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| 131 | If only they all felt this level of shame... (also *accepting sorry I couldn't help it)I had a man who ghosted me send Dior shoes to my house with a note asking me to talk to him again. Men will really do anything but just act right the first time🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 31 | "Why didn't she say no?" BECAUSE YOU DON'T EVER TAKE NO AS AN ANSWER.I’ve been wanting these for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 174 | As a woman, you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.True! I don’t care if people shame me for refusing to date broke men. I’m not getting all dolled up and wasting hours of my time talking to a man at Applebee’s. Or worse, in a field. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:00 PM |
| 79 | WHAT THE ACTUAL F**K IS WRONG WITH MENI’m glad you found out sooner rather than later. Proud of you for immediately calling him out and leaving! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:54 AM |
| 22 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.A couple months ago, I had an encounter with a man who sounds a lot like the one who wrote this letter. He’s clearly not all there, and I only ever said hi to him a couple of times when I saw him during my walks. Only he didn’t write me a letter. He followed me home, entered my backyard, and got naked in my pool. Men like this are dangerous and these situations should be taken very seriously. OP is completely right to be concerned about her safety. It may have started out with a creepy letter, b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 66 | Having a male gynecologist is a bad idea. 👎🏾I’m not surprised. Why would any normal man want to be a gynecologist? It’s always been bizarre to me. They’re just men who found a way to get paid to look at vaginas all day. Sounds like every man’s dream come true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 18 | Don't send nudesEven Snapchat is too risky. They’ll just screenshot it or even take a picture using another phone. I remember once upon a time there was even an app that allowed you to save snaps without letting the other person know. Not sure if it’s still out there though. I think nudes should just be off the table, period. There’s never a good reason and these men don’t deserve them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 51 | How to implement FDS within a LTRI hate to have to tell you this, but no matter what you do, you can’t change a LVM into a HVM. If he wanted to treat you right, he just would. FDS isn’t simply about acting a certain way to make guys treat us well. It’s also about finding a high value male in the first place. You can’t just start to implement these strategies and expect your husband to suddenly stop being an asshole and start treating you like a queen. The best thing you can do is leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:52 AM |
| 205 | This comment on r / teenagers..girl is disturbed both brother and dad watch rough anal pornography :((This is so disgusting. Men like anal because they know it hurts. They want to degrade us. Reason #48385 why I will never agree to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 35 | Summer Walker shames Future’s baby mama for wanting $53k a month in child supportSeriously. In that one song when she said “I’d go to hell and jail about you boy” I DID NOT FEEL THAT. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:43 PM |
| 276 | Summer Walker shames Future’s baby mama for wanting $53k a month in child supportThis is a screenshot from Summer Walker’s Instagram story. She’s shaming Eliza Reign for “asking” for $53k a month in child support. Turns out, Eliza asked for much less, but Future didn’t submit paperwork proving his income. Temporary child support was granted based on his estimated income according to Forbes. Future has given Eliza $0 since their child was born. He also has a total of 8 children with 8 different women. If he doesn’t want to pay child support, he should probably stop impregnati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:53 PM |
| 102 | So, in OkCupid you can look for men by questions. If you ask: is it wrong for men to watch porn in a relationship ONLY 4 MEN SAID YES! 🤢🤮🤬 So men will continue to look at other women having sex because you are not enough?!Porn is just so harmful in general. The industry itself is terrible (trafficking, abuse, exploitation, etc.) not to mention the effect it has on men’s brains. The men who watch it are just gross. Especially while in an exclusive relationship. I understand most men still masturbate while in relationships, but they can just use their imagination. 🤷🏻♀️ And we all know that men can’t handle it when the tables are turned. If a man’s girlfriend watches porn and fantasizes about dicks bigger than his,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 46 | In need of solid advice ladiesPlease tell me this is a joke. This man is an abusive rapist. And a predator. He purposely targeted you because you’re young and he thought you’d be easy to manipulate. Please get yourself and the baby out of there. Do you have any family or friends you can stay with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 14 | Harry potter and the Audacity of this Scrote. Not only could he not use his big brain to figure out why I'm talking to him but he thinks he's hot stuff.Why did you even message him? Don’t approach men first. Let them come to you. If he found you attractive, he would have talked to you when you had class together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 198 | Throwaway because my boyfriend has my main account. How do I ask to be taken to a nice place for sex?Don’t have sex with him. He freaked out on you because he thought he was going to get laid and got pissed at the thought of that not happening. He doesn’t respect your boundaries or you. Also, it’s obviously too late in this situation, but you should never send nudes. Not even to your husband. I don’t care how much you trust him, you never know what might happen. Men are known to share nudes with their friends, and that’s when the relationship is going well. Think of what they might do if you br… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 85 | Ladies: don’t answer the “what are you looking for” question. Then, they will show you their colors.I don’t think it’s necessarily a sign of generosity. Some men are willing to spend lots of money if they think they’ll be getting laid. Just be careful and be prepared to block if he keeps showing signs that he is LV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:37 AM |
| 102 | Ladies: don’t answer the “what are you looking for” question. Then, they will show you their colors.How long have you been talking to him? It’s a huge red flag that this man is already trying to take you on a trip.. Based on this conversation, it seems like you haven’t been talking very long. I wouldn’t go on a trip with a man until we’re actually in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:31 AM |
