have always been without help and became self sufficient. We need to change our culture as a whole. Men shouldn't be afraid to be vulnerable and open. To be honest both men and women contribute to this. Women thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:49 PM
0

Men becoming greedy is just a natural result of women highering their standards. Higher failure rate for men = you spend allot more money on failed dates = you get broke and might not even get anything in return. This is not worth it so you are going to put in less effort and money into every girl to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:33 PM
1

Obvious trol is a trol. I laughed to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:27 PM
1

So refreshing to get a non biased view.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:24 AM
3

I meant. A ugly person is going to find an average person more attractive then an handsome person would find that same average person. Get me? Maybe you yourself shouldn't jump to conclusions. What we are discussing here is how satisfied a poor person would be with an average burger compared to a rich person. A rich person has had multiple 5 star restaurant burgers and isn't going to like the burger the poor person would love as much. Ofcourse EVERYONE wants the 5 star burger. That is a given. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 01:55 PM
1

Speak for yourself lol. Somebodies looks has almost zero influence on my opinion of them. I have had some ugly mofos as friend who were chill as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 12:29 PM
2

A ugly person is going to find and average person more attractive then a hot person. I think this is what was meant by OP. So yeah your opinion of who is attractive does change depending on your own looks. I for one have a friend who gets tons of attention from girls and he has extremely high standards looks wise. Girls that would have been 8/10 to me are ugly to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 12:26 PM
2

And if the simp isn't attractive enough they atleast got to go to a restaurant for free. Win win l.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:00 PM
1

I genuinely don't give a single shit whether a guy is rich or not. It doesn't affect my opinion of them. I would rather them life more closeby than them be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:17 PM
1

Ye
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/20 09:58 AM
1

Some men are badly burned after a relationship has gone really bad. They are bitter and assume all women are the same. So they tell themselves love isn't worth it so they don't feel like they are missing out on anything. So the only value they are left seeing is sex. And this ofcourse is a self fullfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 10:53 AM
0

And secondly. I think it is really toxic that you say it is okay for her to be abusive because some men are insecure? You blaming this abuse on those men because they are insecure? Nobody deserves any abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 09:21 AM
0

I will never get disrespected like that i have way too much pride lol. But what i am saying is that i fully understand why some men end up in those situations. We men already have a hard time finding a mate. I don't blame them at all for holding on to a girl when they have already put so much time and effort into getting one. Women on the other hand aren't faced with the same dilema. In the end of the day it's always the fault of the abuser but i think when women have this much choice they truel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 09:09 AM
1

I genuinely care more about character than about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:55 AM
1

The difference being men having way less choice and way less opportunity to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:54 AM
1

Speak for yourself. There are tons of genuinely good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:44 AM
1

Having good hygienne shouldn't even be mentioned. Every person thinks bad hygienne is repulsive. The point i am trying to make is that apparently you should try to look like channing tatum but being chisseled and having a good jawline won't make a difference to girls apparently. It sounds contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 03:50 PM
3

Nobody said that. But it just seems odd to that one day looks don't matter at all. And it is just how you portray yourself and supposedly every guy has a chance. And the other day his looks do genuinely matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 03:38 PM
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One day it is litterarly all about confidence and charm. The other day it is all man's fault because they don't take good enough care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 02:22 PM
0

Dude it is very disrespectfull to say they do it for attention. Women can also be depressed. It's just that in modern society as a man you get no support from society and are called a loser. This is the mayor reason for difference in suicide rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:38 AM
3

Incel =/= virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:04 PM
5

This. If casual sex would be as easy for men as it is for women men would value romance more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:22 PM
4

For most people it truely takes trial and error to see what you want and not want in a partner. Most people don't have this kind of foresight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:56 AM
1

Yeah but it just so happens that women most of the time like the same type of guy. And that type of guy doesn't want to settle because all kinds of girls go after him. So women unrealisticly higher their standard for relationships as well because they think they have a chance with that guy. So you are most likely fucked as a young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:46 AM
3

In the past you had to compete with the guys in your immediate circel and maybe some other guys. Nowadays you have to compete with almost all guys in the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 08:35 AM
8

Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:43 PM
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The point i am making is that you can't generalise a group for a few idiots. There is also diversity with women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 10:53 AM
2

So how do you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:24 AM
3

If you are hot it is enough. If you are not it is only going to disgust them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:14 AM
2

They say they do but those traits aren't attractive. Watch what women do not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 07:13 AM
2

Women are not perfect. It is just objectively harder if you have those trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:57 AM
8

Nobody gives a fuck when men are depressed af or have a hard time. They just need to toughen up. Look around you some more. We men are invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:54 AM
-12

There are allot of stupid men too you know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 09:56 PM
3

I fully understand your point but it is really hard to build confidence when your succes rate with women is very very low. And at the same time seeing your best friends slaying left and right. The lemonade just isn't worth the squize anymore. No positive reinforcements builds inferiority complexes it's only logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 08:08 AM
1

The point is they don't fall in love. If they never would have dated you 5 years earlier there is no way she is head over heels now. If a man wouldn't have dated you 5 years back the odds are great he still won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:58 AM
5

The thing is. If women didn't take advantage of their prime. The men you talked about also wouldn't have. We would all be in happy relationships with our equals. Right now allot of men miss out on dating in their youth. Which yes for sure is an more immature type of love but often also a more wild type and more energetic and fun type. The fact they missed their one chance hurts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:40 AM
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Positive feedback loops. And being attractive atleast gives you your foot in the door most of the time. Most of us guys aren't psychopaths. We can't truelly fake confidence. Confidence comes from positive reinforcements.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:19 AM
1

You said. 'Ugly guys in general tend to be the biggest assholes' Which is complete bullshit. You are making up excuses so you can tell yourself you are not shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 09:51 PM
3

If you don't like every single thing this society has to offer you should leave111!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 07:15 AM
3

Despaaaarationnn. Men get lonely too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:27 PM
6

