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| 1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?My thing is if you have to hit the gym and get money just to get a 5 at LEAST make it a 18 year old 5. After all that work you should maximize the reward as much as possible. Be Leonardo DiCaprio. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men?I mean apparently those women are undesirable for relationships by the top tier men. So why should undesirable women try to chase men way out of their league? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?I'm think he means not a women that will water board him with words. This is a skill that many women don't have. Ask them how the weather is this morning and get two hour monologue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 08:11 PM |
| -2 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Since when is being slim and having a mildly pretty face become a super high standard? Has Amercia fallen that much that buttfuck ugly and obese is now so common that asking for more than that is a high standard? Also he said off the bat. Most women know with in the first 20 seconds of meeting a guy if they want to date or bang him. Personality comes later for them too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 08:07 PM |
| 5 | CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you areI'm the same way but towards girls since I'm a dude. If a women doesn't immediately return my same level of interest I quickly change my interest into zero. Most because as dude said I know she's more focused on ANOTHER guy and I'm second best to no man. So bounce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 12:12 PM |
| -1 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Also friends of friends only works if you have friends that don't have all ugly female friends. Also you can't care if they have a boyfriend or not .... because most cute or attractive women do ...or at least guys their " talking to". Don't let that stop you. I always say ...don't let your current boyfriend keep you from your future husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 10:40 PM |
| -1 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Usually women meet strange men on dating apps and then go hook up with them in hotel rooms. That's how people meet and get together in 2025. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 10:29 PM |
| -2 | Feminism largely ignores women's part in shaping men and causing men mental issues.Women do subscribe to that logic in a way. They all think they're more attractive than they actually are and so think that most men are unattractive or deserving. They also rarely say what they mean. Like I want a guy with a good personality....but then they date a dude they think is attractive physically or has something else they want but he has the personality of a tree stump. Or I want the good guy but date the drug dealers who are constantly wanting to shoot at people. Women will date guys … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.Pretty sure I marriage vows say till death do us part. Yet if he went broke she would file for divorce. Ain't that something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.Let's be honest. Most rich men marry women who are gold diggers. It's kinda hard not too. Even rich women gold dig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 03:59 AM |
| -1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.My thing is all the women wanting a rich man ....but also wanting him to be monogamous....um why should he? Your only with him for the money. He should enjoy as many of you as he can....at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality...Also many women do other things which are much more harmful to the body. Like drugs or other activities. Pretty sure that wouldn't actually be their reason for getting a abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality...Ok so if she has a abortion because she was in a relationship with a man she knew from the get go she never wanted a child with and then later on HAS a kid with a man she does want kids with....she's clearly not worried about the damage to her body or pregnancy being unsafe....she just aborted it because SHE fucked up and didn't want to deal with the consequences of her choices. She stole someone's future because she was on some evil shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality...The baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality...If she doesn't wanna have it....then there's probably gonna be emotionally turmoil from that....and to my mind would make her kinda evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality...True if they don't want to get married or have kids then it wouldn't be a waste of time....unless she gets pregnant anyways....that's usually when they break up. Whether she has it or not. If she does then he's getting chased for child support. Stupid decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality...Most men would fuck a snake if you held it's head still. It's comes from rarely getting any and being willing to take what they can get. Women usually have a variable smorgasbord of choices so usually don't have to go.....well I'm kinda desperate so I'll fuck the goblin. Usually if a woman is willing to fuck you then she sees you as a potential long term mate. Although I think this has changed a lot. Because both women and men will now date someone for years that they know they would never want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality...I think women wanted to sleep with him MORE after he murdered someone. Now he's hot AND dangerous. Makes women wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Ahh now. It's because your choosing yourselves over relationships. Perhaps it's because you can't actually choose good men for relationships. Then you blame all men. Maybe men are single because their raising their standards from the floor and most women don't fit any standards that are not at the bottom. Think of it like a congo line. If the pole( standards) are 1 foot off the floor women lose the game . