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Oh my goodness, I'm so excited for your Surrendered journey!! :D
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/15 05:07 PM
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Read "The Surrendered Wife" and "First Kill All the Marriage Counselors" by Laura Doyle!!!! & congratulations! :D
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/15 05:45 PM
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I believe everyone is capable of changing. This girl has hope in finding happiness and love if she makes her life better for herself. Granted, she may not have a ton of choices in the men department, I'm positive she can find one that's good and right for her. Perhaps introduce her to Laura Doyle's book "The Surrendered Single", it would probably help her gain confidence and strength, and especially hope in finding a good man who adores and cherishes her, regardless of her past.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 08:22 PM
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Sorry for the late response. You're absolutely right, and this is close to my original fear. I think there is another combination - job, skills, and tons of debt. Our goal is to get married early, so my debt wouldn't be paid off by then. I was concerned that this would lower my SMV too much, or that it'd lock me into a career when I want a flexible lifestyle. Thank you for your input. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/15 04:47 PM
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Having children is a huge step!!! You must be very concerned - this is a big and important matter, for sure. Thank you for bringing this question to our community, I hope you find a good solution. :) "I want to finish nursing school and I want to enjoy my first years of marriage alone. I want to travel and still hang out with our childless married friends, and mainly I don't want the responsibility right now." Tell him this. And remind him that you respect his desire to have children, perhaps be…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/15 04:32 PM
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Awesome, they're a great school! And I'm happy to hear you're good with a comfy homey lifestyle. It makes looking for a man a lot simpler, I think. :) Thank you! Good luck to ya :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 03:16 AM
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You should totally do whatever you're passionate about! Trade school for massage is a great gig with passion, especially. One of my good friends makes pretty decent money & he just went to UTMI - an affordable 6 month program with a guaranteed interview at a massage place after completion. You wouldn't be happy if you didn't follow your passion. And as far as what a high value man would go for - well, I am not sure. However, Laura Doyle (Author of The Surrendered Wife & other titles) has taught …
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 01:17 AM
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High paying ones. AKA, don't get a bachelor's in liberal arts or art or teaching (unless you'll go to grad school). I honestly think college is mostly necessary for people going into STEM fields, medical fields, or lawyers. Otherwise, trade school or community college or even (as I've learned from a comment in this thread) apprenticing can be more beneficial than university because you're not locked down and stressed for years and years about student loan debt. If you're just starting to look ar…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 05:01 PM
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YOU ARE AWESOME. Aren't you supposed to charge me for all this juicy stuff? ;) Now I am really considering taking next semester off to try some of this out. It could be a bit more difficult, but college really is a sterile environment. And I think making money is always better than borrowing it with interest. Goodness, thank you so much. It's so scary though. All I've ever known is school, and I can't imagine being out of it. I don't know where to start with all of the suggestions you gave me, b…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 03:31 PM
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Wow!!! That is incredible!! You sound like you've helped a lot of people. Why would you recommend taking a break from college? Of I do, I may have to start immediately paying off current loans which I can't exactly do. Do you perhaps have resources or ideas for getting into nutrition/physical training stuff without college?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 03:08 AM
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Wow! I admire your dedication. Computer science is not easy - my dad's a programmer & I used to want to be one until I realized how much of my time it would take! Thank you, you're right! and good luck to you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 11:34 PM
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Oh goodness, excuse me! I thought you meant education - woops! Yes, I realize this. Which is, again, why I said I don't plan on quitting! EDIT: I wanted to add: I don't believe it's so black & white as either being an RPW or a feminist who can take care of herself. I'll be an RPW for the rest of my life, whether or not my current SO & I make it forever. And being able to support myself is very important to me either way because I am building a path for myself overall. I'd love it if his & mine s…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 11:28 PM
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Actually, I never said it doesn't matter. :) If I thought that, I would have just dropped out & would not have consulted this reddit community. As I've said, I plan to finish my education. if university doesn't end up being the best course of action, no, I will not continue there. Thanks again!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 10:42 PM
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Thank you so much! It's scary, but I'll make it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 09:30 PM
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Most of my family and a ton of people I've encountered are ex-military/veterans. You're right, I've seen how it damages people. Considering I, personally, am extremely sensitive emotionally, I really don't plan on it. it would probably destroy me, even just reserves