Nice. A made up excuse for your own shallowness. Keep telling this to yourself we men are not a monolith. There are a ton of very nice ugly guys. To be honest the nicest guys i know have the least dating succes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:25 PM
3

Tldr. Women have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:06 PM
6

There are very few men that would rather jack off than have a genuine connection with a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:00 PM
4

Allot of men are thought that being aggresive and assertive is the way to go. Ofcourse trying something is always better than trying nothing so this is a self fullfilling prophecy. Maybe if women took the first step more often we wouldn't have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 04:12 PM
4

You don't understand men. Men can be insecure too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 04:08 PM
2

Not their problem but that makes them the more shallow ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:28 AM
3

Complete bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:52 AM
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Mixed people are doing fine.... i am arab and have majority white friends. Stop looking at the world with retarded black and white gogles. If you find it hard to make friends regardless of skin color that is on you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 08:29 AM
4

So stop saying you are more horny than men that is bull shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:14 PM
1

You are very horny. But you only want to fuck a small percentage of men. That is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:55 PM
1

Not all science is data driven? How do you mean? The scientific method clearly includes collecting data?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 08:02 AM
10

Well that is retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:57 AM
1

The funny thing is sometimes if i push through it. It can become something serious anyway. Women are not simple creatures. Allot of times they themselves don't even know what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:06 PM
1

Mixed signals is a thing though lol have you ever dated women. One day the girl can be the nicest person you have ever met the second day she is barely replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 10:59 AM
10

Dating is so easy when you are a women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:55 AM
2

Some men also get used for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:52 AM
28

Sure feelings are okay. But don't call the guy a dick because you are non entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:08 AM
8

You laugh but upwards mobility is a thing most americans can dream of while it is reality in western europe and canada. Usa is shit to poor people. Ergo. American education is allot more shit because of the sheer fact most people have allot less acces to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:43 AM
-1

Hookers and cocaine it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:47 PM
1

And also it's not like women are choicing people that are not suspectible to diseases. So you are just talking out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:58 AM
1

So being able to build muscle is going to benefit humanity somehow? Every single thing women select for is not beneficial to society as a whole. That is why what you are saying is wrong. I don't see women getting wet for nerds that gave us this amazing life we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:55 AM
1

You are retarded lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:53 AM
0

Murder? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:46 PM
-1

Its not shamefull. It is because men pay for your retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:30 PM
1

Nice red haring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:38 PM
2

America is shit fuck off dude. You get worse highschools when you are poor. You are less able to solely focus on your study since you need to work most of the time if your parents are poor. Etc etc. America sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:32 PM
4

Men are great. You rotten personality just attract the wrong ones
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:34 AM
1

Nobody is saying this. All cheaters are dickheads
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:47 PM
4

It's not about confessing. It is about them calling those guys out for something they didnt agree too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:21 PM
158

It really do be like that. Your child will have to deal with your health deteriorating at a young age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 12:45 PM
2

I am afraid most men don't really have the option to select for that kind of thing. It is to widespread in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:24 AM
14

Insecurity is unattractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:24 AM
0

Gay acceptance is at an all time high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:31 AM
1

Women have the option of choicing. Most men have to endure tons of rejections before finally getting lucky. Its like a fat person crying that the all the "good" food they have makes them fat. Maybe think some more about your choices you are solely responsible for the result. While for men they don't have any food at all. They keep searching and randomly find something healthy.. or not. They are way more motivated to make it work in both cases because else there is loneliness. I don't blame those…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:22 PM
1

Nah i like making my so happy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:11 PM
2

There is something worse so this doesn't matter!!1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:27 PM
2

Small minority
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:50 PM
2

Because of the large amount of validation women get because of OLD and social media their standards skyrocketed and the amount of effort needed to put in also skyrocketed. Its like cutting the wages of minimum wage workers and telling them to shut up and work more hours when they complain they are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:43 PM
6

You took this straight out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:41 PM
3

Maybe consider that when you have to play these kinds of games to keep a man interested you don't deserve him in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:55 PM
6

Rejection hurts like hell. Nobody should blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:05 AM
5

Its both their faults. Women do it because they like money men do it because they like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:48 PM
3

Women say they want a hardworking man. But that is false. They want a wealthy and high status man and its almost irrelevant how he got there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 07:43 AM
3

But is is women who sugar coat it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 07:34 AM
1

/s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 05:14 PM
3

Nothing government interference can't stop though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:36 PM
8

Men used to be so great before porn Edit: /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 11:13 PM
12

Women really are priviliged
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 02:48 PM
1

I am too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:02 PM
1

I am talking about girls on reddit haha. They tell me it is a sign of respect that she wants to wait for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:00 PM
1

I am not saying the girl you are dating should tell you. Most women online will tell me this. Why not be honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:48 PM
1

Well then just be honest and say it. You are not as attracted to the relationship guy as the casual sex guy. Women always make this out to be like they let you wait because they are more attracted to you od some bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:30 PM
1

Yeah this is pretty true. We want to be desired just as much. The casual sex guys get the raw sexual attraction the other need to put tons more effort in for less. This perfectly explains why there is a red pill. Guys rather want to be the former than the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 12:24 PM
2

Just because you are bad at relationships doesnt mean everybody is. I always get incredibly close with girls and have tons of fun. It takes barely any effort for me. I always have to take the long road though since most girls aren't interested in me from the start. Casual sex IS way harder because your personality is way less part of the formula. I have no problems getting relationships. Maybe consider that you are a good looking guy with a bad personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 10:26 AM
7

Casual sex is way harder than relationships. And way less rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:25 PM
2

You fail to understand what a nice guy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 10:04 AM
16

If she uses sex transactionally she is objectifieing herself and is manipulating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 10:02 AM
16

Men are just as happy with becky. Woman are not with billy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:39 PM
7

Had a girl sit on my lap before. Asked her out said she didnt see me that way. Truth is women purposefully hide their intents. You just never can be sure. Don't blame us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:20 PM
3

Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:19 PM
11

There is no point to life so why not enjoy it? Allot of people find love and relationships very rewarding and an amazing amount of fun. Also having a naked women infront of you that WANTS to fuck you and is excited is many times more fun than a quick handjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 02:26 PM
7

Nah they wont catch up. There is no selection pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 02:23 PM
1

Damn you are cold.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:42 PM
1

I meant gen z. The generation you were reffering too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 03:29 AM
1

Lol gut feelings of millenials. How come you accept this without a doubt but want undisputable evidence for any red pill topic. Seems like... you don't value honesty and only want to push your own narative. Might just be me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 03:26 AM
2

No men don't value much of the things low value women bring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:19 PM
2

It's fun when you are succesfull ofcourse. But men don't like the struggle it takes to become succesfull. Why do men struggle. Because women are in higher demand than men. If we can lower that demand by substituting women in other ways we could be playing on an more even play ground. Understand his line of thought? And wouldn't it be better if allot of men would be sexually satisfied? That means they wont be following their dick when looking for a SO but for a girl they genuinely vibe with. I on…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 08:46 PM
1

Lol studies and facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 08:39 PM
2

None of that is supported by science.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:29 PM
1

Not in the initial stage of dating. Women have allot more certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:56 PM
3

Time and money. We never have certainty when we date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:25 PM
6

Men can love quality women but those are in short supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:23 PM
1

Ofcourse it used to be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:08 PM
10

It's way more of a hassle for men though. They have to win over the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:04 PM
24

Lol when they have to reciprocate thats when the ego boosting fun stops
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 01:04 PM
5

Arrogance. I don't care about a strong women as long as she is down to earth and humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:35 PM
5

Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:18 AM
3

It is. How would you know? Tons of people say it is do you think they are lying? Just because you wouldn't care if you would be unsuccesfull for a while (because you have already build up the confidence to not give a fuck) doesn't mean somebody that has been rejected all their lives wouldn't give a fuck. It can be extremely damaging to your confidence self image and happiness. Are you too fucking dense to understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:13 AM
5

Women don't give a fuck about low value men. Remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:09 AM
2

Why? He got the date wrong but it will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:03 AM
1

Not that early but it will eventually happen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:03 AM
2

You seem to have some insider knowledge lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 11:02 AM
1

Yes and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:59 AM
8

Why is prostitution so worrysome? And women are also going to be struggling. They wont accept being treated as trash by the guys they are attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:56 AM
4

How about the huge water and food shortages we will get because of climate change?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:54 AM
4

Humans wont go extinct. We will endure allot of suffering though. Wars over water food shortages that causes countless deaths and murders. The leaders of the world have blood on their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:50 AM
3

What do women have to offer nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:18 PM
2

Beautiful body
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:06 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:24 PM
4

She claims the fantasy doesn't actually translate to reality unless it is in a consensual setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:27 PM
4

Still seems really weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:49 PM
12

My ex girlfriend seems to disagree lol. Although i never had sex with her that way because i wasn't comfortable with it she told me a couple of times that she thinks it would have been really hot if i "forced" my self onto her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:46 PM
1

Moral code is just as much vulnerable to evolution as dna code. If the culture survives that culture is going to be more prevalent. Th
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:42 PM
1

Like has been said before the women supposedly matures and starts finding different things attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:02 PM
10

This lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:13 PM
0

I highly doubt this though. I have read a study before that backed up my claim i will search for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:46 PM
-1

Younger women are more attractive looks wise. We are attracted to youth. Their prime in looks is around 21. When they are mature enough but still have a lot of youth left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:14 AM
0

Nah not as much as when they are 30+ that is the point. The girl that 5 years ago wouldn't have even dated you suddenly thinks you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:09 AM
1

A girl extra wont change that much for those guys though. Having a girl for the other ones can be life changing. So it is a large lose for those men and a small win for that guy. On average it is a loss for men. It isn't a zero sum game
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:04 AM
1

He said high n count women probably aren't stable. They have more people to compare you to and they will get less memerable memories with you. Besides maybe there is a reason for the high n count that makes her inately unreliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:46 AM
2

Pretty misleading you only said he was a nice guy. You know we would assume his other qualities would be average ish. Being nice won't hurt your dating chances. Who would have guessed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:38 AM
0

Some of them do. Allot can't find a husband that gives them these same tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:31 AM
1

Purple pill / no pill. Appearance is very important for guys but it is not the end if you are mediocre. You can compensate some what with personality and confidence and if you are older with status and money. I do believe that ugly men have an extremely hard time on the dating market though. Most girls think they are not shallow with looks but they still usually have a minimum level of attractiveness they look for in guys. Because of this they aren't able to get much dating experience and gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:17 AM
6

If you get 10 matches a day you are not average thoughh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 12:05 AM
2

My best friend is very attractive and also a very great guy. He has had tons of girls interested in him some of them even became friends with me to come closer to him. He has a very easy time dating and girls often fall madly in love with him. I am not even kidding. His ex girlfriend in highschool made him his 40 page "profile workpiece" which is some kind of presentation/essay you need to do in the netherlands to graduate highschool. She regurarly bought him gifts and wanted to be with him litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 11:34 PM
6

Healthy weight is many times more important for most men. Almost all guys i know that aren't desperate would never date an overweight girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:17 PM
1

Honest to god there are only 2 thin women i have ever seen in real life i would never consider dating. (Looks wise). Depending how much other factors can compensate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:15 PM
4

The irony
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:07 AM
5

Nah except it litterarly isn't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:57 PM
2

Women does it and you get more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 04:19 PM
0

How do you know they are unrelated? I would say any difference in the nature of a heterosexual relationship is going to have some chances to other parts of it. You are the one talking out of your ass here. The correct response is that this phenomenon hasn't been studied enough to know whether the relationship is casaul. You deny this without any evidence. Just shut up already. It's almost like... you don't value objective truth and want to bend facts to a reality you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 04:15 PM
1

