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| 1 | My crush (20F) ended our Snapchat streak purposely all of a sudden. Should I (21M) just stop snapchatting her now too?Show her that she is not the center of your life. Show her that you have a good, fun life and you want to bring her into your already good life. By being on vacation and saying 'look this reminded me of you' shows that your life revolves around her. Instead show her fun shit that would make her wish she was there with you. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | My crush (20F) ended our Snapchat streak purposely all of a sudden. Should I (21M) just stop snapchatting her now too?Well first of all you're on vacation. You should be enjoying your self and stop worrying about this one girl. Second of all from this post it seems you're not creating any sort of attraction with her. Seems like you're just a good friend to her and not a potential partner. When she asked if the person you met looked like her you went out of your way to compliment her. Why? There was no need to. Like someone else said you're putting this girl on a pedestal, i know she's your friend and all that b… | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 8 | How can i make my girlfriend orgasm.Next time you talk about this slip in a question about how she makes herself orgasm when she masturbates. What position, what kind of stimulation, for how long. Then try to recreate this when you two meet up. Obviously do foreplay, and other stuff to build up tension, and end by doing what she does when she masturbates. This is what I did with a gf of mine and from there we explored other ways to make her orgasm. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | What Should I Do Differently In This Situation?Pretty clear she just wants attention from men. You can keep flirting, talking and being friendly but would not expect a date unless she stops playing games like this. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:52 AM |
| 82 | A story from my youthRealized in my late teens that most girls respond well to being treated like a buddy. Teasing, joking and poking a bit of fun at them. I have no idea why or how this works. Every thing in my brain tells me to treat a girl I like as a special, unique human. Yet that always turns them off. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:32 AM |
| 7 | Insane disrespect / shit test: "maybe first you should learn how to make one girl have fun"The thing is, if you react in any kind of way. Either calling her out or radio silence you'll come across as insecure. If this is the only time she's voiced a complain move onto a different subject. Just my advice. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 05:58 AM |
| 10 | Insane disrespect / shit test: "maybe first you should learn how to make one girl have fun"Not disrespect it's the truth. Lol you made a sexual joke and she made it personal. It's not so much a shit test as just letting out her displeasure with your sexual relations. Just move on and change the subject. Or make her cum. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl is "feeling ill"I mean any response after 18 hours is too much. If you were going to see this girl at work again you should have just pulled back completely and started over from square one next time you saw her like nothing happened. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Girl is "feeling ill"Waiting 18 hours to text you back was her gauging your interest levels to see if they matched hers. You showed much more interest than her and that turned her off. If she agrees on a time and place and still flakes that's on her not on you. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Is ripping off clothes during foreplay as sexy as it sounds?Depends on what is actually being ripped off. Like underwear and stockings are easy to rip and replaceable. | /r/seduction | 07/08/21 03:16 AM |
| 5 | So guys, how do you steer your convo towards sexual talk (on first date) once you're done with the rapport phase.Sounds like you just need to think on your feet more. You used your go-to and had nothing else after she shut it down. The best time to go for a kiss is during a more intimate moment. Never at the end cause that's expected. When sitting or standing close to each other and it feels like it's just the two of you. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks me for my snapchat…but I already had her addedGet her number. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 04:33 AM |
| -1 | How do I spice up my sex life with my girlfriend?Let her know that you want to try things that are new to you and that her sexual history excites you. Ask her which of the stuff she's done she liked the most and if there's anything new she would like to try with you. If she still shuts you down, you have to think about you desire to stay with her or not. If the two of you aren't sexually compatible that's just make you resent her more. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Talking to womenTease her. Poke fun at her in a light hearted way. Start making inside jokes with her. Even let her make a fun of you a bit. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | I feel bad for losing interestIt's always a bit jarring to see a girl you like without makeup or maybe they use bronzer and then send you pic in bad lighting with no makeup. But in my experience you get used to it. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Some quick hacks to make her chase moreIt's so funny to me that so many women don't stop to think what dating is like for the other side, yet try to give men dating advice. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a guide for being seductive through text.Just keep it light, fun and casual. It's easy to get too invested into texting but if texting is not fun for you it's probably not fun for them. You can have deep convos through text but those have to be sparse. If you get to the point of texting daily. Just a good morning to start the day, How's your day going. How was your day at the end of the day, and did anything interesting happen. that's it | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Does she [25F] like me [25M] or is she playing hard to get?I went through your post history. You guys haven't talked in 3 weeks? If so, that shit is dead, move on. Also someone responding in paragraphs to a one sentence question just seems odd to me. | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Tall women Seduction TipsPersonally, I think being tall is attractive no matter the gender. I'm 6'1 and probably wouldn't date someone who was a whole 2 feet shorter than me. But that's probably stems from my grandpa telling me to not to make short grandchildren lol. If you don't want to approach guys yourself, you're best bet is to learn non-verbal cues and hope they pick upon them. Eye contact, a smile. Learn to give a "come here" look. Realize that if you want men to approach you, you will have to take the lead with … | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | DHV items for your home?A dog. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How to be confident?Yes. I know it seems excessive. But if op got crushed after asking her out it's gonna hurt even more when she starts dating other guys. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Got teased with sex, but then it didn't happen...am I being ridiculous?This is r/seduction not r/ "will he respond to my passive-aggressive texts?". I know you're frustrated and rejection sucks, but you really gotta ask yourself if this dude is putting the same effort you are. If this had this much effect on you then you gotta look for something better. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | How to be confident?If you want to be more than friends and she rejects you just end the friendship or at least distance yourself. If you bombed asking her out it just means you gotta work on your game. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 08:02 AM |
| 1 | FlirtingWhy are you asking us? ask them. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Girl goes completely cold over night after 4 months and progress. Overthinking?Then she doesn't want that with you or is weighting her options between you and her ex. Best to just move on even though it sounds like you really like this girl. | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Girl goes completely cold over night after 4 months and progress. Overthinking?No sex, she is almost prude and the only way I am getting sex is by being in a relationship with her. I'm a bit confused about this then. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 11:47 PM |
| 6 | My boss randomly sends me a feet picpeople trying to fuck where they eat | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Girl goes completely cold over night after 4 months and progress. Overthinking?You guys went on dates, but you weren't in a relationship? Sounds like she friendzoned you. There's a lot here about you two getting along and being friends. You call it "courting" but give no examples of actually courting her. She probably knows you have feeling for her but doesn't want a romantic relationship because it would run your friendship. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 11:33 PM |
| 9 | A shitty date FRHow can a girl so ugly afford to be so difficult? The answer to that is in your own post. You wanted her for sex, that gives her something you want. You both knew the point of the date was just sex making the whole thing transactional. It's literally just a deal where the math didn't make sense for both parties. You feel ashamed cause you dumpster dived and came up with nothing. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Help as a cashierDepends on how much you like/need your job honestly. It sounds to me like you're getting solid practice. You should go out, use that practice in more social situations. But if you really want to, you can look for some shared activity, like hiking or going to a concert for example. Take it to a social setting outside you interaction as a cashier and customer. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingI agree, but he's not taking you out on a date. He told her he had feelings for her and she's toying with him. This is clearly fucking with his head. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Tinder girl seems standoffish and barely talksMove on. She just wanted attention. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 08:14 AM |
| 4 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingI think you jumped the gun here. I know your intentions were to be straight forward with her. But telling her your feelings before you two go on your first date spoiled it for her. Going into the date knowing that you have romantic expectations puts pressure on her to perform. As opposed to going on a fun date and seeing what happens. You showed your hand before the chips were on the table. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 03:10 AM |
| 3 | went on a dateUnderstand that she didn't want a relationship like you did and that's out of your control and not your fault. She kind of did you a favor too. Getting back with her ex all of the sudden is a convenient lie. Even if that was true, it means she was talking with her ex while making plans with you. That's not someone you can to build a long term meaningful relationship with. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 12:38 AM |
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