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I even had the opportunity to have relationships with them that were physically intimate in nature Why phrase it this way lol just say you dated them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:19 AM

You can't convince someone to be attracted to you but you can influence how a woman feels about you, to a great extent. If you understand the difference between the two then that's good, but I'm not sure if you, and I'm certain /u/AdrianMojnarowski doesn't, or he wouldn't make a post saying there's no value in seduction tactics. "If a girl likes you she'll make it obvious" - correct, which is why seduction is aimed more at pulling girls who don't like you yet. Its sad how these guys fall for wom…
/r/seduction26/11/21 11:58 AM
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I think that it’s not mainly what you say but it’s how you say it. Well yeah, thats exactly it. That's why you've been having these problems. Your frame/demeanour/body language isn't matching your material. That's why you're having a hard time picking up girls using game and it seems like they decide "within a few seconds" whether they're attracted to you or not.
/r/seduction27/09/21 10:29 AM
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but the part I want no part of is getting a woman to invest in me if I’m not her physical type. Whatever works for you, but might I ask why that is? You realize that it doesn't mean you'll have a dead bedroom relationship or anything like that right? Sometimes that does happen but usually when it does there are other factors at play than the man not being the woman's physical type. Its definitely possible to have a passionate and loving relationship that started off with one-sided physical attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:06 PM
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For overweight or guys with less attractive faces, physical improvement is top priority. It is a priority, but learning game will get you what you want faster. Improving your looks might mean more women are interested in you right away, but what if none of those women is the one you really want? That's where it pays to know how to get a woman invested in you if you're not her physical type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:09 AM
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If you're getting 20+ phone numbers from going out 4 times a week then you must be asking any and every women you see, most of which you probably aren't even attracted tp. They probably don't lead anywhere either because since they gave their number out so easily they also tend to forget about you easily. It takes time to get a decently attractive woman invested in you enough to give you her number and not flake on you later.
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:29 AM
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men and women care about looks the same. Nah, common misconcention.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:02 PM
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and in this world women have had to learn to filter those kinds of guys out. Lol nope, they haven't. What they've learned is to filter out the guys who are overt about it, who aren't doing it properly. Its like when women say they can sense when a guy is a bad person, but really they can only sense that with guys who are bad at hiding their true self. Its pretty easy to get women to think you're being genuine, if you're well-calibrated. Also, lets say you're already interesting and good-looking.…
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:34 PM
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No woman thinks "he's only a 7/10 so I'm out of his league" No, but they do look at guys less attractive than them and think "I can do better. Just because leagues aren't a real, tangible thing doesn't mean women don't know what their value is in the dating market.
/r/seduction17/07/21 06:24 PM
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Lol, I said I assumed she wasn't attractive, I didn't say I didn't have basis for it. If you want to know what my basis was, just ask instead of saying I had no basis.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:09 PM
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You’re just assuming cuz she wasn’t a bitch No, its not nearly that deep. I assumed her attractiveness level as soon as I read the title, simply because most of the guys here are usually pulling plain Janes. So whenever I see a field report type post I assume the women in the story are average looking. On top of that, guys on the internet have a strong tendency to overrate girls so even if they say the girl they picked up was cute/hot, I take it with a grain of salt. So yeah, there's no indicati…
/r/seduction13/07/21 12:08 PM

Lol the reason you never approach other girls and you approached this one is because she probably gave you a smile or something before you approach while other girls usually don't, and that IOI is what made you approach her. Her availability is what made her a 10 to you. Your story reads like a typical average/above average guy picking up an average girl scenario. If she truly is a 10, and has such a great personality, and is this open to meeting new guys, I wonder how she hasn't been able to lo…
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:39 PM

