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dinercheeseburger/r/MGTOW22/01/18 02:37 PM
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I'm glad you had this experience, it's a common mistake made by lots of guy (myself included)- you think you did everything right, you think you had a great time, but unfortunately, it is one-sided (the girl didn't think the same way). It actually happens to both newbies and people with varying experience. It's possible since she is from a different culture and new to this culture that she was just trying to be pleasant and not to offend you. Now that you had your first date, you can have your f…
/r/seduction25/01/18 11:00 PM
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I never heard of 5 for 5, but I have heard and agree with the idea that you should approach a women with the belief that she is attracted to you. Looks do matter, but like a few people have stated already, our behaviors can cause a loss of attraction. So, understanding the process and how the game works is definitely a huge advantage to make sure we don't lose or miss opportunities. How much do looks matter depends- I don't know the answer- but I always believe if you are attracted and intereste…
/r/seduction24/01/18 11:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/7s64w7/i_think_the_bluepill_betas_finally_got_their_own/ I just uploaded it to imgur. Enjoy
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 02:40 PM
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I saw this sign at a Burger King in Lisbon Portugal. It's definitely "their" icon for a men's bathroom. Someone at BK in Lisbon must be watching too much CNN.
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 02:39 PM
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I uploaded an image, but it looks like its taking some time to load... Says submitting...
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 02:31 PM
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I'm in Lisbon right now and I feel your pain. Definitely not the most outgoing group of girls. i've approached a lot and talked and made connetions with lots of people mainly from Brazil, Italy, France, etc. It seems that any girl that engages you in convesation is a foreigner or not native Portuguese. Seriously, I can't even remember a conversation I had with a Portuguese girl- Not my problem either. I was talking to a bunch of Portuguese guys and you should hear their stories- it's depressing-…
/r/seduction16/01/18 11:54 PM
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My philosophy is "Just meet Girls". Whatever works for you. It doesn't matter if you find them during the day at night, on a train or on a plane- do I really have to recite Green Eggs and Ham. I've had shitty relationships with girls I met at university, social groups, circles, at the library and cafes', I have had great relationships with girls I met taking out the garbage or doing the laundry- it doesn't matter. These are limiting beliefs and will ultimately stop you in being proactive, cold a…
/r/seduction16/01/18 11:48 PM
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I'm 5'6, so I am by no means tall - but dude you really need to change your attitude and stop limiting your beliefs. Everything is possible - I mean it. I have accomplished things that I never even would have contemplated and that many people would be envy of. The sole reason is that I am pro active, I believe I control my own destiny and I don't let little things (pun) stand in my way. By the way, I have a vulnerability that is much worse than height- and I overcome it every single day. So, I s…
/r/seduction16/01/18 06:39 PM
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Height might matter for the first 30 seconds, but then it all relies on your personality and game. Don't make your height an issues, if they shit test you, just pass the test- be confident who you are and the rest will follow.
/r/seduction16/01/18 12:53 AM
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Two things to keep in mind: First cold approach is not creepy. Just like you don't like every girl you see, some girls might not be attracted to you and even if you are 100% cool - they will think you are creepy. But girls that are 30% or more attracted to you think you are just fine. Creepy is a term that has gotten into today's mens psyche. It's a way to take away our mojo.. I say be a man and do what men do - show interest in a girl that you are attracted to. If they think you are creepy- oh …
/r/seduction16/01/18 12:46 AM
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Great write-up I like your points on being reactive and why some people think it can be creepy when you go out of your way to meet someone and not "just let it happen". I think you are spot on with this notion. In general, be proactive in life with everything. No one is knocking on your door to give you sex, a job, money, a career, friendship, everything good in life. You have to be proactive, invest in the relationships you have and constantly work at things to achieve continued success. Point …
/r/seduction14/01/18 10:12 AM
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Good advice man. Good luck and success to you in the future. One approach a day is enough to realize just how natural approaching is. Girls are hard-wired to be approached. They respond mostly positively to you and whether they show it or not they do appreciate it.
/r/seduction12/01/18 12:07 AM
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Another quick tip would be to go the bars a little earlier before it gets crowded, like if you had some time to kill and have time for a drink. This will help you feel more comfortable when entering a bar alone during its busiest times. Also, like the other say, just be relaxed, social and after a drink or two a lot of the pressure (if you have any) will slowly dissipate.
/r/seduction11/01/18 06:02 PM
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First congrats for being aware of things in your life that are not positive. I hope you continue to succeed. I made a similiar promise with myself last year. I decided that I would no longer read the news. Politics, local, national, it doesn't matter. I started in April and still going strong. It's not the holy grail, but it does help. I don't do Facebook, Instagram or anything else. I do business online, but keep to the essentials. My guilty pleasure is a about 3 or 4 subreddits- I like MGTOW, …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 12:28 PM
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It's always worth seeing a girl you like anytime. Always live in the present. At your age, play the field and meet as many girls as possibly can. You don't have to have a relationship or sex with any or all of them. You should be focused on figuring out what type of girl compliments your personality.
