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Dating multiple women (and being open about that) is what you are SUPPOSED to do. At any one time I am usually seeing 3-5, sometimes more. Hang out, have fun, hook up, repeat. After about 8-10 weeks, some of these women will be falling in love with you. That's when they'll bring up the "where is this going" topic which usually means "I want to be exclusive" BUT NOT ALWAYS so always ask "What do you mean". Then the ball is in your court. If you want to just keep banging, tell them you enjoy seein…
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:25 PM
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Don't overthink it. If he's looking, he likes what he sees.
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:15 PM
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Focus on you, not others.
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:12 PM
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LOL
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:11 PM
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Unless your humour is on point, don't joke about stuff when she touches you (might make her super awkward). Just reciprocate. If she touches you, it means touching is OK and she wants to be touched back. Two strats at party. Hang out early, seduce her early, leave early to go back to yours OR be a social butterfly, ignore her, meet other women, and she'll either persue you hard OR if she's insecure, get butthurt.
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:10 PM
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Women around 30 are generally HORNY AS FUCK (nature's way of saying have a baby before you can't). Even approaching 40s. Plenty of cougars out there will prey on young guys. So you have hope. But it's true. Most women prefer older men (successful provider) and most men prefer younger women (more beautiful) You just need to find women who like younger guys. OR really want dick and aren't fussed about age or status. Thinking about it, less than 5% of the women I've slept with have been older than …
/r/seduction13/10/18 03:21 AM
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Men are retarded. Women are not.
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:48 AM
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If he's looking, he's interested. If he doesn't approach, he's afraid. Return eye contact, smile and wave him over if he's not confident enough to approach you
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:08 AM
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You need to give women more credit. They always know. Some will say yes even though they're not interested in you romantically, just for the free meal and conversation, but they always know. Next you'll tell lots of women who are approached by men aren't sure that the man is interested in them.
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:07 AM
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*dinner
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:05 AM
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No no no. Don't be a weak beta and say "I'm not sure if your seeing anyone but...". If she is seeing someone she will tell you.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:50 AM
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"Let's go for a drink next week. When are you free?" Her answer will tell you everything.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:48 AM
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You fucking idiot. Yeah, my angry coach persona is out. You kissed her ON THE CHEEK? Jesus dude. That tells her only one of two things: I'm rejecting you. I only like you as a friend. I have no romantic interest in you. OR I'm so insecure and lacking in confidence that I am scared of being rejected if I go for a real kiss, so I'll protect my ego and just kiss your cheek because I'm a pussy. This is why she is not replying immediately. Don't ever text her again. You rejected her (in her eyes). If…
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:47 AM
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Ex? Leave them in the past and move on.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:42 AM
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Maybe she's a virgin. Maybe she hasn't shaved her pussy in a month and is self conscious. Maybe you suck. Maybe she just wants company. Maybe you are uncalibrated. Like, don't try and take off her panties if she's not dripping wet and squirming with pleasure.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:41 AM
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Same way you approach someone outside work. Don't be a creep, say hi, and go from there. FWIW, have slept with many colleagues. Was fun but can cause tensions..
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:36 AM
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You have the time. But you have even more excuses.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:33 AM
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Did you check her logistics? Can you go back to hers, yours or either? It's pretty easy. Hang out, have fun, escalate, then drop the old "Let's watch a Disney movie at yours" or "Let's get out of here. I have a great bottle of wine at home" or some other excuse. If she's DTF you will get little to no resistance. Except maybe "Ok.... but we're not having sex tonight" which is always the last thing women say before having sex.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:29 AM
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Always be finding other girls. You want to be dating a bunch at the same time. Never focus on just one, or two, or three. If you ask confidently in a few weeks, she'll still probably give you the same "I'm not sure when I'm free" but you don't have much to lose. But if you get two "not sure" responses don't bother again. Go find more girls between now and then.
/r/seduction13/10/18 01:06 AM
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Doesn't sound interested. May have something to do with how you asked too. She would have sensed your nervousness (much better to spike her emotions, have her laughing etc then ask) but more importantly.... Be confident e.g. "You're fun. Let's hang out. When are you free?". This is what a confident guy who knows his worth asks. It assumes she wants to go out with you and it's just a matter of scheduling. All she has to do is tell you a day and you have a date. MUCH better than "Do you maybe wann…
/r/seduction12/10/18 10:04 PM
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Great, all the best.
