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I think it stands for operation security, but for adulterors, it’s basically covering your tracks and having alibis so your partner won’t suspect/can’t find out about your cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:09 PM
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LMFAOOO if you read the original post the other trp commentators ask him what he brings to the table if he can’t do something as basic as take the trash out and he says that he “fucks her real good” and “makes her happy”. Eventually the girl is going to become bitter with the division of labor. It’s a tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:01 PM
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He’s the captain but she’s the one determining everything in the relationship? The delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:25 PM
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You’re too blind to realize FDS is trying to save women from this exact lifestyle. You went straight from liberal feminism to conservatism but the pickme stayed the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:42 AM
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Because your husband can father your children while also working? We don’t support the mother doing it all here and avoid men who will do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:26 AM
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I don’t think so. We have the site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:44 AM
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There’s tumblr and twitter but you’ll be harassed by libfems. Spinster (twitter clone) and Ovarit (reddit clone) are radfem exclusive communities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:41 PM
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LVM cannot handle you being better than them. If you ever drop your standards and date one, he will break you down in different ways and try to assert himself as the more logical one, the more organized one, whatever. Why would you do that to yourself? Keep your standards and only marry a man you respect and who matches your drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:41 PM
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you’re the pickme for sticking around with a man who has turned you into a wife—except you aren’t one, and he can leave at any time. You’ve completely missed one of the biggest tenets of FDS ideology which is establishing commitment from the start and marrying by three years latest. It’s not pickme to demand commitment. It’s the opposite. You aren’t putting up with men who don’t make you the ultimate mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:37 AM
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This thread just proves that men will commit for someone they think is worth committing for. If any of y’all are dating someone who won’t give you the time of day, he doesn’t see a future with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:57 PM
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I’m glad you got out! That must have been a very lonely experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:58 PM
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He also talks about how therapists believe the narrative the abuser puts forth, but when you talk to the wife, it’s totally different! He frequently talks to the wife and the stories he adds are eye opening. It’s not that long a book but chock full of wisdom, so definitely read it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:09 PM
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Read my comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:02 PM
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Read my comment please. This image perpetuates a false idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:01 PM
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The idea this image perpetuates, that the reason abuse is because of a scared little boy who has either been abused himself or has low self esteem, is a myth. Lundy Bancroft deconstructs this in his book Why does he do that which needs to be required reading for this sub. First off, abuse isn’t caused by anger. Men get angry because of their abusive mindset: their partner does not conform to how they expect (by attending all his needs, listening and not talking, being constantly available sexual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:01 PM
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This is what happens when you marry a child for a husband. At least the comments are calling out what a terrible husband he is, maybe there is some hope for Gen Z girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:42 PM
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This is fucking terrifying. I always implicitly knew this, but seeing it mentioned really makes it hit home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 02:59 AM
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It’s fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 05:36 PM
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I hate when libfems try to use the “it’s better for him to pay for content than watch for free!!!!!” How about: he does neither? He doesn’t have to watch porn, and if he gave two fucks about OP’s feelings he wouldn’t. But his pp’s feelings trump all, ofc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:45 AM
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These tik tok girls are probably underage too 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:38 AM
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Also because a lot of men view women as “their” objectbor possession to have, or see sex as degrading/something done to another person. So they mentally cannot reconcile seeing “their” woman with someone else. Regardless. Every woman deserves the basic minimum of loyalty. If you have no kids, make the break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:37 AM
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People who are comfortable being alone are looking to complement their lives, not have you complete it. All women should become comfortable being alone before dating—because you’ll realize that putting up with terrible behavior isn’t better to being single. And us women should always seek the same of our partners, so they don’t expect us to pick up the slack in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:04 AM