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 09:28 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate your feedback. As I said, I love to learn - and I would like to continue my education. I certainly do not believe that a good man wants a materialistic uneducated woman, perhaps I should have made that more clear. I also have a wonderful man already, so I'm not concerned about what choices I may or may not have in that area. He is not going to leave me simply because I may not have a degree, that'd be silly. I asked these questions because I needed some input on efficienc…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 09:26 PM
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Thank you. Yes, I would love to be a housewife but I do want to work a flexible job. I think it's fulfilling, and I'd be able to contribute to my family's (if I have one) income. I am mostly scared of accumulating debt, and some other comments here have really given me some great advice on how to make the best of it or avoid it more. And I am not married, so I do need a safety net.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 09:15 PM
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Honestly, I have thought about it but never considered it too heavily. The thought of being stationed places and having no control over that scares me a bit, especially bc I'm not married. That sounds extremely appealing though, thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 09:13 PM
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Well I attend the cheapest university in the USA so that gives me a lot of hope. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 09:11 PM
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Thank you so much. I will crunch numbers as soon as possible; you're right. And if I find other options that are more feasible financially, I will hop on it. That's really my goal here.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 07:23 PM
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Thank you :) I'm going to look into it. This is a wonderful idea.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 07:22 PM
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Thank you so much, you've addressed every single financial reason that makes me feel scared about this decision. As for contributing financially to a family I might have someday, I don't care if I make a ton more money than my SO, so long as I don't have to manage the finances - obviously I can't really emotionally handle it. That being said, I want a good paying job without it costing too much for me to pay off in a decade or less or so (haven't crunched any numbers - will do soon). I want to w…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 07:21 PM
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You've addressed my biggest fear: having to choose between career and family. I changed majors from Mechanical Engineering to nutrition because I didn't want to be a scientist working 50 hours a week, like you said. Thank you so much. :) If I may ask, is there any way at all you could find out how she got her training? I'm very curious to know if it was through university or some other means. I'd like to minimize the time it takes to get certifications, as I'm sure most people who are serious ab…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 07:12 PM
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That's a great idea! What would I major in undergrad in order to do that? Plus that way, I'd be always working on myself and helping others. Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 05:20 PM
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You're absolutely right. I'm just panicking because it's stressful, and being financially stressed on top of school stressed is really difficult to manage. Thank you for your empathy and excellent feedback. Good luck to you too. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/15 05:19 PM
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Wow, you really have the hang of it! This is awesome, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 09:35 PM
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beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 01:28 PM
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You make a good point, it's not so black & white. I've been worrying that if I initiated it I'd be doing something wrong. Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 04:34 AM
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You're absolutely right. My man appreciates my thoughtfulness, too. I'll buy new lingerie AND get him something thoughtful. :) Thank you all for good input!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 04:30 AM
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Why does RPW promote initiating sex so much? In the RPW books that I've read, they teach ways to seduce a man and make him chase after you for sex. This way, it makes you (a woman) feel desired and cherished, and it makes him feel like a champion because he "caught" you. Legitimate question here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 05:37 PM
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So sexual gifts for bdays and anniversaries? I want to know what is best to give my SO for a present.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 05:34 PM
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Taking your man's last name is the ultimate sign of respect to him. Men feel love through respect, and men would generally rather lose you than your respect for him. Of course this is something that pisses off feminists, it means they would actually have to do something for a man. No, you did not overreact at all. My SO and I have even sort of "joked" about taking up a completely new last name "if" we ever got married because neither of us are fond of our current ones. I'll take any name that ma…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 05:07 PM
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This is a good point, and difficult to keep in mind. I work in a high-end grocery store as a bagger, and it horrifies me to watch all these wives come in, speak in place of their husband, belittle them, scold them, and treat them like garbage. AND THEN THE HUSBAND PICKS UP THE $200+ GROCERY BILL. It makes me really sad to see, and it makes me want to knock some sense into these women. But you're right, all I should be worried about is my relationship. On the plus side, I have plenty examples of …
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 04:51 PM
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It's so exciting to know there's a show now! It'll be awesome to have a good visual example of what this looks like. I hope it'll inspire many women, and set off some feminists. I don't have cable, but maybe I can find it online!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 04:41 PM
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