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Thank you. I already put in a call to him.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 08:47 PM
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It’s not communal and I don’t expect to win that on that but I’m just putting down everything.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 06:38 PM
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Alimony $2600/mo for 13 years Sale of martial home with a $37,000 equalization payment to her. This would have left me with about $10k to $20 after the sale, while she gets her whole half $45k to $60K I'm supposed to keep a $10k life insurance policy naming her the beneficiary. She wants almost all the shared property. Before the filing I hammered my way into a dresser drawer she locked and refused to give me the key. The drawer had $25k in cash in it (that she took off with later). She wants me…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 05:14 PM
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I think you're right and unfortunately I think I have to sign on with a different attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 02:55 PM
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Today is the first day I've had hope since. Thank you for confirming
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 12:59 PM
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Yes and he’s an experienced divorce attorney but it’s been three days since this went down and I can’t shake the thought he just wanted to be done with my case and talked me into taking a horrible deal. I’m financially ruined. I’m too old to dig out of this hole and too poor to survive it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 01:21 PM
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I regret the settlement I accepted. I should have gone to trial and slung it out.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 02:00 AM
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Thanks. I wish I could share her PPO statement. I bet I'm not the first to feel this way but it's insane
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 01:24 PM
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My attorney set it up.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 08:44 PM
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She'll just bust a door and I'll have to pay for it. She already did an interior one. That one almost got her arrested, but I fucked up and did the 'good guy' thing instead.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 06:57 PM
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It would be saving about $190/mo (we old) but point taken.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 05:58 PM
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Thanks. I have already decided against it. My company HR guy set me straight.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 03:11 PM
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Actually, the guy who does hr at my company is really nice (odd, right?) and he just now brought up some very good points: 1) She probably has to be offered COBRA insurance if I take her off 2) I'd probably be liable for 100% of the premium. Keeping her on my existing policy the company pays 50% of the premium. So it should probably stay as is. It's purely for finances; not trying to be vindictive about it, so I guess it stays.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 01:41 PM
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Well, she took the car and that is the very reason I'm keeping her on the auto policy. As far as health insurance goes, I figure she can probably get something affordable through obamacare.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 01:34 PM
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Thanks for your input, /u/MAJ_CuntDestroyer
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 01:30 PM
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I'll double check with the lawyer. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 01:20 PM
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Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 01:08 PM
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Song for the Dumped by Ben Folds Five
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:25 AM
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Find a way of securing a room you sleep in (lock or jamb) Well, that happens to be why the police where here in the first place: 5am and she uses her bodyweight to bust the door to the room I was sleeping in. Showed the cops that video and that's why they offered to arrest her. I have to replace the damn door now. I need this friggin house on the market asap and get this shit behind me.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/24 09:11 PM
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Thanks for your input. I have some of those things covered, some not. I have outdoor cams. I should probably get a few indoor ones. I definitely have a lawyer and we have already filed for her to vacate the premises. Justice moves slowly.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/24 08:24 PM
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That was f-ing cathartic. I needed that.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 05:38 PM
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I know. I know. I see it too. I have the bug-out bag already packed and I'm keeping my toothbrush and briefcase on me everywhere I go. I think that's all I can do, but you're completely right, she's broken all trust and I should expect her to be capable of almost anything.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 05:22 PM
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I just unplugged mine. STBX is such a luddite she’ll never figure it out.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 11:37 PM
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Still got head on the semi-regular, but it was goddamn weird. I came to call them 'pity blow-jobs'. Call me an prick, but if I ever meet the guy I look forward to informing him that her tongue was firmly in my ass.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 09:18 PM
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