You assume everybody knows exactly what they want in the future and the present and know what is best for them. I would love to eat all kinds of junkfood all day but that would make me sadder long term because of insecurities and missed opportunities. Life is complicated dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 12:55 AM
2

You must be so smart :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:25 AM
1

People like to believe the world is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:53 AM
0

The male gamer loser. He wont be an annoying piece of shit atleast and his problems are more fixable. Male
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 11:31 AM
2

She was funny and we clicked. A nice girl and i was a bit desperate. It lasted a couple months.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:39 PM
1

Because there have been allot of women i have put allot of effort into with very limited succes. Because of the limited succes i am not really motivated to put that much effort into it and make myself vulnerable. From my experience the amount of effort doesn't really affect the succes you have. Mostly you know from the start whether things workout. And i guess on the flip side of this some men have it too easy they simply don't want to put in effort because there are allot of other girls that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:37 PM
1

I guess so, i don't really care though i am doing fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:51 AM
1

Men aren't responsible for your sexual satisfaction. Go talk with him if he can't get you off. If you want to orgasm tell him what to do it is that simple. Most women tend to be meek in the bedroom and are scared of asking that shit for a reason. Not our problem, we can't read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:07 PM
1

If you think that way have relationships with women. Sex is really enjoyable. Even if you don't orgasm. You seem to think that orgasms are the only thing making it worth it. It is just many times harder to orgasm with penetration than with clit stimulation in average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:05 AM
1

If you aren't sexually attracted to men then don't have relationships? Everybody wants a partner that actually wants to have sex with them simple as that...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:55 PM
1

Firstly sex scratches a very different itch. Its intimate and it is very enjoyable in a different way. Sex isn't transactional. If he turns you on and you enjoy it go with it, if not just go look for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:33 AM
1

Not at fucking all. Fuck that manbaby.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:41 PM
1

Sex goes both sides though what even is this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:09 PM
3

They have allot more of that negative masculinity as well though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:34 PM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:33 PM
1

I also think the game starts way easier with these people its more a competition between these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:31 PM
0

Well he left you so he isn't actually cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:23 PM
2

Childish name calling. Have you got nothing better to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:18 PM
2

Was perceived standards ever an issue for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:44 AM
5

Her own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:40 AM
1

That is why they are pansies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:39 AM
1

So how does this translate to relationships? I know tons of guys who have watched porn and have healthy relationships and sex lives. I really think the distorted sexuality thing wouldn't be a problem aside from men maybe having higher standards when it comes to looks. If you have a caring boyfriend distorted sexuality wouldn't be a problem right? Unless you think it is plain immoral to watch porn which is legit too, you can have any dating preference you want. Just know that almost all guys watc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:41 AM
2

Why is porn such a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:28 PM
1

I genuinely do want a good and funny girl. They do not choice the trashy types because they are attracted to it. They do that because they perceive it as easier and they are insecure. They are usually easier though and often more fun. And how do men treat girls like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:09 PM
1

For sure because most men are thirsty idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:35 PM
1

I am just trying to say that sometimes you put in low effort and things work out perfectly and sometimes you put in allot of effort and it ends up all being wasted. From my personal experience you usually know from the start whether things work out or not and barely any amount of effort is going to change that. I just get annoyed by the women online telling guys that they put too little effort into it while i am highly sceptical that is going to better their prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:21 PM
2

Expectations have sky rocketed. So it's allot more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:45 PM
1

Nah it would get better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:49 AM
1

There are slightly more women because men die earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:42 AM
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I don't think it's modern men though. It's just allot harder now a days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:22 PM
1

What if they were the perfect couple but only broke up because of long distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:13 AM
1

But you didn't answer my question. Would that make you insecure? Just out of curiousity lol. Scenario: You are dating and having sex with a man for a couple months you like him very much, you would like to take the next step but he says he isn't ready for it yet. Than your friends tell you before you guys dated he had a relationship with a girl he met at work whom he had known for just a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:56 AM
1

First of all high demand men aren't going to be casually fucking beckies if they can fuck stacys even if they need to give commitment for this. My best friend has a relationship with a very attractive girl he barely likes platonicly. Secondly some high demand men are just too lazy to put in effort. Sure they would fuck a girl that would ask him to come over but besides that he really doesn't give a fuck. So when the opportunity of a relationship with an average low maintenance girl arrives he ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:36 AM
1

I very highly doubt this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:10 AM
1

It's not the same because women care less about that. A good equivalent is men fucking her but not commiting(yet). While in the past he had no problem having relationships from the start. Would that make you insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:29 PM
3

Nah not at all. Just made me think i wasn't attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:31 PM
2

Well yeah. Not because she wanted to wait. Because she wanted to wait for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:40 PM
1

You are delusional if you think low value men do that lol. There is a significant part of men of all values that just doesn't care about romance. Sure they can fake it, but the main reason they have relationships is acces to easy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:41 PM
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This hits waaaaay to close to home. I barely give any fucks about how much guys she had fucked before. But i actually gave up on a girl i liked because she wanted to move things slowly with me even though she said she really liked me. Despite being known as a girl that... easily puts out.(a week before we dated she fucked a guy she had known for 2 days).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:29 PM
4

This is exactly what we are saying in this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:02 PM
2

Allot more social validation with way less effort
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:38 AM
12

Who was misleading you? Nobody promised you you would be able to fly a plane. Stop redirecting this fucking conversation, fuck. You knew exactly what he meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:15 PM
13

Natuurlijke gingers zijn best heet
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/19 02:29 PM
2

"People that wont do the thing i am too afraid to do are gross" jesus have some self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:39 AM
2

Pick up on non verbal communication lol. They are indirect on PURPOSE cause they can't handle rejection. "Men could learn to see things women purposefully hide" Or they could stop being such pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:18 AM
1

Except muslims are in actual danger when conservatives get out of control
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:20 AM
3

