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| 188 | Must be nice to have a senator write a letter telling the judge how manipulated you were | dingleberries4sport | /r/PussyPass | 17/11/22 04:25 PM |
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| – | Progressive women suddenly know who the “losers” are when it comes to datingUsing any singular group as an example is a bit absurd since the point OP is making is not that narrow. Progressives support Palestine, but OP isn’t making the case that liberal women should date Palestinians. The point is that progressives believe that the current system is unjust and rewards the wrong people “i.e. the common phrase on the left of “billionaires should not exist”” The people who truly should be rewarded, the underpaid worker are who truly adds value to the economic system, yet t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 12:13 PM |
| – | Friendzoning guys is an extremely painful experienceI don’t understand why so many women think men do this nefariously. That men decided the best way to find a partner is to do tons of favors for them over a long period of time without ever verbally expressing romantic interests. My first girlfriend I wasn’t romantically interested until we spent most of a summer together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenIt’s not mentally healthy for someone to constantly consider that they may be inadvertently terrifying people by simply living their life. I truly feel bad for this young generation of men. It is in no way, shape, or form good for a person to constantly be trying to modify their actions lest someone judge them. In my whole life I’ve only ever scared one woman by walking behind her, and oddly enough that was one of the few times I did change my behavior. I slowed my pace to walk far behind her be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:52 AM |
| 5 | Men have no sympathy towards womenI have a great deal of sympathy. A lot of men I know do. My friends are very sympathetic and caring to their wives and other women they meet. I feel I’ve been a sympathetic partner to my past girlfriends and other women I encounter in my life. What im not good at generally is being sympathetic when told some version of “you remind me of a group of people I’m about to lump you together with in my mind. This group of people make me feel scared, and vulnerable. This group of people behaves in an an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingCan vouch for #1 every female friend I have that is married to a lazy dude was told “don’t worry babe, I might’ve been lazy my whole life until this point, but I’m gonna make so much money once we get married” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Just Feels PointlessWell, I wouldn’t say useless unless the man is straight up rich. I make a pretty good salary, but if I was married to someone who made even 80% of what I made my life could change drastically, that said I would be satisfied with a partner who made quite a bit less than me. I think for most men they aren’t as concerned with economic status if they can find a partner. Having a wife/kids is a bigger priority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 08:51 AM |
| 0 | SVU’s latest episode exposed a societal double standard that's benefits womanThe men who claim they didn’t think it was wrong did something like go in for a kiss because they thought a women was interested when she wasn’t. They aren’t going to pretend like women wanted to see them jack off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:22 PM |
| 13 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsI went to an event recently where the schtick is that a person promotes/recommends their friend as someone to date, complete with slide show and everything. Almost every man was well employed and were at least average looking. Normal weight or fit, interesting hobbies, etc. On the other hand almost every woman who was…larger. I guarantee you if those women were average weight they would not need to be there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:25 AM |
| 28 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them“Nice dress” and “killin it. Fist bump” and most of the others are not sexualizing. Those are just compliments. I say similar things to my male friends all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Women who cycle through "criminal losers" instead of dating a "good guy"“Ooh, hey there bad boy. How bout I jump on the back of that bike and you take me to get a drink?” “I’m sorry miss, I don’t have a second helmet, and this bike isn’t rated for two riders so that would be against the vehicle code, also, do you have an ID? I thought you said you were 20, and I never buy alcohol for underage individuals.” Yes, bad boys need to be criminals. Rule followers aren’t bad boys, laws are a form of rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 12:26 PM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.He may also want to block some subs if it’s affecting his mental state. I (late 30s) was recently dating a late 20s woman and some of the female oriented subs constantly calling men in relationships with an age gap over 5 years “pedophile” and “disgusting” was seriously making me question myself, even though I knew they were just bitter and wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:05 PM |
| 6 | If you were a woman alone in the woods, would you rather encounter a man or a bear? Please explain your reasoning.This was what I was coming here to say. Even if it was (which, as you pointed out, it’s not), dont say something insulting and then pretend you mean something totally different. What if the question was “who would you rather share your deepest, most vulnerable fears with, an average woman or a tiger” it would still be a shitty mean question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthHave you seen my claw?! https://youtu.be/9gtu2Yb0nk4?si=z7mHNUvFvApjfSeD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 12:07 PM |
| 5 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.I think your paragraph about responsive desire is accurate, as that seems to align with what I’ve seen pretty well over the course of my life, but could you explain a bit more on the paragraph following? How do nice guys “not give anything to respond to” but at the same time act like a boyfriend? Those seem contradictory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 01:09 PM |
| 20 | Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman.lol, I was at a social event and I noticed most of the women were looking in the same direction, so I followed their line of sight to a fairly attractive dude over 6’3”. I went over at one point to say hi and he just sounded dumb as hell, turns out he was also temporarily homeless, which, I don’t judge, but I can’t imagine that would be a big hit with the ladies. I thought “man, just keep your mouth shut and you’ll be golden!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:41 AM |