| 49 | Ladies, do you use dating apps?Personally, I think it is incredibly rare to find a man worth your time on a dating app. It’s possible, just not likely. Most men on there are only looking for hookups and the ones who want relationships are unattractive, broke, or weird. There are a lot of posts on here that talk about good places to meet men. However, it is difficult to meet someone right now because of the pandemic. You could use them as practice but I think it would be a waste of your time more than anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:49 PM |
| 192 | Women need to start being as shallow to men as they are to usMen will claim we’re shallow either way so we may as well meet their expectations. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Lack of timely response = lack of respect and interestThere are definitely situations like yours where it’s completely logical to keep them off! I just have too much experience with men who do this 😂 It’s also likely that he was lying about not getting the notification anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:01 PM |
| 16 | Lack of timely response = lack of respect and interestThe fact that his app notifications are off tells me he’s likely already dating someone. People who turn off notifications from social media/dating apps are sketchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:35 PM |
| 92 | Proving their point: Guy feels attacked on thread lamenting men's hygiene, says it is 'unfair' to claim that never washing one's hands is unhygienic. O.oThis has to be a troll. I refuse to believe anyone is this stupid. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 93 | Here is a dude who wants people to tell him it's totally cool for an adult man to use a children's jungle gym at the park to workout (probably because he is too poor to afford a gym membership). Who cares if he scares the mothers & children! It's a resounding "You do you, bro!" from the comments.It is definitely very odd and creepy to choose to work out at a children’s park when there are so many other options. Even if gyms in his area are closed or he can’t afford a membership, he can buy a pull up bar online. And I’m sure he can find something at home to use for his pushups. There’s really no excuse for this. He’s just a weirdo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 88 | Damned if we do, damned if we don’t. This is why men’s opinions don’t matter. They only live to bring women down.So many men ranted about WAP but have said absolutely nothing about Tory shooting her. Or they’ve said that she’s lying or a snitch. They don’t care about women. I’ve also seen so many men claim that her wound looks like it was caused by glass and not a bullet. Guess how many of those men are doctors? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 08:24 PM |
| 216 | Came across this old post. Sadly, it’s not satire. There’s just so much wrong here.“I may have an average sized penis but I still expect the women I plan on sleeping with and then ghosting to have perfect breasts.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 01:34 AM |
| 194 | “I’m blasian but you better not be black in any form”.So many black men hate black women. I’m so tired of seeing it. I’m sorry to all of you beautiful ladies out there who have to deal with this bullshit. These men are scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:42 AM |
| 143 | Whisper is a goldmine for LVM!Men who like women half their age are ALWAYS creeps. I wish people would stop normalizing such large age gaps. These creeps will scream “but it’s legal!” every time. Just because it’s legal doesn’t mean it’s right. They would be going after 16 year olds too if it was legal. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 43 | The bar is SO LOW it's on the groundShe literally just means a leaf. The bar is in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 118 | Most men know they don't deserve you. Keep leveling up and don't be a fan!This is just so bizarre. And they don’t even care to level up so they’ll actually be worthy of someone liking them. Weirdos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:54 PM |
| 158 | Why are we so hated?They don’t want women to know that they actually can do better and don’t have to put up with their bullshit. As long as there are women out there who they can convince to sleep with them in exchange for a few texts and dinner at Applebee’s, they won’t have to put in any real effort. If all women were like us, they wouldn’t be getting laid. We know our value, and they hate us for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:34 AM |
| 62 | Wtf 🤦🏾♀️Considering how many men think it’s gay to wash their faces, use moisturizer, get a pedicure, etc. this doesn’t surprise me. Men are just content with being crusty and smelling like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:28 AM |
| 64 | Men are too interested in my job - red flag?Definitely a red flag. I think a lot of men see that and immediately think, “Oooh, I’ve always wanted to sleep with a flight attendant!” I don’t know why so many men have that particular fantasy. I guess they see flight attendants as submissive. So creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Ugh whyJust looked at her post history and she posted it here and in multiple other subs before. Not sure why because the answer will not change no matter who she asks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:36 AM |
| 55 | I’m always the second choice and I’m sick of it + proof that if a man wants you, they’ll make it clear immediatelyGirl don’t even sweat it. You dodged a bullet. This guy is low value and not even worth your time. I would warn that girl that he was flirting with you so she knows that he’s a player. I’d also be polite to him at work since you have to deal with him but other than that ignore him. Don’t let this loser make you feel bad about yourself! Male desire is abundant and low in value. You know your own worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 140 | I often feel like the black sheep of the family being single, but when I compare it to my sisters…When people tell me I need to lower my standards or I’ll end up alone.. okay? And what about it? I would rather be alone than settle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:41 PM |
