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dillpiccolol/r/seduction12/08/12 11:28 PM
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1

Right time is right now.
/r/seduction16/05/14 10:57 PM
2

Don't do this. If you need to follow up say "See you tomorrow at 1"
/r/seduction22/04/14 11:25 PM
4

Don't leave voicemails. They'll see the missed calls and respond usually either by text or calling you back.
/r/seduction20/04/14 10:29 PM
10

As a follow up for this question, you said you lived there for years and traveled. Once you're there if you can get a hotel room for $5 per night could you essentially live off of less money than stateside? How much did you end up spending during your years there? (best guess)
/r/seduction17/04/14 05:41 PM
5

Hahahaha!
/r/seduction10/04/14 06:19 PM
1

It's funny cause I take the opposite tactic and write on there that I am looking for a "kind, intelligent and laidback woman". I find that I have less matches now, but much higher quality.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:09 AM
1

Oh yea, you figure that out over time. Just an interesting side effect.
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:13 PM
1

Haha, in my experience I've moved on from girls and then they seem to be become more interested when I'm already onto a different girl.
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:42 PM
9

I think #4 is more like "dust off your shoulder, give zero fucks and watch her swoon" But yea my steps definitely aren't a detailed blueprint, you want to try to build attraction usually by being confident and interesting. And really you want to be asking out girls you're actually interested in (my goal is to find a great lady, not just a great lay).
/r/seduction05/03/14 05:20 PM
34

Proper sequence is: Meet girl Make intentions known that you're looking for a dating / sexual partner Experience rejection or confirmation that the game is on Game on
/r/seduction05/03/14 04:27 PM
1

"Lets just enjoy the time we have left together."
/r/seduction03/03/14 09:12 PM
0

thatsthejoke.jpg
/r/seduction24/02/14 07:26 AM
0

If Confident = Confident Then Set ConfidenceLevel = Confident
/r/seduction23/02/14 05:24 PM
1

"Just be confident"
/r/seduction23/02/14 05:23 PM
7

Yup, I'm nice, but girls get one flake and after that I'm done. Too many women in there world to be with one who isn't nice like me.
/r/seduction11/02/14 03:19 AM
2

If they are working they are not giving you the look. However, if they are working, chat them up a bit. If there is no one else in line, just make it quick. A comment, a few words then a smile as you leave. Come back another time and talk to them again. That's the point where you could ask them out. Otherwise don't bother.
/r/seduction09/02/14 06:12 PM
1

Means you can get to know her, but you'll need to define the relationship more. Tell her you're dating etc and try to find out about her situation. Then invite her to do things you're already doing (i.e. I'm going surfing this weekend at X beach, a lot of times they'll invite themselves after that). Have an interesting life and talk about it, people are attracted to interesting people.
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:53 PM
1

Make some friends too. Female friends are not a bad thing to have (just make sure all the females you know aren't just friends).
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:51 PM
7

I am the leaf in the wind! Watch me fly!
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:05 AM
8

I've done both and frankly I think it doesn't really matter. If the chick likes you she's not gonna be offended if you split it.
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:05 AM
2

-Chinese proverb
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:37 AM
2

Put your arm around here. When she gives a bit a of a look (unless she's like horrified, usually a woman will just be a bit coy at this point) just say something like "Pretty good move, huh?" A corny laugh helps sell it. Escalate from there (you typically can kiss her then, you're basically breaking the physical ice there).
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:36 AM
0

tldr; make a move
/r/seduction04/01/14 05:35 AM
2

Great post, thanks!
/r/seduction17/12/13 04:30 AM
-1

Date single women.
/r/seduction24/11/13 05:34 PM
2

Tinder, bro.
/r/seduction11/10/13 11:23 PM
3

See, was that so hard catgloves?
/r/seduction11/10/13 11:23 PM
20

I think we all get angry when people act like little bitches with oneitis.
/r/seduction11/10/13 11:21 PM
1