| 12 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.Personally I don’t want those women, some men might just take whatever they can get, hence the common advice college men give to each other to “not stick your d*ck in crazy”. But it’s discouraging to see so many men who are attractive but horrible human beings be so successful romantically. Not to mention that human beings, both men and women are attracted to people who are popular. I’m sure you know at least a few women who are with attractive jerks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 10:06 PM |
| 44 | Actual good men dont envy scumbags and felons. Nor do they want the women these men attract.This is it. It’s frustrating to be told to work on yourself, so you go to the gym, get a better job, buy nicer clothes. Then you see scumbags with more admirers than they know what to do with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 05:33 PM |
| -3 | The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from womenIn some countries they are, but a lot of work that pays well without a degree in many places is still physical work that will ultimate destroy your body. Women generally avoid those, which is why they are earning the majority of degrees now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 06:52 AM |
| 4 | I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulateEh, there was a study that stated the prefrontal cortex keeps changing until 25, and a lot of Reddit users did, and still misinterpret that to mean you’re basically a child until 25. I still see frequent posts on relationship advice where a woman will post asking for advice and everyone ignores the issue and tells her to run for the hills because her bf is in his mid/late 30s and she’s barely under 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 04:17 PM |
| – | Women should get some slack for their decisions in their youthIf my comment implied an ongoing problem I didn’t meant it that way. In general the women I know who were not wild are with guys who weren’t wild. The women I know dating current or former drug addicts are usually girls with wild pasts themselves. There are exceptions. I saw a post on here the other day about that murderer with face tattoos who had gotten thousands of declarations of affection from women while in prison, but I wouldn’t suggest men start lowering their standards just because some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 10:38 PM |
| – | Women should get some slack for their decisions in their youthYeah, I’m unclear on OPs premise. As a dude with sisters I would absolutely care if I found out their bf had a habit of seeing prostitutes or was jailed for drugs. I think most women who didn’t have wild pasts would care as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Why does taxicab theory frustrate women?No, do not ever be a FWB for years. I would love for someone to come and clean my apartment every week for free. I would never advise anyone to be a person who cleans other peoples apartments for free. You can want something from another person while also realizing it’s not in that persons best interest do that for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Women complaining about men only valuing their bodies do not realise how boring the average woman is. Men being Homosocials is only logical.I know some people that roast their own coffee beans at home, but I assume that’s not what you’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 12:20 PM |
| – | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail timeMore than that obviously, but o was trying to make a point. The victim spent a month in prison because of this lie. She should AT LEAST have to do that much, though I doubt she will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 02:30 PM |
| – | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail timeThat’s just not true. You may have seen one or two cases that were crazy outliers, but the statistics show average punishment is 178 months https://www.ussc.gov/sites/default/files/pdf/research-and-publications/quick-facts/Sexual_Abuse_FY18.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 02:07 PM |
| – | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail timeI want her to spend at least a month in prison. I seriously doubt that will happen, but I guess we’ll find out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:05 PM |
| – | The answers to the bear question is enlightening as to how bad so many women are, not men.You’d think that, but go on 2x and see how many have posted the they are super duper serious about picking bear. I especially love the comments where they say they have seen a bear one time and it didn’t kill them, but one man, one time out of the millions they have been in proximity with touched them inappropriately once so their answer is super logical and justified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 02:50 PM |
| 11 | Lets redo this bear vs man thing. "Ravenously hungry Polar bear with a history of killing people" VS "Jacked up 6 foot 6 350lbs Prisoner serving a life sentence for raping and murdering several women"That was the one with Leonardo DiCaprio, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Is it possible for women to be hypergamic in a poor country?This is actually a huge problem in parts Africa right now. Ultra wealthy (comparatively) men marrying multiple women resulting in a lot of young, angry men. Sometimes they form groups and that’s how you get raiding parties and armed gangs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?While I’m sure that’s true, I don’t think that that the access to the type of fashion/clothes/nutrition that could help make one more attractive would be significantly different between say the child of a doctor and child of a CEO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 07:12 AM |
| 5 | "Self-improvement" makes you jaded even if it works for dating.Yeah, I could see being a little jaded if you got rejected by a bunch of people, lost like 20 pounds or so and didn’t do anything else, then a bunch of those same people try to get with you. That would be one thing. But most people wants someone who takes care of themselves physically and mentally. Has a job and is enjoyable to be around. It’s weird to take that as shallowness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 07:28 PM |
| 12 | A True Modern FantasyYou can look up case info after the fact. If you do during the case you can be removed and possibly charged with a crime, but as OP said this probably didn’t happen. Attorneys from either side can chose to poll the jury which means asking each individually how they voted on each charge, but then everyone in the court room would know who voted in what way. Not polling the jury then telling victims family after the fact is probably cause for disciplinary action. Source: was juror twice on two long… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/23 06:49 AM |