| 181 | I Guess the r/TheRedPill Dorks' Plan to Rebrand Themselves as "Men's Self Help" rather than Misogynist, Emotionally Abusive Rapists isn't going well. Notice how you have NEVER seen something this manipulative on r/FemaleDatingStrategy despite all the claims we're "the same".This is so fucking weird. I wish all women could read this. They can call us gold diggers or femcels all they want but we aren’t out here trying to manipulate men. This is psychotic behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 34 | Ultimate Alpha Male Requirements 😂Okay, that’s fine. Here are mine: Must have a brain Oops, I guess he doesn’t meet my standards :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Meeting for the first time offline (I don’t want it to be awkward, I’m so nervousss)This man is a predator. No normal man in his 30s would date a 21 year old. Block him and please read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 45 | In addition to questioning my modesty he also told me I wasn’t submissive enough and that he thinks it’s fine to hit children. Dodged a bullet here 🙃They banned yoga pants at my middle school because they said we were distracting the boys too much. We were 13 years old. How about teaching boys not to sexualize women instead of trying to control what we wear? I don’t wear clothes for anyone but myself. And I’ll wear leggings whenever I please because they’re comfortable and cute 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 56 | Guy spends days talking about plans Sunday to go for an early run and then brunch. Saturday he stops responding to my inquiries about time and place at 1:30pm. Sunday morning expects me to jump to fulfil non-plans. Thoughts?Block. Men usually do this to test us. Or because they’re just complete morons who have no manners. Either way, not worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 309 | Look at the edit, men are idiots 🙄Apparently having standards is just as bad as being racist. Noted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 138 | Sorry!!!! (Not) guy was so damn thirsty.But it’s not rude to ask someone to just bring you food they cooked for themselves? Some men are delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:54 PM |
| 26 | I have no words lolI know multiple 25-30 year olds who make $100,000... $50k a year is not high. And this man is a complete ass. I hope she leaves him and takes half his money since he’s so big on splitting everything in half! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Being creeped out is perfectly validI googled it and the law states that a fence serves as enough of a warning. We’re trying to get the DA to press charges but it’s hard because they’re trying to arrest less people due to covid 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:14 PM |
| 92 | Being creeped out is perfectly validNope, he felt bad. He agreed to move if that guy is still in the neighborhood. Turns out the man rents a room from somebody so we’re all hoping they kick him out after this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 18 | Being creeped out is perfectly validI highly recommend ring doorbells and cameras! They’re definitely worth the money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 47 | Being creeped out is perfectly validUgh I know! We’re trying to get a protective order against him now since the cops don’t seem to care. I’m very lucky to have her as a neighbor! I’m actually close with a lot of my neighbors so I’ll basically have a team of people looking out for me which is nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 74 | Being creeped out is perfectly validLuckily we have cameras. My mom had left the house maybe 5 minutes before and she saw him come in on the Ring app and immediately called the police. While she was on the phone with 911, my neighbor called me to say she had seen him walking by my house but he was no longer in her view so I looked out the window and saw him. The police came and took him in for a 72 hour psychiatric hold but they couldn’t arrest him because apparently he gets a warning the first time. He’s mentally ill so I have no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:53 PM |
| 237 | Being creeped out is perfectly validThis past Sunday, a man followed me home when I was walking my dog through the neighborhood. When I told my dad, he didn’t think it was a big deal at all and acted like I was just being paranoid. The next day, when I was home alone, I looked out the window and saw the same man naked in my pool. Always trust your instincts and definitely don’t let men tell you how you should feel! Men will never understand what it’s like to be a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 95 | It was time for Thomas to leave, for he had seen everythingI used to think older men were more mature and therefore better. Turns out, it doesn’t matter how old they are because they’re all childish anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 18 | Flo Milli - Pussycat Doll (Audio)I’m obsessed with Flo Milli! Her and Megan Thee Stallion always make me feel like a bad bitch💅🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:23 AM |
| 45 | Ladies beware when guys "unexpectedly" cancel dates.Men are fucking weirdos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:18 PM |
| 317 | Once again, men freely telling the Internet how broke they are!If I’m paying for my own trip then I’m going by myself or with friends lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:06 PM |
| 8 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Me too! I have a few female virgo friends who are amazing. It’s just the men who suck for some reason lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 30 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Both virgos I dated were narcissists. Avoid at all costs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:40 PM |
| 31 | How to get over someone who didn't treat you well in the first placeBlock the asshole guy. Don’t overthink it, just do it as soon as you finish reading this. He is never going to be with you. Why? Because you gave him all the benefits of being in a relationship with you without him having to put in any effort. Men don’t value someone they didn’t have to work for. He just doesn’t like you and that’s okay. The reason you find it so difficult to get over him is because you keep hoping that he’ll change his mind and realize you’re what he wants. But even if that hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 62 | How soon after a first date should a man ask you out again?If it didn’t lead to anything the first time you went out, I don’t see why it would the second time. If he liked you he would have responded by now and most likely would have asked you out again. Forget him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 46 | Just dumped my bfI’m so happy you dumped him. I want you to understand that he was a predator and he was trying to take advantage of you. He thought that it would be easy to manipulate you because you are still so young and inexperienced. I’m glad you got out of that relationship before he was able to convince you to be another one of his subs. I really hope you blocked him after you dumped him! Don’t give him the chance to try to convince you to get back together. We’re all here for you while you heal from this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:16 PM |
| 61 | Sometimes I really hate menRead the handbook. Don’t ask a man if he wants to hang out. You hang out with friends, you go on dates with men. And always let the man ask you out. If you chase him he will never see you as someone he might want to date because he will think you’re desperate. This guy is a loser so I suggest you block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 42 | I feel like this is grounds for block, delete, move on, am I being too harsh?His comment on the threesome was repulsive. For future reference, don’t tell men about your past relationship trauma. You want them to think you’re used to being treated like a queen and won’t accept anything less. A lot of them will also try to use your past to their advantage. Just block this guy and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:34 AM |