You could try reading the rest of the thread...
/r/seduction06/09/13 09:04 PM
3

Say I'm free these days, and we should go do X. Or just lead off with "when are you free?" Then say I'm free on one of the days she mentions and say "let's go check this out!"
/r/seduction06/09/13 05:09 PM
2

Don't text shit like "do you want to do this", takes away all your power.
/r/seduction06/09/13 04:26 PM
12

This wins the thread.
/r/seduction15/08/13 07:46 PM
3

Chalk it up to a learning experience. Not the girl for you. Met a girl last week that had great chemistry with me, we hung out every day for a week, then she comes up with BS reason to break up and I never heard from her again. Easy come, easy go.
/r/seduction13/08/13 10:20 PM
3

Then you're not gonna get to meet any women.
/r/seduction13/08/13 09:49 PM
1

So how are you gonna get to know a woman without talking to her?
/r/seduction13/08/13 09:21 PM
3

So since girls don't seem interested at all, you don't talk to any of them?
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:52 PM
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When the student is ready, the master appears. The student is not ready. Hopefully someone who is ready will read this thread and get some help from all this effort we dumped into here.
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:47 PM
1

And when you talk to them?
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:43 PM
1

During conversations?
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:39 PM
1

Fair point.
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:09 PM
1

I felt this way (like OP did) at one point, but at a certain point that lil itty bit of confidence you have (say from being a badass online gamer or something) has gotta step it up and say, "Fuck it, I don't care that it hurts to be rejected, it hurt falling off my bike at first, but I gotta that shit down now and I don't even fall anymore". I get rejected all the time, but it's pre-selection to me these days. Oh you're too rude to even talk to me? Good, glad you aren't in my life. Am starting t…
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:57 PM
3

How do you determine that a women is attracted to you? IOIs are pretty much bullshit, most girls don't exhibit them naturally especially if they're not your girlfriend.
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:51 PM
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No girl is ever gonna come over to you and say "I like you, let's go on a date!" Right now men are expected to ask women out and make the first move. Especially in your current situation. MAYBE once in a rare while a girl will make the first move, but it is rare and it can't be your only way to met women. As for showing signs of interest, you gotta get your elevator story down (I'm hodor7 and I do this for a living, I like to do these cool interesting things and one day I want to be X, X being s…
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:44 PM
3

Failure at what? You're very super vague so it sounds like excusitis to me. Failure at getting a haircut? Looking clean? Dressing nicely? Getting to the gym? Talking to people?
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:33 PM
1

I can't read the inflection in text, but somehow I feel like you've made half-hearted attempts and beaten yourself up cause it failed. Everybody sucks at this at first.
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:21 PM
1

Have you read any of the stuff in the sidebar and tried it? I mean really tried. I personally don't like to approach in public out of the blue (I will in general social situations), so I developed most of my skills talking to women just by using online dating. And a good profile pic is all you really need to succeed there.
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:54 PM
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You have to start somewhere, I am talking about tapping someone on the shoulder or giving a hug to a friend. This stuff comes through trial and error like all things in life. Don't come on here whining just cause you're not Don Juan yet, keep practicing!
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:51 PM
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You're not fucking trying dude, come on. Sorry to be harsh, but you need a kick in a butt.
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:48 PM
2

Seriously? If you can't change something simple like this, then how do you think you'll be able to change anything else in your life?
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:46 PM
2

No, she won't.
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:45 PM
3

If you have to do this, you're probably not building enough kino early on.
/r/seduction04/08/13 06:40 PM
4

It's possible to have a meaningful, fun and sexually passionate relationship and eventually you realize that the person just isn't that great of a fit for you. Doesn't mean there is anything wrong with them or you.
/r/seduction02/08/13 04:51 PM
0

Also, a necklace is a good piece of jewelry to wear (I have one with a memento from my great grandfather, sentimental value to me as well). Had a lot of girls who said "I wanted to know what your necklace"...facilitates the getting naked.
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:51 PM
9

Right, express your interest, but you're interested in a lot of women, she's gotta prove why she's special. ;)
/r/seduction03/07/13 09:26 PM
1

