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dilulabra/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:19 AM
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dilulabra/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:12 PM
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Man doesn't have to be as attractive as girl, if he can offer something as compensation (money, social proof, status, being able to take her to special events, etc...). World is full of examples of dudes who are 5/6, being with 8/9 girls. Tricky part is -- you gotta compensate somehow and thats where most of men fail (too lazy to earn money, start business, seek a promotion...).
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:10 AM
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I like this approach. Most of RP advisers would say: don't directly "threaten" but nothing is more elegant than calmly stating rules and preferences.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:57 PM
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What are some reliable methods man can use to estimate N count of a woman?
/r/askTRP15/05/19 10:45 PM
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I don't have nice opinion about people who go to clubs. Especially with a goal to find girls.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:54 PM
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There is something called Passive game. Being around woman, but never engaging first. Personally, I'm done with chasing. I'm available, but never will reach out first. Excellent way to save youself from unecessary rejection and to filter sincerely interested females. TRP is forcing "approaching", but truth is -- if you are sucessful, girls will chase you. Be more self-concerned and try to become the best version if yourself.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:37 PM
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This post is another example why guys shouldn't have woman as friends. Intersexual friendship is unnatural relationship. Sooner or later, one side will develop feelings and friendship will come to the end. Having no-female-friend policy saved me from potential friendzones. You either bang woman or you work with them. There is no third option. Furthermore, having woman close to you as friend, and having her know personal information about your private life (virginity) can be awkward, just like it…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:28 PM
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Red Pill is about 3 things: Understanding (True nature of woman, Politics, Business, etc...) Accepting (It is what it is, you can't change it, at least not on global level) Adapting (Learning to deal with above mentioned). Woman are part of our lifes. Its not a solution to completely ignore them. Rather I suggest playing passive game -- being around woman, but never engaging first. LTR is surely acceptable and common, as long as both sides equally benefit from each other. Marriage is dangerous b…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:50 AM
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Keep it short and simple, no drama. Also, don't offer or accept friendship after break-up. Such things cannot exist and often are sign of "can't-let- go" syndrome. Good luck!
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:20 AM
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It's rather lack of interest, than some shit test. Just because you met twice doesn't mean much, especially if you don't conversate often. Strike iron while its hot -- they say. I'd recommend you go silent, see if she contact you first.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:16 PM
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I haven't lost friends, but I now see how their behaviour looks funny from mine Red-Pilled perscpective. They're going through life confused, making same mistakes repedeatly. Sooner or later they will have some big failure or trauma that'll make them seek for answers in Red Pill. Too bad they can't realize it even now.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:29 PM
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I can confirm that this rule (not texting first) is helpful for filtering sincerely interested girls. Passive game (being around girls, but never engaging first) is good to save yourself from unecessary rejections and focus more on those that find you attractive.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:17 PM
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What's her position on 1-10 scale? Debatable, but somwhere about 5 or 6. Anything below 5 implies physical defects which this girl didn't have. She's just a solid average looking one. What does this video teaches us? Even average looking girls still have so many choice from thirsty and desperate men, which is fueling their self-perception. No wonder many 6's are behaving like they're 7 or 8.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:55 PM
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There's no absolute and uneatable evidence other party can't challenge, BUT having at least something beside words makes proving your innocence easier.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:04 AM
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You can record any conversation or situation you're part of.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:52 PM
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Buy yourself small USB hidden audio recorder, and turn it on before intercourse. Some guys even ask girl to say she's consenting, and film it on cellphone (video/audio consent). Save your messages/chat logs. All that can be helpful evidence if a girl accuses you for false rape. There are many cases of young men being falsely accused for rape, and then proven innocent, because of surveillance videos or audio recordings.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:18 PM
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You encouraged him to keep approaching, which is entry-level chasing, and thats bad. Its far better for the OP to start working to become the best version of himself. By approaching, at current state of his value, he's just gonna get rejected more and more, which can do serious mental damage.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:05 AM
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Many successful CEO's, Singers, Sportsmans, or even good-looking guys actually had pussy fell into their lap, because they bring a lot on the table. Approaching and only approaching isn't gonna get you far, if you aren't developed in other areas of your life.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:51 PM
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It's not your fault. She just didn't like you. Just because you had a few convos between meals and classes doesn't demostrate serious interest from her side. If your relationship depends solely and exclusively on how much you'll fight for it - it's bad relationship. Next!
