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I appreciate the message!
/r/askMRP25/01/18 10:56 PM
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Thank you! I neede to read all of that!
/r/askMRP22/01/18 03:58 PM
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Oh, I expect a thrashing for that last puke but fuck em! I'd be a sadder mother fucker if I could just blink away 54% of my life without feeling anything. I accept you words are true and I appreciate that you took the time to relay them. They won't go to waste as my journey to being the man I was created to be continues. Mark Twain said, "The two most important days in a mans life is the day he's born, and the day he finds out why." Time to develop a rock solid frame. Time to find out why.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 01:51 PM
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Part of my sadness comes from knowing that she is likely in for a big surprise when this romantic comedy fantasy she has in her head meets reality. Maybe she will get lucky, she is very pretty. The few close friends that I have shared our situation with asked the same question. "What are you going to do when she wants to come back in 6 months to a year?" My initial response was I don't know. My response know is, "I guess she can get in line with the younger, hotter, tighter crowd and see if she …
/r/askMRP22/01/18 11:46 AM
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Fucking A... I've learned enough so far to know that I am done with that silly shit.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 11:40 AM
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Thanks Litz. I have a ton of work to do on myself and I will keep working on the MAP. I posted once in OYS but will make that a weekly ritual for accountability. She is affable and wants to split assets fairly (already discussed and agreed). She has not talked to an attorney yet.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 11:39 AM
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Should have used other language I guess...
/r/askMRP22/01/18 12:59 AM
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I see no other way forward. I guess I get to find myself again!
/r/askMRP22/01/18 12:56 AM
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I wish that was true Bobby, but there was no fight. I thought things were moving along at a pace that gave me time to work. I thought the work I had done was buying me time to further improve myself so that I could have choices. She just said she is done and wants out. Too many years of feeling numb and she wants a fresh start. No more time, no more waiting, changes don't matter cause there is too much baggage. She wants a life without me. She feels guilty so she wants to make the split easy and…
/r/askMRP22/01/18 12:54 AM
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Thanks Johney. I've seen some terrible shit but this is the worst thing I have ever endured and it's just starting. I appreciate that others have been there and provide insight and heart felt experience.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 12:50 AM
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I needed the smile this brought! Thanks
/r/askMRP22/01/18 12:47 AM
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Good advice.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 12:46 AM
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Thanks. Ok not main event by TRP/MRP definition. Either way the marriage is over. I have worked my fucking ass of. 51 lbs since Oct 15th. I just figured things out too fucking late. She killed the puppy because I couldn't do it. Too much of a faggot. I wanted more time to do the work, but she had held on long enough. She's afraid she is running out of time... I know what that means.
/r/askMRP22/01/18 12:45 AM
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Then I stand corrected. Failure...
/r/askMRP22/01/18 12:41 AM
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No she would not. I have always been as loyal as a goddamn dog and she knows it. I bought societies rap, hook line and sinker. This whole RP awakening has really fucked my head up! Probably still in the denial stage. I don't think I can get her spark back...too much baggage, but I am moving forward anyway. Funny thing for me is that when we started dating she chased the shit out of me. I didn't want anything to do with a relationship. I had hit a stride and had women like I had never had before.…
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:38 AM
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Spot on. I do learn from my mistakes though.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:33 AM
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There is history there that is too long to explain, but she would have more fun without me. A 6'3" 265 lb husband standing next to you will keep some of the cock hounds at bay.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:31 AM
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I have read that and listened to the BPP's podcasts. Frankly I don't think she'll stick around longer than that if I can't generate some interest through working on the MAP and improving myself.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:29 AM
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Thanks. I'm getting awesome advice and insight here. It hurts but I will survive.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:28 AM
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Ok. I see that as you describe it.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:26 AM
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Ok. I'm just beginning so I'll accept that as a lesson. But dudes with a higher SMV than me will fuck her. That's my point. Doesn't matter what you call them.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 01:26 AM
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You are right!