Put your hand on her shoulder or something simple. You've over analyzing this.
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:48 AM
1

Imagine the girl you're with is just a girlfriend you've had for a while. Basically treat her as such. If you want to kiss her and you're more than 45 minutes into a date. Do it! Also seriously just put your arm around her or put your hand on her shoulder.
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:37 AM
2

*Sexscalate
/r/seduction30/12/12 04:19 AM
2

To the google machine!
/r/seduction28/12/12 05:22 PM
1

One of the first things you can do is make more eye contact in public. I didn't realize how often I would see a cute girl, make eye contact then turn away. I think I used to think that made me "aloof" and cool, but really it was just a projection of being timid. Look people in the eye during a conversation until they look away (within reason, 5 seconds max I'd say). You'd be amazed how this helps confidence. Look straight ahead, keep your head up and look right at that cute girl walking past you…
/r/seduction28/12/12 05:14 PM
1

Yea, you're right, this stuff only works if you're inherently good looking.
/r/seduction17/12/12 09:24 PM
6

Patchy stubble is acceptable. Just don't let it get too long.
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:44 PM
5

Don't hang out with such shallow women. Additionally, facial hair and haircut can help your face a lot. I have a very long face with a weak jawbone, but I pretty much always have a 5 o'clock shadow or a full, big beard in the winter to square out my face.
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:21 PM
4

I get occasional dates from online sites, but I wouldn't make it your only avenue for meeting women.
/r/seduction06/12/12 05:02 AM
1

The way I started enjoying exercising was to do it and find out what I liked to do. Take the same approach with people. Go out and interact with friends in different situations. Meet different kinds of people etc.
/r/seduction28/11/12 12:55 AM
1

You don't always have to Rock Climb (or other activities with friends) alone, I love disc golfing and sometimes have more fun alone than with friends. But at the same time, I bring friends disc golfing with me. Sometimes I just like to go alone. Doing activities with friends / new friends is a great way to get to know them. Also, there are sometimes that you really can't do alone. Team sports etc. Try those. You obviously DO want to be social, you're kinda contradicting yourself here. And if tha…
/r/seduction27/11/12 07:40 PM
1

Are you saying you get responses to all your messages? 5'9" here and I usually get a decent rate of response (maybe 30%?) and then usually get a number and a date on about 50% of those.
/r/seduction27/11/12 05:08 AM
2

Go out and do things instead of just hanging out. Invite friends along and/or meet people.
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:51 AM
4

That is not what entrapment means.
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:42 AM
2

Yea, she was probably going back to hang out with her sister. You're making a big deal out of this. At this point, no real gain in "giving up". You're either gonna hang out with her again or not.
/r/seduction23/11/12 08:07 PM
3

Never know til you go. Never hurts to have lady friends as well. Try some light kino, be cool, fun and confident. Worst case scenario she's not interested, right now. Just don't pine over her and it'll keep her interested.
/r/seduction11/11/12 05:03 PM
1

And shit, if she's giving you IOIs, then it is DEFINITELY a green light. I got smiles from a girl on a bus once and then we exited I immediately approach, quick convo and then a number close. Some situations you can't immediately approach, you can always just smile back.
/r/seduction26/10/12 05:46 PM
2

Fascinating
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:28 AM
42

Why is OP talking in 3rd person?
/r/seduction12/10/12 09:07 PM
1

No, but a light touch on the arm is a good first step
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:53 AM
3

Balls deep
/r/seduction05/10/12 10:38 PM
2

Such is life. Treat it the same way.
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:46 AM
1

Well, we're talking now aren't we?
/r/seduction03/10/12 01:18 AM
3

Talk to everyone, seriously. And stop putting these girls on a pedestal. Treat them exactly as every other person and you will win them over.
/r/seduction03/10/12 12:29 AM
2

Like other posters have said, find more girls. There are probably a fair number of chicks who have dated one guy or are virgins themselves. The more quiet ones. Expand your social circle beyond your dorm room (and especially beyond her circle of friends). I wouldn't ignore her, just be casual, but I wouldn't give her much time. Her behavior sounds like she wasn't a very nice person anyway, so I'd forget it. Lesson learned, you'll get past this, don't feel too down on yourself. TLDR; Join some cl…
/r/seduction22/09/12 04:51 PM
2