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.You mean why men struggle with relationships? Correct me if I'm wrong but women are on track to be like 60% single cat ladies by like 2030. So perhaps women's attitude's why they struggle to be in relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it.Women will hook up for free but you have to pay for a relationship. It's like paying the hooker to stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.To be honest in the past alcohol was what made people NOT be invisible. It was what got ugly people laid. Men and women. It was also the cause of many happy marriages. It was of course also the cause of a lot of problems. The problem with alcohol fueled sex, relationships is the men have to be extra careful because only men are held responsible. Pretty sure plunty of men who got drunk woke up the next morning next to a women and thought ...of shit ...I blacked out and now I'm in bed with the hun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.Are the women invisible or are they just not getting the attention they want? I'm of the opinion that invisible men are Invisible involuntarily while invisible women are invisible by choice. Guys still shot their shot or try to test the water only for the women to either shoot them down or start acting squirrely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like women's hookup standards are higher than relationship standards?I will say this is when they date or hook up with guys they meet in real life. Not the internet chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy.I'm pretty sure men empathize with women all the time. Women don't really empathize with men. And women show it when they say shit like....men don't know what it's like to be scared walking at night ...even though most people attacked and victimized walking at night are men. Pretty sure men know about danger at night walking alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 09:25 PM |
| – | Social media is putting a spotlight on "trad" culture, which is horrifying for everyoneI mean the opposite and opposing views of the trade wife life style are even less realistic. Be strong empowered sex fiends engaging in a string of shallow relationships and hook ups until 40 then get a cat. Not preferable in the long run I'd think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?Can't argue with you there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?As I said we get it done. Not play around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 12:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?Women should be more open to men that want multiple girlfriends who all only want him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?Women attempt suicide more often but men succeed more often because like in most things ...men are more capable and get shit done. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?True. Most of them these days can't cook anything that don't come from a box or premade anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?I'm not gonna lie though. Any average to attractive singer women who complain about their multiple dating experiences with men were probably attracted to terrible men. It's like if I have a plethora of different flavors of Skittles to choose from but I only want to eat the ones that taste nasty but then complain that I keep getting the nasty ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 01:28 AM |
| -2 | What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards?Facts. They may be single in a romantic sense ....that doesn't mean they're in bed alone. Probably got a rotation. At least the single women. Especially the average to attractive ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school?Yes but usually the husband is home with you and the kids after the 8 hours at work. At the point taking care of the kids becomes a team effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school?If the man's at work for 8 hours a day and the kids are In School 8 hours a day then you should have a 4 hour vacation everyday. Most house wives don't clean the entire house every single day. From what I've seen they break the house up into rooms by days of the week....or when they need to be done. There may be entire days where the house wife does very little but watch Jerry Springer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream mediaNot easy....but usually totally doable. Getting that muscular physique that a lot of women like isn't easy either. But plunty of skinny men with high metabolisms manage it to be found more attractive by the opposite sex. Many big people are just lazy and like to eat. Hitting the gym and eating healthy is not easy....but completely doable. Many many large women and men have done it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | If women/feminists are the reason dating is so difficult, why are gay men also struggling with dating?Yes but there is a difference. Men blame women because they either can't get a date or the women cheats on them. Women blame men for the men they actually do decide to date or cheat on their guy with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?That's true. They also don't realize the most likely reason she's in danger in the first place....is because she likes dating dangerous guys. It's not normal people getting a drive-by performed on their house or car usually. The point was that women act like they don't like guys who seem slightly creepy ( which usually means being nice. Not stalking) because he MIGHT be dangerous. Then turn around and chase the guy that's ACTUALLY going to get them killed or kill them himself....or at least fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?I agree there is a huge difference between being creep and dangerous. The dangerous guy is much more likely to skin you alive,stuff your remains in a box and dump you in the ocean. You know..... because he's on that kinda shit. I also agree a big population would rather date a broke felon than a autistic guy....unless that autistic guy makes 300k . He could drive a lambo onto any college campus and gold diggers will swarm him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?I highly doubt a man making 300k CAN scare away that many women . After all actual serial killers get serious fan mail....all from women . Actual gangsters who kill people but have a lot of money get women easy. Drug dealers who move kilos get women easily. Then again women have always seemed more scared of guys who seemed slightly creepy than guys who are blatantly dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 12:23 AM |
| – | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsGo out to do what though? Not everyone goes to the bar or club every weekend. Not everyone likes the party scene. A lot of young people prefer to go hiking or to the movies,comic cons ,the mall, the beach,or just sleep in and watch TV/ play video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsYes but there is a difference between some one who parties once in a blue moon or once every 6 months and party girl. Party girls at it every single weekend if not every night. Which is why their party girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployedMajority of them are not. This girl is young and still attractive. Life hasn't destroyed her yet. Give it time. She seems to be on that road of destruction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployedI'm currently unemployed and In a homeless shelter. I see a pretty 20 year old girl in here dating young drug addicts. All also homeless. Their not exactly of sound mind though I'd assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeBecause my original comment was people being in relationships with people that they don't even like or wanna be with in 10 years ...and you keep switching it to them being with people they actually like. Maybe you would never continue to date someone for seven years that you really didn't like....but many women have and will. Because their seemingly not very bright or feel like their getting something from it ...like free weed. Guys do the same kinda shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeMost of the guys on this sub have or would probably keep dating girls they couldn't stand just because she was hot. And yes if you turned me down to keep dating a guy who seems nice because he gives you free weed ( but you literally like nothing else about him) then after you did that for 6 months and finally got tired and decided to move on....don't try to back track and flirt or hit on me. I'm not gonna give ya free weed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeI understand your point. Yes if you actually like the person and continue to do so then you continue to date. You seem to be missing my point. You should keep dating someone you don't actually like or want . Just because a guy is cute and has the weed if not the basis for a serious 4 relationship when that's THE ONLY THINGS you like about him. Tying back into my original point....that would mean you turned me down because you thought I was a worse choice than the guy your currently dating who's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeNo. But you should go on a 4th date with some one you see a potential future of marriage with. Not someone you already know you would never wanna marry. Hell do people even actually date anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 01:21 AM |
| 0 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsWhich would in fact make her a drug addled whore. Since that would literally fit the definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:27 PM |
| 4 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsSorry some one mentioned that their fun because they'll suck your dick for coke in the club bathroom. Kinda set the tone for me. Also I'm pretty sure finding party girls who DON'T do drugs or suck dick in bathrooms will be a pretty hard find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:25 PM |
| -4 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsHe Had the drugs then I see. Also getting laid is one thing. Getting laid by girls your proud to get laid by is another thing. Big difference between getting laid by 30 ugly women and getting laid by 30 attractive ones( who aren't drug addled party girls). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:19 PM |
| 5 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsThat's the thing. The dudes DO get attached to the party girls. Like they don't realize their dating a drug addled whore.....even though they got her BECAUSE she's a drug addled whore. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:14 PM |
| 5 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsI 100% agree with this. Although I'd say most people in the west seem to be getting high on something. There is a reason the Mexican cartels makes hundreds of billions of dollars a year off Amercian citizens drug habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 0 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsI get your point. I'm also willing to bet that your the guy who if you were dating a girl who sucks dick in bathrooms for coke would stab or fight a guy if you caught her sucking his dick for coke. Which is insane. You know who your dating and should be clear in your expectations that she's gonna be sucking other dudes dicks for coke. She's a good time girl. Not wife martial. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:01 PM |
| -1 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsWell just keep in mind if your dating one she will also blow another guy for coke in a bathroom....then come kiss you. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeLet me guess.....you think you can change him or you just wanted to have some fun with the " good time guy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeThis goes for guys too. I see some many guys in relationships with women they don't even like. Just because she's attractive or is good in bed or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeHim doing something to MAKE you realize he's not the one AFTER the relationship is pretty much ended than realizing it from the get go or soon after you get together and still persisting in the relationship. If you've been together for for months and you know you wouldn't want him to be the father of your child then you should cut ties at that point. Why wait until 3 years later and now your pregnant and breaking up or hitting a clinic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 03:31 PM |
| 2 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeI think this is also why women and many men are so pro abortion. They planing on BEING in those kinda relationships and are trying to plan ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 08:12 PM |