/r/askTRP26/11/18 08:19 PM
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Usage is correlated with damage. You can't break her if you don't use her. However, I am aware that this criteria may be too strict, so let me re-frase: Don't be with girl who has more experience than you. That's fair. Even so, it won't guarantee that she isn't damaged. You'll have to examine her behaviour and look for red-flags. But its statistically more probable if she had many partners before you, very likely she got damaged somewhere in the proccess...
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:40 PM
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It is not about HOW MANY experiences in numbers, but HOW DEEP the experience was.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:13 PM
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I advocate that it's much better when girl is less experienced, before getting into LTR with you. Reasons: Some people just can't let go their past deed and forever will carry emotions for their ex. You don't need that shit in life. Personally I see girls who had prior relationships (especially serious LTR) as used-goods. The logic for this standpoint is the same as why you shouldn't date single mothers.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:15 PM
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Nobody is stopping you to chase used-goods. Just don't come back here asking: What have I done wrong, When she ditches you for her ex...
/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:53 AM
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If you encounter her on the street or at job, say hello and move forward, without any chit-chat or further discussion. Lesson learnt? Don't seek LTR with a girl who had serious relationship before you. Woman are hypergamous, but they never forget their "first" and often come back to him, like yours did. You don't need used-goods. They just bring troubles.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 12:05 AM
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Bang girl that is same or higher HB than you. Never lower, no matter how much you want sex. Don't chase woman, let them find you. Read more about passive game. Keep up with education, self-care, dedicate time to become the best version of yourself. Every successful man has a plenty of women-choice. Just look at top-bankers, lawyers, sportsmans, singers... They all have at least a few women circuling around them. Key is: be at the top. Take care!
/r/askTRP23/11/18 11:18 PM
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Seems like you ended up with a woman who doesn't find you challenging, and is slowly getting bored with you. That could be explained by her supremacy in business (you said she was your supervisor?). I guess she doesn't lack money as well. It is desirable that woman is below you in terms of business/education/finances. Dependency from her side will insure that she has to earn your privileges, and not take you for granted. Just because you acted masculine and been reading TRP doesn't mean shit, un…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:27 PM
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Respond like you wrote in OP, and do not contact her again unless she reaches out first. When girls declines your call (for whatever reasons), its up to her to make up for it, by suggesting alternative date or else she's not interested/wants you to chase her. Both are bad and should be ignored.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:05 PM
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Smart men will take into consideration other man's advice and learn from his experience. And to recieve one takes giving one. Knowledge shared here isn't available to most men, because most live as unconscious betas and don't know about Red Pill, so TRP members don't feel threatened.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:01 PM
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That girl doesn't seem thrilled by you. You should next her, because kissing/banging should be desired by both parties, not only yourself. If she wanted to kiss you she would find a way to made it easy for you to take action. She probably just went out with you out of boredom, or curiosity, and then got uninterested in the meantime.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:16 PM
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Then neither of those two weren't meant to have sex (with each other), because they wouldn't want to leave their comfort zones. But accusing the guy as the only culprit is wrong. She also had the responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 09:41 AM
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If you're in America, I believe it's expensive. In Europe, all health-related interventions, are generally more affordable. Try talking with your parents, letting them know how much your condition affects your psychology and confidence. Suggest them to borrow you money which you'll repay in following years. If you ears really bother you, I wouldn't wait much to get them fixed.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:57 PM
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I did it over a summer break (had a lot of time to "recover") when I was 14. I was scared, because that was my first real surgery. Now I'm 22 and Looking back at it it was definitely worth it. I'm not getting laid much (thats another issue) but at least I like myself when I look in the mirror. You can google more about ortoplasty and watch some educational videos. Its one of most common and fastest surgeries.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:32 PM
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I suggest you do an ortoplasty. Its simple procedure taken with local anesthesia. Recovery lasts about 7-10 days, no scars, and within a month your ears will look like they've never been touched. Source: Been there, done that.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:22 PM
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Its all about reciprocity. You give them what they need, but only if they'll give you something in return. The rest is up to your imagination.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:18 PM