Yeah this is exactly it. Women online are telling men to put more effort into dating. Why should we? Putting in allot of effort barely ever works. In contrast. It seems that the times we are succesfull are completely random whether we put high effort in or barely any. The only reason they are telling us this is so their own ego's can be brushed a little more. They don't care about giving us good advice that would help us in the dating world. They just want to benefit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 01:22 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:17 PM
1

Well then i guess we just happen to have a difference in values and there is no way we could come to an agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 12:17 PM
5

To be fair sex is an enormous need for every human being
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:26 AM
3

There is a difference between abusing some ones loneliness and weak emotional state and trying to sell cookies with as much profit as possible jezus. Some predatory things are acceptable and some aren't. We should limit a tobacco company from spreading their addictive product, we should limit a casino from idiots spending all their money, we should stop factories from hiring kids and we should stop cam girls from abusing lonely guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:23 AM
0

Nah everything except that small piece of paper. You get what he is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:02 AM
3

Marriage keeps people together for atleast a bit longer who would have thought lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:00 AM
3

It's about respect you weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:49 PM
0

It is so easy saying this while being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:48 PM
1

Depends on whether the persons' advice is reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:47 PM
1

How about not calling the majority of men lame?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:44 PM
2

Well it is bad. But men go on drought streaks that make them horny af.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:33 AM
4

If she wants good sex she needs to take initiative lol its her responsability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:28 AM
4

The last one is so true. If she doesn't seem into it it is many many times less hot. It's just enhanced masturbation at that point. Stigma is also very true. If a woman knows you have done it she will think of you as a loser and you will be undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:26 AM
1

The guy that will give her the emotional attachment she needs lol. I have been the emotional tampon of a couple of these girls. They think it is ok because he is treating her so badly or something like that but they refuse to break up because idk he gives her the tingles despite knowing he is a bad boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:05 PM
20

Haha the guy will get nothing out of it aside for a "well meant thanks!" Which makes it more pathetic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/19 11:55 AM
3

I have seen this multiple times. He is hot so it's easy to fuck girls or to start a relationship. But hotness doesn't help that much with a LTR. She will find out he is boring or that he is a scumbag and break up or cheat. And he probably gets fucked over more often because he has more chances with women. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:24 AM
5

Gass lighting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:09 AM
1

I think those men are assholes in general. Not just misogony.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/19 07:30 PM
1

Ofcourse not. But if people are replaceable you are going to give them less worth thats just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:29 PM
1

Chillll down dude jesus. So now it is misogynistic to tell people who have had bad experiences dating that maybe they should adjust the people they date?
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/19 07:18 PM
2

What is love? You really enjoy talking to that one girl are constantly horny when you do lol you want to see her happy and get fking depressed if things don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:56 AM
19

Women are just as much the asshole gender as men. They are just expected to be nicer. So they act fake nice out of expectation. In no way are they more empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 04:59 AM
6

Because of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 04:55 AM
1

Lol anybody that leaves behind their children are absolutely not normal dudes fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 11:11 AM
4

95% of women wouldn't like a boring boyfriend. Why would you expect us to go after those?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 09:18 AM
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There is litterarly only 1 reason for this. They are easy. They easily connect with you they want to be with you etc. When as a man you have been facing constant rejection and hardship this finally gets to be some relieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 09:13 AM
1

Yeah exactly. That is why you should always keep your conditions secret when you are a kid. If they know you have adhd or autism they will look more closely at your behavior and will judge you to be weird many times faster then when they judge someone that doesn't have it. My actual family bullied me for it when i was very young lol and because of that i never told someone outside of family. Luckely i always have had great friends, that of it self gave me the confidence to open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:41 AM
1

I have adhd and it has never been a problem for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:09 PM
1

Someone also choices to lie about birth control. So no it is not neccesarily a direct consequences UNLESS someone ELSE choices to lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:12 AM
1

You are putting words in my mouth fucking retard. I never said i agreed with any of those 2 statements just wanted to point out victim blaming is not okay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:09 AM
2

False equivalence. You are mixing up consequence and cause Causes: Wearing revealing clothes Sleeping with women unprotected Consequences: Rape Money raped Both causes are willingly Both consequences are unwillingly. Typical gaslighting🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:44 AM
2

Why are you wearing revealing clothes if you don't want to get raped? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:51 AM
3

Thats the point though. You are an easy confidence boost. It's a great starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:46 PM
4

let men come into them surprise pickachu face when she gets pregnant doesn't feel she is ready to be mom but can't abort wah i am the victim!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:10 PM
4

The men that were screwed over in paying 20% of their income?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 11:36 AM
7

Why are you blaming the victim? In any other context this would be far from okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:12 AM
4

If laws are unfair why shouldn't we complain? It ain't gonna change by doing nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:06 AM
1

Yeah sure if you take that definition. But still i think it is still very inconsequential since men are still attracted to a very large amount of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:16 PM
2

Men care about looks relatively more. But they also find a significantly larger amount of women attractive. Women on average only find 20% of men physically attractive while men think it is 50%. So at the same time we are more shallow and less shallow at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:22 PM
1

Both ofcourse. But men often settle for the woman they can actually get just to get some sex. Being with someone you somewhat like and having a sex life is better than being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 04:14 PM
1

Yeah but some have allot of it very easily and some don't. Men on average have it harder. Women struggle finding a good man. Men struggle finding a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 01:45 PM
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Yeah if it is true she is just crazy. I have yet to meet these hyper sensitive women people on reddit are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:57 PM
12

Lol can't imagine any guy i know giving a single fuck. I get asked how old i am all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 08:29 PM
4

Women should never ever ever ever change if you think so you are a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 04:40 PM
1

Women as well seem to be plowing the fields. The men that don't seem to be in a hurry are the ones who already have allot of options. It is all connected can you see? The women not in a hurry wants to only settle with the attractive men. Attractive men have allot of options and therefore don't settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 09:06 PM
1