/r/seduction12/10/18 05:08 PM
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All the best my friend :) I jus speak what I THINK I know.
/r/seduction12/10/18 02:43 AM
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RSDmax has some great content on text/tinder game. I'm not sure if any free videos are out there but try YouTube. Golden advise. Like one strat of his, I heard, sent that style of text to 8 chicks who had ALL ghosted me and NEVER written back after I got their number. Three weeks later I'd slept with four of them. GG
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:41 AM
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Bro, you are needy AF. More truth bombs to come. "Talking intensely" is why you lost her. No mystery. You became her male tampon and listened to all her shit like a FRIEND would do. Most guys talk women right out of liking them.. you're among them in this case. I used to do the same. Next time, keep the contact minimal, don't talk much about yourself so she has a lot to wonder about. Be funny and fun. p.s. If a girl reaches out after a while, always set up a date. Then don't contact her til you …
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:38 AM
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Agreed, if she's into you, yes she will say yes. Not my point. My point is it puts less pressure on her, and keeps her out of her head when you're on the date. Little stuff like this makes a HUGE difference my man.
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:35 AM
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It puts too much pressure on women. It is much better to just ask "When are you free to have a drink?" etc. Same implication, but no pressure or assumptions. Put yourself in a woman's shoes. Guy 1 says "Let's go for a drink". She thinks "Cool, we'll hang out and see what happens. I hope he's fun". Guy 2 says "Let's go on a date". She thinks "I hope he doesn't expect to fuck me after the date like every other day". It's a suble difference that makes all the difference. It's EXACTLY the same as wh…
/r/seduction11/10/18 10:10 PM
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You just need more practice dude. Get the sex cardio, flexibility and technique up and you'll be fine. If you have a decent dong, you won't be slipping out in any position with a reasonable technique. Unless the woman is also a noob. Work on your upper body strength too. Often I literally hold a woman in place, pull/push her up and down my dick when she's on top, when I'm behind etc. This includes tilting her hips to a better angle.
/r/seduction11/10/18 10:01 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/seduction11/10/18 09:56 PM
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Act like it didn't happen. Show it didn't phase you and see what happens.
/r/seduction11/10/18 09:55 PM
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Never, ever, EVER do group dates (until you are madly in love with each other). First up, when you ask a girl out BE SPECIFIC SO THIS ALMOST NEVER HAPPENS e.g. "Let's meet 7:30pm Wednesday at XXX for a drink". If women ask if friends can tag along, always say no. But do it as gently as you can, use humour if appropriate etc. e.g. "I heard your friends are boring, so just us is better haha". or "I want to get to know you so let's keep it to just us". If done right she'll agree e.g. "Ok sure, soun…
/r/seduction11/10/18 09:53 PM
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Bad idea. Never use the word "date".
/r/seduction11/10/18 09:48 PM
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I'm in such a place of abundance with women that next time I saw them and they were joking around I'd say straight up "You girls are fun, who wants to be first to have a drink with me?" And I'd watch the reactions and go from there.
/r/seduction11/10/18 09:47 PM
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Initially, more often they'll just reach out when they want to see you eg "hey I just saw an apple that reminded me of you" or "this is random but I just ate the best gelato". That's when you set the next date. When you've been dating a while and they are falling for you, some women will start asking you out directly or asking when they can see you next.
/r/seduction11/10/18 08:39 PM
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No. But go for the fucking kiss this time. If you get the cheek, she's been enjoying the free meals. If she kisses you back, you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction10/10/18 11:53 PM
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Live and learn
/r/seduction10/10/18 11:52 PM
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ALWAYS GO FOR A KISS AT THE END OF A DATE. DON'T ASK WOMEN OUT FOR ANOTHER DATE WHILE YOU ARE ON A DATE. Rookie errors, but major ones.
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:58 PM
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Fuck me.. here we go again. Take none of this personally dude, but my angry coach persona needs to come out so you and others can learn. And before I start, congratulations for getting out of your comfort zone. Keep going out, asking for help, reading books etc. This is a good learning experience and below are two mistakes you will NEVER MAKE AGAIN. DON'T EVER fucking ask a girl out for the next date while you are ON a date. It shows you are needy and insecure (If I don't ask her now, I may neve…
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:56 PM
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How much girls are we talking about here dude? 2? 20? How many haven't texted you back? It's common to get a number and never hear from a small % of girls. Many reasons: She never liked you but was being polite An ex came back into her life I approached her an hour later and was so smooth she forget you exited Her emotions were all over the place that day because of one of a million reasons
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:47 PM
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Tell us more about the fight. Maybe other can learn from it. I have a feeling your true colors came out in shades of: insecure, needy, lacking confidence (hence getting into a fight). And scared her off. But maybe it was self defence.
