| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 225 | Funny NVM Example in an SNL Skit - Made me think of this sub lol | NICE FOR WHAT? | dingdingdingdongbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:33 AM |
| 80 | Interesting Article - "I Think About John Mayer's 'Daughters' a Lot" | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | dingdingdingdongbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 04:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Report and block… report and block… must remember talking back just stokes their ego"Hey lady, foreplay is unnecessary" "I'm sorry you're shit in bed, sir" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 35 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /syeah tip for young ladies - don't ever bring this stuff up because it just puts it in their mind as like an unlocked skill/feature or something. just keep it to yourself unless you have a HVM who won't pressure you to do shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:22 PM |
| 51 | Translation: “I have no plans for my future but I will abide to yours until I find the next best thing”it reminds me of johns stamos and his current lady who he has a kid with now i think. she is the same age as mary kate and ashley. All i can imagine is the first episodes of Full House where john stamos holds literal baby michelle and sings her to sleep and he's now with a lady who he could've held as a baby (as an adult). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 17 | Translation: “I have no plans for my future but I will abide to yours until I find the next best thing”Yep, it's called telling you what you want to hear so he can get that dick wet and lock down regular pocket pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Seriously, what IS IT with the 20 something girls?! No need for “freaking out” or being scared and “terrified” you'll “never find love”. Those types of posts make me fear for the next generations...It's because culture really bangs on about the wall after the second you turn 18, if not even before. Making sure you know you have an expiration date so you better hurry and make yourself appealing or you'll be unmarried and childless and...god forbid...over 25?! over 30?! Even on reddit, what I was exposed to in years before is way different to what I'm exposed to now. If I had a dollar every time in my early years on reddit that I saw mentions of BEWARE of the wall, DAE hate their wives?, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:25 PM |
| -1 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutioni dress and do makeup to express myself and feel pretty...don't need a male or femme gaze Edit: Lol at how it's bad if it's a male gaze, but good if it's a lesbian? am I missing something here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:12 PM |
| 14 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.truth hurts, but it needs to be said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 34 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.It was from last year. She updated she's alive in September, but no other update. Just found from googling around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 8 | Spin off: how to tell if a man has a small dickomg hell yes! he's like a damn unicorn in my world lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 37 | Spin off: how to tell if a man has a small dickthis is gonna sound terrible but i've found guys who really bang on about giving oral being their big thing are often slightly below average to small. who in general doesn't like giving and getting pleasure? kinda sus. it's also a sign with older men who's dick doesn't work anymore. i've not been proven wrong yet, but ymmv. small hands/feet, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:18 PM |
| 12 | Imagine being in a Long Term Relationship...Would've left after the first lack of orgasm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Apparently struck a nerve with my last post. Dude chose to ignore the “FDS Humor” flair lmao...Truth! Well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 11 | Not even surprisedHe wants a bang maid to manage his kids, but having cancer is not allowed! She's let go like a damn employee. Remember, ladies! There's an actual research study that shows that men are more likely to dump their wives/longtime partners going through serious medical problems than women. Read more here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 17 | Bye b*tchOooooof yuck yuck yuck. I had an ex of 5 years who desperately wanted to have a post-breakup chat for years after. I said no at least 3-5 times. I finally said something along the lines of alluding to being in a really bad place or having issues going on so he'd lay off because just saying no wasn't enough. I had to lie and make myself sound unstable for him to finally fuck off. This reads EXACTLY like the dumb shit I know he wants to say. You're dumped, dude! Move the hell on with your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 21 | Interesting Article - "I Think About John Mayer's 'Daughters' a Lot"omg the comments! I didn't even know there were comments. they are a gold mine! loool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:46 PM |
| 56 | Interesting Article - "I Think About John Mayer's 'Daughters' a Lot"I recently saw a post about applying FDS to ALL men in our lives, not just prospective/existing partners. This article spoke to me on that topic. Excerpts: But despite being lauded as a 21st-century troubadour, Mayer does not, in fact, have a way with words. In an archived interview that I was able to convert to an mp3 thanks to the Wayback Machine, Mayer described the inspiration behind the song: “You start to realize that a girl’s first relationship with a guy is her father,” he begins, alread… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 28 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.Just find a friend who things really went tits up in their relationship with their husband and go into detail about that. Stuck with him for 18 years because they had some children together. Thousands spent on the divorce. He's seeking custody and is moving to the other side of the country so their dear grandchild will be hundreds and hundreds of miles away for many days of the year. Can't sell the house so they're forced to live together until xx date. Miserable shit. No one wants that for thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 14 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.It's the truth. Money saved. Not stuck with some dipshit for 18 years because I had his children. Enjoying my time and not picking up after my children and adult child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:30 PM |
| 10 | A hard truth I've come to understand about 50/50:ahhh ok thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 23 | A hard truth I've come to understand about 50/50:Sorry! I'm dumb. What does 50/50 mean exactly? Like just contribution (financial and emotionally) and effort in the relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | From a dating sub asking about the ‘perfect lady’ that men want to date.Likkkkeee these guys must date nearly anyone if they have had the last 3 happen. Mean while this dingus probably showed up with New Balance shoes and dad jeans. Plaid shirt too. barf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:30 PM |