| 60 | Men post things like this to get a Pickmeisha to dance for themNone of this is difficult to cook properly. If a man can’t even make some eggs and pancakes and follow baking directions for packaged cinnamon rolls then he has no chance with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:56 AM |
| 113 | The bulk of this post is focused on telling the world how unattractive he used to think women like his future wife are. Colorism affects these LVM's brains to the core. They will not accept what a white society tells them not to.If my man posted something like this or even said it to me directly he’d be gone. I’m so embarrassed for her. I hope she realizes that she deserves better 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:39 PM |
| 68 | WUT?!I really hope this is fake. I can’t imagine a man going through life thinking that women would choose to walk around with dick sized tampons in their vaginas for days every single month. But honestly, I could easily see it being true 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 09:58 PM |
| 186 | Ladies: never forget the “Fox and the Grapes” parable.Just like the men who ask you out and then say “whatever, you’re ugly anyway.” when you reject them lol I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:05 PM |
| 55 | Ladies, not sure what to do when your husband forces you to give blowjobs until your lips are bleeding and you throw up? Male redditor has the solution for you!Nah, she can just have the whole man. I’ll find another one that doesn’t like degrading women ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:49 PM |
| 57 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?I feel like head really isn’t necessary for men. Oral for women is more important because most of us can’t cum from penetration alone, whereas men cum basically every single time. I have a terrible gag reflex so I’ve never liked giving head either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:17 PM |
| 147 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?“Babe, I’m just so horny right now, please stick your dick in my throat until I throw up! Then when you’re done with that use my body to masturbate while I use a vibrator since you don’t care enough to pleasure me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:47 PM |
| 418 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?So much to unpack here. He basically wants a prostitute who will make him feel good without him having to do anything in return. And he gaslights her by telling her she never gives him spontaneous head even though she has multiple times🤦🏻♀️ If a man doesn’t care that you’re in pain during sex, he doesn’t care about you. This man is just disgusting and I hope she divorces him. Edit: realized she said fiancé not husband so I hope she just dumps him before the wedding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:43 PM |
| 55 | Slapped a girl, BuT iS oK bEcAuSe I WaS DeFenDinG mYSelF - Here's what that says about YOU and the other men who get off from those kind of stories.He knew exactly what he was doing. I bet he was still mad at the girl for pouring her beer on him before and was hoping she’d do it again so he’d have an excuse to hit her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:38 PM |
| 123 | Slapped a girl, BuT iS oK bEcAuSe I WaS DeFenDinG mYSelF - Here's what that says about YOU and the other men who get off from those kind of stories.I mean she shouldn’t have poured his drink on him but that absolutely does NOT warrant violence. Plus he said “I couldn’t help myself.” Yes. You could. Men like him just love to start shit. He knew that saying something would start an argument, especially with the same girl from before being there. I hope his girlfriend dumps him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 9 | I thought this sub was about dating, not just hating on men??If you don’t like the sub why are you on it? First, the point of men not being allowed is because this is supposed to be a safe space for women to share their experiences, opinions and advice without men commenting their unwanted opinions. There are also men only subs out there. And second, we don’t hate men. If we hated men, we wouldn’t be trying to date them and this sub wouldn’t need to exist lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:33 AM |
| 19 | Don’t ever let men tell you it’s your fault for getting raped. It has nothing to do with what you wore, said, past history, etc. Men will rape and abuse actual monkeys. (Warning, the story on this link is depraved and horrifying)All the stuff that came out about him is so creepy. And he’s racist on top of it. He excuses his disgusting behavior by saying they were jokes that were meant to shock people, but I highly doubt it. Did you hear that clip of him talking about a six year old girl and saying she was sexy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 14 | I just watched the Notebook and thought of FDSThey definitely are not a couple to look up to! I mean they dated for a few months at 17 and he never got over her, super unhealthy and obsessive. But it just shows that even a LVM will put in effort to communicate if he likes you😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:18 AM |
| 53 | I just watched the Notebook and thought of FDSHe wrote Allie a letter every single day for an entire year while many men take 3-5 business days to reply to a text😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:41 AM |
| 55 | Don’t ever let men tell you it’s your fault for getting raped. It has nothing to do with what you wore, said, past history, etc. Men will rape and abuse actual monkeys. (Warning, the story on this link is depraved and horrifying)This is absolutely terrifying. Whenever I hear stories about men raping animals I lose all hope in them. There is nothing more disgusting. I’m glad they were able to rescue that poor baby 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:39 AM |
| 64 | Height is a flaw “in the eyes of women.” Nah, being a scrote who speaks for all of us does that. 🙄😓Nah. It doesn’t matter if you’re short if you’re otherwise good looking and have a great personality. It might matter to women taller than you, (I wouldn’t date someone shorter than me) but the good news is that there are plenty of short women. The only thing stopping short men from getting dates is their own insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 66 | Some real tea: You should only get married if the guy treats you like a queen and/or if he has money.They shame women like this but as soon as they make enough money they go after the same women they were shaming. Men know that beautiful women with expensive taste are the perfect “trophy wives.” The ultimate status symbols for men are money and a beautiful wife. A perfect example that we’ve probably all seen is the Wolf of Wall Street. Jordan dumped his first wife for Naomi as soon as he got rich. Happens all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:51 PM |