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:44 PM
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the best way to respond to questions like this is to ask "What do you mean?" Asking this will draw out more from her. Never assume she what she wants. She might say "I don't want anything serious" or "Honestly I'm just after some casual dick" or "I want to be exclusive with you" etc. Ask "What do you mean?" AGAIN. Keep at it until she tells you specifically what she wants. It's amazing how effecive this is. AND it avoids you fucking up by assuming she wants what you want and blurting it out. If …
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:40 PM
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You can read it free on Corey's website. Or listen free on an audible trial. Do that. I have no idea what the fuck indirect game or mystery method is. I know the terms but not their meaning.
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:31 PM
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I would need to see the exact exchange to be sure but sounds like she still wants your dick, and is giving herself a typical "girl excuse" so if you do hang out and successfully seduce her, she can tell herself "I told him I have a bf and we were just hanging out as friends. I don't know how it happened. It's not my fault.". Common. Tread carefully.
/r/seduction10/10/18 05:31 PM
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Good luck.
/r/seduction09/10/18 04:49 PM
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If you hesitate, you masturbate. Learn this lesson only once.
/r/seduction09/10/18 02:38 AM
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I'm 0 from hundreds. I do not worry about shit like this.
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:53 PM
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Except movie dates are the worst idea ever. I know it was an example but never do movie dates. EVER.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:57 PM
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Back off, give her some space etc then ask when she's free to hang out, set up a date, don't pussy out of the kiss this time. Many girls will give you a second chance. But many won't.
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:14 PM
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What do you expect? How is she supposed to feel special if she KNOWS you are C&Ping the same shit to her and a bunch of other women? Out yourself in her shoes. You massively failed her shit test. Yes it was a test. YOU failed. You shouldn't have tried to justify yourself (you come across as a weak, insecure man). You should have said something funny instead of being butthurt. Learn from this.
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:33 PM
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$100 says you didn't go for the kiss on the first date, she felt rejected, you messaged her immediately after thus robbing of her ability to wonder about you and how it went etc and you firmly sealed your fate in the friendzone. If a woman ever says a variation of "I'm not ready for a relationship" it means "WHOA! SLOW DOWN BUDDY." You are making her uncomfortable by trying to possess her or coming across needy or unsure of yourself. I never use the word "date" but it was probably more than that…
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:28 PM
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Well, at least she knows herself... And we can all agree on her being crazy.
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:16 PM
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Well, at least she knows herself... And we can all agree on her being crazy.
/r/seduction08/10/18 04:34 PM
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Have something worth saying and say it. Your insta will grow naturally. Of course, tag everything. You'll reach more people, faster.
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:19 AM
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Just own it. I tell women and men that I'm a huge nerd, all the time.
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:18 AM
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Ignore her. Wait til she texts again. Then ask when she's free to hang out.
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:17 AM
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The list thing I usually hear before fucking a woman is some form of: "I'm not having sex with you tonight". "No" usually means "how much do you really want me? How much of a man are you? Will you break down my barriers".
/r/seduction08/10/18 12:01 AM
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Subconsciously, you don't feel like you deserve her, so you are doubting yourself. Become awesome, or realise you already are (if true) and go for it.
/r/seduction07/10/18 09:32 PM
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You just need 10 of these girls. Some will reach out, showing a high level of interest.
/r/seduction07/10/18 09:13 PM
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I spent my 20s investing heavily in myself. Like, 100s of books, courses, seminars, mentors, starting businesses, learning to invest, networking, challenging myself constantly etc. My confidence grew in proportion to my skills. I went from hanging out with alcoholic, negative LOSERS to hanging out with healthy, happy, wealthy people who INSPIRE, MOTIVATE and ENCOURAGE. Then opportunities flooded in. I've spoken at events on everything from goal setting to wealth creation. I've been on national t…
/r/seduction07/10/18 09:12 PM
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Yeah, it can happen. But I value my time and money far too much to waste it on a second date with a girl who didn't kiss on the first. Plenty of fish.
