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This is a sad state of affairs my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:07 AM
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It’s not arrogant, nor is it nonsense. It’s one human’s experience. Human bodies are not designed to attract the other sex. They’re neutral, they’re just bodies. Men feeling less visually or sexually attractive to women is a thing they can work out emotionally. There are plenty of straight women who are more visually or sexually attracted to men than women, it’s not like the dating pool is lessened in a statistically meaningful way because of this phenomenon. Many men are fine with it because it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:03 AM
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This is oppression. We live in a society that is systemically damaging for both men and women. Women are oppressed in many ways, and so are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:35 AM
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I hope the men who don’t want to date don’t date. Men should be able to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:09 PM
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And that men are the ones responsible for fixing everything wrong with the world too. It breaks my heart. Men are expected to build everything, be it the physical world or a relationship, and to keep it propped up in perpetuity after they build it. Men are expected to be stoic and solid, to never have a feeling, god forbid show it. They’re expected to jump to violence or sex at the drop of a hat. They’re expected to be punishers and enforcers and leaders concurrently while being nurturers and pi…
/r/MensRights15/04/26 10:48 PM
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Women are sometimes hurt by men so I think their fear is sometimes legitimate. But the ways they extrapolate their experience with some men to all men is gnarly. And the way they take in their fear and let it consume them instead of working on it and learning from it, that’s plainly disappointing. I wish everyone had the ability and the desire to work on their shit.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 10:35 PM
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I’m sorry she said that to you, it’s heartbreaking that this is how many young girls are being taught to think. That’s wild.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 10:32 PM
8

As a single woman, this was so sexy to read 🔥 I wish more men could think this way about protecting themselves.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 10:29 PM
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Get off the internet. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:56 PM
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lmao. You either have no idea what “neurotic” actually means, or you just don’t like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:54 PM
4

I mean, some do? Most don’t. And being turned on is different than initiating or accepting sexual contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:51 PM
2

So, in other words, they have responsive desire much more than “only here and there.” Women needing basic romantic stuff means they have responsive desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:17 PM
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What does “don’t be too autistic” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:18 AM
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Holy cow. Jason Mamoa is the furthest thing from a dad bod. That sucks that he’s classified inaccurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:18 PM
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Women are pulling out of a system that has hurt them, why would they disengage if there was no harm being done? Of course they’re a minority, I never said they weren’t. Still record numbers, it’s pretty cool. I’d venture that most Western young men participate in this system because, like women, it’s what they’re socialized into. This is a huge part of the modern dating pool. Why do you think men aren’t participating en masse in this system? Do you think young men don’t have immature beliefs? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:13 PM
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Which insecurities do men not have? It’s a reality that many women don’t have agency in terms of what they’re socialized to believe. Men are socialized to believe the same things, that’s why so many people fall prey to this system and other systems that hurt people. Many women are single. Lots of women around the world are deciding not to engage in relationships with men. Many men do indeed subscribe to the beliefs that OP describes. So much of modern western dating culture runs on this system. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:00 PM
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What kind of insecurities are you referring to men not having? Having it be harder to find a partner hurts people’s chances of finding a mutually fulfilling long term connection, which has many implications. There’s logistical and emotional pain there. Many women participate in the system because they’re not taught any alternatives. But we’re seeing women removing themselves from this system in record numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:46 PM
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Plenty of women like fat men too. Why would this not go both ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:33 PM
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What OP said, women’s value being degraded no matter which path they take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:22 PM
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Also, maybe men could stop participating in this system that hurts women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:37 PM
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This is a therapy issue, not a dick issue, my guy. Your brain is telling you that you have to pull the best when only like 10% of the population can statistically. You’re setting yourself up for failure and for a lifetime of disconnection. Go do some work on yourself first, go tackle that issue of why you have to be the best. Where did that narrative that you aren’t good enough come from? Probably your parents, my guess. If you work on that, grieve that, feel the anger at that injustice, your mi…
/r/seduction31/03/26 03:13 PM
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My mom did this to my dad. She accused him of raping her, and raping me, their daughter, when I was 10. It ruined a large part of my life and has caused irreparable damage I will never forgive her for. My dad and I have always been and will always be best friends. He’s my hero. We survived a lot together. I’m sorry your sister is so blinded by her own childhood trauma that she can’t think clearly about you. That’s not a reflection of your value or goodness as a man or as a human. That is purely …
/r/MensRights23/03/26 06:20 PM
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Woah, Karens who support Trump came outta left field there. What does politics have to do with this argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:43 PM
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Not all women lose interest in sex. Can’t make absolute statements like that. It’s poppin off in old folks homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:42 PM
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The biology is the substrate that underpins our historical gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:38 PM
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Cheap and free dates are the way to go. Went on an awesome first date last week, fed ducks at the lake. I treated to the bag of birdseed and didn’t tell him I paid for it. It’s a worthy investment in a first date. Otherwise, the date was free. Going on our second date today, gonna get some food and each pay for ourselves at my request. In my dating profile I state explicitly that I’m paying for myself and a suitor need not worry about inequitable financial investment now or later. Men assume a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:29 PM
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Gorgeous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:22 PM
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r/regretfulparents can listen with empathetic ears if you ever want to talk about it
/r/MensRights18/09/25 11:22 PM
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I appreciate the evolved perspective in these comments. Not all men and not all women are bad and it’s great to see us understanding and supporting that.
/r/MensRights06/09/25 04:34 PM
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What are your feelings about women?
/r/MensRights07/08/25 11:06 PM
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You hate all women? Why?
/r/MensRights07/08/25 04:54 PM
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As a woman this is horrifying to see. How is the world becoming this way.
/r/MensRights10/04/25 11:55 PM
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Holy fuck. I am so sorry. You didn’t deserve that. What the fuck.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 07:41 AM
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I think the left are naturally more inclined to believe men can be raped than those who lean right.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 07:40 AM
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What do you mean by “contracted ED?”
/r/MensRights18/03/25 03:07 AM
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The friend who kissed you whenever she found you alone when you were little makes it multiple people too.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 05:02 PM
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You were assaulted repeatedly, by multiple family members. I’m so sorry. No human being deserves that.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 04:52 PM
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Excusing and explaining are different. To excuse something is to condone the behavior. To explain something is simply to describe why it happened. No one in the comments is saying it was ok for her to murder her baby, no one is condoning it, in fact the opposite is said. I don’t believe receiving sympathy is the same thing as being absolved of the crime. I also believe PPD is a serious condition that can absolutely explain the murder of this child. PPD is a valid reason why this murder happened.…
/r/MensRights05/03/25 06:24 PM
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Why would you joke about this?
/r/MensRights05/03/25 05:24 PM
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I don’t see people excusing her actions in the comments. I see people positing theories explaining what could have motivated the crime and expressing grief at the loss of life.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 03:53 PM
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Your girlfriend is raping you repeatedly. She is a predator. I’m so sorry.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 03:35 PM
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Vance is not an ally of the people, men or women. He’s not going to do shit for us. He’s pandering to the red-pilled teenagers who voted for Trump out of ignorance and emotion. Don’t fall into this trap.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 05:49 PM
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Go to a non-co-ed bathroom in the airport, or go to a single unit/family bathroom. Simple solution to that. A co-ed bathroom by definition is not “your space,” women aren’t invading a co-ed bathroom.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 09:49 AM
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Bruh what is this video, this is weird as fuck. Things like hygiene and taking interest in your partner’s hobbies is a basic requisite of being in a healthy relationship. A good romantic relationship is based on a solid friendship at its foundation. Do you agree with the video? That men only want sex from women? What about affection and support? Men aren’t monsters, what is this misandrist garbage? So many women love men’s sexuality. Not all, but many do. There are some women who have higher lib…
/r/MensRights19/02/25 09:07 AM
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Hating half the population arbitrarily is bad, in either direction.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 06:11 AM
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My partner and I are gonna eat donuts, play games, and watch Star Wars for Valentine’s day. Nothing more, nothing less. I’m stoked on it.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 08:54 PM
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I think it’s senseless violence, shouldn’t be spun any other way, that’s what it is.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 07:06 PM
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Thanks for the civil explanation, I appreciate it. My thesis is that making absolute statements like this about either gender, about any crime, helps no one. Perpetuating this rhetoric isn’t useful.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 05:48 PM
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Am I the one you’re referring to as a troll?
/r/MensRights14/02/25 05:47 PM
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Right, right I get that part, cheeky pun, cute. It’s still wrong. Just because something is punny and makes you feel good to say doesn’t mean it’s accurate information. Personally I think we should prioritize sharing correct information over emotion-based quips.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 05:44 PM
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I’m right there with you, I agree. I’m offering folks a possible explanation for what happened to combat some of the ignorance in the comments.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 04:45 PM
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Yeah you’re right. She should’ve gotten some care for the depression instead of letting it manifest in murder.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 08:58 AM
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I agree. It would absolutely shatter some deeply ingrained ideology in both men and women to conscript women.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 05:38 AM
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Right. Which is wrong, no matter which gender is being referred to.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 11:33 PM
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I’m not defending her. I agree she should be locked up. Mental illness or not it doesn’t change the fact that she murdered human beings, her own children. I’d say the same if it were a man. This person needs to be behind bars and receiving psychiatric care. What I am defending is not lumping all women into the generalization that they need to be taught not to kill people. Most human beings, men and women alike, know not to kill people. I think PPD is a perfect valid explanation for why she murde…
/r/MensRights13/02/25 11:29 PM
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That’s true, I didn’t think about that. You’re right.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 10:45 PM
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Please, explain the irony to me 😂
/r/MensRights13/02/25 10:16 PM
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I never said social dynamics don’t exist. Of course they do. What it all boils down to within the context of gender dynamics is respect.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 10:15 PM
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Ok but your statement isn’t true according to your own study. You can’t claim it’s always women committing infanticide. You can claim the majority of the time it is, but a blanket generalization that it’s “always” women simply isn’t accurate.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 10:14 PM
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Lmao, do you have anything legitimate to contribute here? If you want to throw fits instead of defending your views that’s fine by me.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 10:12 PM
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Can you explain what your top comment means? I’m not clear.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 10:07 PM
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Well it’s ok to be friends with an ex if it truly is a platonic, respectful relationship. It’s a rare case when that happens, but it is possible. It’s also ok to have platonic friends of the opposite sex. A person’s gender doesn’t matter, what matters is if a person is able and willing to respect the sanctity of your romantic relationship. Man or woman, if they’re trying to interfere, that is when the relationship should be ended. Not based on gender alone.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 10:01 PM
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Men are vastly more lonely than women, which is heartbreaking. Society is designed that way, to sweep men’s feelings under the rug which prevents human connection. It’s not ok.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 09:55 PM
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Part of why logistically it makes sense to leave women out of war is because they wouldn’t be as effective in war as men. Some of them might be rockstars, but the majority will not be able to win in say, hand to hand combat for example against an enemy man. Women in war would only work if women from all other warring nations also sent their women to war. And even then there’s no way they’d only engage in direct combat with other women. All that being said, the double standard is real and horribl…
/r/MensRights13/02/25 09:52 PM
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You have to have a serious conversation before the ceremony starts. If a woman is saying goodbye to her ex day of that means the door was never closed until that day. If they had a genuinely platonic relationship, there would be no need to say goodbye. She’s closing the door on potential with another person, she was open to some degree to another person. I don’t want to marry someone who isn’t fully invested in me. Loose cannon. Dude needs to choose his next move carefully.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 09:48 PM
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It might be prudent to not generalize everyone here as anti-feminist because there are older definitions of feminism that are affirming for both genders, because this sub’s intent is not to hate women but to support men, and because willfully assuming an “anti-feminist” label - whether we agree with it or not - has the potential to do tremendous damage to the integrity of the sub and everyone in it. For what reasons do you believe this sub should be anti-feminist? Dismissing someone you feel unc…
/r/MensRights13/02/25 07:21 PM
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So we’re unable to engage in civil conversation, that’s disappointing. Personally, I think siloing the sub into a corner where we only dare to engage with certain kinds of opinions is damaging and unhelpful. That’s a bummer. I hope you have a good day. If you want to engage I’ll be here.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 07:13 PM
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I agree that modern feminism is trash. That’s not relevant to my questions. My questions are as follows: What kind of money is the woman in question trying to extract and from whom? Is this an anti-feminist space?
/r/MensRights13/02/25 06:40 PM
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So we’re devolving to flaccid attempts at provocation now? 😂
/r/MensRights13/02/25 06:35 PM
1

