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Where are you getting this from?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 03:54 AM
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Wait, what? She expects you to let her go through your phone? And if you don't, it's because you're mad? How old are you guys? How long have you been dating? This sounds like some middle school shit. That being said, something is definitely off. I agree with some people her that it really shouldn't be spoken about, it should happen organically, but I wasn't there so I don't know how pushy you were being about it or not. ​ But think about this: 1.) She knows that you are going away for a week, sh…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:35 AM
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-Spent 20s living overseas and banging and loving life -Came back to the US to pursue career -Got the carrier and became bored as hell (with living in the US not the work). Lost drive to get pussy and do cool stuff - Working remote now, but still in the US and Miserable. - Want to go back overseas to hopefully get mojo back -Good idea ?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:41 PM
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Yea, can't see that being me anytime soon. Ideally I want to be overseas making the US buck and bucking chicks half my age. Maybe pop out a kid or two as I get into my later or mid life years.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:38 PM
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US. Born on the East Coast but currently on the West Coast.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:33 PM
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Thanks man. Been thinking about getting some counseling. It helped me though a dark time a few years back. Roommate situation definitely does have me down. Thankfully that's coming to an end. You're right about each decade having ups and downs. Perhaps the trick is to stop thinking everything is supposed to be linear and make an effort to actively figure out what it is you want.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:13 PM
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Hey Man, I feel you. Around the same age and seem to fall into depression in a similar way whenever I am not busy/occupying myself towards some future goal. Spent my 20s traveling around the world, partying and teaching English. Those were easily my best days. Had a great social life, met lots of broads, and was generally happy and felt like life had some momentum and was building towards some crescendo. I started to get insecure about my career and work situation. I didn't want to be an English…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:56 PM
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Bro you kidding me? Once you get there you'll forget all about her. I did the whole English teaching abroad (Japan, Korea, Colombia) and think you are making the right move here.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:10 PM
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They thing they're being cool and edgy. same as when they call me "dude." "don't call me dude"
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:43 PM
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Shit, I am an old ass man and going through the same fucking thing.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:42 PM
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Go fuck someone else. If she asks, admit to it once. Then see if her behavior changes. If it doesn't, just don't call her anymore....light switch has been flipped and you're toast. Most likely, she'll probably fuck you a few more times after that... maybe even real good. It's all a performance. She'll probably bust out the sexy lingerie and fake moans. Keep fucking the other girl, and looking for new plates. At some point she's going to ask you if you're still fucking suzy rotten-crotch. At whic…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:36 PM
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Yea. No woman wants to admit to herself that she cheats or has the capacity to cheat. even if she does cheat she will find some way to rationalize how it "wasn't really cheating"
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:35 PM
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Yes, those are a a good start. But is she smart enough to lie about her notch count? Good upbringing is important, but don't confuse this with social class...theres a lot of people who come form monied backgrounds with shitty upbringing and people from poorer backgrounds who were raised right. If she does one from a. fucked up background what is her take on it? Some people with fucked up parents actually wind up becoming very responsible adults because they see their parents fuck-up as cautionar…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:16 PM
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Yes, I have had this recently. While breaking up with a girl I was seeing in a sarcastic tone she said "cooool you're successful", and then she proceeded to make angry remarks about how she couldn't live in the area anymore because people with jobs pushed the prices up. All of this was totally off topic. I've been called arrogant. I have had another "friend" call me cheap because I made some money on the stock market and preferred to walk 15 minutes than call an uber. I've tried helping the guy,…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 10:05 PM
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Go out and get cheated on lol
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:30 AM
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Total blue-pill. Sorry, there is no "country" anymore... at least in the United States. You're really just willing to die for some exec's business interests and a pat on the head and being told "you're a good boy." Im not against joining the military, but if you do it, don't bullshit yourself. Financial reasons, the ability to learn a trade/ skill, learning to survive in harsh conditions, some adventure, those are all valid reasons in my eyes. But don't get it twisted...I have friends who have b…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:27 AM
