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o my place, but she said "I am not going to your place" in a serious tone. I assumed that pushing more would h There's a lot of ways you could have taken this, but the frame should remain amused mastery. I wouldn't have tried to get her back by saying I was going to make myself icecream, but once you took that tact you couldn't just give up on it. When her response was "I am not going to your place", you could have smirked and said "Who said anything about my place?". You could then either leave…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 10:18 PM
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She sounds like she's got all sorts of problems. I the rational side of me can't really recommend pursuing; however, crazy girls can be kind of fun, so fuck it. If you really want to pursue this, wear a rubber, and get checked out once a month. As for your question, yes you can text her, but don't ASK her to come over. Play off of her (clear) desire for attention. Send her a sexy text about how you randomly thought about how you were fingering her the other night and how hard it made you. This m…
/r/seduction02/07/15 11:13 PM
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Sounds like you're not building comfort. She needs to feel a connection with you before she will feel comfortable sleeping with you.
/r/seduction02/07/15 11:00 PM
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The question is, can he dance like Sam Rockwell?
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:58 PM
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Acutane. It's a magical drug.
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:57 PM
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Very true. Take her claim that she gave a wrong number when a man commanded her to give it to her, for example. I guarantee you that whether or not he commanded her had nothing to do with it. She was irritated before he made the command. You should always get her number. Never count on the girl to take action. You have to be the man; you have to take action. And don't ask. You don't have to command, but don't ask.
/r/seduction02/07/15 10:44 PM
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There's plenty of trash advice out there, but there's lots of good advice, too. I highly suggest "Model's" by Mark Manson, to start. Also check out YouTube videos about day game. Seduction is all about projecting a positive and fun persona. Don't get too caught up on the details.
/r/seduction07/06/15 12:22 AM
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Not sure why this got down voted. It's an important point. There are no hard and fast rules. You have to be willing and able to think for yourself; you have to live in the moment.
/r/seduction07/06/15 12:19 AM
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You, stop... Hammer time.
/r/seduction07/06/15 12:17 AM
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This is AFC game. Don't listen to this.
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:23 AM
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Todd Valentine has a perfect, short video on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eu3PHIWOiFw
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:21 AM
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It's definitely dangerous to start something with someone in your building, but you can at least make some female friends. They come in handy.
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:20 AM
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Classic.
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:16 AM
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You're so money, and you don't even know it!
/r/seduction21/05/15 06:59 AM
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Definite second on reading Models by Mark Manson. Also read the side bar. Also, reading the side bar over at /r/theredpill will help you understand why you're where you are and where women expect you to be before they will be attracted to you. To get out of your head you need to start living in the moment. Interact with the people around you, even if they aren't attractive girls. Develop your inner extrovert. Talk to everyone.
/r/seduction21/05/15 06:52 AM
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Spin more plates: http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:39 AM
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Don't let headphones stop you. Use it. Catch her eyes, giver her a nod and smile and say hey. When she takes them out, ask her what she's listening to. Use any excuse you can think of to start a conversation. Be observant of your surroundings, look for something to comment on, or ask her about.
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:30 AM
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This is of course age dependent. < 16 a hug is fine. > 16 you should be going for the kiss before the end of the date. You do this by escalating throughout the date. When you make a snarky comment, you can do a little elbow nudge, or say "I'm just messing with you" and squeeze her shoulder/leg etc.
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:27 AM
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It's absolutely critical to build social confidence. Start talking to people everywhere you go. Once you can lead a conversation with anyone, you can have any girl you want.
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:23 AM
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Yes. And not just girls---guys, mothers, fathers, everyone. Develop your inner extrovert. It's critical for building the confidence and social proof that 8+'s expect.
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:20 AM
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If you want to go straight for the hookup, be extremely direct and sexual. And don't ask her, tell her. Time and place, though maybe not hour and address; e.g. "Tonight. My place. Hard. Deep." If that doesn't turn her on, she's not interested. If you're willing to go on a date or two first, tell her to meet you somewhere for drinks, etc. Give her a specific hour and location. "Hey, lets grab drinks tomorrow night. Hanger Lounge 8pm." Again, don't ask her, tell her. You need to lead the interacti…
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:15 AM
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This is a good chance to create some real attraction before a first date. Don't make the night all about her, but definitely spend a bit of time with her. (Also, don't arbitrarily stop spending time with her just because I said not to make it all about her). Don't try to converse on the dance floor. If you want to talk to her, tell her "Let's take a break", and lead her away from the music to talk for a bit.
/r/seduction01/01/15 01:26 AM
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Just to add to /u/ShirosaNeko's answer, it sounds like you're putting to much emphasis on pickup routines. The routines are there to give you something fun/witty to say when you're drawing a blank. Ideally, you wouldn't need them. If you quickly find a connection with the girl, you won't need them at all, because you'll become enraptured talking to each other about things you're both interested in. However, that's the best case scenario. The important thing is that you keep the interaction alive…
/r/seduction14/12/14 02:31 AM
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He's hitting on an important point, but I'm not sure he hits the nail quite on the head. I think the main point he doesn't necessarily state explicitly is that all of the analysis of male-female attraction, seduction, pickup, and Game has pretty much already been done. It's pretty much a solved game. Unfortunately, only a tiny fraction of people are actually aware of the solution. This is inevitable, though, and it's seen in every field, not just seduction. What is really needed is a comprehensi…
/r/seduction14/12/14 02:13 AM
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You have to choose. Furthermore, if you're physically attracted to her, and you have a lot in common you should choose to escalate. And don't think that escalating here implies that you need to resort to traditional PUA techniques. As long as you stay less invested in her than she is in you (outcome independent), and you open up to each other, attraction will follow (this is assuming you have a lot in common, and there are no serious sources of friction). Friendships with girls is fine and great…
/r/seduction14/12/14 01:14 AM
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TL;DR. Based on first paragraph, you should end it now. There's nothing wrong with hanging out with guy friends, but hanging out with ex's one-on-one is bad news. End it while you still can, or she will.