/r/seduction07/10/18 08:58 PM
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LOL, I didn't see this til now but yeah, those points make my case. FUCKED IN THE HEAD. Don't get my wrong. I love crazy bitches as much as the next guy but what KIND of crazy is very important. Recently had to friend zone literally the hottest woman I've ever taken out because I realised she was insecure AF, crazy AF and her head was a twisted mess.
/r/seduction07/10/18 08:56 PM
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This makes it even worse. She's clearly DTF yet wouldn't even kiss you... = totally fucked in the head. Pursue at your own peril. Don't say I didn't warn you dude :) Been in this situation many times in my life and didn't learn my lesson for a long time.
/r/seduction07/10/18 08:53 PM
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She'll know if you want to hang out that you're interested. Unless you do something dopey like ask her to a movie. That's what friends do. In person is always the most confident way to ask. Calling is next best. Back off a little and see how she responds. If she seems interested an engaged at school, ask her then.,
/r/seduction07/10/18 08:50 PM
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Low chance she wants to go out with you, but you have nothing to lose. She KNOWS the intention behind your suggestion to celebrate..
/r/seduction06/10/18 10:18 PM
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A lesson to everyone reading this. If you go out with a girl who won't kiss because of some stupid rule in her head (like "I don't kiss on the first date") politely wrap up the date and NEVER speak to her again. Women this like are FUCKED in the head. 100% of the time. TRUST ME ON THIS. A woman who will fight what she wants and feels because of an arbitrary rule she has made up is a basket case. And you can be sure she has a bunch of other retarded expectations and rules which will come out over…
/r/seduction06/10/18 08:12 PM
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So far, so good!
/r/seduction06/10/18 08:04 PM
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Doesn't sounds good. Women rarely say "I do not like you, I do not want to go out with you ever" etc. Just lay off the texts. Wasit til you hear from her. Sounds like you have a low chance of going out with her. It a total stud asked her out today I can tell you should would be in bed, but not resting.
/r/seduction06/10/18 08:04 PM
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Your mindet is fucked. If you keep thinking they way you are thinking, you will be forever alone. I am telling you this so you can accept your fate or change how you think.
/r/seduction06/10/18 08:03 PM
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Simple rule has served me well: LET HER DO 80% OF THE TALKING. Women like to wonder about you. They like mystery. "Most guys talk women right out of liking them"
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:47 PM
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None of us can be 100% on 100% of the time. It happens.
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:46 PM
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99% she has anxiety and is insecure. Very common.
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:45 PM
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If you're non-romantically hanging out with a lady friend that you wanna eventually be romantic with, you are in her FRIENDZONE. You are a beta orbiter. You have almost NO chance of her EVER being romantically interested in you. But to answers your question, just be humourous "This is my sister. We sometimes fuck.".
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:43 PM
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I get so excited when an AMOG or weak-insecure-needy-bitch tries this shit on me. It's a great chance to: Demonstrate your confidence Rek the AMGO in front of his peers A recent example: HB9 dragged me onto the dance floor. Moments later a GIANT, JACKED AF BEAST tapped me on the shoulder, I turned and he gestured for me to "get lost". I smirked, and turned back to the girl. Immediately he tapped me again, harder. I turned and he wound his fist back threatening to punch me as if I was dancing wit…
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:39 PM
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NO MOVIE DATES. (Fucking stop doing this guys, movies are the worst dates. Literally worse than a funeral. STOP IT). p.s. not a personal attack, this is for everyone else reading too. Don't text too much. Set a date. Ask something like "Let's hang out. When are you free next week? Don't text to much. Show her a good time on the date. Let her do 80% of the talking. Easy. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:28 PM
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Doesn't matter one bit dude. NOT ONE BIT. I dress like I'm autistic, am currently travelling the world, haven't had a haircut for months, haven't shaved for months, am wearing geeky travel clothes, and am in the midst of my most sccessful run of all time. If you want to look sharp for its own sake, that's cool. But it means literally NOTHING when it comes to women.
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:25 PM
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Hmm. Not enough info to be sure but based on experience, here's probably the situation: She was hoping you would kiss her, you didn't, she feels like you rejected her so now you're skating on the edge of the friend zone Now you are asking her stuff like how her exams went which is what a FRIEND would do BUT you also suggested you celebrate so she knows you are still interested in her HOWEVER, there is a high risk that since you didn't make a move, she sees you as weak, insecure, not confident IF…
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:22 PM
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Roll with it. Maybe friendly, probably more. p.s. Taking photos is a very fun way to turn an innocent afternoon into a home made porn fest. So it having an "art day" which involves drawing/painting each other.
