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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later?		dimtone	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 04:07 AM

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1	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Oh, that's for sure	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/24 01:43 AM
1	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? No clue on that.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/24 12:56 AM
2	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Yeah. I've considered a post nup but, at the same time, I feel like it may be time to call it quits. If she has so little faith... I'm 36 and feel like I'm young enough to find my forever person. Another 5-10 years and that's it.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/24 12:56 AM
4	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? I make decent money... Until I lost my job... Because I lost motivation to do anything... Because I'm getting divorced... Ugh... I guess what I mean is, I don't think there will be a major discrepancy to be awarded a huge amount of alimony.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/24 12:36 AM
1	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Fuck, I wish it was. If only I had so little of a life.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/24 12:31 AM
1	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? I get primary custody and one house. That's her offer.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 11:22 PM
2	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Well said man. That's honestly why I made this post.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:34 PM
2	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Oh, I know she is. I'm letting her to a degree. Just having a hard time letting go.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:02 PM
1	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? I do. It just doesn't make the situation any easier or less stressful. Frankly, neither does Reddit, LoL.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:00 PM
2	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Oh, she's said as much.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 05:59 PM
7	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? This is my ultimate fear. Talking with friends that have been through it, all of them have said I'll regret not getting my fair share. The hardest part is our kids. I want to move home with them but, I also don't want to take them from their mother. Ugh ... I hate this.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 04:30 PM
1	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Christ, it's overwhelming. She doesn't even seem sure she is committed to our end...	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:51 AM
2	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Woof! This has been becoming a recurring thought. I don't want to stay here but could never be away from my kids...	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:50 AM
3	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Already got a VAR for that. Just in case...	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:49 AM
1	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? I get that. My problem is I really don't care about all the shit that could be gained. It seems like a fucking trophy for losing. Therefore, I'm having a difficult as fuck time telling my attorney just what it is that I want. I only really care about my family... That's dissolving... And will never be the same again... And sadly, my wife...	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:48 AM
2	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? This is the experience I was curious of. The 30% I am promised is a house. However, we have three. We relocated 3 years ago as a save the marriage move. Now I feel stuck in this fucking state, want to go home but can't bring myself to go scorched earth to try to take the kids home. Super worried that as soon as it's finalized I'm out of here.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:17 AM
3	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? I've got an attorney. Couldn't say if he's good... He's an attorney... but, he's been decent so far. That last sentence hits. It's honestly a great description of how I feel and my anxiety.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:03 AM
1	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? That sounds familiar. I've got to get a draft settlement written up and I hate it. I don't want to ruin what's left of us but don't want to leave a shit ton on the table either. Especially when she's actually ready to reveal her hand.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 06:00 AM
9	How many of you gave up the fight only to regret it later? Yeah, that's my fear as well. Honestly, I think she's got some motive that she's hiding. I'm pretty sure he has a name. Not trying to be the bigger man, just trying to figure out moving on.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/24 05:56 AM
1	Still haven’t thrown away my wedding ring Appreciate that buddy. I quit drinking and started keto. Between the two, I had the weight to lose. Went from 275 to 230, so 45 lbs over all. I'm 6'3. Also, been working out more as the spring approaches.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 11:13 PM
2	Still haven’t thrown away my wedding ring I'm fucking trying. Hopefully this lottery ticket comes in and we can check that off the box. I refuse to give up. I got married and committed to it for life.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 04:13 AM
1	Still haven’t thrown away my wedding ring Yep	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 04:09 AM
1	Still haven’t thrown away my wedding ring That's been the main goal. Self-care. I've dropped 50 lbs since the new year. Being more active and involved overall. Kinda stuck in limbo but, I know that no matter what, I'll be ok. In the meantime, marriage counseling, individual therapy, and exercise.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 04:04 AM
5	Still haven’t thrown away my wedding ring I'm in the same boat. Trying and trying, occasional crying. We've overcome every other hurdle. I have faith we can overcome this too.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 03:58 AM
1	Don't Ever Look Back It's more complicated than that. We haven't officially started the process yet. I brought it up. She said she wants it. I presented papers, she refused to sign them... Now we're in marriage counseling.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/02/24 01:08 AM
1	Don't Ever Look Back We started marriage counseling last week. I am hopeful it will be beneficial. So far it's just scratched the surface. Also doing individual therapy on my end	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 08:06 PM
3	Don't Ever Look Back I'm seeing effort from her. There's just so much god damned resentment on both ends. I'm definitely analyzing her actions and efforts. I'm hopeful for reconciliation but, sadly aware that there may be no such thing. 13 years is hard to let go of.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 06:51 PM
2	Don't Ever Look Back I'm seeing effort from her. There's just so much god damned resentment on both ends. I'm definitely analyzing her actions and efforts. I'm hopeful for reconciliation but, sadly aware that there may be no such thing. 13 years is hard to let go of.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 06:49 PM
5	Don't Ever Look Back Man, I'm on the front end of this. Trying to reconcile but also feel like I'm putting in all of the work. Thanks for the words, as they're weird I'm currently telling myself. At least I can say I did everything to try to make it work.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/24 06:13 PM
1	Procrastinating on next steps! Same here. Starting marriage counseling this week but, it's a Hail Mary before we start divorce proceedings. It sucks being in limbo. It also sucks looking at rebuilding everything.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/24 06:52 PM
3	Procrastinating on next steps! I'm in the exact same boat man. Not ready to call it dead and unsure how to move forward.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/24 08:50 AM