So is that what this space is? Is this an anti-feminist sub?
/r/MensRights13/02/25 06:30 PM
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What bait? I’m asking you a question so I can understand your thinking. So what if you think everyone else knows, I don’t, I’m the one asking the question. Are you willing to engage in conversation to help me understand?
/r/MensRights13/02/25 06:25 PM
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Making blanket statements like that doesn’t help anyone.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 05:33 PM
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That’s crazy to me too. Of course she deserves to be locked up, she murdered children.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 05:31 PM
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I’m curious, what do you mean getting money out of them? Out of who and what kind of money and for what?
/r/MensRights13/02/25 05:30 PM
0

This is a bad take, dude. PPD can wreak absolute havoc on someone’s mind. She probably wasn’t a murderer before having 4 kids, the PPD probably compounded as she had more, she clearly had twins which was probably more than she was able to care for, and she cracked. She’s probably hadn’t been some malevolent, premeditating, psychopath waiting for the day when she could kill someone. PPD fucked her up. It’s not an excuse, it doesn’t make it ok to kill kids, obviously. But it is a valid explanation…
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:56 PM
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Murderers don’t generally announce their plans. How was he supposed to know when she would kill the kids? Why would she do it in front of him?
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:53 PM
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I agree. No idea why you’re being downvoted. This post has nothing to do with men’s rights, this is just vilifying women for the hell of it. I don’t want this sub to turn hateful like all the rest of men’s spaces have.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:52 PM
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What?
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:51 PM
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PPD can absolutely wreck someone, totally change their brain. It’s a valid explanation of what happened. But it doesn’t excuse what she did. It doesn’t make it ok to kill kids.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:50 PM
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Don’t group all women into this though, that’s not what we’re here to do.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:49 PM
-7

Woah, coming in hot with the misogyny today huh?
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:48 PM
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PPD is the monster. Still doesn’t make it ok to murder children though.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:47 PM
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Women in general know not to kill people. PPD can change brain chemistry in unimaginable ways.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:46 PM
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PPD can weak absolute havoc on a person. Change their brain chemistry in major ways. PPD is a perfectly valid explanation for murder, but it is not a valid excuse. It doesn’t make it ok. Obviously.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:46 PM
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Well, it is a valid explanation. But it’s still not ok.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 03:44 PM
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As a woman, I’m glad you’re here. The world is better for having you in it. You are good.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 07:19 PM
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It’s a shame looks ever could compensate for poor behavior.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 04:46 PM
0

You think men will do this?
/r/MensRights27/11/24 02:46 AM
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Or just any other women who don’t subscribe to the 4b bullshit at all
/r/MensRights27/11/24 02:38 AM
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I encouraged OP to ask elsewhere in addition to whatever information he finds here. It’s reasonable to collect data from multiple sources if one is seeking to draw an accurate conclusion. If sources listed here regardless of the topic come from authors/data OP trusts, then that’s all OP will look for, and thats fine. Any and all sources posted here that are credible, by all means put stock in them. The article coming from this sub doesn’t inherently mean it will be unreliable.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 08:31 PM
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Dude I’m not calling this space a misandrist one at all. I’m saying on reddit in general there is much more hate for men than there is hate for women. Are you saying this space should be called misogynist instead of misandrist? I’m sorry all that happened to you, that sucks, of course you’re not a Nazi and no one here would call you that. Why would anyone here call you that? That shit happens on the misandrist subs, not here.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 08:18 PM
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I never levied any judgement on any links provided.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 08:13 PM
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There’s vastly more misandry on reddit than there is misogyny I think. It sucks.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 07:53 PM
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Disregard my suggestion toward menslib then. I’m glad credible resources are uncensored here, I never suggested they weren’t. The bias in this sub is the misogyny that can sometimes crop up here.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 07:52 PM
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Of course. I’m just adding a qualifier and suggesting that it may be prudent to do additional research.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 07:50 PM
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Well, then reddit sucks and I’m so sorry.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 07:47 PM
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It sucks that reddit is biased in general. But there is also misogyny on this sub, which makes this a biased place too, unfortunately. Honestly reddit might not be the place to answer questions like OP’s. But I’m glad they can reach out for emotional and mental comfort here. r/menslib could be useful too.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 06:58 PM
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Just want to add that this isn’t a bias-free space either. This sub can have a pretty strong bias against women sometimes. I’d encourage you to do additional research in other places as well.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 05:44 PM
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Lmao and you say you dont hate this woman? After the way you slandered her?
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:47 PM
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Ah, so the original commenter is suggesting she look up these things in order to help understand some of what her partner has potentially been through. That’s rad.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 08:34 AM
1