| 172 | Some real tea: You should only get married if the guy treats you like a queen and/or if he has money.Let’s be honest, so many men cheat. There’s no way to know if he’s going to or not. If I get cheated on, I’d rather cry about it in a Rolls Royce than a Honda Civic. Then go to the mall and buy some Fendi to make me feel better. In all seriousness though, it’s normal to want financial stability. Men can shame us all they want, but I don’t want to struggle and I definitely don’t want my kids to struggle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 11 | Trouble getting over my exFirst of all, you need to block him! He is 100% a LVM and that will never change. There is no reason to stay friends with him; it will only make it harder for you to move on. The only decent thing about him was that he helped you deal with your sexual assault and didn’t blame you for it. That is not impressive, it is the bare minimum. Any decent human would tell you that it wasn’t your fault! I’m sorry that your family can’t see that, and I’m sorry about what happened to you. You are not damaged… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 135 | A former colleague posted this. He’s old, disgusting, extremely over weight, bald, short. This is over an insta movement that’s for women supporting other women.It’s always the ugliest men who have the most to say. Salty af because women aren’t interested in him🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:06 PM |
| 56 | AVOIDED A POTENTIAL LVMHonestly this is why we should all just hold off on dating until the pandemic slows down and it’s safer to eat at restaurants. These LVM are taking this opportunity to take us on low effort dates where they don’t have to spend any money because they think we won’t complain since things are shut down/unsafe. Walk in the park? Not a date. Going for a drive? Not a date. There really is just no way to date safely while maintaining our standards right now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:16 AM |
| 15 | Advice: How would you gauge his value? Critique appreciated!First, you should have asked him in the beginning if he was looking for a serious relationship. And a walk in the park is not a date. I know we’re in a pandemic but you should still expect some effort on his part to come up with something! Next mistake was accepting a date at his house. House dates are a no-go early on, once you’re in a relationship they’re acceptable but he still must take you out on real dates regularly. Also, you’ve only known him for two weeks and you slept over at his house… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:12 AM |
| 7 | Scrote wants his girlfriend to fulfill his perverted fantasy but gets upset at the thought of her wanting him to change 🤦🏻♀️Never even heard of that but I’ll make sure not to do that again, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 15 | Imagine giving birth to a man’s child just for him to say this.Oh absolutely! Her behavior is definitely childish. They’re both wrong here. But you can see how they ended up together 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:23 PM |
| 202 | Imagine giving birth to a man’s child just for him to say this.This is why we must be VERY careful about who we have children with. The audacity for him to insult her body after she carried HIS child for 9 months. She looks great🖕🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 13 | Men of Reddit: “Daily porn use is the only thing that stops me from raping women”Even now, most go unreported. Based on a few different data sources, only around 30-40% are actually reported to police. Could be even less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:19 PM |
| 23 | Men of Reddit: “Daily porn use is the only thing that stops me from raping women”Think about how many rapes go unreported too! The number is probably so much higher than we think it is. But yes, these men don’t care how porn affects women. They don’t even care that it can cause erectile disfunction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:57 PM |
| 59 | And he wonders why he’s single when he sends me unprovoked messages like this about my selfiesThis is so creepy. Ask him why it seems like every year his dick gets 1 inch smaller. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:28 PM |
| 92 | Men of Reddit: “Daily porn use is the only thing that stops me from raping women”Out of curiosity, I did some googling and found the crime rates in the United States from 1960-2018. The number of rapes in 1960: 17,190. In 2018: 139,380. I will note that after 2016, they started counting both male and female rapes, while before that only female ones were counted. In 2015, the number was still 91,261. Yes, the United States population has increased a lot since 1960. It has almost doubled. But the number of rapes per year has multiplied by EIGHT. So tell me, does porn prevent m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:11 PM |
| 175 | Scrote wants his girlfriend to fulfill his perverted fantasy but gets upset at the thought of her wanting him to change 🤦🏻♀️This creep asked his girlfriend to start dressing and acting more like an anime girl, which to him involves basically dressing and acting like a CHILD. She thought he was just kidding since it sounded so absurd, so she joked that she’d like him to look more like Henry Cavill. He got so upset that she would dare to say such a thing since he “already felt enough pressure as a skinny white guy.” Men who are obsessed with anime girls are so creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:00 PM |
| 12 | Three male dating coaches giving bad advice to women!True. If those guys want to follow his advice then good, it makes it so much easier for us to spot LVM💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 36 | Three male dating coaches giving bad advice to women!Male dating coaches NEVER have good advice! There’s this one guy on tiktok who encourages men to keep a “stable” full of “mares.” Who the hell refers to women as horses? His username is russellhartley and he somehow has over 350k followers on there. He also has videos explaining how to have a three way, what it’s like dating a sugar baby, and lots of other gross stuff. I recommend watching his tiktoks if you want a good laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:37 PM |
| 54 | Hidden text notifications!!Something is definitely going on. There is absolutely no reason for him to have suddenly changed that unless he’s hiding something bad. He’s either talking to another woman or already sleeping with her. Both of my exes that had their notifications muted turned out to be cheating or talking to other girls. One of them had me put my fingerprint in his phone (I didn’t ask, he suggested it) and when I went to use his phone a week later he had already removed it. I would find a way to go through his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 67 | Anytime I see “hang out” or “coffee” I already know it’s a red flag.I hang out with my friends. I go on dates with men. A coffee date is just so low effort. It says to me, “I find you attractive enough to sleep with but I don’t want to waste money on dinner in case this doesn’t work out. You aren’t worth it.” Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 106 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"I will never understand why a woman would want that type of relationship. Yeah, let me just risk getting an STD so I can have sex with a guy who doesn’t give a fuck about me, cums in 5 minutes, and makes no effort to give me an orgasm. Sounds like a dream come true. I know there are men who are great in bed and actually tend to their partner’s needs but I still wouldn’t be interested. I have a vibrator for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:51 PM |