/r/askMRP18/01/18 12:13 PM
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Relativity... she is not competing with pre wall women. She's competing with other 50 year olds and she looks better than most. These middle age divorcees still get swarmed by dudes looking to hook up. They're just older dudes.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 12:10 PM
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Our Chad definitions are off. I'm talking about the middle age single mother fuckers out there with there shit together that are fit and pulling ass, not a 25 year old.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 12:08 PM
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Listening and doing most of it. That's how the 51 pounds came off in 3 months. Can do a 5 rep max but thought stats were looking for 1 rep max. After doing nothing for years I choose to work up the intensity as I go.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 12:07 PM
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I posted in OYS with much of that data. Recap - both early 50's, two kids, one on his own the other in college and still dependent. Was a fat fuck (327 at highest, about 315 in mid October) - 6'3" Still a fat fuck but down to 264 as of Sunday. (51 lbs in 90 days) Currently lifting 4 days a week on a split routine and doing cardio on off days. MMA twice a week. Don't know 1 rep max due to fear of injury at my age. All training sets are to failure. I'm no stranger to physical exercise but let myse…
/r/askMRP18/01/18 03:40 AM
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I love your fucking posts! Reminds me of my drill instructors at MCRD.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 03:25 AM
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Started hitting it hard on October 16th. Before the first post. Lurked for a few months before. Suspected big marriage trouble a couple of years ago and started reading and trying to figure out what was going on. Read several books on the side bar without ever seeing MRP or knowing what the side bar was. Just read but didn't start to act until October when I got the big smack in the face. Establishing frame and killing the oneitis has been very hard, still struggling with it. Hard to change 25 y…
/r/askMRP18/01/18 03:20 AM
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I've got a lot to learn and develop, yes. If I hadn't been a complete fuck up in the past I wouldn't be here. But I wasn't always that way. Maybe it doesn't matter but I was trying to get some insight into the weird dialog...
/r/askMRP18/01/18 03:16 AM
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(I think it has already sunk TBH). I wouldn't bet against you. While writing this post I cringed at my response to her. Part of my plan is that if I don't see some IOI from her for me and the marriage after 6 months then I would be out by the end of the 9th.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 02:20 AM
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Fucking grim, but I appreciate what you write.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 01:35 AM
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I do know that. Others have turned things around by applying the principles taught on MRP and in the side bar. I feel like I owe what was us, and our children the effort. Unless she pulls the plug I intend to stay in the marriage while I work at becoming the man I know I can be. The outcome may not change, but the place I start from after it ends will.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 01:33 AM
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OYS Week 1 Background: Found the RP and MRP several months ago when searching for information on how to save my marriage and began to digest the information. I started this journey in a terrible place that I took years to build. I’ve posted a couple of times that provide more detail on the background. I decided to start the year posting on OYS in order to solidify a plan and have some accountability. Baseline Physical– 52 years old – 6’3” 270 lbs 35% BF I started at about 320 lbs in mid-October …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/18 02:09 PM
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You are dead on! Thanks
/r/askMRP06/12/17 02:26 AM
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The advice handed out on my original post was off the charts awesome! Man I get the information, and I understand it's logic and power. But I have been with this woman for almost 30 years and known her for 37. I met her when we were 15 years old. I have loved her beyond measure and I'm having a tough time shutting that off. I know none of that matters. "All of man's suffering comes from his inability to accept reality" and all that. I know what all of you say are is true... Progress is slow emot…
/r/askMRP06/12/17 02:21 AM
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She works, but I make about 30k more a year than her. She can support herself ok without me if she budgets. 1-2 a week but dropped off to 0 for the last two weeks. After the divorce talk.
/r/askMRP06/12/17 02:13 AM
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Truth is sometimes ugly. This is a great post! However, I think I'll improve my hand rather than fold it. I'm guessing a crotchety fuck like you is sitting on some serious pearls of wisdom.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 07:55 PM
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I found this about 3 or 4 months ago. A few months before that I bought NMMNG on Audible for my commute. A recommendation came up for "The Rational Male" and I was intrigued. It all came from there. Lurked for a while and just tried to read everything that I could.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 07:49 PM
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I see what you did there! Thanks SgtSilverback...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 07:40 PM
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Thanks, I needed to hear that from someone that's been through it!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 07:38 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I appreciate your post and will not waste it's wisdom.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 07:36 PM
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