Which comment? Please refer it to me
/r/MensRights21/11/24 06:33 AM
1

Why should she stop her bullshit but then support his bullshit? What does that mean?
/r/MensRights21/11/24 01:03 AM
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Why do you make these suggestions?
/r/MensRights21/11/24 01:01 AM
1

Shit, what kind of stuff are you seeing?
/r/MensRights16/11/24 12:35 AM
1

It definitely is the most effective solution but it becomes everybody’s problem when laws are put into effect that impact large groups of people. I think it’s unreasonable to expect large groups of people to be abstinent.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:23 PM
-1

Why do you think critical race theory is brainwashing?
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:19 PM
-1

It’s not 1910, my guy. No one is shaming men into going to war. There hasn’t been a draft in a long time.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:16 PM
-2

Just because one doesn’t see something doesn’t mean it’s not happening.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:09 PM
1

I mean I think either way abstinence is not a viable solution. Abstinence is never going to be effective for a large group of people. I think it’s shitty to say that to a man as well, not just women. Women shouldn’t be singled out here for shouldering the sole responsibility of pregnancy.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 09:13 PM
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Send it to her besties at the FBI
/r/MensRights13/11/24 04:03 PM
8

What the fuck? Hate speech and threats of mortal violence isn’t doing anything wrong?
/r/MensRights13/11/24 04:02 PM
36

As a woman, can confirm. This lady is off the walls.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 04:01 PM
3

Holy shit, what the fuck. As a woman this is terrifying to hear. Obviously this is misandrist as hell but then the added layer of race on top of it? Why? Why any of it? What is this?
/r/MensRights12/11/24 11:56 PM
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For the folks who believe this line of thinking, it should apply equally to both genders, I’m sad that it doesn’t.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 10:42 PM
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Oof, chill homie. I just asked a question my guy, but you out here making assumptions about my intent and who I am. Your previous comment got deleted. I don’t think there was much explanation offered when it was there anyway. Why would I have asked for more information if I had all the info I wanted? I’m just curious about your thoughts, it’s a strong opinion that women shouldn’t be allowed to vote, it’s worth discussing. I’m sure there are nuances to your argument and I want to understand them.…
/r/MensRights12/11/24 10:31 PM
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Why else do you think women shouldn’t be allowed to vote? Tell us more.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 06:45 PM
1

And to think you’re being downvoted, holy shit. This sub is getting out of control.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 06:45 PM
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Many would retort to that, “If the man didn’t want the child, he shouldn’t be having sex.”
/r/MensRights12/11/24 06:43 PM
1

You’re making a big assumption: all the women who are participating in this movement are doing it with the goal of changing male behavior. There are many who are doing it for self-protection, not to directly or maliciously manipulate men. The motivation matters for me.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 11:20 PM
2

She’s a rapist. If you hadn’t pushed back she would’ve done it. Full intent to rape. She’s a rapist. Make your choice.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 06:45 AM
3

You think something can be inserted into a cervix without anesthesia?
/r/MensRights02/11/24 11:07 PM
19

As a woman, this is horrifying to see. I’m so sorry. Holy shit.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 03:33 PM
1

What if the child won’t survive and will suffer? Is it not more compassionate to end the suffering?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 03:57 PM
-4

So? Why should we subject someone to something that forces them to risk their life, no matter how low the chance of mortality, if they don’t want to do it? What if a woman wanted a man to be a crab fisherman but he didn’t want to. Should he be forced to risk his life just because she wants it?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 02:09 AM
1

How is not supporting abortion a middle finger to feminism?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 12:17 AM
-2

Why do you hate Dems?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 12:16 AM
-9

But what if the man wanting the child means the woman risking her life to have it?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 12:16 AM
2

What is Hellenistic Jesus-ism?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 12:14 AM
4

What does it mean to have an abortion immediately after the baby is born?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 12:13 AM
-5

That would be an awesome world to live in.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 12:01 AM
-10

Which natural given rights are you referring to?
/r/MensRights29/10/24 12:00 AM
1

That’s a tragedy. Fuck.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 03:25 PM
3

I’m a woman who supports men’s rights and I’ve never been called a pick me. If I were ever to be called a pick me it wouldn’t change my views.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 10:43 PM
4

Gestation is a huge deal, it is quite literally life or death, OP. 9 months of gestation and birth is way worse than paying 18 years of child support. You clearly do not understand what pregnancy and birth are like. Child support is just money over time. And yeah that completely and utterly sucks, especially if you’re struggling to make ends meet. But I’d take that hands down any day of the week over being literally ripped in half from my asshole to my clit, dude. I’d pay the cumulative million …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:33 PM
0

🤦‍♀️They didn’t blame only men in their comment. They literally said it wasn’t just men. Why do you make so many assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:56 AM
2

DOUBT 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:07 PM
13

Tell ‘em.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:05 PM
1

My mom never applied make-up before work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:02 PM
1

There are also men who call super models “mid.” And women with regular, healthy bodies “mid” for not having washboard abs. So.. There’s two sides to this coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:57 PM
1

Huh. I never thought of it that way.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 07:31 AM
5

I’m so sorry, I don’t understand the thesis of this comment. Would you be willing to explain what you mean?
/r/MensRights16/05/24 11:55 PM
1

I’m just asking the question. If we’re gonna talk let’s talk. Let’s say what we mean.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 05:52 PM
-1

Why do you think she’s a completely lost cause?
/r/MensRights13/05/24 01:41 AM
0

What do you mean, exactly?
/r/MensRights13/05/24 01:40 AM
-4

Accusation of rape and rape are not the same thing, by definition. This is a plainly false statement. They are both incredibly damaging, both weapons of mass destruction, and both utterly and completely heinous to do. But they are not the same. Neither the outcome nor the motive for rape or accusation thereof can be claimed as the same in all cases, as outcomes and motives differ on a case by case basis. Someone could be motivated to rape for many different reasons, and the outcome of a rape can…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 12:53 AM
8

Some of these things aren’t even coherent sentences.
/r/MensRights18/11/23 04:49 PM
1

A safe space to be listened to is huge, dude. That’s what every human being on the planet needs.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 11:27 PM
4

Good fix.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 03:47 PM
2

If you’re not married the necessity of legal involvement is dramatically reduced. If both parties are amenable you can separate without any legal involvement at all. My goal for my relationship is to not have anyone else determine who is granted what if we ever separate.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 07:17 PM
2

I see men complain about money, sex, and custody, certainly. I also see men express their dissatisfaction with divorce, with the weaponization of children, with unrelenting in laws, with having to mute their emotions, with false accusations, with a court system slated heavily in favor of women, with being labeled as guilty of a crime without evidence, with uneven contribution of assets, time, and labor in a relationship. Physical, mental, and emotional. A marriage is a complex and risky endeavor…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 07:03 PM
1

Are those the only major aspects of a marriage in your mind? Kids and money?
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:31 PM
2

Your assumption is incorrect, and I make more money than my partner. What leads you to make these assumptions?
/r/MensRights01/10/23 06:17 PM
5

Marriage offers so little of the benefit it did before. Marriage can be a weapon in the wrong hands. I’m a woman and I can’t stomach the thought of getting married, it puts a man at too much risk. Unfortunately, an AI girlfriend seems like a natural progression at this point.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 03:38 PM
1

What makes you say that? I’m just trying to understand your thinking.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 09:58 PM
1

Based on what?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 09:55 PM
0

What are your thoughts on short hair?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 09:19 PM
8

I think people in general can be uncomfortable reflecting on their choices
/r/MensRights27/09/23 09:18 PM
4

You can and should tell him. What do you mean you couldn’t tell him? Am I missing something? Why didn’t you communicate your desires?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 09:48 PM
2

Yeah MGTOW, proper MGTOW, is healthy and should be supported. The MGTOW subreddit and the series of MGTOW adjacent subs that got shut down were, unfortunately, wholly irresponsible and inaccurate representations of MGTOW. It’s good that they got shut down. They were cesspools of vitriol with the MGTOW label slapped on top. Real MGTOW - men unsubscribing from the traditional expectations, standards, rules placed upon them, for the protection of their mental, emotional, physical, and financial hea…
/r/MensRights23/09/23 07:21 PM
8

I think you may be right 😅
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 04:46 PM
-6

Oh man, that was scary to read.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/23 04:02 PM
0

Definitely. No doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:43 AM
1

Is a homie not allowed to poll people other than a father? A father is only one data point. This way OP can gather ample advice.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 12:27 AM
-10

Can you explain what that comment means?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 03:20 PM
-4

People are sensitive to all kinds of criticism 😂
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 03:20 PM
-8

Question, do you think that atheists have no moral compass?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 07:14 AM
7