| 3 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeThat's true but it also doesn't look good to keep dating someone you know you don't wanna be with. Wasting your time and theirs. This how people be ending up with 3 BM or BD and angry at life at 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeIn 2024 wouldn't it matter what TYPE of relationship it was? A lot of people are in relationships with people they don't want long term. No marriage or children with. If she turned me down for a boyfriend she saw no future with and would never want to father her kids what would that say about how she thinks of me? I was seen as worse than the guy who if she got pregnant she would want to abort his kids? Yeah no second chances for her either. Unless it's to hook up and bounce. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 02:56 PM |
| 6 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeIve also gotten petty and decided that once given a no a woman can't backtrack later when she's decided that she sees me as a viable option. Weither it be days weeks or years later. Had that happen. I see it as I'm no one's second choice. Should have said yes back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:30 AM |
| 6 | “I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiativeI've learned that when you ask a woman out and she says maybe that means no. It's either a immediately and enthusiastic yes or she will say I have to do something but how about ( insert date and time). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t?I think we need to understand many men are in relationships with women we might not want to date. I see many guys dating women that are below my personal standards. I'd rather be alone then date someone I find unattractive,has a terrible personality or loves drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee datesAsking a 30 year old woman to go ice skating is very different than when teenagers go on ice skating dates. Not a lot of adult women are into skating on a random Friday night. Let's be honest ....in 2024 most people don't even actually go on DATES. It's usually a hook up that turns into a relationship, Netflix and chill, or they hang out smoking weed together and then somehow become a couple. Hello most people aren't even going out with people they meet or know from everyday life. They'll say no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreMost people don't have friends like that though. They work and then go home. Bars and clubs are where you find whores not wives. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:04 PM |
| 11 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreThey only want men to approach them so they can reject them . It's a ego boost. Also to many women telling men to Stop approaching because it's creepy behavior. I assume those women are either in relationships or gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Guys don't have to worry about being judged for having strong sexual desires.Well at least men acknowledge that all men aren't tens. No do we all claim to be tens or feel like we deserve a 10. We recognize our dating place. Women should give it a try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Do men just not care about being abused as much as women?It's a lot easier to defend against a male attacker as a man than a female attacker. Lots of social stereotypes and pressures that men can't be raped or sexually assaulted by a woman. Also if she starts hitting you and you defend yourself YOU are now the abuser because....it's a woman and your a big strong man who should never put his hands on a woman ...even to shove her away. In public men will jump forward to protect a woman from an abusive man. Even women will come to her aid. No one will he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:57 PM |
| -2 | Fathers of kids born from sex tourism shall not be hold responsible for those kidsMost of those women are already single moms by native men who knocked them up and then ran away and left them as single moms. If their pushing for child support then they need to chase down all the native guys and make them get their work checks garnished for child support and if they can't pay toss them in jail like they do in the USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:41 PM |
| -1 | Fathers of kids born from sex tourism shall not be hold responsible for those kidsNot to mention those women usually have kids by native men who bounced on them and left them as single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:38 PM |
| 0 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityWhen I personally talk to them I can also see their personalities. Do you think women are the only people who can see and judge a man's personality? How conceited of you. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me'sAlthough pearl has gone even farther and said she doesn't think women should be able to vote at all because their to emotional and don't think logically. That the fact that they " think" with their emotions makes them to easy to manipulate by the political parties. Any man who actually knows women can't really argue her logic. Might not agree with her finale opinion but you can't really argue against her argument. However I wouldn't say that makes her anti woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me'sBecause that's one of the issues pearl brings up that people say is her " hating on women" or that makes her a " pick me". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityTo be honest I don't think personality does either. That's why so many women saying men ain't shit. Because they chose the dudes with terrible personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:06 AM |
| 3 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityA real Chad of the kind your talking about..... extremely attractive and with his shit together wouldn't take the average women seriously. Why would he when he's got looks,money and everything else? He'd pump and dump them or ignore them. Only top of the line women on his level are worth his time in a serious relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:04 AM |
| 6 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityPersonality only comes into play only if the woman already finds you attractive enough to get to know you. Most times if she doesn't already find you attractive she's not trying to hang around you to see your personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:00 AM |