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A lot of male hamstring goes on in TRP. "Just be alpha for, she won't want to fuck someone else." Bullshit... if you're with any girl long enough she will fuck someone else... no matter how "alpha" you are.... or at least be tempted to. Sure if you're more "alpha", its less likely, but this is ignoring over 50% of the equation... the girl and her morals. Seems the most "alpha" guys are the most oblivious to this probably because they are so up their own ass.... thinking about how alpha they are …
/r/askTRP18/11/20 09:23 AM
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Is there any easy way to pull up the 2015 posts, or a list of the best ones from the era?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:32 PM
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haha...fair play
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:37 AM
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This actually made me laugh out loud. Yea... I didn't see this coming. I mean, he's an alcoholic with his life in the gutter...she's not going to get back with him, right? Nope, chick logic lol. She pulls some slutty shit when she's around me, tries to deny it, then goes back to him crying after her feelings get hurt for me calling it out lol. He's the tough guy who "kicked her to the curb", but listens to her shit when she shows up at his door crying. Stupid me.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:51 PM
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I appreciate the honest feedback. I’m not above taking a whiff of my own bullshit. Yea….there could be some truth to what you are saying regarding the need for drama. if I’m honest with myself, my past two relationships have followed the same pattern. Hook up with a crazy slut, get mad at her for being a crazy slut, pick a fight (or fights) with her, “makeup”, rinse and repeat until I leave or she leaves. Not sure what going on here..haven’t had much of this issues in the past. Maybe I’m getting…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:22 PM
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Yea, I lived overseas for years. Latin America and Asia. Had a blast. Thinking moving back down to South America within the next year if my work situation stays remote. Much better dating scene and tax benefits.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:13 PM
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Thanks, man. I think the advice to do some volunteering is great. I've been spending too much time and energy on crazy people and their antics. It's been effecting my own well-being.That energy is probably better directed towards people more worthy of the help.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:43 AM
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You're right. He's a former friend. His drunken antics, unreliability and the way he treated people around him made him so. I do want to see him turn his life around though, and maybe part of this is seeing the girls around him for what they are? It pisses me off to see these ho s getting away with what they get away with. Be it to him or anyone else. I know what the girl and I did wasn't goo, but now that she goes back to him crying and trying to give him a guilt trip that it was his fault make…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:32 AM
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You're right... what I did was definitely not Kosher...but at that point the relationship between him and I was very strained, thought that this chick and him were actually done, and I was going through my own bullshit with the other girl I was trying to distract myself from. He was a shitty friend a lot of the time himself, mostly due to his drinking. By not telling him though, I feel like I am making it even worse. He might be pissed at me for it, but I think its better for him to know than no…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:09 AM
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Thanks, man. At this point I'm leaning towards telling him. This broad is playing with his emotions
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:03 AM
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You're right. There are a lot of unhinged people around me. I have my shit relatively together, and sometimes I find myself wondering how I keep on attracting these people into my life. For the most part, I don't let other people's BS affect my life. Once I see the crazy, I start to distance myself. Problem is that I don't always see it coming and almost everyone I meet is fucked up in some way or another. I really don't have anything to "learn" from him, other than what not to do. If anything t…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:01 AM
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I agree with you 100% man. I've always done ok with women. I'm well traveled, lived abroad for many years, have a good job, decent friends, fun hobbies, have a history of cute girlfriends etc. Went through a bit of a dry spell though, up until recently. Quarantine was a lot fun, and was able to break the slump... picked up two pretty cute plates (admittedly the relationships ended disastrously, but hey, win some loose some. Despite decent personalities and physical appearences, both were two men…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:22 AM
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When in Rome.... drink a Hite!
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:47 AM
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Yea, I hear ya, but after living in San Jose, where the ratio is horrendous, I do want a city where the ratio is better. I've loved in a lot of places and do definelty enjoy being in a city where beautiful women are plentiful, than one where there are 20 schmucks clawing over each other at the end of the night to try and bag a 6 cause she the only one around.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:44 AM
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Thats the thing....my work has gone fully remote. I can live anywhere at the moment. Perfer to stick to the US for the next 6 months to a year. then maybe South America. Lived there before and loved it. Just looking to make the best use of my time here.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:40 AM
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Haha are you Indian?
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:50 AM
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haha yea...ok....