| 232 | Gaslighting: Table for 3take her swimming on the first date? nah, bring a measuring tape on the first date🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 30 | To ghost or not to ghostGhost him. It’s one thing to have to cancel a date with a valid excuse, and it’s another to cancel 3 times. If he wanted to see you he would put in the effort. It really isn’t hard to set aside a little time to see someone, and if he really liked you he would have done that. Just block his number and social media accounts. No explanation needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 33 | Cheap LVM brags about not buying his wife a ringIf diamonds aren’t rare enough for him he could have bought her a ring with a different stone. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 135 | Back when I was using OLD I had this happen....the audacity is astounding!Hi, just checking to see how low your self esteem is so I know if I’ll be able to hit you up for sex later! Don’t want to be rude! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:18 AM |
| 176 | Is this method really effective?“Yeah, do you know someone that has one?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:28 PM |
| 458 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationHe didn’t ask how it’s going either.. this guy has a LOT of issues. Yikes. Glad the trash took itself out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:42 PM |
| 37 | This is why when a sex deprived SCROTE comes back in your life you should just BLOCK. They see you explaining things as an attack or challenge. They will not apologize. Cut your losses.Why do they even try this shit? Nobody just has a number saved in their phone with no name attached. He probably was just scrolling through his contacts and texted every woman he thought might sleep with him again. I’m glad you realized it’s better to just block, they never deserve a response! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:26 PM |
| 221 | The bar is nonexistent at this pointShe can enjoy her finger turning green then🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 40 | How do you forgive yourself for past pickme behavior?Almost everyone on this sub was once a pickme. Forgive yourself for the mistakes you made before you knew better! You can’t go back and change the past but you can learn from those mistakes and use that knowledge to shape your future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:02 PM |
| 39 | No birthday present...Yes. Dump him. Even if you had a fight, he should have celebrated your birthday with you and given you a gift. Birthdays are an important event and your boyfriend should ALWAYS make the effort to make it special. Don’t even waste your time explaining to him why you’re dumping him. Send him a simple “We’re done.” and block. He knows exactly what he did and he’ll know why you’re dumping him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:27 AM |
| 23 | Dating Coach Publicly Negs His WifeThis is such a weird mentality. Attractive women can’t have good personalities, and average or unattractive women are “more realistic?” Someone should probably tell this guy that his mere existence proves his logic to be false, since he’s both unattractive and an awful person. Sounds like he’s just salty that nobody he considers beautiful was interested in him so he had to come up with some explanation for why his wife is “average.” I know plenty of incredibly beautiful women who are also hilari… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 32 | Always block them so they don’t even get the chance to pop back up.A guy that I never even dated just sent me $200 on Venmo a few weeks ago hoping that I’d finally talk to him again after six months. These men are pathetic 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:38 AM |
| 86 | Every time you feel like a regretful idiot for keeping NV/LV mates and friends in your life for too long, remember that Beyoncé is still married to Jay-ZBeyoncé is living proof that it doesn’t matter how beautiful, intelligent, and successful you are. There will ALWAYS be a man who doesn’t appreciate you. Find one that does. It’s not that you’re too much, it’s that he isn’t enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 22 | How do you approach the « not having sex with a new partner before commitment » thing?Just don’t make out with them alone and you can avoid that situation. If he brings up sex, just tell him that you prefer to get to know people and establish a connection before becoming intimate. As another commenter said, don’t ever tell him you only have sex once in a relationship! Some men will stick around and ask you to be exclusive just so they can have sex with you and then leave. If he pressures you at all or keeps asking once you’ve made your boundaries clear, block him. A HVM will resp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:04 AM |
| 31 | “Decent sex life” and husband watches porn.Nah. If sex with me isn’t enough for him then he can be single and enjoy the women on his screen. Most men who watch porn and follow naked women on Instagram would also be pissed if their girlfriends followed naked men and fantasized about them. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 29 | Always block them so they don’t even get the chance to pop back up.He’s an ex for a reason. If it didn’t work out the first time, there’s no reason it would work a second time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:03 PM |
| 83 | this makes me so sadThis is so bizarre. I’m the type of person who borrows tons of clothes from my boyfriend when in a relationship and I have NEVER had one of them get upset over it. In fact, they all loved seeing me in their clothes. So to me this is just weird as hell. I mean, they’re married? It’s not like he can’t also wear the clothes just because she borrows them, so why is he acting like her wearing them prevents him from having anything to wear? Just do some laundry lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 231 | Always block them so they don’t even get the chance to pop back up.I used to think that if a man came back to me, it meant he finally realized he made a mistake losing me. One of the best lessons you can learn is that it doesn’t mean ANYTHING. Men come back because they’re bored, they’re lonely, they want sex, they want an ego boost, or they want to check if you’re still stupid enough to respond. Yes, it is possible for a man to realize he fucked up. But even if that’s the case, it’s too late! Don’t make the mistake of giving someone a second chance just becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.They changed the URL or made a new site so the link she gave doesn’t work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 82 | Lust can lead to bad decisionsAlways masturbate before you reach out to someone. 9/10 times you’ll decide not to do it once you’re no longer horny lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:55 AM |