Lol dude CHILL this girl is not a 10 in looks the only reason you say that is because she's a girl who showed interest in you. I'm sure she is smart and funny like you say though.
/r/seduction12/07/21 06:47 PM
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I wouldn't call them spergs. They're right in that OP gave her too much too early. It sounds like OP's date was more on the plain side looks wise, so he could have sloppy game and still make it work. But I think if she was a more attractive woman it would have driven her away.
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:28 AM
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Most women have attraction to men who think on their feet Its not attraction. They find it to be a good quality to have in a man, not specifically as boyfriend but also as a friend, colleague, etc. So if she already likes you, being able to think on your feet is a plus. Attraction is something different from what you're thinking of.
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:25 AM
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common misconception
/r/seduction12/07/21 07:14 AM
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Damn. If you ever do hook up with one or both of these girls make sure to double bag.
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:04 PM
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ok
/r/seduction11/07/21 02:37 PM
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This is exactly why "in field" footage is so rare or sold at a premium...successful cold approaches are rare even for them. you never said they rarely make successfully cold approaches though. You just send the girls they do close are superficial 9's and 10's and not down to earth women with a brain.
/r/seduction11/07/21 02:01 PM
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Lol, you really can't blame women for rejecting guys harshly like this. If you go up to a woman and say something like that, the first thing she thinks is that you probably do that with every good-looking girl you see. It makes her feel devalued. Like she's just one more attempt in your number's game. Even if she says no to you you're just gonna go up and say the exact same thing to the next pretty woman around the corner. It makes sense that she would be peeved about it.
/r/seduction11/07/21 06:20 AM

Actually, the guys I admired in real life who were very successful with women didn't immediately move on when they encountered rejection, but rather, they always had a plan B that they smoothly transitioned into when a woman showed legitimate disinterest. They would keep pushing and pushing until either the girls gave in or they got to a point where they knew for 100% certainty that it will never work out with this girl.
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:39 PM
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I debunked OP's theories and I guess he deleted the post because of it.
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:26 AM

None of that was the point, of anything I said.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:07 AM

One just requires probably about 4000x amount of intellectual effort And becoming ripped/improving your looks requires a lot more overall effort. I'm not talking about looking likeArnold in a year either. Just getting your body to a decent amount of muscle takes so much time and effort. You have to base your whole life around your workout routine and diet. Learning game is still the quicker, more direct route to getting what you want. It’s superficial and bad for business but it’s true. You're w…
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:03 AM
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"looks is all women care about" is typical in.cel rhetoric. It's as simple as that.
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:32 AM
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Surely you've seen girls before from across the bar and knew that you had no desire to sleep with her and nothing she could say or do would change your mind? Yes, but he's not talking about guys being attracted to women. He's talking about women being attracted to guys :) Anyway, he's right. I've had the same thing he's talking about happen to me a lot during my uni days.
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:28 AM

Girls are just as shallow as we are (surprise surprise). Hot girls want to fuck hot guys. This is a common misconception. You say "surprise surprise" but it really is a surprise to me lol. It has not been my experience. Women will tell you they are as visual as guys, I get that, but I don't think they understand just what that means. Its like they're working with a different scale, basically. Pay attention to what women do, not what they tell you. You can have a bunch of different qualities to a…
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:00 AM

Dude are you crazy? Do you have any idea how much time, effort, money etc it takes to get ripped? Pickup is meant as a quicker alternative to that. A lot of the guys that get into it don't know how to talk to women, and game will at least teach you that. Whereas if you spend all that time, effort and money getting ripped without learning how to talk to and flirt with women you're just gonna come off as a weirdly unbalanced person. Getting fit is great and all, but take care of the basics first.
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:33 AM
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Apparently not. Just the other day a few guys here asked me how I'd get a woman who has zero interest in me to start liking me. Being able to get a "no" girl invested in you is not common knowledge on this sub, from what I've seen.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:43 PM
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My dude, most of us already know improving our attractiveness could help us reach our goals. Its not new information at all. If we still haven't done so then for some guys its laziness, sure, but for others, its because we've found alternative, easier methods of reaching the same goals.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:29 PM
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Yes but if you don't know how to build interest in a woman you're still gonna be limited by what women you can date/fuck/marry. Severely so. You can't be truly selective. That's what I mean. You'll only be able to pull women who already "want you". Yes you're technically making a choice but its very restrictive. Also, you don't have to choose. You can have strong confident energy as a sort of bare minimum while the skillset to get disinterested women invested in you is just something that's real…
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:06 PM
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I'm married. And if you knew how to build interest in a woman who wasn't attracted to you at first, you could have been a lot more selective with who you married. You see what we're getting at?
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:14 PM
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What I mean is he didn't appear to be a typical chad in the pictures, there was no threat intended. Anyway the logic doesn't make sense. A woman marries a guy who is attractive to her; a chad is a guy who is attractive to women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:18 PM