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:19 PM
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Women don't care about the words, it's the feeling behind them. If you get a boner talking about Magic Cards and she sees your DEEP passion and INTENSE interest, she'll be turned on. The same is true if your passion is making concrete, hunting pigs or playing Warcraft. Just OWN it. I am into nothing but esoteric and weird shit. Almost none of the women I date give a fuck about any of my interests but they love to see my passion come out when I talk about my passions. p.s. Let her do 80% of the t…
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:17 PM
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LOL, expensive dinner and flowers. Attractive women always have swarms of beta orbiters. Let it be. That's all there is to it. p.s. Most of the women I have dated have a bunch of orbiters in the friendzone and can be VERY savage. I mean S-A-V-A-G-E in the way they talk about their orbiters. They NEVER respect them because they are weak, needy and insecure. Free meals, drinks and movies? Why not take advantage.
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:13 PM
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Make them laugh. Keep it short. If I ever get one word answers like that I'll say something like "I didn't realise you were so boring". She'll either unmatch (no loss, she wasn't intersted anyway) or She'll get butthurt (no loss, easy way to screen insecure women) or She'll laugh and you'll break through If you're not getting anywhere, just move on. Had a great one the other day. Matched, opened with "Let me guess, you're <something>, <something> and <something>". (forget what I said, just some …
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:06 PM
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Not sure if srs, so saving time. Srs or no?
/r/seduction06/10/18 06:55 PM
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Of course. Teasing is something you should always be doing, anyway. There is nothing WRONG you can say if you say it in the RIGHT way.
/r/seduction06/10/18 06:48 PM
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I said what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. :)
/r/seduction06/10/18 06:44 PM
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Have fun getting comfortable being uncomfortable.
/r/seduction06/10/18 06:44 PM
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Women are constantly checking me out and NOT because I am good looking (far from it). It's because I ooze confidence. So I can relate. Capitalise on the attention.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:03 AM
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Congratulations turd. You have created a story you can believe "this seduction stuff only works on young, stupid girls who can't hold a conversation anyway" "and who would want them anyway?". Foreveralone.jpg Come back when you want help, not to feel better.
/r/seduction06/10/18 02:00 AM
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Congratulations turd. You have created a story you can believe "this seduction stuff only works on young, stupid girls who can't hold a conversation anyway" "and who would want them anyway?". Foreveralone.jpg Come back when you want help, not to feel better.
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:59 AM
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He's bang on. When both you and your life are awesome, women flock
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:48 AM
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He's bang on. When both you and your life are awesome, women flock
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:48 AM
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Do some comfort zone challenges. Lots of them, actually. Google and you'll find plenty of ideas. Some of the most savage ones I have done: Walk into a shop, say nothing, then lay down on the ground for 30 seconds, then get up, say nothing, and leave Lay down for 30 seconds on a busy footpath, then get up like nothing happened Walk onto a dance floor and stand DEAD STILL for 5 minutes. On a busy train or bus, sing your favourite song OUT LOUD
/r/seduction05/10/18 09:32 PM
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I'm spontaneous, so whatever comes to mind. I shit test them too. Makes it easy to find out if they're insecure, if they have a sense of humor etc AND test their level of attraction. But yeah, spike her emotions then get to the point.
/r/seduction05/10/18 09:30 PM
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It's TINDER, the whole point is to match and meet. I think RSDmax has a video on text game, check it out.
/r/seduction05/10/18 09:25 PM
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Live and learn dude! But trust me, strippers are generally nuts so its a bit hard to predict. Two of my stripper friends once got a guy to buy them a bunch of coke, and bottles of alcohol, and give them money, then they ditched him by saying they were going to the bathroom and they ran and waved down a taxi TO MY HOUSE. They turned up at my front door, unannounced and high on coke. At 4am. When I had work that day.
/r/seduction05/10/18 06:15 AM
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Strippers are an interesting bunch. I've dated a few of them, never paid to go to a club but been dragged out by the girls I was dating to "watch them dance" many times (and they paid my entry lol). Some are total cunts who will do anything for a dollar. Others are incredibly intelligent, charming and wonderful people. Hard to tell initially but the one thing they all have in common is high sex drive and being adventurous and spontaneous. You fucked up baaaaaad by shooting those ideas down. If b…
/r/seduction05/10/18 05:56 AM
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All good bro. Have fun and make her feel safe, comfortable, heard and understood. That's all it takes.