Chilling privilege, christ. She has to find something wrong at all times ay? Can’t nothing ever be alright for a minute innit
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:23 PM
9

Facepalm
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:22 PM
7

Your sister’s a cunt mate, I’m sorry. Treats you like utter shite, you don’t deserve it bruv
/r/MensRights13/09/23 09:13 PM
12

Keanu shaming? I haven’t heard about this, are people saying Keanu Reeves is ugly??
/r/MensRights13/09/23 09:11 PM
3

Lots of men lie and say they want want a relationship knowing they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:32 AM
1

You do know that women do actually get swamped with messages tho.. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:39 PM
1

I think that should be true only if the son is older 😅 We can’t be telling 8 year olds to have rhinoplasties. But I see your point. What’re your thoughts on the ears? We have surgery for the nose, maybe something can be done about the jawline?? But the ears really perplex me, how do we fix ugly ears? And who’s judging attractiveness based so heavily on ears that it can effect someone’s dating life in a substantial way!?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:37 PM
4

How do you fix ugly nose, ears, and jaw?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:54 PM
2

The question is not “would you do her,” the question is “is she hot” - Kevin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:26 AM
5

rhuyuhhfyvvfbbfifif fifucivvjk gcvvvvvgggvgggg dysiriochtjdkd gfs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:12 PM
13

“What’s wrong with me?” looks at own ass
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/23 06:08 PM
1

Wait do you actually think that women don’t enjoy or desire sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:55 PM
2

How do you know Tom has no compatibility clashes? How could you possibly know enough to choose based on this information alone? What if Tom is an misogynistic incel pig and that’s why he’s had no sexual partners? What if Sam has only had 1 previous partner and they were in a committed relationship for a decade??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:30 AM
5

Lack of sex is not abuse. This is a neglectful relationship. Still sucks tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:26 AM
1

Eh, some folks just don’t want kids. But that said I still do think this relationship sounds less than ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:24 AM
1

Sometimes I see how people’s thoughts and actions are the result of their trauma when they don’t, and it’s so frustrating. Because it’s like having X-ray vision, like I see so clearly what the answer is. But you can’t just tell people that their trauma is having a certain effect on their lives. People get so defensive even if you deliver information as gently as possible. People like to think they’re immune from trauma, ‘it couldn’t happen to me, no way.’ I just wish I could give people the X-ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:36 PM
1

Lol “sometimes successfully.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:24 AM
-2

The old woman is perceived as harmless, nor is she middle aged. Try listening. Look at that comic with the dudes you posted. The man receiving the “compliments” is fucking angry about it. Just like women often are when receiving this type of interaction from aggressive people. Try looking. At the shit your posting. And make sure it actually makes your point instead of countering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:57 PM
1

What are you smoking, bro? Care to drop some stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:50 PM
6

You’ve clearly never been in that kind of situation before. Yes, they often do yell at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:49 PM
0

Maybe it doesn’t work that way for you. Can’t make an absolutely statement about everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:47 PM
7

Did you fall off the hot take truck this morning, bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:27 PM
1

It makes sense I think. Long-term relationships require mutual assets that don’t depreciate. Looks depreciate. Kindness and aligned values don’t depreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:04 AM
8

Height: 5’ minimum. Don’t prefer over 6’ish typically. Hurts my back and neck to kiss them. But obviously not a deal breaker. Income: 50K if we’re trying to build a life together as long term partners. It’s the basic living wage in my city. No upper limit. Also not a dealbreaker. Money comes and goes, it’s just a tool. Race: No preference. Body type: Don’t like super skinny or super obese. Beyond that, anything goes. I should note I don’t like abs or giant muscles. Looks very alien and freaky to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:58 AM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:47 AM
2

Maybe not in your part of the world. It’s pretty popular in some parts of the world. Many people want extreme lifestyles, that’s why those lifestyles exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:47 AM
5

It’s also possible that some people just don’t want kids. It doesn’t have to be a giant political scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:46 AM
5

Sounds great to me. I don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:46 AM
0

You make asinine assumptions based on literally nothing but your lack of ability to regulate your own emotions. Kinda pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:48 AM
1

lol idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:42 AM
6

Wtf are you talking about? How is this an attack? It’s an inquiry. There are a lot of men in the world who can’t get hard. This is a fact. Why do you think sexual performance enhancement is a $220,000,000 USD annual market? I’m sure many of them are old guys, obese guys, low T guys, and what’s your point? Why is it bad to have sex with those people? They deserve love just like anyone else. It is a crime to, god forbid, have a preference for someone in one of those categories? Because that happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:41 AM
-4

And men haven’t historically wanted control over women’s bodies but not vice vera?
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:26 PM
-1

Be careful dude, don’t make absolute statements like that. “Always” is a dangerous word. It makes your point imperially incorrect even if your point stands most of the time. You can’t say “always,” or you’ll get torn to pieces when the time comes.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:25 PM
2

Publicly in front of the whole country? Come on man, that part doesn’t make sense or add anything of value to this argument. That’s just your anger.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:23 PM
-4

They are indeed reversible.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:21 PM
0

Even as sarcasm this comment leaves a bad taste in my mouth homie.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:19 PM
-5

Gotta love the long history men have of perpetrating this same thinking against women.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:16 PM
1

Total conjecture, not helpful or meaningful here.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:16 PM
0

This is a hypothetical, not something she actually wants to see happen. She’s using this absurd scenario to illustrate how absurd the double standard is.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:15 PM
0

LOL you’re saying a woman getting pregnant is solely HER mistake? Sperm, a man, is required for a woman to become pregnant, for an egg to be fertilized. Vasectomies are quite literally not final and are reversible. Did you skip sex ed? Vasectomy and circumcision are two different things. Abortion is comparable to vasectomy in the context of this hypothetical. Circumcision and FGM are comparable and are both committed against young people who are powerless to understand or stop it. Circumcision a…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:12 PM
1

That is awful and she should just find a different partner. How is that relevant to this post or discussion though?
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:07 PM
2

According to this logic, how do you reconcile the history men have of whoring around themselves without protection or consequence, and leaving women pregnant? That’s also disgusting is it not?
/r/MensRights20/08/22 10:06 PM
2

“117th CONGRESS 2d Session H. R. 8373 AN ACT To protect a person’s ability to access contraceptives and to engage in contraception, and to protect a health care provider’s ability to provide contraceptives, contraception, and information related to contraception.” Of course that legislation doesn’t ban birth control. Do you hear yourself? That legislation protects and advocates for contraception. Did you read a single word of it? 195 lawmakers voted against that. Their act of voting against this…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 09:59 PM
-5

They literally are reversible.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 09:42 PM
0

Banning abortion bans a person’s ability to choose what happens to their body. If someone got gangrene on their leg and we banned their ability to choose to amputate, that’s controlling their body and forcing them to risk death. If a patient with a fatal disease got the opportunity to try a new treatment that could save their lives but we banned their ability to choose to accept said treatment, that’s controlling their health care and forcing them to risk death. Banning someone’s ability to choo…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 09:41 PM
-3

Are you actually claiming that society will crumble because women don’t want to take birth control? Why do you think the majority of men would become unable to have children? You think there would be more elderly and poor people than able-bodied, income-earning people if enough women took birth control?
/r/MensRights20/08/22 09:33 PM
2

You mean different from a sperm bank? Random how?
/r/MensRights20/08/22 09:28 PM
-10

Women also need to be responsible. This blogger is pushing back on the idea that sexual responsibility rests wholly on the shoulders of women. Abortion is a measure that sometimes serves men too, if men don’t want a child. Therefor the “ENTIRE” argument of abortion is not solely for women. And one can consent to sex without consenting to pregnancy. That’s why we have way to mitigate that risk i.e. birth control. A woman is allowed to want to have sex and to not want to be pregnant. Many men also…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 09:27 PM
2

Because the police protect the interests of the cooperate elite in America, not the people. They respond to money and abuse law made by money. That’s why.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 05:51 AM
2

You’re trolling right? Wtf is this?
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:17 AM
13

woah that’s messed up
/r/MensRights26/04/22 07:21 AM
-27

For real.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/04/22 08:26 AM
1

Not too old at all. Even if it were, so what? You know what you want. Just make your intentions clear. You’re golden 👍🏻
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:34 PM
6

Damn there’s a lot of strategy here. This doesn’t need to be so intense, man. Just fuckin talk to her when you want to. Don’t time your responses or only use texting for logistics. You’re gonna be your own worst enemy with that kind of tactical approach, there no humanity in that.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:25 PM
-19

Here’s the other end of the spectrum r/Marriageisntworthit It’s just dudes shitting on women over there. Truly vile.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 03:20 AM
2