| 10 | Is a guy [25M] whose friends are mostly attractive women whom he’s previously crushed on but with whom he’s remained friends, is he a LVM?Definitely a NVM. Can’t drive, no job, and expects you to pay for his expensive sushi and be his chauffeur. Block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:51 AM |
| 49 | Why do ugly guys treat you like you're the ugly one once you give them a chance?Ugly men know they aren’t on the same level as you looks wise so they’ll try to bring you down so you don’t realize you can do better. I read a story (I think it was on reddit) about this woman’s boyfriend who would constantly tell her that she smelled like BO. She became obsessed with taking showers, reapplying deodorant and spraying perfume. She’d constantly ask her friends if she smelled bad. One day, she had enough because she knew there was no way she smelled bad, so she asked him what the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:46 AM |
| 15 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.I’m not sure honestly. A lot of people in the comments of the tiktok said they reported it so I’m hoping it gets shut down and whoever is behind it gets arrested! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.Maybe you’re going to the wrong part of the site. On the main page just scroll down and there’s a list of states, if you click any of those it should take you to a thread with photos. I think there’s also a “VIP” part that makes you sign up and pay so maybe that’s where you’re looking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 4 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.It doesn’t do that for me, not sure what’s up with that. Some people told me the same thing but it never asked me to make an account and I was able to see everything. Someone told me she was able to see it on her laptop so maybe try that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:26 AM |
| 6 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.I can’t because I think your settings prevent new users from sending messages, if you message me first I can send it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:12 AM |
| 87 | Had a chuckle seeing FDS listed as a female incel subI don’t think they understand that the women on this sub have no problem attracting men and finding dates. Most women, even those that would be considered unattractive by society’s standards, can have sex anytime they want because men would have sex with a hot pocket. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 9 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.Seems like mostly US but there were some UK posts and I think a couple other countries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:07 AM |
| 48 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.they changed the URL or made a new site, not sure. I have the link but I’m not posting it publicly, if you want it feel free to message me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:42 PM |
| 104 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.Here’s the link to the original post. This is actually sickening. Also, apparently the link she gave no longer works because they took the website down, but they already made a new one. Don’t send nudes to any guy, not even your husband. Edit: I found the new link, not sure if I should post it or not. I don’t know if it’s against the rules and also I don’t want any scrotes that lurk here to have it. Edit2: If you want the link please message me! I’ve been bombarded with messages and comments ask… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 55 | Men will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. NEVER sleep with them before you get commitment!I just saw a Tiktok the other day warning women about this creepy website where men post nudes they’ve been sent as well as creepshots. There were lots of categories like “big tits” and “MILF,” and also threads for each state. I wanted to throw up. There were even men requesting specific women. They were posting screenshots of girls on Instagram saying “Anyone have pictures of ______?” I need to find it again so I can make a post about it on here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:58 PM |
| 91 | LVM getting 8K likes for saying with he physically silences women because he can’t afford a restaurant 🤦🏾♀️How are you just gonna admit that you’re broke on Twitter for everyone to see lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:41 PM |
| 20 | He thinks his insults will break me. Well except they won’t. I’ll lose weigh he stays LVExactly! They hate this sub because they know everything we say is the truth. They don’t want us telling other women about their manipulation, abuse, gaslighting, etc. because it makes it harder for them to trick women into sleeping with them. They can keep being pissed and we’ll keep spreading the gospel lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 181 | ‘I broke up with her, she’s moved on with her life, now I want her back’- NEGATIVE VALUE MALEA 15 year difference is not “a bit of an age gap.” She was barely out of high school and anyone who goes for someone that young is just trying to find a partner they can easily manipulate who won’t know any better. I’m so glad this girl got into a good school and blocked this creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 151 | Men will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. NEVER sleep with them before you get commitment!We definitely discourage all home dates on this sub because they’re extremely low effort and obviously an excuse to have you in his house where it’s a lot easier to try to convince you to have sex. He can cook for you once you’re in an established relationship! I feel like so many women fall for the “let me cook dinner for you” line because they think it’s romantic. Little do they know, he suggests that so he doesn’t have to spend any money on you and is hoping to get laid after your “romantic” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:21 PM |
| 151 | So when it’s the man getting abused, suddenly he’s not interested in abuse kinks? Also notice how no one in the comments said anything about the age gap.Sounds fake but I find it hilarious that he’s super hesitant to have anything up his butt because he KNOWS it’s painful but he’s also hesitant to say no because he wants to do anal with her. So you don’t wanna be in pain but you’re fine with inflicting pain on your girlfriend? lmaaaaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 44 | Men will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. NEVER sleep with them before you get commitment!I don’t see it as a reward since I also enjoy having sex, I just have more self control than men so I won’t sleep with anyone who hasn’t met my standards and agreed to be in an exclusive relationship. It’s not just about waiting a specific amount of time, it’s about making sure he is who he says he is. If you have sex immediately, you know nothing about him. Sure, a man can pretend to be nice and then leave as soon as you sleep with him. But how long can he pretend? I’ve met plenty of men who we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:59 PM |
