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Field Reportdisguised_reallity/r/seduction24/04/24 11:23 PM
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Field Reportdisguised_reallity/r/seduction16/03/25 11:58 AM
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Great read, thank you.
/r/seduction18/05/25 10:27 AM
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Usually older women (cougars) get less attention, then they are more open to interactions.
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:18 PM
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When I was 27 I banged regularly a 42 y.o. milf which was in great shape, better than many early 20. We were fwb for 2 years more or less, great sex, and her libido was so high.
/r/seduction05/05/25 10:39 PM
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Very cool insight. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/03/25 10:31 PM
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The dentist is a must. The gym is lifestyle, don't go just for 1 year, go for the rest of your life. Don't waste money on nutrition advice, just learn for free from youtube. I'd definitely put 70% of that money on something to invest long term. Do you have savings? If not, consider this to be your first financial inversion.
/r/seduction07/03/25 08:32 PM
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Be patient, your body is not even fully developed yet. Keep improving social skills and focus instead in making good quality friends and building your brain and muscles.
/r/seduction05/09/24 10:58 PM
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This is so effective, thanks.
/r/seduction22/08/24 01:13 PM
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I think this kind of dates are perfect to deepen the connection and imprint in both of you good memories that will come up to her in the next days making her miss you (if you make her feel emotions and live of course).
/r/seduction12/07/24 03:56 PM
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I have been in several ltr and this is so true
/r/seduction03/07/24 06:42 PM
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Dude, you need to feel comfortable first socializing with anyone regardless how they look. Once that feels natural, the rest will come.
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:01 AM
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This is gold.
/r/seduction15/06/24 01:15 PM
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Dude, wait for her to reach out... Dont be more needy pls
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:05 PM
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Bringing up exclusivity with a FWB makes no sense imo. And seems like your extra attention on her is turning her off. I dont think it is easy to recover from that situation. If I were you I'd tell her to stop being exclusives and just start dating others.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:02 PM
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Seems like your friend is doing stuff that goes under your radar, meaning body language and maybe more that you "dont see". Try to learn that from him. Also doing nothing at some point is a good strategy, it can come out as being non reactive, chill and or confident.
/r/seduction26/05/24 06:35 PM
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What do you want, ONS, a relationship, a fwb, else? If you want hookups, then keep doin it.
/r/seduction26/05/24 12:34 AM
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This is a good example.
/r/seduction25/05/24 03:11 PM
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Don't use exclamation marks and propose just one day, if she can't that day gauge her interest by checking if she proposes another day instead. With these corrections the text looks less needy.
/r/seduction21/05/24 09:49 AM
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You are making progress dude, just don't give up. Work in being less needy, seek a therapist or a coach whatever fits you better. You got invited over to a girls house to spend the night, I am sure many don't get even that far. Keep working on your social skills.
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:03 PM
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Be prepared for shit tests, bitch shields and hold your frame. Learn some cumbia villera steps too and talk about Luis Alberto Spinetta.
/r/seduction15/05/24 11:11 PM
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Thanks man, this is short and accurate.
/r/seduction14/05/24 11:15 AM
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I think the idea was good, but must be done with the appropiate body language, and also I gotta admit it may come too strong but if you break the tension 2 seconds afterwards with saying: hi, my name is john doe; then you would've won.
/r/seduction06/05/24 04:57 PM
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When the goal of interaction is to get laid then you already lost. If the goal is to have fun, regardless of the output, sex is going to be a side effect, and I'm pretty sure women can somehow smell that, which pulls even more
/r/seduction05/05/24 10:50 AM
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Exactly, hopefully on a couch next to each other. Very easy to flirt with touching and also builds proximity.
/r/seduction05/05/24 10:47 AM
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This x100
/r/seduction05/05/24 10:42 AM
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You have to close with a date not later than 3 days imo. And keep it short, keep the mistery for the date. Text something funny, or tease her, or whatever, gauge reaction, and invite her out. Shouldn't take more than 2 texts I think.
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:01 AM
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It doesnt matter if it is an apology or not, it has the word sorry on it, which is already a turn down. Dont follow logic.
/r/seduction03/05/24 11:32 AM
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"I am in social detox mode ;)"
/r/seduction03/05/24 11:31 AM
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Personally I find those too corny. I'd rather make them feel desired with body language: a dominant look, grabbing them by their waist, grabbing their butt (with consent of course) and kissing their neck.
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:22 PM
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Ask their friend to dance instead. They'll crave you.
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:18 PM
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What is the difference between direct and indirect opener? Is is direct when you start by saying that she got your attention?
/r/seduction01/05/24 02:08 PM
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This is great advice.
/r/seduction29/04/24 09:37 PM
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Dude you basically dissapeared for a whole month, what else would you expect. You can still be a muslim without doing ramadan, friends of mine are like that and they are happy
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:32 AM
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If anything, you should escalate more outside of the job context. At your job be always professional and focused, that also pulls. You need to test ground before asking her out. You could joke about like "you distract me from doing my job" or talk about the places you go on your free time as bait so she can answer something like "Oh I have never been there but I want to".
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:54 PM
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Friendzone him. Period.
/r/seduction26/04/24 11:19 AM
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I am not a natural, not at all, but I am integrating this with active imagination so it becomes natural by the day.
/r/seduction25/04/24 06:36 AM
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OP, dont feel guilty for approaching her for her body, no shame in being sexual. And what if she knew you are approaching her for her body, so what? She's hot, you are a male, 1 + 1 = 2. The question she made was a shit test for sure, she just wanted to test your frame. I've would have answered: I'll say it again, you are stunning.
/r/seduction24/04/24 09:46 PM
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Visit a therapist and maybe start looking for asexua/demisexuall communities.
/r/seduction24/04/24 03:34 PM
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I think you have a chance but you got to execute the steps wisely. First thing would do something to gain her respect, like teasing her, ignoring her, changing her conversational topics, mocking her (with respect ofc). Or you could just prove her wrong that you are not gay but not in a way to seek approval, you know? Instead just do it casually, best scenario would be to flirt with other girl and she being present but you not knowing it, like you were flirting with a girl in the hallway and she …
/r/seduction24/04/24 11:11 AM
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Dude... She has a boyfriend. She is a coworker, so escalating at work is a no no. Moreover, you are behaving like her best girl friend. Just move on and find another one, dont give her much attention man.
/r/seduction24/04/24 09:26 AM
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It depends of your body language and eye gaze. I think you can do the skin care opener as long as you just use it as an opener and then lead the interaction towards flirt and seduction
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:03 PM
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Seems like she was expecting you to do some move on the girlfriends birthday. Did you escalate, invite her a drink, set her appart, build tension or something? Else you will be friendzoned.
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:14 PM
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12 34M I think I'm demi though
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:17 PM
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Being an attractive party host require social skills too. Throwing a party at home requires some household skills, keeping it clean and so on. And not everyone is satisfied with sleeping with just stupid people.
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:40 AM
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I wouldnt do this if she doesnt show responsive, but in the first date you can definitely try this, always being respectful.
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:09 AM
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Jealousy comes from scarcity mindset. Get to know more women
/r/seduction21/04/24 05:01 PM
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You dont have to wait for the opportunity, you can create it with your words, say to her: Arent you cold? (You rub her arms energeticly) Arent you tense? (Gently massage her neck but for just 1 sec or 2) I think you have something in your face (you remove whatever she had on her face) Etc...
/r/seduction21/04/24 04:46 PM
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Interesting
/r/seduction21/04/24 04:26 PM
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