How do you know these guys don't want it themselves? Maybe they are not able to fix it themselves? Maybe we can change society in a way (without forcing anybody) so that more people can have fullfilling relationships and lives. (Traditional familes were better at this for example)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:58 PM
1

Aside from it being part of TRP. Sex, validition from the other sex, intimacy are one of the basic needs any human being desires. If a significant portion of the population can't have that it is problematic for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:53 PM
1

It proves one of the assumptions TRP has. This specific part is not a tool to be succesful but a part of it's theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:19 PM
1

Well, women will become more financially independent. Men wont be screwed over anymore. And maybe it will push women to put in more effort if they want a provider? Or else contribute evenly into relationships. So i do think this atleast to some level solves the problem. Also i see this as more fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:18 PM
2

Ever heard of the single mom epidemic? Women tries to get LTR of attractive man. Attractive man has allot of options and doesn't see a reason to stay. Women becomes single mom because she allowed him to cum in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:09 PM
1

Yes and the men would have no problem leaving anymore too? Men aren't financially forced to stay with women that don't desire them anymore and i think that is good. Also i think women should be becoming financially independent anyway so removing alimony wont have an impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:57 PM
1

It brings some legitimacy to RP so relevant to this sub. It doesn't matter whether you care
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:53 PM
1

The world is complicated. What it proves is that women are shallower than men and only want to date a smaller percentage of men than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:40 PM
1

I was just putting things out there. You always have to weigh the good with the bad. There might be some other options and these laws can be more nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:35 PM
1

It proves RP though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:32 PM
1

Ofcourse they are. But if we are able to put in place effective policies that would make sure that alllll of us can have fullfilling lives we should aim for that... That is the whole reason of this debate. Is there a way to fix this problem.(without forcing anything on women)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:31 PM
1

It's about women's nature to only fuck men that are more attractive then them. (Attractive includes everything that attracts women). And because of this a large amount of men are involuntarily celibate and a larger amount of women are going to have bad experiences in relationships and are going to be voluntarily celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:21 PM
1

And see the world go to shit because people have no incentives of working hard? These 30% of men are also going to be holding society back. Working the minimum hours they need to live and wanking/playing video games all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:18 PM
1

Why care about people the lack of one of the most essential needs a person has?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:14 PM
1

Just because there are worse things in the world doesn't make this illegitimate though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:13 PM
1

It doesn't help when you yell women don't men any sex. Yes everybody knows that like seriously there is jo need for that to be said. There are ways to solve problems without forcing women to pair up. Remove social welfare, remove child support, remove allemony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:10 PM
1

Yet more than 90% of men watch porn. I can tell you almost all of them would rather fuck a girl. Women are turning men down. Online dating is hard for most men, they are effectively turning down 80% off men on there and you are telling me it is very different IRL? Women turning down 30% seems very reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:07 PM
1

You don't know what a slippery slope is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:54 PM
1

Seriously lol. Let me rewrite this to a male pov. In evolutionary terms, women are breeding machines for your genes. To impregnate as many of them by any means possible (lying and raping) should be the goal. It's natural for men to not empathize with these women since that might lower the amount of children he can reproduce. It's your goal to spread your genes far and wide. Just because something is a biological imperative doesn't mean it is the right thing to do. (BTW there is no evolution taki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:46 PM
1

You forgot women solipsism. Things are only bad when it affects HER personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:34 PM
1