| 10 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityWhat's funny is I see really pretty girls madly in love with dudes who have zero sense of humor,not a lot of charisma, and a seemingly permanent mean mug. If he has a personality it would seemingly be that of a serial killer. Yet some how he got the " hottie from work". Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?To be honest both men and women care about N-count. Just going in different directions. Women look down on men who don't get laid and call them incels or lames. Men look down on women who get laid to much and call them hoes,whores,tramps extra. Men have vastly less options than women and have to put in a lot more work to get laid. Women have a shit ton of options and have to have crap tons of self control and the ability to choose Good long term mating partners. So to the minds of women 30 year … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me'sLike on voting.women want to vote but not sign up for selective service. Men HAVE to sign up for selective service in order to vote. Is that equal? Women should either have to sign up for selective service or lose the ability to vote. I'm not for doing away the draft just so women can vote with out being held to the same responsibilities of men. For one with out the draft china would know and the USA would know....we couldn't beat them in a war which would mean we were all bark no bite and china… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 01:54 PM |
| 2 | A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me'sI agree with you. You shouldn't hate on other people just to make someone else like you. However I think pearl is said to be hating on women mostly because she points out the double standards women have,calls out the bullshit they engage in and admits that accountability is women's kryptonite. Male pick me's( the male feminist) do the exact opposite. They cover for women,never hold them accountable,blame everything on men . I think both men and women should held accountable. I think if we want e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 01:49 PM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Depends on how many kids you have. I know women who clear 2k or more a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:54 AM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?Social security in the thousands of dollars a month,food stamps in the thousands of dollars, low income housing ( some of them very nice apartments or houses) for like 30$ a month, child support from the fathers ( the fathers can easily do prison time for not paying) and money from their current partner. Plus all kinds of other benifits and discounts. I work factory jobs working 40-60 hours a week and have no kids....I see single moms working part time jobs at fast food restaurants living 3 time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:42 AM |
| -10 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?If you could get a dad you totally would? Try working 40 hours a week and only getting half your check because of child support. The mom however gets money from her kids dad,her new guy,the government and what ever job she does. Hell just in tax returns alone it's 3000$ per child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:13 AM |
| -9 | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?I mean women with kids to also get crap tons of benefits. Which is why you see so many women choosing to have multiple kids by multiple dudes they know for a fact won't make good dads just so they can live the easy life in those benifits. If your a man with kids and the mom has them you get taxed or stuck in jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me'sA lot less of them are single than the friend zoned male pick me's. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 11:34 AM |
| 4 | A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me'sSo let me get this straight....taking men's side is now hating on women? So wouldn't that mean men taking women's side are hating on other men and also angry losers who no women in their right mind would want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 02:36 AM |
| 3 | A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me'sTheir not. Pick me's get picked faster than the man hating feminist who hate them. That's the difference between female pick me's and male pick me's ( male feminist simps). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Women are not entitled to anything from menWell I think it depends. The same dudes that will watch a women be attacked and/ or murdered in front of him and not do anything will quickly risk death to save her if the crime being committed is rape. Men do still have boundaries and things they will gladly risk death to save strange women from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cThe don't resent the woman making them wait. They resent the WHORE making them wait. A Hoe for other men but a chast Christian Nun for them. Also the men the Whore for don't gotta pay for shit, or even have a job ...hell the MF can be a complete drug addict. But the guy she makes wait has to have his shit together and be " emotionally intelligent". Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:25 AM |
| -2 | Why do *some men, try to convince virginal & low n count women to have sex without marriage/commitment?It's assumed that since you like sexual pleasure with different men so much that you will continue to do so...either on a regular basis or any time the relationship gets stressed. Dudes be finding out 20 years later the kid they raised wasn't theirs. Big risks are involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:24 AM |
| -2 | Why do *some men, try to convince virginal & low n count women to have sex without marriage/commitment?You can tell a lot of times. Usually the entire reason a woman has a high body count is because of personality traits. Women with high body counts are the female version of incels except more so. Incels are incels because they have zero choice in the matter usually. Women with high body counts 100% chose to be that way. It will definitely show more in her personality traits. Incels stop being incels usually as soon as some girl actually gives them love and attention. Loose women will always be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?How do you know their legit of their not investigated or prosecuted? Where you there? Seems kinda biased. One could flip it and say most are bullshit which is WHY their not investigated or prosecuted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"This is true. How ever the nice guy, similar interest,stable stuff will only come into play once a woman is actually willing to get to know you....and she's usually only willing to get to know you if she finds you attractive....so average looks ( which is the majority of men) + money,drugs, status....then the personality stuff comes later. As a man I've known women to meet a average looking or even mildly handsome guy at work,laugh and joke with him for months but rejected his offers to meet up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 04:32 AM |