Why would you have sex with one to begin with? Why not just spare them the displeasure of your company all together?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:48 PM
2

Why can’t you have sex with an overweight woman more than once or twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:42 PM
2

same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:00 PM
10

The issue is within yourself, you have to do some introspection and find some peace with how he does the work if you still want him to help. Everyone does things their own way and so long as the job is getting done (assuming he eventually does the other half of the dishes at some point 😂) then the way it gets done is each individual’s prerogative. You want it to be done a certain way, he does not do things your particular way, the appropriate change is for you to do whatever you need to do emoti…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/21 12:44 AM
16

Grateful for my boyfriend’s family, who have taken us in rent-free after grad school. With full hearts and zero expectations. Grateful for my grandma’s health. She took a fall on a treadmill a few months ago and is making a slow but steady recovery. Turning 85 in January. Grateful for my boyfriend, who’s dealing with a lot mental-health wise. Grateful that he’s still committed to growing our love responsibly together as a team, despite all he has to manage internally. Grateful for my cat, Bean. …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 03:12 AM
4

Holy shit, that is absolutely wonderful. Sending major good vibes to you and to your mom and to your angel ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 03:06 AM
7

I just graduated my grad program. CONGRATULATIONS. It takes so much work, so many sleepless nights, anxiety attacks, blood sweat and so many tears. I am infinitely proud of you for coming so far, especially as the first in your family. You’re almost done. And you’re paving new paths, both for yourself and your family. Keep at it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 03:05 AM
1

For me, marriage just makes a break up cost 250K. I don’t need that. It’s an incredibly dangerous institution for men to enter into these days, I don’t want to put anyone in that position. Marriage favors women heavily right now, I would have the power to ruin someone’s life on a whim if I wanted to. I don’t want to be in a relationship with such a tremendous power imbalance. Marriage often leads to joint finances, I’m absolutely not down for that. Marriage sometimes allows people to let themsel…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/21 05:32 PM
4

I’m a woman and I don’t want to get married, for so many reasons. No matter how in love with someone I was.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 08:44 PM
1

I do that. Oh no 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:03 AM
11

Maybe most of the women you’re exposed to. Likely not most of them women in the world. I’m sorry you’ve been in a bad dating pool :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:48 PM
1

So hold out until you do find one. What else are you gonna do? Just surrender to having an unfulfilling or disrespectful person as a partner? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:47 PM
7

So you.. you want someone who will accept low effort and disrespect? That’s what I’m getting from the original post. Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:44 PM
38

Why would anyone enter into a relationship where you can have everything you want handed to you on a silver platter by your partner? Who wants a partner with no backbone? Who wants a partner who can’t push them to grow? Do people genuinely want someone who will roll over and serve them 100% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:42 PM
2

What’s their new sub called?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 04:31 PM
1

r/marriageisntworthit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:26 AM
4

I’m confused. Are you not seeing him very often? Why is your communication so minimal? It sounds from this post like you’re in the beginning stages of a relationship and no where near ready to get engaged. If we’re still worrying about him talking to you enough, that’s proto-relationship stuff, not solid relationship stuff. What am I missing? Am I totally just not getting something about your dynamic? It sounds like engagement should be many months or years in the future for you two.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 06:14 PM
9

Exactly the same for me. My SO knows I’m not interested in some of the things he’s interested in, but he knows that I’m interested in his pleasure. So if he’s doing a hobby I’m not into, he still likes it when I’m in the same room but doing my own thing, and weighing in on his hobby stuff every once in a while. That way I can be in the loop on what he’s doing without being tied to something I’m not super into. And I very much enjoy his enthusiasm, and I enjoy supporting his hobbies. That brings …
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 08:35 AM
15

Key word, “first.” You have the answer within yourself. He was your first great love, and there will be more to come.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 07:15 PM
1

I’d love to learn which parts of my thoughts feel horrifically mean-spirited to you. In the US, birthing can cost thousands and thousands of dollars, and most hospital stays aren’t free. Luckily many people have insurance, but many people don’t and have to pay out of pocket and often go into debt over staying just a few days in a hospital. I think she should absolutely be able to spend her money on herself. I’m encouraging her to look at the things that motivate her spending. If she’s spending i…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 08:18 AM
25

12K is enough for.. what exactly? We need a time period or a set of goals defined in order for this to be a viable claim. In my mind, 12K is no where near enough money to raise a child. Your hospital bill for the birth alone could be more than that. Upfront costs for preparing for a child are obscene, much less actually having the child and paying for its post-birth needs. Those needs won’t go away for a very long time. Food, rent/mortgage, clothing, school, medical care, etc. I’d like to know w…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/21 09:26 AM
1

Please leave me alone, yes, if you’ve nothing more to contribute 😂
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 09:45 PM
-2

Wow, that’s a wild generalization to make 😂 Anything based on the actual video content about her gender being relevant? You can’t say all men or all women do or don’t spew bullshit, bullshit is not specific to one gender or another.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 09:08 PM
3

?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 07:49 PM
4

You’re reading so much in bro, I just asked a question, holy shit 😂
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 07:48 PM
5

What point are you trying to make by saying “Jews exist?”
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 07:47 PM
4

Wow. Are you claiming that the name Karen is used only for white people? That’s a pretty outrageous claim to make, especially that it has anything to do with race. Being an entitled person is not a racial thing and doesn’t need to be a racial thing. Entitlement and race are apples and oranges.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 07:27 PM
2

How was her gender relevant? Nothing was mentioned about it in the video at least
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 07:17 PM
3

Anti-white? What are you on about?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 07:16 PM
5

This comment is satire, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:34 AM
2

MGTOW and Anti-feminism are and should be very different things. Those are not one and the same. Making a MGTOW sub that touts anti-feminism out the gate is an absolute dumpster fire waiting to happen.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/21 08:12 PM
1

The fear is real. Don’t have kids until you’re financially stable. That time will come, you just have to be patient.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 02:59 PM
1

Anyone younger than like 50 for me honestly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:10 PM
1

I think you’re right, women probably do it more than men for sure 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:13 PM
1

I didn’t specify gender anywhere in my examples because people of all kinds find themselves or create for themselves these kinds of situations :) There absolutely are times when women withhold sex for petty reasons, use it a manipulation tactic, weaponize it violently. Men do it too. It’s never acceptable no matter who does it. And starfish sex is no fun for anyone, I’m with you there 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:42 PM
1

Well why wouldn’t you take the time to figure out why though 😂 Even if a long term relationship isn’t your goal it would still be good to have that feedback. And to do another human being the courtesy of not dismissing them the moment they don’t put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:08 PM
1

If your needs aren’t being met in the relationship. If someone isn’t taking emotional care of you or themselves, if someone isn’t taking physical care of themselves, if someone isn’t pulling their agreed to weight, if someone is creating an unsupportive environment, if someone is body shaming you, if someone is putting the burden of childcare or housework on you, etc. It makes sense that people might not be into having sex for reasons like these. I don’t think it’s ok to withhold sex for petty r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:01 PM
1

I agree, intentionally withholding sex for a petty reason from an abuser and willfully sticking around when you have the option to leave is a dangerous move, 10/10 would not recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:38 PM
0

OP never said or implied that he wanted or was participating in a “put out or get out” dynamic at all, he argued the opposite of that. He’s saying you don’t have to put out at all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:26 PM
1

No points at all. You can absolutely not want to have sex with someone, for valid reasons, and still care deeply for them. If one partner’s needs aren’t being met and the natural result of that is not being comfortable having sex, that’s ok. You can be honest about the issues in the relationship causing one to not be interested in sex. Just bailing on the relationship is a massively unproductive way to go about pursuing relationships if one’s goal is to have healthy ones. Are you saying the lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:25 PM
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There’s literally no way you can prove that’s true. We can reasonably assume it’s not 😂 That’s a major assumption on your part. I press this point only because it’s important not to make blanket statements in our current social climate. Absolutes get people in trouble. I know it’s frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:02 PM
5

Good, we agree that that point needs further clarification and that no one made any claim about who labeled it a sex strike 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:02 AM
5

I’m not assuming she’s the one who labeled it a sex strike, I literally just said “we don’t know who called it that” 😂 I’m glad we agree that you can leave or not have sex for any reason. I appreciate your perspective on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:58 AM
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She may have been the one to label it as a “sex strike.” We don’t know who invented that label for the situation, you’re assuming it was him. Calling his refusal to engage in a relationship with her “sexual coercion” isn’t a cool thing for her to have done. It absolutely blows my mind how you think someone not forcing another person to have sex with them is abusive. What universe are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:52 AM
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Abuse is absolutely a reason to leave a relationship. Withholding sex, intentionally or not intentionally, is often a path taken by people who aren’t ready to leave a relationship yet, for whatever reason. Your blanket statement doesn’t apply if any minority exists at all. Blanket statements are absolutes and the existence of a majority and minority nullify the validity of any absolute statement. I agree that withholding sex happens for petty reasons a lot of the time, but not the majority of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:46 AM
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He did care to know. If you look through the other comments you’ll find he tried to talk to her about it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:40 AM
3