| 9 | Beware of men dumping their baggage on you early oni was thinking don't rag about your exwife but, shit, yours is a good example too I would've just left to go to the bathroom and never came back after the first tidbit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:52 AM |
| 4 | “I’m in love with you and all your demons”I've literally never had anyone say anything along these lines and I've been attached for most of my adult life. wtf is wrong with these men? what does that even mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:18 AM |
| 125 | Why we don’t do clapbacksReason number #3 - men are prone to violence and may retaliate from your clap back. Does he have your pictures? Dare I say your nudes? Get out without angering him and triggering his cave man wrath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:21 AM |
| 20 | A big thank you to the moderators of FDS 💕Thank you, ladies! I can't imagine the kind of trash you have to comb through. Do they realize they're confirming our beliefs when they rag on us for having standards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 13 | Some more male delusionAlso, K looks like Big Ed off 90 Day Fiancé. I- Lmaoooo. WARN HER! Always have a fake boyfriend ready. Fucking yuck. Nearly warrants HR in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 18 | The "Jokesters"Yep if I see "I'm really sarcastic and have dark humor" I'm like ok byeeee. I've seen what that means. No thanks. Fluent in sarcasm for guys usually just means passive aggressively mean guised as "it's just a joke" when it is taken in offense. I love sarcasm. I love dry wit. I love humor and laughter. This ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Male pickmes be like...🥴oh wow I can notice basic things, ladies! please clap. he's like a caricature of what women "complained" about men in comedies/media growing up. "he never notices my haircut", etc. don't need a creepy observation and rundown on anything different about me to feel loved you jackass lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 60 | I like good abs and I can not lie...yes! the pendulum swings. either they're totally devoid of self care and exercise or it's a gym rat situation (hard pass). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:26 PM |
| 6 | Apparently struck a nerve with my last post. Dude chose to ignore the “FDS Humor” flair lmao...Yeppp I'm not involuntarily celibate, boys, but thanks for your concern. We can catch dick 100% of the time when we want to. We just have standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Beyond enraged, advice pleasejust be like "heyyyyy just wanted to let you know I'm not a lesbian and keep my name out of your mouth. thanks for your interest in my sexual orientation" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 03:42 AM |
| 6 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮HA! 50?! barfffffffff I used to buy into the female "wall" until I started seeing older men's profile pictures on online dating profiles. Holy shit - yuck. Sorry I don't want your wrinkly hotdog skin in your biker shorts and your bald shiny head, sir (and that omits the 90% of overweight men who look like they've fully given up on their appearance) I look at guys my age on dating sites and they look so old. Meanwhile people think I'm like 5-8 years younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 9 | We 👏 Don’t 👏 Chase 👏Thank you. <3 Oh I did lol My reply was going to be pretty bitchy, but I said I'm not into it and take care - then block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 17 | Becoming increasingly disturbed and disgusted by videos on TikTok of very young women and even teenagers asking to be dominated and choked and spat on and verbally abused during sex...What the actual fuck? Hmm, how can I make our first kiss romantic? Maybe I'll choke her here at the park in broad daylight. I'm glad you told him off. Hopefully he won't be making other women uncomfortable with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 38 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenExactly! I had a guy pout about that once and I bluffed hard and was like "tell ya what, if you bring in another guy, I'll bring in another girl". Took care of that very quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:32 PM |
| 23 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenIf I had a dollar every time a guy tried to feel out if I was Bi with hope in their voice. Maybe I should start asking the same of them? For some reason it is assumed women are more likely to be Bi than men? Maybe they are? not sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:31 PM |
| 19 | Becoming increasingly disturbed and disgusted by videos on TikTok of very young women and even teenagers asking to be dominated and choked and spat on and verbally abused during sex...the amount of guys who think choking is an automatic is so fucked up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 25 | Scrote so mad he forgot how to spell and shitoh good he finally got a period in there about 3/4ths the way through this is a fake one right? it has to be lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Funny NVM Example in an SNL Skit - Made me think of this sub lolAgreed! But I understand /u/redapplesareyum for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 291 | We 👏 Don’t 👏 Chase 👏tonight i got "i'm horny" after texting a little so far (maybe 1-2 days). It's like i'm not a prostitute or your personal wank assistant so idk how that information is relevant to me. i just don't reply to this shit. maybe they'll learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:58 AM |
| 8 | Men who lie about their careersYes! Or men who say they're ambitious and work at an entry level job with no training or education to speak of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 6 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMomg I just went on a date with a guy like this. I said like "you walk so fast haha" to like signal SLOW THE FUCK DOWN. nope nope nope. can't do that. byeeee! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 13 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectlove everything you wrote here. i get lots of guys messaging me but not putting effort into conversation. i just stop replying and they'll be like "what happened? where'd you go?". it's like I'm not Oprah interviewing you and tiptoe-ing around your awkwardness with dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Scrotes mad! How dare we value our time and peace. Have you been blocking and deleting people more since you've learned about FDS?Yes, yes I have and it has made my life all the better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:49 PM |
| 9 | Remember not to date or stay with a pornsick loser. Remember they can convince you that you like it too and that watching it together is your idea. Remember that they can ruin your life. Remember that sex with a pornsick loser is subpar at best, damaging or deadly at worst.oh hell no. I hope she is pressing charges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:43 PM |
| 87 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.I hate being this way, but it's true. No eye contact, resting bitch face, etc. Sometimes I'll think I'm over-doing it by feeling this way and try to treat them like everyone else and then I'm reminded why we do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:40 PM |
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