| 4 | Most men would have no issues dating if they had a lifestyle that allowed them to organically meet women.This has been my experience as well. It’s really frustrating because pre-Covid I didn’t have a huge problem meeting potential dates, but I’ve been trying for a year now, doing various social activities 2-3 times per week and nothing. The women I do meet at these activities are almost always married or too big of an age gap for me, but yeah, typically skew 80-90% men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:43 AM |
| 2 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]I’m curious as to how much higher that is? If just a bit I’d probably chalk that up to frustrations arising from communication rather than these men just naturally being abusive. “That’s why we look down on these relationships because we know from experience that the man is usually going outside of his society because women at home don’t want him.” That’s the OP’s point though. Why should a person be forever alone if women in other countries value them when they have little (in most women’s eyes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 01:55 PM |
| 49 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash, suit saysI hope the damages run into the 10s of millions that google has to pay out for this. They have a long history of punishing men there for simply existing. Especially white men any chance they can get | /r/PussyPass | 29/01/23 01:07 PM |
| 34 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them?Exactly this. In the town where I grew up a man with a fairly new working vehicle and a stable job over 50K/year and no felonies was considered a great catch because most single women are making under 35K and most of those are single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 01:36 AM |
| 5 | CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequentlyIn relation to the “initiating” bit I will say that women who pursued just me I saw as wanting a relationship. If a woman pursued me and one or more others in my group within a brief timeframe (which happened several times in college). She was seen as just wanting sex. I would think women view men the same way though. If a man is pursuing YOU then he probably wants just you, but if he’s pursuing you and one or two of your acquaintances then he probably just wants sex. Yet men still pursue 95% of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 09:46 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Men have to get their abundance mentality on the same level of women.It’s silly to be arrogant and overly picky, but before RP we used to just call it “the scent of desperation”. Really what it boils down to is having respect for yourself and not accepting behaviors from a potential partner that anyone who had options and self respect wouldn’t accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 01:58 PM |
| 3 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?If you google “fetal programming” you’ll get quite a bit, but here’s something that o get you started. Most of the studies are around stuff like smoking and diet, but there are some interesting ones on stress and environment. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5455144/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 03:32 AM |
| 2 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?It’s interesting you mention this he surrogate doing “stressful shit”. The science around developmental biology is pretty interesting actually. It’s thought now that a significant factor on who you become as a person may be prenatal developmental factors I.e. emotions/diet/mental state of the prenatal household. All things the donors would have very limited if any control over. But people still act like it’s just throwing something into a different box, and the outcome is the same…it’s really no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 09:34 PM |
| 65 | Must be nice to have a senator write a letter telling the judge how manipulated you wereI especially love the part of the article where her family and friends make it sound like a Stanford educated CEO was just manipulated by her mean scary boyfriend. We’re never going to have equality if guilty women keep using the “mean bf made me do it” excuse every time they facing even a bit of consequences for their actions. | /r/PussyPass | 17/11/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappinessYup, I think you’re right on the money. I have friends that are near/over forty with kid(s) in not good, but not terrible relationships that would probably leave if they could find better. But most men either want no children or at least one of their own. It’s a rare man indeed that will accept he’ll never have kids but raise others. Single dads are an option, but my friends don’t want the added stress of raising other peoples kids either, so they know they’re kind of stuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:56 AM |
| 9 | Doctor divorces gold-digging wife and begins dating a woman 15 years younger.You definitely make some good points. I hope most women are thinking your way. I just know that there is a popular feminist sub on here where they constantly post things like “Ugh! Why do men always ask us out at [insert totally normal place] it’s basically harassment!” If men followed the advice of Reddit feminist sub the only acceptable time to ask a woman out on a date would be at the end of another date, creating a bizarre sort of catch-22 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/07/22 12:20 PM |
| 24 | Wife gets busted trying to have husband assassinatedHow stupid are these people? I mean, I never met a hit-man, but I’m pretty sure they wouldn’t ask you “are you absolutely sure you want me to murder your ex?” Like a dozen times | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 42 | Florida woman 'killed her boyfriend by zipping him inside a suitcase'- said it was a game of hide-and-seek gone wrong- charged with 2nd degree murderWhat a horrible way to go | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/02/20 11:44 PM |
| 24 | Florida woman repeatedly tases husband after he asks for separation- charged with aggravated domestic battery, a felonyNo clue, she seems like such a sweetheart | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/02/20 12:35 AM |
| 290 | [FR] Banged some chick from TBPIn my experience "feminists" are even more open to slightly rough sex/foreplay than other girls. In college I knew a gorgeous feminist red-head who I would argue with constantly. Got called "misogynist, far-right, woman hater, etc." until one night we were in a club and wound up dancing. I got the sudden urge to pull on her hair HARD. She was shocked for a split second, then gave me the "fuck me!" eyes. Good times had all around that night | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/16 09:02 PM |
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