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I like to change it a little and use the amplify part to set a standard. Kind of what OP did here. Maybe it’s not actual amplifying then haha but a playful way of not taking shit. I’ve just mentally assigned it that term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:40 PM
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Don’t have children with a man-child, y’all 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:32 PM
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I love how the consequences are only a consequence because he won’t wash his nasty socks by himself. Really ties this terrible advice all together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:32 PM
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It’s like she’s breaking it down to a preschooler...and they say women are the ones like children 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:31 PM
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Men out themselves 😷😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:24 PM
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NEVER LISTEN TO A MAN’S WORDS, ALWAYS HIS ACTIONS!!!! He’s bold faces lying to her and he has no shame. Ladies, never be so desperate for a self esteem boost that a man calling you cute, attractive, and someone he wants to hve a relationship with ruins your perception of reality. This man is not making any effort to do so but this poor woman believes him and probably finds his words romantic! This is why FDS always advocates leveling up yourself as well as setting a high standard. When you love …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:24 PM
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Men want you to lower their standards so they can have a chance. They know they’ll never be able to date a woman (and let’s be real, they mostly care about having sex) if she has a shred of self respect and love for herself. Them telling you to lower your standards is advice looking out for them, not you! Remember: NEVER TAKE DATING ADVICE FROM A MAN. He’ll always give you advice that serves his self interests, instead of yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:20 PM
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You’ll see it all the time in the comments on posts in /r/relationships and /r/dating_advice—any woman who has an issue with it is told to get over it because “everyone does it” “it’s natural” and that caring about it makes you insecure. It’s a great trick that’s been pulled over everyone’s eyes to make porn use to rampant and accepted. Even subs like /r/teenagers casually joke about watching porn. I feel terrible for the new generation of women being gaslighted into being told it’s all okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:29 AM
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I’m not talking about you specifically. My point is that what you said is unhelpful because it isn’t going to change her mind presented like that. It’s not about “being a messenger who dares to speak out” or “being on the side of truth”. It’s about supporting fellow women so that when they need you, you haven’t driven them away. But you do you, sis. Have a good night ✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:00 AM
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Uh, the comments? You think stomping around going “YOUR RELIGION IS EVIL” is going to convince anyone? It’s not even what she came to FDS for. Go do it your way and see how many muslims you convince.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:45 AM
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Okay, but I’m specifically referring to the recent post by a Muslim woman here on FDS. I’d rather we teach her to respect herself and define value for her man that her religion doesn’t rather than just yell at her for being Muslim. The latter accomplishes nothing. Without good advice, she’ll end up in the same terrible position as the generations of women before her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:14 AM
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We should support Muslim women who have to live through daily injustices and guide them when they ask for advice. But the religion itself isn’t above criticism. However, if we ignore what a woman is saying and go straight to attacking her religion, what’s that going to do for her? She’ll dismiss you completely. Better to give advice kindly and help her realize a better life herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:58 AM
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🤢 She’s literally being gaslighted! They’re straight up convincing her it was actually super romantic, and he just couldn’t wait to be engaged to her! And calling her high maintenance, for what? Wanting some actual effort, like she asked to have? Looks like even though she cOmMuNiCaTeD her desire for something romantic, her dear fiancé didn’t care. So of course the next thing is to baby him. Also love the side dish of misogyny suggesting she’s bitter because she didn’t get the insta pic. What’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:47 AM
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Yup, or someone who will put up with his nonsense. Thanks for pointing that out—will correct it. I hate when my friends feel like they must have messed up or were lacking something when their boyfriends cheat on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:43 AM
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If a man doesn’t want to commit, he’s just interested in sex and will dump you at the first chance he finds someone “better” or doesn’t want to bother with you anymore. Raise your standards! You deserve more than a might-be relationship. When men say “maybe in the future” they mean “maybe never”. They only say it because it works and naive women will stick around in hopes of something. Never listen to words. Look at actions, always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:39 AM
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Or have such a terrible relationship with their husbands that they depend on their sons instead. Beware of men with relationships like this, ladies. He’ll always put his mother first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:10 PM
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