Yep I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:39 AM
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What you’ve described is a horrendous thing to do to another human being solely for your own amusement. I really hope you don’t do things like this to people. There’s no way to justify something like that, it’s just cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:12 AM
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OP never claimed he feels he’s owed sex, in fact he argued the opposite: that it’s cool if they don’t want to have sex and it’s also cool if he excuses himself from the relationship for that reason. He was very neutral and diplomatic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:06 AM
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If you consider sex to be the most important activity you and your partner do together, you might consider giving that some thought :( I don’t think there are many people who would be fulfilled with that kind of prioritization if their goal is a healthy, long-term, forward-moving relationship. I think the language you use is alarming: “she is/isn’t allowed,” “she does/doesn’t get to do X.” This reads as dictatorial to me, is that how you intended your comment? I think it’s perfectly fine for hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:03 AM
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Reading so much in that’s not ever addressed by OP. You can’t claim to know someone’s life, you don’t know them. Relationships are complicated, there’s so much more happening in that relationship that we as reddit strangers don’t know about. Perhaps the reason he doesn’t know is because she wasn’t willing to talk about it, which is entirely normal and not OP’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:48 AM
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I disagree, I don’t think you can make blanket statements like this. There are some circumstances under which withholding sex is appropriate, abuse being the most obvious. But even if there are other reasons to withhold sex, it certainly doesn’t mean the withholder never cared about you. Circumstances change and people change. Of course someone can care about you deeply at one point in time and then change if circumstances change. If sex is withheld for petty reasons, that is damaging and should…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:44 AM
1

So being able to speak articulately means I speak like a “flaming queen.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:09 PM
1

Are.. are you calling me gay? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:38 PM
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You just say so many fascinating things, how could I look away 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:26 AM
1

Why the worthless bit though, that’s what really piques my interest here. Why are you attaching an incredibly vicious condemnation to someone you don’t know, just because you disagree with them? You’ll note no one here is calling you unsavory things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:24 AM
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I think someone who doesn’t know what the word “illiterate” means shouldn’t be arguing anything 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:18 AM
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Advocating that someone abstain from a behavior that has potential to hurt them is an argument. Abstaining is one of many paths that could be taken if one found themselves contemplating marriage. Not getting married is equally as valid an option as not getting married. The reason you don’t like it may be because this argument is based on the absence of action instead of action, something more concrete that your brain can process. Just like how not making a decision is a decision. Sitting still i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:02 AM
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No one’s forcing you to engage, bud, yet here you are, repeatedly, looking for a fight :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:18 AM
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So you’re advocating for forcing your beliefs on others at any cost? Really? 😂 Bro who HURT you, you are so angry. You’re getting inflamed over nothing. This could’ve been an interesting, civil discussion, but you’re emotional response is majorly disproportionate to what’s being said here. Why the rage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:17 AM
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No one is forcing anyone to pay attention. You’re fabricating stuff in your mind, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:11 AM
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Bro you’re literally trying to convince someone that your way is the right way while your “argument” is not to do that, wtf 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:10 AM
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Polyamory is much deeper than hooking up. Polyamory by definition is entering into multiple established relationships that each have rules and boundaries that govern it. Hooking up has much looser rules than polyamory and sometimes hooking up has no rules at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:58 PM
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“Polyamory” has a specific definition in this context. While there are many different relationship styles that are not monogamy, polyamory is not defined as people sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:57 PM
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Poly is the opposite of what you’re describing. Poly people are people who commit to more than one person, who have multiple relationships that require tremendous amounts of work and care. Polyamory isn’t easy sex, it’s working very hard to maintain multiple healthy relationships while navigating sex as one of many elements of those relationships. People who sleep around and don’t want to commit to one person are just people who sleep around and don’t want to commit to one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 09:55 PM
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5 is perfectly average. You can do a lot with 5, you can do everything that needs to be done, you’re all set. This is all mental, friend. You care about it more than is healthy for you. Caring about it that much isn’t making a happy or healthy sex life for yourself. If you detach yourself from the emotionally-charged ideas society posits about dick stuff, you’ll be way happier. I know it’s way easier said than done. It’s a process of psychological growth that can take a few years to settle into …
/r/seduction14/09/21 11:51 PM
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This is the way.
/r/seduction14/09/21 11:48 PM
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The ‘women want commitment stuff’ came from the past, times when gender roles were more distinct. It used to be that men provided a house, money, resources. Women provided food, children, home care. Together they tended to make a solid team and provide all the needs a typical nuclear family required. The essential part of that equation is that each party needed the resources the other provided in order to attain that balance. Supply and demand made the market fair. Now, women have their own care…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:10 PM
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I like to date with a 40+ year age gap. And the reason is because people in that age range are just a better fit for me personality-wise. They’re able to provide things in a relationship that people my age cannot provide. They key is that you never go into a relationship with that kind of gap with long-term intention. You have to make it clear to people that this is absolutely, non-negotiably short term. You have to tell them right from the jump that this will not last forever and that they shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:51 PM
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Shower 3x a week - 1 hour total brush teeth 7x a week - 21 minutes total brush hair ~10x a week - 1.5 hours total pick outfit 7x a week - 14 minutes total yoga 7x a week - 1.5 hours total That’s pretty much it. Total 4 hours 35 minutes a week. 26F.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:17 PM
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😂 In what universe does it negate someone’s love for another person just because they’ve had previous partners with different skill levels? Having a sexual history means they can’t ever love someone else again? Everyone has to be a virgin to have love? What’re you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:04 PM
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You’re really, really wrong. So many people would be loveless for the rest of their lives if it weren’t ok to just have opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:33 PM
2

You date the wrong people then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:18 AM
1

It’s not 1910 anymore, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:17 AM
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Obviously spousal sex is not casual sex. He wasn’t referring to his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:13 AM
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Naw bud. See the following: Overt sexual racism Covert sexual racism Race fetishes Race play Being with someone of a certain race to see what it’s like etcetera
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:11 AM
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Why do you think it’s assumed every woman is a feminist? In what universe? Of course there are women who are prepared to say they disagree with feminism, feminism is not universal just because someone has a vagina. That’s a hugely misguided idea. There are plenty of women who are not feminists. They do indeed exist and I hope this post is helping you see that, and helping other people see it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:07 AM
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Fuck a bunch of randoms? Get back together?? What are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:02 AM
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Wow. Are you honestly trying to imply some sort of correlation between her being honest and her being a victim of abuse??? In what universe are those two things connected? Are you just leaving that bit out of the story or something? You can’t honestly be saying that her honesty was too much for her man to handle so he beat her. You cannot be implying that she brought it on herself by being honest, there’s no way. I’m certain I must be misunderstanding something here. What’s the real idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:59 AM
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When in the story did he keep apologizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:54 AM
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Of course it’s ok to think your ex is better. It’s ok to have thoughts. Saying them out loud to your friend at a party is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:53 AM
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That’s not true, you can’t make blanket statements. Of course things like this are reparable in some situations. This isn’t one of them. That doesn’t mean they don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:51 AM
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She didn’t say that in public, OP isn’t conveying the story properly. The woman said that to one of her friends, at a get together in the privacy of her home. She only said it to one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:50 AM
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You’re a beta, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:49 AM
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Yep, I understand your rule now 😂 Very well mathed my friend, that’s awesome to read, pretty spooky. Some women genuinely just do want to have a lot of partners and I used to think they were the minority but with Gen Z doing what they’re doing... I don’t know. I hope the young women in my life don’t end up feeling unfulfilled if they choose this lifestyle.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:22 AM
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Tell me more :) What is it about a woman having what you consider a high amount of partners in her youth and then settling into say a decade long relationship that bothers you? What’s at the root of the fear there?
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:09 PM
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I mention only women because the OP mentions women and your first comment refers to it. This would be an opportune moment to quote you in saying you “literally failed to read...” Thank you for reaffirming that I’m not experienced in making decisions based off hormones, that bodes well for me. On a kinder note, I am genuinely sorry you and your partners have been damaged by promiscuity, in whatever form it may have come. It does sometimes breed emotional damage, for sure, and it can be tremendous…
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:06 PM
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Women question men’s motives for having a high body count too, someone might be doubting your viability as a partner for your body count, by someone for whom 9 or 10 is high. “High” is relative, I think people in general often forget that 😂 I’m unclear on the second bit there about how women could make men feel masculine but then there’s doubt that they can? Can you clarify what you mean there? Why is a man’s need to feel validated as the most masculine partner the woman’s responsibility? That’s…
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:55 PM
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What about the other scenario I suggested that isn’t spreading the average out evenly across the years?
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:49 PM
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I’d love to see those studies if you have links. What about if men have a body count of over 5?
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:28 PM
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I definitely appreciate mental and physical standards 👍🏻 Do you mind if I ask how the body count issue manifested in your relationships later on in negative ways? I’m not judging here, I really want to understand :)
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:26 PM
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Oy vey, ok if we’re playing semantics here and you keep relying on the mechanics of posting to hold up your argument, why don’t you check out the two grammatical errors you’ve made throughout this thread and then step to me about semantics. You’re the one assuming I’m having an emotional response. You’ll note the comment I left that you’re referring to as an emotional response is rather emotionless as I’m simply stating possible scenarios for why a woman might have 30 partners. You claiming some…
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:22 PM
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That would be horrible 😂 So lets say hypothetically a person becomes sexually active at 18, let’s be generous. If someone is 18 and they’ve had 18 partners I could see why you’d think that was a lot. But if someone is 50 and they’ve had 50 partners, that’s only 1.5 partners a year. Is that a lot? Maybe they had many partners over the course of a few years and then settled onto a relationship that lasted for decades.
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:12 PM
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That’s a pretty severe double standard don’t you think?
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:08 PM
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You’re the one resorting to insults, that would suggest you’re the one feeling attacked 😂
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:39 PM
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Maybe some women don’t want to settle down into multi-year relationships, that’s also an explanation for having 30 partners. Maybe some women had frequent partners when they were young and then settled into one long term relationship that lasted decades, that’s also an explanation for having 30 partners. Maybe some women enjoy casual sex and approach it in a healthy, fulfilling way and it makes them happy, that’s also an explanation for having 30 partners. Having 30 partners doesn’t mean somethi…
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:46 PM
1