They are making the current choices they make according to the current circumstances. They make different choices in different circumstances. There is nothing wrong with changing circumstances. That does not neccesarily equal forcing them to do something else. They still have free will to behave any way they like. You could argue at the moment they are even "forced" to date sub 10/10 men because they simply don't have the possibility too. If the circumstances were different(allot more 10/10 men)…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:56 PM
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It is all so subjective. If all around you there were these muscled (if you like this else just very fit) men who were many times more funny nicer driven and confident than your partner. I am not saying you are stuck with your partner BUT there are better options around you. Everybody settles for something below their dream girl or man. If women have to settle for men a little bit less attractive (like they used to) i don't think there world would be ending. (Women used to be happier in traditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:36 PM
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I didn't ever say to take away women's rights. Just alimony and child support. They should be fully able to work for themselves. If you think about it everybody is stuck with someone they don't want. Everybody wants a person that is better. Allot of men want 10/10 babes with amazing personalities but because of the current system they have to settle down. But that doesn't mean they can't be attracted to lesser partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:01 PM
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People in the past used to have more sex not less(also in relationships). So somehow they were still able to be attracted to those less attractive men. Women attraction isn't absolute like men's. It's relative. When they do relatively well they are happy. Men of all time can judge women more consistently. They only think they aren't doing well right now because attractive men are giving them chances and that is getting their hopes up. I truely believe the internet online dating and series has ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:09 PM
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Attractive men in relationships means they wont be sleeping with a shit ton of normal and attractive women meaning they wont get their hopes up. Women truely have very high standards untill 30 years or so. If they knew the attractive men was more of a risk they wouldn't be looking for mister perfect as long and would settle down earlier for a less attractive men for the sake of safety. I don't believe women would just stop massively having sex and relationships. They would be more risk averse wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 10:15 AM
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Idk lol just a hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:11 PM
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Easy women date men they are more certain of having stable relationships with. Ie men that are less in demand and men have less of an issue settling down which would lessen attractive men from going on relationship spree's and would lower women standards because the attractive men are atleast a little more off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:09 PM
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Nobody said they have too. But fixing this problem with out anybody being forced could save allot of lives(if what he says is true)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:55 PM
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Remove alimony and child support. So people might get a bit more serious with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:47 PM
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I am not telling you you aren't legit. I am telling you women are on average way more likely to divorce a man that earn less than her. Didn't want to say anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:15 PM
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Yeah but studies show some serious calculations. There are always exceptions to rules but you can't deny a patern. Men are way more willing to provide for a less well of partner than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:34 PM
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Than how come divorces are significantly more likely when a women earns more money? There is nothing wrong with supporting your man a little if he does his best too. Relationships aren't profit maximising business but apparently a significant portion of women do seem to be attracted to providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 01:12 PM
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Depends. Did you have chemistry when he met her etc.
/r/seduction04/10/19 05:49 PM
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I know rationally that every girl is different and every rejection brings you closer to a succes and if it didn't go well anyway she probably isn't the great fit you should actually keep pursuing. But sub consiously i just freeze and get scared and i have litterarly no idea why. I have no problem talking with girls if i have no intention of dating them but when i want to pursue i just freeze.
/r/seduction04/10/19 05:46 PM
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Lol so you agree it is a downside and needs to be compensated with something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:30 PM
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This is actually a really good point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:20 AM
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Good for you man. I am happy for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:19 AM
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Maybe, maybe though you will find the constant rejections, the mehs and maybes, the effort you have to put in and it all ending up in nothing. The validation you never get. (You never get complimented as a guy and rarely ever pursuited). Having no validation what so ever and every good pursuit being outweighed by many that went nowhere. If you want to see how it is to live without any validation go to the femcel sub. Those people are salty as fuck and that is how most men actually experience dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:18 AM
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Yeah but dating would have been harder as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:01 AM
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Generalisations for me not for thee
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:00 AM
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Yeah you kinda value what you can't have. Because women have it so easy getting sex they ended up not giving a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:55 AM
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Better than not being validated at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:50 AM
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Gays are right about islam. How to short circuit far right brain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 09:06 AM
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Thats fair. I already played that game. It litterarly made me cry. Powerful message and an incredible story. But i think it will take a long time before we get to that point. Concious ai is indeed inevetable. Since we are concious there must be a way to simulate this conciousness we have. Our conciousness is just a bunch off electrical signals in a certain patern. This must also be possible with programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:40 PM
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But you will still know in your mind this isn't an actual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 01:27 PM
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If it is mainly reactionary i don't really consider it a drive. You don't really have a need for it and can easily do without(according to you). If i told you i am very driven when it comes to sport. But i only go when my friend goes and i can do perfectly fine without for months. I don't consider myself having a drive for sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:29 PM
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In those cases you might as well get a bot yeah lol. What makes sex fun is the touching in advance being horny for hours on end and her enjoying everything you do to her. Then slowly escalating to more physical things. Making her horny is horny of itself. If you just go straight into having sex you are missing out on allot of fun. Doubly so if she doesn't seem interested enough to really contribute during the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:59 PM
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So basicly japan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:43 PM
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Maybe it will remove some thirst. But allot of sex also has to do with sexual tension and you simply can't have that with a sexbot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:35 PM
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Because allot of people need a significant other to function properly. Men that give up are way less productive and it will give allot of men/women less fullfilling lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:30 PM
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Nah you are delusional if you think 2/3 of them are having sex so rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:23 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:28 PM
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And children are more likely to eat junk food and icecreme everyday. Just because you don't want it doesn't mean it isn't better for you long term. I don't have a strong position on this. But basicly it comes down to men being masculine again and women becoming submisive which could maybe lead to more happines because for women because they are attracted to masculinity and men are attracted to femininity and as such tradiotional roles make people more happy in a relationship. I don't know whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:36 PM
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Kinda yes kinda no. It depends on what makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 09:09 AM
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Lol i genuinely don't care about(most) stuff but i act like i do because i don't want to face the social repercusions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:56 AM
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Yeah but for women this is an acceptable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:52 AM
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This lol. The largest slayers are genuinely often times the largest misogyinist. They don't value women at all. But yeah they probably hide it(they are often pretty manipulative.) Despite that i have a strong feeling misoginy is used as a excuse by women to not feel bad about rejecting an unattractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 06:14 AM
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Ofcourse there is..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 11:11 AM
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You can either be sexless and lonely or have sex and be a little less lonely with a person you find somewhat nice. Men just don't have the luxiory of choicing that often lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 11:06 AM
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Maybe the mom should have thinked of that before fucking him? I said nothing about tax payers. Women are independent and can hold the same jobs as men now a days. If you can't take care for a child don't get pregnant. It was just a little sperm from the man but she choice to take the baby to term. Why should they have the same responsability? If she isn't able to properly take care of the child take him/her away from the mom since she doesn't seem to be a functioning adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:21 PM
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All women are like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/19 02:17 PM
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There is still no awareness so pretty good he put attention to it. We should keep going untill something changes like every social issue before, you get ignored at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:47 PM
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Lol a man doesn't have anything to say on a abortion of a women. It would be extremely intrusive to a woman's autonomy. What we are asking for is that a man shouldn't be forced to pay for their spawn if he doesn't desire to be his dad. Same as the women who abort when they don't feel ready. You are forcing a responability on a man and that is immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:45 PM
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Not slutty but probably more wild, genuine and fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:32 PM