/r/seduction05/10/18 05:48 AM
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Bingo.
/r/seduction05/10/18 05:47 AM
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PS it's more fun to make your own movies ;)
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:19 AM
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Don't go to the movie. Take her back to yours. Or go for a drink. Why waste 2 hours or the money?
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:15 AM
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She's gonna shit test the hell out of you. Don't let anything she says or does rattle you. Good luck, havd fun.
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:14 AM
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Talk her into finding a threesome partner for you both and have fun.
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:09 AM
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Only exception to this is when she is super DTF. Then I'll invite her to my place on the spot, or whenever I'm free next.
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:08 AM
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You're boring. If you weren't, you'd be going on dates. Up your text game and get to the fucking point. My tinder experiences is approx: match 2-5 messages max, make her laugh, get her interested, qualify her number close on WhatsApp set a date a week in advance don't contact her again until day of the date with something like "bring a pen tonight" or "wear comfortable shoes" From match to date set is usually 10-30 mins, and just a few short messages.
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:07 AM
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Oh dude. You just showed this woman that you are a girl, not a man. Don't text her again. Period. Wait for her to message you and move on in the mean time.
/r/seduction05/10/18 03:01 AM
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You are right.
/r/seduction05/10/18 02:58 AM
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And that sir, is why I suggest you make it your mission to learn how to ignore it. Or you life is going to suck and be riddled with regret.
/r/seduction05/10/18 02:56 AM
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His books and courses played a pivotal role in me becoming the man I am today (and tbh, most would give their left nut to trade places with me). They are full of tools and strategies that will change your life. But only if you WANT to change.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:38 PM
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It's too small to tell if it's limp or hard.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:36 PM
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DO NOT SEE A MOVIE. Guys, please please please stop doing movie dates. You waste 2 hours, unable to talk, learn about each other, flirt, banter etc. Change plans to dinner after drinks. So you can actually seduce her. By connecting.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:27 PM
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Worrying what other people think is a curse. It will not lead to a fulfilling life. Stop it. Easier said than done, but stop it.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:24 PM
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Sounds like you have some mental baggage to deal with. Some of my most memorable evenings have been with women I'd met/matched/messaged the first time an hour or three before at most. :)
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:23 PM
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You're coming across as insecure and needy dude. Give her some space. If she doesn't reply to your message immediately, that's ok. Don't push the point or you will push her away.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:17 PM
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You're coming across as insecure and needy dude. Give her some space. If she doesn't reply to your message immediately, that's ok. Don't push the point or you will push her away.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:16 PM
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Read "3% Man". It will answer everything and prevent this happening in the future.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:14 PM
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I am teaching you to be self reliant, young man. It will seve you well later in life. I'm not here to say things that make you feel nice, but things that are true or necessary :) p.s. Suggesting I have AIDS shows I have really ruffled your feathers. Don't ever let anything anyone does or says shake you like that. Women will see you as weak and insecure.. and run for the hills
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:13 PM
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FYI, I approach women I am attracted to, IOIs or not. I'm one average-ass-looking-dude, but I actually get a lot of looks due to the confident manner in which I carry myself. Women have a sixth sense for a confident man. My game? It's simple. I'm awesome, and I know it. If I see a woman I find attractive, I'll approach. And I know I'm doing her a huge favor by giving her the OPPORTUNITY to get to know me. I don't over think it. I don't plan what to say. I just screen her to figure out if she's b…
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:11 PM
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The key was in my post. "Go read some Tony Robbins" books was a serious suggestion. Learn about yourself, your values etc, then define your goals in life and begin pursing them. A man on a mission, pursuing his purpose, will ooze confidence and every obstacle he overcomes, every day he gives 100%, he gains more confidence.
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:53 PM
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Jesus..dude she wants your dick in her for sure..next time she touches you, escalate. Not sure how old you are but I've been around the block. She wants you (or validation, or both, bad).
/r/seduction04/10/18 06:42 AM
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I don't own a car, I'm skinny as fuck. Neither of those matter. Confidence is key. Confidence is the ONLY thing.
/r/seduction04/10/18 05:28 AM
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Get through, or use as excuses? Which is it? The answer can be only one.