| 2 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"I mean the whole protector/ provider dynamic is set up for women to fuck a man's money. Otherwise why can't women be the provider and still respect a man as a man if she's attracted to his looks and personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 09:49 PM |
| -6 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"And the guy doesn't even have to be super rich. Just wealthy enough to make most your problems go away. Like here in Ohio earning 1000$ to 1500$ a week will make you much more " attractive" in the eyes of a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 07:41 PM |
| -4 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"I understand that's your personal stance. However most women seem to feel differently. For instance if a average looking guy hit on them and was wearing Walmart vest where he was a cashier they would have zero interest and maybe even think he was creepy. If a average looking guy drove up in a Tesla or Lamborghini and hit on them he would get a very different response. Women get hit on constantly and find almost none of those guys attractive. How ever if those guys looked like they had money it w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 07:40 PM |
| -4 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"I mean women will quickly get with a rich guy they would never have dated or screwed if he was broke. Unless your gonna try to argue money and status makes women physically attracted to someone then they quit literally sleep with, date and marry guys their unattracted to all the time. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Do women sexually harass men more often?She was the original UFC female champion. Also played the female cop who betrayed the Rock in the fast and the furious movie where they went against Jason statham's character's brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"Not sure why a man who went through all that and was ignored should date a 30 or 40 year old women who probably had multiple hoe phases and has tones of trauma and a few kids though. At reaching the financial Pinnacle he deffently deserves better. Better as in 20 years old and hot. Why should he " settle for less". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 09:49 AM |
| 5 | Do women sexually harass men more often?Pretty sure Gina Serrano could rape any guy Kevin Harts size that she wanted too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 09:44 AM |
| 7 | Do women sexually harass men more often?That also depends. Pretty sure a small slim man would have a lot more trouble removing a tall fat woman. In fact solid chance he would actually get raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Do women sexually harass men more often?Women also seem to sexually harass other women than men do and get away with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee datesThe funny thing is women say they don't owe you sex just because you paid for the date ....yet they also think you owe them a 500-700$ first date. The hypocrisy is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageMost young men would have zero problem hooking up,dating or sleeping with much older women. Most of society wouldn't see those young men as victims of " grooming " either. Unlike the stereotypes for young women. No the probably wouldn't marry them....but they for sure would be hook up buddies or even short/ long term date. Most young men and women are not getting married either. Which is why you have more single moms aged 30 than women that has been married to the father of their children for ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageYeah but middle aged men ain't saying hey....when I was 20 and hot I turned you down because you were too old ...ya pervert ...but not that I'm 30-35 with my looks fading ,broke with 2 kids by the young guys I wanted who are dead beat dads I've noticed you have a great job,a house and a car,come take care of me and these kids. That's the stuff women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageAlso that man isn't gonna expect that same women he turned down at 40 to clean up another woman's mess at 50 when he finally decides she is in fact worth his while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageBecause a 40 year old man isn't gonna turn around and want that women at 50 either because he's messed up and she had nice things. That's the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:26 PM |
| -1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyYoung pretty girls jump on social media get a lot of male attention and think they deserve Henry Cavill because all the attention went to their head. Blue checks in their DMs and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:46 AM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageYou say older women have more experience but I think they are more bitter,angry,insecure,and cold hearted/ angry due to that " experience". The most toxic relationships I've seen tend to be the ones with women in their 30s and 40s. Your not just dating her....your dating all her ex's and trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 02:25 AM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageThat's s because the older they get the less options they have. So their age gap restrictions grow larger. I'm not sure why a 40 year old man would want to step dad a 30 year old woman's kids when that same woman would have rejected his attention and seen him as a pervert ten years ago when she wasn't a washed up single mom. Actually seems pretty disrespectful to that guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.It's ok to say yes every blue moon. Just not 4 times a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Nope just saying they are virgins by choice. No women who truly Wants to have sex....won't have sex. To many men are lonely,get drunk,are horny and have almost zero standards for it to be that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.If their mildly pretty I probably have....and tried