I definitely agree that age factors in a bunch. Is one partner per year too many?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:42 PM
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I get that. Do you think that applies to men from the women’s perspective as well?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:42 PM
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What is it about a person with a lot of experience that turns you off?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:22 PM
1

Why such an arbitrary rule?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:15 PM
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Just because a woman has had 30 partners doesn’t mean she’s sleeping around. How do you define sleeping around?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:15 PM
1

elaborate?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:12 PM
1

Why?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:11 PM
2

Youth is wasted on the young
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:05 PM
1

Why?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:05 PM
1

Why?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:05 PM
0

Why unattractive for a serious relationship?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:04 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:02 PM
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pfft. Amateurs.
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:00 PM
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Came here looking for exactly this comment ^
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/21 04:07 PM
5

It’s not just one girl, there are innumerable tik toks from innumerable tok tokers featuring this kind of sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:14 AM
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Ah, wonderful :) Thanks for adding more info to the discourse!
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/21 06:04 PM
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I wasn’t saying whether or not it was real, I was just clarifying why she said “EQ.”
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/21 06:00 PM
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She’s referring to “Emotional quotient” instead of Intelligence quotient. It’s something that had been discussed in other parts of the full video. She wasn’t making a mistake, it was relevant.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/21 05:41 PM
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Word
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/21 05:46 PM
10

Baggage can start in infancy depending on the environment one is raised in. There’s no number on baggage. Baggage is a malleable concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:56 PM
1

Great, should be super easy for you to cite them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:50 PM
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Do you have any statistics or evidence to support this claim? Please provide them. You have an opinion, great. You cannot pass it off as a fact if you can’t back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:16 PM
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So glad to see this respectful representation of MGTOW on this sub. There is so much toxic rhetoric spouted indescriminantly here and it brings me down in a major way. I don’t want people to think we’re all toxic like that.
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 02:49 AM
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It sounds to me like your wife’s needs, feelings, and preferences are not being listened to. I understand where she’s coming from. A marriage is an equal partnership. In order to grow with each other and especially to grow in faith together, mutual respect and understanding are absolutely necessary. From your perspective OP I totally understand your determination, your desire to build brotherhood, your strength in your relationship with God. I see that you are successful in attaining your own go…
/r/RPChristians11/03/21 07:46 PM
1

umm.. one could ask 😂
/r/RPChristians08/03/21 06:55 PM
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If this were me I’d target a demographic that doesn’t operate this way. Tinder, other contemporary online platforms are filled with people for whom this is the MO. Maybe try different dating apps? Try finding people who aren’t immersed in this mode of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:03 PM
5

Wow. It sucks that this is how people start relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:23 PM
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Certainly MGTOW fuel. But let’s remember this is one woman, not all women.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 12:20 AM
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I agree that marriage is often not beneficial in our current climate. But I’d encourage you to think differently about men who get divorced and don’t see their kids anymore. That is not 100% the woman’s responsibility, marriage and child rearing are a team effort. Men neglecting their children does not mean there are no good women. The man made the decision to distance himself from his kids. That doesn’t mean the woman is bad. Those are two separate things.
/r/RPChristians28/02/21 10:58 PM
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For me I think about partnership this way: one “soulmate” is a ridiculous idea. There’s no god who made a perfect match for you and put her on the other side of the world and it’s your duty as a man or whatever bullshit to ride up on her in a suit of armor and live happily ever after. I think of partnership as something to stumble upon because there are many opportunities for it. You can build a good relationship, in whatever form that may take or for however long it may last, with many people i…
/r/MGTOW225/02/21 07:54 AM
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I’d like to add a line item! Not bashing women unnecessarily. I see so much unbridled and undeserved hatred on this sub. I get the reasons we dont want to get attached and I get that some of us have been hurt but I’ve encountered language like this recently: “Women are public toilets” “Women are only good for sex” “Women are always raging bitches/sluts/gold diggers” and lots of other absolutist language. I think this sub could be improved if we posted about what MGTOW really is: supporting men’s…
/r/MGTOW225/02/21 01:49 AM
1

If my daughter had to resort to it to pay bills, I would feel like a failure. If my daughter voluntarily engaged in it as a recreational activity because she feels empowered and could still be safe while doing it, I would support it. Though these days it would be preeeeetyy hard to guarantee her safety and her job eligibility and her self esteem remaining high. If by some slim chance those things all were possible I’d be ok. But if any of those things started faltering I would get very worried a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:28 AM
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You’re contradicting yourself again bud. All the best to you. I hope you live a fulfilling life and I hope you reform the way you speak about MGTOW so we can be seen for what we really are.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 11:26 PM
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There are of course women who it is a benefit to be with. The men who choose to be with women are not a part of MGTOW. This isn’t a contradiction, it’s simply a matter of choice: choosing either to date women or to GYOW. Saying that men have created 99% of technology and art in the world is blatantly untrue. You are saying explicitly that we actively oppress women. You are advocating to exile all women. You are advocating to acquire women as property. You are advocating for forced assimilation i…
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 04:57 PM
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Except that humanity would go extinct? If we got rid of all the women? Are you actually advocating for that? Women are not only good for sex. If we got rid of them we would lose a bunch of our culture, our collective record keeping, some of the strongest political activism the world has ever seen, some of the most beautiful artists in the world, we’d lose some music, some culinary genius, some of the most brilliant scientific minds in the world. Motherhood would change completely and child reari…
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 05:18 PM
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If you despise being in relationships with women, you could have just said that instead of calling them “human toilets,” man. That’s all I’m saying. Women are good for more things than just sex. Your opinion is that they are not. Do not state your opinion as objective reality. I never assumed or implied you would say these things to women. That’s something you invented in your mind. I sincerely hope lying is not the only way you communicate with women as your comment suggests. If it is, it’s no …
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 06:36 AM
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Wow. Sorry bro but this is super disrespectful, poorly written, and poorly executed. These are unkind sentiments that don’t belong here. This sub is supposed to support men’s freedom, not shit on women like this.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 05:59 AM
1

Finally some sense. OP, this is asinine and inaccurate.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 05:54 AM
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I’m asking you to provide evidence to substantiate your own claim. Why are you avoiding that responsibility? If you make outlandish generalizations, you should be prepared to back them up. If you can’t, you are the one who has failed. Based on the way you disrespectfully speak about women, the siloed opinions you have, and your inability to substantiate your own claim, it would be reasonable for one to imagine that you’re the one who has been cucked. I agree that there is beauty and ugly in the …
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 05:01 AM
0

