disarm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	[FR] Met a girl at a park		disarm	/r/seduction	11/10/11 05:02 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Where is the best place to approach a lot of women in the same place during the day for (Daygame)? Break down grocery store game for me. How?	/r/seduction	04/05/26 10:35 PM
2	if you had to choose between investing into either salsa/bachata or yoga as a hobby to maximize the chances of finding a future girlfriend, what would you pick? Dancing is way better but you're gonna have to grow a pair/confidence to be a good lead but yes dancing is a great way to actually meet women, yoga is generally more of a safe space and not a place to meet girls but it also works too if you find a good studio. I guess a dance studio is also the same it depends on the vibe/people so don't be afraid to go around and explore, dance can be a very expensive hobby, but do recommend it for everyone. 😁	/r/seduction	17/04/26 06:37 PM
1	Gym crush gave me a chance and I think I blew it? Sounds both amazing and terrible.	/r/seduction	15/04/26 04:36 AM
1	Gym crush gave me a chance and I think I blew it? You guys at the gym just randomly share machines with the girls there? Wtf am I reading. A girl walked up to ask if you can share a machine but you were already using it with another stranger you were with who is also attractive? Lol	/r/seduction	15/04/26 03:24 AM
1	How often do you secure a date or even a text back after getting a number (in person)? I got some numbers today and I tend to be kinda forward and ask for a date right away which is a mixed bag. I feel like if I don't make myself clear at the start I will get friend zoned but on the flip side being so forward is off putting for girls who like to take things slower and might still be down for fun once they get to know you. I don't think there's any magical % you should aim for, but my advice is to just keep trying and learning from your experiences though practice. In my own experi…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 02:18 AM
1	Sex is not happening to me at all! Go fly to another country and be free	/r/seduction	13/04/26 02:10 AM
0	Keep watering the grass; it grows, and will certainly keep a relationship rooted No, seduce attractive women*	/r/seduction	13/04/26 02:06 AM
11	How to game Russian girls? Do they speak English? A lot of the ones I met in sea were not solo.	/r/seduction	10/04/26 09:02 PM
1	Anyone here who has success with dating apps? How do you find dates outside? Cold approaching is tough these days everyone feels so closed off.	/r/seduction	07/04/26 04:06 AM
3	I have a bad habit of building the confidence of a low self esteem girl. She will then have confidence n find someone else. What am i supposed to do instead? By building low self esteem do you mean you're hunting land whales for trophies?	/r/seduction	07/04/26 02:47 AM
36	Is reading women written fanfics a good way to learn seduction? Women that write fanfics are a very small subset of women as a whole so all you will do is potentially underarand the mind of the woman that write the specific fanfics.	/r/seduction	03/04/26 08:30 PM
1	Cold approach only : what is a good success rate for a small town (around 100k) ? Do you usually roll solo or with someone?	/r/seduction	31/03/26 02:52 AM
9	Girls, did she wanna talk to me more? Is this English? Wtf is this	/r/seduction	31/03/26 01:34 AM
3	18F How do I find casual sex with a guy without fear of being hurt or getting sti’s as a super shy girl You can video chat and have a phone call too before you meet. Just say hey are you down to have a video call or voice chat? And if they dodge then you know it's an easy avoid for red flags because a person who can't get cleaned up or act normal for 15 min on camera or phone will save you like 3 hours of bs getting ready, going out, and pulling that escape cord.	/r/seduction	20/03/26 03:42 PM
21	18F How do I find casual sex with a guy without fear of being hurt or getting sti’s as a super shy girl If meeting someone thru a dating app is too much social anxiety then idk what to tell you, because interacting thru an app is the most far removed from social interaction you can get, you can literally just toss your phone to the bed to walk away and block someone to never see them again.	/r/seduction	20/03/26 03:03 PM
11	I have zero self-esteem. Like nothing Enjoy your life, make the most of it if it's what you feel comfortable with.	/r/seduction	17/03/26 11:32 PM
1	As a girl, what is something that turns you on and you wish more men would do? Came to this thread for the comments, was not disappointed. Hahaha.	/r/seduction	27/12/14 05:35 AM
1	I'm having a difficult time transitioning from college to the real world The best thing to do is get back into it again by facing down your anxiety. Make time to go out more often, with or without people you know. Throw yourself out of your comfort zone consistently until it becomes your new comfort zone and you'll find yourself. Don't worry about how other people perceive you, just mingle with people and focus on them, ask them about themselves and try to find interest in what they say.	/r/seduction	27/12/14 05:26 AM
0	Woman Has Sex With A Dwarf Stripper And Becomes Pregnant On The Day Before Her Wedding I question the legitimacy of this article. There are no names, locations, companies, or specific details given that could identify anyone so you really can't tell if it's truth or fiction. I'd take this with a grain of salt before trying to draw to any conclusions...	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/14 01:52 AM
-5	"Dread" is just another word for honesty, a sadly outdated concept "Isn’t holding in your fart kind of like rape? Didn’t you manipulate her, unfairly, into sex?" I don't understand how holding in your fart is like rape. I always thought people hold in their farts to be polite because a. it's rude to make someone smell your shit , b. people would lose respect for you because it's not appropriate etiquette, and c. I wouldn't want to have sex with a girl farting around me so I assume she might feel the same, but I didn't realize I was manipulating girls/people in …	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/14 01:22 AM