to hit on them....me amongst many other guys. Pretty sure if socially awkward guys got hit on by pretty girls aggressively They would get laid fairly quickly. I imagine it would be the same for the girls... Except for the rejection part. Reject reject reject is their motto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Pretty sure plunty of men have still tried. Even if they are socially awkward and butt ugly I'm willing to bet guys still shoot their shit occasionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.It for sure is a thing in day to day face to face life and ...in case you haven't noticed ...only fans is a major thing. Dudes are literally paying out millions of $ just to see a women nude ....and that women would rather DIE by getting stung by a thousand bees than touch any of them . Those girls should be working real jobs or being house wives....or at least be working strip clubs are working corners. The country is so messed up now sex works can be done by the average every day college girl.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.If they are it's 100% by choice. Not the same thing. There are many men who are 30 year old virgins....and it's not because they wanna be. Any women who wants to get laid ...can and will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Ain't no such thing as sexless women. Men are more than happy to treat sex as a basic need for women. Even the ugliest women can get laid ten times a day. I think what men need to stop doing is giving women money or paying for their stuff unless their getting sex from them. Women can get jobs now and the man they ARE having sex with is the one supposed to be providing for her. If a girl asks you to pay her phone bill ...say no....unless she gonna suck you off. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?I mean rape is usually committed by people your already in some type of relationship with not strangers and from what I've saw many women get into domestic violence relationships because they willing date guys already convicted of DV.... multiple times. A woman will start dating a guy , fall in love, find out he's got a rape case from 25 years ago and run for the hills..the same women will will start dating a guy ,fall in love ,find out he's been convicted of domestic violence 13 times and just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?The funny thing is most women don't wanna take the time to get to know a man's personality unless they already find him attractive. Which is why they turn down 99.9999% of the men that ask them out. They have NO Clue about those men's personality....they just know their not attracted to them. Also women work with a lot of men.....they only ones they want to hang out with AFTER work....are the ones they find attractive....unless of course there is other factors....like he has the drugs/ money/ co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:16 AM |
| -2 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityI thought women are strong, independent,make their own money and don't need a man? Why would they need the government to pay for their kids when their apparently rolling in money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 09:00 PM |
| 6 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityAll these women crying about men not paying child support or stepping up as dad's also support women having abortions because THEY don't to accept responsibility for the kid they created. If women feel so strongly that they should be able to kill a man's unborn child against his will then I'm of the opinion all men should abandon their kids from now on. Same logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:58 PM |
| 10 | CMV When a man doesn’t want a child but a woman still gives birth, a man should be cleared of the financial responsibilityThen women should also let the man know upfront that in the event of a unwanted pregnancy she is either gonna abort or keep it. Not leave it to a last minute decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Women in their 40s tend to be ugly AF. Men in their 40s age better than women for sure. Unless their Asian. Asians beat every other race In aging gracefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 02:13 AM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Most 30 year old dudes ain't chasing 30 year old women. Especially if she has kids and he doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Not wanting to date older dudes is a young women thing. Once you hit 30 that shit goes out the window. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.It's not weird logic. When you were at your most attractive 19-20-21-22-23 and had the most options you thought dudes who are 10-20 years older are not good enough or their weird if they are attracted to a younger woman. Later on after lots of hook ups and baby daddy's your own age your now 30 ,a single mom and struggling financially. That same dude you would have shit on in your younger years is now doing great in life. House, nice car, money in the bank y'all get love struck eyes over. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 01:04 PM |
| 2 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.The same guys you would have called creeps or turned down 10 years earlier now look like attractive options. Especially if they're doing well in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 12:53 PM |
| 0 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Not when you hit 30 and above. All of a sudden dating gets harder and your dating options go down drastically. Especially if you're single mom. All of a sudden age don't matter. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 12:52 PM |
| 0 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.If your 40 or 50 guys remember that a 30 year old women was 20 when you were 30 or 40. She thought you were too old and only wanted to date guys her age and probably would have rejected you. Now that she's hit the wall and is washed up her dating age bracket has expanded....screw that make them stay with in two or 3 years of her own age. Don't fall for the trap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:36 AM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.A woman won't even give a man the chance to show them traits unless she is already attracted and into him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:32 AM |
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