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:38 PM
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1dafullyfe had some really great remarks. Keep in mind, if a girl is interested in you, she'll make it easy for both of you to get together. So when a girl says, maybe, we'll see, I have to look at my schedule- all these are nice ways of saying no Period. Just move on. Don't worry if you let some girls go that are playing hard to get by acting not that interested. If the girl was playing hard to get, she'll eventually try to get back into your orbit. I can't make this next statement more importa…
/r/seduction30/12/17 12:01 PM
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Some tips to increase attraction: Don't chase her. Even though you are in a relationship with her, let her be free and set the pace that she contacts you. Don't text her 3 times a day- she will reach out to you when she misses you and when she wants to feel your love. Girls have their own romance story for a relationship, let it unfold on her time. Don't constantly bring up the relationship, that you and her are BF and GF. Even though you mentioned you are exclusive, again let it unfold. Constan…
/r/seduction23/12/17 04:35 PM
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Sounds like you are a teenager or a younger male. But, when a girl is interested in you, she will make time for you. Unless she is overseas or is in jail, she has no reason not to see you. Also, when you asked her out, What did you say? Did you say, let's have drinks or go to this place on Sat at 8pm? Or did you say, would you like to hang out with me sometimes? Obviously you need to make a definite date. If she says no, maybe or we'll see. It's a no and just move on.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:46 PM
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Dude, please read Coach Corey Wayne's 3% man or watch his videos on Youtube. I normally don't tell people to read anything, but I think what he talks about and explains is exactly the knowledge you need to know. First, If she is very attractive several guys per week are meeting her and texting her the day they meet or next day for dates (don't be like everyone else). Also guys in general fall in love immediately with beautiful women, because we are about physical traits. Women are emotional, the…
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:40 PM
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Girls like a little mystery. They like to be excited. By texting a girl constantly or every day it kinds of kills the anticipation and attraction. Just show up if you already both know where and when to meet. If not, a very short text.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:25 PM
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My friend had a situation similiar to this and it turned out that the tinder was a man. When you meet up for your date, watch which bathroom she goes into. If she goes into either the male or family bathroom- just pay your bill and leave - unless of course you like the person.
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:14 PM
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You are already a boyfriend destroyer!!! With your looks, charm, game and attitude completely in a matter of minutes had such an influence on this girl that she forgot she has a BF and is now so wet and hot, she wants sex with you 3X or more per day! Nah, I'm just fucking with you. You said "But anyway, is ignoring/avoiding him the right course of action? " Don't ignore him - ignore her. If you like be an orbiter, more power to you. If you like be a glorified shopping bag holder- more power to y…
/r/seduction22/12/17 05:10 PM
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If you have to ask, Next Her!
/r/seduction22/12/17 11:06 AM
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You are absolutely right. Life ends at 25, by 30 you are already in an old age home and pussy has dried out. Too bad, you missed life. Next time (if there is a next time) live life to the fullest. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the next best time is now. Stop seeking validation and hand holding from others, that is what makes this board cringe-worthy. You know the answer, just go out and do it. Rely on yourself and conquer your own inadequacies- nobody else will do it for you.
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:13 AM
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You should check out Ekhart Tolle - The Power of Now. He really does a good job of understanding how bad and negative thoughts get in the way of accomplishing purpose and how to understand how to tame it.
/r/seduction18/12/17 08:06 PM
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You feel like a creep, because you are not utilizing your male energy. You are supposed to be checking out girls!!! Stevenmarkryan posted above is right, don't apologize, be confident in yourself and your masculine energy.
/r/seduction08/12/17 02:19 PM
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How should I know why they linger? why don't you asks them and report back. A lot of people ask these types of questions on this forum, but instead of asking me, why not ask them directly?
/r/seduction08/12/17 02:15 PM
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Not at all. I think having social media profiles gives her a chance to find something she doesn't like about you- unfortunately that is how some people think. Nothing beats the real thing meeting in person. It's also kind of a filter, if she really likes you she will make sure she gets in touch with you- even without fb, its just a few presses of a button to contact you.
/r/seduction08/12/17 02:13 PM
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Thanks for the write-up. Lots of respect for you. I'm glad you tried to make the 150 approach goal - came close. I think you did well 14 leads, 4 dates in 6 nights. Awesome! I personally think that NYC is one of the hardest cities to do pick-up. Too many travelers, tourists and what they call bridge and tunnel so logistics can be very difficult. Most people are also with friends or families which makes it a little difficult if you are running day game.
/r/seduction28/11/17 08:17 PM
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Great point you make: Treat her as a person. Don't make her age or your age an issue (mentioned above). If it comes up from her side, don't take it as a negative, either ignore it or use her words in a positive sense. One other thing, once you have established rapport, it is important that you definitely give her a strong signal that you see her in a sexual/romantic kind of way. Normal flirting that is done with girls your own age might fly over her head a couple of times, so it is best to be a …
/r/seduction25/11/17 05:53 PM
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If you can't take someone back to your place or don't want to k close, why bother talking or taking them out. Just hang out with your buddies instead. Why the thread dude?
/r/seduction21/11/17 07:47 PM
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I'm not judging you, but dude, there are so many fish in the sea. Just find someone that you Can ask out. Believe me it's not worth it.
