dilqncho Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	In the dating stage - 1 girl is none, 2 is 1, 3 is perfect The problem with that is you (or at least I) end up developing huge FOMO. No woman is perfect, and it's hard to decide to accept someone's flaws and make it work with them if you're used to having 3 others to fall back on.	/r/seduction	26/01/25 08:54 PM
21	In the dating stage - 1 girl is none, 2 is 1, 3 is perfect No, the point they're making is that we get so used to dating multiple people and having abundance it gets really hard to transition to a relationship. This is something I'm struggling with right now. I'm trying to focus my attention on one woman at a time so I can allow myself to actually get close to people and feel something for them. I spent years always having several women on the backburner and yeah, I was never needy - because I didn't care about any of them. It gets old. Depends on what …	/r/seduction	26/01/25 07:55 PM
3	Impossible shit test This mentality that calling out disrespect and asserting boundaries is somehow needy needs to die. If anything, it's much needier to tiptoe around her shit because you're afraid of calling it out and potentially losing her. "Why aren't you texting me back every 5 minutes" is needy. "Don't send me pictures of you with other dudes" is just having very basic self-respect.	/r/seduction	05/01/25 04:42 PM
14	Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship? That's just a bad marriage. Or a bad take on marriage, I can't decide which. A spouse is not a fuckbuddy you fuck and forget until next week. Legally and ethically intertwining the rest of your life with someone you're not emotionally and intellectually compatible with is a recipe for disaster. Sure the sex is fun, but the whole thing crumbles the first time you need to actually navigate a life challenge together. And once it crumbles, the sex isn't going to stay fun for long either.	/r/seduction	06/09/24 10:03 AM
2	Hitting Girls at the gym? Eh, unique? This is like... the first approach to seduction. Bonk.	/r/seduction	20/03/24 01:50 PM
2	How do you build a roster as a loner? I would recommend therapy before worrying about building rosters. That's skipping a few steps ahed.	/r/seduction	20/03/24 01:47 PM
-2	Dates go well but girls become flaky after? Sometimes, and this must not be in a rapey way, "no" genuinely doesn't mean "no". As with anything in dating, you need to callibrate. If she looks at all anxious, uncomfortable, stiffens up, or isn't enjoying herself - don't escalate further. She doesn't want it. If she's panting and wiggling under you, breathing heavily, obviously extremely into it, and breathlessly purrs "oh nooo I don't know if we should do thiiiiis" that's just LMR. There are ways to overcome it depending on the specific sit…	/r/seduction	26/12/20 08:23 PM
2	How do you pickup girls who don't get much attention? This sometimes works. It RARELY works, plus it's more of an investment - which is inherently bad as casual dating is essentially a numbers game. Plus I, personally, don't feel like being fake. Nothing bad about romance if I'm smitten but I don't enjoy acting all deep and interested if I really just want sex. But there are certain women who are completely swept off their feet by a more rom-com approach.	/r/seduction	17/08/20 10:26 AM
3	Sex on first date Could be anything- ex hit her up, met someone else, used you, won the lottery and is movimg to Mars. We can't know. But Occam's Razor, she probably didn't like the sex. No big deal, we all have bad days. Move on.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 05:59 AM
1	Met a girl online and she sent me a picture and i panicked. How long ago was this? Does she know you saw the pic(as in, are read receipts on?)	/r/seduction	22/04/20 03:00 PM