/r/seduction04/10/18 05:27 AM
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No. I'm an aspy, and I have developed my skills to the point where I can influence almost any human do to anything I want. All skills can be learned. JUMPING high is not learnable (but you can train towards it). Become a social god is simply a matter of practice.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:55 AM
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It's scary as fuck, especially for really intelligent men who have more space to overthink it. Until you do X amouynt of approaches, it's terrifying. Then scary. Then a bit uncomfortable. Then not too bad. Then ok. Then natural. Then exciting. Then addicting.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:53 AM
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That's about FOUR IOIs. Jesus guys. If you ever are not sure about something and want to ask reddit, she probably wants you penis in her. Make a move.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:51 AM
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Fuck the sub kills me sometimes. Just fucking text her: "Hey, let's get a drink. When are you free?" THAT'S IT. THEN MEET HER FOR THE DATE. NO MORE TEXTING. It's not hard.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:49 AM
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Sounds like you just need a win. I can't help on that front. My first, second, third and twentieth girl in high school all involved me drinking, then meeting them, then seducing them. So I can't help much other than saying, one win, then life is your oyster.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:48 AM
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I was a completely useless idiot in high school. Don't sweat it. Time heals, just keep learning.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:46 AM
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You are insecure and a bit needy. You don't have abundance. 3 girls is nothing. As you have discovered. Change the way you think, then act accordingly. Date 10 girls. Or 50. And don't get hung up on any of them. You are STILL IN SCARCITY MODE DUDE! You want to get to the point where a date turns up and, walks to your table, waves and you think "Fuck, is this her? I thought she was brunette and older:.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:45 AM
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Get over yourself and your petty excuses. Bring girls back to your place, or go to their place, or book a hotel. NEXT QUESTION.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:42 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? I'm in my 30s and the ages of the women I've most recently slept with, in approx order: 18 19 22 35 18 23 27 30 19 18 What are you waiting for?
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:41 AM
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Dude, you're right. You are fucked. Your mindset is shit. You are lying to yourself saying stuff like "Nothing works" and "I'll never". GO read some Tony Robbins books and come back with some self confidence. Or, leave.
/r/seduction04/10/18 04:38 AM
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It can get worse. Try 35 dates in 1 month! Just as hard on the wallet as the memory (I literally write notes about each date when I'm seeing too many girls). Anyway, 2-5 dates a week is no problems. Be efficient. Don't fuck around for 5 hours before taking her to bed. It all sorts itself out with time. Just keep dating multiple women. Unless you fall for one of them, if they want to be exclusive, just tell them you just want to have fun and keep dating. They'll either back off or continue to dat…
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:29 AM
2

Tell your dad you will probably bring a girl home on x night. If he's gonna be a dick, a hotel
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:22 AM
1

I've been NEXTing for years. Most of us have.
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:17 AM
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I admire your courage :) But a movie is a terrible idea for a date. You have no chance to talk and little chance to touch. At the end of the film you know nothing about each other and haven't bonded at all. Change it to a drink or dinner (so you can spend 2 hours TALKING and CONNECTING) or invite him to yours to netflix and chill.
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:14 AM
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Just take a screenshot of your post here and send it to her. Plus my post telling you to do it. What could convey the message better than the raw truth which you didn't expect her to see?
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:09 AM
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LOLOLOLOLOLOLO Bro, and all other bros reading this. When a woman has "not looking for sex", "friends only", "I'm just here for lols" etc in her dating profile it means this: "I do not want to feel like a slut if we go out and I fuck you" AND "I do not want NEEDY, INSECURE OR ENTITLED MEN expecting sex if we go out". Women approach dates as just seeing what happens. Guys usually have expectations. This is a way for women to remove your expecation of sex.
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:08 AM
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ALMOST EVERY WOMAN WANTS TO BE APPROACHED* *by a confident, charismatic, friendly, fun guy. That includes single and taken women, both of which will take the approach as a compliment unless you're an awkward CREEPER. BUT most guys and especially most of this sub are not socially fluent so here a pro tip: Learn to undersand IOIs. Approach when you get them. Don't otherwise.
