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| 1 | Welp, tried mediationTrue, we can’t. Any offense is taken as offensive. The best is to be the punching bag that doesn’t punch back. My ex has been horrible to me and our children, but in an instant she plays the victim and the court believes her…. It’s truly disheartening. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/26 01:17 AM |
| 8 | Welp, tried mediationPrepare yourself for the battle ahead. There are patterns for how this will go in the plan. DV allegations, etc. just stay calm and honest. And transparency is the real fear. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/26 04:52 AM |
| 4 | In middle of silver bullet, could use support or adviceIt’s really such an messed up practice. A power move that slowly tries and break you down emotionally, mentally, and financially. I settled to move forward bc it took over 1.5 yrs just to get a trial, and all it did was give her more ammo to fight against the 50-50 that we were supposed to move toward… stay strong. I’m sorry I’m not the only one that’s been through it. Also, don’t trust their mediator suggestions. Mine literally changed the transcripts in serious ways, not just a word or two but… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Her mother has been playing on her emotions and has convinced her that I'm a deadbeat dad. Legal fees are killing me as I fight for time with my own kidsThis was my divorce. I’m in over $200k in 2 yrs for similar bullshit. Basically all the lawyers and judges eventually make life so difficult and miserable that everyone is willing to settle. Both parents, and the kids take the burden. I don’t know how defensible the accusations are, but just focus on the kids needs, safety of them, and say there is no real proof. That’s how you slowly get out of it. I hated the supervised visitation, but for better or worse, this is your time to shine. Just cont… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/26 07:57 AM |
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