So, you need to translate this confidence in the same manner. These are considered "pedestrian" conversations for both you and the people you talked to. By that, I mean that they are fleeting, have very little emotional consequences and you could choose to talk to any of them or not at all. You need to have the same attitude talking to cashiers that you do as talking with women. Fleeting and no skin off your back to walk away. This is obviously challenging, but think about "pickup" in this conte…
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:51 PM
1

Are you comfortable talking with women and/or strangers in general?
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:33 PM
3

Your first suspect factor is definitely the biggest influencer, and varies heavily from woman to woman.
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:22 PM
2

Yes, but also learning from the situations you encounter when you pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Good or bad.
/r/seduction28/08/12 05:18 PM
1

I think you made a point though. And thanks!
/r/seduction13/08/12 03:10 AM
1

Sometimes it's hard to really define if you feel it. My point is more that, you can never be certain. The head turn sucks, but better to take it. Frankly I posted this cause I was on a first date and went for it. The girl even said afterward "I'm so glad you made the first move". If you don't make a move, you're never get anywhere. To share the story though, I had to establish a some minor kino (just put my hand on her back and then my arm around her shoulder when we were sitting). Wasn't gettin…
/r/seduction13/08/12 01:06 AM
2

I would tell him "You're not coming out with me anymore unless you actually try X" and work him up from there.
/r/seduction12/08/12 10:49 PM
0

Confidence is everything
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:09 PM
1

The whole idea of getting out there is the way you can make a # into a girl you're dating. Text / call her occasionally, be busy sometimes, once she starts asking you out you're pretty set.
/r/seduction06/08/12 03:20 AM
2

It's a balance, imo
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:39 PM
1

Yea agreed. I was out recently and got like no IOIs (I got great eye contact early in the night, but later on seemed like it was reversed). Escalated kino a bit, even that was mixed results. But a good moment came up for a kiss and we went from light kissing to full blown make out right away. (the kind where you can tell the chick was just waiting for you to make a move) There is no signal, you choose when to kiss and if she turns away then that's your indicator.
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:35 PM
12

Disagree on the wrestling moves, bring it up and tell her she could never pin you. Let her win, bam.
/r/seduction21/07/12 05:10 PM
1

Hands
/r/seduction08/07/12 08:40 PM
12

He means don't chastise people heavily. People make mistakes, accept that and move on. Always involve them in fixing the problem (if it's in their skillset). Allow them to see the mistakes and typically they'll be embarrassed and won't make the mistake again. This also allows you to not appear to be a dick. People respect the fact that you didn't chew them out over a mistake. This is a delicate process, though. Additionally, talking shit on people can be dangerous as well. Talking about this in …
/r/seduction08/07/12 08:16 PM
-13

It was a joke...
/r/seduction14/06/12 07:01 PM
-25

Or the ladder
/r/seduction14/06/12 05:21 PM
1

If you're speaking to me personally, I make less than my manager, I'm fairly sure. But he's also a technocrat with 15 years of experience. He's taught me a lot and I think I can be in his position soon. He also asked me to challenge him more, so I definitely have a direct influence, but not necessarily the final say. Just my current place in my profession.
/r/seduction28/05/12 08:40 PM
1

Shrug, I got into programming because it's a lucrative profession, especially if you have people skills.
/r/seduction28/05/12 06:55 PM
1

No it's true, online can definitely be helpful, but if the goal is just to meet women the internet is not necessarily the best place. Frankly early on, a lot of interactions will be important. You're gonna say stupid shit and learn from it. For me the internet has been pretty unforgiving.
/r/seduction28/05/12 03:05 AM
37

Girls don't want to hear about how shitty my level 60 barb is in inferno???
/r/seduction27/05/12 08:53 PM
180

anywhere but the internet
/r/seduction27/05/12 06:05 PM
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