Please provide your factual evidence that all female mammalian organisms are wired to pretend to be good partners with the explicit intent of cucking members of the male species. Please. I’ll give you a million dollars if you can satisfy the claim you’re making. If you do it with respect and human decency I’ll give you a million more.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 03:19 AM
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I agree with you. Marriage favors women almost exclusively and is becoming a very dangerous institution for men to enter into. I wouldn’t get married, the risks are too high. I wouldn’t mind continuing to pursue responsible and fulfilling short term relationships or finding someone I enjoy and feel is safe to spend a longer amount of time with and just spend time together in whatever form that manifests naturally. My issue here was what he was saying about women and implying his opinions applied…
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 03:03 AM
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Some women are decent and good. Some women make excellent partners and have no leanings towards toxic feminism and no desire to damage men. Calling women “human toilets” is destructive hyperbole that weakens your ethos in the context of debate. The same could just as easily be said about some men. It’s a subjective insult rooted in opinion and emotion, not facts.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 02:48 AM
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Why don’t you phrase your post that way then? That these things apply, in your opinion, to most women instead of using rhetoric that implicates all women? Why use inaccurate language to make this point? It only weakens your argument.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 02:45 AM
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Why don’t you get some grammar and stop making blanket generalizations about an entire gender. You can’t say these things apply to all women. They apply to some women.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 12:56 AM
3

You’ve met a certain portion of the college population. There are plenty of college kids who aren’t like that.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 07:09 PM
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Why is “travel” in quotes like traveling is a bad thing? Traveling is one of the most beautiful ways to open your mind. How can you be average maturity but also ancient? No go, don’t believe you. Sounds like you want to get married so you can have sex. You’ve listed some other things you’ll enjoy about marriage but they sound superficial and uninformed. Having trouble waiting? So is everyone.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 04:42 PM
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If you’re going to use your marketing degree to assert an agenda that says gay marriage, transgenderism, abortion, and the LGBTQ community are immoral, please don’t go down this path. Choose a different one. The world doesn’t need more hate put into it.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 01:07 AM
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My 3 best girlfriends and I are all in completely different stages of dating despite being close in age. The oldest of us is married and was married for a year before we all met, she’s 27. She’s only ever dated her husband. Me, the second oldest at 25 is casually dating someone of almost a year, happily, after deliberately pursuing very fun short term, non-traditional relationships, to put it lightly. The second youngest of us at 23 has never dated seriously before for religious reasons and has …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:56 PM
2

The exact same thing happened to me with my mom for real. This is eerie to see.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/02/21 01:12 AM
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A man of Christ serves his brothers in whatever ways meet their needs. Other people have needs that are different from our own. A true leader is able to identify the ways our needs differ and act accordingly and with compassion. As a man of God it is your duty to close the gap between you and a weaker one who cannot himself close the gap. If someone needs you to wear a mask, you wear a mask. Not for yourself but for your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. Christ serves men, attend to all.
/r/RPChristians15/02/21 07:33 AM
1

Anybody know a sub that’s just this douchy tinder stuff? I’m 25F but i’ve never experienced this asinine nonsense as an online dater and I need to see more of this. Is this shit real? Do girls really require 6’+ in a partner to be happy?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/21 04:47 PM
1

Wow. Where to begin with your bullshit. Here’s the point I’ll focus on. Young women who date older men do not all have daddy issues. It’s asinine to make a blanket statement like that, you’re just empirically incorrect. Straight up. Many women have daddy issues at all ages, not just young women. Many young women do not have daddy issues and just prefer to date older men. Many men have mommy issues. Many men don’t. Having parental issues and the age range you prefer are not always connected, very…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:55 PM
-3

Don’t touch your face in all caps when a third of your list is about stuff you do to your face?
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/20 09:23 PM
1

Isn’t god supposed to love everyone?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:48 PM
1

Gotcha. Alrighty so, why does god punish people using STIs?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:47 PM
1

If you’re belief isn’t affiliated with a religion, what constitutes the framework of your beliefs?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:44 PM
1

Ok. Can you help me understand? Can you explain more about your philosophy?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:44 PM
1

Which religion do you practice though? A bunch if religions believe there’s only one god.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:41 PM
1

What inspires your resistance to answering the question?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 08:40 PM
1

Which god do you believe righteously punishes people with STIs?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 09:28 AM
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I’m sorry this happened to you. He wasn’t getting his needs met in some form or fashion. He found an outlet where he could get one or more of his unmet needs met and he took it. It was an irresponsible way to go about fulfilling his needs because it disregarded yours. He should’ve come to you and discussed what his needs were and how you could make a plan together to fulfill them, if he wanted to stay together. I suspect he doesn’t have those tools or that awareness so his easiest way to meet hi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 11:20 PM
3

Yo I’m not “demonizing” or “crusading,” I’m trying to have a civil discussion about an issue we’re both interested in 😂 The fact that you feel the need to apply these dangerous terms to me tells me you have some insecurities. People often use inflammatory language and emotional appeals in the absence of ability to construct logical arguments. “Reptilian” refers to the reptilian brain, the part of the brain that governs survival tactics. My stating that some societies wanting to preserve their pr…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 07:46 PM
2

The reptilian goal of many societies is to have a successful progeny, sure, what I’m saying is for many modern folks having kids isn’t a necessity and doesn’t always have to be a main priority. What is paternal doubt? Having a variety of parents and parental figures has been ubiquitously beneficial across cultures for centuries. There’s a reason the saying “it takes a village to raise a child” exists. Why do you consider making a family to be hedonism? Perhaps in your experience it’s rare to hea…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 07:13 PM
3

The argument can be made that polyamory makes raising children easier because it provides a variety of caregivers who can provide different kinds of support for children. Also, raising children isn’t always the goal of a society
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 06:09 PM
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There are many other reasons for exploring polyamory and open relationships outside of the ones you’ve described. Those are unhealthy reasons to explore. There exists a wealth of healthy reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 12:20 AM
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You can’t make a blanket statement about all relationships. You can say you THINK open relationships never work. You can say some of them don’t work, but you can’t say they all never work. There was no mention of “raw” sex, protective barriers were not discussed. Polyamory does not equal promiscuity. Those are very different things.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 12:11 AM
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I think it’s irresponsible to argue that the condition of being in a non-monagamius relationship correlated to not being as caring of a partner. What data are you basing that on? Your experience? Your experience is not universal. There are plenty of uncaring monogamously committed men and there are plenty of non-monogamous people who are hugely caring. Your post describes a single instance of unsafe sex and boundary breaking, not those things in direct connection to someone’s commitment status i…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 12:09 AM
1

Just accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:19 PM
1

I don’t really understand though. I guess I just don’t respond to physical things like a lot of people do then? I didn’t like my teeth, there are parts of my body I’m still not the biggest fan of but I can’t let it get in the way of the rest of my life :( I have to carry on around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:18 PM
2

I did that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:13 PM
2

Jeez, sorry, I’m just trying to understand here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:05 PM
3

Oy Vey, that doesn’t sound fun. Why did you hate yourself? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:03 PM
2

Maybe I just don’t know enough about it then, teach me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:48 PM
1

To me it indicates where people’s priorities lay and it tells me about how their spending habits too. I know that my lifestyle isn’t compatible with someone who prioritizes physical appearance things to the point of being willing to spend large sums of money and put themselves in potentially risky situations to attain those things. It’s not bad or wrong, it’s just not the way I would spend my money or energy so it would be unreasonable for me to choose a partner who valued those things. Incompat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:21 PM
3

It depends on the person. A lot of people would be fine with it, a lot of people wouldn’t. I might not break up with someone over it, if it didnt make them look abnormal or cause them pain. But if it made them look not normal I don’t think it would be my first choice to date someone with purely aesthetic cosmetic surgery. Medically required PS is one thing but PS for vanity’s sake tells me data about their personality that’s helpful for me. I know that that’s not compatible with what I want in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:09 PM
4

Excuse me what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:04 AM
1

There’s no way you can definitely make that statement, because there’s no way you could ever know the preferences of the majority of women on the planet. That’s an assumption that’s not responsible to base advice off of. Also, saying the girls fall in love with guys because they cum in them is a sweepingly broad generalization, and an inaccurate one when applied to all women. Same goes for thinking that all women want to feel dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:46 PM
3

Wow. Some of that shit was based on assumptions that all women like it rough when some don’t. Those assumptions are pretty disappointing to read, it’s scary that you make blanket statements like that with no qualification. A really important part of having top notch dick game is consent and communication about your partner’s preferences. Honestly, that’s the shit that’ll get a girl coming back to you for more. Just being fucking thoughtful. Treating her like a person who’s preferences are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:16 PM
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