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Don't force yourself to Approach, no matter what most of Red Pillers say. I hate rejection as well, theferore I started practicing my own version of Passive game mode. Basically, you throw a hook, and see if anyting catches. Your hook is your excellence at job, having good car, money, or looks, and if girl is truly interested in you -- she'll let you know, directly or indirectly.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:49 PM
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Nofap is no different than some healty-diet practice, or alcohol-free lifestyle. No-fapping at all vs fapping every day -- both are bad. Balance is the key.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:44 PM
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How is Red Pill connected to you speaking out loud before thinking?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:36 PM
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OP has a point. If you go to a club/bar with intent to find quality relationship material -- you're just wasting your time. Atmosphere in bars/clubs just isn't adequate for finding LTR material. Even if you're looking for some quick-fun, odds of finding something valuable are low, epecially if you don't wanna come across as desperate beta. I'm not saying don't go to clubs/bars. Just go there with friends to have fun, without putting pressure on yourself that you're supposed to catch some plates.…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:48 PM
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I ain't gonna bang either way. At lest, I'm saving myself from shame by not approaching first. Since 2015 I've had 4 women to date with. Initial contact was made by them, and quickly led to meeting in person. I haven't proceeded to date them, because they weren't attractive enough for my standard. So I figured I should increase interest from good-looking ones by working on my finances, job and impressive achievements. Would like to add I'm 22, so I have years to look forward to.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:20 AM
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Nothing gets man motivated more to get things right than his average/bad look. I know that personally. I really wish you all the best. Hoping that I'll share similar experience one day!
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:14 AM
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Seems pretty close to what I was talking about. Thanks!
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:56 AM
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Just don't get lazy, Keep improving and surprising. She wouldn't be first to "monkey-branch" to other guy. After all, every woman is with the best guy she has access to at the moment.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:53 AM
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I wouldn't recommend it. You'd be closing doors to potential good-looking plates by making yourself "taken". Low quality plates tend to be indiscrete when they catch a guy, and thats lowering your social reputation as well. My advise: do harder at job/school, find a way to make money. That can give you access to more quality woman. Until that, fap or use escorts.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:46 AM
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Yep, It's an achievement, like landing a good job. It demostrates that you have some quality to attract and keep other value (a girl in your case). Anyway, I hope you are having your time used in the best possible way! Plenty of guys there didn't had that opportunity, and some may never will.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:40 AM
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Looks like you've been very lucky to have all those details/circumstances in one person and one relationship. Many dudes, including myself, are having trouble finding their expectations in 1 woman. Either she's hot, but uninterested, or she's warm for you but don't excite you sexually, etc... I get that girls are somewhat different in approach, but they're also very good manipulators who are capable of doing many things to fulfill their interest/desires. Thats why I'm not buying that "She's shy"…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:11 AM
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Agreed! It's pointless "chasing" anyone without some sense that it could lead in our favor. Ideally, it's direct approach (reaching via social networks, asking questions in person...), but indirect signs that you mentioned are also important. Also, woman who takes iniciative and active participation in relationship, is less likely to dump you easy, because you made her invest significant proportion of time/energy into relationship itself.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:54 PM
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I'd rather die making myself more valuable as human being, to the point where woman will want to reach out, than jumping from one to another in hope that some would have "mercy" to return what I provide. It all comes down to personal style: I just find it very attractive when someone truly wants me. If a relationship starts with your iniciative, it would quickly reflect on all other aspects of that relationship. You'd be expected to entertain, you'd be expected to do everything under the sun to …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:16 PM
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Thanks for taking time to dive into my post in very analytical manner. Intent of this post is to share my practice with Community and recieve some constructive feedback on is it good/bad. I want to minimize my chances of being rejected and that is not bad thing. I agree that unattractive girls would approach first more than attractive ones, but thats just because attractive don't (yet) see the reason to engage with me. I'm pretty certain that investing my time into building reputable career woul…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:56 PM
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I'm gonna be opionion-minority here, but if that girl truly and sincerely wanted to have sex with you, SHE would make a physical move. Especially if she saw that you're somewhat shy or action-abstained. She didn't make that move NOT because YOU'RE supposed to, but because she didn't want you THAT much, or she didn't needed sex so desparately. Rollo Tomassi said: "Woman who wants to fu.k you will find a way to fu.k you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your …
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