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Nah i just told you you are a moron for calling men that take conclusions out of a study losers. Just because you can't handle facts doesn't make us losers. Btw i am not redpilled or bluepilled i don't believe awalt. I met some amazing women in my life. But you are probably one i would stay far away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 06:33 PM
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The world is fking complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:45 PM
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I love the passive agresive shaming you put on men. So just because we read some objective studies and take some conclusions out of it we are losers? Nobody said that every women is the same. The studies just states that being a dick (on average) wil make you more attractive than being nice. I don't care what you believe i care what works. If you wish to deny facts be my guest i don't care. You are only making a moron of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:42 PM
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You are claiming that different sex drive happen because women that are not in relationships don't want it as much. Yet this article is talking about it women still having a lower sex drive even in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 05:29 PM
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But this article was talking about women in relationships being less likely to want to have sex then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 05:19 PM
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You would still love the child but eventually the child will stop loving you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/19 04:30 PM
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American law.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/19 04:26 PM
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What things can man get away with? Men have been selfless for so many years. Taking all the dangerous jobs, bringing in the large majority of money at home. Been marrying lazy losers for years. Why can't women just man up for once and take that responsibility themselves for once. Men are more than atm machines. I think it is extremely unfair that it is the men that should change in this regard. Apparently gender roles are only sexist when they are put on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 09:05 AM
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Nah i have a promising career. Used to play a shit ton when i was younger though and i was perfectly content and happy doing that. I just don't like the double standard put on boys. Men are expected to provide and be productive while while women are never called losers for failure of doing so. I know a shit ton of women personally that are dependent on their parents/boyfriend(without there being a child) at the age of 26 in some way but they are never called out for it. While they are just as wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:44 AM
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So its just the asshole women that are attracted to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 09:52 AM
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That every women i would find sexually attractive i would get in a relationship with depending on how well we click. That's basicly 80% of women. But that's just me i think. The remaining 20% it would be hard to have more than a platonic relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 09:34 AM
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So what? Let people life their lives they want to as long as they don't endanger others. Who gives you the right to judge others If they want to be useless and play video games all day because that is what makes them happy who are you to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 12:14 AM
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Why would a plan matter for romance? I show my affection in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 05:21 PM
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Financially secure unattractive men. Maybe some autist idk that won't find genuine love from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:04 PM
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How do you mean? Plenty of guys that want to be fathers? If not through traditional methods they can do it this way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:54 PM
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Who dont men ever get this positive reinforcement?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:47 PM
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You really like those stoic type of women? I think they are the most off putting types i can imagine. Calculating everything instead of just living life seems so ingenous to me. But yeah they are rare although i know some. I keep away from them because they seem manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:23 PM
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What is so wrong about coming to an agreement to who does what? It doesnt hurt the dynamic one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 11:30 AM
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You got to understand 80% of women are somewhat sexually attractive to most men depending on circumstance. (I would do her if my dry spell was long enough) so i would probably just enjoy it untill i nut. Whether i put effort is probably based on how much i like her(or the possibility for future hookups) I suppose with unattractive you mean the bottom 50% not the bottom 20% if i would get a committed relationship with the former with one i really like that would be great. With the latter it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 11:15 AM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:54 AM
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Date women who in the past would never have dated you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:52 AM
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Why do people like you shame and belittle men every chance they get?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:49 AM
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Japanese men are the hardest working men on earth guess what is happening there? Stop giving these excuses everybody knows that because of technology and OLD women standards sky rocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:15 AM
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If they changed women would just higher their standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:13 AM
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First off you don't know whether women adapt their needs to whatever environment they are in. Let alone our modern environment which we have never lived in before. Second we are at a evolutional death end since everybody survives. And what women were looking for in the past to survive etc aren't traits that are relevant now at all so the men that do procreate aren't neccesarily going to be best for our society. They might as well all be sociopaths great at manipulating for example. You seem to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 10:02 AM
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I am thinking about the exact same thing. I tend to think redpill is more on the money on this one. Countless examples of women that are in a loving caring relationship but they just don't feel the intense excitement they felt with the men they used to date even though they used her didnt show her as much love and kept her on her toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:28 PM
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Tbh the child shouldn't be dragged into this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 10:17 AM
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Halo effect is real though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:48 AM
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Basicly a woman that has so little respect for me and is so selfish to put me in debt so she can have nice stuff isn't a woman i want to be with anyway. No matter how hard i fall in love i will never fall into financial ruin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:21 AM
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To be honest i myself don't care about a woman doing porn in the past. The only reason i wouldn't want to commit to such a women is because i would become an enormous laughing stock to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 09:04 PM
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"Keep your truth to yourself so it can benefit us"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 09:01 PM
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Dude can you atleast warn for GoT spoilers
/r/MGTOW25/05/19 10:54 AM
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Maybe the men with worth just don't want to date you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/19 10:00 PM
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Personally wouldn't care as long as it isn't slutty. But i imagine other guys would get jealous and want some stability in their relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/19 07:20 PM
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Lol says the one posting 10 posts a day hating on men. Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/19 06:19 PM
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Why judge a man because he didn't put his dick in some women? It's exactly because of this that men feel the need to have as much sex as possible or else you are a 'loser'. Want to get rid of men using women for sex? Simple stop judging men because of a lack of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/19 02:20 AM
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Being a virgin is also a major red flag to allot of women though. I don't feel this is accurate at all. Broken hearts is what causes men to distance themselves emotionally and to me it looks like men are way more effected by it. I see women dating a different guy a month after they broke up with the love of her life and i see men trying to not be too close at the age of 24 because a girl broke his heart when he was 17. Maybe men are more vulnerable emotionally idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/19 09:09 AM
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One pre martial divorce rate is the lowest of all and 3rd is way lower than 10+ its only 2 that is out of place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 09:06 PM
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Nothing is certain in life absolutely nothing. It is all about averages. If the chance of you of finding a commited relationship is larger with such a partner it is a legit reason to prefer such one. Just like the chance of you finding drugs in your home is larger with a partner addicted to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 07:42 PM
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Well actually it correlates strongly with divorce rates
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 02:20 PM
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Ofcourse there are always exceptions to everything but pre martial sex is on average way less common in the islamic world. It shows itself in the frequency of stds in the region and social studies done on the subject. I believe without a doubt there are some muslims that dont follow all the rules but facts are there is barely any slutting around compared to the west. https://images.app.goo.gl/LsXv6WqdagTqcn658
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 09:01 PM
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The people here are not incells or whiney lol. They just seem to observe some clear paterns
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 03:26 PM
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Bro you can blame allot of things but this is just fucked up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 03:19 PM
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Litterarly laughed out loud
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 02:52 PM
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Lol a NEW step dad. Enough said
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 01:58 PM
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Ofcourse there are always exceptions but in general it is way less common.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/19 08:57 AM
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Damn you opened up my eyes about mid life crisises. Thanks for this in depth comment!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/19 09:09 PM
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Its a muslim country there is barely any slutting around
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/19 08:16 PM
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Dammmmmnnnnnn
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/19 10:08 AM
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