dimitrije83 Archive

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2	Throwaway - I'm fucked up inside me. I think that you put too much pressure on the outcome of your interactions with other people. You should talk to as many people as you possibly can until the conversation itself becomes enjoyable and not just a step you need to take in order to get someones phone number. You are actively trying to make people like you in your interactions and this is making you hyper-aware of yourself, your posture, their feedback. You can't just relax in their presence, you need to feel that they like you. This…	/r/seduction	02/02/15 12:28 AM
1	Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now... Yes, this was exactly what happened to OP.	/r/seduction	12/01/15 11:31 PM
27	Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now... I fucking salute you! Just remember, the way to attack anxieties is through incremental, but high frequency exposure. Not single, extreme exposure.	/r/seduction	11/01/15 11:52 AM
5	McAlphaDick pulls my girl so I respond by pulling another one. She comes back like nothing happened. If the scale goes to 9, then 9 is 10.	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/14 03:35 PM
1	Why do I keep defaulting to give-up/beta mode? Well, i am currently reading the book myself and i fully recommend it. I plan to move on to the workbook after i finish it, so i can't really say anything about it right now.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/13 04:46 PM
2	Why do I keep defaulting to give-up/beta mode? There is also a nice chapter in the "Feeling good" by David Burns. It is a cognitive therapy book that deals with depression, but the chapter can be used on its own. It is called "Do-Nothingism". It tries to explain the cognitive mechanisms that go on to create a downward spiral of not doing what you know you want to do. You may end up with a lot of negative feelings towards yourself for not doing the things you are supposed to and for not understanding where this aversion comes from.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/13 02:54 PM
23	Negs only work if you're funny. Everything works if you are funny.	/r/seduction	06/11/12 04:30 PM
2	Why Looks Don't Matter You don't need to oversimplify things to make your point,which now happens to be lost because of that. We do feel the attraction first and then rationalize it according to our beliefs, but we are biologically wired to do so. But many, many factors are to be taken into equation. The one you are mentioning is very important but still just one piece of a puzzle.	/r/seduction	20/08/12 01:01 AM