-5	Excuse me. Why does everyone assume you guys are abusive assholes? I recently started browsing TRP a few days ago and there are a lot of things right about this subreddit and a lot of things wrong. The right: Feminism isn't always right Males face a lot of pressure to conform to gender ideals and one of those ideals is being silent about the pressures they face. The wrong: Feminism is bad. No, feminism is about self-empowerment and fighting oppression. If you can't see this fact and you really want to blame your life problems or the conditions some men face BEC…	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/14 01:03 AM
-12	Chinks in Armor Few things: A woman divorcing the man because he's sick or broke is not doing anything wrong. Men are selfish cunts by default as well. So is empathy in men a lie as well because you cannot empathize with women?	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/14 05:52 AM
-1	[FR] No Expectations, Generating Social Proof, fuck those anti-nice posts, and F-close Feels like the girl did most of the work.	/r/seduction	13/08/14 12:42 AM
5	Be more like Peter Griffin, not Brian. Put down the ganja.	/r/seduction	04/06/14 01:47 AM
8	[FR] Lost my virginity on a solo night out, first ever sober approach. Why don't you try next time and find out. At least it will be a good story if you're right. Though I doubt you will be.	/r/seduction	02/10/13 06:23 AM
4	[FR] Day-2 ended within 15 minutes. Failure I would write it off. It sounds to me like she was the problem and just wasn't in the mood. Doesn't seem like you did anything wrong, so don't overthink it and move on!	/r/seduction	25/09/13 05:58 AM
15	This belongs here. Just a map of singles by gender and number in American cities. As a dude who just got back from NYC after a year there, I can vouch for this chart. I've met a ton of girls 'bumping' into me on the subway to start a conversation when I wasn't even paying attention. Chicago also has a lot of beautiful single women, should have a giant pink dot there as well. Now in LA and ehhh... the last thing I would describe this place as is a cockfest, though in certain areas and clubs it does seem that way... I think the chart might be a bit misleading, you just have to …	/r/seduction	06/03/12 03:28 AM
7	[FR] This week could not be going better great report, i read your previous one as well and have to say i'm inspired. i'm glad you're staying positive and not letting those small set backs hold you down.	/r/seduction	03/03/12 06:24 PM
1	[FR] Met up with a fellow Sedditor to go sarging. Tried the apocalypse opener. Epic.	/r/seduction	30/01/12 07:14 AM
5	Yes, we all have baggage, but how do you get closer to girls who constantly have exboyfriends after them? You don't. There are plenty of other girls out there without the baggage. I'm staying this from experience, literally got chased around my car by some chick's giant ex-bf trying to kick my ass as I was leaving her apartment (both hilarious and terrifying). Nowadays, when a girl brings up in a conversation how a crazy ex-bf is hassling her, that's a red flag so I put on my jet pack and say 'good luck with that.' before I book it. Never again.	/r/seduction	30/01/12 07:11 AM
1	Reminder: Read her Actions, not her Words You are my hero.	/r/seduction	06/12/11 04:12 PM
4	Two major problems: no car,no place to bring the girl back to. How would you go about it? DOWNVOTE FOR GREAT JUSTICE!	/r/seduction	21/10/11 06:31 PM
2	5 Mistakes to Avoid When Learning Game \| Naughty Nomad What about under-negging? I think I don't neg women enough... I'm pretty good at negging my guy friends, but I don't know... My shit is brutal at times and more times than not, I've accidentally hurt a girl's feelings pretty badly. So my question is it better to neg with the high chance you're eventually going to say something really offensive/mean unintentionally, or just consciously avoid saying anything that might come off as rude? I also fail at logistics. I'm a pretty spontaneous guy, which…	/r/seduction	18/10/11 09:28 AM
2	[FR] Used accent as a crutch to get a cheerleader. Yo, I wonder if I can do this with an Asian accent. LULZ. 'Yo gir I walk in da room and I see joo starin' For some reason, I don't imagine it going to smoothly...	/r/seduction	18/10/11 09:23 AM
1	[Discussion]Applying the sunk cost dilemma to seduction tl;dr sounds like you're talking about oneitis. solution - talk to more girls, don't spend so much time and effort on one. law of averages.	/r/seduction	14/10/11 04:00 PM
2	[FR4] AFC finally made a move, kino kino kino! finger close Yo that blanket was a great idea. Agree with the guys talking about ASD, you might have moved a little too fast, but good job anyway, you gotta move quick.	/r/seduction	14/10/11 03:54 PM
2	New in town, 27 years old guy, right next to a college campus. Honestly, how do I meet people without being creepy? Easiest is bars. Generally all age groups are welcome. I would say going on the college campus is a bit difficult, you should have a somewhat legitimate reason if they ask why you're there like 'I use the gym because it's nearby and I like the surrounding' or 'I'm taking some classes here for fun' etc... You can't just say 'I like to hang around here to meet people' because that might come off as a bit weird.	/r/seduction	12/10/11 07:51 AM
3	Hi r/seduction, I'm a girl and I need your help 'cause I know my friends will give me crap advice and I ain't got no game! If you're that shy, then I would recommend writing him a note and leaving it addressed to him @ front desk, or handing it to his co-worker to give to him. In the note I would write something like 'Hey, really enjoyed our conversation, maybe we could do it again sometime (hopefully before the next time I get my oil change because we know how long that might take!), here is my # if you're interested. Give me a call.) Doesn't require you to have to confront him so you save yourself the nerve-wracki…	/r/seduction	11/10/11 06:26 PM
0	Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy? People tell me I'm cute and I creep the shit out of girls all day err day. Get out of here with your 'good looking guys can't be creepy' nonsense.	/r/seduction	27/09/11 07:21 PM
1	Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks. that stuff happens to me too, being ignored or blown off is alright with me but stuff like #4 or #6 really bother me because it feels like I must have done something wrong to make the girl uncomfortable and want to leave or think I'm some creep. feelsbadman.jpg	/r/seduction	22/09/11 04:30 PM