/r/seduction21/11/17 07:46 PM
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I would just add: There is no shame in being rejected. There is no shame in trying. Any man deep down inside will have mad respect for someone that tries to make his life better. We're all in this together, we all have the same experiences. So, only an idiot would make fun of you for being rejected, real men would be proud that you tried- whether you succeed or not.
/r/seduction17/11/17 12:51 PM
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Amen brother
/r/seduction16/11/17 05:02 PM
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Of course its real. What do you think it's magic to walk up to a girl, start a conversation and get a number? Stop fapping and get out there.
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:52 PM
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Nothing creepy about going up to a guy or a girl during the day and saying "Hi, how is your day going" or starting a conversation. It's creepy doing it for Youtube, because it's not necessarily 100% authentic - hence comes off creepy. (But, I understand Youtube is his business/hobby)
/r/seduction07/11/17 10:40 AM
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I'm just a regular guy, but some years ago I had 5 gf's that I were seeing on a regular basis. I have to admit that I'm the type of guy that likes to date and not necessarily trying to pull on the first or second date - I guess it fits my style and makes it possible to have a couple of cool girls in my life. First rule, when with them or conversing with them give them 100% of your attention (meaning don't mention other girls or seem like you are disinterested) act like a chick with a lot of orbi…
/r/seduction02/11/17 10:10 PM
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Absolutely agree, this is definitely your best response (not to respond for a length of time). Worked very well a couple of times in the past for me.
/r/seduction02/11/17 10:01 PM
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Is this a fake post? Are you trying to bring this reddit down with a shit post. I've been seeing a lot of these shit posts recently. By the way, if it's real, you have my sympathies.
/r/seduction02/11/17 12:43 PM
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Try again, but if you get rejected once more, then she isn't interested in you. If she is interested in you and a little weird were she has to wait 3 dates to give you a quick kiss, she might not be worth it. Move on, kissing a girl should not require so much effort.
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:10 PM
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I agree with you. If she doesn't reciprocate after several dates, its time to move on. You deserve someone better. A few months ago, I dated someone for a bout 6 weeks, very little reciprocation, I just walked away. A few weeks ago I met someone very cool that reciprocates - it is like night and day.
/r/seduction20/10/17 10:44 PM
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Glad to see at the end of your write-up that you understood your problem. I agree, you kind of smothered her, you texted her too often and she needed more room. You may want to let her breathe. Don't contact her for a couple of weeks, don't send her any texts. After a couple of weeks text her and only once to make a date. If she is responsive great, if she gives you the run around, then she is gently rejecting you and you should move on. Going forward, only use texts to set dates, anything else …
/r/seduction20/10/17 01:31 PM
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Your last sentence is telling: she just said she moves slow. This is "girl speak" for you are moving to fast - you are constantly pushing a relationship and she is not ready for that. Or she feels that you are smothering her. I think you are way over analyzing the situation and probably showing her too much neediness. No worries, we have all been there before. First see other girls - you have one itis - even though you are saying your not putting your eggs in one basket - it sounds like you are.…
/r/seduction20/10/17 12:48 PM
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I'm talking in the context of a bar or a club in the following situation. I try to approach and open a set with the vibe that I generally want to have a conversation or at least talk for a few minutes - not with a line expecting an immediate reaction. My goal is to have fun, meet interesting people and enjoy the company of others. So if I get blown out immediately, I'll walk away, but if the temp is luke-warm, I'll carry a conversation for a few minutes. But just like knowing when a chick is mil…
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:33 PM
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I read somewhere (not sure where) that Love is a male emotion. Because men judge our attraction on a woman mainly on looks, within a few minutes we have made up our mind and either start falling for the other person or have no feelings at all. Girls take much longer to fall in love. This is why some girls will drop a guy after a date or two because the guy is giving her all these emotions and pushing for a relationship (even if he's unaware of it) and the girl needs her space.
/r/seduction18/10/17 10:09 AM
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You are too young to feel so defeated. You are probably surrounded by negativity in your life and feel that things will never change. Don't worry about girls for now. Start on small positive changes iin your daily life- very small. Remember the saying: inch by inch is a cinch, but yard by yard is hard. Start with maybe chaning your hairstyle, buying one shirt that compliments your body type, doing 20 push ups in one set, etc. These little things really help with motivation. Life is hard, but tha…
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:31 PM
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I think you might have the wrong idea of what vulnerable is in the Models context. It's a tough concept to grab, because Mark Manson says attraction to a woman is a man being less needy than her. But by approaching, you are investing in her and that is showing neediness. So, in order to balance out this show of neediness or in a way reconcile it, you have to show vulnerability which in a way is an attractive way to show interest, intention, as well as show strength. Sort of like showing strength…
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:29 PM
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I would say there are two ways to escape the friend zone. The first is to eject. This works 100% of the time, just move on and get on with your life. The second is to eject and then re-approach about 3-6 months later. It's possible she will see you in a new light, but the key is you have to be different, less needy and make your intentions known immediately. If not, you will just be put in the friend zone again.
/r/seduction03/10/17 03:57 PM
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