| 59 | LVM using CashApp to get my attention after I blocked him everywhere else. I accepted the ONE DOLLAR, then blocked him on CashApp too :)I know someone with an emotionally/physically abusive ex husband and every time he fucked up, he immediately offered to buy her something or would surprise her. New clothes, an Apple watch, a YSL wallet, a Tiffany’s ring, etc. So disgusting and manipulative to think buying her things would fix what he did. Money will never fix a broken relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:47 PM |
| 139 | LVM using CashApp to get my attention after I blocked him everywhere else. I accepted the ONE DOLLAR, then blocked him on CashApp too :)A guy I’ve been ignoring for six months sent me $200 a couple weeks ago. No, I didn’t send it back 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 25 | How do you get rid of any negative feelings for the "girl he told you to not worry about"?Be polite. Don’t be rude, it’ll only show her that you care. And for future reference, always trust your intuition! If you feel like there’s something going on, there probably is. Also, it is a HUGE red flag if a man says his exes are crazy. When he says that, he probably just means that she was emotional and didn’t like it when he treated her like shit. Your ex is probably saying the same thing about you now. Every single time a man has told me his ex is psycho, he ended up being the psycho one… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:14 PM |
| 131 | Men will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. NEVER sleep with them before you get commitment!That’s why you also pay attention to his actions. It’s easy for him to say he’s committed but he has to show it as well. I wouldn’t agree to be exclusive until he has repeatedly demonstrated that he’s the type of man I would want to be with. Don’t agree to be his girlfriend until he’s earned that privilege and it won’t be an issue! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 97 | He thinks his insults will break me. Well except they won’t. I’ll lose weigh he stays LVI love how he says “real women don’t need an internet forum to attract high quality men.” Meanwhile, he’s the one spending his time lurking on said forum.. Everyone on this sub knows that your value is not directly tied to your looks. That being said, you can definitely lose the weight if you want to while this guy is stuck being a loser who has nothing better to do but stalk this sub. Only insecure people send hateful messages like this 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:58 PM |
| 35 | Thank you FDS members for your support. Here is my update.Here’s the thing about men. Once they realize they can get away with treating you badly as long as they apologize and “promise to be better,” they will keep doing it. Nothing you do or say will make him change. You’ve now taught him that he can lie to you and get away with it even when you catch him. He’s going to continue watching porn, he’s just going to be more careful. If you don’t leave him now, he’s only going to hurt you again. I know it isn’t easy to leave someone when you love them. But… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 9 | REMINDER: Set High Standards to Filter Out LVM: Popular Gaming Youtuber Blasts Woman Over Text MessagesThis is why we don’t date gamers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:05 PM |
| 190 | Men will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. NEVER sleep with them before you get commitment!Do not make the mistake of giving them sex before you’re in a relationship. That includes oral ladies! Men will invent entire personalities to try to get you to sleep with them. Make sure you know exactly who they are and what their intentions are because we all know we get attached much more easily after sex. If you have sex too early it’s hard to leave when you find out who they really are because you’re already attached. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 143 | The suggestion of therapy will feel like an insult until you really sit with this question. So grateful this finally clicked for me😌Yes! Love and respect yourself enough to walk away from people who continuously hurt you, disrespect you, and make you question yourself. This goes for friendships as well! Always be very selective about who you allow in your life 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 14 | feeling stupidBlock him. Now. Find other things to do when you’re bored! Read books (check out the recommended reading list on this sub), go for a walk, watch something on Netflix, call/facetime a friend, literally anything but do not waste any more of your time talking to him. As soon as you block him, you’ll feel so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:55 AM |
| 7 | The implication that being alone is worse than settling for bare minimum enrages me more than anything.A man interested in you taking you out really is the bare minimum. The fact that this guy expects you to be impressed with that shows us exactly why he’s twice divorced. And I love the attitude! Men are easily replaceable, if one doesn’t act right, the next one will😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:43 AM |
| 33 | The implication that being alone is worse than settling for bare minimum enrages me more than anything.One of my favorite tweets I’ve seen was in response to a man laughing about how the women who rejected him were now alone on Valentine’s Day. “Just remember, someone chose loneliness over you.” Being alone is so much better than being with someone who isn’t good enough for you, and men need to realize that! We aren’t settling, so step it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:26 AM |
| 30 | LVM Bingo Time!-responds to your IG story with "😍" -follows hundreds of IG models -makes fun of random people while out in public -"hey stranger" -randomly likes your photo from months ago, bonus points if he likes multiple in a row -always sends sexual memes/tweets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:37 PM |
| 19 | How did a guy ruin his chance with you before the first date?Once I was out at a bar with some friends and a couple guys in the group (one of which was interested in me) began to make fun of a transgender woman who had been hitting on me. Another time, a guy at my school I had been talking to told me that if his son was gay, he'd disown him. And finally, I had a guy tell me about how a black woman had been trying to go home with him the night prior, and he ran away because "black women's hair smells bad." All of these guys seemed completely normal until t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Male lurkers: cold approaching strange women is creepy and weirdI had a man follow me into a clothing store just to come up to me and say “Hi, I saw you and thought you looked really pretty so I thought I’d come introduce myself.” He looked 30-35. I’m very clearly in college, I might look 23 tops. When I told him I wasn’t interested he looked so mad and immediately turned and left the store. I’ve had so many experiences like this, it honestly makes me hesitant to go out alone, even just to shop. I do go to school in NYC though so creepy men are the norm ther… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:59 PM |
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