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:52 AM
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Why did you miss out on the poon? I realize many of the classes are male dominated but couldn't you meet girls through social events/ just been on campus?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:48 AM
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This is a joke, right?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:51 PM
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Yes, definitely.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 06:02 PM
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No one said it was as easy. Obviously easier in said places. Point that I am making is that getting laid, or having a sexy girlfriend shouldn't be a big deal. In most countries, it's not. Seen dirt poor skinny short dudes in in some of these places have harems. I've been to a lot of countries man, but haven't seen any women literally starving. Yea, some of the places have problems homelessness and beggars and such, but have you recently been to any city on the West Coast of the US? It rivals if …
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:47 PM
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Hahah... don't stress it too much. You simply weren't that sexually compatible with here. I've found that sometimes, but not necessarily often, it's not even about looks. I've had hot chicks that made me feel grossed out when they touched me, and after sex, as well as ugly girls that I have enjoyed fucking (wouldn't bring them around in public though). A lot of times it just comes down to pheromones and body chemistry. You could have also been super nervous, set the exceptions too high in your o…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:44 AM
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It seems like the “easy” way out. Not necessarily. Living outside your own culture can help you view it as an outsider. Forest for the trees. and what not. He might realize that living abroad just simply might be a better deal for him. Or he may take what he needs to learn for it and come home with some wisdom and a story to tell. ​ Are you the top 10% man who is attracting the top 10% woman? Meh.... I don't know if top 10% men are attracting top 10% women anymore. Even if they are, with the fur…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:33 AM
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Glad to hear your are think about making this move, brother. I spend almost three years in Colombia, but ultimately came back to the US so i could have a "career." Been low key regretting it since I've been back and have been thinking of packing up and going back there for good. I think that you, as an Air Force Veteran, basically a model citizen, wanting to leave say a lot about the state of things here. Career prospects are better here, but in many ways, quality of life is worse ( for men). Al…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 07:23 AM
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She says she feels like crap for sending me a "sexy pic" Translation : " I do this all the time but I am afraid you might judge me."
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:49 AM
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Online dating isn’t trying. I can agree with that. But I do think online dating can give you a snapshot or glimpse into of the sexual market. I could be wrong. God I hope I'm wrong. I might be lazy... but its hard to get excited here over subpar options once you've had much better.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:45 AM
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Yea they're just raised better. their mothers tell them from the time they are little girls that they better have something other than their looks to keep a man, because one day those are going to fade and what then? Much healthier then the "you don't need no man" bullshit that little girls in the US are fed from the time that they stop shitting in diapers.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:39 AM
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Yea the amount of surveillance here and information that people voluntarily give up to big data is disturbing. We are just beginning to see the nefarious things that can be done with it. Alexa is always listening, tinder and these shit dating apps are recording your sexual preference and who you could possibly hooking up with, gmail TOS allows them to go through the content of your emails, your phone is sending information to server farms which keep permanent records of your location at all time…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:36 AM
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Yea right around the time I was there was when that youtube video dropped of that chubster walking around Harlem getting "catcalled" aka "harassed" on the streets of New York. All the western girl where bitching about men "catcalling" them. All the Colombian girls couldn't get their heads around it. "What do you mean? I like it when men tell me I look good on the street. It makes me feel sexy" Culture in the US is fucked.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:24 AM
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any white dude can get laid there... Why shouldn't any dude not be able to get laid anywhere? This idea that you have to be chad thunderdick alpha cock to sore some pussy is just a symptom of the disease that I am talking about. Only in the west (there are a few exceptions) do we see getting laid as some kind of feat. Most dudes in the Philippines have no problems scoring some tail and laugh at westerners who thrilled to fuck their "leftovers" (girls above their young 20s). Many South American c…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:19 AM
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Any specific examples of things you noticed? Wouldn't be surprised if there is some overlap.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:39 PM
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A few... Korea - not really there long enough to say what the dating scene is like for men. Judging from friends experiences, not too great. Japan - great for westerners. Average girl is slim and has manners. They are shy, but if you initiate approach most are receptive, or at the very least polite. Being a western woman there has the opposite effect. Most Japanese find them boorish and unattractive. As a western man, you can have you pick of western women there, but most don't bother given the …
/r/askTRP27/12/19 09:38 PM
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The absolute lowest N count among all of them was 6. Most had N counts 2 - 3 times that. Sad state of affairs when I read that and think to myself "18 is not that high".
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:19 PM
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