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:02 AM
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Translation: girls always put me in the friendzone because I act like more of a friend than a lover.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:58 AM
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Happens a lot to me because I am into younger women. I just ask. "How old are you?". Lots of banter and teasing can follow. "oh I thought you were 43" etc
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:57 AM
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You're coming from the right place but I vomited at your proposed text. Cut the shit out and be direct. LITERALLY this: "Let's grab a drink. When are you free?" That's all. IF SHE LIKES YOU, SHE WILL TELL YOU WHEN SHE IS FREE. IF SHE DOESN'T, SHE WILL SAY "I'm not sure/I'm pretty busy this week/I'll let you know". Guys are retarded. I know because I am one. The only time this won't be effective is is you built NO rapport yet still ended up with her number. In that case, spike her emotions with a…
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:55 AM
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If you're cool, just be you. It works for me.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:51 AM
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Do shit friends do (and that stupid niceguys do): Go to the movies Hang out for coffee Talk about people you are dating etc. No drinks, no hanging out at night, no dinners.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:50 AM
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That was painful to read.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:48 AM
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Go for the one you want most, first. Men go for what they want. Don't be a pussy and don't worry about it not working out OR it potentially ruining chances with the other girl. It's a big world.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:45 AM
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It means in that moment she likes you, you made her feel something (in this case, a spark of humour) and it came out as a compliment and touch. If it happens again, different story.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:43 AM
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You are lying to YOURSELF and US. If you know you are an amazing catch, you will carry yourself like KING OF THE UNIVERSE everywhere you go (clubs included) because you know it to be true.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:41 AM
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Good problem to have. I always date multiple women. Almost inevitably, on our first date, women who like me ask about my past/current relationships directly or indrectly. I tell them I'm actively dating multiple women and having fun. Being direct and upfront is all that matter. In fact, last year, this happened: Simultaneously dating 3 waitresses from one restaurant They each knew about the others, and talked about our dates with each other, and their boss (who knew every little detail). Always …
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:39 AM
1

Wave, poke your tongue out, gesture her to come over...whatever. If she likes you she'll respond. If not, she'll ignore you. You only lose by doing nothing.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:20 AM
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Fuck man, hard to read but good on you for not making excuses. I've read 3% Man about as many times. It is one of the most important books I've ever, EVER read. No one should be allowed to even POST on this forum without internalising what Corey teaches. Almost every time I seduce a woman now, I feel deep gratitude for what I have learned.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:18 AM
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NEXT. If you reject women (this is how they see it) by not making a move when they are giving you every signal to do so, you will be luckynot to immediately end up in the friendzone. Move on. And grow a pair :)
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:15 AM
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Confidence. Thead over. No really. When you confidence reaches a sufficient level, you will reject all but the best.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:12 AM
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Oh dear. You ASKED her status (needy, insecure male alert). Oh dear. You said you think she made the wrong decision (needy, insecure, desperate male alert). Oh dear. You can't stop thinking about her (oneitis alert). Bro, pro tip. Women are emotional beings. She was feeling it, and now she isn't. Move on.
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:11 AM
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Dude, there are millions of articles, videos and posts covering this. Get on google. Don't expect reddit to spoon feed you. Your biggest issues seems that you are waiting for a vocalised invitation. 90% of what women say is through their actions. You need to be able to read their level of interest. Don't ever wait for an invitation. KNOW when it's the right time. I'll be kind and describe my last date, in short, just because I had some fun with it and resisted touching for a while JUST to build …
/r/seduction04/10/18 01:08 AM
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Ask 100 guys and you'll get varied answers. I've slept with many virgins. Men (or me, at least) are all about success, achieving, goals etc so it can be really emotionally fulfilling to know you have been the first to successfully make a woman feel safe and comfortable enough to fully open up to you and receive your penis. Truthfully, the sex is usually terrible (and messy - a towel or two may be sacrified to the sex gods) but an eager student will learn quickly and most guys are willing teacher…
/r/seduction04/10/18 12:52 AM
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Hang out at places of common interests — whether it's art galleries, organic vegan farmers markets, Tony Robbins seminars or whatever the fuck you're into. You'll know you have someone in common and it's much easier to connect.
/r/seduction03/10/18 10:45 PM
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Take notes gentlemen. This guy, by maintaining mystery, not giving it away and NOT blowing up OP's phone 24/7, has left her to wonder about him which is driving her WILD. Sounds like this is all by accident on the guy's part (unelss he's a savage pro) but look at the end result. OP: he's probably a noob who doesn't know his role is to escalate things. Why the fuck would he go on a date if he didn't have a place to take you to after if things went well? Take the lead, set the next date and tell h…
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:21 AM
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Can confirm. Every single time I have heard some variation of "We're not going to have sex", it was one of the last things I heard before we had sex.
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:06 AM
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I feel sick just reading this. You're over-pursuing. Leave her alone. You have one-itis. You're being needy which will scare her away. Do not contact her again. Wait til she contacts you.
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