Women always say they don't care about status but they care a lot. If you're popular then women are automatically drawn to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:58 AM
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I've seen pictures of you and your husband. Is/was he really a chad in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:41 AM
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Anyway, I hope my comment was able to shed some light on why some guys would choose to bother winning a woman over even though that article you read online said that its best to only go for women who are already attracted to you. Hope it helped :)
/r/seduction05/07/21 04:21 PM
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/u/Personal-Brain428 What di you say too a girl who thinks you are disgusting to make her wanna sleep with you? I first get her invested in me as a person, before I even think about getting her to sleep with me. You can't go up to a girl who wants nothing to do with you, run some game on her, and then she immediately likes you. You have to first get her to a point where she cares about you as a person, who you are, what you think of her, stuff like that. I do this by making her laugh, telling go…
/r/seduction05/07/21 01:43 PM
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I never said it worked that way in the reverse. Like I personally have never been interested in dating a woman who I wasn't immediately infatuated with the first time I laid eyes on her. Its the women I've dated who were not attracted to me at first and started liking me after getting to know me on a personal level. Its a one-way street, as far as I know. You can't switch the genders and expect it to work the same way.
/r/seduction05/07/21 01:34 PM
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Yo get a grip. I'm not talking about marketing or infields or any of that shit. I'm talking about good old going out and meeting women yourself. Don't overanalyze everything. That's one thing that will NOT lead you to being more successful in your social interactions.
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:26 PM
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The vast majority of women who you will sleep with already liked you. It was your job just to close the deal and not be weird. Are you some kind of moron to sit there trying to tell me about my life? This is pure projectiong. The majority of women that slept with YOU already liked you. But I know that most of the woman I dated/fucked were not into me in the beginning. They definitely did not think I was "handsome". I had to work for it. Also There’s a HUGE difference between a woman who is neutr…
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:31 AM

That's only because this community has gone soft over the years. Now its filled with repressed, defeatest guys who think seduction is about getting girls who already like you.
/r/seduction04/07/21 08:41 PM
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Some of the best sex I've ever had were with women who were not interested in me in the beginning, who I had to get invested in me over time, before I could even think about expressing interest in them. And yeah, when we did start dating they usually had other guys after them, its true, but they always put me first once I did finally manage to spark that interest in them. Only focusing on woman who are already attracted to you is all well and good, but if you actually want to be selective in who…
/r/seduction04/07/21 05:59 PM
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I'm not saying the beach isn't a good pick up spot, but the issue I take with your comment is - how would YOU know? You realize Youtube videos can be faked right lol.
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:01 PM
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Yeah I don't believe in slut-shaming that's hypocritical. A woman isn't going to fuck me after a few hours of knowing me if she doesn't have at least a little sluttiness in her. Women with slutty tendencies are awesome when you aren't in the market for anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 10:09 PM
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This is why socially awkward people who never interact with the opposite sex shouldn't give explanations for their behavior. Women everywhere are having kids. Who told you they aren't? Or that their standards for who they have kids with are that high, for that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:59 PM
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Exactly. Everyone has their own dating problems, so for example its hard for a woman who can't get a guy to commit to her to care about the problems of and give real advice to a guy who can't get a girl at all. One's problems might be worse, but the lesser problems are still quite bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:21 PM
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I came to this realization because I have a coworker Lol, so you're basing your entire theory on one woman's anecdote. I should have seen that coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:06 PM
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