/r/seduction12/12/14 05:00 AM
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Please ask questions like this on /r/askseddit It would only be weird if you make it weird. Go back, get some ice cream, ask her how her night is going. Then say something like "I'm going to be really forward here, but you're really cute. Would you like to grab a drink with me after your shift?" Based on her response, you can judge her interest. If she says thanks, but no thanks, she's not interested. If she says "I get off really late tonight, but I'm free tomorrow night", then she's interested…
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:57 AM
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It sounds like she's not interested in a physical relationship. If you really want to try, you need to ask her out for a drink (or something non-climbing related). Keep in mind, you're risking the platonic friendship by doing this. Also, this question really belongs in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:53 AM
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Are you sure these are dates? Was there physical escalation?
/r/seduction11/12/14 10:56 PM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again: That's a very broad question. Read the side bar, read Models by Mark Manson, read The Rational Male. If I had to summarize seduction in one phrase: be outcome independent, but be interested.
/r/seduction11/12/14 10:54 PM
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As long as you're a healthy weight, have some muscle, and dress well, you're good looking enough to attract any woman. From there, it's all about confidence and connection.
/r/seduction11/12/14 10:51 PM
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It's not like you're raping her. If she wants to cheat, then let her. He's probably a shitty BF if she does. Unless you're friends with the BF, that is.
/r/seduction11/12/14 10:48 PM
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If you're the most attractive woman they have been with, they're naturally going to have some nerves, even if they're generally confident people. Open up to them. Tell an embarrassing story that's related to whatever you're talking about. Touch their hand or leg when they make you laugh. Be a sweet, kind, and caring person. Smile at them!
/r/seduction11/12/14 10:32 PM
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You can go the direct route, or the indirect route. For direct, you immediately convey sexual interest. This can be difficult to pull off and can polarize girls that you may have eventually been able to attract. However, it has the significant advantage of not wasting time. If the girl is much more physically attractive than you, you might be better of going the indirect route (although this is debatable). For indirect, you can use situational icebreakers. If you're at a live music show, say som…
/r/seduction10/12/14 12:43 AM
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F-closing, or #-closing?
/r/seduction08/12/14 01:08 AM
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As long as you maintain frame, it doesn't matter. Whenever is convenient for you is best.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:24 AM
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Grab her and kiss her.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:22 AM
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I guess try to screen for crazy early on in the interaction. I'm not sure how much having a video is going to help you in a society that assumes guilt.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:20 AM
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If she doesn't bring it up or hint about it, then she may not be interested. Tough to know for sure, though. It's going to be difficult to ask without coming off as insecure. If she isn't currently, you might be able to make her interested by making her jealous. Let her see you with another girl.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:16 AM
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Thanks for the tips. Never had much luck with Tinder. Maybe these will help.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:14 AM
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It's a damn good idea. Everyone in college is trying to make friends.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:03 AM
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"Do. Or do not. There is no try." Don't actually use that... unless she's a Star Wars fan.
/r/seduction08/12/14 12:02 AM
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Freshman in college? It's a time for experimentation for a lot of girls. Enjoy it.
/r/seduction07/12/14 11:59 PM
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Great FR, and great analysis. Thanks. Some thoughts: For situations like the one with shop alarm girl, you could consider #-closing and inviting her out as basically a female wing for night game. It never hurts to be surrounded by attractive females. For the Russian girl, you're analysis is spot on. It sounds like it was a friendly networking conversation, not a pickup. A relevant lesson is that it's important to keep in mind the end goal and not to sacrifice it for a milestone.
/r/seduction07/12/14 11:47 PM
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No one likes to feel manipulated. That's why girls and AFCs, alike, have a problem with pickup.
/r/seduction06/12/14 10:49 PM
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One possible approach: Next time you see her, ask her if she's ever been to some place (any place, it doesn't matter where). If she says no, ask her if she wants to check it out with you tomorrow. She'll probably be working, but don't let logistics get in the way. Maintain confidence, and get her number. If she has been there, you can have a short conversation about it, then switch the subject. The key is to actually ask her out. It doesn't need to be complicated. You could just say, "Hey, when …
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:55 AM
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She's not likely to ask, at least not until well into the relationship. If you volunteer that information early on it could come off as insecurity (bad). If you have to, add a qualifier to diffuse it, e.g. "I've never been in a serious relationship".
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:43 AM
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If you already know the girl and have kissed her, you should start the next interaction there. You should always be building attraction, but you've already crossed the kissing barrier, so don't give that ground up. Get close to her and kiss her. If the interest is there, getting the F-close is all about logistics. You have to get her back to your place, or wherever.
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:32 AM
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Sounds like you didn't escalate. You have to make your intentions known. Be playful, kino, and work towards the kiss.
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:20 AM
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